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@nikkibakhshan1957 Күн бұрын
I took note of every word thank you it helped a lot🤍
@TheMounten1 Күн бұрын
I’ve realised a lot of retroactive jealousy primarily for men revolves around pride and there’s a fear in if I let go I would end up becoming complacent and lose motivation for other things. I’m not sure how to address this.
@russelwestborked5493 3 күн бұрын
It's not good to mix races
@RC-qc2nz 4 күн бұрын
Wow. I am inhaling your videos. We are on a wavelength and that helps very much. I love my fiance and we both have a sexual past and she has no problems because for her it's Indifferent and irrelevant and for me it's a big deal but I wanna overcome RJ. She is very honest about everything and she does not want do the same things as in her past and she says that progress isn't linear. It's with ups and downs and important is to not give up. Thank you very much! Greetings from Germany ❤
@bunbrowny8753 6 күн бұрын
I better remain RJ
@WorldRunner444 7 күн бұрын
This video is extremely helpful. I am going through relationship anxiety now (I have been diagnosed with general anxiety disorder). I am asking my girlfriend if she wants to be with me because I am experiencing some things with her that are triggering like how she uses her cell phone (seems suspicious at times). However, that could be me projecting and my anxiety. This video is going to help me rein that in. I am in therapy as well and this is a huge addition to it. Thank you.
@BulldogBoxing 8 күн бұрын
Thank you for your videos.
@overcomingrelationshipanxiety 8 күн бұрын
Thank you for your comment! I’m glad you find them helpful.
@Jipaaji 11 күн бұрын
15:00
@andreichetan4694 11 күн бұрын
Simple and easy, explination for intuition vs intrusive toughts coming from anxiety. Much aprecciate🎉
@ChrisP-ni4lz 14 күн бұрын
Comparison is the the death of joy
@suenettethompson1447 15 күн бұрын
So great 👍 Learning so much ❤❤❤
@ronnier7813 15 күн бұрын
Can you please make more like this video? About knowing your partner before🙏
@kashmirirose3733 16 күн бұрын
I told her to take her tramp stamp and hit the road. Who she was in her past informs who she will be in the future. Let the next guy accept her past.
@thatoseoposengwe4449 16 күн бұрын
I think I had or might have relationship anxiety, I didn't know this til she left
@anishbhatnagar5932 19 күн бұрын
Search a girl who hasn't being used like the attractive girls, she will not be beautiful through face but literally beautiful by virginity, coz virgin girl is the most beautiful girl for a innocent boy who grew up as a men now
@Mynhassty 22 күн бұрын
Thank you so much for making these videos, they are helping me a lot
@nataliemcaleese1 23 күн бұрын
THANK You! omg I’ve been struggling with the difference between the two!
@keretaman 23 күн бұрын
Your pointers are so helpful. This video is exactly what I was hoping to find. I've had this problem for years, in different relationships, and I want it to stop. I'm so indecisive in general. I want to stay and I don't want to leave but I've been so anxious. Thank you for sharing these tips and advice with us ❤
@freddyvielma8641 23 күн бұрын
Sorry. We men have a different brain functioning. We don’t think like y’all. If she has been a 304 in the past and we find out, ain’t no way we gon see her the same way we used to. Once a 304, always a 304. MEN ARE DIFFERENT than y’all.
@XTINCTIONation 24 күн бұрын
A really great, in depth analysis of this subject, thank you 🙏🏽
@ChrisP-ni4lz 24 күн бұрын
This is is exactly true … poisons the imagination This can affect a lot of things
@michaelmorris7413 24 күн бұрын
I really appreciate this video I will save it to watch and learn from
@megangriffin4144 24 күн бұрын
My partner told me on our first date about an uncomfortable part of his sexual history and I’ve not stopped thinking about it since. I look back on what should be happiness in our relationship and it’s not it’s regret and sadness. It’s killing me. Every day I’m plagued with thoughts and images and questions comparing myself. I feel like he is who he is because of the person from his past which makes me feel like I can’t be with him because he “is the past” if that makes sense. Please can someone help me
@peterbriggs8022 15 күн бұрын
To be fair to him, deserves a lot of credit for his honesty by telling you on the first date, I wish I had been shown such respect. You need to get out of the relationship now, don’t wait a moment longer. If you stay, you’ll never be happy and constantly in a world of pain, it will ruin your life. Believe me ‘I know’. Don’t make the mistake I made by staying and trying to make it work. After 43 years of torture and agony, so far, I can only long for the day I’ll be free, if you know what I mean. Please save yourself!
@overcomingrelationshipanxiety 24 күн бұрын
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@fluffynyasquirrel 24 күн бұрын
i feel myself overcoming it day by day but i had a dream today and it made me feel really disconnected from my partner so i had calm anxiety rocd today and feel bad because it was easy to fall into the trap of "he probably likes his other partners bc im not sexual..." but then i remembered "out of all of them he chose me..." and i try to keep that in mind anyways. idk i had one setback but i feel better now. i can kind of feel myself evolving
@DR-xt9gj 25 күн бұрын
While I do like some of your content I don’t think your assessment that most of these issues are based on the men being insecure…. That’s an overly simplistic view that far too many women have… Contrary to popular opinion not every man is insecure about himself because he has his own opinion about a woman’s sexual past…. Sometimes it’s more about the poor choices she’s made… Not a judgement…. Women are allowed to have certain criteria…. Why aren’t they also considered insecure????
@overcomingrelationshipanxiety 25 күн бұрын
Hi thank you for taking the time to comment. Having a preference or like you said “a certain criteria” In my opinion does not make you insecure. You just don’t choose to be with someone that does not fit that criteria. That is not RJ that is a preference. What I am talking about is when you want to be with your partner but their past bothers you. It’s not a choice or preference but more an inner conflict. I have made a video called “what RJ is and what it is not” if you want to watch it.
@HigorMatos 26 күн бұрын
Hey, Eva. Thank you for all videos. So, overcome Rj became a "free mind"? Free of all symptons?
@overcomingrelationshipanxiety 25 күн бұрын
Hi, thank you for your comment. What do you mean by becoming a free mind?
@HigorMatos 25 күн бұрын
@@overcomingrelationshipanxiety I mean.... No more symptons? No more "brain hijacketed"? I'm Brazilian. I'm not fluent yet. Sorry about my bad english.
@JDGraves182 27 күн бұрын
I really want to get a hold of this. I am absolutely happy and in love with my current girlfriend and have even talked about getting married someday. But, the RJ is driving me crazy because she has much more broad past than I do, with a lot of casual hookups and friends with benefits. I know it was before me and shouldn't matter, but it is driving me crazy.
@shinedcutlerysh8496 11 күн бұрын
she is just a w*ore
@jimmoriarty6964 27 күн бұрын
Their past has EVERYTHING to do with our current relationship and I'm tired of pretending it doesn't
@overcomingrelationshipanxiety 27 күн бұрын
I’m not sure in what context you mean this?
@KUSHMADEVI-yt7vg Ай бұрын
This is happening to me because there are many problems in my relationship or I am overthinking about the past or I am being bold in yelling at my partner because I am feeling very bad, I am sorry because I love you or want to live better. but I am the one who has created the problem.
@nigel-vn4rs Ай бұрын
Ugh really wish you had a microphone geez, it’s very hard to hear you from your laptop microphone or whatever you’re using during this video. This is good content though.
@overcomingrelationshipanxiety 29 күн бұрын
Hi, sorry about that. I have a blue yeti mic but the settings were not correct. Im glad you found the content useful.
@simplypositiveme Ай бұрын
Most valuable video ever! Thank you, thank you!
@overcomingrelationshipanxiety 29 күн бұрын
Thank you for taking the time to comment! I am glad you found it helpful.
@YbcA1 Ай бұрын
Hi! So ERP with retroactive jealousy, today I noted down a trigger- a one night stand for example. I then forced myself to get triggered by thinking of it, I then sat with it and tried not to respond or explore the thought etc, is this correct way to do ERP for retroactive jealousy? Thanks.
@overcomingrelationshipanxiety 29 күн бұрын
I am not trained in ERP and have not heard many good stories about using this method to cure RJ. Maybe it works with some people but the therapist who is trained in ERP needs to be familiar with RJ.
@RiverRatSurfers Ай бұрын
Between 4-5minutes was amazing. Thank you
@orweyn1712 Ай бұрын
Thank you very much for the video, hope you'll have a great day!
@orweyn1712 Ай бұрын
It only passed few hours from this video and the nightmare already finished for me. Do you want to know how? I simply went to the gym, pushed the weights like a maniac, and boom, I gained my self confidence back. Thank you for the advice on doing hard things! My RJ showed up for a list of reasons (fear to enter a serious relationship, low self esteem, lose of interests, mild bulling on the job, etc), but the most important is that after a light injury at the leg I couldn't train properly, and every day passed I started doing the things only to do them, with the least effort possible, until my will to do something reduced to zero, I lost my self confidence, and the relationship was the only thing to grip to have approvation: so from there the RJ came to hunt me (total of one week, 2-3 days very intense and destructive), knowing the fact that if I would lost my relationship I would lose everything I had. So after 3 days of self analysis I understood what was going on, and I told myself to stop being a little baby-victim and to move my ass. Remember you have to show your value to yourself through your actions, achieving results through difficult processes, and get involved in your life knowing that even if the relationship could finish, you'll have yourself and your insatiable will to prove yourself that you are worthy. Your value doesn't have to come from someone else's approvation, but you have to prove yourself that you are worthy (or even better that you are better than some other people if you are jealous of them). I hope it can be helpful for you!
@overcomingrelationshipanxiety 29 күн бұрын
Thank you! You too:)
@Ashnakhan812 Ай бұрын
Can u plzz tel me what type of jeoulousy is this ! Iam suffering from severe jeoulousy Iam jeoulous from my collage mate bcz she is perfect she is very pretty even Iam also called pretty in collage but Iam jeoulous of her she come in my mind again and again from which I get anxiety Bcz I think that Iam going crazy bcz of these thoughts😢😢😢😢😢😢😢I hate this feelings and these thoughts
@Ashnakhan812 Ай бұрын
Iam being jeoulous from my collage mate bcz she is perfect in all way Iam also goof but I don't why Iam suffering from severe jeoulousy her face again and again came in my mind and I get triggered I don't want this feeling these thoughts😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
@danielalv7840 Ай бұрын
This is very helpful… I have reasons to believe my partner has RJ and I had no idea on what to do to help her. Thank you!
@xenavo6495 Ай бұрын
I really needed this EXACTLY today in this moment. Thank you so much lovely, very helpful💗😊
@abbywallner_ Ай бұрын
Thank you I needed this❤
@TheDzsergey Ай бұрын
How do you know that you “made it to the other side”? I’d love to hear your take on this. Thank you for your videos, they are very helpful.
@overcomingrelationshipanxiety Ай бұрын
I am glad you find them helpful! I have made a video on this: kzbin.info/www/bejne/g3PGq2CEg82mf9U
@shania2064 Ай бұрын
thank you so much for making this video 🤍 i hope everyone here gets healed
@overcomingrelationshipanxiety Ай бұрын
In the full video I talk about the partners recollection of their past not the RJ sufferers. The study is also linked below that video should you want to look into it.
@colingibson8930 Ай бұрын
This may apply to some things, but I think in this context it doesn't. The memories you retain about what your partner has said regarding previous sex scenarios etc tends to be super remembered in acute detail, and often cast up on the next telling of it if there are any differences than the previous telling. If there's anything that RJ sufferers do well it's remembering every small detail about what their partner said before, and then building on it with each new bout of questioning and retelling.
@nana-cc5sr Ай бұрын
This is so helpful 😢❤
@overcomingrelationshipanxiety Ай бұрын
Thank you for your comment! So happy it helped:)
@ayashasiddika8719 Ай бұрын
be careful people! cause history reapets itself 😅
@dr.feelgood3670 Ай бұрын
If I gave you a plate of delicious food and told you last week it was covered in feces, but it’s okay because I washed it
@DeDoGunpla Ай бұрын
the cause of suffering is indecision... I'll take note of that... thank you
@lydiamathipa4596 Ай бұрын
Crazy how the two can co-exist? And you can be anxious now because you ignore you gut feeling? This is very complex
@overcomingrelationshipanxiety Ай бұрын
It is! I recommend seeking help from a professional if this is how you feel. This video talks about Relationship Anxiety more generally but there can be a lot more to it.
@Bondlondonuk Ай бұрын
You're amazing girl. Thank you
@overcomingrelationshipanxiety Ай бұрын
Thank you for your comment. I am happy it helped:)