I Should Have Had More Children
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@HilarySing-z5c
@HilarySing-z5c 10 сағат бұрын
Wow that lipstick is stunning on you !!!!!
@lifeandhair
@lifeandhair 7 сағат бұрын
@@HilarySing-z5c Soft Cherry from No 7! 😻
@HilarySing-z5c
@HilarySing-z5c 10 сағат бұрын
Thank you for this 😊 I feel the same at 62 . I’m proud to be the age I am and so far pretty healthy . Sending you a hug 🤗 ❤
@lifeandhair
@lifeandhair 3 сағат бұрын
@@HilarySing-z5c health is wealth, I’m very glad for you. Thanks for the lovely hug 🤗
@stromboli4
@stromboli4 16 сағат бұрын
What beautiful, inspirational, thought provoking words to live by! Thank you 🙏
@lifeandhair
@lifeandhair 11 сағат бұрын
Thanks for listening
@carolescharacters
@carolescharacters Күн бұрын
Love your chats. That’s a lovely versatile dress, great choice 👍 Glad you got to spend some quality time with your hubby in the glorious sunshine ❤
@lifeandhair
@lifeandhair Күн бұрын
@@carolescharacters it turned out to be a good purchase after all. I really like it. And we managed to snatch some time just the two of us, Steve and I. What a lovely day we had xxx
@michellem9275
@michellem9275 Күн бұрын
Hello pretty lady...I been a wig wearer for several years now..saved my life..couldn't live without them..I have fine stringy hair since menopause...binge watching your videos...your voice is so calming, dreamy , forgiving and healing...your must be a Pisces ♓️...if not..I would be very surprised..
@lifeandhair
@lifeandhair Күн бұрын
@@michellem9275 haha, that’s very sweet of you. I don’t know what I’d do without wigs either. Indeed, I am in the cusp and my mercury is in Pisces which makes a difference. So nice to get your lovely comment and I hope you enjoy the videos xx
@jeanjacobs9965
@jeanjacobs9965 Күн бұрын
Greetings Karima! It's so nice to see you! That brown polkadot dress is so pretty on you. It looks good styled so many different ways. I love it! Good for you, surviving and thriving throughout life's many changes. Love and blessings ♥️🙏
@lifeandhair
@lifeandhair Күн бұрын
@@jeanjacobs9965 hi Jean, I love the dress too, it’s nice to build my collection, I could do with a few more. Hope all well with you x
@Ms7of8
@Ms7of8 Күн бұрын
Another video with wonderful insights and reflections. I hope all goes well with your daughter and her father, who is ailing. The dress is lovely and so versatile. Great choice. Ciao, Bella !
@lifeandhair
@lifeandhair Күн бұрын
@@Ms7of8 I’m glad you relate to my feelings thoughts and experiences, there certainly are many of us who have gone through similar. It’s so nice that he and I are friends after all the years and drama. My daughter loves him a lot so I guess it’s my place to support both of them in any way I can. I’ve kept the dress and love it , a few more like it would be great. If you’ve been following along on my wardrobe journey you’ll see how things are coming together. It’s great to have clothes that go together finally xx
@HilarySing-z5c
@HilarySing-z5c Күн бұрын
Oh the wrap cardigan is perfect over the dress . Try the new chocolate boots with it 😮that might be my favourite item of clothing I’ve seen on you yet 😊
@HilarySing-z5c
@HilarySing-z5c Күн бұрын
Really related to this chat . I have a few ex husbands one of which passed away at 59 of heart disease 😮. Also had a daughter with him . Gosh what a gorgeous dress please keep that it’s sooo flattering on you and I love the length . You could also wear with your brown boots . Even a short cardigan in the spring and summer . ❤❤
@lifeandhair
@lifeandhair Күн бұрын
@@HilarySing-z5c did you Hilary?! How awful, I’m so sorry. But these things happen. It’s very strange to lose someone who’s a contemporary. Do you get in with all your exes? I have kept the dress and I love it. I’ll get a lot of wear out if it I think. And I love how it’s good for work and going out. I did wear it with the brown Cosy Island boots when we went up to the hospital, it went really well with them … well remembered! 😊
@GillianKempster-u5d
@GillianKempster-u5d 2 күн бұрын
What a lovely mum you are. Glad you had a lovely day out in the sunshine. You have the most gorgeous eyebrows. Brown dress really suited you. Xxx
@lifeandhair
@lifeandhair 2 күн бұрын
@@GillianKempster-u5d ah thanks so much. I’m also glad you liked the dress, I’m quite take with it. My eyebrows are getting thinner and thinner! I now fill them in with a very light brown pencil. It was gorgeous weather that day, the sun was quite warm…wonderful x
@vegassurvivor2745
@vegassurvivor2745 2 күн бұрын
Another great topic, I could definitely relate about the ex husband issues. You are definitely a great Mom going along with your daughter even though it was uncomfortable for you. Love your videos, your such a classy sophisticated woman!
@lifeandhair
@lifeandhair 2 күн бұрын
@@vegassurvivor2745 oh that’s a very kind of you to say. I’m sure my situation is quite common. I feel sorry for my daughter, it’s a difficult situation for her. I’m happy to help if I can, we’ll have to go back on Saturday again. Thanks for your lovely comment x
@LindaSiggs
@LindaSiggs 2 күн бұрын
Hi Karima, Back in my town again Deal, hope you had a good time. We have some lovely pubs and coffee shops. The pier is nice too for brunch. Sorry to hear your daughter’s father in hospital. Difficult time for you both. Nice dress, bet it would look lovely with your beautiful pink jumper which I meant to ask before where you bought It if that’s ok. Hope you enjoyed your lunch with the lovely Steve, xx
@lifeandhair
@lifeandhair 2 күн бұрын
@LindaSiggs yes, I’m so impressed with Deal. I saw there was a closed up shop for sale on the sea front, it had ethnic statues, tarot cards and incense etc. do you know the one I mean? Our lunch was great and the pub very cozy…but they had 2 huge tvs in there! The food was very good. I’m hoping my ex husband will get better quickly but I’m now wondering how he’s going to fare at home. I suspect he’ll be very weak. All my clothes have come from M&S! I’ve not needed to look anywhere else so far 😊
@tractorgurl
@tractorgurl 2 күн бұрын
Another lovely chat! The brown dress is delightful. I love when dresses are cut on the bias so that they move and give with the body in the lower region. It looks like a fun slip skirt when you put things over the top and your neutral pieces are really coming in to help expand your options. Thanks for showing us your lovely sunny trip! Love this channel so much! You took the perfect time to work on yourself in the last four years and now you are a shinning gem and ready for the rest of what life is going to throw at you!
@lifeandhair
@lifeandhair 2 күн бұрын
@@tractorgurl I was surprised at what I had to hand to pair with that dress, I really feared I’d have to return it. I feel very pleased, and I can wear it to work too. Thanks for your lovely comment. It’s wonderful to hear from you xx
@HilarySing-z5c
@HilarySing-z5c Күн бұрын
Totally agree with you ❤
@simply-x-me
@simply-x-me 2 күн бұрын
Pretty color on Alva
@lifeandhair
@lifeandhair 2 күн бұрын
@@simply-x-me yes that chocolate frost is amazing. So much lovelier than I hoped x
@janebrown896
@janebrown896 4 күн бұрын
You're right. Once the worst has happened it can't hurt you again so it's liberating.
@lifeandhair
@lifeandhair 2 күн бұрын
@@janebrown896 you’ve put it very well, the same thing can’t happen to you twice…you learn, you change, you move on x
@simply-x-me
@simply-x-me 5 күн бұрын
No kids here in my 40s and no plans to have any. I think I would only have them if I were rich. My spouse didn’t want kids any way and I got married late at 35. Between work, trying to go to school, and scraping by financially I’m glad I don’t have kids. I have a lot of pets and those are enough, helping with animal rescue, volunteering at the shelter if I have time. I have two older half siblings in their 50s and they didn’t want kids either
@GillianKempster-u5d
@GillianKempster-u5d 6 күн бұрын
Great outfit, and you look gorgeous. You have layered those pieces beautifully. Hope you have a really lovely catch up with your friend. Xx
@lifeandhair
@lifeandhair 6 күн бұрын
@@GillianKempster-u5d aaah thank you x
@raffila
@raffila 6 күн бұрын
I knew 3 couples who loved each other dearly and had very long like 50 yr marriages with kids. They went thru a few serious "downs' but strongly united. Because of their intense contant devotion to each other. They never realize how unique, rare and special their marriages were. They loved one another umconditionally I feel blessed to have known them. If I had no children, I could not have lived my life. They are everything to me and I paid huge prices to have them. Among other things I lost 6 unborn across 25 yrs to get 3 who made it to birth.
@carolescharacters
@carolescharacters 7 күн бұрын
You look fabulous! The jewellery is beautiful and your style of dressing is evolving into a versatile classic look. I remember heartbreak so well, you think at the time you will never feel happy again but life always brings us new beginnings. I’m sure with your love and guidance your daughter will get through this and come out the other side better for it. Love and hugs to both you and your daughter xx
@lifeandhair
@lifeandhair 6 күн бұрын
@@carolescharacters thank you so much, I will pass on your hugs to her, she’ll be very touched xx
@GillianKempster-u5d
@GillianKempster-u5d 7 күн бұрын
Oh my gosh, you look lovely in all of them, but the 2nd and 3rd ones really suit you. The ‘updo’ with those pearl earrings is just classically beautiful. Thank you so much for showing. X
@GillianKempster-u5d
@GillianKempster-u5d 7 күн бұрын
Yes of course you are responsible for yourselves, but as mums, we always try to make life easier for our children, grown up or not. We are always thinking of ways to help them. Xx
@GillianKempster-u5d
@GillianKempster-u5d 7 күн бұрын
Hi there. I’m new to your channel and I have really enjoyed it. What a beautiful calming voice you have. The trench coat looks stunning on you especially against the cream roll neck. Please could you say where it’s from? Also your lip colour is beautiful. Your dress style is really classic. Definitely lovely jewellery also. Thank you. Tough times when children are hurting, but together you’ll get through. Thank you for sharing. Xx
@lifeandhair
@lifeandhair 6 күн бұрын
@@GillianKempster-u5d hi! I’m so pleased to have you here! The trench was in the M&S sale so I’m don’t think it’s available any more, although there are plenty more similar to it. The lipstick is No7 called Soft Cherry. It was matched to suit my complexion when they used to offer that service. Are you in the UK or the US?
@jeanjacobs9965
@jeanjacobs9965 7 күн бұрын
Greetings Karima! I love your new look! Both of those earrings look fabulous on you. So glad to hear that you are in a good place reflecting on yourself. Sending you lots of love and many blessings ♥️🙏
@lifeandhair
@lifeandhair 6 күн бұрын
@@jeanjacobs9965 thank you Jean x
@nandinilorenzsonn8485
@nandinilorenzsonn8485 7 күн бұрын
Hi, love the entire look , earrings and all. In fact you look like a screen legend ! And I am sure your daughter will find someone down the road. Someone who thinks the world of her. Break ups are a part of life. My scottish mom used to say to me whenever I suffered from a broken heart, there are plenty of fish in the sea. Lots of luck to your daughter. She is blessed to have you and Steve in her life.
@lifeandhair
@lifeandhair 6 күн бұрын
@@nandinilorenzsonn8485 oh thank you, that’s so sweet of you. There are plenty of fish in the sea! I’m very familiar with that saying. The only thing is…things are so different now to how they used to be when I was young. I hope she finds a good man x
@yvonnecoulby9636
@yvonnecoulby9636 7 күн бұрын
You look lovely in all three pieces. All the colours suit you & the styles. I'd live to try a long piece but not sure it will suit me. One day I might be brave & order something. Take care xx
@lifeandhair
@lifeandhair 7 күн бұрын
@@yvonnecoulby9636 well you never really know what suits you until you try. Maybe go longer gradually. X
@yvonnecoulby9636
@yvonnecoulby9636 6 күн бұрын
​@@lifeandhairThanks Karima. I never thought of that. Lol 😂xx
@Youdoingnothing
@Youdoingnothing 7 күн бұрын
Loved this! I would enjoy watching more videos of your elevated wardrobe! I really need to minimize and curate my own wardrobe to make my mornings more simplified.
@lifeandhair
@lifeandhair 7 күн бұрын
@@Youdoingnothing I’ve been pleasantly surprised at how now I actually have a uff to wear, and have different options and combinations. I’m going to film a video of how I went about a young a plain polka dot dress. At first I thought I’d have to return it but after a while trying different colours and shapes it seems to really come together. I was delighted xx
@shirleyhull3975
@shirleyhull3975 8 күн бұрын
Ahhh.. Ikea . I laugh every time when we have so many left over screws.
@lifeandhair
@lifeandhair 7 күн бұрын
@@shirleyhull3975 😂 I’m so worried to actually make my order as I feel sure someone hi g will be missing 🫤
@LindaSiggs
@LindaSiggs 8 күн бұрын
For what it’s worth, I think it looks nice xx
@lifeandhair
@lifeandhair 8 күн бұрын
@LindaSiggs thanks Linda x
@kellypeters8330
@kellypeters8330 8 күн бұрын
Good morning from Mansfield OH Cold and snowy here too. Love the earrings, you look beautiful...hugs to your daughter ❤
@lifeandhair
@lifeandhair 8 күн бұрын
@@kellypeters8330 hello dear friend. Thanks for your kind words, hope all well with you xx
@susanv7415
@susanv7415 8 күн бұрын
You've become my favorite KZbinr. Your're so calming and lovely with a good perspective on life challenges. Your daughter will find her way. I struggled throughout life with men who disappointed. I still managed to have a life rich with experience and love.
@lifeandhair
@lifeandhair 8 күн бұрын
@@susanv7415 oh, what a lovely complement, thank you 🙏 Sometimes…we’ll always…relationships are challenging. But it’s good to know your life is still enjoyable and rich, mine is too now, but it did take time to get there x
@HilarySing-z5c
@HilarySing-z5c 10 сағат бұрын
@MsTruthSeekr1
@MsTruthSeekr1 8 күн бұрын
Looks lovely. Which topper is this and what is the color, please?
@lifeandhair
@lifeandhair 8 күн бұрын
It’s the Uniwigs Breeze topper in Mousse Bown here is the link to the review for it and discount code you may want to use ; kzbin.info/www/bejne/h6ayoaykadx8qMksi=c-ilf5dErbPknJex It’s a wonderful light topper x
@xaxfixho
@xaxfixho 8 күн бұрын
She probably was cheating on him,so she knew! Good for his WIFE!!!
@2020MissG
@2020MissG 9 күн бұрын
I think about decisions so much, because I’ve learned from my parents lives how the things we choose have ripple effects for decades to come, and across generations. It can be paralyzing but I owe it to my future self to be aware of where direct myself. I’m only 37, this is where my parents went wrong. No that I accept my young adulthood is truly behind me, it feels like starting a new, exciting phase. I really want to get it right
@lifeandhair
@lifeandhair 9 күн бұрын
@@2020MissG I completely understand what you are saying. I too look back at my parents’ decisions, which did not work out well. However I’ve also noticed that life can take unexpected turns and we can never guarantee the outcome. But overall I really admire your approach, it’s amazing that you’re so focused on wise decisions x
@2020MissG
@2020MissG 9 күн бұрын
@ I’ve never watched a video like this one. I’m so glad it popped up. It felt like listening to a wise, gorgeous friend. I’m subscribed x
@avocado4086
@avocado4086 9 күн бұрын
Love it❤
@raffila
@raffila 9 күн бұрын
I wouldnt say that last style flatters you, but wow does it look exactly like real hair! The blonde 2nd one I had my own hair in that style and color. The one color choice I made that seemed too unnatural was a purplish red. So many men complimented it. Never understood why? Now I am going bald and leaning toward a grey wig which Everyone tells me is a terrible idea.
@lifeandhair
@lifeandhair 9 күн бұрын
That’s the beauty of wigs, you just change them up if something isn’t too flattering, without the time and cost of going to a hairdresser. Men seem to love red hair, I think it’s a fantasy thing. I’m sure I too will lean towards grey wigs when the time comes. They can look quite nice as there’s plenty of fibres, I imagine myself in bobs and shoulder length styles. I’m quite looking forward to it! Xx
@Confessions089
@Confessions089 9 күн бұрын
Energy transfer.
@rosebudadkins6803
@rosebudadkins6803 9 күн бұрын
It is never worth the price! Messed up her life. For what? I am 68 soon to be 69 and I want hot bedroom sex. But with someone all mine.
@lifeandhair
@lifeandhair 9 күн бұрын
@@rosebudadkins6803 😂 good to hear! I hope you get it! You’ve put a smile on my face thank you xx
@MONICACOOLIDGE-xy5si
@MONICACOOLIDGE-xy5si 9 күн бұрын
The second one looks amazing on you!
@lifeandhair
@lifeandhair 9 күн бұрын
I love it!
@lovearttherapyalways
@lovearttherapyalways 10 күн бұрын
Any woman who takes the scraps, leftovers of another woman"s marriage is very very low in self esteem and also foolish and selfish beyond words. They all reap what they sow eventually! I am seriously disgusted by cheaters and home wreckers, the man is even more responsible!
@aprilapril2
@aprilapril2 7 күн бұрын
@@lovearttherapyalways maybe the wife got the scraps …
@Ana-i8s1b
@Ana-i8s1b 10 күн бұрын
Your friend got karma for being with married man... and probably will get more karma
@tanyad7894
@tanyad7894 10 күн бұрын
I absolutely adore the second one on you! It may not feel like "you" quite as much, due to the blondness of her, but wow! (If you ever want to sell her, let me know! :) ) I like the others just as well, but I can't wear the darker colours these days, with my light complexion and blue eyes. My own hair went from a mid/light brown to mousy; and now some white at the temples, with that same mousy colour... in what remains. I've cropped my bio-hair super short and I've been doing it myself for over a year - learning that I can still leave it quite a bit longer on the top, even though I can see through to my scalp all the way from the forehead to the crown (and I know it's also thin down the sides - only the lower back and nape are full, but what a waste!) Anyway, I also adore the look of that quick glimpse of the dark one at the end, pulled up - so youthful on you! Isn't it fun to be able to change things up from time to time?
@lifeandhair
@lifeandhair 9 күн бұрын
I suppose as I get older I’ll be wearing lighter colours more and more. I just have to gradually get used to them. It’s horrible to have such fine thinking hair isn’t it. But at least we have our helper hair to hand, I wear it every day. And well done for doing your hair yourself, you must save a fortune x
@tanyad7894
@tanyad7894 8 күн бұрын
@@lifeandhair Well, Karima, she looks fantastic on you! xx
@tanyad7894
@tanyad7894 8 күн бұрын
@lifeandhair oh, and since I rarely trimmed my very thin, fine hair into a bob that I would allow to grow until the cropped nape was perhaps 10cm long (because hair dressers didn't understand how careful they had to be or I'd die of humiliation from either their terrible trims or their unrelatable attempts to converse with me), I've probably spent waaay more on all the wigs, hair accessories & products, and the learning curve (cutting some wigs, colouring others, styles or colours that didn't work well on me)... I couldn't resist buying another only a few short months after buying another! I've been good lately, though. I slowed down last year, and have not purchased a new one (even from a wig sister) in order to force myself to work with what I've got for a while.
@maryoleary2037
@maryoleary2037 10 күн бұрын
What an utter waste of time and energy to be involved with a man who is not free to dedicate himself to you. In this video the man is being blamed. It takes two people to have an affair and the female friend was equally responsible for the situation. Nobody takes advantage of you without your permission.
@lifeandhair
@lifeandhair 10 күн бұрын
That’s very true and of course you’re absolutely right. It does take two. She’s my friend though and I only had her side of the story, so I suppose I felt I was seeing things from her point of view. But you’re right xx
@mercedesmcclain1580
@mercedesmcclain1580 10 күн бұрын
Not only are you a delight to watch, you share such useful content. Keep up the great work. You are helping so many
@lifeandhair
@lifeandhair 10 күн бұрын
@@mercedesmcclain1580 that is a lovely thing to hear. It’s great you feel this way, thanks for your encouragement xx
@s.a.kenyon2767
@s.a.kenyon2767 10 күн бұрын
All of them are perfect! Long pieces are so fun. You wear so many colors and styles well. You look great in light colors. I’m a little jealous ❤😂.
@lifeandhair
@lifeandhair 10 күн бұрын
Hello young lady, how’s life?! So many people say they like the lighter shades in me. Why can’t I see it? It’s so strange. I just feel like an imposter in the blondes. I wish I didn’t. I’ll have to give them more of a chance I guess Thanks for the lovely compliment though xx
@thesunlover9063
@thesunlover9063 10 күн бұрын
I had an affair with a married man for 10years, he never talk about leaving the wife who is a a very rude arrogant person(we used to work together) and I never asked him to leave her. The rship with him is filled with disappointment, hurt, sadness and am left feeling jealous, confused and over the years I lost myself. Every time I try to leave he manipulates me and I am pulled back into the rship . A week ago, I told him I am moving on after I had an accident and he didn't even bother to check on me.. I could no longer tolerate his nonsense and I am just feeling bad that I have been a fool all these years.. there is never a moment of peace in this rship .. he has been enjoying both worlds but I decided now to choose myself
@lifeandhair
@lifeandhair 10 күн бұрын
Do you know something, I feel like giving you a hug. I truly do. 10 years I a long time to feel so helpless and dissatisfied. I’m just very pleased to hear you’ve let the relationship go, and I hope you don’t get pulled in again. I hate the thought of your life being taken up with this empty pursuit. I’m sending you a lot of love and encouragement xx
@Cityofemeralds
@Cityofemeralds 10 күн бұрын
You deserve to feel like a fool
@lillybethford1915
@lillybethford1915 9 күн бұрын
"Rude arrogant" doesn't absolve you of your actions; the getaway car is also held accountable, and no one deserves to be cheated on.😳
@thesunlover9063
@thesunlover9063 9 күн бұрын
@@lifeandhair Appreciate your love, it takes a lot courage and mental strength for me to finally walk away and I am recovering from it which is not easy.. Pray that I come out from this mess.. lots of hugs and love to you..
@starfish3108
@starfish3108 10 күн бұрын
She signed up for it .
@lifeandhair
@lifeandhair 10 күн бұрын
I guess that’s right in many ways x
@107porkchop
@107porkchop 10 күн бұрын
The man stole nothing, she handed it over willingly. Good video, thanks for sharing.
@lifeandhair
@lifeandhair 10 күн бұрын
Yup, but she did break it off…yet he keeps contacting her. I hope she has the strength to keep away x
@barbanscombe3435
@barbanscombe3435 10 күн бұрын
You are amazing letting ladies see the different wigs/toppers they can purchase and how good quality they are now. I love your channel. ❤❤❤
@lifeandhair
@lifeandhair 10 күн бұрын
Hi Barb. I was thinking about you this morning! Let’s catch up xx
@stephaniemoran4739
@stephaniemoran4739 10 күн бұрын
These all look so good on you, you’re the perfect model x
@lifeandhair
@lifeandhair 10 күн бұрын
You are an angel, thanks for your kindness x
@nicolejennings8389
@nicolejennings8389 10 күн бұрын
He probably had his wife and children on his life insurance policies that entire time or any retirement account gaining interest over 20 years to give it to his family. For her not to realize her place was as the side piece, she was not being realistic. Married men rarely leave the wife, especially when he's getting sex on the side. They'll just drain both women.
@lifeandhair
@lifeandhair 10 күн бұрын
You obviously have a very practical side to you…the financial aspects of this are really impactful in her life. I’ve never been with a married man, or even known anyone who’s had an affair with one. There are so many things that hadn’t occurred to me, like the financial ramifications. You’re dead right