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Thank you for sharing 🙏🏾

I was married to my wife for 25 years she confessed she had an affair with my older brother so I went trough the emotions of depression numbness hate for a few months and eventually got over it then I found out she went and started cheating behind my back with a co worker while I was going three my emotions found out she has narsistic you know they can handle be alone so I kept forgiving her back and forth so I started getting sick oin my mind slowly than I got really mentally I’ll so I try suicidal myself and took like 9 sleeping pills doctor said too take half a pill because I give you nightmares so I took all nine because she went with the other guy now my mind so blank out now that is hard to live make decisions can go to work hard to focus live my life is blank all the time like is hard to describe the feeling is like you feel like a zombie no direction sucks

Can we improve confidence levels by practicing eye contact

I been humiliated because my fk mind run out of word during arguments

I understand how a person gets blank when stress superceeds his /her ability and cognition towards communicating a certian aspect of reality but getting or feeling that the outcome shows blackness can also happen due to lack of the ability to convert information into words and having a mind state which constantly tells you about you problems relating to do something this occupies you and causes a severe lack of the thinking behind actually communicating or doing something all thse problems can occur in a state where a person is very keen towards seeing explaination of anything and to increase his knowledge all these problems can occur if a person does this in a way where it has deviation from norms about the analysis of something I used to feel an extreme inferiority complex mentally and in my past was bullied aswell the bullying might not be much but the thought process i had relating to it coincided with my thought process relating to the inferiority complex to some degree other than that in a way of having my perspective of how others might have a perspective about me I had an inferiority complex and in terms of my perspective about my successes and events in my life the factor of bulliying along with these other factors including me spending most of my time alone because of the way my studies and events in my life were led me to make a personality which I'd call terrorism to some degree I started to apply extreme physical forces onto things and destruct them especially because each moment something was getting physically changed broken or destroyed through my hands and some weopon or tool it gave me the idea and instinctive feeling that it was creating a way to deal with social situations especially bulliying each moment something was being destructed it gave me the feeling of my high ability to resist negativity disrespect from some all this happened to a degree that breaking things became a habitual factor of me and it also resulted in different activities and things that attracted me because felt that those activities including that of breaking make up a very analytical state of a person anyways I thought of some actions that normally people don't do have a deterence to them or simply don't do them beacause they don't feel them as important I felt to do them to give myself the information that I am being superior those actions for e.g adressing a group multiple people for e.g my class in my school once I had a slight negative situation with someone and addressed my entire class that whoever has a problem with me say it to my face then I in a less aggressive way taught them that they shall not be against me the one thing of these actions were that I never thought that I am doing them to feel superior or bold rather I thougt that I am doing them to create an open communication and understanding of important matters with the society rather than being distant from each other the reson I didn't properly think about the superiority thing was because I didn't want any other explanation that comes in my mind in terms of my perception of what someone else would say or my perception of some logic I feel to create any idea that creates problem the idea could be anything for e.g my perception of my recent past like 1_2 minutes ago more or less than that to make me feel that I lack in these actions that I did or want to do so my want of looking superior or bold was just a feeling though strong but not in the areas of thinking or reasoning all these actions resulted in me wanting to do things which have a factor of deterence even if those things are incorrect wrong harmfull and stupid for e.g greeting everyone by saying the phrase all of you when I do it and when I didn't do these actions for a substantial amount of time I used to feel inferior but also used to feel that no I should not bound up my self esteem on such stupidity at the same time I felt that these actions are logically superior as they make a person more open talkative and bold but also felt that if I continue the state of justifying them I will go in a state where either I face negative consequences of being socially awkward or feel negative perception that I should've done them this really ended up in me facing so many problems mentally they became one of the reasons I left school but even then due to feeling a drive towars actions that show a similar resemblencen to those I did in school in terms of me wanting to have ability and be high on being able to handle social situations be confident I continued doing such actions and they potentially could even be conflict inducing after I left school my studies were private and I was in solitude I approached people for hanging out meeting with them but it ended up them saying that they were busy primarily because I might be awkward with them according to how they percieve it and by approaching them I felt it as a similar action to those other 👆 actions I even had to go to a pshycaterist due to these problems relating to my perception of self inferiority then someday due to something which relates to legal matters and accident I wasn't able to perform the destruction I did and the negative thing that happens now is that perhaps previously I had a hobby relating to than destruction which could build be define me but now I cannot do all that so for this reason I feel that I am empty from inside in terms of something being the basis of the framework of my character and putting me in a neutral position rather than feeling in ability to perform normal things which have a social aspect to then all this causes me perceptions of lacking or being very low on un considerable although I love philosophy and analysis but that might never be able to become like a hobby but just an activity I like because analysis has several barriers that can stop it in terms of the persons state of mind but those destructive and force activities can be done in whatever state of explaination and cognition a person is these days sometimes I face a problem with being able to think and feeling the ability of explaination of anything so that is a problem layered by a problem that I cannot even verbally understand how to explain this problem but that might be because recently I have not seen many videos etc relating to analysis and explaination and the reasons for that being that sometimes while watching them I get into a state of not understanding them or understanding them in a mere wordless way

Man wonderful video and a very beautiful email that you just sent today. Merry Christmas man. Eternally grateful.

Merry Christmas Rubin! Your videos are such a positive light in this world and I’m so grateful to have discovered you and your teachings!

Merry Christmas also like the setup 😂 God bless

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Thank you for this God bless

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This video hit home for me, thanks for another great lesson!

Thanks for the helpful video ❤ I know I'm commenting on an older video but just wanted to ask if dissociation can affect your voice and how relaxed you are around others? I experienced a lot of childhood abuse and only at 35 and in Therapy I've realised I've most likely spent a large part of my life being dissociated. I'm a lot more present and aware these days, however I have this consistent thing where if I've spent a while in my head or have recently been triggered as soon as I'm around a friend or people I almost instantly turn tense and my voice gets blocked up, strained or croaky. Then it's like all my attention is on how I'm sounding or presenting myself as if I'm watching myself (not present). Is it a matter of grounding myself before I interact with others or reminding myself I'm safe? It's pretty exhausting and also depleting as naturally I'm a very bubbly, social and happy individual.

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Jesus saves from this black mind 🧡🙏🏾💯I’m saying this from experience

Why are you pretending like you had social anxiety when you had a girlfriend and a job are you joking

I was nervous of the spotlight but now I’m in terror over bears 😂 Seriously though, good insight on my internal struggle

Great advice.

Keep it going man

RUBIN NOT GONNA lie When u pull out word from your mouth i sense the best energy out from their.

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Wish we got trained for this in primary school❤

I swear, this video was 90% explaining that your mind was in the danger zone, and 10% promoting the ad for the academy. Super useless and a genuine waste of my time.

So accurate and on point. I am all 5

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Great video

literally me but its getting better. i participated in a debate today was a little shakey but i said my lines ;)

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I really like your content but I'm disappointed that it's only curated for a male audience. It's a shame because I feel like I can really relate to a lot of what you've shared. 😔

No thanks, I'm not interested in any "e-books"

Even small crowds are overwhelming to me, someone might try to talk to me or touch me and I can't protect myself, I can see everyone watching me, and I just want to be left alone.

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It’s a fun loop when you disassociate in front of other people because you’re socially anxious, and then they look at you like you’re crazy, which makes you more anxious 💀

Wow thank you so much I wasn’t aware of it until now…Thank you for sharing this!!! Good bless you!