You know its a good take but unfortunately we people are weak and vulnerable and want a companion asap so we choose to stay in bad relationships rather than wait for the good ones
@dauntlessminds26 күн бұрын
@@Boggeyman1 what people want is good, but they want it in a bad way, they want it in order to be ok or happy. What if instead of having to wait for the good one, you become that good one for the strong and vulnerable part of you?
@Boggeyman122 күн бұрын
@@dauntlessminds that's real because a good relationship is with freedom and non dependency
@heartwisdomloveАй бұрын
I love John Bradshaw! His book called The Homecoming details the different stages of ego development and brain development in children as they grow.
@dauntlessmindsАй бұрын
@@heartwisdomlove Same here. 👍🏻He's a very wise man indeed.
@michaelworshamGodisLove2 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing your experience that was really insightful and it seems like in your question you were getting to the point of addressing a core belief about yourself that you valued what people thought about you more than your own inherent value whether or not you fail or not it's okay to fail.. what people think of you ultimately does not matter but it's whether you approve of yourself and feel valuable apart from performance... So thanks I was able to unburden an exile listening to you because I have the exact same anxiety with regard to being publicly shamed and diminished in people's eyes..thanks😊
@michaelworshamGodisLove2 ай бұрын
Turn turn towards and give attention to anxiety rather than trying to get busy and ignore it or to suppress it... I'm going to remember that tomorrow I deal with anxiety usually on a daily basis... Turn toward your anxiety and give it attention in space and experience on blending yes thanks for that reminder😊
@michaelworshamGodisLove2 ай бұрын
I like what you said about emotions at the end... That we need to be in touch with her emotions to feel and listen to them but they don't need them to control us we don't want them to but it is in listening to them and giving space that causes them to not be so intense or controlling
@michaelworshamGodisLove2 ай бұрын
I would love to have a discussion with you about these things ....is there any way we could communicate by email or something? you have an email address?
@dauntlessminds3 күн бұрын
Sorry I didn't see your message earlier... I've added an email to the channel - feel free to contact me.👍🏻
@maarten74 ай бұрын
I am still dealing with issues of complete abandonment in infancy through age 6. It's devastating.
@dauntlessminds4 ай бұрын
So sorry to hear that. That feeling of devastation. And there is hope for healing those wounds. Part of it I find is mourning the loss... And being there to reassure those young parts who experienced that most acutely.❤
@hectoranaya27065 ай бұрын
Thanks for this video, I was struggling with the same questions.
@dauntlessminds8 күн бұрын
Glad it was helpful. The 'Self' and 'self' juxtaposition was mind-bending at first... I could almost feel it.😅
@motivemystic6 ай бұрын
Wow, this video really opened my eyes to the connection between neuroscience and spirituality. It's amazing how they can work together to help us stay fully alive. I'm definitely going to start incorporating some of these practices into my daily routine. Thank you for sharing this valuable information!