10 HORRIBLE LIES ABOUT MODERN MARRIAGE || Soila and Curtis

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Hey wonderful people! It's been a while since we gave you some nice content. Parenting manenos have been on our case but we are back!
Here are...
10 MOST HORRIBLE LIES ABOUT MODER MARRIAGE! Enjoy!
0:00 Catching up
4:06 Discussion Intro
4:36 Marriage is two families coming together.
6:07 Staying together for the kids.
8:50 Pre-marital preparation begins at pre-marital class.
12:25 Marriage is two people bringing 50-50 to make 100%.
14:35 Men are superior to women.
19:22 Marriage cures lust.
21:38 Marriage is what we make it.
24:12 All men must cheat at some point.
26:34 Marrying the right way guarantees you success.
10:55 Moving in is a right step into marriage.
Enjoy.
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[@teddymugambi]

Lol people close to me have found it hard to wrap their heads around the fact that I am preparing for marriage, without being in a relationship, and in the process of preparation, I am rejecting all potentially prospective life partners (in their eyes). Not merely by accumulating knowledge; but mostly by coming to terms to the layers that inform the person I am through my life experiences thus far. Elevating the good; doing away with the bad and dysfunctional, and healing even in areas where I didn't know I needed to heal. Not doing it to be ready, but doing it to be healthy. Feel like there's this incessant need to rush into marriage, especially in the church - and so many are compromising on a lot just so that they get married, which is very sad and deflating. Point number 3 really hit home for me. How will I know that I have healed enough? God will give me a yearning and an enthusiasm for a relationship, and it wouldn't feel forced, rushed or tense. Peace and Godly affirmation will govern the motivation, prevailing circumstances notwithstanding.

[@rogath_silayo]

This is the comment which deserves a million likes!!..Am man specifically youth...I found your ideas and insights about marriage very insightful by just reading a glimpse about your thoughts!!!!!It is very important for one to prepare for marriage without involving yourself in any relationship...it is good and important one to develop him or her self spiritually, socially, psychologically, Economically etc and also healing yourself in case you had a childhood trauma, rejection, unnecessary infatuations and entanglements and soul ties....on top of that finding your purpose..by learning that, one is required to avoid narcissistic and psychopath partner.... kuddos to you, have a good journey!!!!much love from Tanzania 🇹🇿

[@SoilaandCurtis]

Teddy, can you mae this into a book? Too much wisdom here. :-D

[@jeniffermakau]

Wisdom galore! Preparing not just to be ready but healthy! That's it for me. I salute you for this.

[@trizahmboya1572]

Wueeh 🙌🏾. Too much wisdom 🙌🏾

[@kennedymanasseh3743]

When God said that the man is the head of the family, it means that the man is the foundation upon which the family is built.

[@beatriceirungu6562]

This couple is so informative and I love how they are using the Bible as a reference point.

[@ckb7878]

Nice to see you people back, the last time I watched you was last year and I was your attentive student for a period of three years that I was single maze,I prayed much to have a partner as happy and loyal as you Soila, right now I've found one beautiful girl hope she won't betray me, we are hoping the best come our way and I just introduced her to your channel she loved it,to Mr Curtis I looked upto you brother, want to live and lead just as you are doing in your family life.

[@geoffreykalume333]

Good point; Marriage is also governed by principles the same way natural world, language and any other sphere of life is.

[@rogath_silayo]

Found your channel for the first time!!!I like the advocates of marriage, trying to eliminate the negative illusions about marriage....Much love from Tanzania 🇹🇿.. looking forward to watch more videos from you

[@SoilaandCurtis]

Hi Rogath. Welcome on board. Glad that you are enjoying the content so far. Recieve much love from Kenya as well.

[@anneweta3805]

We missed you! So much insight! Thank you❤

[@meshmesh1840]

Welcome back guys

[@elizabethnjeru5633]

So insightful. 👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾 And congratulations on the new baby. 🎉🎉

[@stacymkacharo3293]

You were really missed. Beautiful conversations indeed. Here to learn.✨

[@doristabu3399]

Welcome back and many congrats on your family addition.. Alafu this video is very informative.. Thank you so much for always sharing your wisdom with the world.. Love you guys😍💞

[@florencenjoki7190]

Yaaaay!!Glad to have you guys back and congratulations again mama na baba watoto🎉🎉🎉🎊.Thanks for sharing these nuggets of wisdom.❤

[@324elijah]

Even in times of war, women and children are allowed to escape and the men left to die 😌

[@africanqueenmo]

Wah karibuni growing family lovely to see u here. Congrats on your new baby and great topic.

[@chebetmakena]

Love the new intro! So much insight from this video...bless you!

[@SoilaandCurtis]

Thanks Makena.

[@sheillawambua9881]

Yeey 🔥I am excited you're back

[@SoilaandCurtis]

It's really awesome to be back.

[@HamingtonT]

Amazing Video

[@learnwithflo4077]

Always something to learn from you guys.. welcome back

[@SoilaandCurtis]

Thank you Flo.

[@morinemuthoni]

Welcome back we missed you and congratulations for the addition

[@SoilaandCurtis]

We missed you too. Thanks for being patient Morine.

[@angelamuchai1559]

Always a pleasure to listen to😌😊

[@SoilaandCurtis]

Thanks for tuning in Angela.

[@aggie.m4827]

Welcome back y'all ✨

[@joytaracha5468]

Back with the nuggets!

[@SoilaandCurtis]

Thanks for tuning in Joy.

[@mabelnakawooya1429]

Well be back guys , missed you

[@SoilaandCurtis]

We are here now! With good things too.

[@jeniffermakau]

Congratulations guys!!! This is wonderful news. Was wondering where you disappeared to but you have answered. I admire your priorities and being real. If you do family life the right way, it is overwhelming and sometimes you need a break. Well done guys!👏👏👏

[@SoilaandCurtis]

Thanks for understanding Jeniffer. Family has to come first if anything else is to make sense.

[@jeniffermakau]

Very true, family has to come first. I have 2 kids U4 and when I tried to juggle my biz, a newborn and a toddler I almost lost my mind! I took a long break and it was worth it. Your content is authentic too, never loose sight of that!👏👏👏❤🙏🙏

[@keziahgicheru5691]

Congratulations 🥳🥳🥳🥳

[@SoilaandCurtis]

Thank you Keziah.

[@loisemwangi2721]

Aki nimewamiss I love u guys ,,... congratulations

[@teddymugambi]

Missed you guys! Glad to have you back! Congratulations on being wazazi wa watoto. 🎉👏🏽

[@SoilaandCurtis]

Thanks a lot Teddy. We missed you too. It's been a while for sure.

[@esthermulee5129]

N.o 3 is true the time you take to unlearn is waay away too much aki...strive to be better ❤

[@SoilaandCurtis]

Kabisa! Life is about unlearning daily as we learn what is right.

[@ericruhi3983]

Great content, Curtis where do you get your leather jackets? 😅

[@SoilaandCurtis]

I don't even remember. Got them kitambo. lol.

[@saidakakai9207]

Successful marriage foundation is from God from day one of meeting dating wedding children success. It all boils to one place God jas to be the centre.

[@SoilaandCurtis]

You can say that again!

[@saidakakai9207]

Missed you my lovely couple its been a minute

[@SoilaandCurtis]

True. We here to stay now! Thanks for waiting.

[@aimeeadeti-muga8868]

My premarital lessons were just scam! 😂😂😂 I learned most of marital stuff by myself. Still learning ofcos

[@hellenirungu3059]

Eish, Soila and Curtis! I guess sometime back you were in our school

[@SoilaandCurtis]

Hi Hellen, which school was that?

[@hellenirungu3059]

@@SoilaandCurtis Strathmore University...

[@mercykiplagat2222]

Cliffhanger nayo😅. Cant wait to hear the big but.

[@SoilaandCurtis]

Thanks for watching Mercy. Big But coming up today afternoon.

[@wendynoel100]

I have missed you so much....

[@SoilaandCurtis]

We missed you too Wendy.

[@biancachepsiror5319]

Haiya congratulations 🎊👏. No wonder you disappeared. Nlikuwa nmewamiss❤️.

[@SoilaandCurtis]

Thank you Bianca! Glad to be back. Missment mingi jameni.

[@lonahjb5384]

❤️❤️

[@johnmwangi4180]

Curtis dacha kucheza na mic..we are trying to listening.

[@thehealingplace2722]

But I personally missssseeeed you alot

[@lizziecn2729]

Kindly,if possible, can you have a topic on how to deal with inlaws before and after marriage

[@rennishmboya9840]

I need that Wueh emoji before listening to that instalment.

[@lizziecn2729]

@@rennishmboya9840 haha

[@SoilaandCurtis]

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[@bubbleb3199]

🙂!!

[@alicewanjiru643]

I missed you

[@SoilaandCurtis]

Missed you too Alice. Sasa tupo.

[@ahabwerachel9967]

I missed u guys!hope ur doing good I thought u had quit KZbin for patrio.....I've for gotten the platform

[@SoilaandCurtis]

Hey Rachel. Actually we have taekn a break from Patreon. We'll return at a later time. For now tuko hapa KZbin.