As a female with a male bsf, I can confirm that we aren’t all like this

Nothing sexist about men not wanting to be their spouse's dad or therapist

@@ThaFuzzwood sure but the amount of them not willing to try to understand a woman’s way of needing to deal with a problem and totally invalidating it because of the way they themselves deal with problems is not really too good. A lot of them call it ridiculous or are mocking it or treating this like some sort of joke. A lot of them also aren’t, which is good. Yes the video is rooted in comedy and it’s funny but it also has a lesson in there for both men and women.

It could work either way, say if the skit was a guy saying he wakes up with these headaches, and dehydrated, his belly just gets bigger, and has to go pee all the time. Then pans out and he's drinking beer, cases of beer behind him. "Well honey, maybe if you cut down on the drinking" "It's not the beer!!" but in this scenario, instead of her asking about the beer asked about his childhood, or what is causing stress in his life... then he heals. The nail bit, yeah could be better, It's also making fun of how men try to solve everything, and we're not trying to be difficult we are just wired that way... it's comedy so the nail is obviously not about the nail, it could be like the things you mentioned, or there is some kind of attachment to the problem, like the man in the beer scenario would have an emotional connection to drinking beer so won't see as something outside of him causing issues, the nail could be representative of a problem she really doesn't want solved because she got really good at complaining about it. Would the medical industry really want to heal everyone? That would pull out the nail. Would a prison industrial complex want crime to stop? Would an auto manufacturer build a car that gets 2 million miles? So maybe it's pointing out how there's solutions to all the worlds problems and we are not allowed to pull those nails out either.