Im from a very conservative state..many people dont even know FTM transgenders exist. It is a taboo subject. I haven't come out yet (I'm in my senior year of highschool). I will go to a different city for uni next year.(im planning to atleast socially transition then) But im afraid professors and students will not accept me and continue to misgender me (as people are not really accepting in my country) Im also afraid of the early-transition phase.. Another option is to start seeing doctors for permission to get HRT ( it will take even longer here) right now. So that I'll have transitioned atleast a little bit more before i start a new life in a new city for uni next year as i said before..(this is more of a crazy option and I'll probably not have the guts to do it)
@AnaLuisa-ls9gi2 ай бұрын
I would date a trans man.
@CoolFishFunk9 ай бұрын
Im a trans guy, rn i really, really don’t want to be trans, i felt this way at the beginning of my journey. I recently joined theater for the first time. Ive had a lot of fun, met a lot of new, amazing people. I have a dressing rehearsal soon, requiring Plain white shirts to be worn. It’s so damn simple, so simple. But it isn’t at the same time. I have a binder that still reveals a good bit of my chest (lgbtunicorns) and i wear hoodies to layer and cover my chest. Im worried im gonna have to drop out of the play, because there’s no way im gonna show up to my school, surrounded by deeply homophobic/transphobic peers, and stand on stage at practice with the body of a girl. I feel like nothing is going to help me.
@stevewestenra188111 ай бұрын
This was such an honest, raw video. I struggle a lot with the fact that I've often (mostly) just wanted a cis body. It feels like there's a pressure nowadays to disavow dysphoria entirely (and I get why--it's wonderful to want to help people *not* feel bad about their bodies by normalizing difference, etc), but for me dysphoria is a huge and ongoing part of my trans experience. This is a big reason why, I think, I actually don't write a lot of trans male characters. I've been told by friends and CPs before that I should and felt pressure to, and I probably will write a trans male MC someday, but for me my transness enters my characters in different ways. I grew up freeform roleplaying with two of my childhood/teenage best friends and being able to play cis male characters was so freeing for me. It was absolutely both an escape from my body and a way for me to explore my gender identity. My fictional, written characters are, I think, fulfilling a similar role in way. It's frustrating, because so much support for trans writers is focused only on those of us who write trans protagonists (and that's obviously important and awesome), but I can't help but feel like if the support is intended for real trans people who exist in the world, it should also extend to trans (and queer) writers who don't. There's no right or wrong way to be trans, and thank you for sharing your experiences and thoughts. So much of what you said here resonated.
@adrimo10011 ай бұрын
I think we are all in the same boat 😩. We are uncomfortable with everything because we can't achieve what we desire, that is to be a cis person of our inner gender 😢.
@brodyfrost19 Жыл бұрын
Good video :) Watching this after just passing 2 years on T! Easily the biggest moment of clarity I had was after my first male haircut at a barbers. I went in as nervous as one could get (with long hair and still using my birth name) and came out a different person knowing how right it was for me. I will be forever grateful to them for the experience I had that day and glad to have the memory as a defining moment in transition.
@sp-pz8uc Жыл бұрын
That's not how you apply it. You put a thin layer on. All in the instructions.
@johntutin1906 Жыл бұрын
Did you have problems with sleep at night once taking this gel .thanks
@AFictionalEscapist Жыл бұрын
Hey John, I didn’t have any issues sleeping on gel but I did put it on first thing in the morning after a shower
@FreeTheDonbas Жыл бұрын
crying about pronouns smells like privilege.
@MrT-dj9oj Жыл бұрын
Love how deep your voice is now compared to the video I watched of you from 3 years back
@MrT-dj9oj Жыл бұрын
Hi kris Just wanted yo say you're actually applying the gel wrong. It's the reason the gel gets a bad name in the TRT world. You're not supposed to rub it in the way you're doing, if it was a oil based transdermal yes but its ethanol based transdermal, so by rubbing it in you're actually evaporating the solvents that are meant to carry it through the skin. Iv been on this gel for eight years now and on 2 pumps I'm at 30/nmol pre application. Im with a private clinic so iv been able to learn how to apply the most efficiently using blood tests to confirm. The proper way to apply is to spread on thinly with the most minimal rubbing in as possible so it's still wet so the ethanol can do its thing..carry it through the skin. I use digital scales to pump out only half a gram (0.5g) at a time to spread it out thinly as possible in different sections(arm,shoulders). Total amount 2.5grams. Rubbing it in is probably why you need 4 pumps. Hope this helps MrT
@the_fitness_doc Жыл бұрын
Are you still on Reandron?
@bimboblacky Жыл бұрын
Sorry about the not-so-great relationship. U might know of Dr. Sigmund Freud's theory of penis envy, but HE claimed that ALL girls go through that. I do not buy that.
@sebh4812 Жыл бұрын
i’m going to go see dr graham as a 14 year old trans man. do you think he would prescribe me testosterone?
@Beasterfire Жыл бұрын
What happens if you stop in the middle of a cycle of gel?
@Tjandamurra2 жыл бұрын
Hey Kris, great to hear from you, I am in Queensland and just picked up my Testogel today! Can't wait, think I'll just do the 2 pumps per arm. Thanks mate ;-)
@vexania79342 жыл бұрын
I'm a patient at the royal brisbane hospital and I had no clue they did gender services. Its insanely helpful to learn this stuff from you, thank you so much
@AFictionalEscapist2 жыл бұрын
No problem! I think there is a bit of a wait at the moment to get in but it exists!
@Jordan-pf9ws2 жыл бұрын
My kids make it impossible for me to go 100% stealth. Everyone always wants to know what happened to their mother. Which is fine I like it when someone knows I'm a transman.
@homoseggsuell2 жыл бұрын
i know that this doesn't sound responsible, it for sure isn't i guess, but i was prescribed 50mg of testogel a week ago and since then ive been doing it 2 times a day, in the morning & in the evening. so i increased my dose from 50mg, as i was told to, to 100mg. i feel like i won't have enough testosterone for visible changes if i don't do so. is there maybe anyone that also did that? or that can tell me if its a bad idea and whats gonna happen? i planned on doing the higher dose for like 2 weeks or a month so i might get quicker changes in the beginning and then be able to be more patient when i go back to the prescribed dosis. i'm a very impatient person & i was desperate, that's why i started doing that. i could just stop it right now but i wanted to ask first if thats neccessary. thanks for any opinions or help in advance!
@cronicgains92872 жыл бұрын
male or female?
@cronicgains92872 жыл бұрын
as a male, i used to take 1500mg a week for 12 weeks and it doesn't work like the more you take the more results you see. there is a point of diminishing returns, but everyone is different and it could just cause more side effects
@aliciarieske2 жыл бұрын
Thank you thank you
@zacharyyoung35332 жыл бұрын
This is greasy
@XxLegenderywhitewolfxX2 жыл бұрын
Did it give you your hair thickness back, or any changes?
@CurlyWirls2 жыл бұрын
Sorry I don't want to get something clear not trying to have a go at you but you've gone to female to male does it work?
@CurlyWirls2 жыл бұрын
I feel for you man just imagine going shopping in or Syria or Libya for that matter not to mention the new one of Ukraine. I really really hope that you are accepted in all these places that has been f***** over by?
@CurlyWirls2 жыл бұрын
*ladies.? Just trying to get on with everyone here and understand where people are coming from
@CurlyWirls2 жыл бұрын
Can you please explain exactly what you meant by that I'm a little bit confused maybe I was on the offensive defensive and I would just really like to know the details so that I can treat you guys fair
@CurlyWirls2 жыл бұрын
So you were saying that every now and then you would not be able to what not get it up get it up or you know do the guy hang what are you actually saying when you decided that you could not go through this stuff and that sex doesn't matter
@CurlyWirls2 жыл бұрын
Why is it so hard just to be gay
@rebeccaelizabeth6642 жыл бұрын
Holy crap.... I'm on the verge of tears in Walmart right now. I'm only in a couple of months from cracking open my MtF journey. Thank you so much for making this. It's exactly how I feel. I just want this all to go away. I want to go back to being happy as a MaB. And I think I really was. I used my wife of over 10 years and my 4 kids as an anchor and loved that life. I just don't think it's possible to go back... I must speak with her and get help together. I could speak for much longer on this but I wanted to keep this brief. Thank you, thank you, thank you.
@antipodean_opaleye32402 жыл бұрын
I am so glad I found this page, I'm a fellow Aussie and its so hard to find Aussie experiences on here. Thanks for being so open and putting so much effort into your videos, I hope you're doing good :)
@cloudstattoos23382 жыл бұрын
I am really unsure if i am a transguy or a girl.. the thing is i feel like i am not uncomfortable enough in my body to be trans ? And i dont wanna be trans.. i wish i would just be cis male or at least my mind be fine with being in a female body.... idk i feel so sensitive whenever this topic starts and even tho i already have a supporting bestie i feel like i al transphobic to myself... and i am scared that transitioning will be hard and i have always been told i am pretty and stuff and ik it sounds weird but what if i waste my female looks and what if i wouldnt even be pretty at all as a male? Like maybe thats a dumb concern but idkkkk
@usoppsan74352 жыл бұрын
Damn I feel exactly the same, what's new now on your feelings now?
@cloudstattoos23382 жыл бұрын
@@usoppsan7435 uh i am avoiding my feelings bc they are confusing, so nothing new 😭 my fam and school are keeping me busy enough- even tho i feel a lil reassured abt being trans but idkkk
@usoppsan74352 жыл бұрын
@@cloudstattoos2338 that is cool, my friend reassured me in some ways telling me that "trans" is just an adjective. You can be just like a cis man, just that you're trans. Once you do a transition no one could know you're trans, they'll just see a cool man
@cloudstattoos23382 жыл бұрын
@@usoppsan7435 i mean i am still confused but thanks C: also love ur pfp xD
@universalvediotv25662 жыл бұрын
hello how many pump don all the gas bottle ?
@craftyboy_2 жыл бұрын
aaaaa thank you for this, my first shot of Reandron is tomorrow (starting on shots cos of my PMDD and doc said it'd be the most consistent and least up and down) and I soooo needed this video right now, and it was so much more comforting hearing it from another Aussie too!
@KrisSpeaking2 жыл бұрын
Good luck with your first shot my friend!
@eyesack11472 жыл бұрын
Hi there, do you have to wear packing underwear with it? Or do normal trunks work?
@AFictionalEscapist2 жыл бұрын
Hi there, you just wear the budgie, nothing else is needed underneath. Your trunks should hold it in place 😊
@MrTieBoow2 жыл бұрын
As a transmac thinking about going on T this was very interesting ! Thank you :)
@taylorr34722 жыл бұрын
Can you make an update vid for us!
@nicholasgarrett77332 жыл бұрын
I am extremely lucky that my manager is part of the LGBTQA+ community. She was beyond supportive of my decision and that helped me to feel more comfortable coming out to my co-supervisors and other personnel.
@davidangeloftm86162 жыл бұрын
I enjoy my hair growth also. Nothing wrong with that.
@freddytw2062 жыл бұрын
Really happy for you
@TheOdie19892 жыл бұрын
Mate this video was so well thought out, I'm very proud of you!
@TheOdie19892 жыл бұрын
It was such an amazing day, magical and perfect! The entire event was filled with so much love for these two lovely people, I was so blessed to be there ^_^
@alexoldfield83092 жыл бұрын
I got to say I'm so glad I came across your videos Kris, you have made me feel much better about myself and my identity. Keep up the awesome bids man.
@alexoldfield83092 жыл бұрын
*Vids
@KrisSpeaking2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the love my friend! You deserve to feel comfortable and happy in your own skin 😊
@GRORDtheHORDE2 жыл бұрын
I do work out but I'm weirdly euphoric about having a bit of a gut. Don't need a 6-pack, a little tummy is fine with me! Do you pack with a regular jock strap or underwear with a packer pocket? If you safety-pinned the pocket closed idk how the packer could fall out.
@redhood81412 жыл бұрын
Im so proud of you for your journey and how you take life one day at a time. You are amazing! (Missed you bud, sorry ive been gone so long, just followed you on Instagram)
@KrisSpeaking2 жыл бұрын
Thanks buddy! I hope you’ve been well!
@redhood81412 жыл бұрын
@@KrisSpeaking Been up and down but im trying to stay positive
@GRORDtheHORDE3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the review! My parents are both avid readers, so I've been on the hunt for a book I'll encourage them to read when I come out. I put this on hold at my library right away. It's been hard coming to grips with the fact that unless I write a book myself, no one will get a clear idea of my own journey. So, I just have to find decent depictions of trans masculine experiences.
@KrisSpeaking3 жыл бұрын
This is a great option my friend! It’s a great thing to help include your parents in the conversation. Good luck!
@marekz76823 жыл бұрын
I agree with you. I like the book a lot because it is a) a personal experience but b) also sets the experience in perspective and gives trans and cis people a lot of resources! :)
@self_made_man38983 жыл бұрын
Hey mate, does it move around much if you do any exercise? I'm looking for something for martial arts.
@KrisSpeaking3 жыл бұрын
You can cut them down to size to fit your body. It didn’t move around too much when I was mucking around on the beach 😊
@Polecat-qz5om3 жыл бұрын
Just had spinal fusion.. I feel you
@emkezi47923 жыл бұрын
You have become one of the oldies - love it 😊
@self_made_man38983 жыл бұрын
Great video mate, thanks. I am tossing up, can't stand packers to be honest but I also know that that area is the first place eyeballs tend to look at so I wonder if something like this might be worth it. I wonder though, is it similar to most packers in that with pants on it just looks like you're trying to suppress a hard on?
@KrisSpeaking3 жыл бұрын
Hey Mate! Thanks for the comment. I honestly prefer not to pack as well to be honest. My ranking would go “My Pack” then “Paxies” in terms of comfort … and reasonable bulge. In short, the Paxies packer can have the chub effect depending on your frame (looks ridiculous on me), however you can take it out and cut it down to size 👍
@devonk2983 жыл бұрын
Humm. My definition of man juice is something slightly different.