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@youtuber3328 8 сағат бұрын
thanks for the information
@pauljensen4773 15 сағат бұрын
Say what you mean and do what you say.
@GetByMakeItWithAlice 12 сағат бұрын
Absolutely
@fuzzypanda1684 Күн бұрын
This is all incredibly basic stuff.
@GetByMakeItWithAlice Күн бұрын
@@fuzzypanda1684 things we often forget.
@triomphe19 Күн бұрын
Well done! Keep them coming and keep the good work! Congrats!! Thanks Alice 🤓 ✌
@henrycatinella1748 Күн бұрын
That was good
@oonojoe Күн бұрын
I'd give You 6 minutes honey.
@rockybalboap7763 2 күн бұрын
i said exactly what you said too say and she slapped me ????
@GetByMakeItWithAlice Күн бұрын
@@rockybalboap7763 oh, no.
@robertfindley921 2 күн бұрын
"Why Being Polite Hurts You" has the most obvious answer possible. Americans love a bully. They respect a bully. People are selfish, and unless they are intimidated, they won't give things up even if they are deserved. Nice people get walked all over every time. By women and by men. They end up the dumpster for bad work project. A nice man will be repeatedly Friend Zoned. Women want a man who can protect them, and nice won't do it.
@GetByMakeItWithAlice Күн бұрын
Sometimes the obvious is not so obvious. Bullies just suck.
@naturaldeterrent 2 күн бұрын
If you are trying to get someone to like you, you’re violating the law of attraction.
@funki4896 3 күн бұрын
The video is only 3:50 Ironic.
@GetByMakeItWithAlice 3 күн бұрын
@@funki4896 thanks for that . I had it 6 and we cut it and I left the title
@GetByMakeItWithAlice 3 күн бұрын
@@funki4896 more value in less time
@GetByMakeItWithAlice 2 күн бұрын
I’m going to try to keep the videos short !
@therealbaglady 3 күн бұрын
People can say "no" and maintain their politeness. Not being able to say "no" is weakness, not really something to do with being polite or rude. There are people who are weak and cannot say "no" and yet vent out anger behind people's back for their own weakness. No one else to blame. Be brave, say "no" while being straightforward and polite.
@GetByMakeItWithAlice 3 күн бұрын
@@therealbaglady good point. Great insight.
@AugustMoser 4 күн бұрын
Alice yes you are a beautiful young lady. No. 2 I like the pace and the way you speak. No. 3 Your husband must be a very happy man. No. 4 Thank you for such a good cheerful video. No. 5 Sometimes I could talk with strangers for hours without any problem at all; if they are sociable I am sociable; if they are or want to share some good news I am likewise the same. No. 6 Thanks for your uplifting video again. Amen.
@GetByMakeItWithAlice 3 күн бұрын
@@AugustMoser thank you. My boyfriend is a kind man. I think it really comes down to humility and communications along with mutual respect to make anything work.
@SickAntired-t7g 4 күн бұрын
People will like you if you don’t care if they like you. When you simp, pander, and grovel for someone’s affection, you will be neither respected nor liked.
@GetByMakeItWithAlice 4 күн бұрын
Great insight !
@pauljensen4773 2 күн бұрын
But but please like me. I beg you please. I need your love. I'm such a pathetic looser. You are the only one who can save me from a lonely life. 😀
@HeinzSmith-zx5ku 5 күн бұрын
I would love to be your friend.
@user-om3vg2uk7v 5 күн бұрын
Alice, I needed just a few seconds to understand your expertise: your videos are made by knowledgeable person - YOU, short, clear up to the point and that's how it should be (I studied the Presentations)
@GetByMakeItWithAlice 5 күн бұрын
Glad it was helpful! I’m a self taught journalist and ex-startup founder. I presented at dozens of conferences around the world on the adoption of blockchain technologies. I’m a startup adviser and writer, mostly working on ghostwriting projects. What type of presentations did you study ?
@user-om3vg2uk7v 4 күн бұрын
@@GetByMakeItWithAlice I've been managing Large North American Automotive Manufacturing Companies; consequently, had to take presentation education under Toyota Production System - Lean Manufacturing. I have to reiterate, I'm impressed by you. Keep up a great work.
@HeinzSmith-zx5ku 5 күн бұрын
I just want you to know I like your hair, eyes and your look. If you had one thing you always wanted to would you do it? What is the best advice you ever got?? Have a wicked awesome day pretty lady!!
@GetByMakeItWithAlice 5 күн бұрын
@@HeinzSmith-zx5ku thank you! The best I ever got was “treat others how they want to be treated - the platinum rule” I always wanted to help people and have a creative life . That’s what I’m doing now . I want to continue to learn and grow , and serve.
@HeinzSmith-zx5ku 5 күн бұрын
@GetByMakeItWithAlice same here treat people kindness. I'm on second part of my life I don't have time to waste on angry people.
@HeinzSmith-zx5ku 5 күн бұрын
When I see something I say something, like you are pretty! What is the harm in that? Nothing it will make you feel great!
@GetByMakeItWithAlice 5 күн бұрын
@@HeinzSmith-zx5ku I accept your compliment . No harm in compliments:) paying someone a compliment will brighten their day even during the darkest hour.
@HeinzSmith-zx5ku 5 күн бұрын
@@GetByMakeItWithAlice have a great day!
@sauron73 5 күн бұрын
What if you don't want to be liked by anyone? Can you use the reverse to make happen?
@GetByMakeItWithAlice 5 күн бұрын
@@sauron73 good questions . Let me think about that .
@sauron73 5 күн бұрын
@GetByMakeItWithAlice I suggest all people reading the comment to not try to do it. It's only for knowledge.
@spiritbuffalo 5 күн бұрын
may i just say how beautiful you are?
@dasimmyr9840 5 күн бұрын
❤🎉🎉🎉😊
@nabihassan7576 5 күн бұрын
Well put together and quality content, Thanks!
@GetByMakeItWithAlice 5 күн бұрын
@@nabihassan7576 what resonated with you, Nabil?
@Trevorbailey-i7s 6 күн бұрын
Dont gaslight people just because you might hurt someones feelings. If they have hurt feelings then they need to get a thicker skin . To much wokeness these days. Too many hormones being influenced by microwaved plastics antibiotics and mrnas being pumped into meat and pesticides on ya fruit n ved and washing does not get them off once theyve leeched into the food. Just be honest is the best way even if u offend someone. And if u dont want to offend then never go out again
@GetByMakeItWithAlice 6 күн бұрын
Thank you for your wonderful insights, Trevor. Honesty is indeed important, but there’s a difference between being honest and being intentionally hurtful. Respecting others’ feelings doesn’t mean avoiding honesty but delivering it with kindness and consideration. While people do need resilience, empathy can go a long way in fostering healthier communication and relationships. It’s not about "wokeness"-it’s about being mindful of how our words affect others, while staying true to ourselves.
@Lewis_The_Motivator_Dabangg 6 күн бұрын
Fellas,it's not yours,it's just your turn kzbin.info-vHE9hmSh04?si=Y0MLg1ZXFp-3yXEF
@oonojoe 6 күн бұрын
Show me where you got hit with the ruler honey so I can kiss that for you!
@kanereall 6 күн бұрын
Great video. My relationship of five years ended a month ago when the love of my life decided to move on. I loved her deeply, and I can't stop thinking about her and the memories we created together. I've done everything I can to try to bring her back, but nothing has worked. I'm feeling frustrated and can't imagine my life with anyone else. I've tried to push the thoughts away, but they keep coming back. I’m not sure why I'm sharing this here, but I really miss her and wish I could have her back.
@EricScofield22 6 күн бұрын
I've been in a similar situation. My relationship ended about three years ago, but I couldn't let her go. I did everything I could to win her back, including seeking the help of a spiritual advisor who guided me in bringing her back into my life. We're together again now, and I can honestly say I'm enjoying every moment.
@kanereall 6 күн бұрын
That's amazing! How did you find a spiritual counselor, and how can I get in touch with one?
@EricScofield22 6 күн бұрын
Her name is Maurice Gleti, and she is an exceptional spiritual counselor with the ability to help reunite you with your ex.
@kanereall 6 күн бұрын
Thank you for sharing this valuable information. I just looked her up online impressive!
@oonojoe 6 күн бұрын
It happens every day. Be grateful for the time you had and realize that you don't get to make decisions for the other person.
@ValentynaDemyan-y5l 6 күн бұрын
1. Admiration for Knowledge and Skills: People often appreciate someone for their expertise, intelligence, or talents. In your case, someone might admire your knowledge or ability to engage in meaningful conversations. 2. Emotional Connection: People tend to like those they can relate to emotionally. If you are empathetic, supportive, or share personal experiences that resonate with others, this can create a strong bond. 3. Shared Interests or Values: Common interests, hobbies, or life philosophies can bring people closer together. When you share similar passions, it can lead to natural friendships or admiration.
@GetByMakeItWithAlice 6 күн бұрын
Thank you for sharing these insights! It’s so true that admiration and connections are often rooted in these qualities. I appreciate the reminder that being knowledgeable, empathetic, and sharing common values can make such a difference in how we connect with others. It’s encouraging to think about building relationships based on meaningful conversations and emotional bonds. Definitely something I’ll keep in mind-thank you for this perspective!
@markgraham2312 7 күн бұрын
What do you do if the person is aggressively hostile? For example, they grab your throat with their hand and insult you calling you a pimple-faced loser and freak? What do you do then?
@GetByMakeItWithAlice 5 күн бұрын
It depends if this was a first time offence or a multiple offence. Did you know the person ? Can you provide more context, Mark?
@pauljensen4773 2 күн бұрын
Make out a police report and also get a restraining order.
@markgraham2312 2 күн бұрын
@@pauljensen4773 I wish I had your advise back then. Thx.
@davidhdez-gil1857 7 күн бұрын
This behavior is characteristic of kind-hearted individuals. Those who regularly apply these tips are likely to become considerate and pleasant people. Great video Alice, you'll go far with these videos. Thanks for sharing.
@GetByMakeItWithAlice 6 күн бұрын
Thank you for your kind words, David. I have many wonderful guides, and to do great things, we must never walk alone.
@SaveTheMessenger 5 күн бұрын
It’s true-kindness and consideration always leave a lasting impact.
@GetByMakeItWithAlice 5 күн бұрын
@ I believe that 1000%
@tonydenney9003 7 күн бұрын
glad you decided to have a you tube channel. i see more now how your environment can enhace your opportunities for learning about people in general but especially when it comes to social skills. being from the south where we talk slower and in most places less populated has had an effect on my social progression and thanks to people like you i can have the best of both worlds
@GetByMakeItWithAlice 7 күн бұрын
Tony, I have many friends in the South. They talk slower and are well well-mannered. It's so nice to learn from one another. It opens up our world and widens our perspective.
@GetByMakeItWithAlice 7 күн бұрын
Do you find small talk challenging? Check out this video to learn how to make small talk feel effortless and natural!
@nikkydutta5123 7 күн бұрын
😊
@tonydenney9003 8 күн бұрын
i appreciate how you deliver youre information. i am a n introvert altough i feel ive been decent with small talk and always looking for ways to improve. I do want to learn more about how to be above average in communiction skills so im looking forward to learnig aboutsome of youre other videos
@GetByMakeItWithAlice 8 күн бұрын
@@tonydenney9003 thank you , Tony. My brother is an introvert. So I think about how he communicates. He hates small talk . I’m an extrovert and hate it too as I feel it’s so impersonal . I challenged myself with this video to try to find value in small talk.
@xav9156 8 күн бұрын
I just discover your channel. I really enjoy the content and your style. You are absolutely lovely Alice. Best Xav
@GetByMakeItWithAlice 7 күн бұрын
Thanks Xav, what resonated with you ?
@xav9156 6 күн бұрын
@@GetByMakeItWithAlice. Thanks for the response. i think most people find that I am very distant, snob, aloof, standoffish...Perhaps I should make efforts. I don't connect with people very well...X
@GetByMakeItWithAlice 6 күн бұрын
@@xav9156 Hi there! The question often is, "Why don’t I connect with people well?" This leads to introspection-and maybe you’ll notice a pattern. Just a thought! Awareness is key to understanding our actions. :)
@jimk1970 8 күн бұрын
Nice video. Thanks.
@PH-VG 8 күн бұрын
ok when you share advice like this your channel will grow well.
@RionKhondokar 8 күн бұрын
Hey, your video is amazing! But I feel the thumbnail and editing could use a little more polish to match the quality of your content. Improving them would make your videos even more engaging. Keep up the great work!❤
@GetByMakeItWithAlice 8 күн бұрын
What polish do you recommend ?
@RionKhondokar 8 күн бұрын
@@GetByMakeItWithAlice As a regular viewer and subscriber I would recommend video editing and improving thumbnail design.
@GetByMakeItWithAlice 8 күн бұрын
@@RionKhondokar feel free to send me a sample of how you would improve this thumbnail to [email protected]
@redpanther9380 8 күн бұрын
Great now you will be in friend zone just like me 😂
@pauljensen4773 2 күн бұрын
🤣
@djs12007 8 күн бұрын
But what if one is not used to compliments? Anytime I receive a compliment, I automatically start thinking, "Uh oh, here comes the catch". 🙂
@GetByMakeItWithAlice 8 күн бұрын
@@djs12007 that’s so great that you observed it. I sometimes feel the same … like “why is this person saying it, what does she or he want?” But honestly … sometimes people are inspired by what you say or do or behave and they want to say “that’s cool… that’s awesome… thanks for bringing this to my life.” And they genuinely want to thank you . So, let them !
@AnaLeiman 8 күн бұрын
I agree with all of those! I use them pretty much always! And can tell you that it definitely works :) literally just used all 5 with a person I have just met!
@GetByMakeItWithAlice 8 күн бұрын
@@AnaLeiman great timing! Some things in life are a lot simpler than we think .
@coach-piotr 9 күн бұрын
My live experience and observation suggest that rule 1 is not true. If someone lean towards us and we will end up mirroring that person, then more often than not we create very close distance between our heads. And that will lead to other person leaning back in response. That's the reality. Also ad 2) I do not believe that most MALE humans would share experience that you (as a female) may have in that area. Most man would be considered "creepy" by simply being kind and showing appreciation. Or by giving other people complements. thats again brutal reality
@dimex3362 8 күн бұрын
Rule 1 is totally true. It’s what I do and it works. If they move away from you that’s a response that you need to take into consideration.
@GetByMakeItWithAlice 8 күн бұрын
@@coach-piotr great insights. Thank you for sharing !
@GetByMakeItWithAlice 8 күн бұрын
@@dimex3362 absolutely . Thank you for your input.
@sansabh 8 күн бұрын
It's become that way - males are creepy!
@zuhairreza 9 күн бұрын
*Compliment (praise, appreciation), since "complement" is something that goes along with something else and fits it... otherwise, enjoying the video!
@GetByMakeItWithAlice 9 күн бұрын
@@zuhairreza I love both words ! Glad you are enjoying it.
@rohitFreakincena 9 күн бұрын
👍
@Mymobileyt 9 күн бұрын
Such next-level info here. And this relates to so many areas too. You can pull from this for help in job interviews, meeting in-laws or making new friends/coworkers. It really is universal.
@GetByMakeItWithAlice 9 күн бұрын
@@Mymobileyt thank you, Stanley . I totally agree with you!
@JamesGolder 9 күн бұрын
this is great thank u :)
@GetByMakeItWithAlice 9 күн бұрын
Glad you like it, James
@GetByMakeItWithAlice 9 күн бұрын
Check out the Small Talk Manual📘❓💡 , complete with questions and answers 👉drive.google.com/file/d/1IWrMbya0ATyd9nV5CS7iPvFvXVjUTDoE/view?usp=drive_link
@lizardman6515 24 күн бұрын
I started a particular master's program and dropped out after a semester for various reasons. When you asked the question about discussing experience in interview settings, I thought about this experience of mine and how I might discuss it in future interviews if it comes up. It's good food for thought! Thank you. I enjoyed this video ❤️😊 it sounds like you're a jack of all trades!
@GetByMakeItWithAlice 24 күн бұрын
Every experience is empowering as it teaches us a lesson. Every setback is fuel . Thank you for sharing . Bless your heart.
@lizardman6515 23 күн бұрын
@GetByMakeItWithAlice that means so much to me. You have no idea. I will sit with these words for a while and treasure them. Bless your wonderful heart too. I am happy that you are sharing your light with the world. It seems like you've worked very, very hard and consistently to nurture your remarkable mindset.
@lizardman6515 29 күн бұрын
Been loving each of your vids! I always listen when they come out. They really calm me down and get me out of my head a bit.
@GetByMakeItWithAlice 29 күн бұрын
I am glad they help you. I try to see what is around me, observe, reflect, and post. What should I mention next?
@lizardman6515 29 күн бұрын
@@GetByMakeItWithAlice I can sense that you make an effort to be mindful and practice critical thinking - such crucial skills right now! And well, to be brutally honest, a concern I've had on my mind recently is the number of people who are withdrawing from society because they don't feel they're being rewarded or compensated fairly for the amount of effort they have to put in to make a living and find fulfillment. So they isolate to escape reality. I watched a video recently about this and I felt very seen as someone with a bachelor's degree who is struggling to find the desire and energy to try and make it in the system. That said, I find most meaning in just simple interactions with individual people. This has been my thought process so far. If that brings up anything for you, I'd be interested to hear!
@GetByMakeItWithAlice 28 күн бұрын
@@lizardman6515 I FEEL FOR YOU and for others. It is extremely frustrating to try, and try, and try, and just not feel valued. You may have skills, and efforts, and a support system, but you also need luck. My philosophy is that you have to love your work, or what you do, day to day, despite the outcome...then you never withdraw. So, if you will put all this effort in, then you might as well do what you love.
@lizardman6515 26 күн бұрын
@@GetByMakeItWithAlice this makes a LOT of sense - when you mentioned luck, it reminded me of something I heard. Someone was saying that if you just keep pursuing what's important to you, eventually the right factors will fall into place and things will start working out. It makes a lot of sense to focus on what's enjoyable - when life is already so crazy, may as well, right?? I really agree with that! Thank you for taking the time to respond ❤️ I really appreciate you!!
@GetByMakeItWithAlice 29 күн бұрын
Hi friends! What phrases surprise you?
@GetByMakeItWithAlice 29 күн бұрын
Hi friends, how do you ask people for help?
@GetByMakeItWithAlice 29 күн бұрын
How do you get interested in what the person has to say? I am curious....
@GetByMakeItWithAlice 29 күн бұрын
Hi friends! What soft skills do you highlight?