How to Get Through a Breakup
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How to Get Through Breakup
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Understanding Toxic Relationships
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You Own Your Thoughts
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3 ай бұрын
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@relationaltrauma101
@relationaltrauma101 Күн бұрын
Hi! You can find my book I Can’t Believe How Much This Hurts here: www.amazon.com/Cant-Believe-Much-this-Hurts/dp/B09KDRCZD5 Here is the link for the course relationaltrauma101.podia.com/how-to-process-a-breakup-i-can-t-believe-how-much-this-hurts Take good care!
@relationaltrauma101
@relationaltrauma101 Күн бұрын
Hi! You can find my book I Can’t Believe How Much This Hurts here: www.amazon.com/Cant-Believe-Much-this-Hurts/dp/B09KDRCZD5 Here is the link for the course relationaltrauma101.podia.com/how-to-process-a-breakup-i-can-t-believe-how-much-this-hurts Take good care!
@relationaltrauma101
@relationaltrauma101 2 күн бұрын
Hi! You can find my book I Can’t Believe How Much This Hurts here: www.amazon.com/Cant-Believe-Much-this-Hurts/dp/B09KDRCZD5 Here is the link for the course relationaltrauma101.podia.com/how-to-process-a-breakup-i-can-t-believe-how-much-this-hurts Take good care!
@relationaltrauma101
@relationaltrauma101 4 күн бұрын
Hi You can find my book I Can’t Believe How Much This Hurts here: www.amazon.com/Cant-Believe-Much-this-Hurts/dp/B09KDRCZD5 Here is the link for the course relationaltrauma101.podia.com/how-to-process-a-breakup-i-can-t-believe-how-much-this-hurts take good care!
@lionsroar4713
@lionsroar4713 5 күн бұрын
Im always trying to gain my familes love and they consistantly show this behavior. When will i learn to stay away from my family
@relationaltrauma101
@relationaltrauma101 4 күн бұрын
I read your comment and my heart broke for you! I understand the pain and the confusion! There is so much that goes into why it is so difficult to just stay away from family. On some level we know that if we stop accepting the poor treatment and walk away, we walk away from everything, not just a person or a behavior. I think someone who has never been scapegoated does not understand this, but we do. Saying "no more" means giving up everything and we're taught that "family is everything". I don't know if it ever gets easier, but I do know you can find peace and freedom to live your life. I hope you watch all of the series for the scapegoat. Thank you so much for your comment. you are definitely not alone! Take good care! 🤗
@relationaltrauma101
@relationaltrauma101 5 күн бұрын
Hi! You can find my book I Can’t Believe How Much This Hurts here: www.amazon.com/Cant-Believe-Much-this-Hurts/dp/B09KDRCZD5 Here is the link for the course relationaltrauma101.podia.com/how-to-process-a-breakup-i-can-t-believe-how-much-this-hurts Take good care!
@relationaltrauma101
@relationaltrauma101 10 күн бұрын
Come watch the full video for step by step info on how to do the exercise. Take good care! 🤗
@relationaltrauma101
@relationaltrauma101 10 күн бұрын
Hi! You can find my book I Can’t Believe How Much This Hurts here: www.amazon.com/Cant-Believe-Much-this-Hurts/dp/B09KDRCZD5 Here is the link for the course relationaltrauma101.podia.com/how-to-process-a-breakup-i-can-t-believe-how-much-this-hurts take good care!
@relationaltrauma101
@relationaltrauma101 12 күн бұрын
Hi! You can find my book I Can’t Believe How Much This Hurts here: www.amazon.com/Cant-Believe-Much-this-Hurts/dp/B09KDRCZD5 Here is the link for the course relationaltrauma101.podia.com/how-to-process-a-breakup-i-can-t-believe-how-much-this-hurts Take good care! 🤗
@relationaltrauma101
@relationaltrauma101 12 күн бұрын
Hi! You can find my book I Can’t Believe How Much This Hurts here: www.amazon.com/Cant-Believe-Much-this-Hurts/dp/B09KDRCZD5 Here is the link for the course relationaltrauma101.podia.com/how-to-process-a-breakup-i-can-t-believe-how-much-this-hurts Take good care! 🤗
@relationaltrauma101
@relationaltrauma101 12 күн бұрын
Hi! You can find my book I Can’t Believe How Much This Hurts here: www.amazon.com/Cant-Believe-Much-this-Hurts/dp/B09KDRCZD5 Here is the link for the course relationaltrauma101.podia.com/how-to-process-a-breakup-i-can-t-believe-how-much-this-hurts Take good care! 🤗
@relationaltrauma101
@relationaltrauma101 12 күн бұрын
Hi! You can find my book I Can’t Believe How Much This Hurts here: www.amazon.com/Cant-Believe-Much-this-Hurts/dp/B09KDRCZD5 Here is the link for the course relationaltrauma101.podia.com/how-to-process-a-breakup-i-can-t-believe-how-much-this-hurts Take good care! 🤗
@relationaltrauma101
@relationaltrauma101 12 күн бұрын
Hi! You can find my book I Can’t Believe How Much This Hurts here: www.amazon.com/Cant-Believe-Much-this-Hurts/dp/B09KDRCZD5 Here is the link for the course relationaltrauma101.podia.com/how-to-process-a-breakup-i-can-t-believe-how-much-this-hurts Take good care! 🤗
@relationaltrauma101
@relationaltrauma101 12 күн бұрын
Hi! You can find my book I Can’t Believe How Much This Hurts here: www.amazon.com/Cant-Believe-Much-this-Hurts/dp/B09KDRCZD5 Here is the link for the course relationaltrauma101.podia.com/how-to-process-a-breakup-i-can-t-believe-how-much-this-hurts Take good care! 🤗
@relationaltrauma101
@relationaltrauma101 12 күн бұрын
Hi! You can find my book I Can’t Believe How Much This Hurts here: www.amazon.com/Cant-Believe-Much-this-Hurts/dp/B09KDRCZD5 Here is the link for the course relationaltrauma101.podia.com/how-to-process-a-breakup-i-can-t-believe-how-much-this-hurts Take good care! 🤗
@relationaltrauma101
@relationaltrauma101 12 күн бұрын
Hi! You can find my book I Can’t Believe How Much This Hurts here: www.amazon.com/Cant-Believe-Much-this-Hurts/dp/B09KDRCZD5 Here is the link for the course relationaltrauma101.podia.com/how-to-process-a-breakup-i-can-t-believe-how-much-this-hurts Take good care! 🤗
@relationaltrauma101
@relationaltrauma101 12 күн бұрын
Hi! You can find my book I Can’t Believe How Much This Hurts here: www.amazon.com/Cant-Believe-Much-this-Hurts/dp/B09KDRCZD5 Here is the link for the course relationaltrauma101.podia.com/how-to-process-a-breakup-i-can-t-believe-how-much-this-hurts Take good care! 🤗
@relationaltrauma101
@relationaltrauma101 12 күн бұрын
Hi! You can find my book I Can’t Believe How Much This Hurts here: www.amazon.com/Cant-Believe-Much-this-Hurts/dp/B09KDRCZD5 Here is the link for the course relationaltrauma101.podia.com/how-to-process-a-breakup-i-can-t-believe-how-much-this-hurts Take good care! 🤗
@relationaltrauma101
@relationaltrauma101 12 күн бұрын
Hi! You can find my book I Can’t Believe How Much This Hurts here: www.amazon.com/Cant-Believe-Much-this-Hurts/dp/B09KDRCZD5 Here is the link for the course relationaltrauma101.podia.com/how-to-process-a-breakup-i-can-t-believe-how-much-this-hurts Take good care! 🤗
@Katherine-view
@Katherine-view 15 күн бұрын
Thanks
@relationaltrauma101
@relationaltrauma101 14 күн бұрын
You’re welcome! Hope it helps. 🤗
@YouTube-SEO-Expert-BD
@YouTube-SEO-Expert-BD 18 күн бұрын
Breakups can be so painful, but this video is a real gift for anyone looking to heal and move forward. Your content is incredibly supportive and deserves to reach even more people.
@relationaltrauma101
@relationaltrauma101 17 күн бұрын
Yes, so painful! Thank you for the support! 🤗
@YouTube-SEO-Expert-BD
@YouTube-SEO-Expert-BD 19 күн бұрын
Such an empowering video for those navigating breakups and healing from trauma. Your advice is so supportive and practical! I’ve subscribed for more amazing content.
@relationaltrauma101
@relationaltrauma101 17 күн бұрын
Thank you so much! 🙌
@diegohigueros
@diegohigueros 20 күн бұрын
Great pointers! Thank you for sharing 😊 I agree, it's better to not wait! Take action today!
@relationaltrauma101
@relationaltrauma101 17 күн бұрын
Exactly! You are so right! 🤗
@relationaltrauma101
@relationaltrauma101 26 күн бұрын
You can find my book I Can’t Believe How Much This Hurts here: www.amazon.com/Cant-Believe-Much-this-Hurts/dp/B09KDRCZD5 Here is the link for the course relationaltrauma101.podia.com/how-to-process-a-breakup-i-can-t-believe-how-much-this-hurts Take good care!
@relationaltrauma101
@relationaltrauma101 Ай бұрын
You can find my book I Can’t Believe How Much This Hurts here: www.amazon.com/Cant-Believe-Much-this-Hurts/dp/B09KDRCZD5 Here is the link for the course relationaltrauma101.podia.com/how-to-process-a-breakup-i-can-t-believe-how-much-this-hurts
@koolbeans8292
@koolbeans8292 Ай бұрын
I gathered up all her things and returned them to her because I wanted to forget her as quickly as I could, because she was such a nice person. I was feeling the sting and didn't want to wait around for the burn.. My childhood abandonment issues of needing hugs and affection started as the youngest of six children with the oldest two being the two parents who didn't have it to give that created this codependent with "anxious attachment" It's difficult to explain it to someone who has had all of their emotional needs, met early on. They just don't get it. And usually results in them, pushing us away and us feeling weird. I'm 68 years old and this just happened to me. Very hurtful! It is a form of the pain that you were talking about. Thank you!
@relationaltrauma101
@relationaltrauma101 Ай бұрын
Oh wow! I think you are spot on! The pain of trying to love someone and feeling like what you are doing is causing them to push you away. Although I am sure it was not all your fault. It really does take two. So confusing, scary, and yes super painful. My heart goes out to you! I think you made the right decision to return her things so you can begin to process what you have just gone through. Thank you for sharing your experience you are definitely not alone. Take good care and be patient and kind to yourself as you grieve. 🤗
@markwitt7983
@markwitt7983 Ай бұрын
My son is 28 and is looking for a future wife. He’s got a good job as an engineer, isn’t overweight and has saved up a good amount of funds towards a first time home buy. But he is a classic nerd with nerdy interests like Dungeons and Dragons, Japanese Anime shows and video games. He is kind and warm but can’t for the life of him get a “built” body no matter how hard he tries. It’s just the family genes as my brother and I were always skinny. He’s been using a couple of dating apps and has been getting a fair number of matches so I think his looks are ok. Messaging goes well so he’s making a good impression there. (He has a developed sense of humor and readily uses it.) However the first dates for some reason don’t go any further. He’s rarely had second dates out of over 50 first dates over the past two years. The only women who are really interested in him typically have been overweight foreigners who post outdated (or doctored) photos and are looking to get a green card. My wife and I can’t figure it out as to why he’s not getting second dates. We know him very well, raised him well and don’t see any of the red flags you talked about in the video. An unfortunate part of these failed first dates is that no women are taking a moment to tell him why they lost interest. They just normally unmatch or ghost him. He’s considering stepping away from the apps and joining some clubs and groups so that he’s able to meet women organically as they say. Perhaps he’ll have better luck that way.
@jackdeniston6150
@jackdeniston6150 Ай бұрын
If you voted Harris Just stop dating men, you are all too awful.
@StayObjective
@StayObjective Ай бұрын
My rejection is tomorrow at 2 PM
@relationaltrauma101
@relationaltrauma101 Ай бұрын
oh no! does this mean you have a first date tomorrow?
@StayObjective
@StayObjective Ай бұрын
​@@relationaltrauma101 Yep 😄 A day before our date, she reminded me that she holds high standards for a partner. So now I'm conflicted. Do I just get it over with and let what will be, be, or is this a signal I shouldn't ignore? But... I think I'll just show up and see what's what whatever 😂
@relationaltrauma101
@relationaltrauma101 Ай бұрын
@@StayObjectiveoh gosh I see your dilemma! I think you have a good plan to go and see how it goes. Remember watch for patterns red flags can be tricky but patterns are hard to ignore. Good luck and be safe!
@StayObjective
@StayObjective Ай бұрын
@@relationaltrauma101 Thank you!!
@mikezutes7083
@mikezutes7083 Ай бұрын
Politics religion and sports. And money
@relationaltrauma101
@relationaltrauma101 Ай бұрын
Those are definitely the big ones lol!
@relationaltrauma101
@relationaltrauma101 2 ай бұрын
Here is the link to the $.99 worksheet PDF relationaltrauma101.podia.com/how-to-map-out-your-toxic-cycle Take care!
@relationaltrauma101
@relationaltrauma101 2 ай бұрын
Here is the link to the $.99 worksheet PDF relationaltrauma101.podia.com/how-to-map-out-your-toxic-cycle take good care!
@allpetfoodssupercentrehami7533
@allpetfoodssupercentrehami7533 2 ай бұрын
good information
@relationaltrauma101
@relationaltrauma101 2 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for watching! 🙌
@diegohigueros
@diegohigueros 2 ай бұрын
Great advice!
@relationaltrauma101
@relationaltrauma101 2 ай бұрын
Glad it was helpful! Thanks Diego!!!
@diegohigueros
@diegohigueros 2 ай бұрын
Very informative and great advice!
@relationaltrauma101
@relationaltrauma101 2 ай бұрын
Thanks for watching! 🤗
@relationaltrauma101
@relationaltrauma101 2 ай бұрын
Here is the link to the $.99 worksheet PDF relationaltrauma101.podia.com/how-to-map-out-your-toxic-cycle take good care!
@relationaltrauma101
@relationaltrauma101 2 ай бұрын
Here is the link to the $.99 worksheet PDF relationaltrauma101.podia.com/how-to-map-out-your-toxic-cycle Take good care!!!
@diegohigueros
@diegohigueros 2 ай бұрын
Thank you for pointing out the traits!
@relationaltrauma101
@relationaltrauma101 2 ай бұрын
My pleasure! Thank you for watching! 🤗
@relationaltrauma101
@relationaltrauma101 2 ай бұрын
Here is the link the $.99 worksheet PDF relationaltrauma101.podia.com/how-to-map-out-your-toxic-cycle take good care!
@diegohigueros
@diegohigueros 2 ай бұрын
Great distinctions! 😊
@relationaltrauma101
@relationaltrauma101 2 ай бұрын
Thanks Diego! 🙌
@diegohigueros
@diegohigueros 2 ай бұрын
Confrontation isnt as negative as people think 😊
@relationaltrauma101
@relationaltrauma101 2 ай бұрын
I agree! Thank you!
@diegohigueros
@diegohigueros 2 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing 😊
@relationaltrauma101
@relationaltrauma101 2 ай бұрын
Thanks you for watching!
@diegohigueros
@diegohigueros 2 ай бұрын
Great video!
@relationaltrauma101
@relationaltrauma101 2 ай бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it!!! 😊
@diegohigueros
@diegohigueros 2 ай бұрын
It's tough, but important! Thanks!
@relationaltrauma101
@relationaltrauma101 2 ай бұрын
Yes it can be so very hard thank you!
@diegohigueros
@diegohigueros 2 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing 😊
@relationaltrauma101
@relationaltrauma101 2 ай бұрын
Thanks for watching!😊
@diegohigueros
@diegohigueros 2 ай бұрын
Good advice! 😊
@relationaltrauma101
@relationaltrauma101 2 ай бұрын
Glad it was helpful! 😊
@diegohigueros
@diegohigueros 2 ай бұрын
Similar values matter! 😊
@relationaltrauma101
@relationaltrauma101 2 ай бұрын
Yes they really do! They can make for a smoother relationship that is for sure!
@diegohigueros
@diegohigueros 2 ай бұрын
Great advice! I agree wholeheartedly 😁
@relationaltrauma101
@relationaltrauma101 2 ай бұрын
Yes it's important to look differences!
@diegohigueros
@diegohigueros 2 ай бұрын
Slick signs. Thanks for sharing!
@relationaltrauma101
@relationaltrauma101 2 ай бұрын
Thanks for watching!
@diegohigueros
@diegohigueros 2 ай бұрын
Great sign! Thanks for sharing 😊
@relationaltrauma101
@relationaltrauma101 2 ай бұрын
You are so welcome! 🤗