make your own “aesthetic” and it will be your biggest mental and physical glow up

I feel like glowing up should be more mentally than physically

lmk if you like silent vlogs <3

I’m so tired of feeling insecure and left out but the reason for that is social media, the internet. I’m so tired of it.

I agree with most of what you’re saying however for us mid or plus size girlies, we NEED to use apps, especially where I’m from because we don’t have many plus size friendly stores and the few we DO have are priced crazy because they’re a niche store. I shop online because the store don’t cater to my size mostly. And I’m not even morbidly obese. I’m just not skinny and STILL the stores choose to stock fewer plus sizes. I have no choice.

Thank you but I love skincare 😊

Tbh I love almost all the aesthetics out there. I used to feel so bad about it. Like "who am I? Why do I love kinda opposite/different things" etc. But now I don't care. I love so many things. I don't have just ONE style / aesthetic.

I adore this style of video oh my goodness <33

You feel like its making bad for you? get out no one is forcing you

this vid was so aesthetically made damn

love how u are so genuine about everything <3

thank you so much for this video gigi <3

"you don't need to glow up, you need to grow up."

Luv ur vlogs

First

hey, I am Brazilian and I watching your videos to study english! (I think don't write so well sorry). This topic is so interesting, because here (in Latin America) we don't have access to most trends (clothes, bags, we don't have where to buy them) so if you have the clothes trends you are so rich or you buy in virtual fast fashion like Shein and need extremely consumed

What a great video! Perfectly encapsulates how I have been feeling recently. Does anyone else get bothered that almost every TikTok trend and videos are to do with your appearance? ‘Deer pretty”, “symmetrical face”, “am I a Barbie, bratz or American girl doll?”. Gosh, it’s just exhausting. Plus, so many people have become self conscious of their appearance from TikTok. I started to get into aesthetics a few years ago, and to be honest it’s really exhausting. Luckily I have not fallen victim to micro trends but I have still caught myself buying things that are ‘trendy’ but are not cool now.

You are so smart frr, i feel likeyou are so mature! Love your videos and midset🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻🩷🩷

I hate the perception that we need to glow up every season i really tired of that.

you're so inspiring i love your videos!🎀💗

Are you Italian?

youre so so so smart and relatable. love u pls never stop posting!

❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹

you are so underrated 😭🎀 love your vlogs 🤍

I really like ur videos sm 💓

do you have any books recommendations? i feel like you have amazing taste

Amazing video! Loved the ideas <3

This channel is so cute how does it not have more subs?? 😭 love the aesthetic of the videos

🎀🎀🎀🎀🤭

Girls you are all so beautiful, like theres this feminine oh so pretty glow over you. You guys look like summer!❤

This is a video that everyone has to see, it can change a brain chemistry. Thank u for making this vid :)

I love this video & I have to say that deleting instagram and tiktok has helped me with this issue immensely! I literally have no idea what is trending and its a huge relief.

I can't stand those "core" anymore, "omg which core is this? whats the name of this aesthetic?" its me, me core thats it

Very interesting thoughts, I believe reflecting about this helps not only in our fashion choices but also in general lifestyle, to look deeper and enjoy what speaks to you as a person. Thanks for the video and cheers from Brazil 😊

Soo true !! Thank you for making this video.

I actually clicked because of the thumbnail, it looked nice, then got surprised but how pretty you were and stayed because of the message, you're so right! I've always been having low self-esteem since I was little, and now thanks to all trends and everything even more. I'm trying to love me, but it's hard so I get into the illusion of saying to myself: "maybe if I do this hairstyle/I buy these clothes/I do makeup (...or whatever) I will like me more". Sometimes works, sometimes it doesn't. I didn't even know how to do proper make up, nobody taught me except the Internet.

you are so beautiful omg

U look like Valentina lima

I'm happy you explained it. I always try to tell people to be aware of what they're going with their choices. Actually working on confidence helps alot.

Finally someone speaks about that ! The glow up subject is so annoying these days

Girl you should do podcast

clock it

Honestly I agree, the real glowing up does not require materialistic things. It’s so toxic to think an object can change ur life, sure it can improve it in some ways but it has a limit. At the end of the day ur the one who makes the real change in ur life.

Even alternative styles or even subcultures that carry political and historical importance have been summarized as sexualization and mass culture, turning more of the same. What wasn't cool 3 years ago, like ballet flats or the 80s gothic look, suddenly became popular enough to appear in relevant magazines. It's robotic, not natural and these people wouldn't use it if tiktok hadn't said it was cool.

Period!!!

Same!!! I’m tweleve watching my little pony! Wear sparkly sequin t shirts, but I still study hard and do whatever. I try to be kind all the time. I’m so sick of the internet. However, there’s always the Gen Alpha kids who are smart, kind, ect. They just aren’t:t on the internet.

i feel like friendship is scary. ive never felt truly safe in one before and i start to think maybe its my issue? previous friendships led me to really sealing myself off to the people i meet now.

someone should talk about this thank you