10 Fashion Mistakes Costing You a LOT of Money

I've made some of these 10 fashion mistakes and maybe you have, too. They'll cost you! And they'll keep you from being the stylish woman you can be. See if you are making any of these style mistakes. ~ xxox, Kay
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[@lu_re7198]

It would be interesting to see how you edit your wardrobe and decide which items to remove (and why). I’m sure many of us can relate to and learn from the pros/cons of your experiences.🤩

[@maryokeefe5351]

This is a gold mine of great and useful content, Kay. Thank you! On the topic of colour intensity, or high-contrast vs. lower-contrast colouring, would you consider doing another video just on this topic? It would be helpful to see pictures of other women and what colours suit them best vs. outfits which did not suit them as well. A good example of high-contrast colouring is the beautiful Amal Clooney. She looks amazing in red, mustard yellow, etc. In northern climates, we are bombarded with black clothing, although it does not flatter everyone. I'd appreciate more detail on this topic if you can. Love your channel and your kind and gracious manner.

[@twopeasinapod3718]

Love this idea!

[@natwithacat]

I agree, Mary, I find the colour intensity bit so eye opening and wished for more on it!!

[@bettymcgrady4261]

Thanks for another informative, encouraging video, Kay. Your positivity and desire to help others always shines through!

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Thank you. 🥰

[@ddittmar64]

Lots of helpful information, but the biggest thing I got from this video was the contrast explanation. I kept seeing people talking about it in other videos, but I didn't "get it". You explained it so much more clearly and I LOVE the examples you showed afterward. NOW I get it! Thank you so much for making this video. And my husband thanks you, too. I've definitely been spending too much money on clothes for a long time only to get rid of them after wearing them a few times. That stops today.

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Wonderful!

[@pbarry5041]

I wish I had learned all these things growing up, but I am thankful to have discovered you and others who have helped. We’re all learning even “over 50”. And PTL for mercy and grace towards ourselves and others.

[@tplayspiano]

This was a very well done video; I love color and have done the color analysis and made the mistake of adding too many colors; buying the wow jacket or outfit that doesn’t work with anything else, having trouble letting go of old pieces that used to represent my style…the list goes on. 😁

[@marciafirst2271]

Some of the best advice you’ve given is to invest mostly in basics, adding in some trends here and there. I’ve been following this advice the past couple of years, and it has made getting dressed so much easier. My wardrobe is so much more versatile. Again, thanks for another great video.

[@sdeforest3390]

I definitely agree with you about not drying clothes. I don't put any of mine or my husband's clothes in the dryer. And my clothes last forever. I think I even read that the dryer can fade the colors of your clothes. You have lots of great tips in this video!

[@sandybutler2994]

Yes I have ruined several things using the dryer.

[@deborahcurtis1385]

Dry your clothes inside out if line drying outside. Any fading happens on the inside of the clothes. Also dry your jeans inside out with the pocket linings open to the air. Much faster.

[@barbhill6044]

Such wise and well crafted advice from a beautiful woman inside and out. I appreciate you so much Kaye for guiding me in my wardrobe development as I age gracefully into the future.

[@ginacline2995]

I’ll have to go back and watch this video again because ideas kept popping into my head and I kept pausing the video to go look at particular pieces of clothing in my closet. Next time I’ll watch it all the way through with a pad and pencil in hand! 😊 Thank you for some great ideas!

[@kimberlyperrotis8962]

My pro color analysis 40 years ago has been a great guide for me, but recently I dropped a few hues, like purples and most grays. Even though they were recommended, so they don’t clash with my coloring, I didn’t feel great in grays and I always found purples too difficult to style. I like having fewer colors, actually, there is a lot less work involved because I don’t have to find items “to go with them”. (I don’t believe that black goes with everything, it’s not recommended for me and I look sickly-pale with dark shadows in it, so I rarely wear it). There are still many colors in my palette that I really love to wear. I think the tighter the color palette, the easier it is to create a wardrobe that works really well. I have also been choosing lighter colors as my natural coloring fades, they are more flattering. (Soft Summer)

[@mamed944]

I loved the point about tightening your color story for the season, I am a deep autumn and I love all my color possibilities (browns! olive! rust! brick! slate! aubergine! cream! wine! dark teal, dark greens) but I don't look or feel cohesive if they are all in my wardrobe at once. It took awhile to figure this out. I too never wear black anymore and I stay away from grey near my face. I think those colors don't 'do' anything for me, whereas browns/navys/cream-ivory-beige help me look and feel more energetic.

[@ruthannsolomon2794]

Similar story and colors. Black definitely washes me out! Navy is my black.

[@jeffielou919]

I listened to this several times. I finally understand the intensity explanation and i found it very helpful!!!! I loved all of this information. 💕💕💕

[@carypolakowski4817]

Thank you Kay! I really enjoyed this video. I have recently had a couple aha moments regarding my own fashion mistakes. 1. Buying things that don’t fit my lifestyle- How many fancy fall blouses do I need as a retired stay at home grandmother? Not that many! And 2. Buying lots of separates when I don’t have the completer prices or accessories to go with what I already have in my closet. -For example I should buy brown boots to go with my nice brown top before I buy another brown sweater. Thanks again for being so gracious!

[@dcchambers7330]

I love your reminder that we should be respectful to our husbands, children and ourselves by looking our best. I truly believe if we look better, we feel better and act nicer!

[@DP-nv5fy]

Another outstanding video. "Do not hide behind your clothes!" I wish I'd heard that 20 years ago. Thank you, Kay.

[@pattorelli3451]

Great advice, Kay! I’m guilty of saving pretty dresses for occasions that might not ever arrive 😮.

[@lucydeboxer2565]

You are not alone...I FINALLY donated 3 dresses that hung in my closet for over 8 years with tags still on them 😔

[@lindapetersen9859]

Great advice Kay! I had my colors done years ago too but the problem was I just don't like the colors that are my season. Even in my 20s pastel blues and pinks were just not me - and now in my 60s they definitely aren't. So I just use them a little here and there as accents.

[@michaelwright8681]

You should check out Dressing Your Truth!

[@sandypalmer6200]

Great video. I had to order 3 times before I found the perfect pair of wide leg jeans that felt just right for my 62 year old self. They are fresh but feel just right for me. I had to kinda chuckle at my 33 year old daughter who scoffed at them. I wore them boldly to church this weekend and didn’t blink. She is gonna have to deal with the new look as I did when those skinny jeans arrived on the scene. Good ideas in your video, Kay!

[@vzeimen]

I just love these tips! Many good reminders that I've forgotten or need to try and a few that have already helped me so much. The BIGGEST thing for me was learning about contrast. I'm light like you and I was all of a sudden able to figure out why some of my favorite clothes were unwearable for me. The second thing that was a game changer was taking pictures of myself, full length, head to toe pictures in outfits that I own and ones that I've purchased and am undecided on. This is a great way to see what length your clothes need to be, where your waist is, what shoes and accessories are right etc. For special occasions where I'm buying a new dress, I love to bring several home and put them on with the shoes and accessories and take pictures. It's usually a no brainer which one I should keep and wear once I look at the pics. Thanks for using the word "relevant". I think that's what I want most. I don't care if I'm seen as stylish but I do care that I'm relevant to others and I think style can really do a lot to help with that. I would love a video about what different ways of dressing conveys to certain situations. Like is blue more powerful than pink in a big business meeting? Or if you're needing to talk to a dr about a plan of action for your health and you want to really advocate for yourself, should you wear a suit, jeans and a t-shirt, certain colors that might be taken more seriously? I'm sure you have thoughts on this.

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Good idea! I’ll put some thought into that!

[@vzeimen]

@@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms Thanks, when I was learning more about style from 40+Style I was also starting a new job where I would have to meet with parents about their student's bad attendance at school. I really started putting a lot of thought into what I wore and what colors, for in person meetings and I think it helped me feel more confident and I wanted to come across caring but serious and more authoritative than had I dressed in my usual casual garb.

[@elaineborn6135]

Kay, thank you for sharing your wisdom with us.

[@suzanneb6088]

Gracious! Women encouraging women to not be critical of each other. Best fashion advice EVER! 👌

[@shogo8995]

I think that when women feel their waists or hips are “too large” there is a temptation to hide them with looser pieces that skim over their entire bodies. The problem is that this makes every part of their body look as large as their largest part. Show off the part you are happier with. If you think your hips and tummy are too large to tuck a shirt, try tucking in just the front and blousing it a little. If you think your hips are too big, tuck and belt and then add a blazer or cardigan to create a “skinny” pillar down the front. Or don’t wear the jacket and just show off your waist and curves. Whatever part you are happiest with, give yourself the opportunity to show it off.

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Exactly! 🙌🏻

[@Giniv118]

Hi! I love the down to earth training and inspiring quality of these videos. ❤️🙏🏻🤗🥰

[@Patricia-pq4jq]

You done. ??

[@denisedorsey2889]

Kay, I’ve watched your videos on occasion and always appreciated the content. Today, however, the tips you gave were spot on. It’s obvious that you put a great deal of thought into this. You are an inspiration to your audience. I’ve decided to subscribe to your channel today after listening to your wise words delivered with such grace. Thank you.

[@tommyetaylor]

Kay I believe we all make the mistakes, thank you for reminding us not to do those. Sometimes your comments are enlightening and I’m happy that I found your station

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Thank you so much. That’s very encouraging. 😊

[@patriciasandoval3624]

Thanks for this great and encouraging video about to embrace our very own style. Your are right! For example, I always see women wearing beautiful kimonos, I bought some and tried them every Autumn but, finally I realized and accepted that the kimonos are not for me, they are not my style but that cost me money because at the end I did not use them.

[@patriciasandoval3624]

Wow, thanks for the prize!

[@patriciasandoval3624]

Thanks for the prize!

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

That’s a hoax Patricia. Do not text them.

[@teresasimmons2187]

Love your hair styled that way! ❤

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Thank you. 😊

[@TheDriftwoodlover]

So well said. I am very guilty of not enough planning before I buy.

[@kfiles4976]

Me too!

[@maryvogel1558]

I love your hair behind your ears

[@gegeschannel8836]

Love this list. I am a classic style. So fortunately, I invested in blazers and other good quality items when I was working. I am a lifetime Talbots girl. I try to add the seasons colors to my wardrobe thru tanks and other layering items. But I have fallen into the outfit trap where I have nothing to match with them. Thanks for all you advice! ❤

[@jansleight543]

I hear you, as a fellow girl who loves classic style--and Talbots! :)

[@lindasmith6668]

I like your suggestions; they make sense.

[@lisbetsoda4874]

Admittedly, i am being critical since you have a fashion channel but I do not think that blouse and blazer work all that well together. I know there are rules for when and how to mix patterns but I just don't think it works. I do love both pieces separately, though. Both beautiful. I love your advice. It was a particularly great episode.

[@bssam2143]

Loved what said and thank you

[@lindawilliams6152]

Great Video! I learned a lot of things I didn't know. I enjoy your blog everyday and I love all the information you give. Now I've got to find my style!! Haha!!❤️

[@georgialabudie7489]

Thank you Kay for this video. I needed it because I have body issues that you talked about and am going to try some of the solutions.

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Great to hear!🥰

[@robertjacobs4062]

From Roberta-I love kimonos, however I’ve realized I look better in structured jackets. I love cotton fabric, but look better in synthetics. Sigh. So more structured under garments while wearing chiffons. Plus wearing synthetics for evening events solves my issues.

[@barbiec4312]

Always good tips Kay. Thank you!

[@patriciabond4860]

Thank you for this video Kay I do make a lot of these mistakes & I have to admit that I'm in the camp of "I can't tick things in or wear a belt because I have a big belly" ha! I'll keep trying but I'm not holding out a lot of hope there. I have however recently realised that I don't have to wash my clothes every time I wear them if they aren't dirty! I spray them with a softener & water mix & they're good to go again but I think that's the only mistake I don't make 😂

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Great idea! Airing out is always a good idea too. Thanks so much for watching. 🥰

[@Oblate2023]

Excellent video with so much good advice!

[@roylenekornovich9410]

Great and encouraging video, however, I have a hard time being happy with my body. I’m 5’2”, 145lbs. Not horrible, maybe 25lbs overweight, but why does all of the 25 lbs. have to be between my waist and knees?! I hate myself in nearly everything. 😢 Thank you for the effort.❤

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

I do encourage to work on seeing your body as an amazing thing. Perhaps you have carried and birthed babies, worked hard, dealt with health issues, etc. it’s amazing that your body has carried you through so much of life. And none of us are perfect…especially as we age. But your body is a blessing. 💕

[@roylenekornovich9410]

@@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms ❤️ I’m working on it Kay. LOL. Not giving up! I just turned 70 & feeling great. My appearance is still pretty youthful but I just can’t get my “arse” to stop following me around. 🤣

[@jansleight543]

@@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms Words of life, Kay.

[@donnaschindlbeck7457]

This was a much needed video for myself! I’ve so many time’s fallen into the trap of seeing a garment on sale and purchasing it just because I like it, only to discover I have nothing to go with it at home.

[@kfiles4976]

Me too!

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

We’ve all been there! 🙋🏼‍♀️

[@ingridgustad9932]

I love your videos/channel ❣️Greetings from me in Norway 🇧🇻

[@carolmoore1797]

Such a great video, Kay...thank you!

[@judymclaughlin6993]

You are brilliant!! Love your content.

[@brendaloyd907]

I don’t dry hardly anything either. They do last so much longer. My family used to be upset at me doing that but they have noticed it makes sense and they do last longer.

[@nociable]

For your convenience: 1:30 mistake 1 3:34 mistake 2 4:41 mistake 3 7:55 mistake 4 10:18 mistake 5 ❤️❤️❤️

[@erlinemountney8643]

It's hard for me to know what my style is...I am all over the place...I am 4' 11"and a 64 years old grandma I did have a smaller frame in the past which made to earlier for me to dress.... ANY advise to find out how to find a style....I live in sunny Southern CA and it's 100 degrees to day....Thanks so much for giving me just that little push I needed..:)

[@carolreeves9976]

That was so informative!! I loved it.

[@sherrypettit5552]

Thank you for the video. By the way, you look beautiful in that blue!

[@kimberlyberlin4999]

Great video Kay. If someone is high contrast does that mean they should only wear high contrast outfits?

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

If you have high contrast you will look BEST in outfits with high or at least medium contrast. But you don't have to limit yourself to that all the time. It's just one way to create the most cohesive looking outfits that flatter.

[@nicoleh5305]

Well done 👌 Thank you!

[@leighmatthews9713]

Great great tips!

[@magpiesmith971]

That’s me…lots of colors/clothes and almost nothing matches unless it goes with black or navy pants!!! So I wear the few things that do go together and have wasted a great deal of money in the process. I’m starting to think that at age 63, I’ve developed into a fashion train wreck 😂❤. When I was younger I was way more stylish than I am now and I miss that part of the old me. I am a retired RN and we were made to conform to strict guidelines for appearance on the job and always wearing scrubs made it tough to be stylish. I remember when a fellow RN came to work with these really cute red tennis shoes and she was reprimanded by the nurse supervisor! And then tattoos became popular and staff members were being harassed about that. So I tried to stay under the radar and it eventually turned me into a frumpy version of myself ❤. Now that there’s no one to tell me how I’m allowed to dress, I’m finding it hard to get out of these old bland habits 😊.

[@donnaallgaier-lamberti3933]

I'm on a tight budget and do not have many places to shop in my community and I really do have to try clothes on in person vs. buying on-line. I made several mistakes this past year. I bought a number of blouses in the style that made me look pregnant. It is my large breasts I think. These blouses are hot right now in my area but apparently my body type is not right for them. They do cover a tummy but....I do not want to even wear them now.

[@rita1259-y5c]

Great advice!!!

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Wonderful to hear! 😊

[@jeanettereed2604]

You’re best video yet!

[@cocoandwheeler]

I especially appreciate the advice to NOT wash our clothes so often. I find myself just automatically putting things in the hamper but they don't really need to be washed --- maybe just aired out .

[@Margaretcs0103]

I see myself in ALL of these mistakes!

[@heidimeigs5192]

I think a mistake we retired women make is “saving” any items of clothing that aren’t sweats, knits and very casual loungewear. Yes, they’re sooo comfortable, but we can and should make an effort to wear more of our clothes. I am guilty of this. I have started buying cuter casual/loungewear so that I don’t feel drab. I want to look cute even if I don’t leave the house.

[@deborahcurtis1385]

Another thing people do is to buy for a fantasy life, but not the reality of their everyday lives. So they buy party outfits or cocktail dresses or suits and never get to wear them! This is sad, (since we can always create an event for an outfit!) but also it's a colossal waste. Sometimes we have to let the life we actually lead, have an influence over our choices. Too many wardrobes are full of items that simply don't get worn. Get out there and have fun! Know yourself, enjoy yourself but always dress appropriately for the occasion.

[@danitapowell2291]

This is going to sound like such a cop out, but I would love for you to be my personal shopper. I even live close to you, on the KY side. You could use me as a different size model for one of your videos. Just a thought 😊

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Thanks for the offer or request. But I just can’t fit personal styling or shopping into my schedule. This is a full time + job and I just can’t do anymore. But thank you for putting that kind of confidence in me. 😉

[@carlsenlifeafter60carlsen11]

I think there’s another thing women do, I do this I should say. I buy things that are for a different life. I mean I buy things that are beautiful quality and dressy. Thinking oh ,I’m going to wear that to the next party or outing and I don’t end up wearing it. I have beautiful blazers and it’s too hot here in the Desert. I just found myself buying things for a life that I don’t have because I’m older and retired I don’t go out much anymore. The things I do attend I have clothes for.

[@terrykern1538]

Kay, this was such a helpful video!! I think as a young girl without a lot of money I was taught that you should save those beautiful clothes for a special occasion, but then I found that they were just sitting in my closet. What a great sense of freedom to wear them for everyday, not to mention that they just make you feel great!! Thanks and btw, that sweater looks great on you!

[@marinamo6479]

I started wearing whatever I like at home, even if I don't go anywhere. 😂For the same reason you mentioned.

[@rhonaklipp]

I do my laundry similarly to you but after air drying over a rack I toss my items in the dryer on air fluff to soften them. Works like a charm!

[@heidimeigs5192]

I wash all of my clothes in cold/cool water on the delicate cycle. Then I lay on a drying rack or hang probably 80% of my clothes. I have very inexpensive tees from Walmart that I’ve had for several yrs that still look new. I try to keep knits and sweaters/cardigans pill free with a shaver. I don’t have a large clothing budget as I’m retired on a smallish amount of money. So I try to take good care of my clothes.

[@brendas1346]

Excellent idea! I'm tired of my denim jeans fitting snug after drying in the dryer so I was thinking of air drying them but have never liked the stiffness.

[@loriallen1300]

Love these tips, Kay! I just recently had double mastectomy and I'm not having reconstruction. I'm opting for smallish prosthetic instead. I'm just now getting to the point where I'm interested in dressing for my day. I'm still spending time in my pg's (4 weeks out of surgery) but today I did dress and makeup for bible study. Thank you for all this work. It is inspiring to me...but even more since my cancer diagnosis. Much love...

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Bless you, Lori. I have a very young friend who is about to have a double mastectomy. I know this must be a very hard thing to go through. Be patient with yourself. I do hope and pray the cancer stays completely away. 💕

[@libbyneves5457]

Congratulations on finishing your treatment. I’m 17 years out. Enjoy your new lease on life.

[@darladellana4961]

I'm glad that you addressed this issue of fashion mistakes, Kay. Your videos are always full of well-researched, practical content. I found your KZbin videos a few months ago when I was struggling with negative body-image issues that were affecting my self-esteem and willingness to get out and about. At age 61, post-menopause, my recent retirement and too much stress-eating during the pandemic had left me feeling embarrassed about changes to my body shape and unsure how to dress myself. My tummy has been the most challenging issue and your advice about that problem area has worked a miracle for me! I love to watch your videos for the great fashion advice but also because your warmth and kindness just really brighten my days. So thank you for all that hard work you do and thanks for being such a lovely person.

[@gurlylocks3275]

Ditto!

[@christinwatson3037]

I agree, I've put on weight over the Pandemic and due to health issues. I love these videos 😂

[@barbaraletourneau1130]

Exactly so!!

[@sherriedavis1222]

I am SO happy you mentioned a critical spirit (I am guilty of this myself). Thank you for helping me realize I can appreciate every woman’s individual style and freeing me to be the best me😊

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

We’ve all done it! 🙋🏼‍♀️

[@MikeyDonna]

I know it’s fashionable now but I do not like mixing patterns like your top and plaid blazer. Am I alone in this? Donna

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

You don’t have to like it. I do, so I’m wearing it. But you don’t have to. Did you watch the video. I think this was actually one of my points. 🤷🏼‍♀️

[@robbieb.3398]

I’d love to see your take on a minimalist “Classic style”wardrobe for fall winter.

[@dianecaird1697]

Kay, this is seriously one of your best videos. I have spent sooo much money on clothes in the past and have nothing to wear. Thank you !

[@elizabethwright3814]

You are such a great style counselor, Kay! Thank you for talking about letting your style evolve, trying new silhouettes and showing your shape. I love your videos and this is my favorite yet. You are insightful, courageous and loving in your suggestions. Wishing you all the best!

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Thanks so much Elizabeth. 💕

[@kimberlyperrotis8962]

Kay, I love your hair like this, it looks great.

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Thank you. 🥰

[@PolishedAfterSixtyYvette]

I can’t tell you how many times I’ve been enticed into buying something that just sits in my closet. Much better when you buy items that match and go with at least 3 other things in your wardrobe. TFS all these great tips.😊🙏🏻

[@mlolson2515]

This was just the advice I needed to hear! As a 57 year old, I know my style but fall prey to the influence of “the trend”. Stick to what makes me feel good, limit colors for a season as you stated to keep things simple and incorporate trends in less expensive items…jewelry etc.

[@fionafrazer8820]

Taking care of your clothes is key! Hanging things back up when you've finished wearing them, and checking to see if they have any spots that need cleaning. I have a small capsule wardrobe, so I'm able to see everything at a glance (except the heaviest sweaters which I do fold and keep in drawers). I do hang lighter sweaters on satin padded hangers and this way they don't get shoulder bumps. I always hang coats - and yet I see people having them on a hook by the loop in the collar - not the best for keeping its shape. My theory of hanging everything is that if I can't see it, I forget to wear it! Not washing things too often is also important and definitely don't put them in the dryer. I am an ironer (call me crazy!) and a steamer, and I think this helps keep things fresh. Chanel used to hang her jackets out of a window to freshen them! Really good points - but I have to say, I've tried and tried to feel comfortable half-tucking a shirt or blouse - just can't get it to work. I am very short-waisted and have long legs but carry all my excess weight in the midriff and tummy. I won't give up, but by the time I get to like it, it will be out of style!

[@hildacollier2638]

To Fiona Frazier:. I hate that half tuck thing. What's the point? I don't know who started it but it really looks stupid. Kind of reminds me of when a woman goes to the rest room and the hem of her skirt gets caught in her underwear. Looks like a mistake . I guess women will be wearing their skirts like that next and calling it fashionable.

[@fionafrazer8820]

@@hildacollier2638 you’re right! I try it-but I don’t like it!

[@carolalvarez3925]

Same with me. Hate the half tuck but I have my clothes tailored to fit.

[@texasstardust6010]

.....Fiona .... I am also short waisted, have long legs for a woman that is about 5'2 "... and I detest that half - tuck ! The first time I saw it I thought ..." what is that ...?? that just looks like you forgot to finish getting dressed, okay..?!" I said that out loud, to myself! Lol. It looks wierd. No thank you. I kind of considered it a trend that I hope would go away and it's still around and I just never even understood women doing that it just looks weird to me. Never tried it, and have no desire to. Lol. Sometimes I think these people that come up with these ideas , you know... they they're trying to get people to embrace being less bored with their clothing and do something different with it .....well, be that as it may , there are other ways to kind of " freshen up your look " without resorting to stuff that looks silly. ( just IMHO). I'm also in my late 60s and I prefer a classic kind of wardrobe with a few edgy pieces like Moto jackets... really cool boots, fringed jackets , velvet leggings ... but I lean towards the classics. Always have.

[@Anna-sb9oj]

I can see why people would dislike the half tuck but personally it has been a game changer for me. I think it makes an outfit look more polished and gives you shape without having to commit to completely tucking in your top ( usually isn’t very flattering for most of us!)

[@ednawilliams3608]

Kay you look fabulous in that sweater. The colors are perfect for you. Thanks for a great video. All the ideas are worth noting.

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Great to hear, Edna. Thank you for watching. 💕

[@suzannes.l.8744]

Great ideas to think about - and thank you for warning people about dryers! Clothes will last so much longer if you hang or lay flat to dry - colors, fibers, shrinkage etc.

[@dawnt5587]

The peacock sweater looks so good on you.

[@janetjaken1389]

Kay! This is the best advice I have ever heard in my 67 years of life! Also your intensity video was the greatest advice ever! Thank you so much 🥰

[@lindacaron1700]

Great ideas! And that blouse is definitely one of your best. The color is perfect for your complexion and your eyes!

[@lindalaceyblevins5527]

Your top is gorgeous! Now my question: Why did you have a plaid blazer over it? I thing plaids and prints are cool if they incorporate the same colors. I just missed why you used the blazer, but glad it disappeared. Overall, good tips.

[@joanrhoton8841]

My wardrobe is so choppy because I have bought outfits not thinking of what I already have.. Lots mistakes... I am a apple shape . Hide behind my clothes ..

[@carolleet9611]

Great tips and I love your blouse.

[@vickykorol5469]

I LOVED this video. You spoke the truth about all 10 mistakes we make. I especially liked the wear a belt if you like - I would like to as I see it would add a lot to an outfit, but I feel my belly sticks out too much. I have to just get over it and try it!! Also, I've been taking the advice of buying quality over quantity, and having a plan for what I want to buy, and then buying it when I see it. all good advice!!

[@Kim-ek7xy]

That was a fantastic tip about taking a selfie with makeup and hair fixed with new outfits, and then looking at them and waiting a few days to decide which ones look good vs making an impulse buy and buying quantity over quality. I haven't bought new clothes for years because I keep thinking I will lose the 10 pounds, it never happens LOL!

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Thanks so much for sharing , Kim!

[@susanwexler6983]

It's also a good idea to take selfies of yourself in old outfits. Some things that I used to wear now look dated and tired. It may be time to donate them.

[@denisedorsey2889]

Kim, I sew my own clothes. There’s a saying among sewists-dress the body you have today. Shift your thinking on this. You are worth dressing well TODAY. 💕

[@annettepellowe9847]

Wonderful advice! I have to watch this again. Also- WOW! Kay, you look fabulous in that top. 🥰

[@dreileigh9210]

Who could ever be offended with you, Kay. You are all about teaching and guiding for our good.... What a blessing you have been.

[@katypiette3581]

I am an almost 40 year old and I’ve just found your channel! I absolutely adore you and think your advice can be useful for ladies in all age ranges!! Thank you for this! I wish you were my mom! You’re an absolutely beautiful lady inside and out and I just love that you’re so helpful and honest! Thanks for the great content!

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Thank you so much. I’m really glad you enjoyed it. 😊

[@barbararees3304]

Soooo good today! I can sure see myself in your video! Your sweet spirit and grace come through as you talk about a very personal and often “touchy” subject.

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Thank you Barbara. That means a lot to me.

[@gaylestewart8196]

Great video - - and that outfit looks gorgeous on you- - the colors really look nice with your beautiful complexion and coloring!!

[@lindaortolano7837]

Hi Kay, Well.....while I am guilty of a few of these fashion mistakes it was tip #10 when I fell out of my chair!!!! I have some kind of a dumb idea that nice clothes are for special going out occasions and so I have a closet full of beautiful clothes that many still have tags on!!. Very often one of my daughters will say "oh Mom that looks so pretty when did you get that?" and I sadly have to reply "two years ago". I think I have done this because many of our friends see me casually and I want to look special or different on date nights! Dumb right! I have to work on this! As always Kay, I love you and all your great suggestions!! Have a wonderful day and I will see you in the next one! :)

[@darlenebergantzel1534]

Love your videos and your style advice has been helpful to me over the years. I use to be guilty of having too many colors in my wardrobe. I have since pared down and it has been easier to put together outfits. You are so right about trying new things. I still remember when skinny jeans first came out. I initially refused to even try them on. Finally, my daughter talked me into trying on and buying a pair. I love them now and this gave me the confidence to try new things before I dismiss them.

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Great. Thanks so much for sharing this! 😊

[@carolc6364]

That blouse looks beautiful on you!

[@joycetaggart3123]

You helped me so much. and you put joy into it. I really need to get out more anyway, The year of the covid was hard on me. My Mom was dying also. But she loved clothes and looking her best even at 94. I know I am like her so I need to step it up. Thank you so much and I am going to look at my choices. I want to get out there again. Thank You! Joyce

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Good for you, Joyce. Make a date with a friend or two and put them in the calendar. You’ve got this! 🙌🏻

[@donnaharris8722]

I am 67 and after years of “ saving my clothes” I dress up any time I walk out of my house. I am semi retired, so I have plenty of time and no excuse to not hand wash my delicate clothes. I am wearing and washing my summer clothes before I put them up for winter.

[@katherinerichardson1767]

All good points 👀 I really appreciate the time and effort you put into your videos. 💞

[@marissaclaridge7627]

Thank you Kay for your video!!!Very helpfulxxx

[@lilybean1000]

Love your idea of choosing just a few colors. I’m going to try this- my colors for winter are going to be my greens/blues/warm pinks. Neutrals will be ivory, gray and tan. Excited to try this.

[@wondergram5119]

Wow! Thankyou for a wonderful video. The concept of intensity and contrast was new to me and it makes so much sense!

[@southernshiba9936]

All wonderful tips. Thank you, Kay! I am analyzing contrast now when putting together outfits, and I better understand why I just don't like to wear certain items together even though they look great together on a hanger. You inspired me to try a couple of new-to-me styles, with some appreciated success. Also - you look truly fabulous in that Talbots sweater! It compliments your skin beautifully and brings out your beautiful eyes. Love it!

[@kimberlyperrotis8962]

Great advice, especially about trying new styles and silhouettes. It does take a while to adjust to these changes, but one might like them, or even love them, after some exposure. I think keeping a modern silhouette is so important. When looking at past fashions, one can identify their decade by just looking at the silhouette, it’s what defines a fashion era the most.

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Absolutely. Thanks so much for sharing Kimberly. 🥰

[@lucydeboxer2565]

So true...it took me ages to wear leggings 🤣