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@Kiwiwikiuu 12 сағат бұрын
Oh my goodness 😂I’m so NOT the we have food at home type of person, going out to eat is one of my fave parts of traveling, my best friend and I are compatible traveling partners EXCEPT for the food at home part, she wants to cook the whole time and I’m like 🙄🙄
@nouchkam1939 11 сағат бұрын
Lol at least you girls are compatible in terms of hygiene and sleeping habits. Also i see you boo greatful for you always engaging with my content 💓
@Yourfavoriteviewer1 Күн бұрын
Lol what happened? Wm don’t want 👰🏿♀️?😂😂😂
@fatounianggueye8622 2 күн бұрын
I like your new tempo also I appreciate your look also ❤
@fatounianggueye8622 2 күн бұрын
❤
@autobotdiva9268 2 күн бұрын
narc parents are the worst. its generatoinal, someone has to break the curse. black daughers are raised. black sons are loved.
@nouchkam1939 Күн бұрын
Black daughters are raised, black sons are loved 😍 THANK YOU 💯 truer words have never been spoken before 🙌
@autobotdiva9268 Күн бұрын
@@nouchkam1939 #selforphan and live less than 30 mins away from my narc parent.
@notOL01 3 күн бұрын
Why do divestors act like bm who hate bw? Yall always project your trauma on bm as a whole. Ive noticed that none of these divestors are in happy relationships cuz they always miserable and bashing bm😂. Basically red pill for women lmao.
@mlmz6756 3 күн бұрын
this rly opened my eyes about a certain "friend"...copying me, yet talking down on my every achievement. This helped me sm!!!
@Kiwiwikiuu 5 күн бұрын
My boyfriend said the reason why he feels men don’t approach as much is because social media has made women more accessible so they’d rather send a DM on Facebook or ig vs potentially being rejected in real life.
@nouchkam1939 5 күн бұрын
Hey sweets def feel like your boyfriend is right both social media, and dating apps have made women more "accessible" and the rejection hurts less then in person. Like you don't gave to be that confident to dm a woman.
@fatounianggueye8622 5 күн бұрын
I like the color and your dress both you look so nice and also your tempo ❤
@Boundaries-u8r 8 күн бұрын
I think we know what the signs are, but keep hanging around the person because we tell ourselves that this can't be happening so we need more proof. And because we are wired to be social creatures we need to socialize and have "friends." But you shouldn't be walking away feeling off after hanging out with someone you could see as a potential friend. A red flag could be getting irritated around their own circle of friends and not vibing with the majority of their behavior is usually telling. I couldn't pinpoint what it is. This person seems like a good guy as he was sooo welcoming to me in the beginning. But looking at it, it was a lot of energy too much too soon. And I was not at a good point in my life as I was on the tail end of healing from my own stuff. Sometimes that's when we attract these people as life's tests. What I'm seeing is that the trauma that I have healed from and stuff that I have worked on in therapy is showing up in my interactions with him. It's like a mirror in a way, but I'm not that person anymore. I don't have low self esteem and have worked on being confident. This is not going to be a good match in the long run and will slowly distance myself and let it gradually fade. It's now feeling competitive and I don't want that in a connection.
@mariamjackson2994 8 күн бұрын
It can't be said better darling. You nailed it!
@nouchkam1939 8 күн бұрын
Aww thanks boo, i am glad you agree
@TrevanneFoxton 8 күн бұрын
Happy Sunday!
@nouchkam1939 8 күн бұрын
Aww thanks sweetie, happy sunday and happy new year 😘
@joldfashioned9736 8 күн бұрын
I am a male and it definitely feels like unusually much signs of secret competition towards me in everything everyday but by more than one person from my future past which doesnt even align with my former past and timelines. Just a hunch that something is up behind the scenes. Its more than discouragement on the horizon.
@fatounianggueye8622 8 күн бұрын
Happy New Year 🎉to you my honey you are magnificent 😊love ❤
@nouchkam1939 8 күн бұрын
@fatounianggueye8622 aww thanks mom😊 I adore you ❤️
@katechipata9934 9 күн бұрын
Happy new year! You look great, love the outfit + makeup
@nouchkam1939 8 күн бұрын
Aww thanks boo, wishing you the happiest of all new years as well nothing but health and prosperity for you this year✨️
@r0guedoll 9 күн бұрын
Nouchka you look amazing!!! 🤩 💞 The look you gave after “white nose & full lips” 😂 Maybe going to Africa might be her best bet lol, but I hope she broadens her horizon & realizes there are other qualities that matter in a father/husband than just race
@nouchkam1939 8 күн бұрын
Aww thanks boo 🥰 lol girl i wasn't even trying to be funny i swear i was just shocked lol. Yeah she then said in the comment that she was gonna go to the us lol Which didn't make sense to me cause if what's matters to her is the baby's ethnicity then why hyper focus so much on where her partner shall be from? Anyways happy new year baby 🥳
@create_ 9 күн бұрын
Wise words ❤ I am glad for the Internet as a medium to wake up as a human, mother, wife etc. to make conscious decisions and learning how to treat yourself well and expect it from people in your life.
@nouchkam1939 9 күн бұрын
Aww thanks you 🥰 i always say youtube is free university as well.
@bryansam650 9 күн бұрын
I came here to bash you but found this profound and well in line with my beliefs and I am a man. Though there's one last point you did not add. Do not have a child if you intend to rob them of a father figure.
@nouchkam1939 9 күн бұрын
Hey, thanks for listening first before condemning, i am glad you ended up agreeing and you are right there are definitely a lot of other reason i could have added, might film part 2
@ivansotelo4622 10 күн бұрын
Hey girls, how can i date a nice black girl? Im a young "whiteish" latino male lookingo for a nice black girl, what are some cultural things i should know to date one?
@montezwheeler 10 күн бұрын
black women yall at the bottom all the other women won they way beeter and wealthier than yall black women yall dating other races does black men a favor yesss go give them white boys that raggedy problem
@akinazara Күн бұрын
Sounds like someone is big mad - BW are so happy dating out and have moved on !
@akinazara Күн бұрын
I hope it works out with you and non BW though! BW aren't your women anymore!
@montezwheeler Күн бұрын
@akinazara good we still got yall and other races too but black men still dont and will never care yall moved on if it takes another race of men to straighten yall ghetto chicks up not mad glad they got y'all I hope they take y'all and keep you all the way y'all doing us a favor to all white men lol
@akinazara Күн бұрын
@@montezwheeler I'm an educated BW who lives in the suburbs and have no experience with BM.. so no not all of us are ratchet or ghetto. Good luck with non BW though 😅
@akinazara Күн бұрын
@@montezwheelerBW are gone either 4B or with other races of men! There is no more BW - ship 🚢 has sailed
@TrevanneFoxton 10 күн бұрын
Your KZbin channel is advice for me.
@nouchkam1939 9 күн бұрын
Aww i am glad you find the channel helpful☺️
@Kingkev0 11 күн бұрын
🛏️🔧🦝
@Cirememes 12 күн бұрын
I swear to God in Heaven, Someone told me that these people who fantasize & desire whiteness to the point of marrying whites trying to be validated have, a certain fake dumb looking grin on their face. [ When they smile its too wide but the eyes have a look of shock] . & its based on the fact that they know they r hated & being mistreated simply bcoz theyr black & they r struggling to justify whiteness as "good". They are trying hard & failing miserably to uphold these two contradictory ideas hence the "im a hostage pliz come save me smile"😂😂😂😂😂
@michellemckinney4678 15 күн бұрын
You’re hilarious. Who are you to make a whole video about HER experience? If you believe you’re all that, then good for you. YOU’VE benefited from pretty privilege? Beauty is ABSOLUTELY objective.
@violetflowersingrey 16 күн бұрын
I also will never date a black man again. Dating black men made me chaste, for real, I'm never having sex again. But now I can serve Jesus Christ in purity so I came forth as gold.
@akinazara Күн бұрын
Same never really dated or had intimacy with a BM - CELIBATE 17 years! I'm just focusing on myself these days ! Not interested in dating anymore since the election and 4B. If I date again it'll be a non BM!
@goldcare3468 17 күн бұрын
Don't worry u look beautiful
@Bibirallie 17 күн бұрын
Your channel needs to be bigger! You are really the big sister a lot of us need.
@nouchkam1939 17 күн бұрын
Aww these kind words means more to me then you can imagine ❤️
@r0guedoll 27 күн бұрын
I literally just came back from seeing it! It was a beautiful movie, sometimes it seemed like it was mimicking the social justice culture seen on social media. Love your insight per usual, & your daughter is so intelligent for picking up that message from the Wizard of Oz. I can tell you’re a great mom! 💞
@nouchkam1939 26 күн бұрын
What a cool synchronicity that you so this just after coming from the moving even though you live in America ;) and yes the movie did mimick social justice culture even though the set looked magical and whimsical. I wish you nothing but the very best this holiday season, merry Christmas in advance ❤️
@r0guedoll 25 күн бұрын
@@nouchkam1939 lol yeah it was crazy I just got back from the theater, opened YT & saw ur video 😅 Thank you & Merry Christmas to you too ♥️
@beowulf5106 27 күн бұрын
Hey beaut. Merry Christmas in advance. 🤗
@nouchkam1939 27 күн бұрын
Aww thank you 😊 you are kind.
@Kiwiwikiuu 29 күн бұрын
Great tips, you carry yourself very immaculately!
@nouchkam1939 29 күн бұрын
Aww it means a lot to me that you would say that, thanks for seeing all the effort i am putting in 🥰💞💕💗💓💞
@Holdmeeeeeeeeeholdmehahahah 29 күн бұрын
I dont
@Kiwiwikiuu Ай бұрын
I really wish ppl would stop equating light skin to pretty, you can be light skin and have very basic and uninteresting features. I’m not dark skin but I’m caramel, or bronzed colored(Beyoncé, Halle berry color) but my best friend is high yellow, ppl will approach me and not even pay attention to her, just because your lighter does NOT equal prettier 😭🤦🏽♀️anyways, LOVE UR CHANNEL keep the vids coming 💕💕😍😍😍
@nouchkam1939 29 күн бұрын
I know right? Unfortunately i think a lot of people will always equate being lightskin to being pretty ;( funny you talk about your friend being big mad when you get more attention then she does, experience the same thing with my "friends" who are white and lighter then me... Thanks for sharing 🥰
@agbaya1000 Ай бұрын
This is great advice and I just wanted to say that you look so good! Love the hair and the overall look 💓💖
@nouchkam1939 Ай бұрын
Aww, greatful for you boo Also wishing you nothing but the very best this holiday season 💓💗💕💞🩷
@agbaya1000 Ай бұрын
@@nouchkam1939 you are welcome! Thank you so much for your well wishes for the holiday season. I hope you are keeping well and enjoying the holidays too! Stay fabulous! 💞
@Lanet-ol6fb Ай бұрын
❤
@nouchkam1939 Ай бұрын
🥰
@Kiwiwikiuu Ай бұрын
I hate to bash looks but shera doesn’t even look polished or put together ever to me, she’s the last person who needs to talk about hair 😢😢
@nouchkam1939 Ай бұрын
That and the 5 hours live WITHOUT BATHROOM BREAKS.
@Kiwiwikiuu Ай бұрын
I was never a fan of shera I barely agree with anything she says
@nouchkam1939 29 күн бұрын
She ain't normal lol, i appreciate you for engaging with my content 😍🤩💗💓💞💕🩷
@sispeepgame Ай бұрын
Matching energy is a sure fire way to filter through people. Years ago when I went to school there was a girl who I could see was low-key selfish and it came full circle around our birthdays. We all had bdays back to back. My birthday was first, 1 friend got me something and she said HBD. Then the girl who just said HBD’s birthday came around so I told her HBD 🎁 🎈. Then the bday of the other girl came and I brought her stuff. Then the girl who told me HBD saw it and had the nerve to say “you didn’t buy me anything on my bday” and I looked at her and said “you didn’t buy me anything either” and the look on her face. 😂 Yeah, you gotta watch how people move and treat them accordingly and if you’re the giving type you have to refrain from overdoing it because they will take and when your birthday or special occasion comes around it’s 🦗 🦗 🦗.
@nouchkam1939 Ай бұрын
The nerves of her to fix her mouth and ask you where her gift at 🙄 i swear selfish people be shameless too! And i totally agree with you on fighting our nature when it comes to giving, i use to be like that (and still kinda am too be honest) but i am learning to match people energy all while praying God not to change my heart..
@sispeepgame Ай бұрын
@ I didn’t even mention the time this same girl, when we were going to lunch at Mc Donald’s, instead of saying “no y’all go” when we told her let’s go she says “I only have $2.” So I’m like here we go 🫠so I said girl have you heard of the dollar menu? 😂 So she comes and we’re all buying food and she’s just wandering through the restaurant and I see her but I didn’t say anything. She was waiting on someone to offer her food. The other girls in the group didn’t pick up on what she was doing, but I was. So then we got our food and she’s sitting there and I’m like “are you not gonna get something?” And she’s like “I said I only have $2” so then everyone else said what I originally told her, she finally gets up buys herself a sandwich and I actually gave her some fries, but the point was if we didn’t tell her to go spend her $2 that girl would have sat there… SMH they definitely have no shame, but will make you shame them like you’re their parent. I used to be quick to offer help because to me it’s not a big deal however I had to look at it from the other persons viewpoint and that has saved me so much headaches. Also people like this look to become friends with people not to actually be a friend, but to use that person to meet their needs. So when I meet people I always try and see what does this person need? Just lost your job ok you need a friend that will just employ you. Just broke up with your man? Oh you need someone to be your therapist. So yeah acquaintances are the best things especially in the current climate because people are for self these days. So I’m all for going out and having fun, but please don’t call me crying I will ghost you. 😂😂😂😂😂
@Just-f7k Ай бұрын
It's always the dark ones.🤦🏿
@tamikasanders1236 Ай бұрын
I’ve been in school to become a RN and now she’s saying she’s going to be a Midwife… I got braces and now she’s says she’s getting Veneers… Always trying to one up me.. SMH and it’s family… another one is every time I give a friend a ride she looks me up and down and says she just ordered whatever I have on it’s sickening
@Lieblingsgeist Ай бұрын
Stimme 100%🥲 ,aber wie schön siehst du aus !!
@nouchkam1939 Ай бұрын
Nicht hübscher als du oder deiner mama🥰
@Lieblingsgeist Ай бұрын
Notiert und aufgeschrieben!!!
@nouchkam1939 Ай бұрын
Meiner kleine 🥰 miss you ❤️
@katechipata9934 Ай бұрын
Part 2 please :)
@nouchkam1939 Ай бұрын
Okej sweets, will upload it after next week, thanks for watching ❤️
@princeofjudaea Ай бұрын
Can y'all just date your masters and keep black men out of it??? We don't care! Now y'all can go and destroy the Caucasian community as y'all have done your own. The slander is starting to get out of pocket.
@Benrylol Ай бұрын
Beauty is skin deep.... Ugly- is to the BONE has been my experience. I find that ugly men project insecurity a try to tear you down instead of be grateful.... Ugh GURAL
@nouchkam1939 Ай бұрын
Not ugly to the bone lol, and girl you definitely right lol, this men definitely won't be greatful that you gave them the time of the day as a matter of fact they are going to start to think they can do better...
@Benrylol Ай бұрын
@nouchkam1939 they feel like if they can GET A PRETTY PRETTY woman like you and start chasing the rest of em! Hey thanks for the great video! And ain't no medium UGLY 😂 Either you ugly or you NOT Have a great DAY!! 💗
@nouchkam1939 Ай бұрын
@Benrylol not you saying there is no such thing as medium ugly lol girl almost chocked laughing lol 😂 🤣 thank you needed this laugh and happy thanksgiving, hopefully you got leads to be thankful for 🥰
@katechipata9934 Ай бұрын
Lunch > Coffee
@nouchkam1939 Ай бұрын
I am afraid i don't understand this comment. Do you mean lunch is superior to coffee?
@katechipata9934 Ай бұрын
@@nouchkam1939yes I don’t even get coffee with my girlfriends 😊 but people are free to do whatever works for them. Also I have noticed that culture plays a big role. European men like to ask women out to coffee while North American men often ask women out to dinner. I agree that a dinner date would not be fun if there’s no banter and/or chemistry….
@nouchkam1939 Ай бұрын
@katechipata9934 love that for you ❤️ maybe Canada got leads of more interesting men then germany and yes even though as a collective european men love coffee and walk dates get asked on dinner dates a lot
@agnesiftime6965 Ай бұрын
❤
@nouchkam1939 Ай бұрын
@@agnesiftime6965 don't deserve you 😢 🤧
@ameenahlazarus103 Ай бұрын
Listening to you talk is a delight you are so wise 🤍
@nouchkam1939 Ай бұрын
I miss you boo, pls give me a call 😘
@agnesiftime6965 Ай бұрын
I totally agree with you on this!! Great video ❤
@nouchkam1939 Ай бұрын
Aww thanks sweets 🤩
@ElegantllySculpted Ай бұрын
Based on the title alone (just started watching) I agree with you 100%. Real children who go to school, whose faces are on the internet are dealing with some of the worst trauma of their lives. This story isn't for the internet, it's for the guardians, parents, courts, the counsellor and therapist only! It's unfortunate and such a shame.
@nouchkam1939 Ай бұрын
I said the exact same thing in the video, this was not "isis's story to share, her daughters are four (4) and two (2) they could not possibly have consented to this. Yet she made a irrevocable decision for them...
@r0guedoll Ай бұрын
Yup exactly, I agree with everything especially the part where you say Shera should say the kinds of guys she attracts prefer long straight hair, that’s more honest and less problematic Great video as usual ❤
@nouchkam1939 Ай бұрын
Aww thanks boo, i am greatful for you taking time out of i am sure your busy schedule in order to engage with something i have created 💕
@r0guedoll Ай бұрын
@ of course! I feel like we have such a similar outlook on different topics, it’s nice to hear you articulate them. I hope your content reaches more people soon 🩷🩷🩷
@nouchkam1939 Ай бұрын
@r0guedoll aww what a heartwarming comment 💖 💕💞💗💓 Amen 🙏🏾 and happy thanksgiving hopefully you got loads to be greatful for this year and forever