Kongolese are lost polygamous trapped in a monogamous society😂😂

I am Congolese & proud of being ❤❤❤ Brazzaville.❤❤❤

There is a verse in the Bible that says in the last days there will be traitors, disobedience toward parents,selfishness, ungodliness, etc have nothing to do with such. I dealt with narcissists in church and the Holy spirit led me to this verse and I knew that I had to cut some people off. Narcissists according to the bible these are wicked people, most of them persist in their wickedness to a point it is not even a matter of forgiveness because you are doing your part but they do things deliberately that will set you off. I followed the leading and I was accused of unforgiveness and the pastors and leaders kept tolerating sin and forcing us to put up with it. People left church and the church is not moving forward. When dealing with abuse, when is enough enough?

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Great video Melo...😁

God is INTENTIONAL ! Thanks for sharing.

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I really enjoy watching your channel Mel. I have spent some time in Mutare and I find the people there to be very friendly. While at times it may seem like they are overly involved in your affairs, I believe their actions stem from a place of genuine concern and humanity. This was my initial impression when I first visited the area. Since moving to another town, I have noticed a difference in how people interact here - there is less interest in one another's lives. The friendly nature of the people in Mutare stands out to me, especially when compared to the attitudes in Harare and other places

She's really talkative . Answering one question goes beyond planet Earth. Her answering a question is like a spaceship across different galaxies

I am Congolese and I have to be honest with you ,I disagree on many points you mentioned about us, tespecially the cooking part. Who is this so-called congolese man who cooks for his wife like Europeans do? This is a big lie. In fact when it comes it marriage our own sisters complain about us for being not as romantic as they would want to us to be ( romantic in the european way) . For ex: We don't tend to be giving flowers all the time as europeans would do. another thing is ,in our culture we don't express love VERBALLY like saying declaring love to your wife by all the time saying'' I love you '' . This is european , what we do instead is the MANIFESTATION of without words, it means the actions or the way we treat women show our love. Remember someone can say they love you but thier actions are quite the opposite of what someone who loves you would do

The family value is very true ❤

yes we have a big one

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😂😂l see yall with that 1st question.

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Great work hope to collaborate with you on KZbin one day ❤️ ❤❤Namibia 🇳🇦

Profound!!!!

Happy to be born Congolese 🇨🇩❤️😊

Very true 😢

Mamas, you have a beautiful spirit and smile and I appreciate your insight. However, having been with a Congolese man for 5 years and is the worst most narcissistic man I've ever met. Did he swoon me? Yes. Does he know what to do? Yes. But he also said I need to be the one that proves my love to him and that I need to be grateful he's with me. He said he will always choose his blood over me even if we're married with kids. He said his family is always right even when there was actual video proving they were wrong. They claim they are Christians but are the furthest from that but when I quote it, he changed the subject and told me I deserve to be ignored for several days and emotional abuse. Says it's part of culture to do see wives as less than and that their mother is always queen but that's not what is in the Bible sooo are ya Congolese before you are Christian but when I say that to help this man live the path we have chosen with God he turns immediately hurtful and defensive and refuses to talk as "to teach me a lesson". So incredibly toxic and I'm sure it came from his mother raising them minions to do everything for her, pay for everything and revolve their lives around her and that she can never be left alone and if you question anything she cries and says I'm not animal for you to just treat so savagely when it really was just a suggestion so all of the kids are so incredibly fearful that they live to serve her so they can "go to heaven" and so that their mother doesn't shun them but she'll come back only if you provide significant amount of money. I wanted to help him because I saw a kind heart in him that was internally fighting his upbringing and was constantly torn between what he wants and what he saw first hand. But when you gently use discernment and guidance to help him see where his upbringing may have contributed it's the worst, most offensive, incorrect foolish thing to say. There's never a possibility of him being wrong, he would flip on me in the most immature pathetic way. He has average penis but I do like it. 😅 I will say I realize it's not everyone. I'm Mexican btw and we have quite a few similarities but in my culture it's always about growing up and creating a family to pass on traditions and come together often and around food and music. My parents were incredibly selfless and want me to be happy. We are not perfect as I have stuff I don't like about it but we are far from entitled and selfish as he and his family is.

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Iol am a girl but l would also choose ugly with good behavior too because l don’t like stress

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Nice analysis

🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽right on point!

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Awesome life lesson

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😅i am a nice guy

Nice to know about the SITUATIONASHIP. Wow. We got you.

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Why don’t females ever know how to conduct themselves appropriately in a relationship with a man without playing games, being rude , and disrespectful ? If they love the man there should be none of this nonsense. Get to know the man without the foolishness, and without revealing your feelings for him . I guess females will never learn . 🤷🏽‍♂️💯% .

Wait till they become 35 years old, and these players will pass them for a 23 year old guava. They will be looking for the nice guys. So nice guys: give them the 🖕,when they come looking for you after they hit the 🧱.

Most women prefer to have a relationship with a man that cheats because the nice guys puts pressure on these women to be faithful.

❤❤❤❤thank you heyy

Well-said ! He is FOINE!

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I wished I could say something good about Ivorian men …But shame on us !!! Unless he’s god fearing man, most of them are horrible human beings to their wives. Liars and cheaters. If what you are saying about Congolese men is true, God bless them! And May they never change in a bad way.

Really? ...... What have u got to say about NIGERIAN MEN then ? .... Pls do your research very well

Change is difficult but without change there is no growth thanks for this😊

Thank you so much for this❤, I feel like I’m in a season in my life where so many things have been changing and this has shifted my perspective

Why do pots in Kenya not have lids? , I've seen this in many Kenyan vlogs#Curious