That's so lovely. ❤

Thank you for sharing this Brittany! Experiencing similar trials and as Christian I’ve seen it isn’t about being ‘sweet’ or an ‘easy target’ but being a disciple of Jesus Christ as written in John 15:18-20. When I committed my career to the Lord as in Col 3:23, the trials and blessings followed 💕

me too

I’ve been bullied my whole life since I was a child. Specially in the 90’s when nobody was aware of ADHD or treatment for ADHD. From teachers, family, boyfriends, co workers, classmates my whole entire life and I’ve always asked myself why! I’m quiet and nice to people, I’m always keeping my distance. Teachers even calling me dumb for not being smart. Now that I’m older I try to defend myself more often I definitely don’t see my family and don’t want to go to family reunions. It’s hard having adhd and learning things specially at my job. I literally cried with this video because I understand her. How much can I take? I get nauseous going to work and sometimes even blamed for things that wasn’t my fault. How much of this do I have to take? I’m a believer of god and even asked god why me? Why can’t I just have peace everywhere I go?

I’m now being belittled for the first time in my life at work. It’s horrible and at age 59 it’s not so easy to go find another job. Bless you sweetie❤❤.

Thank you 🙏 for telling your story

One of the bosses who’s 50th birthday party was, they got someone to go around to individual people with invitations and that person was told to hide the invitations under the keyboard. Because they obvs didn’t want everyone to go. Bullying is still going on in the place

Our society needs more resilience against bullying. Seems like it's encouraged in systemic ways for sure. Companies boast about their "work culture" and "harassment policies" - often a bunch of sociopaths lying through their teeth.

I was bullied every where i work ,im now 51 yrs ,im done with it all now, i get to be at home enjoying my life,my hobbies,my garden,my family,my body is back to normal ,no stress ,i prayed about this leaving the work force ,this broke my character and my soul,being tortured everyday,but i thought this was me being a productive person ,contributing to my household,but now i contribute by maniging by home ,being a wonderful mom and wife, i will never miss that !

I just seen this post. I'm so, so, so sorry for all the pain you endured from those Narcissists. You are a beautiful woman of God. Continue to believe you are worthy. I know this is 5 years later from this post but I pray you are in a most wonderful place and enjoying the best Jesus has for you.

Your video randomly popped up on autoplay and I immediately related. I could feel the pain. You are a beautiful person who is clearly a good worker.

Hey girl I've been there I had the whole work force turn against me. People I thought were my friends didn't have my back.The bitch manager did nothing but lie about me. Now I'm in a new job and recently won an award. After leaving there. well that says it all. Keep strong you are a good person.

Im being currently bullied at my workplace and facing the trauma with that no one is listening to me

Im currently being bullied at work, most of the people at the organisation are apart of it - I dont understand other than they must feel horrible on the inside ❤

I’m always getting bullied at work by children. I wish I could become something better in life.

I just quit my job because of this. I am at peace now. Waiting on the Lord to provide another job.

It's because they are losers. Probably very unattractive, with zero personality. I have a group of people at work that did this to me for years. They hate your purity and charisma. Just keep being you, and they hate it more. Because they can't be like you.

I went through exactly what you did, the bullies that targeted me also took it off company property and I was being stalked. I have voluntarily quit those jobs and it didn’t matter, I’ve also about a year ago moved to another state. I have a good support group that deals with survivors of having been abused by narcissists and toxic people. There are people out there where we have all suffered the same abuse so we tell our stories so others can feel validated and know that they are not alone. I’m hoping that we can push a law that makes coercion control and bullying a felony in this country. The thing is I found out that at one company that I was at for 17 years management were pulling the men into a meeting where they were being told how they can further abuse females under the radar and get away with it. HR will not help you, they flipped it on me and tried to make it out that I was causing the problems. This happened after the company had a rightful women’s discrimination lawsuit against them and we were awarded money. Kind of a long story but I think most of you will get what I’m telling you.

Bullies are narcissists & they are all toxic!

They bully me at work and at home and they made a rumor I was gay and a transgender and I’m not gay or bi and I’m not ugly. I’m a smaller petite black woman. And I’m a nurse. And I am a Christian. I’m not androgynous. It’s someone that is gay because they keep making things sound gay. And if I wear my hair in a ponytail or bun they bully me and all the black people are braiding their hair or natural I don’t like that. These people it’s like they don’t respect people’s opinion of how they choose to live their lives. I’m 34 years old and I already know what I want and how I choice to live my life.

I went through it 4 10 years. Then walk 2 HR forced to leave......r b fired. Never could define 4 what. So I retired. Then IRS came after me at 52. He'll. Then it landed me n hospital w jugular clot. They meant it 4 my death.

They don't deserve to be forgiven.

Can you do an updated video please?

Film them ladies-threaten legal action or find legal help.

When I worked in an office from 1994 till 2007. I felt bullied nearly everyday and had suicidal thoughts at least once or twice a month but we have a saying over here in the UK don't let the Bast**ds get you down. I still get flashbacks now after all these years from time to time if you told the boss he would just say it's banter. We didn't have the internet back then like we do now so we didn't know where to go second class citizen that's grand I felt third a gofer I was. The funny thing is that they thought a lot of me. I know I'm white but the Movie The Tuskigee airmen got me through my years. The thing about being bullied or disrespected is. It teaches you how to treat others. One of the reasons I was bullied was because of my religion at the time. I thought of Joseph and is brother's and had the song close every door to me in my head a lot . But that's in the past I know do volentery work and I'm about to start at Mind and I'm looking forward to it. And in general people treat me a lot better

I'm so sorry love 😢💔 i usually never comment on yt videos but your story reminded me that i am not alone. I know what you mean and i am sad that you have been through it it's brutal. Don't feel ashamed even with a strong social support it remains an extremely difficult experience that no one bats an eye to. I hope you heal from it ❤ i left the toxic environment and while it improved the experiences scarred me personally, trying to work through it. Not to be cliché but don't give up bc of them, they literally don't care if you end up unalived. Leaving that place means you fought for yourself and your well being and that matters. Idk what to say except some internet hugs xoxo

My wife went through the same thing. If you are an smart woman who happens to be very attractive also, it brings to light all the insecurities people around you have. It's sad how corporate America is just a cluster f of weak and insecure narcissist sociopaths. Never work for a company without an HR department and a zero tolerance on workplace bullying!

Amen. I applaud you for forgiving them. I forgive the people who did that to me. I just get a little annoyed if I see them take roads I take as they dislike me or they may put harm on me. I do feel like saying piss off. In the end I have prayed for them to hope that God can help them turn to God and wish they get things they need and not want too. I wish that on everyone. God bless.

I developed severe social anxiety because of bullying in my workplaces. Experienced it in more than one place. I am a very social creature that is relatively great with conversation with people. This is when I experienced it the most. It has impacted me so much mostly in waves of seasons to do daily normal things, I try to remind myself that it’s the insecurity of the human being. Still get anxious though

Now I’m dealing with this at the job for only a little over a month. I’m tired of this. My last job this happened and I got fired because I spoke up and defended myself. My supervisor was a narcissistic scientist. It crushed me for a while as I was escorted out of the building like a criminal and this was company that almost never fired anyone. I did nothing but work myself into the ground and gave my opinions on how to improve my work. This man didn’t want to hire me from the interview but the other two scientists took me on. Now this is happening again. I don’t do anything. I do my job and even for a while I was open, friendly, talkative, and trying to get to know my new work environment at the hospital. Now I have stomachaches when I get off of work or when I have to return to the department where this happens the most. I get headaches, feel drained, and one day I felt like jumping in front o the train. Because I don’t have anyone in my life. My family abused me, my ex abused me, I have no friends. I have absolutely no one but God. But even he says that isn’t good for us to be alone. I’m so tried. In Australia Christians are very few most are nonbelievers, atheists, and agnostic. So of course the majority are rampant with demons and dark energy. It’s so insidious it will leave you mentally damaged. I have a psychologist and God. God is all I need, I’m 32 and have nothing and no one due to these people. I don’t have a stable career or resume because the abuse gets so bad I have to flee to save my life! I had to flee from my ex to save my life, I had to flee from my family to save my life. I just want God to take me home, I don’t know why I’m here

Wait a second, I have a second channel with the best bullying resources available globally. Bullying leads to termination in about 3 months. To call a situation as bullying, and to not be terminated for 10 years???? Seriously? Are you sure it might be harassment? Name calling from teens? That's not the same as bullying in the workplace from coworkers that leads to termination within a month or two? Are your coworkers also teachers? OK, women can be jealous of other women who are more attractive. Also, are you a better teacher, and able to get certain kids to achieve higher grades than the other teachers, making other teachers look less competent? Jealousy because you are better looking, because you are more effective than the other teachers? The problem I have with all these personal stories, is that you don't explain anything that happened, no details, no step-by-step things said to you that were insulting.

You are amazing for speaking out. You wouldn't think this would happen amongst adults in a school of all places, where the adults are supposed to be setting an example. I am an expat in Canada and found myself on the receiving end of similar behavior whilst teaching in a school. I found myself being ostracized, treated as if my opinion didn't account, and on and on. I am retired now. Can be selective who I allow to participate in my life and am so much happier. God bless anyone who is dealing with this. Having experienced it first-hand, my heart goes out to each and every one of you.

Britney , you are very beautiful and sweet. Most probably they were just jealous of you and hate that whatever you have they will never have. You should feel happy for all the blessings you have

I hope ur doing better, its pesecution that u went through, Im going through it also, if it wasnt for jesus, i wouldnt be here. My only support sistem is the holy trinity. But soon the lord will bring me together with my tribe, my true spiritual family. 🙌 because we carry the holy spirit, demons manifest in individuals that come around us. Self help books have helped me out a lot also.

My bullies are mentally ill, personality disordered, drug and alcohol addicted etc. Healthy people don't engage in this garbage.

So true once you have a relationship with Jesus your coworkers will mock you it's lime their own unclean spirits get triggered because we have the holy spirit in them. Let's keep praying for our enemies and for our protection and forgiveness

Workplace bullying was one of the worst experiences I had in my life. Thank you for sharing your story. Thank God for getting us through the tough times. Whenever you find yourself in a narcissistic workplace run!

I am so happy to hear that you found happiness. I believe you were saying you work at another school now? You deserve respect

I have gone though workplace bullying 3 times. At the first place, an already male dominated industry with known sexist undertones, a playboy spread of a model that I look A LOT alike (Or did at the time) was spread around the office with them all laughing saying how much it looked like me. My reputation was never the same there after. A second place was a school where I was the 3rd victim of the bully. The union verified that I was not in the wrong and was a victim of harassment. The third time, again, I was the 3rd target of this bully. I was put on a 6 month PIP due to her actions where I was being lied about and threatened with termination repeatedly. I finally quit and was awarded EI under the understanding that I had "No choice but to quit". But my body and mind are now broken and it's incredibly hard to heal the damage enough to fix my career and move forward.

5yrs later and this made me just as emotional as you felt talking about it. Everybody has their trial and error stage true enough, but the gossip and slander can play on your mental health and question your ability to perform your job...

I don’t want to ever forgive them. I realize they won’t know or not, and it’s “for me.” I’ve been in 14 years of therapy for an abusive alcoholic POS “father.” But for the current work situation…they have made my entire life, mental and physical health, when I was atttnepting su!cide even before this job 2 years ago….they’ve made it a living hell. My one friend was just fired. 2 people got her fired and they are after me now. But it’s much worse bc I’m so quiet and won’t say anything back. My life is hard enough. Raising money for my IVF before my eggs are gone early due to cancer treatment. Only got 1 good embryo cycle 1 and it was $22k. Am 37 and expecting menopause at 38-39 based on labs. And I need another cycle. I’ve only raised $450 in over a year for my miracle aftwr 2 miscarriages, contractions in the bathroom alone just to find a 12-week old fetus come out, and tissue bits at 7 weeks….life never gets better. And people at work make fun of that and my extreme sickness from IVF meds. And my heat intolerance from perimenopause at 37. Let me tell you I was NOT popular in HS. I didn’t have friends. This is hello 100000000000000000 infinity worse. And like I said I’m f-ing 37. These people are disgusting and will make an example out of any small mistake, make sure I’m not leading anything, and make up disgusting rumors if they can’t scream and throw things about my work, trying to get me fired to managers. That could be the best thing that’s ever happened for my health rn, but it is so hard to get another job- so much worse if I’ve been fired.

The gorgeous absolutely privileged girl at work (3 new cars w no college degree in 6 months from mommy and daddy) is loved by everyone at work. I have a severely painful back problem that needs surgery and has to wait to do IVF that I’m $22k in debt for. I am ridiculed for it, told I’m “manifesting” for it, positive-looking things underhandedly bashing me….going through all 4 types of bullies at work w no support. The worst one will go through all 4 at once!! The manager is the second worst, and that’s what’s so hard. I am so much more educated and capable than this girl…but I am screamed at in front of EVERYONE, clients etc. this girl is loved, heralded, promoted….it’s f@cking ridiculous. So many rumors and a big team at work that hates on me, when I take so many meds just to get to work without having diarrhea, vomiting, a whole panic attack. It’s the worst experience of my life. I’ve been talked down upon at other work places, and talked about when everyone else is, too….but this is the entire team v me just bc my best friend was fired. The gorgeous girl can do NO WRONG, and people will pull me over in front of everyone and tell me why she’s done better. And I got promoted….nobody said a word but said “You wanted the extra damn work here ya go!!!” She got promoted….people made a sign, got her a card, say she runs the whole place. I am the lead trainer and she is the lead coordinator of “side projects.” At this point, people have taken trainees off of me (7 months after I trained 8 of them bc it’s a revolving f*ck*ng door) and told me (in front of said trainee) I have no idea what I’m doing. Meanwhile I’ve done so many extra things for them and taken over when they really needed it. Went above and beyond.

Brittney, no one can take you - your inherent value - from you. They tried to do that, by projecting all their unmetabolized pain onto you, but you radiate too much light for that. Thank you for sharing this. You are helping many by sharing your truth. ❤

I was severely bullied as a child. I really thought that all this would end as an adult. Boy was I wrong.

Because you put the people to shame and they were jealous of something in an opinion.

Negative energies have to meet us in workplaces to weaken us where it matters most: family, livelihood, and joy. These are Gods blessings. An enemy targets this. Also, if you have attribures such as appearance, educational background, and focus on excelling in community and goals. Some will copycat you and some will desire to get you removed from your position at work. It is NOT jealousy. It is envy because it is evil. Jealousy is a normal human enotion. Envy is a soul disease, and workplace imps and orcs(bullies) are filled with that spirit of envy. If you are a person of faith, the enemy of faith uses people as host through possession. You can pray for them or pray protection from them.

Teacher of the year! Congrats!!!! They saw it in you!!!

Watching you I know what it is. You are everything they want to be and are lacking.😊❤

Why wouldn't you state how you were mistreated in your "sole". We're not just clumps of meat. We are beings who feel and we're social beings. It is torture to ostracize a human. If someone hits you, would you protect them by not discloseing that they hit you?

I was bully a lot when I was an X-ray tech at the hospital, I sucked it up, I cried a lot and I left the field because of it. I lost 35 pounds and I got fed up w it.