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@flourishfaithfiber
@flourishfaithfiber 20 сағат бұрын
Agree…don’t add more stress. Life happens, so crochet/knit gifting doesn’t. We just moved from overseas and life’s been crazy! I’m not making gifts this year. ❤
@StitchesGonnaStitch
@StitchesGonnaStitch 20 сағат бұрын
Exactly, put on our own oxygen masks so to speak.
@Theprodigypenguin
@Theprodigypenguin Күн бұрын
I just started crocheting stuffies, but I'm only making them for my favorite people 😂
@StitchesGonnaStitch
@StitchesGonnaStitch 20 сағат бұрын
I still want to make a little rat from Nichet Crochet for my mom but... I've just been procrastinating.
@CrochetWithMA
@CrochetWithMA Күн бұрын
I've been crocheting for decades and this is a great list! I would be happy to get any of these things under the tree or in my stocking. New subscriber, and just started my own channel.
@StitchesGonnaStitch
@StitchesGonnaStitch Күн бұрын
Awww thank you and congrats on your new channel! There's so many other things out there but I wanted to stick to things I personally use and have owned for years.
@3534538
@3534538 3 күн бұрын
If the other job mainly deals with one product, wouldn't that be akin to putting all eggs in one basket? I'd try to get the three years done and get a job with health insurance benefit. The most important thing is to "remind" your boss on the "promise" considering the money. "They" always tell you the have to budget especially for that but most times that's just said to keep you quiet and compliant. As for the yelling colleague I'd "stay calm" (at least outwards) and tell her that yelling isn't the way adults should talk to each other. (I did that once with a semi-superior colleague and it worked 🙂- and he never tried that again with me.)
@StitchesGonnaStitch
@StitchesGonnaStitch 3 күн бұрын
I did start wearing my "don't get your tinsel in a tangle" shirt around the office. But yeah, lately I haven't had to deal with this person so I'll keep sticking it out. I have recently brought up some additional asks they've had for my level as a reminder that it should be considered into the discussed increase.
@3534538
@3534538 3 күн бұрын
​@@StitchesGonnaStitch Your shirt's slogan sounds great - my favourite one says "normal people frighten me" with a fitting cartoon 🙂 I don't know how you deal with difficult people but for me it was helpful to "prepare" answers to different actions/comments. Then when I had to deal with them I "just opened the prepared file" and took some amusement out of their predictablility 😏 I hope you'll be successful with negociating a raise; "they" are not friends but business people and should never forget that good people are worth a good salary. One of my favourite cartoons shows a person telling their boss, "your request needs the Mike 2.0 update, you pay for Mike 1.0" 🤣 Enjoy the holiday season as best as you can 🥰
@madelinejones2710
@madelinejones2710 4 күн бұрын
I agree, all crochet items I'm making are for myself or my house.
@StitchesGonnaStitch
@StitchesGonnaStitch 3 күн бұрын
Even if you're having a good Christmas season, that's completely valid. I have a friend who has never knit anything for anyone else - not her husband, not her daughters. And that's ok!
@ashextraordinaire
@ashextraordinaire 4 күн бұрын
I feel you! Over the years, I've lost my desire to create for most people, and this year I simply can't push through. I'm tired of spending time and energy on gifts that end up folded up in the back of a closet or shoved into a drawer. I will say it's fantastic to give handmade gifts to other crafty people, though. My dad is a woodworker, and his wife is a quilter, and we all really gas each other up about our respective crafts. My mom does cross-stitch and has always preferred handmade gifts over store-bought. So far, they're the only people getting handmade gifts this year. And I refuse to feel bad about it.
@StitchesGonnaStitch
@StitchesGonnaStitch 3 күн бұрын
Yes! I have a cousin that has proudly sent me photos of when she wears a wrap I made her ages ago but otherwise, most end up in a closet. My dad likes when I make him stuff but he's too precious with it because he doesn't want anything to happen to it. He did wear a hat I made. So yeah... other than little stuff no. I did see some ornaments I made on my aunt & uncle's tree last night so that confirms little stuff is just right.
@ashextraordinaire
@ashextraordinaire 3 күн бұрын
@@StitchesGonnaStitch I love that! There's nothing like knowing the thing you made is being used for purpose. Every year, my cousin sends me a selfie in the scarf and gloves I made her... 8 years ago? It's the best.
@RoamingwithRover
@RoamingwithRover 4 күн бұрын
Instead of Amazon try supporting your local yarn store. They can give you lots of ideas and you can keep your dollars in your community.
@StitchesGonnaStitch
@StitchesGonnaStitch 3 күн бұрын
Absolutely. I wanted to give Amazon options for anyone who may not have local yarn stores or just feels overwhelmed but by all means, these are just ideas to run with.
@castironskilletgranny
@castironskilletgranny 4 күн бұрын
If it makes any difference, I've been crocheting about 60 years. Some years you do it all. Some years you just do what you want for yourself. All good. To everything there is a season. It's your life.😊
@StitchesGonnaStitch
@StitchesGonnaStitch 4 күн бұрын
Exactly. Maybe next year I'll feel differently, maybe I won't. I just decided I'm not going to make myself feel guilty just because others are gifting loads of crochet.
@fiberandfiction
@fiberandfiction 4 күн бұрын
Beautiful pink!,,
@StitchesGonnaStitch
@StitchesGonnaStitch 4 күн бұрын
Thank you! It's a bit out of my normal color palette but it caught my eye and really grew on me.
@jaykay5893
@jaykay5893 4 күн бұрын
Hi Holly, I am a new subscriber only found you a few days ago. Are you okay? This year had been a nightmare for myself so for the first time I am on my own for Christmas and although it will be strange I am looking forward to it! I have made market mesh bags for family members and that is it! I am working on a double sized blanket in four colours for myself 😊
@StitchesGonnaStitch
@StitchesGonnaStitch 4 күн бұрын
Thanks for checking, I will be. Just kept getting hit with crummy news lately so I'm just done right now. I felt that way last year that I needed extra Christmas but this year I'm just like nah. I need to hibernate until 2025. I'm taking time off in January to reset myself.
@jaykay5893
@jaykay5893 4 күн бұрын
@StitchesGonnaStitch good glad you are taking time in January for yourself, we all need it.
@hnelson5609
@hnelson5609 4 күн бұрын
All the people I gift for are adults. So scrubbies, hats, fingerless gloves are my year round projects. I'm saving the bigger crochet items for myself. Nobody understands the time involved and I get disappointed if I don't see items being used. Who doesn't use a scrubby or a wash cloth?
@StitchesGonnaStitch
@StitchesGonnaStitch 4 күн бұрын
I always think I might start doing small stuff around the year but... it never happens. I thought about doing coaster sets and I'm just not interested this year.
@StitchesGonnaStitch
@StitchesGonnaStitch 4 күн бұрын
🧶Are you making any gifts this year or are you also going to take a break and do some selfish crocheting or knitting? 🧶
@3534538
@3534538 3 күн бұрын
For a few years now I'm completely selfish because "everyone else is" 🤣 If I want to give something selfmade I ask if the recipient would like to get it. The surprise then is in the execution of the product, like what kind of cover will a sketchbook get or what kind of stitch will be used for a shawl. I believe that many crocheters (or crafters in general) set themselves up for frustration and disappointment by assuming that "everyone" likes the products of their craft enough to like to get something as a gift. Which is often not the case. Take the question in one of the comments, "Who doesn't use a scrubby or a wash cloth?" as an example. Well, that would be me. Or it could be that someone has a specific style and the article wouldn't fit. In my bath the visible things are blue. If you gave me a green towel I'd be happy to have gotten a gift, but I'd only use it if no others are available. The only problem I have with your question is the word "selfish". We have to learn that it isn't selfish to care for ourself first, as long as no one gets harmed. If you're tired and just want to lay on the couch for hours without doing anything: go for it. If you have a baby who just soiled themselves then the couch has to wait 🙂 Sorry (not sorry) for rambling 😉 Please have a nice and as-stress-free-as-possible time 🥰
@LindaFromMySelfCareStudio
@LindaFromMySelfCareStudio 4 күн бұрын
Omgosh, thank you! Yes! I don’t get the whole axolotl thing either! 🫣🤣
@StitchesGonnaStitch
@StitchesGonnaStitch 4 күн бұрын
😆 like kinda cute but also super random and weird. Literally never heard of them before seeing them hit the crochet community.
@zhinka1
@zhinka1 5 күн бұрын
a HEADS UP on Furls! their guarantee really is not worth the paper it is written on. They will NOT I repeat they will NOT cover a replacement of a broken hook if it was a gift!
@StitchesGonnaStitch
@StitchesGonnaStitch 5 күн бұрын
Oh no!!! I've not had an issue with them yet so that's disheartening to hear.
@RoamingwithRover
@RoamingwithRover 4 күн бұрын
They will if it was purchased from furls, but not from a third party site. However, you will need to have the original purchase information.
@Mina20099
@Mina20099 5 күн бұрын
I hope you get more likes 😊
@StitchesGonnaStitch
@StitchesGonnaStitch 5 күн бұрын
Awww thank you!
@metropolitankreyole
@metropolitankreyole 6 күн бұрын
I have one pair of embroidery scissors. I never use them. Neither for knitting, crocheting or sewing. I have a normal pair of scissors for my yarn, my (15 years old) school scissors actually.
@StitchesGonnaStitch
@StitchesGonnaStitch 6 күн бұрын
Oh, I'll use any scissors in sight. But for tucking into a project bag for on the go, I love the little guys.
@laurakirk3481
@laurakirk3481 7 күн бұрын
Furls don’t work unless you hold your hand over the hook. I use a pencil grip and they are no good for that.
@StitchesGonnaStitch
@StitchesGonnaStitch 6 күн бұрын
I haven't tried different holds but that is a good point!
@ashextraordinaire
@ashextraordinaire 7 күн бұрын
What a great list! Never enough tapestry needles or stitch markers. A couple of years ago, I ordered a big set of tapestry needles for myself and ended up splitting the pack with my sister, while she split her pack of magnetic cross-stitch needle keepers with me! I'd add the suggestion of a nice project bag. I have one of the big canvas bags from KnitPicks, and it's been my go-to for a bigger project like a sweater or a baby blanket. (I also keep a dedicated notions case in there too. Never enough notions sets.) Love the kitty cameo!!!
@StitchesGonnaStitch
@StitchesGonnaStitch 6 күн бұрын
Project bags are hard to get right but there are a handful of options in the description box under honorable mentions. I did want to keep my featured list to things I actually use and can vouch for.
@knitonepugtwo4487
@knitonepugtwo4487 7 күн бұрын
I'm so glad you threw in the lip stain. I've been trying to pad out my teen's gifts and I'm not much of a make-up wearer!
@StitchesGonnaStitch
@StitchesGonnaStitch 7 күн бұрын
They were on sale last I checked. They're oddly satisfying to peel and most shades are not obvious makeup. Just a nice touch.
@StitchesGonnaStitch
@StitchesGonnaStitch 7 күн бұрын
🎁 I hope you found a few gift ideas! 🧶 I have no idea why the sound always gets so awful when uploading Shorts. I keep triple checking beforehand and something just doesn't render correctly 😬
@bluesonicstreak7317
@bluesonicstreak7317 8 күн бұрын
I absolutely LOVE Furls hooks - they're almost the only hook I can use for more than a few minutes, although I also give a small bit of love to OphireCo here and there (which are a smaller and somewhat cheaper alternative on the resin side). The much-beloved Clover Amours not only hurt my hands, they actually caused them to go totally numb. Don't love. The price point of Furls hurts; but the craftsmanship is there (Elise Rose Crochet has a video where her husband tested the smoothness of various hooks including the Clovers; the Streamline Metal basically blew everything else out of the water) and the money is worth being able to use my hands. I like your list a lot (no one ever seems to believe that little plastic stitch markers are not a bad gift!), and I would add to the mid-to-higher end of the list: 1) If someone wants to give someone a Furls hook, but is too unsure about the size to get, there IS the option of a digital Furls gift card! Then if they don't want a Furls hook at all, they can put the money towards their accessories, yarn or patterns. 2) And yeah, there's also the accessories! Specifically, I'm thinking of their hook trays (while the acacia ones are still in stock, anyway - they're terrible about restocking them unfortunately, I think the other woods are sold out). I bought a hook tray with my first Furls because I was nervous about breaking it, and then just...proceeded to stick it on a shelf and totally forget about it for almost a year. I recently rediscovered it, and I can't believe I slept on it this long. I keep a little stash of stitch markers, tapestry needles, my scissors and the handful of hooks I'm using on current projects in it, and it keeps everything accessible. I'm obsessed, it never leaves my desk in front of me. This might not sound that amazing to someone who has more space to spread out and organize their supplies (there's a small amount of fishing around in the tray that does happen); but my space for crafting is really small, and I previously just had a bunch of separate little tins and containers on nearby shelves that I constantly had to get up and go fetch. So yeah. Small crafting space with at least one tiny table to set something on = a hook tray. Also doesn't have to be Furls; you could totally borrow the concept and find something cheaper. 3) Also, a YARN BUTLER. Sometimes called a "yarn unwinder," though I don't like that name. Basically, anything where you put a cake or small skein (loose skeins will need to be caked, so this isn't good for someone who doesn't already have a ball winder) on a spindle and then it spins and unwinds from the outside of the cake/skein while you work. I absolutely HATE center pulls, I HATE how the skein collapses and constantly re-tangles and I have refused to use the center pull for years...I've just gingerly unwound from the outside. Now I have a yarn butler, and that extra-cautious unwinding in exchange for not spending hours untangling later is no longer the choice on the table. My yarn unwinds smoothly down to the center, and that's it. No tangles, and no skeins rolling around. One common style is that of a spindle sitting on what is basically a Lazy Susan. You can find a lot of 3D-printed ones on Etsy if there's a particular color or aesthetic they'd like. That said, I hear those ones can have issues with the yarn slipping down and getting tangled in the mechanism of the base. Alternatively, you can go with the "Wool Jeanie" style where the spindle connects magnetically to an arm that suspends it in midair and the spindle thus spins freely on the magnet. The only issue with that can be a small bit of knocking if you're pulling really aggressively or at the wrong angle. No tangles, though. I'd recommend wood over the plastic "wool jeanie" style. I personally got a "double header" that has a "jumbo" side that will hold Pound of Love-size skeins and large cakes. The double header is very sturdy and doesn't tip even on soft surfaces like a bed or couch. I've used it every day since I bought it, and have bought extra spindles to pre-load every project on, so I can easily swap them at a moment's notice. I will probably get another at some point so I can swap multiple colors without juggling spindles.
@StitchesGonnaStitch
@StitchesGonnaStitch 7 күн бұрын
Wow what great suggestions. I did mention a few Furls accessories then had to cut the footage because they were out of stock. I did mean to mention whether it's Furls, KnitPicks, JoAnn, or Webs that a gift card is completely acceptable because it's basically giving a shopping spree. I did test Ophire recently against all the "ergonomic" options but it's over 2 hours of footage I need to cut down. I think a yarn bowl would be more universal - the cats would go nuts over a spindle style but they look very helpful. I just have visions of destruction lol. There's just so many things - those safety eye pliers, funny shirts, this also could have been a 2 hour video if I let it! I didn't think the non-yarnies would sit through it all, lol. I did add the Granny Square deck to my list and a granny blocker (down in the honorable mentions in the description) after seeing the haul from @eliserosecrochet
@bluesonicstreak7317
@bluesonicstreak7317 7 күн бұрын
@@StitchesGonnaStitch I bought a yarn bowl a while back and discovered it doesn't work well for outer pulls, so now it's a fancy candy holder, lol. But for sure, for people who don't mind center pulls...there's a ton of absolutely gorgeous bowls out there in all colors and styles. You could get something very personalized. I've actually seen trays with high sides that have the "yarn bowl" spiral holes in them, so you could combine the tray/bowl ideas if you can track down something like that. A really high-end version would be commissioning one from a local artisan woodworker. Admittedly, I didn't consider the cat issue with yarn butlers, but mine aren't allowed in my crafting space. "The destruction" indeed. Pattern books and stitch dictionaries! Yes, I totally forgot, I have those on my personal list too.
@StitchesGonnaStitch
@StitchesGonnaStitch 7 күн бұрын
It's hard to recommend those, especially to those who are buying for yarnies. I did put a few on my gift list but I know they're ones not everyone would want.
@LynneRedick-su1ji
@LynneRedick-su1ji 8 күн бұрын
Love the gingham pumpkin! Really pretty 😊
@StitchesGonnaStitch
@StitchesGonnaStitch 7 күн бұрын
Thank you! I love how it turned out even if it was a bit awkward to constantly change colors. 💜
@LynneRedick-su1ji
@LynneRedick-su1ji 8 күн бұрын
I also have many scissors!😂 Enjoying your videos; lots of good info. I just started my channel last month and I’m learning a lot. Thx
@StitchesGonnaStitch
@StitchesGonnaStitch 8 күн бұрын
You can never have too many scissors! I'm so glad to hear that and that you're taking a leap 🖐🏻
@MadisonJohnson-z5q
@MadisonJohnson-z5q 10 күн бұрын
My additional recommendation if you're buying for an older person or just someone who crafts a lot and may have some hand pain is fingerless compression gloves. An alternative to those fancy ergonomic metal hooks if those are out of your price range would be a set of different broad handles that crochet hooks can be inserted into.
@StitchesGonnaStitch
@StitchesGonnaStitch 10 күн бұрын
Great suggestion! I love the brand that makes the blue ones but was not a fan of the ones that are a weird tan that smooshes two fingers together.
@MadisonJohnson-z5q
@MadisonJohnson-z5q 10 күн бұрын
Thanks for the video, this was super helpful! It's hard to know what to buy an established crafter that they don't already have, so your ideas to replenish the stores of items that "walk away" are perfect. I found this looking for ideas for my partner's grandma.
@StitchesGonnaStitch
@StitchesGonnaStitch 10 күн бұрын
I'm so glad this was helpful! There are also some Honorable mentions in the description too that I found after filming.
@patriciadol8810
@patriciadol8810 11 күн бұрын
This was timely as I was making a wish list for hubby and you suggested a few things I didn’t think of!!
@StitchesGonnaStitch
@StitchesGonnaStitch 10 күн бұрын
I'm so glad I could help! I can't wait to hear what goodies you end up with - what made the top of your list?
@flourishfaithfiber
@flourishfaithfiber 13 күн бұрын
I may be the only one who doesn't want a Furls hook. 🤭 I love the neck camera holder! Such a great idea! Project bags are also a great gift, especially if they are made by a favorite YTer. Thanks for the great video.
@StitchesGonnaStitch
@StitchesGonnaStitch 12 күн бұрын
Thank you! 💜 I have a couple project bags in honorable mentions in the description but I didn't even think to look who makes them! It's OK to not want a Furls hook - I would still only use Boye hooks if I could. I had a wrist injury and Furls were the only hooks that helped me crochet again.
@alidaryerson7908
@alidaryerson7908 9 күн бұрын
You are not alone. Furls are too big, heavy for me to use, though they are lovely to look at,
@StitchesGonnaStitch
@StitchesGonnaStitch 8 күн бұрын
Interesting, I kind of like the weight. The resin hooks are much lighter than metal but honestly, if you don't need the ergonomic assistance they aren't necessary.
@marymckay8283
@marymckay8283 7 күн бұрын
I bought some Furls. I can use them but I had to change how I hold my hook. I also wish the throat was a little deeper. My yarn kept slipping out.
@StitchesGonnaStitch
@StitchesGonnaStitch 5 күн бұрын
It did take a little getting used to since I prefer tapered hook heads and had some of that slipping. Once I adjusted though I haven't had any issues.
@StitchesGonnaStitch
@StitchesGonnaStitch 13 күн бұрын
⬇️🧶Don't forget to help everyone with your suggestions!⬇️
@3534538
@3534538 20 күн бұрын
Your take on paying for patterns just gave me the image of two people holding their Sbux coffee while bitching over the "exorbitant price" of a pattern 🤣 Sometimes I buy a pattern from a content creator after watching their YT tutorial. I think that's a nice way to thank them for their work. I even bought a pattern for a granny shawl once even not "needing" it. I'm on a tight budget but I think it's only fair to support people whose work you like. And yes, I buy music, too 😆
@StitchesGonnaStitch
@StitchesGonnaStitch 19 күн бұрын
Yes!!! They're also the "don't buy acrylic because it's not sustainable" while getting disposable Sbucks cups every video 👀. (Preview of my hot takes video). I have also done that where I like the video or the blog and then went and bought the ad-free pattern to thank them. Especially if I think I might make it again. I know money is tight for a lot of folks but there were times when I could only do free patterns for the most part and I just dealt with it.
@LennyLefebvre-qb6qx
@LennyLefebvre-qb6qx 21 күн бұрын
Looking forward to more pattern reviews!! This is great.
@LennyLefebvre-qb6qx
@LennyLefebvre-qb6qx 21 күн бұрын
To me an A+ is a 4.0, the only way to get higher is extra credit. So maybe some element of the pattern that is not required but a wonderful extra touch?
@StitchesGonnaStitch
@StitchesGonnaStitch 20 күн бұрын
Thanks for your thoughts on that. I had considered extra credit :)
@StitchesGonnaStitch
@StitchesGonnaStitch 20 күн бұрын
So glad you enjoyed 💜
@dianathefiberfan
@dianathefiberfan 21 күн бұрын
Thank you for your review Holly. I think I could make fingerless gloves without a pattern.
@StitchesGonnaStitch
@StitchesGonnaStitch 20 күн бұрын
You can absolutely make basic fingerless gloves without a pattern. But sometimes it's nice for something a little extra and not to have to think about what to do next.
@dianathefiberfan
@dianathefiberfan 21 күн бұрын
I bought a pattern from Briana K. I think it was a bit confusing and needed to watch the video and read the pattern. I am an experienced advanced crocheter and have made many things with patterns. I think it would be difficult to make good patterns. Just my experience so far with buying her pattern.
@StitchesGonnaStitch
@StitchesGonnaStitch 20 күн бұрын
Interesting- I have one in my cart from her that I was debating doing next. I don't remember which one off hand but I'll keep that in mind!
@StitchesGonnaStitch
@StitchesGonnaStitch 21 күн бұрын
🧶I actually am really enjoying reviewing patterns. If you have any suggestions for a paid pattern review drop it here! ⬇️
@ASA-bl3hw
@ASA-bl3hw 21 күн бұрын
Life is too short ! Do it ! Make the change
@flourishfaithfiber
@flourishfaithfiber 21 күн бұрын
Love this video! I want to make a hexi-granny cardigan! I agree with you about crochet design. I think it would also be good for designers to work with a tech editor. Pattern testers don't catch everything and that is what a tech editor is trained to do. Also, people pay for sewing patterns, why not crochet? I always look at reviews and, on Ravelry, looking at projects.
@StitchesGonnaStitch
@StitchesGonnaStitch 21 күн бұрын
Thank you for hanging out! 💜 I have tested and my comments were both received well and received poorly. Some designers don't seem to actually want feedback. Conversely a few designers seem to think testers are "too nice" with their feedback. I'm actually continuing my paid pattern review series really soon... 😉
@mycustompaintedlife502
@mycustompaintedlife502 25 күн бұрын
Amazon has been slipping. Their UI and 2 day shipping that we pay for . What for?
@StitchesGonnaStitch
@StitchesGonnaStitch 24 күн бұрын
Interesting. I'm not a big Amazon person but that's good to know.
@dianathefiberfan
@dianathefiberfan 25 күн бұрын
I don’t think anyone in the work place should be yelling and screaming at another employee. Does that come under harassment or something, I can’t think of. Hope it all works out for you. Your seem like a very kind person Holly. Keep up the good work.
@StitchesGonnaStitch
@StitchesGonnaStitch 25 күн бұрын
Thank you Diana. 💜 I was really irritated when the only reason I missed an "outstanding" rating is because of the "opportunity to be more resilient." Meanwhile she got promoted from VP to Executive VP??? It's nuts. And I called off today because partly I was having a bit of stomach upset from a medication change but mostly because my boss wants me to supervise a temporary to hopefully permanent employee. Which on the surface sounds like a great opportunity. Until she started lobbying our VP yesterday to get a candidate what works out to $4 more per hour than what I make. My flabbers were unbelievably ghasted and I needed to rethink a LOT and decide how I'm planning to point that out.
@Christine0Johnstone
@Christine0Johnstone 25 күн бұрын
Hi Holly? l`m new here, l found l needed a Car 4 my job & My job 4 my Car. So l let -em both go, it was the best thing l could have done 4 myself ! CHEERS
@StitchesGonnaStitch
@StitchesGonnaStitch 25 күн бұрын
Hi and welcome! I can see that. I don't have a car note or anything, just regular bills. Glad that worked for you 💜
@LennyLefebvre-qb6qx
@LennyLefebvre-qb6qx 27 күн бұрын
When I realized that I was spending the vast majority of my paycheck to manage my health issues that are exacerbated by work. I didn’t have enough money left over to pay for services in regards to my brain and mental health. I’m lucky to have a fully supportive partner. It was in this time we learned that I’m AuDHD and I would never notify my employer of any of my private diagnoses let alone a stigmatised one. My doctors note’s asked for things like “a chair with lumbar support and arm rests”.
@LennyLefebvre-qb6qx
@LennyLefebvre-qb6qx 27 күн бұрын
Know your worth. We have been in a skilled labor shortage for over a decade. When someone at work is toxic, especially a superior the people who are not used to abuse leave and the ones left behind either decline in mental health or decide they can abuse others also until the entire workplace is hell.
@StitchesGonnaStitch
@StitchesGonnaStitch 26 күн бұрын
Yeah, I'm just swinging through Indeed every so often now. Just in case something else pops up. I'm also a recent/late diagnosis and connected with others from Mom on the Spectrum and yeah... they confirmed that it's either not much help to put it on the record, or some people make it worse with gaslighting, or they treat you with kid gloves like you're a toddler. Not worth mentioning. Thanks for your perspective and hanging out!
@teetaloo
@teetaloo 27 күн бұрын
omg the glitchy websites!!! yes!! i thought it was just me but every time i try to order from micheals it literally won't even let me look at my cart, it says it's empty and automatically refreshes the page like every 2 seconds so i can't even click on anything!! soooo annoying
@StitchesGonnaStitch
@StitchesGonnaStitch 26 күн бұрын
No, they're all TERRIBLE. And don't get me started on the apps... it's sooo annoying.
@crittermama
@crittermama 27 күн бұрын
You also risk getting hair color or bleach in the project and that would be tragic as well.
@StitchesGonnaStitch
@StitchesGonnaStitch 27 күн бұрын
I guess it could but whatever they use c on me isn't particularly "drippy." But certainly not while they are applying the color or lightener!
@LennyLefebvre-qb6qx
@LennyLefebvre-qb6qx 28 күн бұрын
The projection is strong within THAT one. 🤭 He tried to make you feel how he feels. Selfish.
@StitchesGonnaStitch
@StitchesGonnaStitch 27 күн бұрын
Haha you are so right!
@LennyLefebvre-qb6qx
@LennyLefebvre-qb6qx 28 күн бұрын
I’m working on my first basket pattern. I was consistently adding 6 stitches per row but suddenly came up 1 stitch short. I recounted at least 5 times and got the right number but it didn’t land in the right spot? I frogged the whole row and counted the row below. No error. So I redid the row, came up with the same error, recounted and recounted and….. moved on. 🥴
@StitchesGonnaStitch
@StitchesGonnaStitch 27 күн бұрын
I have also been there! Like what the heck am I doing wrong? Do I even know how to count? Then it's like ok, fudge it and move on. They'll never know!
@CamiLouWoo
@CamiLouWoo 28 күн бұрын
Hi! New here. Sorry you're going through this. I've been struggling with a toxic work environment also, and I keep suffering through it because it's difficult to find something in my area that makes more/the same/even slightly less than what I'm making. I feel like I'm constantly recovering from working in that environment, and it's just not worth sacrificing my mental health for the money, but at the same time I need to survive monetarily! If this job is causing you mental trauma/triggering you, in my opinion it isn't worth your energy. It doesn't hurt to look on indeed and job hunt to see if there's stuff out there that might be more beneficial to your mental health. Good luck out there!
@StitchesGonnaStitch
@StitchesGonnaStitch 28 күн бұрын
Thanks for stopping by! It's so unfortunate this is not a "one off" and others have to deal with nonsense. Best wishes - hopefully the right thing comes along. I'll keep my eyes peeled but I dunno. I do enjoy hybrid and that part helps. We'll see...
@vickiscales3755
@vickiscales3755 28 күн бұрын
Life is too short to be screamed at all day! Put yourself first and leave as soon as you can.
@StitchesGonnaStitch
@StitchesGonnaStitch 28 күн бұрын
That is true. I just hate that it's only one person that's causing problems so I'd like to think resolution is coming.
@debbiespain7245
@debbiespain7245 Ай бұрын
If you have time get your resume ready then when something comes up your ready to apply.
@debbiespain7245
@debbiespain7245 Ай бұрын
If you have time get your resume ready then when something comes up your ready to apply.
@StitchesGonnaStitch
@StitchesGonnaStitch Ай бұрын
Very true. I've been kind of stalling since then. I'll have to make time to finish updating it.
@draconicfeline6177
@draconicfeline6177 Ай бұрын
Opens video HOW IS THIS SO TARGETED I AM OFFENDED /s
@StitchesGonnaStitch
@StitchesGonnaStitch Ай бұрын
Oh nooo!
@anniec6420
@anniec6420 Ай бұрын
dont leave a job until you have another job to go to......
@StitchesGonnaStitch
@StitchesGonnaStitch Ай бұрын
Oh of course I would never leave without something else lined up.