Very intelligent and ethical way to deal with the situation. Tremendeous respect for you, Greg.
@aylex1974 Жыл бұрын
" I have 5 min for you because I have to do something else" teachers what else?
@Lezahardy2 жыл бұрын
I’m sorry but this for my situation is BS! I’m a caregiver for a gentleman who has a freaking obnoxious daughter who pins me down for HER conversations where she will freaking talk non damn stop for at least 1 hour or more! She is known for doing this by many, family etc. I kid you not when I say CONSTANT NON STOP TALKING! When I leave her dads house my nerves are rattled! Sir, with all due respect, any advice is welcomed.
@iamcrocodile31482 жыл бұрын
LOL Fingers crossed that someone else will want to talk...
@haroldfridkis96572 жыл бұрын
I've encountered people at work who are like that. Anybody who talks too much is a "chatty Cathy"
@luxuryspacegaycommunism2 жыл бұрын
This is awful advice. So let me get this straight, somebody's been compulsively talking and complaining and the cure for this and the next step is to hear them out again? As if the decades of rambling and complaining weren't already enough. What, was all that torture just a warm up? How about we all get the balls to tell these people to STFU
@ggstylz2 жыл бұрын
Nicely done! You’d want to hope however that they weren’t the only person in the room you were validating 😂.
@truthreigns34652 жыл бұрын
Teenage girls with ADHD can talk 16 hours non stop u til they literally shut down and go to sleep, I love it with my step daughter since she was 7 and she is 20 now and it still drives me insane and I can’t even be near her it’s just non stop all day and night
@jungleman42383 жыл бұрын
This man knows his shiz
@biggooeyyy3 жыл бұрын
u ignore themmmm
@begitteolsen37843 жыл бұрын
I am a " talker" and my colleagues simply tells me to shut up. :)
@ItsJustJavier333 жыл бұрын
Had a phone call with someone and she talked for a good half an hour while I’m just sitting there hoping she finished her stories
@djde4th8773 жыл бұрын
you really think if you give someone 5 minutes they are gona stop at 4:59 good luck!
@420los3233 жыл бұрын
There are employees who do not care about work. They are always talking about their problems that are outside. They don't care about work.
@jackd1053 жыл бұрын
Chaicciarone
@katkatkat53 жыл бұрын
Excuse me I’m so sorry but I do have a meeting to go to/errand to run/need to clean my cats litter box, have a good day
@odinofficial66463 жыл бұрын
Sorry no
@ElectricTune3 жыл бұрын
very helpful sharing :)
@zekeholland37173 жыл бұрын
How can you be so wonky and happy at the same time? But seriously, you present things wicked clearly.
@reahermoso76884 жыл бұрын
greetings thank you so much
@SuperMichelleDJ4 жыл бұрын
Just tell them to shut up. You don't have to play their stupid games.
@persipina20084 жыл бұрын
What if you are alone with that person and she goes on and on repeating the same damn thing!! So annoying!!!
@kristina_biblija4 жыл бұрын
That's literally my mom
@t.y.66404 жыл бұрын
Mine too 😭 And I hate myself for hating it but I just cannot DEAL.
@tinkerbell28824 жыл бұрын
Oh ok so acknowledge u heard them. then u can talk .ok ill try that today thanks .i was shutting him down but i want him not to shut me down too when he’s done airing out his shit
@davidwirth27164 жыл бұрын
Repeat it back and end that topic , but then they go on to something else! Some people just can't help themselves!
@truthreigns34652 жыл бұрын
It is a serious mental problem is what it is
@davidwirth27162 жыл бұрын
@@truthreigns3465Torture for the listener , you have to have an exit plan in the future or you will be angry you wasted so much time. 😶
@breadleywheatler92424 жыл бұрын
I like to turn 180 degrees and walk away from them.
@helenalmonte43564 жыл бұрын
I want to rate your comment and give it 10 out of 10 ⭐️ but I can only give it a 👍🏼
@JediBunny3 жыл бұрын
Bahaha YES!
@Florencethomas4053 жыл бұрын
I like the fact you use maths as a solution 😂
@foreverraining15225 жыл бұрын
What's even worse is the person who not only talks too much but digresses and talks about stuff that's not even related to the topic. I have such a short fuse for people like that. I regard them as mentally degenerate, so i'm not as nice with them as you are, but your approach seems very effective. I'll use it for this one misfit on my job. He gets into a meeting and won't stop talking. He'll talk for the whole hour if you let him.
@tommyparkerparker5 жыл бұрын
I know a couple of people like that.
@galacticrachel5 жыл бұрын
whos here because your mom nonstops talks russian in the middle of the night it gives me a headache
@tjs-_goated74495 жыл бұрын
I just got my first car and she keeps on going on and on and on and on about the rules to the road. Ughhh
@galacticrachel5 жыл бұрын
lol
@tactusmediacompany6 жыл бұрын
1. Validate the comment 2. How to be a mediator 3. Allow others to get their chance to share - be a facilitator, make them feel heard Ways to validate: type comments on a wall
@tactusmediacompany6 жыл бұрын
Gets into the presentation at 0:53
@masonkirby90445 жыл бұрын
This is a video about who talks to much.
@a_little_distracted3 жыл бұрын
It's just a 3 min video.
@pnutbutterjilly6 жыл бұрын
this will help tremendously with my upcoming project - thank you!
@Prog476 жыл бұрын
just nod and say nothing
@tjs-_goated74495 жыл бұрын
Prog47 True but that's going to make them talk even more. I might be wrong but that happens to me lol
@lostchildhood31795 жыл бұрын
Savage_Aiimz-Tv same , you can‘t talk after 20 minutes
@TacoMexxx6 жыл бұрын
I just tell them to shut the fuck up, that they talk to damn much 😄 they're worse than a woman. It usually works 110% of the time 🤘
@MeekNotWeak776 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this! Such useful information. I can see how this will work in the current situation I am facing.
@americablessgod12736 жыл бұрын
Good job. That's very polite. Can you teach us how not to talk too much when we know a lot :-(. Help
@beingofstrange5 жыл бұрын
if people want to know whatever garbage info you want to throw up at people, they would google it themselves. like you did.
@katkatkat53 жыл бұрын
@@beingofstrange that was a garbage reply. 🗣 🗑
@ZeeshanKhan-vc2cz6 жыл бұрын
My aunt take a lot I ignore
@natashamudford40116 жыл бұрын
Zeeshan Khan My mom... I avoid. I was hoping this video was more about family or friend difficulties, rather than the business world.
@t.y.66404 жыл бұрын
Natasha Mudford Same here, it’s my mom who talks too much.
@biggooeyyy3 жыл бұрын
that’s itttt or u imitate them until they can’t take it
@paulinamalek17886 жыл бұрын
I feel like his first point of repeating back what the person said will make the person talk even more.
@TacoMexxx6 жыл бұрын
Paulina Malek Oh it definitely would lol. It would make them repeat themselves and soak up all your energy 🤣
@RaunakThomas6 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@timalan3334 жыл бұрын
It will they need to shut the fuck up
@Mindsetolympics4 жыл бұрын
👀👀👀👀
@laleezy774 жыл бұрын
Right..I'm not repeating anything...silence is KEY u don't want to encourage them! However that is a group setting ...one on one..I'm not saying anything
@roderigosan7 жыл бұрын
This is true. Its annoying when people think they have figured out everything about a person. People are people and they're so much more than we can see.
@mortgagefinancing55587 жыл бұрын
try not to walk forward and backward when you talk it displays insecurity ..for the most part good video though
@beingofstrange5 жыл бұрын
most retarded comment on earth lmfao, talk about judgmental
@marianmargulies21517 жыл бұрын
How refreshing to hear your thoughts on silence, Craig. Silence is truly golden -Marian
@merrilouneigenfind1047 жыл бұрын
a hero
@larschristianalm7 жыл бұрын
excellent
@desertstar76647 жыл бұрын
"Shut the fuck up you blockhead" would have sent a clear message.
@jonathanacevedo96697 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the tips on whether to have a meeting or not. Very useful info graphic
@TroyAPeterson8 жыл бұрын
Can I use this for Public Access Television? Non Paid, Non Commercial, Community Media. lmk, love it!
@TroyAPeterson8 жыл бұрын
Public access stations are notoriously bad at informing independent producers when content will be aired. I can tell you markets if you'd like. Also, I think you're cool. You made Robert's Rules 80% more compelling by making it about the spirit. I like your style. Any interest in doing spots on human rights? (global|domestic|universal) I'd probably air any 5 minute or so spots even if cell phone vids... lmk. Thank you for getting back to me btw.
@BrucexfromxCanada8 жыл бұрын
Twice I have had more to say in political meetings than time per person was allocated. In each case I had onyl about 15 seconds. In the first case the leader did much what you said. He knew me well enough to know that I had a real point if importance but also that I could easily come up with quite a detailed speech on the nature and details. As a result the point was minimally referred to and pssed on. Later, a chance t o post the details on the internet arise, and so I posted a detailed comment, referring to the original meeting and my 15 second comment. I was not truly comfortable about being only allowed 15 seconds for a subject that was truly large, germane to the general theme of the meeting and very complex, however I still did what I could as the chances arose. On the second political meeting on a different topic, when the "15 second timer" arose, My first comment was the trepidation caused by the shortness of a mere 15 seconds. Then, I "flagged" the sub-issue I had had in mind. I can psst on the internet in respect of many, many topics, in English, French or Spanish. Today, I think this is essential given the common constraints of time for all. However whether such comments will engender further dialogue of one sort or another may be the concern. If, when or where, this does not happen, it may be the harbinger of too many not caring much about anything but their own concerns, and even if there is a threqat in the offing, they may still be all too concerned about who is going to be the "hero" to solve the issue than whether the issue ever gets solved "before the barn door has to be loosed after the horse has fled." In smaller groups, sometimes people expect that, using an arbitrary number of 6 in thre group, each participant will have exactly one sixth of the speaking time. This is not always the best answer in true respect of the stated common interest of the group. If it turns out that one or 2 of the participants have a notably higher degree of de facto expertise that can be of help to the stated common interest, and the 1/6 rule is imposed, the group loses in respect of its stated interest. However if the real interests of the group are more social than productive, the underlying hypocracy is wasting a lot of time, and I, personally would prefer to have known the undertone explicitly and forthrightly before taking the trouble to participate. Since this all too often is less than explicitly forthright, I will want to know before entering, what is/are the circumstantial reasons supporting that common desire to deal with the original topic. Hence if I watch for the existence of groups, I may see many startups and many which have been around for some time, but I am really looking for those underlying circumstances that can drive the true stated interest, and a few practical details that might determine if or not I can get to the venue, and if it does not have a high cost attached. I may email the leader or organizer for some of the simpler questions if what I see up front is enough to show some sign of promise, otherwise I get all the life interaction I need to survive anyway.
@nickss69907 жыл бұрын
R. E. Bruce Martin Dude Jesus get to the point
@BrucexfromxCanada7 жыл бұрын
Everyone knows that everything in nature is inter-related, but who ever thpught that meant that it was all inter-related within the paltry 3 contextual layers that one might often glean from most conversations. When one thinks out of the box, that box, which in reality is THEIR person al box., will grow in accordance and they with it1
@steveinphillyswirl9707 жыл бұрын
R. E. Bruce Martin dude, do you ever stop? even your comment wouldn't stop
@steveinphillyswirl9707 жыл бұрын
R. E. Bruce Martin are you insane? like, criminally insane?