According to a 2021 survey by Health Testing Centers, about 24% of marriages that have been affected by infidelity continue together. However, some studies say that only 5-7% of couples who have an affair end up getting married, and that over 75% of those marriages end in divorce within five years. So one or two percent of affairs result in long term marriages of the affair partners. So is it worth it to destroy your marriage, your family and yourself for this??? Shows you that APs are operating on emotions and emotions will let you down. But they dont think about this. The bottom line is they dont think. Period

Its scary what she says and this happens an incredible amount every day. The moral of the story is morals. And when you dont have any or have a limited amount this is what can happen. You have to look at yourself in the mirror and ask yourself that question.

Humans experience life through their emotions, it’s how we navigate, connect, and steer away from harm. To expect a person not to feel is turning them into an object.

My husband constantly accuses me of cheating, flirting with men, looking for attention, dressing inappropriately etc. I have never cheated on him and never will. He constantly lies to me. Denies things and reflects things onto me. He says and does things and when I talk to him about it, he gets upset and says he can't remember or it didn't happen in "his reality" maybe it happened in "my reality ". He threatens to take my kids away from me if I leave him. He throws the furniture around when he gets angry, punches walls or grabs, or pushes me around. When my cousin (my best friend) passed away, he got upset about me crying and said he hopes her death isn't going to cause problems in our house. If i mention that now, he says it's in the past. Now that I feel resentment towards him, he's playing the victim. He says he wants "his wife" back...

So 2% of affairs lead to successful marriages? If I'm doing the math right 10% lead to marriage and 20% of the 10% last so 2%?

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hoarding junk so you can't open doors, getting and then maxing out credit cards, not initiating any touch at all, refused sex with me for 15 years a18 years of marriage Refuses any conciliating or marriage courses What should I do? Don't want to end a 33yr marriage..?

Problem solved: only chase your dreams.

My male drive is like an engine pushing me along. I'm working, doing, focusing, planning, building achievimg my goals. Its centred in my loins and chest like fire and energy. Then it overpowers me and disrupts my focus and i want to fight and be aggressive. Why should i feel guilt???? Its part of me. But i do. And for me its not psychological, its hormonal and chemical. I'm an animal and a man.

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Depends on the parent. Some parents will tell you to stay even when you are beaten.

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Men and women who consider physical affairs as "safer" (safer in the sense you will not be abandoned?? Really now?) are delusional to a point. You should pay the same amount of attention to them as to the emotional ones. They are equally dangerous and the more you consider them safer the more the cheater "hears" that it is "OK". Then s/he maybe find someone younger, richer or just more interesting than you and leave you anyway. Oh, and physical affairs can result to stds and unwanted pregnancies.

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Thank you so much for helpful advice!

Once a hooker always a hooker

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I feel like a horrible person, I could barely finish this video without constantly thinking about how I hurt someone who didn’t deserve it at all, I don’t even feel like I have the right to call myself a horrible person for cheating on her because I feel like I’m victimising myself when I’m just a horrible person I would do anything to have her back but she deserves so much better than me

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What I see is over 70% males are not mature and responsible enough to leave any offsprings. They are basically just sperm donors that’s it. I haven’t met one guy who makes me feel they worth to have an egg of mine 😂

Had a woman do this to me short of 6 years together (4 years and 10 months). She picked a fight that she had been doing in the preceding months and just broke up, no warning never tried to work on things just over. I didn't realize it then but she was trying to break up for a while. The kicker she still wanted me to be her quazi. Boyfriend and I foolishly went along with it for a minute thinking we were working things out. Eventually, I told her to get lost, met someone knew and got married. She came back around and had a freak out about me being with someone and harassed me for the next 2 years. This was 25 years ago and to this day she hates my guts because I had the audacity to move on. She never married, never had a relationship that lasted as long as she and I. She never had children. Meanwhile, I have two, great career; and wife doesn't have to work. Daughter graduated college working in her career. Son, finished private high school and graduated with honors and is going off to college. The exes family I run into from time to time to tell me what a mess she is now and how she's never been right since she broke it off with me.

My husband never defends me. The time I was so hurt was when a man whose grandson attended the same school as our daughter walked up to me to confront me because his grandson told a lie. I am 4’11 and weigh 120lbs, this man was 6 ft and over 300lbs. When he came up to me to confront me my husband was next to me, within a few seconds I turned to look for my husband and he was about 15ft away. Left me to fend for myself. That was the day I realized he was and is a coward.

Not a single one of our arguments between my husband and I are resolved. When I mention something that concerns me - behaviour, a lie, what was said that was insulting, etc. it’s always turned around to be a problem I have or caused, etc. and after receiving an onslaught of insults he leaves and I’m left wondering if things will ever be ok. We get along perfectly fine if I don’t ever speak up about what negatively impacts me. It’s just not the way anyone should live. After 20 years, I have my doubts that he’s capable of emotional maturity.

You're so right ✅️

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Y'all what does she do for her skin? It's gorgeous!

1/2 your age plus 7 is the old standard, for men anyway.

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This shouldn’t even be an issue. If a couple haven’t sorted this before marriage and and want the same thing, then they wouldn’t be good parents in a relationship like this. OBVIOUS

You can still be volunteering and be an outstanding citizen while having an affair haha ❤

I'd love to see a video addressing self-deception in the rationalization of affairs.

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Yoo complicated now days to deal with it.

Humans aren’t designed for long term commitment. It’s the elephant in the room. Marriage is a financial contract for women, always has been. This is why this type of relationship is SO common, it’s because THIS is what marriage is, it’s a contract to have her get supported by a man other than her father. This has been custom since ancient history. and if you break that contract (divorce) you have to pay a penalty to her. You feel alone in marriage because no human can deal with sameness forever, we all get bored of our spouse.

So tired of these kids. Where are their parents?

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Anyone ever feel this way and there's nothing wrong in the relationship u just feel like u don't belong with them?

One of the best videos you'll ever watch.

Yes and good info

This is confirming so much for me

I’ve been celibate for almost two years now and I will remain celibate for the remainder of my life.

Meanwhile, all my friends met their wives/gfs on hinge or through mutual friends

U preaching to me

Women cheat more than men

THE BEST THING IS TO STAY SINGLE …🫵🏻 DO NOT HAVE TO DEAL WITH ANYONE THAT IS OPPOSITIONAL AT HOME ….AT WORK I AM SURE YOU CAN HANDLE IT . LIFE IS TOO SHORT TO BE WITH ANYONE THAT BRINGS CHAOS AND CONFLICT .

The last one was kinda cut off 🙁

WHOA. This is right on the money. She creates chaos continuously in our lives, and she keeps going back to someone who stands her up, threatens her, and has repeatedly abandoned her. Love her to pieces but damn. This hits home.