10 Reasons Why You Have Nothing to Wear

[@SharonThomas-h6o]

I wish you would do a show about what clothes we need when we retire. I just retired and I think I need some casual clothes. I’ve been dressing in faded tees and droopy knit shorts around the house and I need to do better

[@denisedorsey2889]

When I notice that something isn’t being worn, I make a conscious decision to wear it that week. Then I analyze the garment. Did I enjoy wearing it? If so, I try to find new ways to style it. If I didn’t like wearing it, I ask myself what didn’t work. Color? Fit? The feel of it? That annoying closure? Then I decide to fix it (if it’s just a small thing) or donate it. Sometimes I decide that I just don’t like the way it looks on me. I try to restyle it and if that doesn’t do it for me, I’ll donate it. I try to be deliberate about clearing out things unworn so that I learn what doesn’t work for me. I make fewer mistakes now when making purchases. Great video.

[@shoppingonchampagne]

Thank you so much, Denise, for all your helpful tips! I love the plan you have to wear unworn items and figure out why! 🥰

[@christinekellyrose9435]

Luv being outside with you. Your red blouse against the green of nature blends perfectly. Great tips as usual 😊

[@MaryCunningham-u5j]

That red blouse is just beautiful and beautiful on you! Also enjoying the outdoors in this video. Great discussion. I tend to think I need more than I really do, so too many pairs of jeans, shoes I might not even wear once in a season, etc. I have favorite things I wear most often and everything else sits there - shopping specifically for the wardrobe "holes" and not having a ton of stuff works better, but it requires a lot of thought!

[@shoppingonchampagne]

Thanks for your kind words-I'm glad you enjoyed the outdoor video! As for the "holes" in your wardrobe, keep a small notepad in your closet, and when you get dressed, you'll be able to note things you're missing. I find it much less overwhelming than going into a store with nothing in mind. Let me know how it works for you 😀

[@MaryCunningham-u5j]

I've been doing it and it does work and is good for cutting impulse purchases and making sure the workhorse basics are in place - I think the difference is that a lot of times when we shop we want to be surprised and excited by something new, something we didn't know was "out there," that feels like a discovery or even a gift, whereas shopping with a plan feels like going to the supermarket - I need chicken and I'm not here to buy chocolate chip cookies 😄! Yes, we can have some chocolate chip cookies now and then once we've got the basic nutrition covered, but at heart we often just want to buy "dessert" without thinking about what we really need because it doesn't feel like fun. We do crave novelty and change to a certain extent. Thanks for your reply!@@shoppingonchampagne

[@shoppingonchampagne]

@@MaryCunningham-u5j You make an excellent point! There's nothing like discovering fresh and new items. The problem is, many women only look for new novelty items and then left with a closet of nothing to wear. If you build a good basic wardrobe and then add in a few "chocolate chip cookies" once in a while to spice things you - you'll have a perfect wardrobe! 🍪

[@lisabernhardt4653]

Fantastic video. Thank you! Everything you said is absolutely on point. I'm headed to clean out my closet right now!

[@shoppingonchampagne]

Great job! You'll feel so much better when it's done! 😍

[@jacquelinebeeson8669]

You are one of the presenters so spot on.We have had a dreadful summer in the UK this year.cold hot wet it's end of July and we are still waiting for summer properly. I like your advice and style so recognisable.So many stylists on you tube just show pictures of older women with bodies I don't recognise no lumps no bumps it's so depressing. I am determined to hang in there.We have such a shortage of good quality clothes here so many shops closed.lots of good wishes to a very smart lady.❤

[@yellowfuchsia1]

In my little bit of England, today was the third dry, warm, sunny day in a row. I'm expecting a government health warning!

[@jacquelinebeeson8669]

Brilliant we need some joy and laughter Jackie

[@sonialeaning2065]

@@yellowfuchsia1no doubt a hosepipe ban is coming shortly! 🤣

[@shoppingonchampagne]

Thank you for your kind words! I’m sorry about the tough weather and shopping challenges. Your determination is inspiring! I’ll keep sharing real and relatable advice. Sending good wishes your way! 💖

[@karlaschmid8757]

As always, appreciate your intelligent, pragmatic advice.

[@shoppingonchampagne]

Thanks so much, Karla! 😍

[@sherrymoonki8815]

Love the haircut! Also love you in that red! You look fabulous! ❤️💅🏻💃🏼

[@aliblue3605]

I went through my clothes recently, I made a list of what I wanted to include in my wardrobe or missing items in my wardrobe.

[@shoppingonchampagne]

Excellent! I love that you're building a wardrobe that suits you and your current lifestyle! 🤩

[@sallybarkla4991]

I’m so lucky to have my daughter to help me when I do a wardrobe clear out. Sometimes I can talk myself out of moving items on, probably out of shame of wasting money on things that ‘seem like a good idea at the time’ Hi from Melbourne Australia

[@shoppingonchampagne]

How wonderful to have your daughter’s support during a wardrobe clear-out! It’s totally normal to have mixed feelings about parting with items, especially when thinking about the cost. But remember, each piece served its purpose, even if to teach you more about what truly suits you. Here’s to making space for pieces that make you feel amazing! 💖

[@SpartaWarriorCodeRed]

Love that red color on you. I love that color too.

[@christineward7146]

I've loved this video. The tips and tricks are such good advise. Seeing you outside with all that greenery made me feel so alive. Your red shirt looks amazing. I'm going to go for a walk in my local park and think about all the things you've said ♥️

[@shoppingonchampagne]

Thanks so much! It was a giant leap for me to film outside my studio but now I'm going to film in lots of different locations (especially outside) to change things up. Enjoy your walk! 🤩

[@kirbyd0g]

Love your red shirt Nancy! good video and advice. I tend to get rid of things now, either consignment or donate.

[@Stephanie-wg4wn]

Thankyou very much for this help. I have now weeded out what I don't need, eg, broken , don't fit, don't wear ever. It has given me room now!😊

[@shoppingonchampagne]

Great job! 🥳

[@alisonschooley5459]

These always come at the right time. I’m going back to work after 4 years, things have changed. I have to watch buying things I’m told to(white jeans) that do not fit a lifestyle of living with black labs and cats.😂

[@shoppingonchampagne]

Good luck with your new job! 💕

[@janeandrews1790]

Instant tweed! (I used to be a Vet Tech).

[@d.d.mac.3773]

Great suggestions and advice. I have recently donated and/or thrown out a lot of clothing and it is the best feeling to be organised and clutter free. I know I've said this before, but red is the perfect colour on you.

[@shoppingonchampagne]

I'm so glad you enjoyed the video. You're right; there's nothing like an organized and clutter-free closet!❤

[@RONBAILEY-v3s]

I am a online shopper especially when I am bored or depressed 😂

[@dorotheemedrow5646]

Makes total sense, thank you❤

[@shoppingonchampagne]

My pleasure! 😀

[@chaoswithsusan]

Thank you for this! You just showed me what my challenge is. I live in south Louisiana, where it gets really hot in the summer, but I tend to be cold natured. So I never really pack away hoodies and cardigans. I have decision fatigue!!

[@kristinvisser1628]

Great video thanks!

[@shoppingonchampagne]

Thanks, Kristin! I'm so glad you enjoyed it! 💕

[@gillmolony6781]

Memories and sentiment...oh dear, that's me. Due a decluttering session. Thank you for the video.

[@shoppingonchampagne]

I’m so glad you found the video helpful! It’s definitely a challenge to part with sentimental pieces. Just take it one step at a time, and remember, it’s all about creating a space that brings you joy and peace. You’ve got this! 🥰

[@elisabethlinz4256]

I love that vid. Thanks a lot. Good luck I already practice most of your tips. Still it was satisfying to hear them! It was reassuring. Greetings from Germany! (looking forward to seeing your next vid)

[@shoppingonchampagne]

Guten tag! Yes, it's great to know you're on the right track - thanks for watching! 🥰

[@elisabethlinz4256]

@@shoppingonchampagne by the way I like your red blouse and dark rimmed glasses. Looks great on you!

[@shoppingonchampagne]

@@elisabethlinz4256 Thanks so much! 🥰

[@joylees6281]

Thankyou Nancy for your wisdom❤going to work through from 1 to 10😊😊

[@shoppingonchampagne]

Let me know if you get stuck on anything - I'm here to help! 😀

[@nancyposluszny6504]

Nice information.

[@shoppingonchampagne]

Thanks, Nancy! 😍

[@verabozinovski2827]

Nancy ,what does a guest at a 50th wedding anniversary wear at a golf resort venue ? What does a woman wear at a bridal shower that the venue is held at a Marina Bay location in August . I live in Canada 🇨🇦. I enjoy wearing Classic Preppy style. Oh yes i do love your videos.

[@americafirst9144]

Type in Shelly Pelley. She talks a lot about things like this.

[@kirbyd0g]

Shopping is entertainment too, this can lead to the dreaded impulse buys.

[@shoppingonchampagne]

Excellent point, Buffy! 🤩

[@robbymitchell805]

So true Kirby. Guilty as charged! 😊🇦🇺

[@pamelab1175]

I have gained thirty pounds from the medication I have to take. I finally go see a doctor about this in a few months. And I’m telling her I’m not going to take it. And I will give her a different option. I know I always tell doctors what I think. I’ve been doing it for years. I know my body. And I think she should just give me a chance. I’m going to go back and find the video with the word list. I have not coming up with three words to describe my style. I do retail therapy online. But I am getting better at not buying. My closet is cram packed with shirts. My jeans are on top. And my shorts drawers are full too. My life is really casual. But I don’t buy anything that doesn’t fit my lifestyle. I live in the country now. And I love it. But I’m still hoping I might dress up one day and go somewhere. I’m sure I need to clean out my closet again. I did just buy a new shirt, wore it to my daughter’s house, and her dog pulled a lot of threads with his nails. It was the first time I wore the top. And I liked it. So I told my husband when we go to the outlet mall, where they have an Old Navy, which is where the shirt is from. I’m looking for another one.

[@shoppingonchampagne]

Pamela, It sounds like you’ve got a lot on your mind with your health and wardrobe! It’s great to hear how proactive you are with your health decisions and how well you know your needs. As for your closet, it’s all about finding what makes you feel good and fits your lifestyle. Don’t be too hard on yourself about the retail therapy; it’s about progress, not perfection. And that story about the shirt-what a day! Here’s to finding a fabulous replacement on your next trip to Old Navy. 🌟

[@RiaOpperman]

Not all of us have the luxuary of a walk-in-closet 😢

[@shoppingonchampagne]

Of course not! You don't need a walk-in closet to have a functioning closet that makes you happy. That's why I make videos like this: to help you make room for the items that are important for your current lifestyle. 🥰

[@maxallen-macdonald8791]

I made the mistake of getting rid of all of my work clothes when I retired. All my silk blouses, wool pants and blazers, gone. Then the funerals started and I sure could have used those items!

[@shoppingonchampagne]

Oh no! Although, I don't think you need a huge wardrobe for funerals - just a few somber/darker pieces you can pull out for those occasions.

[@janeandrews1790]

​@@shoppingonchampagneif you buy classic shapes in navy or black, they will be appropriate for funerals, but also dinner parties, graduations, etc. Just add accessories: shoes and/scarves with a pop of color, interesting jewelry.

[@janeandrews1790]

Take a trusted, honest friend with you when you go shopping. "What do you think of this color on me?" "It's a beautiful color, but it make you look jaundiced. Maybe get shoes or a purse in that color."

[@shoppingonchampagne]

Great advice, Jane! There's nothing like a good friend to give you the honest truth! 😀

[@chanboubou9245]

I live in France. In some places, people say they often have the 4 seasons in one day.... tricky😂

[@shoppingonchampagne]

LOL that would be tricky!

[@charlenedaley6610]

My problem is hot flashes. I can’t wear long sleeves and sweaters now. But want to keep them for the future.

[@shoppingonchampagne]

Oh, I feel you - hot flashes hit hard! 🥵You should keep those long sleeves and sweaters just put them in the back of your closet or stow them away somewhere else so you don't see them every time you go to get dressed now.

[@marinasmith4772]

My issue is that I can't find accessories or the right pieces and when I do, I can't figure out how to put the outfit together. Lining up the outfit with the belt, necklace, scarf, purse seems OCD like but I think it helps.

[@shoppingonchampagne]

Marina, I think your dilemma is more common than you realize! Lining up your outfits is a great idea! I have several other videos that I think you'll find helpful: Choose the right jewelry for every outfit - kzbin.info/www/bejne/hmGkmpqgpNdkj9Usi=f-YaxFZs3prYL7-A How to find your style - kzbin.info/www/bejne/g6bNl6OnoLmSotUsi=0P5krmfAOxiU2jLq Easy trick to polish any outfit - kzbin.info/www/bejne/f5_Od4yqorqBZtksi=ngFoWoS5rUXBJCgM

[@paulacurtis8342]

I do retail therapy when I’m bored and feeling empty.

[@shoppingonchampagne]

Retail therapy can be a soothing treat sometimes! If it brings you a moment of joy, that’s wonderful. Just be mindful of your feelings and maybe find other joyful activities that fulfill you too. You deserve to feel great! 💕

[@maryaomalley4306]

It took me a while to realize that work clothes did not belong in my closet after I retired. And then thinking of work wear literally repulsed me.😂

[@janedelaney4327]

Love the red top?!???

[@shoppingonchampagne]

Thanks, Jane! It's an Eileen Fisher linen shirt in color Flame - plus, it's on SALE right now: rstyle.me/+3GG2c1Vz1EQu7-OG6mIVcQ

[@janeandrews1790]

I think you can claim a three word style that you wear most of the time, but that you are free to indulge in other styles from time as long as they are flattering.

[@akorn95]

💖🚀💫✨💖

[@janineclegg3818]

Should I change my glasses frame colour now I am grey

[@shoppingonchampagne]

Absolutely, exploring new glasses frames could be a fun way to complement your grey hair! It’s all about what makes you feel confident and refreshed. Maybe try a bold color or a sleek metallic? Have fun with it! 😊

[@janineclegg3818]

@@shoppingonchampagne thank you I'm going to the opticians soon

[@debbiemathieson2467]

Solution to problem no 1: live in Umhlanga Rocks, South Africa. No winter clothes needed! 😂

[@shoppingonchampagne]

LOL - Lucky gal! ☀

[@jackiebennett3762]

I do retail therapy and then say why did I do this and return it. I do this over and over😂😂😂

[@shoppingonchampagne]

Yes, good point! I think a lot of us do this!

[@isabelledjeghloul1315]

What about our planet ? ✈️ 😢

[@ginaneu2546]

@@isabelledjeghloul1315you are so right!

[@Beingnessing]

So much of the time its not i dont have nice clothes i just dont FEEL like wearing them my feelings rule .sometimes i just want to be invisable

[@shoppingonchampagne]

I totally understand where you’re coming from. It’s okay to have days when you feel like blending in. Dressing for your mood is just as valid as dressing up. Be kind to yourself and wear what feels right for you in the moment. 💖

[@Allesea159]

Loved this, except for the 'you aren't clear on personal style'. If I have to define my style, I'm boxing me in and it's suffocating and boring. We're all very complex beings and we can't be just one person every day. We're not brands, we're people. And we're people with multiple situations to dress for. I'm not going to wear my officewear to a coffee date. I'm different people in those different situations and with that comes a different style, because I want to feel a different feeling. At work its professional or confident, on a night out its fun and playful. And with those feelings come different styles. And it's very possible to mix those styles. For example its absolutely possible to combine a structural business woman cigarette pant with a bohemian or fun printed style top. So my advice is to try to make outfits and experiment with them. If there is a garment that doesn't go with anything at all, ditch it. But don't ditch something just because it's not allowed there because you decided to be one aesthetic only.

[@americafirst9144]

I always gain and lose weight. I can't afford to spend $5,000 when I do so.

[@shoppingonchampagne]

I completely agree. However, move those clothes that don't fit you today to the sides or back of your closet so that you don't see them. When your weight changes, change up your wardrobe to the current size. It's not fun to sift through the closet every morning when the clothes you're looking at don't fit. 🥰

[@kirbyd0g]

Who saves their "fat" clothes... not me, it's a reminder of where I never want to go back to.