Fkfeta'i malo 'ae si'i Fkmaama moe talanoa lelei kuo tau mohuu 'ihe kelesi'ia pea koe fu'u tapuaki lahi ia kihe 'etau nofo Fkfamili

Malo si'i fai mai 'et ngaue Fkmafana pea Fklaumalie pea mahino 'ofa atu Ta'okete Penisimani mo 'Ilaisaane Langi 'ofa llahi atu moe lotu eeeeee

Osi afee malie moe fale'i fklaumalie iate kimoua.

Malo Peni mo Saane 'a e vahevahe faka'ofo'ofa.'Ofa atu kia moua.

Malo e vahevahe mahu'inga 'aupito 🙏

Malo mu'a Penisimani mo 'Ilaisaane ae ngaue lahi mahu'inga mai mei hena fakatauange kemou ma'u ha aho fiefia mo mohu tapuekina moe lotu kiate kimoua ke kei fkivia moua he ngaahi vahevahe mahuinga oku ako ai 'eku mo'ui he okuou si'i fihia ai. 'Ofa lahi atu kiamoua moe lotu God blessed ❤🙏

Katau manatu'i koe 'alelo koe ki'i me'asi'isi'i ae 'elelo ka okune 'omai ae me'a oku kovi pea toe 'omai ai ae mea oku lelei. Malo 'aupito ae polokalama malie mo po'uli aa. GB ❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏

Haven’t seen this channel before and it’s a good channel to watch malo e ngaue keep it up

Ofa atu kamoua malo ❤

Ko e polokalama ‘Eni a Vaiola Hospital

Ma'alahi pea Fkmafana fau 'etau polokalama Fkfeta'i lahi kihe 'Otua 'ihe tokonaki 'ae lelei ko 'eni 'o mau kau ai pe 'ihe Maamangia 'ofa lahi atu ma'u pe kia kimoua eeeeee

Malo si'i ok9oko 'ae lelei 'o vahevahe mai ke tau 'inasi 'iai mo mau ako ai kimautolu 'okukimautolu 'oku fkpo'uli ke ki'i 'iai ha maama 'ofa lahi atu moe fklotolahi ke hokohoko atu ho'omo ki'i polokalama kemau si'i kau 'ihe maamangia 'iai malo 'aupito moe 'ofa lahi atu

Ko e loto fale ‘o Tonga oku tuku hifo ai e fanau tu’utamaki (fanau ‘eve’eva).Oku ikai fakaiku ia ki he tamai! Ko e tui eni ne uluaki omai ehe kau Pilitania,ka Kuo nau liliu kinautolu kae kei piki pe kiai e Tonga ia! Oku iai hoku kaungatangata ko e foha tokotaha pe ia ‘o ‘ene tamai.Ikai ha ‘ane to e fanau,pea na’e tauhi pe he’ene tamai ‘o a’u ki he fu’u tangata.Pango,ko e malolo pe ‘Ene tamai,ko e mole ia e ‘api ne tupu ai,fale,’api kolo,’api ‘uta.Mahalo Kuo taimi ke liliu e lao ke faka tatau mo e liliu ‘a Pilitania.Oku tatau pe ,fanau mali mo e fanau ta’e mali!

Mali 'Ilaisaane 'ae Fkmaama moe vahe😢 lelei 'o ifo 'emau fanongo

Malo e poupou

koloa mahuiga kei moui ete matua kenau akonekina mo tokonii kita moete fanau ai tapuaki mavahe ai

Fakafeta’i ki he ‘Eiki ‘a e talanoa lelei mo faka’ofo’ofa ❤

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Ikai keu amanaki kuo iai ha kakai Tonga ako lelei , toe fe kumi ilo’i Laulanu i he mo’ui i Tonga. Kou pehe pe Koau tokotaha pe moe kau PHD muli ni . Teuteu moua kihe tolo kapekape atu kau mamami’i fonua namu pipi moe ahi. Lol

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thank you for this post.....i remember some of the things from some of my days studying psychology.....for example, you are right that we do form a lot of our identity during the developmental years of our life and the foundation is kinda strong and maybe difficult to change one you get older as well. i guess what you are doing is also very good for the Tongan community who are also living abroad and away from the actual Tonga Islands and who are facing different challenges that their parents and their parents parents are facing as well which may add to the total burden of also trying to make ends meet as well. thank you.

Thank you for sharing. You commented on a lot of good things e.g. how we should Trust in the Lord Jehovah who sees the bigger picture. and also that we should be humble and also "surrender" to the lord things such as anger and dissapointment etc. if things are not going our way which is a very good example towards the children who will see this and also behave accordingly, and will give them the right choices to choose later on in their lives because in life there are always bad times and hiccups, and we should also teach our children to not make things worse by choosing choices out of a bad "condition" e.g. do n ot be fakalotoloto and manumanu etc. I think i may just be able to comment lightly on this seeing as how I am not married. I think you should also keep going within yourself too because I have read that Marriage is always difficult for all who get married, and i think you posting these things is a good and healthy way for you to let off some steam AND, you are doing it very well....i.e. good fakaapaapa, though, it is a bit unusual for a Tongan woman to talk about such things,,,,,but its still good. lol i hope this helps

okay, i know you didn't ask me to,,but i'll give you some feedback....okay, so i understand where you are comming from. I think you were trying to also explain that some of the youths experience "learned helplessness" and that their exploring behaviours, e.g. when they are learning more about the environment that they are in especially during the developmental years can become "extinguished" and associated with shame hence why they give up trying. Hmmmm........I think the Tongan way is excellent in some ways....for example, in the Bible you can read "spoil the rod, ruin the child" which is part of the original Tongan culture.....but you are also right i.e. when it is associated with shame instead of "learning the proper lesson". my dad is old school in many ways and one thing i notice is that alot of Tongan parents will "show" their love for their children in different ways, but they won't "tell you" they love you as often as a NZ father would....which both are fine, but i can see how confusing it can be for a Tongan growing up in two dominant cultures. I also read in a journal article that it is a Tongan thing for someone to possibly experience something, and then they would turn to their friends or loved ones, for example, to have them approve or disapprove the thing that they learnt........i.e. we sometimes needs emotional reassurance from other fellow Tongans which is a very Tongan thing and instead of being independent etc. and not conforming to the proper standards. i don't know....i hope this helps

Thank you ! Amazing ❤ !

Thank you Ilaisaane. This is wonderful and elevated learning.

Very neat counsel for children particularly the parents.

Malo ❤❤❤ae lea

Malo mua sii vahevahe Mai hoo ausia oku ou muimuii lahi hoo gaahi vitioo pea oku aoga lahi aupito kia teau moe tauhi fanau oku fkhoko Malo lahi.

Mooni lahi aupito.

Malo e tokoni ofa atu

Malo aupito love lelei Eni ,mea oku mooni,mei Brisbane

Malo mu'a si'i Fa'e ko eni 'ae poupou lelei mo fk'ofo'ofa 'aupito kia tekitautolu kotoape si'i ngaahi matu'a ofa atu❤

Keep on doing your polokalama. Someone up there is smiling at you. Blessing to your family.😂

Malo 'aupito ho'o vahevahe mai 'ae Koloa mahu'inga ko e tokanga'i 'ae faanau. 'Oku 'ikai ko ha ngaue faingofua tautefito ki he faanau ta'u 1 kihe ta'u 10. Ka tonu 'a hono tokanga'i 'ihe ngaahi ta'u ko'eni ko e 'amanaki lelei ia ki he kaha'u. Ko e akonaki ia 'ae palofesa, pea na'aku muimui kiai pea na'e hoko pe 'o mo'oni. Keep doing your polokama someone up there is smiling at you. Blessings to your family.

Fakafeta’i!!! Ko e ngaahi live eni oku mahu’inga pea productive ki he nofo mo e fonua

Malo Rev 'Ilaisaane Langi mo Dr Siale Foliaki, ke tapuekina kimoua he 'Otua he ngaahi tokoni kotoa pe kiate kimautolu matu'a tauhi fanau. 'Ofa lahi atu pehe ki ho'omo ongo famili.