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@OliverEmmanuel-mq5vr 2 күн бұрын
The fact is to been with someone who has fear of God in them, and don't give any one chance to have intimacy with him that had not married you yet. I love your teaching Bennery Bello.
@Bennery007 2 күн бұрын
@@OliverEmmanuel-mq5vr Thank you
@laetitiaotomo4869 6 күн бұрын
Do let your lady taste freedom!!!. Once the fear is gone and she sees that life is smoother without the mister, you've lost her forever...
@Bennery007 6 күн бұрын
Exactly! ... Once Free, forever free.
@br_josh 6 күн бұрын
If you find a scattered room, you can either assume he doesn't respect you or you can initiate the improvement. A cup is half-full or half-empty depending on who's looking.
@Bennery007 4 күн бұрын
Why are you always thinking backwards; Is he a toddler? Why will his room be dirty knowing fully well he’s expecting a visitor. God will deliver you o.
@br_josh 4 күн бұрын
@Bennery007 a man needs a helper. What if he just wants to see her reaction? A helper helps to make things better. My point is to not jump to a conclusion right-away. Remember that you won't marry an 'angel'. Be patient so you may see the bigger picture. Some of us are 'perfectionists' and sometimes we delay ourselves over wanting everything to be perfect straightaway.
@br_josh 4 күн бұрын
@@Bennery007 two individuals from different backgrounds may initially see some things differently. If there's more that they have in common than not, couldn't they try to see if they could get on the same page on the rest? 1 Corinthians 7:13 And the woman which hath an husband that believeth not, and if he be pleased to dwell with her, let her not leave him. 7:14 For the unbelieving husband is sanctified by the wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified by the husband: else were your children unclean; but now are they holy.
@br_josh 4 күн бұрын
@@Bennery007 then, isn't it true that men tend to be a bit unconcerned about placing something in particular somewhere? There are men who have been engaging with women and there are others who have not. If your focus is orderliness, you could be inadvertently calling for a man who's had many breakups. How that should help you is debatable. You may find orderliness but you may get other challenges. I have noticed that, often, it's a woman who gets a man to be orderly. There's a difference between dirty and orderly. Nobody should be okay with dirt. But, having clothes on the bed instead of hung in the wardrobe is not necessarily dirt and that might just be because the individual, man or woman, is alone. I can imagine that there's something you could do if you're alone that you wouldn't do if you have company. Again, the points are to not rush to a conclusion and to be ready to initiate improvements if you think something can be better.
@br_josh 4 күн бұрын
@@Bennery007 1 Corinthians 7:16 For what knowest thou, O wife, whether thou shalt save thy husband? or how knowest thou, O man, whether thou shalt save thy wife? 1 Peter 3:1 Likewise, ye wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; that, if any obey not the word, they also may without the word be won by the conversation of the wives;
@br_josh 6 күн бұрын
It is stupid to think virginity applies to everything. Virginity is mainly about marriage relationship. Note, however, that there are consequences in the context of marriage when it comes to virginity.
@br_josh 6 күн бұрын
Wife material is enterprising and not independent. Do be mistaken. A woman who depends on her husband might be more cooperative and accountable.
@Bennery007 4 күн бұрын
God will give you the woman you deserve!
@br_josh 4 күн бұрын
@Bennery007 are you aware that a woman should submit to her husband? If she has given her life to her husband, which is clear if two individuals who fall asleep are living together, it will be curious if she keeps anything back. Is it that she does not trust the one who will be by her when she is asleep? Any woman who has 'independence' outlook may not try to make the relationship work. Since a man wants to build something that endures, he might be wary of an 'independent' woman. I hope you're not mistaking 'enterprising' for 'independence'. This is also important so that you don't mislead other women in your audience.
@br_josh 4 күн бұрын
@Bennery007 I'm speaking for good men. A woman should be trained to be able to identify a good man. The problems with women include inability to identify good men and ignorance of their divine roles as helpers.
@br_josh 6 күн бұрын
Why do you need to paint your nails? What purpose does the paint serve? Do you feel you're inadequate?
@Bennery007 4 күн бұрын
Brother Josh 😂. You are really obsessed!
@br_josh 4 күн бұрын
@@Bennery007 no. I'm just curious. Moreover, why do you need earrings especially as the creator did not put holes in your ears? Do you approve the fact that someone put holes in your ears without your permission?
@br_josh 6 күн бұрын
What chuch do you attend seeing that you are dressed like Jezebel? Have you read the bible at all? Try reading 'Nuggets For Salvation' by Joshua Daniel.
@br_josh 7 күн бұрын
The concept of the virtuous woman is about enterprise and not independence. Then, there are godly and ungodly men. You shouldn't make generalized statements about men. I Hope you understand the importance of submissiveness on thr part of a woman if she should have a good relationship. There's wisdom in the saying that you shouldn't judge a book by its cover. A similar counsel is to not assume that all that glitters is gold. It's unfortunate that most women judge and buy a book by its cover only to find that the book is made of blank pages. A high-quality man may disguise in order to know if the woman he met is a virtuous woman or a golddigger. I counsel you to not judge a book by it's cover.
@br_josh 7 күн бұрын
You're likely conflating enterprise and independence. A woman needs to be enterprising and not independent. Only women who want to go astray desire independence since they dont want to be accountable to anyone. Whereas, in her father's house, she cannot be out by 10pm, living alone, she can nr dropped off by a so-called senator at midnight. That's not the type of woman a good righteous man is looking for.
@br_josh 7 күн бұрын
Let's be honest. When you say that a woman wants to be free to do whatever she likes, that's not a woman who's looking forward to wedlock. Are you the exception? Think of most of the other ladies who are 'independent' and you'll see that majority of them are prostitutes. A woman who's living with her parents understands accountability and that's the kind of woman a man needs as wife.
@br_josh 7 күн бұрын
Don't be ambivalent when giving advice. Someone's well-being may depend on it. Try to know the right way and theat eay is God's way. Tell people only what is acceptable to God rather rhan ehat you or another man thinks. God did not create women to be independent. No matter the current circumstances, a woman should not hope to be independent as she's going to find life more difficult and lonely as she gets older. Then, that leaves her prone to temptations and likely eternal damnation. There's a reason why the Bible warns that women should not be teachers - they are easily deceived and more emotional than logical.
@Bennery007 7 күн бұрын
@@br_josh you are actually the one that should take your advice because you are only looking out for yourself and the men.
@br_josh 7 күн бұрын
Your advice to women on staying alone is both ungodly and dangerous for women as it would essentially be a field day fir satan to overrun her with all jinds of temptations. It seems you're currently against wedlock which is God's institution. The idea of independence is strange to wedlock and its curious that you're suggesting that to women who were created to be helpers for men.
@Bennery007 7 күн бұрын
@@br_josh 😂😂😂This is funny.
@br_josh 7 күн бұрын
The fact that you're living alone is already affecting you adversely. That's why you now say such as 'why should women care about what men think' and you now see men as oppressors of women simply because they prefer submissive women. If you keep it up, you will either not have a relationship or tou will fail at it and then, you will hate men even more. Its not the men; it's your error of 'independence'.
@br_josh 7 күн бұрын
Unless her father's house is hostile, a wiman who's not contented with living her parents may find it hard to live with a man as a submissive wife. A woman should not just prefer independence. The more time a lady stays alone, the more masculine she becomes and her tendency to contract the malady of toxic feminism is greater. Remember that a man is not looking for another man in tge firm of a woman. It appears you're not keen on wedlock. That is a big mistake as you're simply setting yourself up for loneliness in the future.
@Bennery007 7 күн бұрын
@@br_josh Please which generation are you from?
@br_josh 7 күн бұрын
@@Bennery007 the generation of believers in the God of Abraham and Jesus Christ and the Bible and those who are looking forward to salvation.
@Bennery007 7 күн бұрын
@ but you are not looking forward to the salvation of women from terrible men and abusers right?
@br_josh 7 күн бұрын
@@Bennery007 we can talk about the misdemeanours of men and proffer solutions. But, being independent, as a woman, is not the solution. In fact, that even exposes her to other forms of abuse too. By the way, if a woman is with her parents, unless her parents also are not so intelligent or responsible, they should, by their experience, help her with choice of a good man. That's part of responsible parenting.
@br_josh 7 күн бұрын
@@Bennery007 only the devil will abuse a submissive and accountable woman. Then, how did she choose the devil? Perhaps she was distracted by shiny things.
@olumideoluwadare2412 14 күн бұрын
She's dating 3 guys or more and sleeping with them all. That's where the problem lies.
@Bennery007 13 күн бұрын
No dating doesn’t mean relationship. SHE’s NOT SLEEPING WITH ANY OF THEM.
@ClarksKing-r9g 16 күн бұрын
U only bring front. Everyone wants money. 😂
@trystanlowe4526 16 күн бұрын
The thing is a lot of us a brought up thinking all we are worth is the money we bring to the table. There are men out there that bring much more to the table regardless of if they have money or not and I'm not trying to be spiteful but if anyone is seeking relationships based on the mans income they in my opinion don't deserve the other great things we have to offer.
@Bennery007 16 күн бұрын
Very true.. this is also why relationships these days are not deeply rooted. All it’s built on is money and you can get money from anyone.
@trystanlowe4526 16 күн бұрын
@Bennery007 I agree with you, some of the nicest, kindest people I've met have been dirt poor. But society dictates our priorities elsewhere. In relationships we should be looking for people who share our values and ethics, not if they can buy you shit. But that's the world we live in these days.
@Bennery007 16 күн бұрын
@@trystanlowe4526 True… In summary Money is important but there are so many things money cannot buy and those are the things that feeds the soul. Men and women alike should have money but strive to dig deeper. Thanks for watching this video with a progressive mindset.
@lilbill6140 16 күн бұрын
Yeah and u cook and clean only
@Bennery007 16 күн бұрын
Are you trying to be funny? You know damn well women bring more than that to the table! And this was a video to discuss more on what men bring to the table.
@Lonewolfotherworld 16 күн бұрын
Too stupid
@br_josh 18 күн бұрын
Before talking about marriage or husband, you should find-out if you're even qualified or eligible for marriage. Not everyone is eligible for marriage.
@Bennery007 7 күн бұрын
@@br_josh true, not everyone is eligible for marriage.
@LoveSix-ry5ff 19 күн бұрын
Yoy are very wrong first man when wan take yoy serious even if na first day una have sex he woukd still love you thats mezmaybe she just had something ahe is missing,being stingy with the pussy onky scares men like me away ,you say u meet someone fir a week you have sex must it be one year before you have sex
@arkohgeorge9136 23 күн бұрын
A lot of ladies have stinking attitudes change n be humble..stop pretending n be u...stop saying this is how i am n i cant change if u cant cope u can leave? Please change
@danielamanchukwu3908 25 күн бұрын
She should the ones who are yet to block her ,why they ghosted her,and she should work on whatever they tell her.
@Bennery007 21 күн бұрын
Thanks for the advice 🙂, This should be very helpful to her.
@Ben256MB 28 күн бұрын
Women need to do something more extra rather than just looking good and giving men sex because that's enough for suckers it but for ladies men that's not enough .
@yemyemdoll3902 Ай бұрын
As soon as I heard “gave him my savings so he could marry me “ ??!!! I knew this was going to be some crazy ish 🙆🏾♀️🙆🏾♀️💆🏾♀️💆🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
@Bennery007 Ай бұрын
Honestly and it turned out to be nerve Wracking. 🤦🏽♀️
@RosalynHennings Ай бұрын
Gurl stop this is 2024
@Bennery007 Ай бұрын
Does that mean women should start acting foolishly?
@Bennery007 Ай бұрын
Is he a red flag for choosing his mother over his girlfriend?
@theafricancreative Ай бұрын
WORK ON YOURSELF! ( Agreed ) There's actually men who dont want anything serious. Lots of them infact. I hear they're such ladies as well. I feel for you. When you get yourself in such a loop, the most important question to ask which may be difficult is "Do I love myself?" The problem is time is a woman's number 1 enemy. Men will want you untill you lose your attraction. And the older you get, the less men you'll attract. You'll see. Now, To whom it may concern, my advice to you would be. Cultivate some self love. Sex drive is a form of creative expression. There's so much that you could do with creative energy other than Sex. That goes to all the women because all you have to do is make better choices that dont put you in a position where you'll have to compromise of your celibacy. Sex before marriage is not a solution also. You may lose a Good man because you have all these big ideas. Just work on yourself and when you become better, you attract better. No one knows the future. Not even you' live in the present. Sending you lots of LOVE whoever you are❤
@iamirondaddy Ай бұрын
G men lay down with women too because they know a beautiful woman will attract another mans attention. Bragging on their property and sexual conquests is all a basic man would want. W. Mongers are trying to get paid off a woman’s hard work. It’s as if they are switching places with women. The only difference is a man’s strength and dominance. A tyrant use to be a spoiled man or a mentally sick man either way a woman won’t recognize a monster of a man because of the dream she was sold. The more he talks about himself or listens to you to figure out a way into your heart or head or bed, just remember that, in good time all things will be revealed. These new dudes hunt in packs and are super petty for no reason. His feminine energy should be the first warning. His toxic masculinity should be the last. A real man would love you beyond your beauty, circumstance or past. Real men and real women are drawn to each other more than any other thing on this planet. Trust me there will always be signs. You just have to read them correctly.
@Bennery007 Ай бұрын
Thanks for your comment, this will be very helpful to her
@jonathankabasele985 Ай бұрын
she need to pray and give chance to nice guys.
@Bennery007 Ай бұрын
Yh, emphasis on the nice guys because she keeps meeting players.
@engrchris8149 Ай бұрын
@@Bennery007women do they even even want the nice guys???. They've not seen anything yet. Let them keep going after the bad guys till they clock 40. Foolish gender
@awmy3109 Ай бұрын
She is playing the victim. A guy will only block a girl for two reasons, she is billing him unnecessarily and not adding any tangible thing to the guy's life or he knows she is cheating.
@Bennery007 Ай бұрын
Hmmmm.. I’m not sure that’s the case here, she’s most likely being too desperate.
@awmy3109 Ай бұрын
@@Bennery007 Guys like desperate girls even if it's just for the sex, in fact they pray for that. Being desperate is the last reason a guy will block a girl. It's ladies who block guys they don't like that are pestering them.
@chetamanya2257 Ай бұрын
Also, what does she do wrong in the bedroom? What is she not doing right, six different guys and none had their mind blown to stick? Not an advocate to sleeping around but she's definitely doing it wrong
@Bennery007 Ай бұрын
Hmmmm.
@ilearnfromafrica Ай бұрын
She needs deliverance. Find a living church and be delivered 😢
@Ben256MB 28 күн бұрын
Judgemental individual
@rainmaker6434 Ай бұрын
It’s not physics my sisters; men prefer to marry women with a low body count (less emotional damage), and so if you approach men with your legs spread wide apart they will ram through you and then continue looking for a respectable woman to marry. My advice is stop greeting men with your cookie so they can take time to know you
@Bennery007 Ай бұрын
Thanks for your comment
@rainmaker6434 Ай бұрын
@@Bennery007 Keep up the good work, and the subscribers will come. Your content is good and the growth of your channel in the next 3 years will shock you
@KwabenaAsamoah12 Ай бұрын
Give me your number i am ready and will marry you .
@Bennery007 Ай бұрын
Please who are you referring to?
@KwabenaAsamoah12 Ай бұрын
@@Bennery007 the woman who said no one wants to date her
@Bennery007 Ай бұрын
@@KwabenaAsamoah12oh okay, I’m not sure she wants her number in public.
@KwabenaAsamoah12 Ай бұрын
@@Bennery007 do you she mind getting my number .
@JoyousMusumali Ай бұрын
God didn't made you to be a sexworker, you are very beautiful you need to have your own home and work for the lord to make heaven your home God will bless you and forget what happened in the past forcus about the new thing and be forcused.
@Bennery007 Ай бұрын
You are absolutely right… thanks for the advice. I hope she listens.
@salover55 Ай бұрын
Hi!! Courage for your work. Where are you from? I may help promote your videos on my channels that doing quiet well. I'm from Cameroon
@Bennery007 Ай бұрын
Hi, thank you.
@salover55 Ай бұрын
@@Bennery007 I guess you don't need my help. Ok courage, i just loved it and i thought i should get to you to see if i could help.
@Bennery007 Ай бұрын
@@salover55 I never rejected the help, I just need more clarification.
@salover55 Ай бұрын
@@Bennery007 ok. Where are you from?.
@salover55 Ай бұрын
@@Bennery007 me, i'm from Cameroon 🇨🇲
@eelias3043 Ай бұрын
No one wants to own all mans hole.
@Bennery007 Ай бұрын
What?… please can you explain further?
@Bennery007 Ай бұрын
Hey Famiily…. Sorry for the bad audio. This was the second video I filmed before Realizing my mic wasn’t plugged in properly. The next video will be great. Thanks for understanding ❤🙂
@yemipworld Ай бұрын
Your perspective is reasonable, Bennery. However, I am not sure one can actually help here without asking her some questions first for insight. Asking the wife to apologize won't solve their problem. On the flip side, not apologizing won't solve it also. She may need to seek professional help so more perspectives may be considered to ensure this is resolved from the ground up. Hopefully, the husband isn't too proud to join her in seeking help. This is one of the reasons it is important to be married to someone who is submitted to authority. There are times when your partner will not just have sense and won't listen to you. That 3rd party (3rd chord) authority may just be the voice of reason. If this man had someone (definitely not his mother) who could call out his BS, they may not be here. ✌
@Bennery007 Ай бұрын
I’ll pin this… Thanks.
@Thaddeusambrose 2 ай бұрын
I really like your great hand gestures and eye contact; they make it very easy to follow along with the conversation. Also, your positivity is very refreshing. I quit all drugs 8 years ago, and it has been a very long journey for me, but I am finally starting to build happiness and confidence for myself again! Thanks 🎉
@Bennery007 21 күн бұрын
Thank you so much…
@Thaddeusambrose 2 ай бұрын
Your attitude is real and your talent is real. Keep it up!!
@Thaddeusambrose 2 ай бұрын
You have a beautiful personality, and I am grateful for your talent
@Bennery007 2 ай бұрын
Sorry for the bad audio guys… I had filmed two videos before I realized the audio was bad. I’ll take precautions next time. Thanks
@darmiegrace4073 2 ай бұрын
Xerxes
@Bennery007 2 ай бұрын
Oh wow, that’s a discovery.. a lot of people don’t know that. Thanks dear ❤
@darmiegrace4073 2 ай бұрын
@@Bennery007 you're welcome 🤗 ❤️
@hundreds2696 2 ай бұрын
So what Dudes go through this all the time
@Bennery007 2 ай бұрын
This is the problem we have, when something bad is done what you should focus on is the act. If we keep saying “but the other gender goes through this” that would keep us in a rat race that’ll never end.
@SportsSphere-uy7vj 2 ай бұрын
You advising for the woman to befriend the wife is diabolical. The woman ghosted men before now they table have turned.
@Bennery007 2 ай бұрын
Yh, I wanted her to do something diabolical and then also do something better… but at the end of the day she has to move on and learn from her mistakes.
@GoodLuck-hd2bd 2 ай бұрын
She said she normaly block other guys, well isn’t this time justice (karma) also for her behaviour.
@Bennery007 2 ай бұрын
Hmmmm, true sha… she got a taste of her medicine.
@yvettestevenson687 2 ай бұрын
Your comments 😂😅😂! SHE KNEW HE WAS MARRIED. SHE WANTS ATTENTION ON HER LIVE🤔
@Bennery007 2 ай бұрын
He knew he was married also! …. Ghosting her was cruel and if he really wanted to move on he could have just be bold and affirmative in telling her he wants to focus on his family…
@orlandofrazier5245 2 ай бұрын
Your one Dumb 🤬 his married...You are Wrong