Please come back make more videos you haven't I'm years.

I also have no feeling towards being with guy-bits. If I were at half my age I woulden't mind if surgery was done. Knowing that emty down there would be nice(blank page/space). Having dysphoria sometimes is painfull, knowing thatin the future it's an option to become a neutrois.

Hi redtail. You are gorgeous. Redtail You Are My Wife. To me you are a woman. I Love You. I'm a man. I'm straight. I want be your boyfriend or Husband. I accept you how you are. You are a Nice woman.

Yay, another agender! I love your hair btw

only two genders

Ben Shapiro and Jordan Peterson.

you are a gorgeous woman. tu eres una hermosa mujer. hola redtail. me gustas mucho. you like me. you have good feelings. you are a great person. yo quiero invitarte al cine. yo quiero besarte redtail . me enamore de ti cuando te vi por primera vez. i'm fall in love with you. you are my crush. my username on instagram and twitter is @jesusvendetta

you are gorgeous. tu eres hermosa. do you want to be my girlfriend? i'm a man. te quiero besar redtail.

Radical, rude as hell, and fucking awesome. I'm on board!!

I used to say, "If I want to see a trans, Agender, disabled, impoverished, African American/Native American, then I have to look in the mirror!" So, in 2013, I started to make my own videos about my personal experience as a trans person, in the hopes that at least a few people will be inspired by them.

You're a beautiful human being. Thank you for existing as yourself.

I totally understand where you are coming from as for me I too feel similarly if I grow my hair is just because not because I am trying to be fem but because it just looks good on me.

Hey, Jordan. Thank you so much for making a video and giving your input on an important current event. It's nice to see your cute face here. :D I do think a lot of awareness has come from Caitlyn Jenner publicly transitioning, but I definitely agree with everything you said and have been making similar commentary.

glad to see someone keep the channel going. and to bring up the important issues that's being overshadowing at the moment

datemate is a good one :)

you're gorgeous. i like your long hair I love you. i can be your boyfriend if you like. i always think in you. do you like to be my girlfriend? i'm a man. if you have a facebook profile i write you and you see my photo. you look like a woman <3. i want to invite you to the movie theater. my user name on twitter is jesusvendeta

I don't call myself a feminist, but of course I want equality for all people! It's just that the feminists that I have encountered dislike me for being trans, and call me a variety of very mean names. From my perspective, I have noticed a lot of prejudice among feminists: racism, trans-phobia, hetero-phobia, misandry, and homophobia. If they want equality, but act like they have a right to hate just about everyone who's not just like them, then they are hypocrites!

I know what it's like to be a loner, and to see other people as un-dependable. Finding someone to depend on, as an adult, is hard because adults are so busy with work, university, and having children, that they don't have spare time to hang out with me.

Beautiful voice! I got a little weepy!

i'm really upset there's no fishnet in the video

I don't like people calling me feminine, but I feel most comfortable in things that the world calls "womens" things, so I just have to endure what people call me, and not care what they think. Sure I get sad sometimes, but I gotta be me!

you're extra loving here than usual <3 my previous/first relationship was ploy as well, and it didn't work out well for us :P and I love those alternate for boy/girlfriend

How about "smoochie"? It's a lot less... 70's than "lover". Also, "harbinger of the apocalypse and doom" can be a perfect fit, depending on the kind of person one is dating.

Black people don't find me appealing. They think the way I look is a betrayal to black culture because I "look white". And I've had more than a few white people who want to date me because they think black is exotic and the thought of being with someone black is some exciting adventure into another culture. How about just wanting to be with me for me??? I don't want to be anyone's fetish! Nor do I want to be disliked by my own community solely for the clothes I wear!

I researched Wicca and Paganism, and I considered practicing both, but I decided that I just can't stick to any religion. It bothers me that some people put their concept of god into male or female or both, and I don't see why any deity has to have a sex label. If god has a sex (or sexes), then there's no room for anyone non-bon. Religion, in the way that society has presented it to me, is strictly binary, and makes no allowances for non-bon, gender-free, sex-characteristics- description words-gender concept-description words-hating folks like me.

If I had a penny for every woman-identified feminist on Tumblr and Facebook expressed that they dislike me for being trans, I'd have $1,000! Which is why I don't claim the "feminist" label; not because I don't believe in equal rights, but because I don't want to associate with a group where some of its members dislike my existence. Which is also why I deleted my Facebook account, and have abandoned my Tumblr.

I tried dating with a guy who knew very little about trans people. He used to say I wasn't making much of an effort to act less "girly", and I HATE IT when people say I act "girly"!! But we had a discussion about it, and he stopped saying stuff like that. I think if he had continued saying that I'm "girly", after that discussion, I would have kicked him to the curb! I don't put up with that kind of bullshit for very long. He had a tough time with pronouns at first, but after a few days it wasn't a big deal. He even corrected friends and relatives when they mis-gendered me. Too bad the romance didn't last!

Excellent make-up!

I'm Agender and make YT videos about my experience, but I don't see a lot of people doing videos about being Agender. Glad I found this channel! I wear make-up and skirts, and people get really confused because I'm not a woman. I just feel comfortable this way.

Non-binary relationship names - personfriend, perfriend, enbyfriend, partner, lover, squeeze, boo, lovething, cuddlybumpkin, cuddlefriend.

Haha harbinger of the apocalypse and death. I like datemate but that's because I'm more cutesy than, you know, a practitioner of the dark arts. :P Your hair right now reminds me of Black Lady from Sailor Moon btw? Little buns at the top? Alsoooo maybe we can talk about poly things moreeee. It's important for people to realize that poly relationships aren't any less valid or meaningful than exclusively mono relationships.

did she say she's black? is she not biracial? if so I think there's a bit of bullshit going on

"Because I'm a fucking stereotype." Omg! You're perfect. I wasn't aware there was a trans mom in Ouran! :3

I would define gender dysphoria as feelings of discontent, dissociation or depression regarding a person’s biological sex. I would also tack on a disclaimer stating that these feelings shouldn’t solely be caused by society or other people - if your only source of discomfort with your gender comes from ‘the way society sees me as [gender]’ then you need to seriously rethink whether you need medical transition. However, this definition doesn’t explain how ‘feelings of discontent, dissociation or depression’ could manifest, so here’s a list of possibilities. I’m going to use the term sex-typical to mean characteristics due to your biological sex, such as prominent hips or breasts for FTM people, or broad shoulders or facial hair for MTF people. Discontent: feeling ashamed or embarrassed by your body, specifically by sex-typical features not being able to fit into the type of clothes you want to wear because of your sex-typical body shape feeling like you are not living the life you should be feeling uncomfortable in gender-specific spaces such as bathrooms or women’s or men’s support groups Dissociation: surprise or discomfort when sex-typical traits are touched/bumped (eg forgetting you have breasts, then holding something to your chest and feeling them) inability to mentally picture your body in sexual situations a sense of disconnect or lack of understanding about your emotional responses inability to relate to discussions of what is expected of people your gender (eg talking about ‘one day, when you’re a mum/dad’) not feeling close to other people of your biological sex (note: this doesn’t mean ‘I’m not like the other girls, they’re all popular and into fashion and I’m edgy and different’, I’m talking about a severe lack of understanding or disconnect from the majority of men/women) (FTM specific) forgetfulness with regards to menstrual periods Depression: long term feelings of anxiety or depression about your sex-typical characteristics OR with no recognisable cause desire to self-harm or cause harm to/remove your genitals in sexual people, a lack of sex drive due to discomfort with your genitals or feelings of shame, embarrassment or depression during/after sex extreme discomfort or disgust with sex-typical bodily functions (eg growing facial hair for MTF people or menstrual periods for FTM people) a sense of fatalism or resignation towards a future living as your birth gender - feeling like there’s no hope for the future or that there is nothing to look forward to

I would date him.

I happen to think you're good at flirting. :P Also just feeling out if someone is respectful of your pronouns prior to initiating anything is a good way to go.

Me too girl ヾ(＠⌒ー⌒＠)ノ

Is it inappropriate for me to say that you're really beautiful? I use 'pretty' and 'beautiful' to describe people of all genders, but I appreciate that some people feel uncomfortable with 'gendered' descriptions.

Can you please put subtitles on your videos? It makes it more accessible for deaf/Deaf/hard-of-hearing people, as well as people with processing difficulties and those whose first language isn't English.

I really loved the ending of your video. It was sweet. Also fetishization and objectification of transfeminine people is a huuuuuuge problem, so thanks for bringing that up. It can be difficult sometimes to tell if someone is interested in you for the wrong reasons. Long distance relationships are really hard, but they can also be fulfilling. I wish you the best!

Thanks for sharing about being bipolar. I really do think that it's important for people who are also bipolar to see other people talking about it. You have nothing to be ashamed of. It's just something you have to manage and take care of yourself. <3

I liked it that it was long, hopefully maybe someday soon you will make a even longer one, I'am so happy that i found this channel, I can relate you on so many levels, and you are so well spoken. Hope you'll have a better week. With love <3

I think it's really important to hear from NB people who don't wish to alter their bodies physically, whether they have dysphoria (which it sounds like you do) or not. I think what you described is gender dysphoria because it's basically just discomfort, anxiety, and uneasiness with one's body. Thank you for being so open and honest in this video about a very sensitive topic. It seems incredibly difficult for people who are completely agender or genderfluid who do experience dysphoria because, like you said, medical transition may not help at all. There's not exactly a way to "look genderless," apart from trying to appear completely androgynous--which isn't for some people! And not being able to fluctuate your body along with fluctuating gender identity, for genderfluid people, is not possible either. I feel like, because I do lean more on one side of the spectrum, I can alter my body to feel as though I fit into it better... and I think that comes with inherent privilege that other NB people don't have. :/ Thanks once more for mentioning my funding in your video!

I completely felt the same way in regards to my body. I would love to be able to just pick and choose what body parts I could have on any particular day. For me, having a "masculine" flat chest and "feminine" bottom parts that are slightly more masculinized is a happy medium, so that's what I'm going for. But for every NB person, how they feel about their body is going to be different. I really love your message about body positivity and self love in this video.

Thanks for sharing all of this. I'm glad it wasn't as scary as you thought. Also, I liked being able to see you shirtless. :P

I love your enby makeup! Also, puberty... is the worst. I don't even want to think about it. Haha. But I was an early bloomer, and it was an awkward time for me. I think you'll like our topic when we decide to talk about a music, book, movie, song, poem, etc. that's important to us regarding our gender identity. I just want to say thank you for being so open and vulnerable with this topic. You're a really, really beautiful person, and I'm so happy to have you on this channel.

Omg that closing image is hilarious. And your hair is fabulous.

Finally got around to watching the entire video! Thank you so much for touching on how trans women are associated with sex work. This stereotype can be really harmful because trans women will be profiled. :/ You're very right that being recognized and accepted is not just about legal documents. It's about our safety. And also talking about how gender is talked about in Taiwan, and how much more difficult it is to discuss and educate others on nonbinary/trans identities. Plus you touched on nonbinary erasure even with folks who do understand that transgender people exist. It's a little bit like bisexual people being told, "You're either gay and afraid to come out, or you're straight and want attention," which is so horrible. -_-

It's just so hard to even consider them legally recognizing us when binary folks have enough struggles in much of the country. :/ Access to health care depends on gender markers and gender markers depend on surgery. It's such a fuckery.

holy crap thank you friend, someone said it. i am dreading my 18th because its going to be constant misgendering myself. ugh.