I am glad to hear that you love your boy.

Abortion is not the answer and, we all make mistakes. My daughter gave birth to a boy at 15, and I adopted him. He just turned 33 and he is a joy in my life. When he was 12, he was diagnosed with autism. I am glad he was kept in the family.

Story time: when our twins were born, it was no secret that we wanted to give our son a name that presented a certain set of initials. My wife’s brother assumed we would use his name to achieve the desired initials. When discussing this my in-laws, my brother in law said, you’re going to name him after me, of course. I was 50/50 on it. My wife was 100% against it. So, we declined. When our second son was born, he was named after my brother. My wife was 100% in favor. I heard from others my brother in law was miffed. But, while I liked his name well enough, we couldn’t name a child after him. As in this video, various family members felt this way or that. My brother in laws wife wouldn’t let it go until my wife’s sister pointed out they didn’t seek the input of anyone for naming their children…why should anyone bother with their opinion? I’m glad to report that 20 years on, it’s water under the bridge. None of the children look like they could’ve been anything other than what they were named.

To the original poster, there is a vast difference between your brother-in-law‘s sister and your own sister. Your brother-in-law‘s sister helped raise him, while it sounds like your sister only throws tantrums when she doesn’t get her way. Isabella is correct if Rachel wants a baby named after her, she can have her own baby. And it’s not Isabella’s problem that Rachel is embarrassed because she hast to go around and tell everybody she lied to them, she shouldn’t have been saying anything to begin with. Lastly, no it is not a logical conclusion to assume that the baby would be named after Rachel, and it’s obvious who your favorite sibling is as well as who your mother‘s favorite child is. But don’t worry, at the rate things are going you won’t have any contact with this baby anyway, so it’s not like you’ll have to see the as you put it insult towards Rachel every day.

Who feels the needs to identify someone pregnant as "F"? It would be history-making otherwise.

No. You might want to quit wearing it, but keep it in a drawer for safekeeping. However, you don’t wear the earrings, and don’t seem to have an attachment to them. I would offer them to your SIL.

I wouldnt love someone either if every time they texted me they capitalized every word and letter after an apostrophe.

❤

This uh i don't think is the story from the title

No, keep the necklace

YTA- He opened up to you hoping you’d open up to him, creating a stronger bond. When he tried to talk to you about it, you basically told him that was his choice to open up to you & you weren’t required to open up to him (& to be fair, you don’t) then said he could have kept it to himself & the relationship would still be the same. You made him feel like his trauma shouldn’t have been shared. So now he doesn’t share with you & now you’re upset that he’s not openly sharing with you & have to ask him. You want to hear his thoughts & feelings while not sharing yours. He’s already checked out of the relationship. You have 2 choices, open up & start sharing or walk away.

The hypocrisy.

Toodaloo!

Given him ammo to hurt you

NTA sometimes its hard to say everything to your partner. When you are ready, you will tell him. He should try to understand you

No, you dont have to open up about your trauma, but you do need to realize he's asking for a deeper connection, and if you can't give him that, then yall probably aren't compatible.

NTA, it can be really hard to open to people even if op is a good partner in every other way, but I also completely understand why the boyfriend feels like she's not as invested in the relationship as he is

People who trauma dump and then expect you to tell it all are people who are lying and only doing it to find blackmail.

Nta

He is playing victim.

YTA Dude did exactly what he was told. Can't fault him for giving the same energy back. On another note if it's been two years and you still can't talk about your trauma therapy might be in order.

YTA!!!! YOU PROVED THAT AFTER 2 YEARS YOU STILL DONT TRUST HIM AND YOU DON'T CARE WHAT HAPPENED TO HIM IN HIS LIFE BY SAYING I DIDN'T ADK YOU JUST TOLD ME !!!! WELL NO SHITE THAT'S WHAT YOU DO WHEN YOU'RE IN A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP!!!!

Yta how could you possibly be upset he stopped telling you about himself when you told him you wouldn’t do the same

Sorta. After 2 years you should be able to open up to someone you care that much about. Especially if you are planning on having a long term relationship. Or if your trauma has triggers, they need to know how to handle that situation. The real AH move is saying "i didnt ask." And then expecting him to communicate in the same way he used to

Yta! You don't have to share your personal trauma but you didn't have to say, "i didn't tell you to share yours" making him feel like he made a mistake opening up to you. Or maybe he did. He should break up with you. You are so cold and distant. Don't have to share every deep dark secret but can just open up more. We all have negative experiences that are not necessarily trauma. Don't complain about him not opening up to you any more if you dont want to reciprocate

Break up :)

Omg the consequences of my actions 😱😱

Not the asshole but… Not in the right either.

NTA but also, don't expect the BF to be so open anymore

NTA

Sponge bob is subway surfers wfh?

Yea probably a red flag

Teachers don’t go into students bathroom tho… so how does that make sense?

Lmfao

lmaoo

I’d tell them to go pound sand. I’m not gonna ruin myself life because my cousin is an idiot.

sunger bob

Murder is not in fact, a small matter.

SpongeBob

Is no one ganna talk about the skin? I dont hate the skin btw

Why is spongebob IN SUBWAY SURFERS

That's fucking weird... Them: "Thanks for helping me find a job, here take my son as tribute!" OP's mom: "Um nah bro we're good." Them: "Then how bout you take my son who is 10 years older than your daughter and they get married! 😃" OP's dad: "GTFO."

What. Don't understand

I think im slow, what happened exactly?

I choose "shit that didn't happen" for 100 dollars please.