10 FASHION TRENDS THAT MAKE YOU LOOK CHEAP I Worst Fashion Trends

[@ms.frederique]

Bonjour my lovelies, I'm so happy you had a good laugh watching this video, I already read your comments and it's noted, next time I see a woman I don't know with a camel tow I will keep it for myself, keep smiling and don't forget to subscribe and share! Have a lovely day xxx Frederique

[@genevieveb.guerrain625]

Salut Frédérique, you definitely got me a good laugh...all so true. Unfortunately, some people don't realize when they're doing too much and it doesn't look good. Being classy is so beautiful! Thank you for keeping us laughing. 👍

[@suzannas.4965]

Do NOT comment on the camel toe. I think women do it on purpose to get attention. I highly doubt anyone would appreciate you bringing it to their attention. Also, yes... what's with the roots. If you can't afford to upkeep your hair colour then don't do it. You can do streaks instead or even just a different haircut will be a nice change. My absolute pet peeves is unnatural hair colour like blue or green, or red, or whatever. Especially once it's starts fading it and goes to 100 shades of blue. I have never . . . Ever seen a person with these colours where I thought yeah that looks good. I question... do people look in the mirror before they leave their house. How can they think it looks good . . . I just don't get it. I can hardly wait for this trend to be over. Sheesh

[@freespiritedaquarius913]

I love your advice. Because of you I started eating more salads and drinking a lot more water to slim down. Your advice is classy and timeless and all women both young, old or any race should tune into you. 💘 from 🇺🇸

[@traceylafontaine8893]

Dailies Panty liners hide the front yoga pants problem 😁

[@maryokeefe5351]

I once pointed out to a woman at the gym that her tights were completely transparent and she was not wearing any underwear. It did not end well... Never again.

[@heathmeizer9446]

Finally a person with the balls to say the truth about some of today’s fashion and beauty trends. THANK YOU 🙏🤗🤗🤗

[@barbarafairbanks4578]

Heather Meizer - Balls? 🤣

[@Irishjay-gu5pb]

YES!!!! This is the first time I've watched a video of hers and I laughed so hard!!! She's awesome!!! Totally subed!

[@hapyangl82]

Pretty sure your parents said the same of your generation. Leave the kids alone

[@brendastarcher6294]

I agree! I've never liked them or watched their show. They are so fake! They have had so much plastic surgery done that they don't even look pretty..... Like they THINK they do.

[@nomtee_deefaer8109]

I see the outfit struggle have you'll seen the BBL trand😏😓

[@vanpak]

Summarizing: avoid any exaggeration, try to look natural and add a little effort to look nice! Balance is key! 👌 I totally agree!

[@ms.frederique]

So true!

[@shawnahall7246]

Thank you!!!

[@SimpleAbundantLife]

“Do not neglect yourself. You are precious.” Best thing I have heard all day. Loved the video. Thank you! 💕

[@kymberleychristiansenrauber]

I totally agree and was about to say the same thing, but you beat me to it! :)

[@ritageorge8748]

How nice to hear someone voice those friendly words

[@alalz.sharafani909]

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[@kbailey3238]

Agreed! Made me smile. X

[@NurseClaudia]

“Do not neglect yourself. You are precious “. I love what you said! ❤️❤️❤️

[@ms.frederique]

thank you so much xxxx

[@gp4634]

Once she said she hated the scrunch shorts and people were multiplying like little gremlins.... I fell in love with this woman she is on point with everything. classy love it... Keep it classy ladies!

[@laurasaavedra1555]

Oh my gosh i hate those scrunchie leggings/shorts- they scream look at my butt! 😬👎🏼

[@meechiebaby493]

"Do not neglect yourself, you are precious." Thank you for this. I'm a 48-year-old mom of a 4-year-old boy, and I'm so tired. It's hard to make that effort but I try. I just needed to hear this today.

[@ms.frederique]

I'm so happy you love it, feel free to share xx

[@ritageorge8748]

God bless you

[@katiadelrieu5621]

I can empathize! I am 50 and the single mom of a girl of 8 and à boy of 5. Life is hard on every level! But we need to enjoy what we have and do the Best we can.

[@lovelyletter7460]

I’m a 46 year old mom of a 6 year old boy! Hang in there, mama! ❤️

[@joannateresa6639]

Wonderful ♥️

[@Nicki17321]

When she said "Stupid Kardashians", I knew she was a wise woman.

[@MsAmalia07]

I think the ppl who buy their crap and believe their lies are bigger idiots. They are simply catering to those who idolize them. Most ppl know better. Take Fenty vs. Kylie Cosmetics. Fenty by Rihanna is killing it- long term too. Kylie Cosmetics was short lived after ppl both tried her crap and realized there was at one point, a no refund policy. Ppl where literally getting empty lipglosses and couldn’t return them!

[@n1h1L1s7ka]

@Cici Fancy Nails I think not only them but also the people who like them are also responsible for all that madness

[@n1h1L1s7ka]

@@MsAmalia07 That's one of the reasons I like drugstore products haha

[@PS_testing321...]

They are so trashy. Look at my fake big butt and big fake big boobs. Can you imagine what their tailoring cost is, to fit the giant parts and skinny parts? It’s unnatural. I don’t understand the attraction. Everyone knows it is all false and manipulated.

[@elssa2tan]

Well they do make money 😉

[@xrisanthihess2980]

There is a 10-second rule when pointing out a flaw: Only point out a flaw if it can be fixed in 10 seconds. That would include things like lipstick or food on your teeth, fuzz or hair on your clothes, etc. Things that cannot be remedied quickly are likely to embarrass the other person and put them on the defensive.

[@tthomas501]

I have never heard this, but it makes sense! Thanks, I learned something new today👍🥰

[@jayare6804]

This is new to me, but will def adopt. Thanks for sharing!

[@roseboursier2937]

Love this

[@carolebuckle7977]

👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 well said 👍🏻🇬🇧

[@debra7241]

No wonder all the women in the reality housewife show’s are always fighting 😂

[@christinaleisure1818]

Thank God- a honest woman with common sense, we need more of this! Too many people look like they don't own a mirror or just plain ridiculous these days!

[@ms.frederique]

Thank you lovely christina xxx

[@mariemccormack8515]

As an esthetician, I have to comment that overly long extension eyelashes and heavy clumps of lashes (3,4 or 5 together) applied to a natural lash can cause breakage of your natural lashes. Not the look you are trying to achieve.I totally agree with all your comments!

[@ms.frederique]

Thank you marie good to know x

[@isaojable]

100% agree with everything you said. I see them here in Santa Monica with their leggings too tight from morning to night, it's really depressing especially for a Parisian like me. Unfortunately we live in a time when vulgarity (lack of sophistication) is seen as the equivalent of sexy. Thanks to the Kardashians who popularized the codes of porn in everyday fashion.

[@luv2travel2000]

Great comment! Yes, vulgarity (lack of sophistication) is not sexy.

[@patriciamays8873]

So true, go shopping at Walmart, try not to gasp! Way too small sweats, Lycra pants and shirts on 300+ lb. people, male and female. I'm American and think it's gross.

[@cathyk6319]

Ladies wearing leggings that are way too tight ugh ... stretched to a point I can see their underwear _in the smallest details_. Too much information, thank you !

[@annamossity8879]

My girlfriend is not happy with her body from the waist down so what does she wear?! Those blasted yoga pants, day in day out!!

[@lindahollander3588]

I wish people knew good taste

[@Rosispergia]

I cannot agree more that the Kardashians have distorted the perception of what is beautiful. So many young ladies are ruining their bodies :( Not to mention that we now have supermodels with plastic surgery ladies...Gosh I miss the 90's supermodels. They were goddesses.

[@danif.9414]

@Vanora Indeed.. Think about Naomi, Claudia, Linda, Helena, Cindy, Christy and all the others.. Also more recently Gisele, my God.. No interest whatsoever in this modern day 'beauty' standards 🙌🤷‍♀️

[@hollygolightly8048]

I miss the 60’s models who were naturally beautiful and true trend setters: Susie Parker, Colleen Corby, Jean Shrimpton, and even Twiggy.

[@carmenyellow20]

@BRIGITTE SHROPE and they all look the same. I can't tell an influencer from the other. Same content, same look, same style....

[@ekaterinajot]

Totally agree

[@kdmil2002]

@@danif.9414 If you believe none of these women had any plastic surgery...I have some swampland in Florida that I want to sell you.

[@Jojo-ok7uv]

“Do not neglect yourself, you are precious”. Thank you for saying the best thing I heard all day!

[@jenniferwhitaker9139]

You're a true inspiration. I'm a natural, classy type of girl and sometimes question if I'm keeping up with the times but this reminds me classy and classic is always on trend.

[@ms.frederique]

thank you lovely xxx 😍

[@tinamarieschaffer-sick4456]

Frederique, you are hysterical. The comment about the bike shorts in the cafe' at eye level - not impressive. I laughed out loud. So funny. I truly enjoyed this video. Thank you.

[@ms.frederique]

❤️

[@jacqueline4749]

I laughed out loud too!! 🤣 I totally agree

[@valeriebays2993]

Isn’t it the truth? It’s hard to avert your eyes when right in front of you😱

[@mmcs4973]

Couldn't agree more! too many young women modelling themselves after a totally surgically enhanced family with not an ounce of class or self-respect. Those toe nails tho'...ugh!

[@avey4422]

"...It's like they multiply. It's like the gremlins if you don't feed them after midnight..." hahahaaaaaa!!! cheap.cheap.cheap.everywhere! 🤣 Love you, girl!

[@ms.frederique]

Thank you lovely 🥰

[@beautifulyou2815]

"Dead eyelashes on the pillow in the morning " 😂😂

[@ms.frederique]

lol

[@DianaAlejandrovna]

Word!

[@esgara8446]

Love your sense of humor and it is contagious

[@mydog9997]

Since I am chronically ill, and always home, I try to make an effort to my clothing to make me feel better❤️💯

[@ajohonly3721]

I’m sorry I hope you’re ok praying for your well being.

[@mydog9997]

@@milakarr8327 Oh I’m sorry that you have to go through that🥺

[@mydog9997]

@@ajohonly3721 thank you so much. I have been sick for three years soon. I manage☺️

[@marienkablack6737]

I’m doing my class by Zoom right now and I make an effort every day to look good. Because of this I have finally mastered how to tame my curls.

[@robinholbrook6576]

I can’t go out anymore because of Covid. I live in Texas and only about 50% are vaccinated here and I’m high risk. And we’re ALL at risk with DELTA! (Have you seen our new guidelines?) But what do you mean, Pernille, that you “try to make an effort to your your clothing to make you feel better?’ I don’t understand that statement.

[@tiffanygreen7115]

Oh my goodness, yes. Those claw nails are one of my biggest pet peeves. Long or short, they are one of those rare things that legitimately do not look good on anyone.

[@michelehenne2477]

One of my aunts always had longer toenails, not as long as the ones on the video, but long enough. They always freaked me out, as a child. 😁

[@tiffanygreen7115]

@@michelehenne2477 Yes! The long toenails creep me out, too. I can't understand why anyone would want to do that, especially since it can't be comfortable or very functional.

[@kimineasttexas4090]

They're just nasty looking be it the fingernails or toenails. They collect bacteria under them. And how do people with long claw fingernails wipe their buts??? Gross! They look like cheap hookers. 🤮

[@livableincome]

I never knew about the foot one until today. Goodness! How do they even walk? Or don't they?

[@tiffanygreen7115]

@@kimineasttexas4090 Exactly and I will see these beautiful girls and then they will have those long claws and it just looks so awful and ruins their otherwise very pretty hands.

[@katiepowers513]

I’m a firm believer in the 5 minute rule: if someone is having a malfunction that can be fixed within 5 minutes, (spinach in teeth, lipstick smudge) tell them. If they can’t immediately fix it, (like an item of clothing isn’t working and this person is already out) then telling them will only serve to make them self-conscious

[@loulouncmtn]

How can you not know you have a camel toe?!? Ouch!

[@screeningmimi]

@@loulouncmtn After some of the intentional style faux pas we've just seen, it's entirely possible that some camel toe 'victims', especially those in skin tones, think it's sexy to look as though they are missing their pants and showing it all.

[@chefpwn5210]

@@screeningmimi :o Oh my!

[@riehafsah4469]

@@loulouncmtn they do it deliberately They know average men out there enjoy it

[@loulouncmtn]

@@riehafsah4469 I think it would be like ball huggers, they obviously know they’re wearing ball huggers and the average woman does not enjoy looking at it (them). Really, we don’t! 😂

[@vickierayhill4637]

Subscribed for her accent alone! Her humor is a bonus...

[@ms.frederique]

Woohoo welcome ans thank you x

[@tenaarchibald3352]

A woman after my own heart 💜. On point on all 10! I’ll be glad when we are sexy, fashionable and classy again. Some of these women either don’t know, have not been taught or just don’t care how they look. 😢

[@ms.frederique]

Thank you for sharing and liking xx

[@carolynlunel9382]

This was sooo fun! And so true!! On the serious side.. the very young women using fillers & getting plastic surgery will be so messed up when they're older!! I truly feel sorry for them!! Aging naturally is classy and can be very beautiful. Thanks for this, Frederique! Ciao! & kisses 💋💋

[@bonnieroberts6082]

Fillers or plastic surgery in moderatuon do not age the face, in fact they can do the opposite. Chemical peels are also very good for anti aging in a less invasive way.

[@breanne2117]

I was walking behind a woman in nearly translucent black leggings and said nothing. She had a guy/partner with her. He should have said something. If it's a friend I will speak up, random stranger, no. I live in America, it's unfortunate, but 80% of the population wears lounge wear all the time. I compliment people that make an effort regularly. I ignore the rest.

[@rrrusty49]

I long for the day when we had a skosh of decency. It's not that hard to achieve *sigh*

[@monicas2269]

I've seen the white leggings where nothing is left to the imagination. I assume they knew what they looked like.

[@eo02482]

I see such scenes every single day in grocery store, mall, shops in US. Seems like tiktok pants is a must for all the ladies.

[@jadiegirlcatsmith3257]

I think some people don’t have a full length mirror. At one time I didn’t but our women’s restroom at work did. I remember deciding to never to wear a particular dress after checking myself out.

[@alcogito8287]

@@eo02482 "ladies"?

[@claudiaharbourt9370]

I recently commented to a young woman how much I liked her outfit, including her heels and bag... She seemed genuinely shocked! Then smiled. I'm 60, and I can appreciate someone who takes some effort to pull it all together.

[@thegillmachine]

In all honesty, women who take the time to put themselves together often don’t get complimented like that. Often, the girls who don’t want to put in the effort will try to make them feel bad about it. She was probably shocked to hear a genuinely nice thing from another woman for once.

[@tinydancer36]

Wow...it's like the ultimate compliment when another woman tells you how nice you look.

[@desertrat5543]

@@thegillmachine I feel like I’m mostly stared at for how I dress. I think you are right- it is a shock when someone compliments my outfit/appearance. I don’t need it, but it certainly feels very good to know others see the effort I put into how I present myself. I like to also compliment other women for their style… they also have a similar look of astonishment. 😆

[@lesliecrockett4108]

I like to causally , and briefly ,complement another woman, younger, or older, on a nice outfit, perfume etc. It almost always brings a smile. I'm 68 but have always done this. I don't complement men because too many automatically see it as a come on, especially when you are still young.

[@vkngwmn6636]

@@tinydancer36 women look at other women constantly

[@ronniblue1]

I love how you don't hold back and you say what you think. You are amazing. On the Camel Toe question, I would not point it out as it would probably embarrass the person and they could not immediately fix it. Your comment about lycra shorts "It's like the Gremlins, they multiply. You don't feed them after midnight" was gold!

[@ked7426]

I'm really loving the French woman's way of life, with self care presentation, food, it's about balance, fun, enjoyment, class. I agree with your thoughts on beauty, and I would say something, it may not go down well, but it will have an impact later. I've made a few mistakes with clothes, maybe if someone had whispered in my ear, you're showing off too much, it looks tawdry, I'd have twigged. Following trends can be, bad especially the lip thing, as it could cause unrepairable damage. Enjoyed merci.

[@ms.frederique]

Thank you lovely so much xxx

[@Mei-zc1eh]

Thank you so much. This was an eye opener. I have been single for a long time and like... three years ago I completely lost any interest for dating and self care. I thought like: "nobody's going to notice me anyways, so why bother?" So no effort here. But I've understood that I need to take care of myself FOR myself. If someone notices me, that's a plus. So... at home I can wear whatever I want, but I will try to make some effort when going out. Thanks!

[@tinalettieri]

If you want to be noticed, make the effort. I went out to a lecture about a month or so ago after being "green passed" for so long. I didn't have one. I had on a simple black dress, a beige pashmina and Italian shoes that tied the two together. I had on some whimsical earrings that I got in Sicily but no other jewelery. I was just sitting there waiting for it to start and a man walked in. I literally saw his eyes widen and stare for a second or two too long. He didn't approach me, but the eyes said it all. The lecturer, who was quite a bit younger was also really smiling at me. The same Intitution is having a big do tomorrow. It will be partly outside in the evening. I'm trying to decide what to wear but it will be interesting to see what unfolds.

[@lorenlash9174]

You might think about starting stand up comedy on the side, you keep me laughing!

[@ms.frederique]

😅

[@tammietaylor5870]

J'taime ! Your sense of humour, combined with innate elegance is so very appreciated in a increasingly over exposed world.

[@Weeeewriter]

*I'm 47 and I remember my grandmother telling me when I was young...to dress like I have a secret lol Give them something to dream about, not expose it all.*

[@marie-francerancourt4133]

Frédérique! J'adore ta chaîne. Ça fait tellement du bien d'entendre quelqu'un dire toutes ces choses que les autres n'osent pas. Merci merci merci!

[@ms.frederique]

merci xx

[@PS_testing321...]

I realized the importance of eyebrows when my teenage son said, Mom, you don’t have eyebrows. I do but my hair is graying and the brows went first. I used to get all over hair color, but it was too harsh, so now I get balayage that incorporates my gray and I don’t have to worry too much about roots. I had my eyebrows tinted with my hair color, but it would only last about two weeks, then I had to pencil them in again. I got some Anastasia brow stencils, I chose the one I liked from the pack, and now I just hold it on and use a brush and eyebrow powder to color them in. This has garnered my best results.

[@tinalettieri]

I use a light touch of mascara. It works and looks completely natural because it is YOUR eyebrows, not a drawing of them.

[@PS_testing321...]

@@tinalettieri My problem is that I am a red head, so mascara doesn't work. I actually use a reddish brown eyeshadow and a spoolie.

[@tinalettieri]

@@PS_testing321... whatever works for you! What's a spoolie

[@sharroon7574]

I use the brow mascara from anastasia and I like it, I brush it back and forth to build volume.

[@AdventurousGeek]

“If you do this, and you think you’re classy, you’re not.” 💀🤣

[@dianaparker4807]

Your personality is infectious! I met so many lovely people in France over the years like you I wish more people all over the world would realize how wonderful French people can be! Loved this video! I agree with you on all the fashion faux pas you pointed out.

[@AngelBomb5000]

Oh, you made me laugh! ESP “stupid kardashians!” 😂😂😂 I agree with you 100%! Regarding the camel toe issue: I would only say something as kindly as possible to someone I know. The other women? Well, just keep making videos like this and hopefully they will figure it out on their own! ❤️

[@JennyBaty1]

I think they know. HOW could they not FEEL it!?!?!😳

[@marcietorrence5361]

You would be doing someone a favor if you told them their cameltoe outfit makes you want to vomit

[@deeannemason7003]

Your channel is fabulous! I always get a pep talk from you and a laugh too! ❤️

[@ms.frederique]

Thank you for your kind comment merci 🙏 xx

[@g.d.anonymous8235]

I came across your channel while browsing, and I absolutely love it! You are so much fun, classy and naturally expressive. Love your taste. I've been binge-watching you all morning😅

[@s.ewasiuk7715]

On point as always, Frederique! You also just named everything the Kardashians do.

[@jmg1619]

That is what I call very tacky people. More money than sense. It just got to the point of deforming their own bodies.

[@anye76]

The gremlins 😂😂😂. I agree with everything you said. Be careful with saying anything to people because they get so offended and ready to fight.

[@robinholbrook6576]

Oh! I am so happy to see you in simple earrings instead of the large Pearl hoops you usually wear. These earrings are so much prettier on you! The pearls are, well, just so bulky. I LOVE pearls! But I don’t love those pearls. They are just overpowering for you and not refined enough. Jewelry that stays closer to your face…whether studs or hanging down…is more complimentary to you. Thank you! I love you! Please take this the way it was meant: only with good intentions and from my heart to yours. Robin 🌹

[@Soltice-ty2nf]

"My name is Chanel . This is my channel an I say whateverI want" I love her immediately!!

[@ms.frederique]

lol and welcome x

[@fatemaalbalooshi1980]

You are absolutely right about all 10 points. We need reasonable looks indoor and especially outdoors 👍 Love your sessions ♥️

[@SzazaM077]

People in the the UK live in joggers/leggings/jeans. I swear I haven't seen elegant people where I live (Surrey). When I dress elegantly (trousers plus blazer, dress with espadrilles, skirt with blouse), they call it glamours!😆🙈 I think I would fit better in France or Italy - Bella Figura lifestyle.❤️

[@lindahollander3588]

Keep up your good looks,I can't stand sloppy unless you are cleaning out the garage

[@booker0110]

I bet they’re quite envious of your style, who knows how many women are influenced by YOU ❤️

[@seda161]

I know right 😅 was living in Surrey -Godalming while working at the American company... anyways : it was such a beautiful and green place-it might be normal for people to wear casual clothing 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@paulapapaconstantinou5998]

A vast generalization

[@SzazaM077]

@@paulapapaconstantinou5998, just do a school run and you will see, and then shopping in one of the supermarkets. People dress up to night clubs, maybe or on a date. Other than that, it's casual/relaxed 'I don't care' kind of look.

[@beautyfollower3934]

Had such a laugh with toenail and big lips! :) Hugs from Greece!

[@suziejames7510]

Agree 100% with everything. My motto is never go out of the door without making an effort. xx

[@marilynmolinari8599]

Frederique, you are very endearing, amusing and honest. Thank you for that. I love my time watching your videos!

[@ValuedVintage]

“Too much people on the balcony.” Hilarious!! And true.

[@judymastrullo4348]

Great video, and I agree 100% with these awful fashion trends .... no no no!! Can't wait for them ALL to disappear.

[@ginasanderson6056]

You are Fab & Funny & you make me smile! 😊 Xx

[@suzy8109]

This was hilarious. Your accent, your sense of humour, and your personality ... all are so appealing.❤️

[@ms.frederique]

Lovely thank you xxx

[@joykelly440]

Yes! to everything you are saying! Tackiness has become a norm. Let's spread love & good taste.

[@ms.frederique]

Absolutely!!

[@screeningmimi]

OMG - Those toenails!!! I was speechless for a full 3 minutes. Just looking at the picture of the nails, it looks as though there is a 100 lb bird somewhere in the jungle, with gigantic, pointy claws. If indeed there is a woman attached, I wonder how much bedding they shred to bits - not to mention partners?

[@harpgal9950]

I have not seen toenails like these. They are beyond horrible! It has to be mental illness.

[@luxmifrei9759]

@@harpgal9950 Ghastly...ugh🙄.

[@barbarafairbanks4578]

Screeningmimi.'"if, indeed, there is a human attached to them"...🤣 Priceless! As for me, I was kinda hoping the pedi-claws were part of a 🎃Halloween outfit. No??Not!??? (I feel traumatized😱)

[@screeningmimi]

@@barbarafairbanks4578 Thank you Barbara, you give me hope! :- ) Then again, we may have to learn to live with PTSD from that macabre sight! If it's any comfort, the wearers of this look, probably feel pity on US, for our lack of toe glamour. :-D

[@heathermanning5368]

😂🤣😂

[@Chahlie]

I think quite young women, like under 20, look cute with the false eyelashes, it's fun on them. If you can't afford an expensive handbag just have a small plain wallet, no bits hanging off, pompoms and so on. I keep a tote in my car with my extra goodies, but a clutch type wallet that co-ordinates with shoes is always classy. Just recovered from one of my worst migraines and Frederique made me smile :)

[@rydia91]

In response to your question, I heard that you should only mention it if they can fix it in the moment (something in the teeth, some food on their face etc). If it's something like the pants, they can't run home and change so I would leave it be. I appreciate you talking about the yoga pants and big lips. As a lady in her 20s, I feel like there's a lot of pressure to "fit in" and unfortunately that style is popular right now. Thanks for your guidance on how to be classy!

[@alcogito8287]

There are a lot of young women in my family and friends who don't dress "cheap". I think cheap-looking styles are only popular in certain groups, probably best avoided.

[@cerealkiillar]

I adore your videos! Everything you say is completely spot on and said with such grace and humor. I've learned a great deal just now and I truly appreciate you!

[@Happytrails24]

Thank you, thank you for saying these things OUT LOUD!! I so agree with everything you say in your videos. Seeing someone make such cheap looking choices that promote negative attention is sad. I have received so many positive comments over the years on my 'looks'. My husband's friend told him recently that I always "look timeless", and I am a thrift store junkie! Thank for continually showing us how to make good choices!

[@ms.frederique]

thank you so much lovely, keep watching xxx

[@annakozoriz]

So true😂😜….. gremlins multiplied 😂😂😂😂….. love your videos Fred! Merci!🌺❤️

[@lorie6196]

Class and elegance have a look, just like other looks. You’ve done a great job outlining all the major points. Thanks! ( I would never say anything about what you mentioned to a stranger. If it was my daughter who was still learning about dressing I would absolutely reel her in … but I also wouldn’t allow her out of the house wearing something like that in the first place). 💐

[@elizabethwoolnough4358]

I had to reel my mother in once. She was wearing a black bra under a white top. I said "You're not going out like that, are you?"

[@LilyAmongThorns]

@@elizabethwoolnough4358 my daughter has better fashion sense than I do as well. I learned some of my fashion booboos from her gentle advice and also observing how she does it…she has it naturally but I have to work harder at it 😉

[@elizabethwoolnough4358]

@@LilyAmongThorns my mother is knowledgeable about fashion, whereas I have little or no knowledge of what's in or out. Mum taught me a few things years ago, eg never have a gap between the hem of your skirt and the tops of your boots, that I still adhere to now. I'd say wearing a black bra under a white blouse, where it's visible, is sloppy.

[@veestu9308]

I’m so happy that someone is not afraid to tell the truth. I enjoyed the video and agree 100%.

[@oliviaknight1123]

You are such fun frederique! I'd love to have a coffee with you and people watch, it would be great 🥰 keep up the good work and keep smiling and enjoying life, you are wonderful! I appreciate you so much, thank you 😘💋❤

[@ms.frederique]

Thanks so much! 😊

[@tristanarnold9616]

I'm so glad to find your videos! My beautiful, beloved mother was very conscious of style rules. She taught me well, but sadly she's passed away now. You're my fashion guru now!

[@lisawyckoff7070]

I would not tell someone I didn't know they have the dreaded camel toe. That's why I always make sure my shirt is long enough to cover that area 😂 (just in case)

[@Cookie7294]

There was a woman in my gym who wore leggings with obvious camel toe every day and a relatively short tshirt. I'm sure she knew and didn't care. I would never be brave enough to point it out. I had to do my best not to look at her. It was too awkward. 😏

[@andreasahulova]

I would, if it's my friend.

[@vkngwmn6636]

MDR/😂

[@robinholbrook6576]

@@vkngwmn6636 I don’t know what a camel toe or tow (I see you guys spelling it both ways!) is!

[@donnyreiss1180]

@@Cookie7294 yeah. maybe she’s proud of it.

[@jackieharper5520]

I have a wardrobe full of beautiful good quality excellent condition handbags and nearly every one was from a Charity Shop here in the UK...

[@lynnwalker]

The over the top eyelashes are beyond me! I have to agree with you on all points Frederique!!

[@dinahweisberg750]

I'm so late to watch this, but you are SPOT on with these points! I used to have the lash extensions (although I tried to keep them "reasonable") and it was such a relief after I got them removed, and I started working on my natural lash health. A waitress the other night had MASSIVE fake lashes/extensions and it was so distracting it was difficult to take her seriously. Was she going to fly away? Would they fall into our food? ugh. These other "trends", camel toe, yoga up-the-butt pants, talon toenails, etc, just make me cringe. Your way of presenting this was absolutely delightful and humorous.....thanks for making my day. BTW I just subscribed.

[@ms.frederique]

Woohoo, thank you for subbing and welcome xxx

[@iceladi01]

I love your videos. You are informative, sensible with a wonderful sense of humour

[@mrskaa7584]

Great video Frederique. Very reasonable and rings so true to me. In my opinion, if you have something done, like lashes, brows, lips etc.. nobody should be able to tell. I am a bit younger than you, but when I practiced yoga in the late 90s/early 2000s, Yoga Pants were generally in reference to a stretchy pant that typically had a straight leg or flared bottom, and the waist rise also varied. Usually black. The skin tight "Yoga pants" we see today are something I have always called leggings. They have been around forever, we used to see them under tunics and cardigans, that is where they look best IMO. A true (to me) Yoga pant is actually pretty versatile. I might go figure skating in my black flared bottom pants, and afterwards I can throw on sandals and a pretty top with my summer straw tote, and the look is quite flattering. They are not my first choice if I am otherwise not exercising, normally I would choose jeans or a long summer skirt, but they work just fine multipurposing if I need that. I cannot imagine myself wearing leggings like a pant, if I wear them they are dark with a top that well covers my ass, and they don't double well as something I would wear out to lunch. I also wholeheartedly agree with having a nice bag. Quality leather bags are not necessarily expensive, neither are many faux leather bags. I usually carry a tote with a black or brown leather clutch inside so I can pull that out if I don't feel like carrying the whole tote everywhere.

[@dianagb9770]

your personality is the best! so funny and always gives me a smile. Thank you!

[@isabellfox2915]

The sad thing is that it doesn't matter if even they have a really good figure or are really thin these things still look terrible........I let my grey grow out a few years ago it saved me a small fortune and it looks good once you get used to it!!

[@marysusansaballa5317]

I really appreciated your reminder when you said, "Don't neglect yourself, you are so precious." I needed that. And of course, i was laughing out loud with your way of saying things.🤓😄

[@ms.frederique]

Thank you Mary xx

[@analauramendez6050]

Thank you for this! I've always had my own style and you can say it's mostly vintage and modest. I never leave the house in lounge clothes. I only wear them to sleep. I always get compliments on what I wear all the time and my boyfriend even tells me how he likes the way I dress. You said what most of people are thinking and I think we can all learn something here. Lol ps I hate leggings. 😅

[@ms.frederique]

lol

[@MyCrownstar]

The thumb nail of those toes had me dying of laughter. Love your sense of humor and content. What a breath of fresh air you are to the You Tube community!

[@suebryant4237]

You have really made me laugh whilst watching this vlog🤣 but the thing is, everything you’ve listed is so true! Well done for pointing these things out, keep up the good work Frederique

[@RoopaDudleyPaintings]

Usually single people put an effort here in the US to look nice. I am doing my best to wear dresses as much as possible (I love the vintage style). I don't wear fake eyelashes. No lip injections. Not even Botox. I am perfectly happy with my age and thanks to intermittent fasting now also with my shape. No camel toe for me as I love wearing dresses. Problem solved.

[@katrinamoore3520]

And don’t forget the petticoat. Never leave home without one.

[@RoopaDudleyPaintings]

@@katrinamoore3520 Shapewear with Biker-shorts is better than petticoat. Let the dress fly...no problem.

[@marieuzes]

I disagree with the person who said that most women in the US tried to look nice. I lived in Europe for 20 years and NEVER saw the trashy clothes, huge implants, big lips, skin tight clothes etc that are everywhere in the US especially California. And on a recent trip to the UK I saw the same Kardashian look all over the place. I think it’s incredibly sad that so many women now feel they have to advertise their bodies in outrageously sexual ways.

[@morningstarentertainment6846]

@@marieuzes there was a time we're human beings walked around completely naked I think they're okay.

[@MsDripCoffee]

Oh my gosh, thank you! Public service announcement worthy!! #1 and #2 are my biggest peeves!! Subscribed!!💛

[@ms.frederique]

Woohoo, thank you for subbing and welcome xxx

[@jjh8367]

I would recommend finding flowy dress slacks and a wrap top. They are WAYYY more comfy than yoga pants!!!! A light linen slack or trousers are awesome.

[@ghenetkidane8311]

I don’t want to get a slap by a stranger, so I wouldn’t say a word! 🤣🤣🤣

[@Hamaden1962]

A slap, would be lucky if they don’t shoot you in today’s world.

[@debbiephillips6809]

You are so funny today! I love this video! Thanks again for all the great fashion tips. 😄

[@martal662]

Keep preaching Frederique !!! I agree with you on everything People dress pretty bad in USA I think there should be a dress code in certain places like not workout clothes in the restaurants

[@rosemaryhayden8416]

Classy ladies don’t scratch their hair !

[@silvialola1346]

Gosh, I love this lady! She tells it like it is💯😜.! I have to agree with you Frédérique, all of those things you have just mentioned are just simply and quite honestly DEFINITE NO NO’S..! I love love love watching and listening to you😍🥰.! So happy I found your channel a few days ago, always super interesting content. Please carry on😅.! Greetings from Amsterdam, Holland ❤️🌷❤️

[@ms.frederique]

Thank you lovely xxx

[@noodlessurprise]

The accent, the advice - my inner Francophile loves this.

[@ms.frederique]

lol

[@jewel.la.vie1]

Me too!

[@sharonm8634]

Moi, aussi!

[@conniecline201]

Could not agree more

[@christinadrummond8062]

The only time I stopped a stranger regarding her clothing was in a busy large train station. She was a 65-ish lady and had obvously been to the loo - her dress was caught up at the back, tucked into her knickers. She was horrified that she had been walking around for a while like that, and nobody had told her. I felt so bad for her! I don't think I would tell someone about a camel-toe, as I would wonder if she had checked herself in the mirror before leaving home and thought it was okay.

[@jjohnson6833]

I was very grateful once when a kind woman told me that my skirt was caught in my waistband! Luckily, my tights were opaque black so it could have been worse, but I did not want to keep walking around looking foolish! You wonder about the ones who kept quiet …

[@angelatewson8202]

Yes, I like the 'if you can fix it in 10 seconds rule' but I believe skirt stuck in tights comes into that. Happened to me a couple of times when I had young children, who also liked to stick stickers on me. I was grateful to the ladies in London who told me very nicely! I have since discreetly told a few women, and they have been grateful. I would also tell someone if they had their period and had leaked, that's so easy to happen very quickly and must have happened to quite a few of us. Just say it very nicely and with empathy. Otherwise don't comment. But i think it's pointless with some of these things. It's just people have bad taste but would be insulted if you told them. They may regret it one day. I do get fed up with having to avert my eyes though. But in the end, these are only clothes. My pet hate is dealing with drunks, there are so many of them these days who think they are funny or clever.

[@christinadrummond8062]

@@katem3961 I am too, I think of that poor woman and always double-check my skirts and dresses. I don't know why people can't just say something discreetly, it seems really cruel.

[@svetlanavukolic8242]

Omg 🤣🤣😂🤣😂😂 that is my worst night mare!!

[@adrianavargova]

Yeah, it happened to me several times. But I have pretty legs, so....😁 I try to make fun of it.

[@lindaauthement7501]

Frederique, you put a smile on my face throughout this entire post! Love it!!!!

[@MrsStepford]

Oh Frederique you are a delight! You are saying what we (well, I for one) are all thinking xx

[@soniat1348]

Excellent points❤love your honesty 👏

[@samaryammine471]

I love your content🤩 always on point and you gorgeous❤️

[@janedunlap3518]

Love your honesty❤❤...am totally on board with your fashion sense. I'm in CA and anything goes...yeah the word is "class". Thanks for reminding us to have some.

[@wavyjenny602]

Agree with these points! I had never seen the long toenails before, how horrible are they! I cannot imagine that they are practical either 🤣😂 I don’t think it’s a good idea to inform people that they are showing a camel toe, unless you know them. It may be intentional and you might get an aggressive or violent reaction. For other issues, (food in teeth, makeup smudges, skirt tucked into knickers, toilet roll stuck to shoes, etc) I would definitely say something, but things that people cannot instantly rectify, or could, god forbid, be intentional, I prefer not to embarrass them.

[@darkmenagerie3749]

I’m obsessed with your videos. You are a joy to watch!! 😍

[@slthomas]

🤣🤣🤣🤣 Loved this my lovely! I couldn’t help but think of you while I was at work this past Saturday night. The things I saw people wearing while shopping😱!

[@dinahassan4320]

Your laugh makes me always laugh, you do bring happiness with every single video 😊

[@ms.frederique]

❤️

[@clairelamy1106]

"The lycra short with the elastic in the middle of the derrière" 1st time I see that😨 it s awful!! Same for the toes😲, it s sickening I m glad you did this video as I agree with you and I can see from the comments that a lot of people do too. I feel so out of my time nowadays, that it reassures me when I see that I m not alone thinking what I think.😍

[@fleur_de_saison]

I worked with a girl that would give herself camel toe in leggings and wear a crop top without a bra with them. It was a lot to take in! But I agree with all the points you made today. We deserve to take care of and appreciate ourselves and the trends you mentioned do no favors for us. Great video! ❤️

[@Weeeewriter]

*I work with this woman who is about ten years younger than I, she's 36 or 37. She's very thin and whenever she works with me, she puts on a couple of push up bras and it looks like they're about to take off into space like a rocket lol I'm naturally busty (36dd) and I love maxi dresses, so I dress modestly but accentuate my shape without showing it all. I was raised to dress like a lady.*

[@zaynab2085]

You brought back some memories of a former coworker I had that would wear see through white dresses with out underwear to work. No one felt it was their place to say something. Management should have addressed the issue. Unless we are related or very close friends, I will not say anything to a woman about her choice of clothes. Regarding the yoga pants and joggers, they are still a step in the right direction because I can not understand how people leave their house with pajamas, onesies, rollers on their hair, or with a robe.

[@morningstarentertainment6846]

@@Weeeewriter a lady wouldn't put down another female for dressing how she wants

[@Weeeewriter]

@@morningstarentertainment6846 This is a reaction video as you know. Why watch it?

[@indiradahan]

You are so right. And I love how you are honest without being rude.

[@ms.frederique]

thank you lovely 😘

[@nelvarinard6469]

Absolutely lovely lady. Class and elegance always. I am old school, my parents taught me how to dress, speak in public, have manners and love myself. So grateful to them for everything they did for me. I am teaching my children exactly what I learned. Thank you for being so kind and showing this generation what is like to be a lady.

[@ms.frederique]

Thank you so much!

[@Amimi810]

Thank you so much, I really appreciate your advice and you are really a symbol of grace and elegance 💕 Love all your videos 💕