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@Lunar_DeBrie 5 күн бұрын
That and there is a certain kind of fixation on special interests that really doesn't feel representative of just calling it an "interest." Interests for autistic (or neurodivergent) people delve so much deeper than interests for neurotypical people. Calling it an "interest" doesn't do it justice.
@jophillipsillustration 8 күн бұрын
Me too! I really like the phrase. ❤
@cyllan08 15 күн бұрын
I’m in a similar place right now. Even thinking about things that brought me joy in the past don’t seem to hold the same appeal and it’s left me feeling a little lost. It’s reassuring to know that I’m not alone.
@carolinehunter5243 21 күн бұрын
Thank you Becca. I found your channel via your Monthly Musings newsletter, and am excited to have more ways to connect with your perspective!
@s.savino8125 21 күн бұрын
We’ll put. If you know you are in a vast ocean, you know it can be beautiful, treacherous, calm, even boring at times with the endless expanse of it, but you can stock your little vessel with a good lantern, a sturdy life jacket, healthy snacks and sugary treats so it won’t be so bad. You can’t change the ocean, but you can equip yourself to handle what comes along. Stay strong! ❤
@BeccaLoryHector 19 күн бұрын
Love this!!
@guhmybearz602 21 күн бұрын
Sending you positive vibes friend❤❤❤❤
@BeccaLoryHector 19 күн бұрын
Thank you
@jophillipsillustration 22 күн бұрын
Great reminders! 😃 I hate the phrase ‘hit the ground running’ this time of year. I can’t just switch back to go go go! It’s a great reminder that is OK to go and my own pace. Got your newsletter this morning. 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 x
@BeccaLoryHector 20 күн бұрын
❤❤❤
@jophillipsillustration 23 күн бұрын
So true!
@jophillipsillustration Ай бұрын
Do you not think a lot of it to do with the peri/menopause? Love the idea of smart working instead 🎉
@BeccaLoryHector 27 күн бұрын
Yes! But what an addition its been lol
@jophillipsillustration 27 күн бұрын
@@BeccaLoryHector the gift that keeps on giving! 😅
@BeyondChronicBurnout Ай бұрын
🎉❤ Becca!
@roseconstable9460 Ай бұрын
I have also observed and pondered the access factor in eating food: I always loved eating carrot sticks, but when in burnout I was amazed to discover that the number of steps involved in turning a carrot into a stick was beyond me. The experience highlighted "simplicity of access" in foods to me and that it really does impact my diet. You've articulated the topic excellently!
@BeccaLoryHector Ай бұрын
Thank you ❤
@WhatHowWhenforWhomWhatpurpose 2 ай бұрын
Would be nice to hear the word in the same video you speak about it? I think your idea might be good for others too. But when I don't get the word - or other words you've used - then I get kind of disappointed. And stop listening. Just wanted to tell you. So you can think about sharing examples of words one can use. Maybe what you chose, and why? Thank You.
@BeccaLoryHector 2 ай бұрын
Stay tuned! First, I share the process, and then I reveal the word. Come join me LIVE on Monday and you won't miss a thing. 😊
@redskirtmedia 2 ай бұрын
I love the F word! Fitting + good for echolalia for sure lol
@BeccaLoryHector 2 ай бұрын
Right? So glad you agree 😊
@raneunhae-idc. 2 ай бұрын
This is so true and relatable
@Birdie284 2 ай бұрын
Thank you.
@jophillipsillustration 3 ай бұрын
Oooh I am with you on that! For sure! Been thinking about that today myself, on reflection, looking at what I want. 🫶🏼
@BeccaLoryHector 2 ай бұрын
❤❤❤❤
@JoshSmith-sr6ks 3 ай бұрын
I can relate to that
@BeccaLoryHector 2 ай бұрын
Glad it resonates
@Birdie284 3 ай бұрын
Thanks Becca 😊
@nancydelapenha8873 4 ай бұрын
Resting isn't too hard for me. I actually usually enjoy it. I've needed more recently. I find dicing and seeing nature very recharging too. In the last several weeks, I've been grateful for the support of family and friends. I've been dealing with health issues. I have a much better support system than I ever thought. Thanks for sharing!
@BeccaLoryHector 2 ай бұрын
YES!!!
@Morgan-pj7er 4 ай бұрын
Great topic! I can totally relate.
@BeccaLoryHector 2 ай бұрын
Thanks!
@nancydelapenha8873 5 ай бұрын
Hi Becca! Glad to see you back on KZbin! Like you were describing, there are many little things, or glimmers, that make me happy. I live in a suburban area, but very near rural areas. I talked a drive almost every morning. I often see dear, wild turkeys, and other birds. This morning, I spent time watching a couple of Downey Woodpeckers working on a tree. I also saw an eagle in flight. Unfortunately, I didn't get good pics. Little joys like that keep me going.
@billcliftontole1813 5 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for this, Becca! Many things you mention serve as valuable reminders for me. Plus, a light bulb went off on the POTS/salty munchies moment. Are we from the same gene pool? Take care and say hey to Antonio! (Listened on delay due to some Sunday routines).
@quirkyturk3y396 Жыл бұрын
yes👍 I like this thought process. Miss u Becca. hope things are going good with u🤗💜
@quirkyturk3y396 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video Becca. Sorry, I'm late to watch as always, but this was a great short with a message i think myself and alot of people need. (People who know why u do these videos and appreciate them) Haters gonna....well, u know, say dumb stuff that lets everyone know their level of intelligence, and apparently how much THEIR life must suck. Love to you Becca, u have helped me a lot and I wish I could do the same. thank u again💙
@jophillipsillustration 2 жыл бұрын
Marie is lovely 😊- great show! ❤ 🎨 ☠️ x
@BeccaLoryHector 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you! Cheers!
@Bpflughaupt 2 жыл бұрын
Marie is a great educator - I am learning from her 😊
@thearticulateautistic 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for having me on your show!
@BeccaLoryHector 2 жыл бұрын
Our pleasure!
@mbain9793 2 жыл бұрын
Hey Becca, wishing you blessings, health and joy for 2023! 🎉🌈
@jophillipsillustration 2 жыл бұрын
I feel that Minecraft could sponge my life. But I get a lot of joy from watching my nephew build and that is satisfying. He is so creative What a lovely lady. She has a heart of gold 💛
@jophillipsillustration 2 жыл бұрын
Love suspense thrillers! Often work out the plot but LOVE an unexpected twist 😮
@suzanneplumley4330 2 жыл бұрын
What about underemployment- that’s what I am working to change. Interviewing anxiety has kept us out of jobs in which we have earned college degrees
@canonicallytrans 2 жыл бұрын
I almost never use my phone speakers, but when I get a phone I go out of my way to get the loudest I can for the Reason Dr. Price has.
@omegatafkal24 2 жыл бұрын
Can you please invite me? I am a passioned writer and artist
@omegatafkal24 2 жыл бұрын
Dani is a complete moron. He excludes autistic people who have different opinion on him and have no problem with the term "Aspie" (he sees it as something demonic). A bit of a language purist. Also, like so many lefties, he continues to whine about capitalism. He doesn't represent us autists very well.
@TPRA77 Жыл бұрын
Well, this is incredibly ableist. First of all, my pronouns are CLEARLY stated in the video. Please refrain from misgendering people. I do not exclude people for having a different opinion, I do however provide education on the history of violence towards autistic people - and this includes the fascist history and the disenfranchisement of autistic people from Hans Asperger. This isn't a matter of a difference of opinion, it's empirical and objective fact, it's literal history. The vast majority of the autistic community rejects the usage of the term and label "Aspergers," not only due to the incredibly problematic history of the labeling, not only because of it's reinforcement of the use of problematic and harmful functioning labels, but also because none of the above actually exist any longer as a diagnosis or diagnostic criteria per the DSM V. I stand with the autistic community and with our preferences of language and the rejection of ableism that was placed up us without our consent. I do not, nor have I ever considered anything "demonic" because that's ridiculous and I don't believe that demons exist, haha. As far as my "whiny" stances on capitalism are, that's not on me to educate you. If you don't agree with the socioeconomic, sociological, or political positions listed on my page, then don't come to it - simple as that. I don't need to cater to everyone, my content is not for everyone and that's fine by me. Clearly you had some sort of interaction on my page that has made you reactionary, and while I have no history of interaction from you on my page, it's clear from your comment here that you weren't worth remembering in the first place.
@omegatafkal24 Жыл бұрын
@@TPRA77 I am an Autistic fella, I however refuse to be offended easily over small matters🙄 my faith is in ✝️ I confess my commandment has been aggressive, but what makes my blood oil is this snowflake culture run by feminized men that merely love to judge condemn those who disagree. Wicked!
@omegatafkal24 Жыл бұрын
@@TPRA77 misgendering also is nonsense😎 If you were born male, you are male no matter what. Period.
@omegatafkal24 Жыл бұрын
@@TPRA77 also whether or not you believe demons exist changes nothing 🤣🤣🤣now, I disagree with Locke that Autism was a demon. No, this man is a maniac - just like you lefties are. Nevertheless, I would prefer being around folks like Greg Locke over folks like you. The evangelicals didn’t point fingers at me over my music, my drawings on DeviantArt etc. I had many unhealthy addictions, I had to stop gaming, because it took away my time. A descision that was painful, but maybe saved my life. In fact, I fell in love with an evangelical girl, she loves the LORD. Whether I am good Christian, I don’t know, for I view myself as a bad one. I wish to stop sinning. But I wish people to questioner system. Back in the old days, even liberals like George Carlin began to see what’s goin on. A society, in where Gen Z is trying to draw kids towards them and make them question their gender. Only on Monday I was in the park, I saw innocent kids playing - and I thought in the words of that old Pink Floyd song „hey teacher - leave those kids alone!“ Dani, if I was you, I‘d get on my knees and cry out to the LORD. If you have questions, He will answer you. I used to be a worse sinner than you are now prior to my repentance. I know you laugh at me. But remember that Johnny Cash song? You can run on for a long time, but sooner or later God‘s gonna cut you down!
@TPRA77 Жыл бұрын
@@omegatafkal24 Bahahahahaha, okay dude. Whatever.
@AtypicalPaul 2 жыл бұрын
Love these conversations with Devon. :) so appreciate his thoughts
@BeccaLoryHector 2 жыл бұрын
Yes!!!
@arielpeters1199 2 жыл бұрын
Just found your channel, love it!
@BeccaLoryHector 2 жыл бұрын
So very glad to have you ❤️
@rosspenwill9721 2 жыл бұрын
This is great, Becca.
@BeccaLoryHector 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you 😊
@amandaerickson849 2 жыл бұрын
I am excited to see where you're going. I love the new direction and you have helped me so much through this journey!
@amandaerickson849 2 жыл бұрын
That coin spinning is driving me nuts!!!
@ChrisstineLynnn 2 жыл бұрын
Hi Becca, I wanted to take a second to let you know how this video has helped me. I am 53, just diagnosed autistic last year after a lifetime of confusion and a few incorrect mental health diagnoses. I want you to know how important it was to me for you to show your meltdown. For a long time, I've been having what I thought we're just crying jags, because what I saw in videos of autistic meltdowns wasn't the true state of what happened to me. Watching this video, I saw for the first time somebody else experiencing what I experience every so often, sometimes daily. It shows me that these are indeed meltdowns. All the emotions get backed up. Everything gets too much, and I end up feeling, like you said during the meltdown when you just need a hug from your mom, like a child. Every time I have these I feel like I can't cope, like there is something wrong with me because I simply can't handle...life. Although I've spent the past year reframing my life and researching absolutely everything there is to know about ASD, as that quest itself has become a SPIN for me, I feel like I'm just scratching the surface. I could never be an advocate like you are, spending so much wonderful outward energy to make us seen and known. My energy is very precious and I need a lot of downtime after an experience, as we all do. So thank you for this. If you were at all rethinking whether you should've posted it, you made the right decision, because you greatly helped me understand a huge aspect of my life.
@BeccaLoryHector 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing ❤️ Let's me know I am reaching the right peeps 😉
@ChrisstineLynnn 2 жыл бұрын
You are. ❤
@Birdie284 2 жыл бұрын
❤️
@BeccaLoryHector 2 жыл бұрын
:)
@leslieiannottacronin2176 2 жыл бұрын
Well, I’m so excited to see what comes next!
@BeccaLoryHector 2 жыл бұрын
Woot!
@Morgan-pj7er 2 жыл бұрын
I love the message at the end, very motivational! Good luck in your next adventure. 😊
@BeccaLoryHector 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you!! 😊
@jophillipsillustration 2 жыл бұрын
Wow what a beautiful looking house! 🤩🫶🏼 All that green is so gorgeous and the water area is stunning. What a pleasure to have followed you on this journey. I’m excited to see the next chapter! Next level up career vlog!? I’ve been encouraged and have designed my own colouring book for Amazon… you are so inspiring! Mwah xx 😚
@BeccaLoryHector 2 жыл бұрын
Omg I cannot wait to see it!
@jophillipsillustration 2 жыл бұрын
I wanna start again #life
@BeccaLoryHector 2 жыл бұрын
You know it's never to late
@dv3076 2 жыл бұрын
Schenectady always makes me think of Fountains of Wayne. "Someone to Love" is now on repeat in my brain. Lol. PS - Please consider doing another vlog at some point. We are now all invested! :)
@BeccaLoryHector 2 жыл бұрын
Lol! I hope my life stays interesting enough to require a vlog :)
@cherry.blossom_tree 2 жыл бұрын
I'm not often one to comment on KZbin videos, but I have to say how much I love Antonio's Dual Spires Cinnamon Festival tee - one of the best Twin Peaks homages I've ever seen! Excellent choice, my dude. 😎👍
@BeccaLoryHector 2 жыл бұрын
I'll pass it on lol
@jophillipsillustration 2 жыл бұрын
Loving these vlogs and updates- great idea about the windows and cats. We’ve done that with a hotel and luggage before 😜👍🏼 I can imagine it being utterly exhausting doing all the driving let alone with animals! Well done you 🫶🏼⭐️
@BeccaLoryHector 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you. You support means a ton <3
@lb5368 2 жыл бұрын
What an epic journey! I'm so glad to know your next video will be from Maine - yay!!!
@BeccaLoryHector 2 жыл бұрын
Me too! Lol
@jophillipsillustration 2 жыл бұрын
So much has happened ⭐️
@BeccaLoryHector 2 жыл бұрын
Soooooooooo much lol