truly sad to see my country of greatness and history be treated like this

@erumi san He is literally saying "with him" so how do you know?

Hey hey it really means with him But it related to that arab Man in past when he flirt with his love in the arabic poems and poetry he used masculine form for respect and polite and this type of arabic poem called "polite flirt"

Then the situation developed to the songs and Arab men singers use this things in romantic songs

Guys. Regardless who is singing girl boy man woman monkey… the song is actually referring to a male. But since Amr Diab is singing and since the words will not go good for a girl the rhythm would change dramatically and not become as good as what we are hearing,. Therefore we know he is referring the song to a girl. But the true translation of this is meant for a guy.