This is why you never become a stepdad. SIMP

Bennie picked a loser!

😂😅😂😅 expected you to be ok with her being with another man , having his baby , to take her back 😂😅😂😅

Be a man file for divorce! She really doesn’t give a flying crap about you!

Poor wifey she getting everything she wanted

I cant even stand to listen to thos disgust

A 304 will always be a 304. She will do it again. Don't be fooled.

OP, You should have replied. YOU PROMISE? THATS GREAT!!!!

She is right that feeling that she craved for and would do anything to have it and something you never were ever able to give her

I knew I shoulda pulled out. Sorry dude. Uh- didn't know there was a married dude, too.😊😅😂

What a doormat. His spirit animal is the jellyfish.

"Yeah, you're right honey. How dare I expect my "partner" not to F other men and have THEIR babies. A REAL man would support his partner and her F-trophy babies because she "loves" me." GTFOH.

Waste of time

She enjoyed it her lover left her and now wants him back because he was always the fall guy for her

While legal disputes leave uou drained having a running battle with your ex over financing her affair child will ultimately do the same as well as draining your finances. Her argument that you give some financial support to your fiancees kids supports her request you do the same for her child with her AP will not impress a family court judge. You have a binding court sanctioned agreement to support your own children. You are co-operating with that. What you choose to do with your disposal income after that is no concern of your ex wife. She has a legal remedy to persue her ex AP the child's biological father for support for his child.

BS , YOUR SAYING SHE DIDNT KNOW HOW TO SAY SORRY OR APOLOGIZE, THE WORDS WOULDNT COME , WHEN THE MAN SHE LOVES SAYS ITS OVER , I LOVE YOU BUT ITS NOT ENOUGH, YOU THINK SHE CANT SPEAK , YES , SHE SHOULDNT HAVE MADE JOKES ABOUT HER HUSBAND BUT WHY DIDNT HE SPEAK UP LONG AGO ,ALL THIS COULD HAVE BEEN AVOIDED WITH SOME COMMUNICATION, YOU KNOW , TWO MARRIED PEOPLE HAVING A CONVERSATION, LIKE GRIWN UOS ARE SUPPOSED TO DO , WHAT A WASTE OF A MARRIAGE

What was the point of this story?

You should never have agreed tonannopen relationship, she had already slept with someone else before she asked about the open relationship

Two seriously messed up people.

Click bait

As the saying goes “ it’s easier to ask for forgiveness than to ask for permission “ she did the deed then is asking for forgiveness . He’s a simp if he lets her back into his life.

This is boring as can be

Hahah i love you but im not in lovw witv you anymore, sounds so stjpid, sve svould say i like u but im not in love with you,

She tried to babytrap him, and still in that mentality that its his therefore the ranting about stepping up, thats bs

He lost a cheater , wow the delusion, she abandone him first

This woman was shithouse crazy. You are one lucky man for finding out she cheated on you and got out.

In stead of pissing around ,send her the divorce papers and get the he'll out of her life. She doesn't deserve you they only use you when they finish they will dump you. My suggestion go to a foreign country and find a wife there They know how to take care of their husband.

WHY in the world would she sleep with the Chad and expect the good guy to “step up” and care for the baby? This 304 is the reason why NO man will deal with these women.

Any Western Government WANTS to know WHO the father is. DNA tests can be court mandated...

Dishonorable? How about ... Accountable?

The fiancee of Ava may need to give you thanks. If she behaves this way to her own family now, what is she going to do to the poor guy marrying her and his family? She will eat them alive and make them lives a living hell.

Flying on wings of wax ; aren't you Hunny ?!?!?

Oh alcohol ; you are such a control freak and so easy to blame ! Open mouth insert both feet , keep runnin' your stupidity .....

Women are quick to call men boys and dishonorable and disrespect and degrade them all to protect their Transgressions.

You do have a dilemma on your head. WWJD!

She cheated but you were dishonorable. I don't think she understands what that word means.

The babies real father wants nothing to do with the baby why is she bashing OP! Her plan for you didn't work and she is pissed!

A wakeup call for the groom.... Run and hide dude!

This woman is definitely delusional texting him that bs is laughable she expects him to be the bigger person and be the father of the child that’s not his f hilarious that long text was so funny

You did the right thing. She sounds like a spoiled, entitled brat, aka a karen in the works, and should have at least afforded you the opportunity to speak with you. She dug her own hole!

Wait, so when did they actually break up? Was it during the party when he said it was over?? Or at the end, when they were having dinner?

Lucky for you she said no!

It is written somewhere else but it applies here: Beware the wrath of the gentle man.

How much evidence does he need? Sound like OP is doing the creative writing.

This is what happens when you keep investigating your Ex. He probably kept asking about her and it got back to her. Gentlemen walk away and don't look back, ask , or investigate your ex's. They are Ex's for a reason. He says he was living the best life but he knew they were still together. So WHAT! Live your best life without her. Walk no RUN away.

Nice direct i love it 🎉

As someone who weathered the same kind of crap from my family, trust me when I say, it's them who are idiots not you. I was my father's first son, and he took 2 weeks off to help my mom after I was born. Because he never took any time off with the other three, two older sisters and a younger brother, I became the instrument of my mother's revenge. I can't begin to tell you how many times I was whipped for what one of the others did. When I was about to graduate from H.S. my mother asked me what my plans were. I told her I was going to join the service, and she replied good because you can't stay here. Anyone who can't believe a family can be so cruel is fortunate not to have seen what a dysfunctional family can really do.

Not showing respect is the best way to end a relationship quickly. This goes both ways...

Sept2024: Before I married, I told my fiance that I already had a vasectomy. If she ever changed her mind and later wanted children, I promised to graciously step aside and hand her over to her new husband. 40 years have passed and she never took me up on my promise (we are still married). 😊 In this story BF never made it clear he was sterile. That is both underhanded and clever. It`s the kind of thing you do if you don`t trust your sex partner. In this case it exposed his GF's devious nature, as she got pregnant to force BF to marry while also attempting to stick him with her AP child. Farsighted BF got to learn of his GF's treachery before committing. Smart. Retired in Sacto.

I call BS. Very rarely can a person survive under the radar. And what's the point of doing all of that without getting a divorce?