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I tell guys not to chase women. If she doesn't show an interest, then she isn't interested. Leave her alone.

40+ women can no longer (or rarely) attract men physically, so instead they must present a kind heart, an easy-going nature, a fair and well informed mind, and valuable friend potential. It's not like when they were nubile and high value for their looks and fertility. This basic truth continues to elude most western women. Instead they stay entitled, judgmental, and demanding, while offering men nothing of what they are looking for. Men also must offer what women want/need. Both genders in 21st America are doing poorly as relationship options, the healing must start with better self awareness.

Btw, I recommend to my single female friends that if they are able to secure a first date, tell the Man that you have joined a Men's Support Group dedicated to the equalization of the divorce and child custody laws. If his reaction is good, then actually join one of those groups and take him to a meeting. This will show the guy that you are aware of the cultural degradation that has contributed to the current situation (i.e. both of you still being single), and that you have his back as well. This will also help when it comes time to actually making the relationship contractual (marriage). Hell, you may even end up avoiding the pre-nup (less and less likely)......

Ladies, don't listen to this advice. The Wall is undefeated. If you are already in your 40s, your market value is falling by the millisecond while the value of the men around you is rising. As a male, what I would advise is to do an inventory of the guys you have friend zoned over the years, while you were chasing the bad boys who wouldn't commit to you. Don't think Exciting. Think Boring. Boring is good for a relationship, and lend to long term stability. Excitement simply becomes another addiction, as well as the need for constant validation. Many of these boring guys in your friend zone will treat you, probably better than you deserve at this stage. Best of Luck!

No Man in his right mind would ever marry a woman today. Sorry..........

If you want to find out if a perspective date is right for you, ask them who they voted for on November 5th. In my case, if she tells me she voted for Kamala Harris, or doesn't want to say who she voted for, the conversation ends there.

Here's another dating tip. Men are used to being put in the "friend" zone on social media, and most women seem to be looking for a guy in the top one percent. Men now days know this and understand rejection far better than women do. And the men I've talked to are all fed up with Western women, particularly American women. I might ask a Hispanic woman out on a date but definitely not a Caucasian woman, especially if she has a college education.

Hi you look awesome by the way at 5ft 4in I'm kind short but i like tall girls but they don't see me what should i do thanks

LEAVE US ALONE

This is 1000% true. I was the worst about this when I was younger. You can't make a man like you, plain and simple. Pursuing them NEVER works.

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Get off of the dating sites, boys. These sites are geared for women to wrangle free dinners and drinks out of you with no reward for you. if the woman is attractive, she is currently "talking" to multiple other guys. Her goal is to give herself a dopamine rush by telling herself that "all of these men are after me." If you're buying her dinner on Thursday evening, some other sucker is doing the same on Friday and another on Saturday. You also have to wonder,"If she's that attractive, why is she on a dating site?" No matter how hot she is, there's someone tired of her bullshit. So, just stop it. Women are EVERYWHERE. You have to make yourself marketable.You also have to learn to talk with women. Swallow your fear and do it. With practice and, yes, some pain you will get better at it.Girls like guys with confidence and those that can make them laugh. A good job doesn't hurt you either. If you want to find a girl of your standards, get to the gym.Work on your clothing, shoes, and grooming. If you've got no game, don't expect to win. Now, if you're a dweeb chunk and you don't mind dating a dweeb chunk, there are plenty of them ,again, everywhere and they are actually probably the nicest girls around. Personally, if I wasn't 66,single, and ridiculously happy, I would work the angle of finding a "fixer-upper'. If she's pretty, smart, and sweet but a little overweight, maybe you can both work on the faults together etc. Again, GET OFF OF THE DATING SITES. You're welcome.....

Heres a dating tip for you girls over 40, get a cat. Your eggs are gone, your looks are gone, you don't have baggage you have freight, most importantly nobody owe you ANYTHING. Men couldn't care less. Men tolerated your crap when they were young and dumb, and you were attractive and fertile. Wake up ladies your marketable days are long gone.

Expecting the double chromosome to actually face reality requires us to also not be delusional, to take personal responsibility and be accountable for their actions on all occasions. In all truth, what are the chances of this taking place in this universe?

There's an old saying..."Single women keep single women single". Asking dating tips from a woman is a mistake. If you want to know how to find love from a man - ask a man!

Just go to the boyfriend store. Pick the one you like. Later there may be a upgrade change for the husband package... I wonder if the tricks will ever understand that they are all banging the same 5 guys?

Don't bother.Stay single.

We have left the plantation.

Talking about $'s I was going to say 50/50 [ sweet deal for females] when you think what is lying in the bed next to you is your protection & a man who can fix & keep everything working for $0 call out fee. should be more like, 70/30 female/male.

We have left the plantation we are fishing & sitting around the fire & having a drink with mates. If you want to attract a man act like a lady.

"Write an amazing dating profile" - Wrong. Waste of time. We men like talking to women. If we expose ourselves too much, you do not talk.

For men, here's the number one tip: Move to the Philippines. We are RUNNING AWAY from you women.

Its too late.......................

I am a married man over 40 and if I found myself single, I would not date again, let alone marry. Most all of my friends (all male, I don't have female friends) share my attitude.

Love died.

all women chase the same 10% men and the rest of us are invisible. A lot of men has found out that the juice is not worth the squize and they will rather handle everything by their own hand than getting a lot of expenses and drama.

Can’t find love , if you can’t find women first , the biggest issue for men is finding an attractive, feminine women that hasn’t had multiple relationships or high body count

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Amen

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What kind of desperate loser would degrade oneself & go to a "speed" f****ng dating to enter a swirl of cheepness, humiliations & point blank stupidity ????

This is surprising. I have been told over and over again that if a man is good, kind, and attentive to a woman, she will lose interest very quickly and will want a divorce or breakup. She will join dating apps, looking for a handsome man who has a wicked & selfish side. A man must be unkind to his woman in order to keep her interested and attracted. But perhaps this applies only to young women.

I don't get why he asked you on a date/matched at speed dating if he was then going to be disappointed it was you that showed up...? 🤔

Excellent video!!!! Everyone seeking companionship with others should listen to this hard learned wisdom. Learn from others errors so you recognize your own quicker....

This video looks and feels like an AI made it.

It's not all about what a man can give you, we're not just commodities with internally built check lists. It's 50 per cent what you, yes you, can bring to the table. Women need to stop this attitude that they are the ultimate prize; because they're not. Peace and contentment is the ultimate prize in life, woman or no woman.

I hope you find your way, but women do not pick men, men pick women. I am wealthy 6ft2 tall and in great shape. In 2016 I moved to El Paso Texas to find a traditional woman from a traditional family. I went on over 300 dates before I found my wife. I proposed to her in front of her mother. Here are the caveat/s, my wife is very good looking, she has no children (which if they do have children it is always a deal breaker) and my wife is much younger than I am. After vetting her, she was required to sign a prenup, she was/is required to pay half of every bill we have together, which she does. She had to pass a credit check, and a physical, all of this prior to my proposal. When she accepted my terms for marriage I then bought her the home she picked out, and a new car, she furnished the home by buying all appliance and all furniture. Men like myself are not going to settle, because I do not have to settle. Lastly my wife is one of the directors of our local hospital. Over 90% of women and it is higher the older they get are delusional about finding a man period, and after 40 the women are not worth the effort. Best of luck to you because your going to need it. Without vetting a woman and making sure she signs a prenup/paying her fair share there is NO reason for any man to date, or ever get married. Lastly there are far fewer men than women, and even less than that who are like me. We do not play games and we do not settle.

Ok, from a man who's dated many women over many years with many different types of women (socio-economic status and races; however, this is important they were usually very attractive as that is unfortunately for me the ones that usually were interested in dating me (average/below attractiveness wanted sex but not a relationship); more conservative or less attractive women whom I was interested in (although they were physically attracted to me) always said I was 'out of their league, too smooth, pretty boy, player' etc. who would hurt them in the end (fair enough) although that is furthest thing from who I am 'as an individual' (chubby kid who was bullied up to 16 years of age for context, I understand empathy & compassion and not feeling wanted). I can say this when 'some' men (everyone is different) say 'I want to take it slow' it is very important to take a stance to be objective and see where this may be coming from. He obviously has sexual attraction as would the women or else the chemistry would not be there so that is a given. However, dependent upon his past experiences with women & relationships he may wish to actually want to take it slow so that he may build a fulfilling, meaningful, intimate relationship because in the past (such as myself) he has had whirlwind romances or encounters that have not turned out well. From my past experiences I've always ended up having sex on the first date even though I wanted to get to actually know the woman as in to create a bond and be with them in a long term substantial relationship. I agree that physical/emotional bonding at a consistent pace would be ideal; however, in many instances attraction runs rampant and out of control and physical intimacy happens despite our best intentions to 'go slow'. Men just as women have different histories and it's imperative to ask why they want to take it slow. If their reason makes sense after discussion then you may either accept it or decide to not engage in the relationship. The alternative is to find a middle ground as that would be the best of both worlds. I believe that 'sex' on the first date is a long term relationship killer (unless that is specifically what you are seeking) but physical intimacy (kissing, touching and affection) are essential components to building a bond as otherwise you may end up just as good friends. Your friends can emotionally be there and support you, but a lover or romantic partner prerequisite is attraction & desire resulting in physical, emotional & psychological closeness & intimacy. Honesty and communication even if you are afraid to ask is the cornerstone of a successful relationship, no games, no drama and working towards a common goal of wanting to share your life with someone. Just my 'male' perspective. For context I am in this exact situation wherein a woman I am extremely attracted to and vice versa have a date for next Friday. We flirted and there has been instant chemistry since the 1st time we met. We do not text or speak on the phone ( I dislike text due to impersonal nature & opportunity for misunderstandings due to subjective interpretation lacking tone in them) and she is an introvert with social anxiety that will not speak on the phone. However, we have no problems whatsoever in person, it's sparks flying. Now the reason I bring this up is for months we chatted never wanting the conversation to end, but due to professional reasons that would create awkwardness we have not pursued one another. She did give me the 'green light' upon our 1st chat saying I should take her out to do an activity I enjoy (archery). However, I did not ask her out at that time, nor many times after that as the sexual marketplace and allegations of harassment loom over me as a male (its happened to me a few times derailing my career and I was the one who would not reciprocate the woman's advances resulting in retaliation). So finally I did not want to lead her on, although I constantly thought about her (daily) as I passed by her each day, I actively avoided her so as to not hurt her or myself. However, a few days ago she walked into my business office and struck up a conversation asking where I have been, in the end she said I should call her and asked for my number. I had finally caved as I realize how much courage it takes for a woman to approach and also could not deny my own desire to get to know her in a romantic sense (the final straw). The first thing I said to her after we arranged a date is that I wanted to take it slow. So she doesn't get hurt or feel used and also so I don't feel that way. She's been hurt in the past very badly and is scared but although I don't show it I am too, but I've done a lot of work on myself while she is fairly recently out of a relationship. Slow and steady I hope will allow her and I to succeed where we both have failed in the past. If it means no sex for days, weeks (I don't think I could last months as I am very attracted to her) then so be it, for the greater good. Great video and hopefully everyone here finds their 'one', I've been engaged (4) times, married (1) time and this time I'm taking 'slow' and perhaps going 'fast' ruined those loves of my life. This one is so different from all the others (next door type of girl, tomboy) and so into her that it scares me, I'm 12 years her senior (just turned 50) and even told her my age to which she said I was lying and full of sh*t that there was no way, despite that she and I are being cautious... I'm taking it slow as I think we both want and deserve a fair shot at love....

This video comes from a good place, but it’s not the absolute greatest. Yes, it’s true that some of the best relationships come from first, have a strong friendship and then gradually introducing physicality, but it’s also perfectly OK if it works the other way around. You and another person can start out as just cuddle buddies (or more than cuddling, whatever 🤷🏻‍♂️), and then gradually introduce an emotional bond. It doesn’t matter if things start out physical or emotional. It only matters that both are eventually there, regardless, of which one comes first.

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I was taking a bath and this just clicked in my mind. Why are we made to believe that feeling butterflies is a good thing? I liked 4 guys until now and I felt butterflies around them. At the same time I was able to point out why they are not good for me and I was just avoiding them.

I asked him and never got a response so I moved on.

Wow, this video is music to my ears. Just last night, I opened up and he reassured me that he was there listening. I expressed how I struggle with receiving healthy love and that it causes some walls to come up. He’s one of the best things to ever happen to me. I just get in my head. He said he understood, and let’s take things slow. And that he really likes being with me. It’s worth it to bring up this convo because the men that are serious will want you to open up. Our 3rd date is this weekend, Im really lucky.

It means that i know it takes a while to get to know someone. I dont want to put someone on a pedestal. I want to select a partner based on who they truly are and not the fake version you get in the beginning. Going slow keeps the emotions and fantasy out of it so you can clearly see the person and make a good decision

Not sure if you will see this but thank you. I am smiling through my tears as i write these letters. I hope this works…

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