10 Harshest Truths About Women That Men Learn Too Late!

[@OliviaAlexa]

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[@androcala9855]

Hi Olivia! If you are tired of ripping of lonely men maybe you can stop trying to change them constantly while advocating that women dont have to because they are just victims of genetics. Try exploring how the mind overcomes the body, and how you dont really have to be a narcissistic psycho just because you are a woman! If you want to become a real person instead of just being a sorry excuse for one you need my upcoming book! This book is a real game changer because it teaches you how to actually use your brain to create a new set of rules and standards for yourself instead of just using your monkey brain as an excuse every time you have to make any mental or physical effort around caring for a man. Yes embrace that men are human beings just like you would like to be, and not toys for you to play with at your whim. Men are not your mental dress up dolls, whose minds you can just change when they dont suit yours. Buy my book when it finally gets out and, educate yourself and become human instead of just being a B.I.T.C.H.

[@Rj19278]

So true...with your best friend, or your cousin or even the priest.

[@JFBalz]

10min video, 5 commercial breaks

[@strategic1710]

#4 about women not being able to empathize with men is accurate and particularly brutal. Women largely don’t see men as human beings who have our own needs, but rather as vessels whose purpose is to meet a woman’s needs.

[@eq2092]

It's accurate. Men need to be respected, women need attention and validation. They aren't the same thing and women intuitively treat men how they want to be treated.

[@tball84]

This is a reason why women don't deserve my time. I've been single this long not caring anymore.

[@DJTeddyJetts]

Yea this one hits for me. Just lost the mother of my child after 13 years and everything about how she switched up on me and ripped our family apart because a "mood" she was in blew my mind.... she can't even tell me why she tore our family apart, she quite literally dodges tf out of that question.

[@napolim214]

Learned that one the hard way

[@fcastle]

@Just Chill lol, that sounds like some Lifetime/Hallmark channel bullshit. Every woman I’ve spent any significant amount of time around has proven that she will look out for number one over all. They may do things for you in the short term (as a means to an end), but believe they are expecting it to pay off.

[@johannesswillery7855]

For a man, it's love. For a woman, it's business.

[@BrandonWombacher-cp7uh]

Those are incompatible.

[@ronaldfitzsimmons9902]

Same with Marriage

[@TGP109]

For a man, it's sex, for a woman, it's complicated.

[@johannesswillery7855]

@@TGP109 Women are incapable of love.

[@annabanzon313]

Depends on the person. Some males are gold diggers unfortunately.

[@JohnHH59]

Nice guys don't finish last--they don't finish at all. So nice to hear from a true woman calling out the BS of those women who are abusive.

[@thawdani]

just like how the bad boy phase is never over or overwritten by the need to settle/kids

[@Mjwara]

They don't finish at all? No, they don't even bother starting.

[@gfromshankside]

This woman is clearly educated and well spoken, and she's really making light of some horrible traits in toxic women. As a black man who is wiser now than I once was, I can say, unequivocally, I will find a woman who does not harbor these toxic traits, or I will die single, old, wealthy and happy, having avoided this kind of abuse entirely. ❤

[@averychilco]

Brother what you don't understand is a woman's shelf life is approximately 27 years give or take (age 18-45). Affter 45, women generally hate having sex and see it as a chore that they do not get pleasure from. Men on the other hand can be sexually viable for 60+ plus years. So, it's to a woman's benefit to find a man who is simpish for this short span. Don't concern yourself with how a mate thinks, but how you would want a man to see your daugter sister or mother.

[@jackwalker1822]

Exactly

[@zrunner240Z]

@@chadtyrone FACTS I WAS MARRIED 26 YEARS.......been single now for 10 years and loving my life more than ever...I LIVE FOR MYSELF AND I ANSWER TO NOBODY

[@xzxyyyyyy]

G Williams, buddy u need to watch every episode of fresh and fit. On youtube. These guys are educating us, and it's gonna be a like a Black lives matter kinda movement. Where we no more have to tolerate bad behaviour as a black man from these toxic black females

[@xzxyyyyyy]

@@zrunner240Z you go guy. U rock, BTW south Asian Vietnamese, Thai and pilipina women are so so feminine, u shud try going down there to south asia and meeting them. They love taking care of of their man, and are super hot too. Wen I see Safari's rap artist wife treat Safari like shit, makes me wanna puke. Safari such a great guy.

[@robinsonnunez2576]

The best thing a man can have is peace in his life 👍

[@safwanshow]

He won't fuck peace hhhhhh

[@thebasement7330]

and p0rn

[@Smiler2724]

Marriage is important of life but today modern world that we are living become worst everything went upside down and the system is corrupt.

[@JonathanVachon777]

​@@thebasement7330hum no

[@DiabloImmortalLeveling]

Single, content!

[@jamesfrancis2574]

My wife educated me on number 4 and how most women lack empathy for men. It was a big lesson for me.

[@korypo303]

Had she divorced you yet?

[@VisableToAnyoneOnYouTube]

Check the phone 😂

[@29dj17]

I love how she always goes straight to the point.

[@Sammie551]

And how fast she speaks No adverts too, probably in the future though

[@InappropriateShorts]

@@Sammie551 you know you can pay to not have ads.

[@Sammie551]

@@InappropriateShorts wow

[@slackerman9758]

Sigh, she comes off a bit as if it is men’s fault women want crappy men, but she is speaking truth.

[@nostalgicbliss5547]

​@@slackerman9758 I mean she's just speaking about evolutionary biological facts. Women are usually attracted to the dominant, competent men in society. Cause most of what happens in the world is all about power, perception and the choices we make. There are exceptions of course, but for the most part hetero women are groupies.

[@mynameisirrelevant46]

Relationships shouldn't be this complicated

[@1USACitizen192]

Read Genesis 3.

[@devinewynder5443]

@@1USACitizen192 Exactly we are cursed…people keep thinking God’s word isn’t true.

[@israelnur2313]

EXACTLY....

[@mynameisirrelevant46]

@@devinewynder5443 No i cancel that in the name of Jesus..No we are not cursed because who God has blessed no one can curse

[@oakinwol]

​@@mynameisirrelevant46 Someone who picks and chooses what parts of the Bible they read. In essence, someone who makes up their own god

[@rougebaba3887]

My biggest mistake in my marriage (other than the obvious - marriage itself) was not addressing her disrespect from the get-go. The first disrespect occurred within only a couple of short weeks of the wedding and it threw me. I was completely dumbfounded by it. I was dumbfounded because in all my 30 plus years of life, no one had been so openly disrespectful to me as she began to display. And as i came to understand far too late, a wife's disrespect needs to be dealt with immediately. A man who lets it slide or chalks it up to her having a "bad day" is not doing himself any favors. Each act and word of disrespect will build upon the last until her husband is a miserable, self loathing piece of crap. I speak from experience. It can eventually get so bad that the wife might even begin to display distain for her husband right in front of his own family, pushing him away when he goes to hug her or turning her head if he goes in for a kiss. She might even reach the level at which his physical pain means absolutely nothing to her. Heck, she might even laugh out loud in front of her children if she sees him get hit on the head by a hard object (yes, i speak from experience). His happiness, self worth and basic needs will become absolutely unimportant to her. He will be so low on her list of priorities that his feelings, even in basic human interactions, are of no concern to her whatsoever. She will treat him worse than she would even a casual friend or stranger. This is no exaggeration. I will give you an example of the depths to which her total disrespect stooped. My wife had to have open heart surgery. This operation occurred in the spring time and i took care of her throughout her recovery. I provided for her, cleaned for her, kept things moving and never once complained about the difficulties involved. And I went without sex for months and months (which is no big deal since she never wanted sex with me anyway). For Christmas that December I bought her a rather expensive gold necklace. I had it specially wrapped and waited to surprise her. Christmas morning arrived and I watched her open it. She lifted the lid, looked at it for all of 2 seconds, closed it and tossed it aside as if it were a piece of trash. Not only did she not say even a polite "thank you", she didn't even look at me! But she did come to me later that morning to confront me over my choice in a gift.... Her: "I have a question. Why did you buy me a necklace?" Me: "I thought it was beautiful and would look great on you." (notice that even her overt rudeness did not elicit a correction from me, but an open compliment. I've been a fool.) Her: "I had surgery, you know that, right? I have a scar, you can see that, right? I have not been wearing necklaces, so why would you do that?" And then she turned and walked away. I went to our bedroom, closed the door and sat there for about 15 minutes till I could compose myself and go on with the holiday. So young man, take it from a man who has been miserable for 25 years. If you choose to marry, do not put up with even one act of disrespect. If you do I guarantee you there will be a second, then a third in rapid succession until it becomes common place and pretty much daily.

[@bizlme]

Hard hard lessons learnt is all. Focus on God next for comfort and validation. Not a woman's

[@rougebaba3887]

@@bizlme I quite agree

[@Odin-Must-Dy]

Well said

[@KennyMavi]

Thank you

[@justme-oz8bj]

I feel your pain. Thanks for your advice.

[@rjc7289]

Men in the modern age are now waking up to the fact that the relationships, dating and marriage scene is a rigged game where the man stands to lose every single time if he doesn't watch his P's and Q's. No amount of getting laid is worth putting up with all the drama and dysfunction. Being single and unattached has given me a peace of mind I wouldn't trade away for the world!

[@collinsmith6611]

Let the church say Amen!!!😅😅 I knew this shit since I was age 25.. Now age 43.. I give no fucks about marriage in America.. I love spending my money on me. I truly enjoy it just like a woman..😂😂😂

[@thalmoragent9344]

Yeah, facts. It seems such a daunting task to date now

[@drunkenmmamaster419]

Ain't that the truth !!!

[@nyjalhill-peters9236]

When you are 50-60 with nothing to show for it but your lousy “peace of mind” you will be sad. Men were not meant to be comfortable. Listen to yourself dude. Go out there and hunt, find what u want and tame it. Stop sounding so damn soft.

[@BertRussell4711]

Ditto, all.

[@piano_legends]

This video makes me feel like I'm listening to TERMS AND CONDITIONS FOR WOMEN.

[@scottm8914]

Seriously, and i dont want to sign them 😂

[@simonstone7099]

Great to hear a woman being honest about women's behaviours and why they do it. This is real honesty compared to the BS I was fed growing up about what women want and how to treat them or how I should just be "a good guy" etc etc. Totally understand the reasoning she gives for why women test men but it is the most trying thing to ever deal with and nothing puts me off more than when a woman does this. In my mind it creates unnecessary stress and arguments that can turn a good relationship bad just because she wants to constantly test you. Men get tired of that sh*t.

[@Mmjgamer82]

Facts!

[@markymarknj]

NO SHIT! Why do you think I'm not in a rush to get in a relationship?

[@mikerainwater6154]

Amen

[@gatorssbm]

The real silver lining is treat them the way youd want to be treated based on how they act. If they want to act toxic like examples shown here just cut them out theyre not worth the trouble. If they are genuinely trying to be a good person and realize you have deal breakers thats what gets em to want to genuinely want to support you or even mature, but still Id not settle for anyone just because theyd bend to you. Id say look for someone who sees you as an equal or even a friend BUT with establishing by 3-4 months what your intentions are and if they dont feel the same way simply move on, if theyre unsure about it theyll figure it out after youve made the choice to not want to pursue them. Its not as hard as many make it out to be, just treat them well, be aware of what attachment style you both have and try to make a safe space for them if you come to value them. I genuinely dont believe in any of this game nonsense, either be real or dont bother wasting my time.

[@marcosrivas4603]

Don’t die for a woman ; she’ll show up to your funeral with a new mate .

[@emanuel_soundtrack]

Happened to me

[@K__kelly]

@@emanuel_soundtrackbro

[@moonjinn7510]

Brutal!

[@icemike1]

The one she already had

[@Bigmoney223]

No lie this happened to one of my friends who passed away, she was playing with his feelings, doing him dirty, but they were together when he passed, she then started messing around with someone who he called his brother, then funeral time comes around and he’s hugging all over her, they even left together just them 2, and till this day they still mess around. Lost all respect for both of them

[@theuglytruth4303]

11: Don't get in a relationship with these crazy wemen!!!

[@detroitvcw]

With how women are nowadays, take marriage and long-term relationships off the table. They've taken what we value, so restructure the deal.

[@theuglytruth4303]

@@detroitvcw EXACTLY!!!

[@MOOMONEY22]

Don’t get in relationships at all

[@kenjones2874]

😂😂

[@therealdealhutchinson6255]

Exactly you can get sex from women faster than food so I'm gud pump and dump....

[@Dizzle72]

Wow. I’m shook! Im a 29 year old guy and I never knew all of these realities until now. I always wonder why I haven’t been able to attract a female all of these years. I didn’t know girls were that complex and scrupulous. It makes sense because I’m not a confident person and have low self-esteem. I’ve had many girls ghost me because I was “too nice.” I never understood this because I’m naturally a nice person and I don’t want to upset anyone. How could women not appreciate that? I wondered. But now it makes sense. I don’t know where to go from here but thanks for making this video for it has shed light on many things I didn’t know before.

[@GiuLiuS13]

There s a lot of videos out on the internet which may be helpfull. I would also say never forget that there are these things in the video (which are true) And than there's the BIBLE and women trying to follow that. And these women, even though women will be woman, they might apreciate a (nice) guy like you (more). So I would say theres also the choice. For which type of girl you wanna go. Im gonna call m nice woman for now (the type that wants a nice guy) You can stay the nice guy if you want a ''nice'' woman. But if you wanna make more chane with the other (not ''nice'') women You might wanna change/step up your ''game'' However (as she says in the video too) when they get around 30 a lot of them go for a "nice'' guy. And making money and stuff, probably changes a lot. You also might wanna visit Brasil... Good luck anyway

[@unholydanger]

Wake up brother, don't fall into women's traps, be strong and make money and live for yourself, don't go for women, let them come to you.

[@sirerwin5881]

It took me till i was 30 , I was an IDIOT before. Whatever you do love yourself , do not waste time on women my guy

[@OriginalDrGonzo]

I'm the same way.

[@canwetalk1790]

It’s a year removed from your comment, but I’ll say this anyway. The one thing in life, you can never be is a man pleaser, or someone that tries to accommodate everybody else at the expense of your own. Sometimes you have to offend not to be intentionally mean, but to let that other person clearly understand that you have boundaries that will not and cannot be crossed. You must start loving yourself, making sure that disrespect whether it be from a man or woman never is allowed to flourish in your life. You have a God-given masculinity that must be presented at all times. As Olivia mentioned women are attracted to a man that gives them security in all phases of their life. When God created Adam, then he created Eve. When Eve came into the world, it was already set up for her. God gave Adam the resources to care for her and that is why women need security. If you are involved now, make sure your woman understands that you will never tolerate disrespect. Make sure she understands you are not going to be afraid of losing her if that ever happens.. having that attitude as a man will attract so many women you will have to beat them off with a stick. These independent women can holler all they want about self sufficiency and being self reliant, but at the end of the day, they are biologically wired to submit themselves to a strong, Godly man who takes no nonsense. That kind of man will never be concerned about attracting and keeping a woman.

[@juliusmoore2176]

I'm in my mid 40s and I've always been given the nice-guy label. Luckily for me, I married a woman that appreciates me for the man I am. I don't think I finished last.

[@bobbyleggins3900]

Right cause not all women are like that!

[@jackwalker1822]

You're the exception brother.

[@bobbyleggins3900]

I'm glad you found somebody cause that proves that there are women out there that don't play these silly games and y'all can just focus on enjoying life together!

[@raggydoll0189]

She completed the hoe face

[@justacentrist4147]

Or she was just done her hoe phase

[@KingofNewYorkkk]

What Olivia says about asserting dominance is true. If a man appears weak a woman will run game on him

[@raidchaser443]

😆...LOTS of women run from me because they want OWNERSHIP & control. They see me and QUICKLY hurry up and LEAVE knowing they FAVOR weak beta males!! They have done this for over 20 years (while I was 17 in 2003. NOTHING HAS CHANGED.) This ish is what it is...100% truth. As for "thug" Chads & Tyrones with 4+ kids who cheats on EVERY woman he gets with,the woman who favors HIM better MARRY him...

[@gerogekaren2771]

All women will.

[@justinbrooks326]

Whole time be running game on hersepf cause most men already be knowing just dont care.

[@obiajulumaha412]

So most women respond to psychological manipulation.

[@Sammie551]

I was financially reaped by women who pretended to love me

[@stephengilchrist6595]

You are what you are. If no one party appreciates the other, it's not a good situation.

[@danking9425]

Now that I'm in my 30's this all crystal clear to me. In my 20's I acted arrogant around women cuz I noticed it got their attention and kept them in tow. In my 30's i realized, it not really the arrogance. Its the qualities's the arrogance suggests you posses. Dominance, assertiveness, confidence etc. I now have healthier, more reasonable ways of signalling these qualities. 😄

[@vincecruz8410]

Well said

[@TheShermanki1]

I had this same thing happen but turned 30 in Jan and I’m way worse now smh 🤦🏾‍♂️

[@Shulcyo]

Women often confuse arrogance with confidence. That’s why they fall for bad boys thinking if they are confident seducing them they are confident about anything which is false. Often badboys are only good with women and nothing else. Complete lack of ambition, life purpose and more importantly life competence. That’s why they all divorce after they spent their best years with bums

[@carlosemiralonso7997]

@@TheShermanki1 As long as you see you have flaws you will be able to overcome or cope, is a good thing. Imagine doing something wrong and not being able to tell, so you never correct it and so everythings goes south.

[@OverRule1]

I looked deep inside myself through meditation and managed to see myself and changed myself in my core to have these qualities so now I don't have to show it. It just shows by default

[@jr-wv4qw]

I used to think I was missing out on a lot being a relationship-less virgin at my age, but then I watched a few videos about modern women and realized the only thing I actually missed out on was losing money, mental health, and probably getting an STI. It's not worth it, men. Just work for yourself, enjoy your hobbies, and take care of your friends. Relationships are a joke.

[@seanm7539]

Yes sir

[@samoliver9132]

Save it for marriage as God intended. Don’t wanna create soul ties with anyone other than your wife

[@lemsip207]

Modern men are just as bad as modern women.

[@markymarknj]

Fuckin' a right!

[@alexanderbatterbee8369]

women are a joke tbh

[@yougotgroove]

I'm a 59 year old male I just turned 59 today. Everything you're saying totally resonates with me. I'm a very sensitive man I have a wonderful daughter that I've raised with my ex-wife and I've maintained a good relationship with her because of the unconditional love I have for my daughter. I'm finding that women that are single in their 50s that have never had children, have difficulty pair-bonding and I'm starting to feel that they're not good long-term partners. What year did scribing of what these women want, it's all Eagle based and it's got no value to me whatsoever these women can just go jump in the lake I really couldn't give to you know what's about them. They're a waste of time totally low-value

[@antc1022]

"Attention is a woman's biggest currency" 🎯

[@MsIvargas]

Ignoring too lol

[@Anthony-dj4nd]

Your paying her right now!😂

[@maxfed2757]

Who even cares, came here to judge the comment section lol. You’re mostly people who care here, I find that hilarious.

[@IsaacValcanoQuest90]

Yup lol fr

[@attiumeyami417]

yes but thanks to instagram the currency has inflated worse than actual money after the pandemic

[@omez23]

It's refreshing to hear this type of brutal honesty.

[@hastensavoir7782]

@Just Chill I need this.

[@attiumeyami417]

This is the type of truth that can completely shatter the romantic view men have of women. im glad it exists.

[@rayrwyr]

Not brutal enough. She is very wrong about #7 : "Women are loyal to men who provide security." The opposite is true. Never give her certainty and security unless you want her to cheat on you. With women there is only one rule: they respect/love strong and dominating men who are not too attached to her and will replace her if she goes out of line. They punish and cheat on weak men who are loyal and devoted to her.

[@rayrwyr]

@Just Chill -- we are talking about 95% women. 5% or less are probably not so crazies.

[@robertmunger43]

This is the most LOGICAL I ever heard a woman speak on "Advice videos." Positively speaking, you have hit all your points logically without submerging it in emotion or a lack of accountability that women are being socially programmed to operate in the modern world. Well done and intrigued for more quality vidoes like this.

[@tobiasblack1749]

11. Don’t bother with 99% of women

[@uncleroams279]

😂😂🤣🤣

[@nbee6217]

😂😂😂😂

[@balladbuster5109]

You're funny but very accurate. Why would I want to learn about women when data has revealed that dealing with them will lead to your demise?

[@jmcbride747]

@@balladbuster5109 THEN DEAL WITH MEN SMH 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@balladbuster5109]

The kind of attitude that confirms what I just said. Keep on antagonising us and we will keep on turning our backs to you. Note that I didn't insult you back. Both genders are free to make their choices. I choose to protect myself. I have no hate. I'm simply indifferent to your actions.

[@leetate1963]

Funny thing is that I’ve always said this stuff was the truth about women and I was told by women that I had no idea what I was talking about. I have no problem staying single the rest of my life. I’m a homeowner, my bills are paid, I love my work, my kids are adults and I’ll be retiring in 7 years. I’m living a peaceful and do not want headaches

[@attiumeyami417]

Believe it or not CNN actually made a segment about this. they said men in the US are giving up on dating. lmao its like u know its getting bad if CNN reports on mens issues.

[@cosmicsea89]

You already reproduced so you've won the mating game

[@KanyeKetchup]

​@@cosmicsea89😂

[@miahconnell23]

Sounds like you’re in good shape for a relaxing & enjoyable retirement. It’s highly likely an attractive woman will want to be with you for at least a part of your retirement-time. Allow that to happen if you want, but don’t bend over backwards for her or allow her to take anything that’s yours that you don’t wanna be lacking. Oh, and if you want to leave any assets for your adult kids, figure that out now before old-age hurts your brain. There are weirdly specific and complicated laws about giving your assets away where you’ve gotta give ‘em away more than two years before any “spend-down” related to entering a nursing home… but if you’re not avoidant and figure out that stuff out, i bet you’ll have an enjoyable span of time.

[@snyder.4587]

Olivia you are so direct, so respectful of both genders, you waste no time giving valuable facts we need to make it through, healthy, and happy, Your a Champ!!!

[@AhmedMohamed-yc5fr]

Guys no matter how much u love her never let a woman get comfortable disrespecting u if u show her u tolerate blatant disrespect u lose attraction she will think she can do whatever she want

[@rayrwyr]

Quran is very red pilled.

[@Smiler2724]

ان كيدكن العظيم.صدق الله العظيم

[@Smiler2724]

Women only respect you when you treat like trush control her .

[@jasondixon9095]

Focus on yourself fellas it’s about to get real out here

[@JusChillzDawg]

Olivia needs to be protected at all costs

[@tochukwutc3727]

"they start equating their value to their sexual desirability"...sadly, its the outward expression of most shallow-minded women. You're so spot on alexa👌🏾

[@akumacode]

Respect. You're one of the few women I've seen bring up that it's difficult for women to empathize with a man. Society paints women as such great natural masters of emotion, but when their man has a moment of real weakness they freak out, say/do something they can never take back, and fail to be a loving and supportive force in their relationship when it's needed most

[@rayrwyr]

She is very wrong about #7 : "Women are loyal to men who provide security." The opposite is true. Never give her certainty and security unless you want her to cheat on you. With women there is only one rule: they respect/love strong and dominating men who are not too attached to her and will replace her if she goes out of line. They punish and cheat on weak men who are loyal and devoted to her.

[@davecrupel2817]

Women are sl@ves to emotion. Not masters.

[@Eric-dd8bk]

Well said. I know a lot of people who've lost their eyesights, hearing, limbs, or are paralyzed from neck to the toes, and a few more in difficult physical conditions, Catch is that when it's a w0man in such condition, their husbs are sticking around helping them and taking care of them, but when it's a mn in such conditions, 9 out of 10 times, their waivus abandoned them,, and one of them even starved to death in his own apartment. His waifu got another guy and took out all the belongings and money out and left him on his own, when the mn was not able to use any of his limbs at all, so he could not call anyone, leave his house, or do anything for his survival. They really are in it for only their sake. They say they are the more empathetic ones, and do show them ever once in a while, but it's all show, or just in the moment. In the long run, they are in it for only themselves. As mn, all we have is ourselves and other mn around us. Live as you are not married even if you are. Just fulfill your duty as husbands and fathers, but never count on the w0man to do anything for you when things go south. So always drive safe, eat healthy, make as much money as you can, exercise, and quit drinking and smoking.

[@1USACitizen192]

They never are loving or supportive, unless they are robbing you.

[@MKSRM_]

💯

[@TundeAjayi-ms2tw]

Truth is, Most men over rate these women. We place them on a pedestal far above their level. The earlier we realise this, the better.

[@puravida5683]

I have lived around the world, and currently live in Costa Rica and Panama.🏖 I have dated and mated women from all around the world. It is refreshing to hear a woman be blunt and honest, I applaud you! Irrespective what country, or what culture. Men want sex and companionship, women want financial security and personal safety.

[@Shtotagdetotryot1]

Women want sex, companionship, financial security, and personal safety. Don’t ever underestimate Importance of sex to a woman in a relationship. Women cheat for the very same reasons men do and often times it’s because they’re not getting enough sex, or feel neglected sexually by the man.

[@christianhenry4173]

Its not true though that nice guys finish last that's where she's wrong because when you stand before God the virtuous, meek, and humble receive greater rewards. Not the unpure, or top competitors of the world. And you will have to give an account for idol words used. Its serious.

[@juwansimmons7612]

💯% facts‼️

[@qwerty1994ize]

@@christianhenry4173 there’s a difference between Nice and a doormat. A good man is inherently nice. 9/10 what people do is Mask their true intentions behind being “nice” but the reality is people can sense the fakeness

[@christianhenry4173]

@@qwerty1994ize no that's. Not true. I don't know what type of nice guy your referring to. That sounds like a narcissist or a pretender. People don't realize Jesus was very nice, and also very direct. So if anybody should examine what's a great spirit to have its Jesus he's the 2nd Adam and he's truly Alpha and omega. Jesus was indeed so attractive as a man that Mary Magdalene had a crush on his leadership although he rebuked her and his mother. So I disagree with that sorry. It's not true nice guys finish last, well let me put that in context. It is true Nice Guys do finish on top. Because That same nice guy is going to be king judging the world with an rod of iron and it won't be a good day when he returns

[@lupa596]

too much effort to be cheated at the end. men be single

[@dougwhiley4028]

I know what you mean, Brother. But im lonely.

[@MrNanah38]

Men cheat too bro, its the human condition, find someone who value equally and live, stop live in fear that a woman is going to cheat on you.

[@James-ky6wu]

The juice is just not worth the squeeze. Women cheat more than men do, they are just better at not getting caught.

[@lupa596]

@@MrNanah38 yep but in different ways bro... men gain respect and women lose it. it is as it is. Yep i am 50 years old, had learned about life more than you and i am brazilian, i know what is good woman and beachs...Be a beta is an option. I am old school real man

[@lupa596]

@@dougwhiley4028 the best investment is on yourself. You are not lonely, find good friends and go live! Cheers bro

[@Nov24thsFinest]

I sincerely appreciate your videos! I am a newly licensed marriage and family therapist and you are definitely educating me on a great deal that was not talked about in school or even in life. Again, thank you!

[@BjornHegstad]

makes one wonder what stuff you're taught as a marriage therapist if they don't teach any of this.

[@mike_datzmag1c21]

Not is she a woman of beauty but wisdom, salute to u Olivia 💯

[@desborneoneil8839]

It's amazing that not single female made a comment on this video. Great Job as always Olivia.

[@rudygoofysrh]

Because of society’s desensitization to the emotions and feelings of men, quite a few men don’t talk about their feelings ever especially to modern women today. Therefore, when a man drinks alcohol, smokes, dies with poor health and/ or commit suicide and he’s dead, it’s too late for empathy at this point. However, most people are ok with women, children and dogs to express their feelings and emotions.

[@JDDoug6930]

There is a contradiction between not desiring a man who is emotionally available and wanting a man who is emotionally secure.

[@StartledNewt]

This!

[@getaheadwithpetekelly]

Exactly.

[@e_squared604]

Lets be honest here. Given the nature of women and the way society is today, a healthy relationship is impossible with all but the most self aware women. Thanks for your honestly. Maybe we'll be able to get to a better place, one day.

[@mikawaii_og]

Hope you have a happily ever after mate, whatever that would be for you. -a woman

[@Kushy36]

Never in my life have I ever heard a woman speak so truthfully. I wish this was recorder 15 years ago.

[@danblaize5742]

This should be a required watch for ALL men. You absolutely NAILED it in this video!!! Smart, aware and honest…what a breath of fresh air.

[@brandonsmiles4672]

10 Harsh Truths About Women That Men Learn Late. 1. You will be used for what you lead with. 2. A woman will run over you if you let her. 3. Nice guys usually do finish last. 4. Most women lack empathy for men. 5. Most women like emotionally unavailable men. 6. A woman will constantly test you. 7. Women want security. 8. Being physically desired is everything to women. 9. Attention is the main driving factor for most women. 10. She usually won’t be able to match your sex drive.

[@nunyabeesnees]

If you're reading this & put up with this for pussy you've lost.

[@acct4600]

she couId've just said women are awfuI ten times & that wouId've sufficed lol smh

[@superpiccirillo]

Thanks for the recap

[@Shtotagdetotryot1]

Disagree with 1,4,5,6,7, and 9 and number 10? You’d be surprised

[@brandonsmiles4672]

@@superpiccirillo you’re welcome

[@abdallaalamin9629]

I feel like I'm listening to some secrets I'm not supposed to be hearing. I keep checking if someone is around me watching me listening to this lol. You are dropping some serious gems on us!

[@simsimmarrp1893]

To sum this up... most men and women are not worthy of being with long term... if she easy then she's not worthy.. if he's easy then he's not worth it either... if both live in the moment and not for the long term.. they not worthy so. To pull off a miracle, you have to be one also

[@Shtotagdetotryot1]

Or in more simple terms I think, despite what we’ve been raised or brought up to believe whether it’s through media,society, etc, women, and men are not very much different, and for the most part both want the same thing. Consistency, security, good communication, affection, attention, love, trust, support, a partner who is their authentic self, honest and of course regular sex lol

[@simsimmarrp1893]

@@Shtotagdetotryot1 your right most times than not.. now here is my point... forget what people want... how many people are giving their partner "Consistency, security, good communication, affection, attention, love, trust, support, a partner who is their authentic self, honest and of course regular sex lol" most are too busy wanting.... but dont offer it on a consistent basis... (but why) because they gave goal"s" that are treated as more important than their partners... which makes them......

[@Neffect371]

Hmmm facts!

[@ounmore2893]

😂😂😂

[@dc8061]

Thank you for making me feel like im not a piece of shit for treating women like shit. Now i know i'm on the right path.

[@pierramunuku]

The man who is superficial and pleases for the sake of pleasing women is called a SIMP.

[@mr.dennis5503]

So, to sum up... "She only cares about what she wants. You're never going to get what you want from her, because she has little interest in giving it. In light of the two previous statements, DATING AND MARRIAGE IS A WASTE OF A MAN'S TIME!" Got it! Thanks!

[@nbee6217]

No just date wisely. You have to determine if the woman is worth all this trouble first. If you pass all these tests and you pre approved her as being virtious; you should be the happiest man alive thereafter. The problem is finding the quality woman worth going through all this for.

[@mr.dennis5503]

N Bee: I found that woman and married her. Spent 20 years with her. In year 17, she turned into someone I didn't even recognize, and by year 20, I had no choice but to get her out of my house! I wasted 20 years of my life working hard, remaining faithful, and taking care of my family. I'm done! Whatever time I have left on this earth will be dedicated to caring for myself first!

[@nbee6217]

@@mr.dennis5503 oh no, am sorry you had to go through that. You definitely need to put yourself first now.

[@kevinl6136]

@@nbee6217 “you have to determine if she’s worth the trouble first” it’s never worth any trouble you already lost

[@albertrobinson4133]

@@kevinl6136exactly

[@k.givens788]

My late mother told me “If it hurts, let it out. Holding on to things that cause you pain isn’t good for you .”

[@HolyRainbowism]

I’m 47 and a lifelong incel (never had a girlfriend and never had a date in my whole life), and listening to this it somehow makes me grateful for being spared from all the shit that come with women. Maybe i haven’t lost anything special all these years.

[@AutomaticDuck300]

I’m 32 and I’ve only ever had a nightmare with dating. Never had a good relationship or a good sexual experience. Maybe I’m not missing out either.

[@SunRise-ul7ko]

Got my first girlfriend at 50. After 2 months the demands & the nagging became intolerable. I had to leave she came back 7 months later with a new attitude & the relationship lasted another 7 months. Never again do I want to be in a relationship. However I need to go through the experience to realise how bad the experience actually is.

[@AutomaticDuck300]

@@SunRise-ul7ko that’s why you need to be strong and prioritise yourself. Take no shit. If they see you as weak, that’s when they take you for a ride.

[@NoName-hn7yl]

I cant imagine a life without interacting with women, must be depressing

[@BL3SSed-Bliss]

​@@NoName-hn7yl Yeah, and apparently it's more prevalent than any of us thought. So many are lonely, and they become miserable. That lonely misery craves company, even if it's simply from other lonely and miserable people. Then they make the mistake of believing, feeding into, and supporting ideology; oft from those who profit from exploiting such misery and loneliness, and backhandedly promotes toxicity...and misery, thus loneliness....and the cycle continues. This happens with/to both genders. Sad state. Truthfully, it's the same D&C tactics used in slavery; separating the sexes. It's just packaged a bit differently. I used to scoff at people who said the following, but I am beginning to see why some believe in some greater conspiracy/agenda to push homosexuality. Good luck out there to all of you who are (or feel) loveless.🙏🏽

[@JF-ub4hr]

One of the best videos i’ve ever seen. Interesting to hear a woman say everything that i’ve gradually realized now at 40 yrs old.

[@mr.nobody3492]

Tate has helped us young ones, I have a guess that there will be a power shift in society were women aren't always having the last say

[@maxxheadroom6744]

Sister you are one in a 'zillion' - your articulation and the convincing truth is I'm sure to many exploited men out there! Thank you for standing up for us! You talk with authority, yet advisory and in a constructive tone, keep up the good work!

[@haroldpierson5271]

Priceless... So, So many "OMG She's RIGHT", moments!! Even if we've learned every one of these nuggets, we forget, and have to be reminded. And this is all in One concise video... Thank you!! ( Should be REQUIRED viewing for all males, 15 and up )

[@quamifilms]

Damn… if I would’ve known this…. I wouldn’t have gotten married. Facts

[@mlmajortodaleague147]

Men: treat a bih like a bih and a Queen like a Queen. Be happy!🤜🏾🤛🏾

[@closer20jc]

Treat any woman like a queen and you are doomed

[@TruthSpeaker9000]

People hate the truth! The truth will set you free.

[@gekko505505505]

*women hate the truth

[@kiko8u]

No sane man would tolerate this insanity.

[@ButIReraise]

As a man nearing 40 with experience with many women, this seems dead on fact. thanks for articulating it so clearly

[@IamYi]

It's by far the most comprehensive assessment I have come across and coming from a woman I truly think there's hope to see a generation of young girls who can't think beyond their social media profiles 😂❤

[@rayrwyr]

She is very wrong about #7 : "Women are loyal to men who provide security." The opposite is true. Never give her certainty and security unless you want her to cheat on you. With women there is only one rule: they respect/love strong and dominating men who are not too attached to her and will replace her if she goes out of line. They punish and cheat on weak men who are loyal and devoted to her.

[@cw9790]

And she was able to do it without being annoying

[@cintroberts6614]

This woman has the game down, best advice for men that I have listened to.

[@faisal-ca]

I never thought I will hear that from a woman. You did a great job explaining it in a very simple way.

[@dwolfism]

This is one of the most articulate, insightful, and hopeful, for men who frequently are clueless about what motivates women. As someone who is on the wrong side of the 70, and I have dated many many women, I would’ve liked to known all of this mini years ago. Well done.

[@RandomUser-he3fr]

Thank you sister for teaching us what women are truly about, a lot of us learnt it either with pain or trauma. Thanks for saving thousands of lives.....

[@stanleylucky]

So... act unattainable and a challenge.... but protect her since that's all she cares about... be ok when she does not put out, but make sure you pass her trustworthiness test. Makes sense.

[@milanrana1184]

😂😂😂

[@nostalgicbliss5547]

Exactly! It's a joke. 99 percent of women are not worth all that hassle. Now I get why those middle eastern fellas keep their women in check 24/7 and 365 lol. They are not logical or reasonable beings at all. And most follow trends and are groupies.

[@mintoyish5354]

It's basically be backwards

[@kdog6384]

I dont know how to be anything but nice. I wont change that either. Even if im forever single.

[@jaybrick8973]

Yeah if you to change yourself to be with someone it's not worth it

[@mmou3878]

I agree if I have to be mean to get her then I don't want her.

[@Insight-music]

Integrity is what makes a man high-value, yet all their image of a “high value” man leads men to compromise their integrity to get her…. Please, make this make sense…

[@nostalgicbliss5547]

​@@Insight-music It's cause they are shallow jezebels. Don't fall for it. There are exceptions, but those women will be like finding a needle in a haystack

[@k.c.alarmsltd29]

Be nice bro....just be nice to yourself and your own needs first thats the trick

[@markowusu6511]

We always say women are a puzzle but videos like this definitely help to unravel some of these puzzles. Thank you

[@negeto2460]

Thank you sister for your honesty and great content. But men have had enough of this 'crap' and the games women play! We would rather be single than to spend the rest of our lives with drama. As Al Bundy in that classic show 'Married with Children' would say: "Men don't need women. Women need men!". Enough said. Peace 🙂

[@drleo6409]

They are too much trouble. Too messed up. Men are messed up too but when you add a woman to the situation it will likely get worse

[@adrianjeffrey2897]

You right. Have you been to the hoe strolls lately? Business is BOOMING!!

[@abdulazizhawsah9884]

It would be the case as long as you believe it

[@patienceobongo]

Tbey dont want a sensitive guy. Good, have the violent psychopaths, then

[@Boc3phu5]

I like his other quote better. Son, don't try to understand women. Women understand women, and they hate each other.

[@perryuploads776]

Sorry I do not agree with some things. My advice to other men: Look for femine traits such as nurturance, sensitivity, sweetness, supportiveness, gentleness, warmth, passivity, cooperativeness, expressiveness, modesty, humility, empathy, affection, tenderness, and being emotional, kind, helpful, devoted. Not a woman looking for ego-boost, desire for unavailablity (thrill for the chase), difficult to obtain (scarcity), attracted to prohibited activities (intrigue). These are bad traits, these people live in this realm only. They are attached in this material world. If you live and just be yourself then that is fine. If you are nice , honest and gentle to woman then that is your way. If a woman doesn't have the ability to see how you are then look for another. In life you should enjoy, not learn "harsh truths" from woman. They are just humans like us, nothing special. If a person loves you and you love her then you have found the right person . The key to have a woman is Love . I get tired of woman telling to men what we have to do. Just improve in yourself, visit your family, take care of yourself (eat well, train, learn new things) and work good to keep your self safe. If you find a woman attractive , talk to her and learn who she is. You will realize when you talk more girls , to more variety there is. People have a different lives, so try to find a matching partner that both lives can connect and live together. If you are unsure, just try to talk more girls without anything expectations. They are not special. If you put her feelings first, you come last. Keep it real.

[@L.ATRAFFICNMADNESS]

Facts

[@ericheffner112]

That's a virtuous woman. A woman who was raised right and loves God! You're right though. I'm a good dude and trusting God in presenting a woman to me who'll love me for me. I don't wanna "act" like an asshole to keep her. My father was extremely abusive towards my mother. I refuse to be that cat.

[@Sammie551]

The prettier she is, the less feminine she acts cause there are so many options for her and therefore narcissist

[@idcidk69420]

You pathetic loser boomer.

[@gre9467]

I agree with you, because a lot of what she says may be true, but it applies to these immature females out here who really don't know what a real man is or is supposed to be. It's all about status and materialism with those kind of females...trying to showcase their worth through those means. Because a woman who knows who she is, and understands the power of her femininity won't waste her time or her nurturing prowess to even engage in a lot of these activities here.

[@jcruisioso5975]

Spot on! Confidence bordering on arrogance . Security in every angle. All humans , even men want a challenge.

[@jayell1979]

Solution to all of this: ZERO TOLERANCE

[@darrenhilton9402]

🎯

[@cadenhnc]

lol nah, the real solution is hit and quit. Pump and dump. Smash and dush. Fu*k and chuck. Slide in then ride out. Pipe and dip.

[@ThorfinnSkullsplitter-fz7ff]

Modern Feminism has REALLY messed women up.

[@smiles7631]

Thank you for this video. It is a hard pill to swallow being divorced and 48. I'm working hard to better myself and I'm pretty lonely but every day I grow fonder of my peace. I'm starting to think about tapping out but I'm not a quiter by nature so I guess we will see what happens.

[@yousefalattar2928]

No fluff no long intro or even outro just straight bars from start to finish. Bless your heart Olivia you’re doing God’s work helping out so many men avoid so many problems ! Your hard work will pay off I believe it wholeheartedly ❤️

[@HopelessAutistic]

you seem to be sociopath where you hate personality with opening and closing cuts in videos. This society with ADHD...

[@ralph3604]

Wow! I'm a 48 yr old Man and I've been married for almost 25 yrs. Ma'am, you have 100% nailed every detail presented in this video. So many jewels dropped....thank you! (We would be wise to replay this and watch several more times.) Thank you again. ✊🏾

[@rayrwyr]

note this is from a woman. Red Pill pundits always warn men that never take relationship advice from a woman. That warning is correct. Don't ask a fish how to catch fish. Ask a fisherman. #7 Claim: "Women are loyal to men who provide security." TRUTH: If you make your woman feel secure (that you will not leave her), then you are royally fu*ked. If she thinks she has you locked, under her thumb, then she will lose respect and attraction for you. She will treat you poorly. She will cheat on you at the first available opportunity. So, it is true women want security. But the only way to keep her loyal is to make her feel insecure. She will respect you, love you, have lot of s3x with you and be loyal to you, ONLY IF she knows you will leave her and replace her at heartbeat the moment she crosses any boundary. If she thinks that you will not tolerate any disrespect and you are not weak, and she will be replaced in case she disrespects you, then she will feel insecure, and as a result she will love you and respect you, be attracted to you, and stay loyal to you. So, men, never give her certainty unless you want her to cheat on you.

[@thembelssengwayo6896]

I wish you were my mother or sister to guide me more about women. Women are so elusive to most men, you make us see what we wouldn't otherwise see in this life time about women.

[@furiousstyles6278]

I love videos like this, they stay on loop......

[@OliviaAlexa]

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[@pierramunuku]

Yes.

[@OliviaAlexa]

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[@anonymous6594]

Put this the community tab as a poll.

[@TSixSix]

Yes

[@mannbrandyburg]

Yep yep yep yep..

[@Cloofinder]

If a woman tests you, then they're still dealing with their own insecurities and trust issues. If she does this, dump her and walk away.

[@antoinesims4119]

Imma re-watch this video 2X a month, jus to remind myself to be stronger emotionally

[@grant9047]

Don’t overly focus on women and rely on them for happiness, if it doesn’t naturally work then leave. Don’t try to trick women into liking u or act like someone your not to try to get a girl. Just find your happiness in things like friends and family and career and God and hobbies and interests.

[@akokohjoel9854]

Your comments make my day. Nice one, this is the truth of all time.

[@grant9047]

@@akokohjoel9854 glad I could help brother

[@counsela9240]

This is 100% correct!

[@robertlangston50]

Wow this is a very informative and intelligent video. Good job Sis!!!

[@terrywilliams2349]

Ms. Olivia thanks for giving us the Game!! Female Nature has no heart smh

[@zealousideal]

I know right!! Smh.

[@terrywilliams2349]

@@zealousideal the Game is Cold smh

[@detroitvcw]

Men are the REAL romantics...men have the ability to love unconditionally

[@heymikey6793]

Not all females are the same. You would hate if women grouped all men together, so why do it with them?!

[@terrywilliams2349]

@@detroitvcw yep! Men loves harder than women

[@craiver00]

This is the most logical video made by woman I've seen so far. Thank you.

[@danieldiaz-lebrun4956]

@2:36 Sweet, sensitive, soft and shy. That is who I am, genuinely, and I am not going to exhaust myself to change that just because most women don't find that attractive. I would be the one who ends up miserable and resenting her if I did. I am also not a "predictable, people pleaser." I am a guy who does the best he can to maintain good working relationships by being cooperative in team environments and not create chaos by breaking the rules. Most guys follow the rules in order to keep their jobs and make a living. This is not "boring or predictable," it's called being a normal, civilized human being.

[@ghostwriter-gd]

Talk that game girl! We been hearing you speak that truth for years.... Know you know what you talking about ❤

[@bobbyleggins3900]

This my first time seeing her and I must say she's about damn right! So right I almost got mad hot! Cause she's right!

[@offtop6056]

U articulate urself great.....straight to the point nice video👌

[@obafemiosineye9525]

You are spot on, I just have to subscribe to listen more from this intellect woman and she goes straight to the point.

[@Ugluk6]

Olivia, this video is amazing. I have rarely found anyone who speaks so clearly while expressing such profound wisdom. Thank you for helping me understand women and why they are often put off by me being such a nice guy.

[@JeromeProductions]

Olivia... I just gotta say thank you. You really said straight facts without any fronting. Just straight to the point. Blessings.

[@applesewer2684]

This is gold! Thank you. I agree with all of this, and it's one of the reasons I've chosen celibacy. Attracting a woman is far too much effort for me. I just wish we could rise above our primal impulses sometimes. I honestly just want to be friends.

[@mikedupont4295]

I was at the bar a couple weeks ago. There were a few guys there and this one girl that caught everyone's attention. I ignored her as I'm happily taken and generally would never give another woman the time of day even if I was single. All the other guys were doing their best to get her attention and I continued to enjoy myself with my buddy acting like she didn't exist. Who do you think she ended up desperately trying to get to flirt with her? She tried to make me buy her a drink, she kept coming back to the bar stool next to me to talk, and I kept sending her away to play pool with the other guys that were drooling over her... Moral of the story, if you present yourself as high value and genuinely carry yourself as an Alpha without giving women attention, you will be as addictive to a woman as crack is to an addict... Their brains are just wired to feel intense attraction to things they feel are just out of reach

[@romienomie]

That is a fact

[@Golden_Ghoul]

Don't forget you need money

[@patnor7354]

That only works if you look the part. If you were a 5 foot ordinary she would never have noticed you.

[@jaobidan2358]

Alphas are the ones that try to impress a woman like you mentioned. You, my friend, are a Sigma.

[@Entreri007]

​@@jaobidan2358yup!

[@keithhudson6023]

Thank you for the straightforwardness. This was video was a truth BOMB personified 💣

[@JamesAHollandMusic]

I’m in my late 40’s and I too used to be the kind, sensitive nice guy. I got screwed over, cheated on and played but i learned to toughen up and ended up finding and marrying a good woman who loves me for who I am. Most women have issues and then they whine about not finding a good man as they get ram through and passed around like a blunt until they’re too old and damaged to last in a stable relationship. Smh

[@kevinkapondi1147]

I like the way she frankly speaks about the way society has moulded women to be the way they are today, without a man exerting dominance on a woman in a psychological manner she will surely disrespect him no matter what, remarkable work by this lady, she deserves an a pplause

[@nnodw7721]

Some Alphas are born and some are made.

[@collinsmith6611]

But the person you really are is the original man you first mentioned before you " Toughened up" So the woman you married let you be yourself before you became the new tough jackass ?? Most women don't grow up until they hit the wall anyway Sooo🤷🤷🤷

[@rayrwyr]

She is very wrong about #7 : "Women are loyal to men who provide security." The opposite is true. Never give her certainty and security unless you want her to cheat on you. With women there is only one rule: they respect/love strong and dominating men who are not too attached to her and will replace her if she goes out of line. They punish and cheat on weak men who are loyal and devoted to her.

[@nansubugafauster1024]

Sad but True

[@jun10rf3]

I learned all this after a 5 year relationship breakup. Now I’m not even attached to any of these women, a lot of them are still growing up themselves. I’m just going around sleeping with them and that’s that. A lot of these women don’t even deserve anything good, they are too toxic and they don’t see that. I also can’t stand the ones that are pretty and think you should beg rhem 😂 that’s why a man should always have options unless you’re married

[@kingconan4crom]

Very well said. The way of the world really complicates the relationship between men and women. So it's very vital for us to understand how we're meant to compliment each other and give balance to the structure of family and society. Without that proper balance especially within family, society and the world as we know it will continue to crumble into chaos. I appreciate the effort that you make to help bring understanding. This world truly needs it more than ever.

[@montoya-400]

Capitalism monetary disease. In a Resource (access) based economy we would behave differently. Look up The Venus Project, Jacque Fresco.

[@quantumsolace5864]

Damn Olivia you are growing fast! This what happens when you spit real truth to power. Time is of the essence. You are deserving of great success Sista.

[@joekavanagh7171]

The best way to attract women is to ignore them. Give the impression that you don't need them (you don't anyway). Since I stopped bothering, interest from women has greatly increased. Now there are several that I could marry if I wanted (but I don't).

[@infernoo365]

it's literally the same with me. i ignore the woman who likes me and she chases it's suffocating

[@CtrlOptDel]

The point about being too obliging doesn't even necessarily apply to just women. In my job I made an effort to be a good team player at first & did a little too good a job to the point that the managers - male and female - took me for granted to such a degree that I had to threaten to quit more than once to force them to treat me with respect. Luckily the managers are cycled between departments & locations on occasion and thus I was able to make new first impressions with the replacement managers over time.

[@nostalgicbliss5547]

It's just human nature. People will almost always try to take advantage of genuine people. Cause most people are not genuine at all. The scriptures tell you the heart of man is deceitful and desperately wicked.