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@dani_mack Күн бұрын
I just found your chanel, and I'm enjoying this series. Completely off topic, but you have my "hair goal".☺ It's gorgeous!
@youfindingyou 11 күн бұрын
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@youfindingyou 11 күн бұрын
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@ValentinBrutusBura 14 күн бұрын
A "relationship" is an allegiance, really. :)
@youfindingyou 12 күн бұрын
I don't really see it that way for me, but it might be how we see allegiance, for me that word means there is a hierarchy, and in a lot of my friends groups these days we actually are quiet harmonious, and it's not a hierarchy but a group were we support, hear and truly see each other.
@ValentinBrutusBura 14 күн бұрын
I'm a mathematical Logician, with a minor in Philosophy. I don't practice unfortunately. It would be for the sake of all if I did practice... Oh well...
@youfindingyou 12 күн бұрын
You mention it being for the sake of all if you did, and the oh well comment sounds kind of like you don't have a choice in this, but in everything you have a choice. Maybe right now other things are taking priority, and that is what is important right now, so there's no right or wrong, just saying that you do have a choice and you can choose do it for you again.
@youfindingyou 15 күн бұрын
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@ValentinBrutusBura 18 күн бұрын
Fine. Rely on me like it's 2014 :)
@ValentinBrutusBura 18 күн бұрын
But do rely on me like it's '04 :)
@ValentinBrutusBura 18 күн бұрын
So it seems I am attractive, so to speak. And I don't necessarily find that to be good fortune :)
@ValentinBrutusBura 18 күн бұрын
I know what I'm talking about, madam!
@ValentinBrutusBura 18 күн бұрын
My opinion is work with "other" women to show us who's boss. I may be lost in details, but try, will you? :)
@ValentinBrutusBura 18 күн бұрын
1:14 This is not 16th Century Europe :)
@ValentinBrutusBura 18 күн бұрын
Well, it seems my friends up the hill aren't keen to hear from me. What must be understood is that they are, nevertheless, our friends... That's good taste mafia films :)
@ValentinBrutusBura 18 күн бұрын
It is named "hierophany." If someone hasn't done anything, they haven't done anything :))
@ValentinBrutusBura 18 күн бұрын
I'm an academic. And I need you
@ValentinBrutusBura 18 күн бұрын
It is somewhat true that my analysis is invasive, however I really hate people hating each other... I'm sure you know what I mean. Did I mention you're above average? :)
@ValentinBrutusBura 18 күн бұрын
Watching KZbin videos. Talking to genuine people.
@ValentinBrutusBura 18 күн бұрын
I can answer most questions you may or may not have. But I believe I said that already :)
@ValentinBrutusBura 18 күн бұрын
Don't you just hate when people wrong do each other? Instead of loving each other?? :)
@user-pv6om4xt9t 19 күн бұрын
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@MAJIDUL8759 27 күн бұрын
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@thruthevalleytarot Ай бұрын
I’m here. Thank you🎉
@j.t.1215 Ай бұрын
❤I needed this. For a highly sensitive empath, life can be painful at times. I wonder how many of us like to stay at home? The good Lord knows even at home, sometimes overloaded with the concerns of others happens, especially when they place demands directly.
@kejennings13 Ай бұрын
What about needing reassurance or emotional comfort without looking or seeming selfish?
@youfindingyou Ай бұрын
Couple of thoughts are coming up for me, when you need reassurance or emotional comfort, do you need it from others, like you can't feel comfortable in yourself until you get it from them? Or can you look at what you need, like the comfort, and find it in yourself? I wouldn't say it's selfish, in a way selfish is saying you are not worth taking care of your needs. But to what level are you needing those needs met from others, if you can't get it from within yourself, then it will possibly feel like a neediness.
@kejennings13 Ай бұрын
@@youfindingyou I’m trying not to need it from others but it would seem like my mind or heart tells me it’s the only way to know I’m emotionally safe and secure.
@tennesseenana4838 Ай бұрын
Well said and good question. People tend to really be looking for something to make them happy, but when they get it - are they really happy. I like the word contentment.
@klm8068 Ай бұрын
Good info but had to click off because of background noise.
@youfindingyou Ай бұрын
ah ya, I get it. I've scrapped some videos because the cicadas have been so noisy in the background, and drown out my voice. And I was like, ya there's no way I'd finish listening to the video because they are so loud. But thank you for mentioning it. I've been loving getting out in nature, I'll see what I can do, maybe find locations where they are not so noisy... ;)... or maybe there's times of day when they are quieter too.
@michaelsavard1144 Ай бұрын
Daily struggle.
@youfindingyou Ай бұрын
ya, I hear ya. I got to a point too that I couldn't keep upping the goals, like if I keep going my body can't keep up this life, and when will I every be happy and good enough? I started to follow those things that I loved and enjoyed doing, and eventually realized that I was looking to others to tell me what my loves where, and no one could tell me that but me.
@NikhilKu-wg8db Ай бұрын
Sadar pranam mom ji
@YesGodWellness Ай бұрын
I've been searching youtube on how to deal with this.. thank you for making this video 🙏🏼
@youfindingyou Ай бұрын
Of course, I'm so glad to hear it got to someone that needed it too. Man, it hurts so much, doesn't it? I think for me, I finally got tired of feeling the hurt in me and was like, how can I let go of the bitter feeling, and the resentment. ❤🧡💛
@mdborhan9703 2 ай бұрын
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@rhondabogar1013 2 ай бұрын
In adversity, I freeze. Thank you for having a natural look. It is so refreshing to see women willing to show their real look. 😊
@youfindingyou 2 ай бұрын
oh ya, I can relate to freezing as well. I imagine the body is wanting to keep us safe. and thank you 🙏 ya, I've been learning in myself too, that beauty is deeper than surface appearance ❤🧡💛 (so thank you for your words)
@phenomenalfilms 2 ай бұрын
Feeling sick to my stomach, nauceous - a toxic problem!
@youfindingyou 2 ай бұрын
oh ya, I can definitely see that. Like this isn't right at all. ❤🧡
@user-mu2zo5ur9t 2 ай бұрын
mahalo ke akua
@traditionalnative 2 ай бұрын
This is so helpful, mahalo Auntie 😊
@youfindingyou 2 ай бұрын
a'ole pilikia. 🧡💛💚
@goinblinddoggone 2 ай бұрын
Vision and hearing. When I hear an unlikely comment from someone close, or from a stranger occasionally, my ears prick up and my vision becomes more acute. Agree with you strongly that the gut and heart are major signallers of inner knowing (that too often are ignored by us).
@youfindingyou 2 ай бұрын
oh yes, I love that, those times when the synchronicity is just right for what is needed for the insight/intuition. Like with hearing lyrics of a song suddenly too.
@lindascott2505 2 ай бұрын
Thank you for your wonderful insights on this very important topic. XOXO
@youfindingyou 2 ай бұрын
You're welcome, ya to often I've let those conditioning/expectations make my decisions, and I don't want that to be my way of living but rather listening to what is right in me.
@shallowwatersoriginal 2 ай бұрын
Understanding our vibe is ok but I can't deal with people who have closed their eyes and judging people with their subconscious... Too Passive and irresponsible to me
@youfindingyou 2 ай бұрын
ya, I'm the same, I think I'm becoming more aware these days of those that are closed off, and now feel a sympathy for them, as they're missing a side that to me I'm fully embracing in myself and loving in myself.
@shallowwatersoriginal 2 ай бұрын
@@youfindingyou ♥️
@mrsk7777 2 ай бұрын
Hi
@shallowwatersoriginal 2 ай бұрын
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@chchwoman9960 2 ай бұрын
As a self saboteur I have found that 'if it ain't broke don't fix it' is the only decision making technique that I can trust myself with. I go for simplicity and avoid adventure or it just might be that little monster again, that is out to take everything from me. I have stopped giving myself the chance to mess things up. I'm no spring chicken, it has taken me decades to learn this lesson
@youfindingyou 2 ай бұрын
I hear ya. I have many things come up when I have to go someplace new or different, and it's usually around my fear of messing up and looking stupid or wrong. I've started to see that its only my own thoughts that are making me "wrong", and while yes others might turn up their nose at me, like you're wrong, or make a comment, the true owns that are genuine in my life would be kind and respectful to me about it, and those are the ones I want in my life. ❤🧡💛
@beautifulsoul3113 2 ай бұрын
Hello
@lisamagon2535 2 ай бұрын
Hello, thank you for these videos and sharing your experiences. Turning all my attention inward has been the single best way I’ve finally started to heal and repair my relationship with myself and started to grow up, essentially 😂❤. I’ve only just discovered you and your content and I’m so grateful. Have a blessed day.
@youfindingyou 2 ай бұрын
thank you, and I hear ya. For me too, turning inward really has been a life changer on every level for me. ❤🧡💙
@shallowwatersoriginal 2 ай бұрын
I get lots of feelings ...deep ones. I appreciate that you mentioned our choice and agency in the process. This is very healing ofc
@shallowwatersoriginal 2 ай бұрын
Problem is we get into passive mode when facing stress and injustice and all of a sudden its the stress that's rulling our body...uh. thanks I am binge watching you
@youfindingyou 2 ай бұрын
sending lots of high vibes and good energy your way 🧡
@shallowwatersoriginal 2 ай бұрын
@@youfindingyou Thanks for your presence.
@shallowwatersoriginal 2 ай бұрын
Im middle easterner so unfortunately can't use your programme. Wish I could. Hope I can use your guidance and tips on your channel. Id also be happy if you ever mentioned any books or free sources for self learn. ❤
@youfindingyou 2 ай бұрын
I hope my words also give some sense of you're not in this alone. As for books, I'm not sure, I've followed many of my own curiosities, like somatics (mind-body connection), energy healing, but recently a huge help has been with forest bathing (mindfulness in nature), I was surprised how supportive nature is.
@dontatme7 2 ай бұрын
The truly tough part is if you live in a toxic environment but truly have no other places to move and live, whether that be financial limitations or lack of housing supply
@youfindingyou 2 ай бұрын
I hear ya, it's rough being in that situation. I recently was around some negative people and ended up getting sick after, it's like how can I maintain my vibe and joy, while in that. I think for me, I'm definitely from time to time gonna need to be very conscious of what I can do, which is set up boundaries for myself, and clear energies after. Sending high vibes your way, and grounding support
@dontatme7 2 ай бұрын
Many energy vampires attack when they are feeling low and notice that you are in a positive mood, they come to absorb it out of you and leave you with their sadness
@youfindingyou 2 ай бұрын
Ya I think often I would have looked at it as an attack too, but now I see that they are in low vibes and crave, or desperately need to feel better, and they don't know how to get that, so if you've got it, they'll take it. I'm looking deeper in myself too to seeing how I can set up boundaries to not just allow it being taken from me, that's of course, easier said than do though.
@mindlessmindwatch7807 2 ай бұрын
Many thanks for your vid. I have learned from it
@youfindingyou 2 ай бұрын
I love that, you are welcome, and thank you.
@shallowwatersoriginal 2 ай бұрын
This is a real problem...I changed my major to a very extrovert one and felt my left side of brain exploding since day one. Especially people can be very ambiguous and challenging when they are actively approaching you than when you watch them from a far. We need very systematic approaches when working in a active environment
@youfindingyou 2 ай бұрын
ooof, that's tough when you're in a place where extroverts are encouraged and thrive. For some reason this is making me think of how, I think I always felt underestimated as well because I didn't speak up like others around me, but instead it was kind of a quiet power I had, like I knew way more than what others thought.
@shallowwatersoriginal 2 ай бұрын
@@youfindingyou sure. I keep thinking about Narcissists and evil in this world. How they might be only a contingency or a way of survival but they make you leave your comfort zone...they make you see how your good deeds are against you so this might trap you in a victim mentality for a while. In a sense I keep doubting if I should be stronger than this or just leave this tricky world to live on my own... Thanks for your response tho. I feel acknowledged. Wish you the best
@youfindingyou 2 ай бұрын
@@shallowwatersoriginal I hear ya. I've become quite independent for a while, and it helped me find myself, but I also started to find a community that saw me for me. Sending lots of high vibes and support your way.
@a.wilcox5690 2 ай бұрын
I can relate to some parts of your story. After 32 years of marriage to an alcoholic/addict/covert narcissist, I had enough. I was shattered. But I Picked up the pieces of my old self and rebuilt my life. I discovered self-worth & self-love. Been healing from the trauma of that relationship. Feel contented and joyful much of the time. I don’t need a relationship if it will cause me harm.
@youfindingyou 2 ай бұрын
Yes, I hear ya. I look back at that time and know that I will never go back into something like that. But more because I stepped into my self worth and love, like you. And wow, a much better place to be living in now, isn't it ;)