My depression and anxiety symptoms I developed diabetes, low testorone, exhaustion, chest pains, Ed, constantly angry, racing thoughts, feeling very sad & down, insomnia, bps (buried penis), lack of friends and support, feeling tired all of the time, feeling isolated & invisible.
@peelspetservicesspb7329Күн бұрын
Thank you ♥️🙏
@AndreaLikesMusicКүн бұрын
This explains so much about how my perspective has been swinging as wildly as a teenager’s moods lately.
@TravisGoodmanКүн бұрын
It really does help to take a Polyvagal lens approach - once you understand that is really is the foundation of everything you begin to see why and how you can get stuck - most importantly you can then begin to learn how to shift states! More to come on the channel regarding Polyvagal Theory!
@AndreaLikesMusicКүн бұрын
@@TravisGoodman I look forward to learning more, thank you! Can that affect how you feel about people as well?
@TravisGoodmanКүн бұрын
@@AndreaLikesMusic Of course and yes more long-form videos to come on my channel on this topic - I have other "shorts" on this at the moment. Yes it affects everything - even how you feel about others.
@sarahy94732 күн бұрын
For the longest time, I thought I was a narcissist and believed I needed to be away from people I loved and push away everyone because I was scared of hurting people, but it turns out I'm avoidant attachment
@terryforester51003 күн бұрын
Powerful
@TravisGoodman3 күн бұрын
Great! Check out the longer video where I dive deep into this attachment style!
@shylacarling-sp2xw4 күн бұрын
Rather be in blue dorsal vagal tbh…
@TravisGoodman4 күн бұрын
Love to hear more! From what I’ve seen and experienced is that Dorsal feels “calmer” and “masks” grounded Ventral but in a disconnected way.
@shylacarling-sp2xw3 күн бұрын
It’s like a dissasotian because it shuts down your body, often it can be caused by too much of that “yellow” sympathetic vagal input.
@Zahraa-yb5nv5 күн бұрын
ChatGPT has saved my life and gave me a better analysis than all the therapists I have met and it’s free
@TravisGoodman4 күн бұрын
ChatGPT can help for sure with some standard analysis and some pretty decent recommendations - where it lacks is its human connection and ability to adapt in the moment in real time with what is going on.
@saintnico62686 күн бұрын
She tells me she loves to soend time with me, she s happier and more comfortable around me. Also she Acts like she s my girlfriend, then she Hit me with that: I think we don t have a future cause of our political differences and I also will move in march so the relationship has a due date. I mean she s honest but she also broke me with that
@TravisGoodman4 күн бұрын
Sorry to hear that - that you got hit with that and that was the difficult reality to come to grips with. I wish you the best as you navigate the the upcoming change.
@saintnico62684 күн бұрын
@@TravisGoodman my question is, if I leave her the space and give her time will she start to open up enough so she see s that possibilitie or will she only focus on the problems and it will never work out?
@TravisGoodman3 күн бұрын
@@saintnico6268 Honestly hard to say what she will do. I would shift the focus to what are you willing to do or not do regardless if she changes or not. From there you can begin to follow the path that best aligns with your values - If you give her the space and nothing changes then you have to decide again what are you willing to do or not do that aligns with your values. If she does shift and change then again you make a decision. If you remain stuck and completely dependent on what she does or does not do then you get lost in all of this.
@saintnico62683 күн бұрын
@@TravisGoodman thanks for the advice. I already started to focus more on myself again, so I become better myself. I ll see how she s acting but I will try to reduce my emotional investment.
@itsinriotsjhinetics76 күн бұрын
Yes this is exactly what I've gone through for the last 8 years. I'm reaching what feels like the end of my time. I'm 28 and I feel like I'm in so much suffering it's hard to walk away when this is all you know and don't have the right outside support . I just feel so low right now my partner has no idea how much stress he leaves me with. I honestly never felt so mistreated and the person I'm with seems to make me feel like I deserve this and that destroys me to come to that realisation. How do I get out of the mind's state of feeling alone under all this stress.
@TravisGoodman4 күн бұрын
So sorry to hear this and that this has been your experience. I wish you the best as you navigate this difficult relationship and explore what is keeping you stuck - definitely check out my longer video on this that might explain more.
@JJ-rp2df6 күн бұрын
Unresponsive parents, barriers and emotional reactivation is so true.
@TravisGoodman4 күн бұрын
Thanks for sharing! You should check out the longer video where I dive deeper into this attachment style!
@DeadIy_.Reaper11 күн бұрын
I’m going through depression and it all went horribly bad when I just had lost my grandma today and she was the only person I felt the closest connection to. I’m still suffering and processing everything because it just happened so suddenly. This video made me cheer up slightly even for a little while.
@TravisGoodman3 күн бұрын
I am so sorry for the loss of your grandma - that is so hard and difficult - I am glad to hear the video gave you some cheer and uplifted you a bit - I bless you as you navigate this season of loss - I wish you strength, courage, peace during this time.
@learningmode111 күн бұрын
This is very interesting! Dr Porges written words might de more difficult to understand by non science trained people but when he speaks his voice provides a melodious sense of caring and understanding. I feel safe listening to him. However , when Seth writes his words might look safer to read, on the page . But when he speaks he sounds demanding and too fast. His voice does not conduct me to a feeling of trust and safety. I know he is benign but my immediate reaction is to protect myself and go to my head . My ears ache and I do not feel safe. He will eventually learn, I know, once he feels safer.
@TravisGoodman8 күн бұрын
Thanks for sharing your experience and thoughts - it is good to be aware of our own selves and what we are picking up view neuroception!
@TheExplorer9012 күн бұрын
This is the conversation that needs to be had. It feels like there is such a lack of talking about the male health and positive masculinity. This really moved me.
@TravisGoodman12 күн бұрын
Agreed! Need to have more of this conversation out there!
@jacobekker14 күн бұрын
How do you know what is causing them? I know that sounds odd but seriously, a delayed delivery, for example, should not cause BIG emotions.
@TravisGoodman10 күн бұрын
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@epicareo908714 күн бұрын
Thanks for posting this video out of the 9 things that you listed 7 of these came back as a posstive for me
@TravisGoodman14 күн бұрын
OF course! It all starts with awareness and education - that is the first step! From there is professional therapy and or coaching that could help!
@mdrashed05414 күн бұрын
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@mdrashed05415 күн бұрын
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@saidacadena968516 күн бұрын
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@TravisGoodman15 күн бұрын
Hey Saida! Glad you liked it!
@sarabjeetsingh855316 күн бұрын
❤
@TravisGoodman16 күн бұрын
Thanks!
@charlesbryant328716 күн бұрын
A man is his work. A woman is her family.
@TravisGoodman16 күн бұрын
Thanks for sharing your perspective!
@RufusToots42018 күн бұрын
I love how calm this video is: thank you.
@TravisGoodman17 күн бұрын
Oh good so glad you found it calming! Check out my other longer videos on guided breath work
@RufusToots42017 күн бұрын
@@TravisGoodman I will 🤗🙏
@doglover551920 күн бұрын
I think my ex has this. He just goasted me again. I think Im going to send this to him. Even though we haven't talked in a week!!!
@TravisGoodman19 күн бұрын
Watch my latest video on What is Avoidant Attachment! Will answer a lot of questions!
@blackawana23 күн бұрын
You are correct!🎉
@TravisGoodman22 күн бұрын
Thanks! 🙏🏼
@UnbreakableGhost23 күн бұрын
Relying on my emotions on decisions is scary for me.
@TravisGoodman22 күн бұрын
I would love to hear more!
@XSnowxFlakeX23 күн бұрын
My grandma passed away 7 days after my mum was born so I never got the chance to meet her. My other grandma passed away when I was only 5. My grandad (my best friend forever) passed away last year on valentines day. My other grandad also passed away last year in June. Now I have no grandparents. Even though I'm happy that they're all in a better place, it hurts you know expecially when my grandad (best friend) passed away. It's like there's nothing left for me to enjoy anymore 💔
@TravisGoodman16 күн бұрын
My heart goes out to you and your family - I am so sorry for the losses you and your family have had to go through - I wish you peace, strength, courage as you navigate this season
@XSnowxFlakeX16 күн бұрын
@@TravisGoodman Thank you it means a lot ❤️
@amnamaryam698623 күн бұрын
Lost my pet green parrot yesterday. He got hit by the fan (was flying really high). Stayed with me overnight stared at me. The vet told me he’ll operate on him 12 in the morning and i had to wait for the whole night. He was breathing the whole night but around 7AM he died in my hands. It just feels so weird cuz i have my course to review and practice but i just cant seem to forget about what happened and i cry randomly. I feel guilty all the time and just cant seem to get out of this cycle at all.
@TravisGoodman16 күн бұрын
I am so sorry for the loss of your parrot - that is really difficult - as you navigate this season of grieving your parrot I wish you to have peace, strength and courage.
@BomimaaTS26 күн бұрын
I feel so dumb with the way im feeling right now. My grandma didnt even pass away. She lives in india, my family lives in america. I barley get to see her and she came over to stay for 4 months. She left today, back to india. Im so sad because shes getting old and i was scared i wouldnt get to see her again. I didnt really say a proper goodbye, i didnt cherish the time she was here either. Tommorow is my first day of school and i really dont feel motivated to go anymore. Maybe im just overthinking.
@TravisGoodman16 күн бұрын
We can also grieve seasons and changes in our lives - sounds like you have some clarity and want to move forward in being more mindful of the time you have left with her - I wish you to have clarity, strength and courage to live mindfully and focus on what matters most to you in your life!
@Wtfmitch28 күн бұрын
been strugglin since 8
@TravisGoodman17 күн бұрын
So sorry to hear that. Are you seeking help professionally with someone who specializes in working with men?
@Wtfmitch15 күн бұрын
@@TravisGoodman nooooo i haven't, thought about it a lot tho i just dont want to disappoint anyone or make people switch up
@TravisGoodman14 күн бұрын
@@Wtfmitch That is something I have heard a lot from lot of men - truth is you won't disappoint - if you need any help finding someone I am more than happy to lend a hand - let me know!
@BOSSwkyАй бұрын
E & F…..
@TravisGoodman17 күн бұрын
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@user-pb3ee7pw7fАй бұрын
this video is good for severe anxiety thankyou.
@TravisGoodmanАй бұрын
Absolutely! PMR is great for anxiety and helping get the body to a more calm Ventral place! So good to hear that you find it helpful!
@FunnyShellBearАй бұрын
Spot on. Quiets c-ptsd and ptsd, but only the first one. After that it makes it ten x worse! Don’t end up with two problems… 😊
@TravisGoodmanАй бұрын
Thanks! Yes! What is something you do that helps?
@cube_productionsАй бұрын
Thank you I needed this after being accused of something I didn't do
@TravisGoodmanАй бұрын
Sorry to hear that - let me know if you want a free guide to check in!
@Berryboy1133Ай бұрын
I have no clue why your videos have less than 1k likes but I love the content and it has helped me over time thank you❤
@TravisGoodmanАй бұрын
I appreciate your kind words! Even more so that it has been helpful to you!
@floxzeth1Ай бұрын
❤
@TravisGoodmanАй бұрын
❤️
@undertalecat1692Ай бұрын
When should I stop breathing
@TravisGoodmanАй бұрын
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@agustinlacandazo9855Ай бұрын
My wife died last july 26,2024..i can't describe the pain, i miss her so much 😭
@TravisGoodmanАй бұрын
I am so sorry for the loss of your wife - that is truly awful and heartbreaking - that pain sounds unbearable at times im sure - I wish you strength, courage, hope, rest, peace as you navigate this season of such tremendous loss!
@agustinlacandazo9855Ай бұрын
@@TravisGoodman thanks man.. appreciate it🤍🙏
@ThaDarkWoIfАй бұрын
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@pratiyakshdhar1678Ай бұрын
Not good
@TravisGoodmanАй бұрын
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@redroses284Ай бұрын
Love your content!! keep it up pls and never stop 🙏🏻 apperiacte you
@TravisGoodmanАй бұрын
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@AverageamericanpersonАй бұрын
F. Terrible
@TravisGoodmanАй бұрын
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@pingaslauncher3241Ай бұрын
Sorry to hear man, hope you feel better!
@redroses284Ай бұрын
Guys what’s the music in the background ?
@TravisGoodmanАй бұрын
Called Woodsman by Dream River
@redroses284Ай бұрын
@@TravisGoodman thank you very much!!
@KodaBearrАй бұрын
We need more content like this great work thank you. Made my day better
@TravisGoodmanАй бұрын
More to come!
@jacksonmargolis7225Ай бұрын
SKIBIDI!!!!!
@UsernameNotFound512Ай бұрын
I am crying. This has made me go through an emotional rollercoaster. This meaningfull sentence of "SKIBIDI!!!!!" has made me truly tear up, this is the meaning of life. God bless.
@PigeonGod411Ай бұрын
@@UsernameNotFound512 what in the
@TravisGoodmanАй бұрын
For you - how are you using Skibidi?
@elliegabriella9784Ай бұрын
Thaaaaaaaaaaanks u dude... it's helping 😭😭
@TravisGoodmanАй бұрын
Welcome 😊
@coryjenks7952Ай бұрын
Thanks so much for having me on!
@TravisGoodmanАй бұрын
It was so great having you on! Thank you for sharing your work!
@leighammonk3013Ай бұрын
What if I have no friends and all alone 😢
@TravisGoodmanАй бұрын
Sorry to hear that - in that case there are most likely grief groups locally to you that you can look up for community.
@TravisGoodmanАй бұрын
If you relate to this style I would love to hear your thoughts and experiences!
@tummy-thy7176Ай бұрын
I just ended a relationship after fear and reluctance to get attached, from pulling away there was conflict which made me withdraw more. I lost interest in continuing and if anything reinforced my reluctance. I thought about being honest, and express what I felt but that terrified me and I couldn’t do it. I wrote it down, but thought there’s no way I’m ever saying any of this out loud. I listened to advice saying I needed to state my needs. But that was just as terrifying, it’s easier to think of the negative qualities, break up, move on and if regret sets in again remember the bad traits and negatives (reasons things would never workout) or just live with it. I only recently learned of attachment theory. And realized that I’ve always been the dumper, and most of my relationships end after 4-6months. My marriage (11yrs) was the only exception in how long it lasted, but I was married 5 months into dating. After this recent breakup I realized how much I need to heal and work on myself before getting involved with anyone else. It was great until I began to pull away, I wish I hadn’t. Or that I could get over my fear of being open and “vulnerable”
@TravisGoodmanАй бұрын
Thank you for sharing about your insight from your life - one step closer to healing! Stay tuned this week for my longer video on the avoidant attachment style - i have a video on the overview of all of them, then I have a deep dive on the anxious style currently up.