They’re illiterate too.

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This makes complete sense to me ❤

i wasn't selfreflecting during the relationship, i can see that now. that my immature was not there for the relationship with the person that allready did have 2 bad relationship experiences, and then i come in the relationship as her third person, that did'nt know anything on emotional side of picture, or what was told in video here. also im austitic, that also bring there own problems, here simular, i did'nt know my autistic trades, i got daignosed few years ago befor the relationship. but my diagnose did'nt fortold me anything what are the downfault, hikups. like iceblocking when pushed with a emotional question on to me that i only should know, but the more pressure was pushed on the more o got closed off, i did'nt understand the feeling, and hurted me for not knowing and now when look back, i hate that it hurted her for not knowing how to react to so that i was not put in corner. i was diagnosed at age of 16, that was in 2005, and i needed to do re-diagnosed few year ago on 2000. between that time no told me anything about me behavor as autistic person. my family knew about, me friend knew about. i wish that they did, even if cost that i might not have liked it or understand it. but during me relationship i got conflicted with some many things that i just lost track. im not sure if i have blame this on my family or friend that knew it, or just accapted as is.

Really great conversation.

Not to mention all of the addictions ... Sex addiction, porn , childlike attractions, alcohol, drug meth, lack of emotion or feeling feelings

Wish I had the patience to listen to this. So slow. Back to your Shorts 😮‍💨

If you are reading this please give Dr. Lindsay Gibbson love from Vish 18 year old from India. I just want Dr. Lindsay Gibbson to know that she just ressurected me, I want her to know how thankful i am to have read her words. Her books took me days to finish, each sentence is like hitting on the nail and i have to walk around taking deep breathes and accepting it, i feel like i am living again. when i look into the mirror even though i have done nothing to my appearence it feels like i am finally seeing myself. XOXOXO

I need this book so will look for it. Ty for this Short

Amazing conversation! So enlightening and helpful! Thank you!

If you’re single, going on a relationship for a year or so, is there’s isn’t any talk of engagement, a ring in your finger, or marriage proposal, your best bet is to leave the relationship. Don’t waste your time with a person who’s afraid of commitment. It’s a sign of either they’re using you or are immature to commit.

How do you detach ? By leaving them, going no contact for ever, or else you fall in the same trap over and over again. It’s painful, very painful to detach, but No Contact is the only way. Or else, one becomes a masochist.

Yes this is me

this is the first video i’ve ever watched from this channel and my Lord, the hosts voice is so sweet, soothing and calm. it’s like a comforting hug 😊

“All roads lead back to them” 🤯🤯🤯

She was”stuck in poverty” because she was a drug addict. More choices by this woman. She worked her ass off and became financially comfortable through hard work and faith in the Lord. All without ever having that abortion. So abortion wasn’t necessary to her success.

Norma Mccorvey also became a huge prolife activist. The two women attorneys who took advantage of this woman to further their own political ideologies admitted they used her like you use a tool for your own advantage. These “feminists” put a down on your luck woman in the cross hairs of the country for their own gain. The definition of feminism. Fuck what’s good for women as long as it benefits the elites. Kill as many poor and minority infants so they can keep minorities and the poor disadvantaged. It’s eugenics that they convinced woman should be their battle cry. They convinced women that murdering their babies is empowering while helping to keep the black and brown population down. Look up planned parenthood’s creator Nazi sympathizer Marget Sanger.

No choices have been taken away. You can choose to have sex and chance getting pregnant. Or you can be a as string independent woman who is brave and intelligent enough in 2024 to ensure you don’t get preggers. That’s what independence is. Not blaming the government, society and men for your own actions in life. Being accountable for yourself. Strong women don’t need to Kill their babies because if their poor choices. Weak women need to grow up and hold themselves accountable for their own actions. Not getting pregnant is super easy. It’s 100% effective. Every time you don’t have unprotected sex you do not get pregnant. Every time you don’t have protected sex you don’t get pregnant. Murdering your own child because you’re incapable of self control, self protection, insisting your partner protects you as well is the definition of a narcissistic psychopath.

You are ridiculous. You want a socialist government control, government handouts, government helping you raise your children, this meaning government make the decision for your children. Government should not take away parents rights and freedoms from raising their own children. Government that have more say in how you educate your children is a communist, socialist, dictatorship. Government should let individuals have the rights of religion, speech, and culture. Government like the democratic party is pushing away rights of parents not to be taught transgender ideology, hatred of one country, hatred and a certain race, making white children bad. Government should not be causing division between races with CRT and teaching children to be confused and unsure. Many families are interracial and are quite happy with their families, you are causing division and chaos. We should not be grouped into race, this is going backwards. We are a diverse nation and any one who lives here should love their country, their neighbors, their history. This country would not be where it is today if it wasn't for the past ancestors who built it up. People from all nations built it from nothing to a world leader country. This is the country of freedom, hope and prosperity. We would not have what we have unless the men in this country, built, maintained, established and put their hearts into it. Feminist today think that the world evolves around them. If we didn't have the men, this nation would crumble. Are you going to be the first in line to fight against wars ,are you going to dig ditches and clean septic sewage tanks. Are you going to build bridges and build skyline apartments. Stop bashing the patriotic system that you enjoy.

14:20+… wow…yes…

2:25 Describing Christianity and the pervasive nature of Christian values in our culture as “insidious” in your intro is the same exact application of indoctrination that some people who claim to be Christians use to abuse the power of the religion for evil. Religious trauma comes from an abuse of power not from the religion itself. This completely bias opinion is just as harmful if not more to those who have experienced religions trauma. This approach is what I call a religion of anti-Christianity and is cultish as well. If you aren’t as neutral as humanly possible in your approach to therapy and discussions on therapeutic practices then you’re not doing it right or well. The only true and complete healing comes from God and the only way to Gods healing is through Christ. The religious practices found in Christianity are simply a means to an end, the end being connection to one true God. I hope you know that labeling Christianity as insidious is actually diabolical in nature and you are being used as a tool to misguide broken people. Glad I didn’t recommend either of you as a resource for my sister coming out of a cultish church.

Janina always explains it so well. Not a. minute wasted.

I am now thankful that I got away from the 5 yo people in adult bodies. Many women have not been so fortunate.

Great video and such an important topic. I've had therapists encourage me to stay in family relationships for growth and it has been so incredibly destructive and traumatising. If they recognised abuse better I would have more confidence in them recommending that option. I had to go it alone and now am LC and actually doing ok. Sometimes estrangement needs to be on the table.

Nothing like putting a 50s perspective on the modern world.

stop waving your hands in front of you really distracting.

I better stay single and not deal with women at all... all that work for what? Women will always blame men for everything no matter what we do.

So you completely change the Social dynamic and then expect 1) Men to still maintain traditional make roles while simultaneously 2) completely adapting to your new chosen place as you shed traditional female roles. Yet you continue to ask: "I can't understand why men have given up on relationships" "Why are Passport Bros a thing?"

“Never the one to encourage anyone to move into estrangement. Good growth can happen when one is in therapy and one is still in touch with the family or one’s person.” I hadn’t thought of not going no contact with my boyfriend when I get the courage to break up. If I don’t need to block him, . . . I like the idea of a growth opp.

This is such a tough and important conversation that I will need to come back to finish it. I do not have children, but I can see and feel the threads of all you are talking about in the multiple generations of my family and my social circle. Patriarchy and its consequences really has such a wide reaching mental health impact

Just get out. Honestly

Feminism is what is destroying motherhood, not patriarchy.

Very true. So like being left in the hospital alone, several different times 😮😅 I can now have compassion for that little one ❤

I'm an autistic adult. The explanation helps so much. Then, I get it. I can learn quickly. Double empathy is also real.

The im not in my body, it's not mine and i watch it from above is so accurate, when i had it the first time i thought i was going crazy, i had so much anxiety i can't describe it

Definitely works being clear about boundaries. I told a white lie so as not to hurt my mums feelings. Technically its true, but its not the reason I no longer stay at her house whilst visiting. She's taken it well and comes to visit the cottage I rent. I think she also prefers it. She doesn't want a deep connection!

Thank you so much for this video. The section starting at 15:00 is exactly what I've been trying to describe as my experience in my marriage. I'm going to be asking for a separation and I needed this exact explanation to have my lightbulb moment about why I've become so isolated and lonely. 💖💖💖💖💖

Thank you for speaking on this topic

Which podcast episode is this from?

In response to what is said around the 16/17 mark: when a child- or rather anyone- is dealing with sexual trauma it is not only the child’s dissociation that might prevent them from facing or dealing with the trauma. We must acknowledge that much of the adult world is unable to deal with sexuality itself and definitely not prepared to deal with sexual trauma. One might argue that the society is DISSOCIATED from issues related to sexuality.

The thing about not appreciating the arts perked my ears up !! They don't see or appreciate deeper meanings in things.

I just kept feeling lonely and sad until I found people to feel sad together.

Wonderful discussion. And so helpful. I’ve listened to all of Lindsay’s podcast. Would prefer hearing more of Lindsay’s wisdom and less of the life story of the host. Just my two cents.

This is my ex. He's an amazing person until it's time to deal with difficult issues. I became very frustrated at times and wasn't my best self either at those times but I cared because he meant so much to me. He abandoned me when I was out of state dealing with a family crisis as well as having long Covid for 10 months. No conversation no chance for me to repair. Just a text an empty house and even locked out. My heart is broken. It does look a lot like narcissism but I know hes not entirely. Well I hope for him he's not. I still love him. This video was very helpful because I've been agonizing over him purposely hurting me, but on a deep level he probably can't help it. I'm definitely less mature enotionally than I could be as well. Lots of trauma, but I've really worked hard and I do have a lot of empathy.

Some doctors talk in circles. For example, cortisol is often caused by stress so they recommend exercise but exercise also creates cortisol. Now we get stressed about cortisol levels. Life is too short to worry about life, just live. It will all be over much too soon..

I stopped listening after I couldn't keep up with the manic speed 😮

I used to be worried about how it’d make me feel and thought I might not be able to handle the symptoms but this makes me realize that I’m already dealing with sensory issues, poor thermoregulation, chronic joint and muscle aches and massive brain fog on the daily as a chronically ill audhder so it’s probably just gonna be more of the usual. Except at the end of it I can have more hormonal stability hopefully. 😅

itss a call forr you to get specific, to get definite, repetitive

i knew why he was acting in that way but he was angry that he couldnt poke out a reaction out of me and thats when i started to confuse and even when i was right in my judgement they would ask me only to invalidate it then slowly i started acting like them and i only want to vomit it out.

I don't associate menopause with osteoporosis