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@topturretgunner 3 сағат бұрын
Ha! She wants the security of the faithful man that she screwed over. She made her choices. She’s not trustworthy and would look elsewhere during stressful times. DO NOT BE HER DOORMAT. SHE’s NEVER TO BE TRUSTED AGAIN. TELL HER TO TAKE A HIKE.
@philcavazos9940 3 күн бұрын
Typical woman thinking. If your not sure your not in love. Plus you cheated. Leave him alone
@GagneJunita 3 күн бұрын
"Thanks for sharing your thoughts! It's easy to assume things from one perspective, but love and relationships are way more complex. In the next video, I dive into the psychology behind decisions like this, so you can understand where people are coming from. Don’t miss it-hit subscribe to stay tuned!"
@DarrenSloan 3 күн бұрын
You are not trustworthy enough for your partner leave
@GagneJunita 3 күн бұрын
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@dohoangdinhofficial 5 күн бұрын
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@joeramirez7879 7 күн бұрын
You try your best efforts before you cheat before you do something that will never be forgotten or forgiven sometimes you can't build trust back
@GagneJunita 7 күн бұрын
Trust once lost will never be regained, it is very difficult. Thank you for listening to my story, please share this story with your loved ones, maybe the story will help others in similar situations.
@phillipsinclaire 7 күн бұрын
Again a 304 believing that apologizing for her actions makes it okay and foregivable! Its not okay!
@phillipsinclaire 7 күн бұрын
If you truly loved your husband under the definition of love you would of not cheated or you would of had enough guts to divorce your husband! No you couldnt do that! Still think you deserve it all! Your completly pathetic!
@phillipsinclaire 7 күн бұрын
Lady your a 304 that has had enough relationships to last three life times. You will never be able to pair bond with just one partner! The stats are out and the new studies released! WTF?
@phillipsinclaire 7 күн бұрын
Another 304 justifying her cheating and lusting outside of her marriage which she blamed for her issues!
@jeffreycooper1336 7 күн бұрын
He is a convenience, NO
@jamesfarmer4013 7 күн бұрын
What a bunch of..... crap.
@EdgarsKitchen 7 күн бұрын
The poor children.She was selfish. This made her husband indifferent. Wish they both could see the big picture of what a Family is all sbout.
@jayy5903 8 күн бұрын
It’s always the loving and understanding husband or the perfect husband or the love of my life and let’s not forget the soulmate that gets cheated on. I’m starting to see a pattern that is a combination of boredom and the doormat husband. It’s a degree of comfort the cheater has that no matter what they that they’ll be forgiven. By no means am I blaming the husband, but weakness on his part emboldened his wife little freedom fantasy. Her husband going back to her cheating @ss just proves that nice guys finish last.
@GagneJunita 8 күн бұрын
"Wow, you’ve raised some really thought-provoking points here! Relationships are complex, and it’s true that comfort and forgiveness can sometimes lead to tough situations. But hey, there’s so much more to unpack on topics like these! I’d love for you to join me on my KZbin channel, where we dive into stories and discussions just like this. Let’s explore these dynamics together-subscribe and let’s keep the conversation going!"
@JohnHoffman-t4v 8 күн бұрын
Sorry. You are such a horrible wife. If you weren’t you would’ve first not had the affair but second for keeping it going. He really should’ve not let you return. You are and will be trash to him until you finally divorce later in life. Once a ho, always a ho. You will sooner or later be divorced. Stay single men!!!
@EDWINSHINAULT-ro3rd 8 күн бұрын
YOU FELT GUILTY AFTER THE FIRST TIME, YET CONTINUED HAVING AFFAIRS FOR A YEAR. INSTEAD OF THINKING ABOUT HOW YOU FELT LEADING TO YOUR AFFAIRS, TRY IMAGINING HOW YOU MADE YOUR HUSBAND FEEL BY DOING IT. WOULD YOU HAVE BEEN SO UNDERSTANDING AND FORGIVING? SICKENING.
@GagneJunita 8 күн бұрын
"You're absolutely right-actions have consequences, and I’ve taken full responsibility for mine. Sharing my journey is not about justifying mistakes but about owning up to them and growing. If you want to see how I’ve been navigating this and working to be better, I’d love for you to subscribe to my channel. Let’s have open conversations and learn together. ❤"
@busher69 9 күн бұрын
Women just don't understand, to a man his wife, her body and her love are sacred to him. When you cheat on him you shatter everything that means the most to him. There's nothing you can do to fix this. He will never feel for you the way he did. He will never heal from this. If you have a heart or soul, please let him go so he can move on with his life without you. You are not worthy of his love anymore. He should have been strong enough to leave you immediately when he found out you are a cheater. You had a man that loved you and provided for you, you and your kids meant everything to him and the best you could come up with was to destroy him.
@EDWINSHINAULT-ro3rd 8 күн бұрын
VERY WELL SAID.
@GagneJunita 8 күн бұрын
"Wow, you’ve expressed such deep and heartfelt emotions here, and it's clear how much trust and loyalty mean to you. Relationships thrive on mutual respect, and betrayal truly cuts to the core of a person's soul. Healing takes time, but letting go is sometimes the most compassionate choice for both sides. If you enjoy exploring topics like this-relationships, love, and understanding what drives people-I’d love for you to check out my KZbin channel, Women Just Don’t Understand. Let’s dive deeper into these conversations together. Subscribe and join the discussion!"
@SaiPawanVenkata 9 күн бұрын
Movie name please
@chackos123 9 күн бұрын
Your husband is an absolute FOOL for taking you back! I hope he find his self worth and tosses you out!
@barbarabastian4026 9 күн бұрын
The husband is a spineless doormat. As usual the cheater blames someone or something else for the cheating.
@DarrenSloan 9 күн бұрын
It sounds like she was a one night stand for her coworker
@brandonmatthews3722 9 күн бұрын
Too late. She's a 304 for life. The family she threw away is now, all of a sudden, her world and priority. Fake. There is no trust, no rebuilding. She needs to go away.
@johnh9086 10 күн бұрын
They always try to worm their way back in.
@fredpoarch1985 12 күн бұрын
A consideration, require her to first recuperate all monies she had lost to give to the family funds free of charge, require her to have continuous STD testing and pass the tests before being near other family members. Have a post-nuptial to include alimony, child support and custody issues in his favor.
@ΜΑΡΚΟΣΡΗΓΟΥΤΣΟΣ 12 күн бұрын
DO NOT FORGIVE HER. SHE MADE A DISQUASTING CHOICE, AND NOW WHEN ALL WENT WRONG,SHE RETURNS BEGGING FOR MERCY. IN A FEW MONTHS.SHE WILL LEAVE YOU AGAIN. ONCE UNFAITHFUL ALWAYS UNFAITHFUL
@GagneJunita 12 күн бұрын
It’s understandable to feel betrayed, but people can change and learn from their mistakes. The situation might be complicated, but let’s dive deeper into it. If you're interested in exploring stories like these and reflecting on the complexities of life, make sure to subscribe to Lessons From Life. We break down the real stories behind such moments, offering a different perspective. Join us for more insights!
@marcmarino2875 3 күн бұрын
@@GagneJunita cheating is NOT a mistake...that is where you are wrong....not a mistake
@RogerBrewster-id6hg 12 күн бұрын
Not NO, but hell NO, if he let’s her back, he’s a disgusting man worse than a simp.
@GagneJunita 12 күн бұрын
"Wow, that’s a strong opinion! I totally get where you’re coming from, but sometimes things are more complicated than they seem. If you're into exploring deeper takes on these kinds of situations, check out my channel ‘Lessons From Life’ for some insightful commentary and discussions. Don’t forget to subscribe so we can dive into more of these complex topics together!"
@bud5084 12 күн бұрын
Never take a cheater back, you can't trust them. You will always wonder if she is lying again.
@GagneJunita 12 күн бұрын
Absolutely, trust is the foundation of any relationship. Once it's broken, it’s tough to rebuild. If you ever find yourself wondering whether you're being lied to, it’s a clear sign to move on. For more insightful reflections on relationships and life, check out my channel "Lessons From Life" for more deep dives and personal stories. Don’t forget to hit subscribe for more!
@agpmjm 12 күн бұрын
No.
@EdgarsKitchen 12 күн бұрын
GIRL'S NIGHT OUT IS AN ABSOLUTE NO NO NO NO NO NO for a married woman. Women are so sensitive they need to spend their time with their husbands. If she gonna spend more time with co workers and the girls she's sacrificing her marriage and you as her husband becomes complicit in destroying your marriage. IF YOU GIVE HER ROOM TO CHEAT SHE'S GONNA CHEAT. No more once a cheater always a cheater nonsense.. This only addresses the effect and not the cause. We need solutions instead of condemnation. DO NOT DO NOT DIVORCE. Start living like you are really married. 1 DO NOT DIVORCE HER.2 SHE MUST QUIT HER JOB. 3NO GIRL'S NIGHT OUT.(Instead husband night in, and family night) . If we want to be free and all that independent nonsense, DO NOT MARRY. because marriage is responsibility not just for yourself but for another person and your children so when you marry there's more required of you. If you can't accept this then DO NOT MARRY., OR HAVE CHILDREN. In the above situation if she want to stay with you do not divorce her like I said she must make change to prove that she's taking her marriage seriously. .
@EdgarsKitchen 12 күн бұрын
God want us to forgive. That why CHRIST sacrifice his life. If she leave again forgive her again. Think about THE CHILDREN . Do not trust. Let her show her loyalty by how she behaves . Call her out when she's out of line. CONSTANT OPEN COMMUNICATION promote healthy marriages. We go into marriage with unrealistic expectations and when things fall apart we : boo hoo hoo. But we need to be real. Marriage is not something to be taken lightly. Till death do we part is exactly what it means. Once you marry you can't go back to your old ways. You now are responsible for your wife and children MEN whether or not your wife accepts this. That's just how it is. So instead of getting angry when she stray. help her. She's crying out for help. CHEATING IS MENTAL PROBLEM. IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH WILL POWER OR CHOICE. So this would fall under : " in sickness and in health". DONT BE TOO QUICK TO DIVORCE BECAUSE GOD HATES DIVORCE. Divorce destroys our children, family and in the end our whole society. INSTEAD FORGIVE LIKE JESUS DID not just blindly but be wise as serpents innocent as doves in your marriages.
@bud5084 12 күн бұрын
You never forget
@GagneJunita 12 күн бұрын
Thank you for sharing such thoughtful insights. I absolutely agree that forgiveness, communication, and understanding are key in any relationship, especially in marriage. It's important to approach challenges with wisdom and empathy, remembering the bigger picture and the impact on our families and society. If you're interested in exploring more reflections on life, love, and relationships, feel free to check out my KZbin channel, Lessons From Life. I share personal stories, deep reflections, and lessons that can help us navigate these important topics with more clarity. Don't forget to subscribe for more! 🙏💬
@marcmarino2875 3 күн бұрын
GOD...don't get GOD involved..he gave us free will....we messed up marriage not GOD...cheating...you can communicate all you want...you can go to all the counselors...what the hell can they say
@EdgarsKitchen 3 күн бұрын
How can you say: Don't get GOD involved in this! That's ridiculous. GOD IS THE ONE WHO CREATED MARRIAGE THE SAME TIME HE MADE MAN AND WOMAN. PLEASE THINK ABOUT WHAT YOU ARE SAYING.
@darrellgray8473 12 күн бұрын
A woman will do whatever they can to accomplish there goal to cheat and deceive there spouse! Never get married and never have children or live together!! Just Date and be happy your not married to a ungrateful woman!!
@marcmarino2875 12 күн бұрын
If betrayal of loyalty was a forgivable offense...then SATAN would be sitting next to GOD
@marcmarino2875 12 күн бұрын
If betrayal of loyalty was a forgivable offense then SATAN would be sitting next to GOD
@GagneJunita 12 күн бұрын
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@marcmarino2875 12 күн бұрын
@@GagneJunita cheating...is one thing you can't forgive...it just won't work for the one that got cheated on
@GagneJunita 12 күн бұрын
@@marcmarino2875 Absolutely, betrayal like cheating can be incredibly hard to forgive. Trust is everything, and once it's broken, it’s hard to rebuild. If you’re interested in exploring more on this topic and diving into the deeper lessons from life, I’d love for you to subscribe to my channel, Lessons From Life. We explore real-life stories, reflections, and life lessons that resonate. Join us!
@marcmarino2875 3 күн бұрын
@@GagneJunita forgive....yes ...somethings...but not all things can be solved by someone saying "sorry".....sometimes sorry is not good enough
@darrellgray8473 12 күн бұрын
NO !! Make her pay child support also !! Never get married and never have children or live together !! Just Date and be happy your not married to a ungrateful woman!!
@GagneJunita 12 күн бұрын
I get where you're coming from, but it's important to keep things balanced. Relationships, whether you're married or not, should be based on respect and communication. Every situation is unique, and it’s better to focus on healthy boundaries and mutual understanding. If you're interested in more thought-provoking discussions, subscribe to my channel "Lessons From Life" where we dive into these topics and more with depth and personal insights! 🙌
@marcmarino2875 3 күн бұрын
@@GagneJunita once you cheat ...you can't use the word respect
@chriswolford1054 12 күн бұрын
She would have to find employment and her own living arrangements. If he has not already petitioned for divorce he should seek a legal separation if he is considering possible reconciliation in the future. This should include full custody of the kids for dad with some supervised visitation for mom. Court ordered psychological evaluation to determine what is broken in her followed by individual counseling. Over time the dad and the court would have to be convinced before modifying visitation and she would have to prove that she was willing to work at rebuilding the marriage if at all possible.
@bud5084 12 күн бұрын
Good luck with that!
@GagneJunita 12 күн бұрын
Thanks for sharing your thoughts! You've raised some important points about handling difficult family situations. The legal process can certainly be complex, especially when considering the well-being of children. For those navigating similar challenges, understanding both legal and psychological perspectives can make a huge difference. If you're interested in exploring more thought-provoking discussions and insights, don't forget to subscribe to my KZbin channel "Lessons From Life"! We dive deep into various life situations, offering both reflections and actionable takeaways. Join us!
@barbarabastian4026 12 күн бұрын
The ex wife was gone for 3 yeas? Once a cheater always a cheater!
@GagneJunita 12 күн бұрын
I understand where you're coming from, but people can change. Time apart can bring reflection and growth. Not every situation is the same, and some folks truly learn from their mistakes. It’s about trust, healing, and moving forward together.
@marcmarino2875 3 күн бұрын
@@GagneJunita learn from their mistakes......cheating is NOT a mistake
@DarrenSloan 12 күн бұрын
And what would friends and family think about him if he did take her back
@GagneJunita 12 күн бұрын
If he takes her back, it could raise some eyebrows, but ultimately, it's about what he believes is best for him and his happiness. Friends and family might have their opinions, but only he knows the full story. If you're curious about the deeper layers of these decisions and more intriguing reflections, check out my channel "Lessons From Life" for stories and insights. Don’t forget to hit that subscribe button for more!
@philcavazos9940 12 күн бұрын
She cheated, she lied and she abandoned not only her husband, but her kids. Obviously there’s some emotion or personality problems going on with her. It took her three years and for things to go back to want to come back? She doesn’t love you. She doesn’t care about the kid. She’s feeling a void in her life. As the saying goes once a cheater always a cheater. I believe strongly for you to not put yourself or your kids into a bad position- everybody is healing and I’m sure not completely from the devastation of her leaving. You need to protect your kids from her! You can be as cold as you want not care about her situation. Hopefully you’re numb with your feelings you don’t love her you don’t hate her. You should not tell to move on and you and your kids are in a better place without her!
@GagneJunita 12 күн бұрын
It sounds like you're feeling really hurt and angry about the situation, and it's completely understandable. Betrayal like this leaves lasting scars, especially when kids are involved. Protecting your kids and ensuring they grow up in a safe, healthy environment is key. It's also important to remember that healing takes time for everyone, and your priority should be focusing on yourself and your children’s future. Sometimes, moving forward means accepting what’s best for you, even if it’s tough. If you want to explore more perspectives on relationships, healing, and life lessons, feel free to check out my channel! I’d love to have you subscribe and join the conversation.
@dohoangdinhofficial 13 күн бұрын
Love story
@dohoangdinhofficial 13 күн бұрын
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@EdgarsKitchen 14 күн бұрын
BOUNDARIES, BOUNDARIES BOUNDARIES. If this ideology really worked we would have a perfect life. This kind of advice is impossible to maintain. The real lesson we could learn from this story is : DON'T LIVE YOUR LIFE TO HAVE EXES. COMMIT TO ONE PERSON IN MARRIAGE. Once we start sleeping around it doesn't end when we end the relationship. There's gonna be that desire to go back especially for women. Also you guys out there you can't expect your girl to be faithful when you left another girl behind to be with your current one. This kind of behavior is self defeating. SAVE YOURSELVES FOR MARRIAGE TO THAT ONE PERSON AND THE CHEATING WILL END. BECAUSE THE OUT OF CONTROL DESIRES WOULDN'T EXIST.
@GagneJunita 14 күн бұрын
While the idea of setting boundaries is crucial, I understand the frustration with feeling like it’s impossible to always maintain them. It’s true that we all wish for a perfect life, but relationships are complex, and real growth comes from learning to navigate them. The key isn’t just avoiding mistakes but understanding ourselves, the choices we make, and the reasons behind them. Commitment, honesty, and loyalty are fundamental, but those values don’t always emerge simply from staying with one person. Sometimes, it’s about learning from past relationships and growing through them. Being faithful isn’t about controlling desires; it’s about maturity, mutual respect, and shared values. The real solution isn’t just to "save yourself for marriage," but to invest in building trust, communication, and emotional connection that keeps both partners engaged and fulfilled. Boundaries are essential, but so is self-awareness and being willing to evolve together.
@dohoangdinhofficial 14 күн бұрын
❤great story😊
@GagneJunita 14 күн бұрын
thanks
@EdgarsKitchen 14 күн бұрын
How about we replace Boundaries with LOVE. What is LOVE. LOVE is patient. LOVE is kind, LOVE doesn't insist on its own way, LOVE is not easily angered, LOVE keep no record of wrong. LOVE is hopeful for all good things. Endures all things LOVE NEVER END. With this in mind what kind of relationships are we nurturing?
@dohoangdinhofficial 15 күн бұрын
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@JohnMehana 15 күн бұрын
Divorce isn't revenge, it's duty to yourself.
@kenfox22 13 күн бұрын
FACTS
@sunrise_53 17 күн бұрын
This session is more of a lecture and advice rather than telling a story on betrayal and unfaithful actions of wife towards her husband. I believe this is not a healing therapy channel but to illustrate and dramatize wife's betrayal.
@GagneJunita 16 күн бұрын
Thank you for your feedback! I appreciate your perspective. My goal is to share stories that not only illustrate but also explore the deeper lessons behind such experiences. If you’re interested in more dramatized storytelling with impactful takeaways, I invite you to subscribe to my channel, Lessons From Life, for engaging content that blends emotion, storytelling, and wisdom. 😊
@WinstonBarrett-p4e 17 күн бұрын
Baloney. Help the wife. At least let her make final decision.
@GagneJunita 16 күн бұрын
"Absolutely agree! A happy wife, a happy life, right? Let her take the lead on this one! 😄 If you enjoy content like this, don't forget to check out my KZbin channel Baloney-it's full of fun, relatable moments! Subscribe and join the community!"
@philcavazos9940 17 күн бұрын
I would let the wife know to help her and then walk away. Free conscience that you helped her.
@GagneJunita 17 күн бұрын
"That's a noble approach-helping her shows compassion, and walking away ensures you maintain your boundaries. A small act of kindness can go a long way!"
@jarofejfar5093 18 күн бұрын
Who gives a sh…..t