Because the only thing EQ dose is messure IQ and Agreeableness. And everyone wants to date a smart person. The Agreeableness just gets tacked on because it's unpopular to talk about IQ. In a way, it's rather cruel. IQ can be worked on, but not nearly to the degree people want to believe it can. So, really, you're just trying to trick stupid people into believing it's all a personal failing on their part.
@ektamore91607 сағат бұрын
All rejected people here are guys. no one talks about a girl getting rejected. Lesser known but true. Are the coping up strategies different for girls? Especially being in the same group, where none of both the parties can leave the friend's group just to not be with each other?
@VNBSlash9 сағат бұрын
Hi Josh hope your doing well. I'm running options at 36 years old. I've asked the few ladies I know from friends who are single on dates with zero luck...They like my sense if humor and I know I'm not a bad looking guy but still I get rejected. I'm in a small town with under 60,000 people in it and can't live out of the area due to taking care of a love one. I work full time but unfortunately with guys or married women. I do have my own place but have to stay here (Plus its cheap where I live at and I like it) but just about every girl is taken. Online dating isn't working and all my hobbies most if the women I meet are married or single with 3+ kids. I know it's a challenging question but think you'd be the first person to ask! Thanks again and again thanks for the great content.
@johnkarl892117 сағат бұрын
Reading through the comments it's sad how many people feel they're not liked or don't fit in. In my opinion times have radically changed! The rise of social media and the celebrity culture has created competition, comparing yourself with everyone else, looking for phony likes. There's so many shallow, narcissistic types that not fitting in might be a blessing! Think of the many great so called misfits who've changed history, even Jesus was rejected, he wasn't like either, in a brutal way too. Embrace your individuality, if you're a decent person it's not surprising you may feel an outsider. Enjoy the peace .❤
@johnkarl892117 сағат бұрын
I've been a people pleaser most of my life. Mr. Nice Guy. It sucks ! you mostly attract users and narcissists, end up being disrespected , devalued and discarded, if not physically, at least emotionally. Others can find your pleasing nature false or too intense. I admit the pleasing is only seeking validation to replace a lack of self-worth at core. If you're seeking approval, you're not being authentic. Of course, when you start being authentic, that can drive people away, especially the narcissists. At least you can count on being true to yourself, instead of stressing over being liked. The right one will come towards what vibes your true self gives out. The rest don't count anyway. ❤
@sergioncful18 сағат бұрын
Body count matter , man value purity and loyalty
@TheJoshSpeaks16 сағат бұрын
Loyalty has nothing to do with body count. Having past sexual partners has nothing to do with your present relationship. I'm curious, why is purity important to you? And do you hold yourself to the same pure standard?
@JoBroIsGod20 сағат бұрын
My mum said when I’m 18
@LaylaRuiz-aКүн бұрын
I know why my parents have been arguing… 3 days ago my mom was drunk and said that my dad was cheating on her because my dad was apparently talking to another girl innaporiate and they have been arguing ever since. I don’t know if my dad was actually talking innaporiately to another girl or if my mom is just jealous and overreacting… And my dad has threatened to break my mom’s phone… I don’t like them arguing… I just want them to stop… But I know my parents won’t divorce because my mom doesn’t have a job and my dad does so if my mom broke up with him then she wouldn’t have anything left… and my mom kept annoying my dad ever since and that’s how the arguing between them kept going. Like chill mom let my dad be in peace. And my mom has called my dad all kinds of insults like a “dumb@ss” and a “cheater”.. I just feel bad for my parents.. I don’t like them arguing.. So Thank you for the advice, I’ll try talking to them individually tomorrow if I’m not shy and scared
@HatLat-u5sКүн бұрын
About half a year ago, a broke my TV while cleaning and after telling my mom, she FLIPPED out, and immediately told my dad. Now, a couple days ago, before thanksgiving break started, I broke my laptop screen after throwing my phone which I thought would land in my chair, it hit my 1000 dollar laptop screen and cracked the middle of it. It’s moderately big, and I can still use it to an extent. I’m just extremely scared that they will be mad especially since they were going to get me a monitor for Christmas. Im wondering if anyone knows what I should do?
@crappynappy607Күн бұрын
going to a new school in 9 days i’m terrified
@TheJoshSpeaksКүн бұрын
Going to a new school can be terrifying, but check out the playlist I have with videos on making new friends at school!
@AlinaLavinia19832 күн бұрын
The real advice that really works is to get rich and have connections in the elite and then the celebrity will come to you. Everything else is bla bla bla let's create content.
@TheJoshSpeaksКүн бұрын
That's true, being in the same orbit as a celebrity will help you get closer to celebrities. I think its important to realize that for 99.9% of people that won't be a realistic option so the alternative is most likely easier.
@AlinaLavinia1983Күн бұрын
@TheJoshSpeaks Yes, it is true. This is where the disparities between social classes and the privileged status of elites comes in, and we as lower class people have no human right to romantically or sexually aspire to these people - homo sapiens just like us, because we will be considered/labeled as crazy , mentally and emotionally unstable, ostracized by our well-programmed peers, criminalized and marginalized so the disparity can continue for generations to come, and we're okay with it. People like you need to remind us to bow our heads and keep it that way and find "happiness" in the crumbs the system gives us.🖤
@Francisco-t1y2q2 күн бұрын
bet
@EYESACKPRODUCTIONS-xy6qv2 күн бұрын
What if she isn’t in your class 😬😬😬
@MizaRivera-w9c2 күн бұрын
I’m in 5th grade and in New York City and I’m moving to somewhere else thanks this helps
@TheJoshSpeaksКүн бұрын
Happy it was helpful
@Matthewmest2 күн бұрын
I'm 26 years old male. I know this can be immature for my age but I introduced this friend of mine to my friend group and he started a relationship with a girl in this friend group. Since then the whole group and the couple hang out together. Since then they don't invite me anymore. Even to their birthdays. They don't even hide it. They speak to me through group chats etc but that's it. I feel betrayed. I feel ashamed because it feel immature but this is not fair.
@muhammadsafana2 күн бұрын
i have to improve my grades or when i am 18
@steveobaby60482 күн бұрын
Josh I'm in a new relationship now and I told my ex-girlfriend and she has a new boyfriend sometimes I don't feel like talking to my ex that much when she texts me and asked can she call me and I tell her not today she gets angry with me how do you think I should handle it in a situation like this
@TheJoshSpeaksКүн бұрын
It's important to have boundaries with people. If she can't respect those boundaries then it might be helpful to let her know that that might mean not talking to her at all.
@steveobaby6048Күн бұрын
@TheJoshSpeaks even when I tell her to stop calling me Josh she doesn't listen and besides I even see her every Saturday at the bowling alley and when I come home and take a nap she calls me even though I already saw her
@TheJoshSpeaksКүн бұрын
@steveobaby6048 i think you need to make it clear to her what that boundary is. If you are ok with only talking to her at the bowling alley then you might need to communicate that. If she keeps calling then you might need to let her know that you'll have to block her phone number.
@jaylencousin2 күн бұрын
Not sure if I'm in the right mind to have another crush Because of all the other ones that have broke my heart . Or maybe I did something I don't know
@TheJoshSpeaksКүн бұрын
Attraction is not a choice. It's totally fine to develop new crushes when you meet new people.
@haekeljohnson38202 күн бұрын
Is it a better idea to develop some bond with a girl and then confessing your love, or the vice versa?
@TheJoshSpeaksКүн бұрын
I would say it's always better to develop a bond first and then have that lead into asking her out. I don't think you should ever confess your feelings to a girl because that is like flipping a coin, she is either into you or she's not. By gradually getting close and asking her out, you are warming her up to you so when you ask her out, she may feel the same way back.
@andytchuisseu2 күн бұрын
I have a new crush, and this advice is goanna be useful thank you
@TheJoshSpeaksКүн бұрын
Awesome, im happy it's going to come in handy
@RiceFilms-242 күн бұрын
this is helping me thanks bro
@TheJoshSpeaksКүн бұрын
Happy to help
@Akaggmu3 күн бұрын
If you get rejected in 2024 share your story
@Myexistencewasamistake3 күн бұрын
How to stop fighting with bro and sister
@EbenezerCajelo3 күн бұрын
yes i curse a lot yes
@kushalvashistha503 күн бұрын
No one wants used item😂😂😂😂😂
@TheJoshSpeaksКүн бұрын
People aren't items. We have all kinds of relationships in our lives, some sexual and some simply based on romantic attraction. Would you say a person who has kissed someone else before is used? How about having held someone's else's hand? How about having been in love before?
@Mitixity3 күн бұрын
I can't do shit because of my parents
@ichigooh94233 күн бұрын
I have an idea. Asked the gay person to go away and stop
@rc24874 күн бұрын
If she doesn’t reply to your text message, give her silence. This will occupy her thoughts and determine if she was even interested in you. You probably are not a priority and she’s probably getting attention from multiple men. Learn to control your sexual urges and it will help you not to care about her. Girls are attracted to guys that don’t care about them.
@rc24874 күн бұрын
Yeah this one girl only communicates with me through emojis. I had already told her that I am not desperate for her scraps of attention. I don’t give girls my non sexual attention or validation in order to inflate her ego, especially when she is doing the same thing to multiple men. She is being misleading. These guys think that she likes them and plays it off like they are just friends after giving them false hope. I’m now going to stop texting her and reply a few days later. Atleast I can occupy her thoughts by making her think about me, since I’m not there. Give these girls uncertainty. It becomes emotionally draining dealing with girls childish games, especially when they don’t bring value to the relationship. I had told her that if she isn’t going to put in the effort to send me an actual message, I am not going to try and fit into her busy schedule.
@tylergnosis25814 күн бұрын
Wow. This is the simp handbook
@TheJoshSpeaksКүн бұрын
How so?
@NguyenNgocTuongVy29104 күн бұрын
I’m a girl and I absolutely agree with what you said
@lindamagagula74764 күн бұрын
My celebrity Crushes were Florence Pugh, Mika Abdalla (I have found out that she is currently have a Actor Boyfriend Jake Short from Ant Farm. I totally respect that. So I keep it under control. I'm a huge fan of her acting work instead ❤❤❤),
@eddieanthony68864 күн бұрын
It's your life not your parents life.
@ShivaniSingh-be1ig4 күн бұрын
I'm really feeling very low now..after reading the comments i realised I'm not the only one feeling that way..i usually don't put comments on the videos but this time i wanted to speak my heart out..i just want to go home anyway and hug my parents😢 . It had been 3 years since i live away from my family but still i feel homesick whenever i come back from home...
@ivanexell-uz4mv5 күн бұрын
For me I think it’s good because we’ve only known eachother for a month 😂
@OrangeVR8595 күн бұрын
i've been friends with my crush for a while now, i even got her number. and i stupidly told my friend that i liked her, and he told her. i'm now very stressed when talking to her. we still talk a lot though
@jackqueslack23395 күн бұрын
Thanks for this, I’ve been feeling like I’ve missed out on teenage love bc I’m 17 so this may help a lot
@Freks4676 күн бұрын
Me and my girlfriend are always awkward around each other and we only see each other at school and don't get any alone time together and she's always shy 😢😢
@PilotSibi-hi2qu6 күн бұрын
its my first time to prom so
@Adrian-s8p8e6 күн бұрын
Nah
@Adrian-s8p8e6 күн бұрын
What if we go to different schools 😑😑
@TTube20136 күн бұрын
She’s the popular girl and talks to my friends (that are boys) a lot
@akashrastogi83986 күн бұрын
Nice ✨
@TheJoshSpeaksКүн бұрын
Thanks 🔥
@johnstip6 күн бұрын
Amazing words, thanks Josh!
@TheJoshSpeaksКүн бұрын
Glad you liked it!
@LeviDC13-oh6gi6 күн бұрын
Thank you so much😊
@TheJoshSpeaksКүн бұрын
You're welcome 😊
@EzmuratNizamidin7 күн бұрын
Don’t listen to this nerd
@DANIELLE_BREANNA_LACY7 күн бұрын
Ever find a celebrity, actor or whatever other kind of TV person who looks like you too? I know this may seem off topic, but you look a lot like the actor who portrayed Jack Phillips in James Cameron’s Titanic.
@MehePlayz4727 күн бұрын
anyone got any advice i have crush on a girl and she got a crush on me but its hard to talk to her cause shes always with her friends
@king-gv3bk7 күн бұрын
Im not sure this will work for me... Im a bit on the heavier side, and most guys think im unatractive...
@TheJoshSpeaksКүн бұрын
Don't sell yourself short, sometimes we give up before we've even tried. You bring something unique to the table! Put your confidence on display and see how it goes.
@knowthywalk89087 күн бұрын
This is some beta male cuck type channel. The word of God confemns promiscuity. I trust God over some beta male youtuber