10 Signs You're Married to the Wrong Person

[@danielallyway]

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[@georgemypuppy]

Who the hell gives this kinda of advice....and he didnt mention withholding intimacy....liers/cheaters/ and manipulators/golddiggers need i go on....these types of people who just dont care.... here is the answer stop making these idiots feel like they are in the right when they are clearly wrong, Appeasing people when they are wrong breeds nothing but contempt and all you want to do is run...nothing like talking to a braindead bag of bones...when all they need is to be gassed...i refuse to make people think their right when its clear that after years of banging your head against a brick wall its a clue that its time to leave and seek out some type of happiness before its to late...we only get older and time disappears then your a day late and millions of dollars short....move on from these losers while your young recognize the signs early in the situationship...good luck people...Peace

[@TheBkdot]

the first sign that you're married to the wrong person is if you're looking at this video wondering if you're married to the wrong person.

[@SV-pn6wz]

TheBkdot 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@toy5309]

Lol..facts..lol

[@terrymoore2]

Yes so true because when you’re in love you won’t want to hear or read anything negative.

[@KK-de5ty]

Hahaha that’s true though

[@lilithmoon3178]

lol agreed

[@TheDaughterOfYah_]

10 Signs 1. Misunderstood by spouse 2. Don't share the same passions 3. They don't know your work 4. Lack of support 5. You have completely different spirits 6. Disagree with money 7. If they cheat on you 8. They lack ambition 9. Takers 10. They don't care That's all folks!

[@JM-lx9jo]

🙏🏼

[@MH-jp8en]

about 6 of these apply to my marriage

[@CODPl3y]

@@MH-jp8enI’m sorry

[@Drea12_.]

How about a partner who stonewall's you.. doesn't show ANY type of love or affection towards you ..you feel lonely..unloved... unwanted and disrespected

[@TayIorSwifft]

Same here

[@Dawnofabrightday]

I’m right there myself........😥

[@jackatomin]

No sh*t! Or the porn addicts.

[@MelaniaRose]

Move on life is too short relationships aren’t meant to cause pain all the time

[@vibekes2416]

Andrea Laforest I'm no expert, but therapy is very important to try saving a marriage. But most important, dont rush into a marriage in the first place. We need to take the time to really get to know the other person first. 1-2 years is not a long time if we are supposed to be with them for the rest of our life.

[@oshunblessedbe4416]

You don't reccomend divorce unless he cheats on you?? What about physical abuse What about mental abuse??

[@Twinkie989]

Oshun blessed be totally invalidates everything else he had to say. I’m stuck with a narcissist who has daily temper tantrums. He has already been told I am leaving when the kids are old enough, but he won’t deal with reality. When we were separated before, he stalked me.

[@sababajwa93]

Oshun blessed be My ex husband hit me u left I vowed I would only leave next husband if I get cheated Now I’m abused mentally like crazy Now I’m thinking f marriage it’s a joke and yes I’m highly religious even then

[@taniaen6124]

I think those reasons are pretty obvious.... thats why he doesn't bring those up

[@elizabethcoyoc2489]

@@Twinkie989 I am going through a very similar situation. I am planning on leaving him. But I am afraid if he will stalk me.

[@lilromance95]

Twinkie I left my husband and he pressured me to return

[@reddiamond9585]

This hit home! I realized after 17 years of marriage that I really don’t like my husband. He’s very high-strung & easily frustrated. It’s like walking in eggshells everyday being around him. I’m not perfect but we definitely have different personalities and now that I’m in my 40’s, I prefer more calmness in my life. My husband isn’t calm. I feel constantly disrespected and under appreciated. He may feel the same because I’ve started giving up. My husband has some wonderful qualities, but his negative side is starting to outweigh the positive. Ugh. I love him but I don’t like him.

[@charlottejara3]

Sounds like my situation

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[@niksomerford]

I can imagine my wife writing this.

[@sbaby-np5hy]

Oh my gosh it's like you live in my house.

[@ksuxaksks]

What if you are the one always trying, loving and communicating, but they just don't care?

[@Drea12_.]

My point exactly

[@3Bros001]

Well if u like black men in your man 😏

[@korrythatsme1356]

Ksenia Chervonaia my husband made me bitter towards him because of this

[@suesuez8452]

M facing the same situation ,he just don't care .

[@risenforth96req34]

@@suesuez8452 he does he just doesnt know that because he is so immature

[@thinkb4udecide6]

1.They misunderstand you 2. They dont share you passion 3. They dont know your work 4. The Lack of Support 5. You have Different Spirits 6. Disagree with money 7. If They Cheat On You 8. They Lack Ambition 9. Takers 10. They don't care

[@theong9454]

upvote this video summary hero

[@mariojackson4773]

Thanks

[@SaraVV]

upvote this summary

[@sometimesreviewsandthinkin5056]

I left a bad relationship. Not compatible. I am happier now.

[@alexnguyen2557]

@Victoria Akomolede technically the biggest reason a divorce happens is when a couple doesn't communicate anymore and communication is the biggest reason why most marriage failed

[@zubair1749]

How plz tell

[@zubair1749]

Plz tell

[@dinaweets6471]

What do I do if I have kids I want to get out but what about the kids

[@clementwang7097]

@@dinaweets6471 i think you need to talk to a divorce consultant.

[@ruthmegela2781]

Just don't get married, live your life and enjoy it without any obligation

[@lesleycronin832]

Marriage is a trap

[@Sensei.shonuff]

Smh

[@lalapsy23]

I am divorced and I'm so happy. It's the best thing I have ever done. They were wrong for me. Everyone knew and saw apart from me - big sign!! I'm so glad I'm divorced nothing compares to that freedom ♡♡♢ Love and light

[@adriennehankton4963]

I totally agree

[@roccisteele345]

On my way out I can see the light!!!!!!!

[@theanimationstation1574]

I'm in rout to Pray I get there dude just make reasons/to stay when you knoe what u got move on life is to short

[@nicoleyap6070]

Did you have any children with this person? If not, then it's easier to get out.

[@TiffahLabeeb]

Same!!!!

[@jrcruz8968]

Once he or she makes you feel like you are roommates, then that is time you need to get out!

[@clarahammar5728]

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[@clarahammer1073]

[phone]

[@charlottehanna790]

Truth

[@globetrotter6404]

There are worse things than Infidelity like emotional abuse, shutting down from your partner completely. It's time to move on before you go into the cheating loop.

[@endingiswashing7813]

Cheatng .. so evil criminals contrl evrythng...but is evrythng undr contrl? So watchng sx shows to lov shows all pesnl prvt

[@doreenmoshier9847]

OMG IM NOT EVEN 1/2 WAY THROUGH THE LIST & I REALIZE WHAT A MISTAKE I MADE! I ask for a good Christian man that loves Jesus as much as I do that doesn't drink smoke or do drugs. What I got, I found out later after marriage, was a narcissistic, lying, agnostic, abusive, man that is an alcoholic & smoke. We are separated now but I was trying to work on it because I don't believe in divorce. Oh my gosh I'm stuck. Wow! How revealing this video was

[@makimak7703]

wow really why my wife is a taker abd never appreciate all the things i done im Christian im scared of GOD dont leave me.. i dont believe in divorce she got a attitude of a camelion change color when your out if sight then she attack.. Now im stuck whit a big lagguage in my back .. i must remove it and be my self and pray to GOD.

[@temjenkrazy]

If you were not able to find out that you husband was not doing smoke, drink or drugs, and having good Christian values during your courtship time. I seriously think you have some serious lapse of judgment issue too.

[@wms72]

I asked God for a good Christian man, too. Got a psychopath who POSED as a good Christian. Beware!!!

[@mattgaetz3376]

This video made me realize i need to divorce ty.

[@lizwick]

Matt Gaetz I know I need to divorce. I’m with a negative person who doesn’t value me.

[@berels3655]

Same😩 can't wait to divorce.

[@jays4dayzllc164]

me too

[@elsanatsopiyan3125]

😲😲

[@BG-sq7zf]

1st Take: "My advice to women is date all of them: the bad boys, the cool boys, the commitment-phobic boys, the crazy boys. But do not marry them. The things that make the bad boys sexy do not make them good husbands. When it comes time to settle down, find someone who wants an equal partner. Someone who thinks women should be smart, opinionated and ambitious. Someone who values fairness and expects or, even better, wants to do his share in the home. These men exist and, trust me, over time, nothing is sexier." Yours sincerely, Sheryl Sandberg, chief operating officer of Facebook 2nd Take: “My music is always going to make a woman feel like a bad bitch. When you make a woman feel like she’s the baddest bitch in the room, to me, that’s female empowerment.” Decently yours, Cardi B. My Humble Take: What most simps, feminist fe/males, white-knights, betas and conservative guys fail to realize: bad boys provide excitement, novelty, unpredictability and fun (fear, roller-coaster drama) to a new level. In other words, stability and commitment (no longer) won't cut it for today's 🦄. Why is that? Before she was your girlfriend, wife or lover, she already had been "run through" so many guys. And each time she slept with someone (both wo/men), she lost a part of her psyche, well-being or mind/soul/spirit. In other words, she is no longer able to have emotional attachment in a healthy or committed way. *The Myth of Male Power* by Warren Farrell *The Feminist Lie: It Was Never About Equality* by Bob Lewis *Anatomy of Female Power* by Chinweizu Ibekwe *Men on Strike* by Helen Smith *Silent Weapons for Quiet Wars: An Introductory Programing Manual* by Anonymous *The Rational Male Series* by Rollo Tomassi *The Manipulated Man* by Esther Vilar Isaiah 3:12 *Childish* leaders oppress my people, and *women* rule over them. O my people, your leaders mislead you; they send you down the wrong road. Proverbs 31:3 Don't give your strength (attention, resources, mental point origen) to women, nor your ways to that which destroys kings.

[@mustanggt5713]

Don't marry someone unless you are 1000% in love with that person and have dated for atleast 2 years and have been through good and bad times together.

[@babykingandmamajourneyatbp9067]

thats my problem i do love him 1000% but hes mamas boy

[@will4evermoore]

mikay pasaway take a step back and see what is what.

[@johncronin3105]

You should date someone for way longer than 2 yrs before marrying them. 5 yrs minimum

[@katemaunder2080]

We dated for 5 years and I was very deeply in love but lost all trust in him. He's a compulsive liar.

[@daliben6972]

@@babykingandmamajourneyatbp9067 😂😂😂mamas boy

[@nomathembadzinotyiwei8077]

This is some of the best advice I’ve heard so far. Marriage really takes patience and good communication. However that requires a level of self-awareness that many of us don’t have. I cannot explain my mission, vision or purpose to my spouse if I don’t know or understand it myself.

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[@Mark70609]

Communication is harder than it seems.

[@mirza5746]

The basic reasons are: High egoes. High sarcastic thinking they are perfect. Lacking manners of talk. They are very attracted to money. If they have interest on others affairs. If they don't believe in good and bad. Maintains too much secrets for therself. Very dramatic with their approach (stubborn).

[@s9ka972]

Perfectly said... Me and my wife are mostly same.

[@sababajwa93]

Shit u just described my husbands personality

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[@rodsmith9641]

I regret getting married..I'm married to a immature little girl, not a woman..She the biggest mistake in my life!!...I want out but I can't leave my girls..6 and 1 yrs old . I put my happiness on hold for theirs

[@danielallyway]

Rod smith God will never put you in a situation that you could not handle! Make the best use of your relationship!

[@cytokinesxx4271]

Did she show signs before marriage?

[@damarisndunge6090]

But you chose her, what maturity are you talking of? Men you are cheated by young age of which it 1%marriage factor to consider.

[@Stoneballer-bx1zu]

If you can't stand who you're married to, the kids can tell. They're smarter than adults in that regard. Imo, staying together just for the kids is not a good idea.

[@Stoneballer-bx1zu]

@@UKnowMeIMURDaddy You sound hopeful when you say that. Not everybody parties that way, bro.

[@EddieLeal]

Resentment and indifference are two of the biggest relationship killers.

[@recabitejehonadab2654]

Resentment 👍.

[@deniseatthelake]

Contempt is the killer of any marriage

[@garynelson9538]

I have ONE question. Every license in this country expires, so why don’t a Marriage License expires?? Ijs.

[@pallavi08sharma]

Lol

[@nathalielanau5342]

I agree..lol

[@lanceli1971]

Absolutely agree!!

[@lulue9424]

😂😂😂😂😂 yeah 100% agree

[@jays4dayzllc164]

Seriously

[@andersonm9089]

anyone who watched this is in the wrong marriage. I believe cheating is not the only reason that should guarantee a separation. People want to live, to love, and not to be bitter. After trying a thousand times, well, you can call it quit.

[@Nur100etc]

This is really good. But another one I would add (related to a couple of the others) is: THEY DON’T SHARE YOUR SENSE OF HUMOR. I think this is so important! For instance, one partner might like to engage in teasing and intense sarcasm whereas the other might feel genuinely insulted by that. Or one partner might like to make witty remarks in a dry fashion and feel profoundly disappointed when their partner never “gets” it.

[@ainaazain1351]

serious question : do we really need to have a partner?

[@skullgarden2417]

No. Of course not. Some people just don't do well in relationships while others thrive.

[@javieraponte5159]

No we don't, and if you do, you have a dependence problem, just like an alcoholic needs alcohol or a drug addict needs drugs, in order to feel good about themselves. In my opinion, this video is just politically correct bullshit. The bottom line is this, if you have to constantly convince yourself & your partner that both of you have to compromise & always meet their expectations all the time, just to avoid getting into arguments, you're both with the wrong partner, and just not compatible. Neither of you should have to pretend to be someone you're not, just to make the other person "happy". If you & your partner can't accept each other for who & what you truly are, you're with the wrong person, no amount of compromise is going to change that, that's better known as wishful thinking. 🤷‍♀️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♀️🤷‍♂️

[@nivedita_chakrabarti]

No

[@aranchaprashar3216]

Some people don't like to be tamed!!!

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[@akferren1]

I always recommend divorce.. nothing worse than feeling married to yourself or the wrong person.. it’s bad for your health

[@Mzshey2006]

Current situation while being .. married for 3 months . I can’t endure the addiction to Alcohol and Drug use. I’m drained Mentally, emotional and physically. I just want peace !! Nothing else !!

[@chinocharles1755]

If u want him to stop....then u just try drinking as he do

[@LorettaGalvanni]

Darling get out! He won’t change if he doesn’t really want to. I am not sure but if you do not have children this is the best time! I wasted 9 years of my life in horrible marriage sadly I stayed for the kids. Anyways he ended up getting a new girl and left. My only regret is not divorcing him earlier

[@mimilalla6197]

leave before you have kids

[@joi12345678]

This is why in my heart I Romanticize about marriage, but in my head I refuse to marry based on emotion. I definitely don’t believe infidelity is the only reason to get divorced. I feel like if you’re unhappy and you’ve realized that you’re loving someone else to the detriment of your own mental health and self love you should end it.

[@c.a.bradley5848]

@JoiLove, I definitely have to agree with you. Protecting your inner being is vital for your sanity, else the harm done will cause irreparable disdain for humankind.

[@momsacount]

This video just made me realise that i am married to the wrong person. It is such a painful reality that i have to face. I hope to meet the right person at the right time because his actions show me that he was never the one for me. It is time to move on.

[@MsSimpleMovies]

There's no fixing a personality disorder. They can work on themselves, but the best thing is just to take each other in doses. Live in shifts. 15 years with a man with Avoidant Personality Disorder and Dependent Personality Disorder, and he still behaves like a foster puppy freshly coming from an abusive household, tail between his legs and saying I'm always angry. No, his mother was always angry. I'm just living my best life, dude!

[@shonaosmond4886]

One of the biggest signs I have that I’m married to the wrong person is that he told me I don’t know how to be a woman. His biggest need in our marriage is sex and I just had major surgery. He only cares about his own needs, he doesn’t give a crap about mine at all. Not one single one of my needs.

[@MusicMan-bj4pt]

I’m personally planning to always remain single marriage is not for me

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[@MusicMan-bj4pt]

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[@BG-sq7zf]

1st Take: "My advice to women is date all of them: the bad boys, the cool boys, the commitment-phobic boys, the crazy boys. But do not marry them. The things that make the bad boys sexy do not make them good husbands. When it comes time to settle down, find someone who wants an equal partner. Someone who thinks women should be smart, opinionated and ambitious. Someone who values fairness and expects or, even better, wants to do his share in the home. These men exist and, trust me, over time, nothing is sexier." Yours sincerely, Sheryl Sandberg, chief operating officer of Facebook 2nd Take: “My music is always going to make a woman feel like a bad bitch. When you make a woman feel like she’s the baddest bitch in the room, to me, that’s female empowerment.” Decently yours, Cardi B. My Humble Take: What most simps, feminist fe/males, white-knights, betas and conservative guys fail to realize: bad boys provide excitement, novelty, unpredictability and fun (fear, roller-coaster drama) to a new level. In other words, stability and commitment (no longer) won't cut it for today's 🦄. Why is that? Before she was your girlfriend, wife or lover, she already had been "run through" so many guys. And each time she slept with someone (both wo/men), she lost a part of her psyche, well-being or mind/soul/spirit. In other words, she is no longer able to have emotional attachment in a healthy or committed way. *The Myth of Male Power* by Warren Farrell *The Feminist Lie: It Was Never About Equality* by Bob Lewis *Anatomy of Female Power* by Chinweizu Ibekwe *Men on Strike* by Helen Smith *Silent Weapons for Quiet Wars: An Introductory Programing Manual* by Anonymous *The Rational Male Series* by Rollo Tomassi *The Manipulated Man* by Esther Vilar Isaiah 3:12 *Childish* leaders oppress my people, and *women* rule over them. O my people, your leaders mislead you; they send you down the wrong road. Proverbs 31:3 Don't give your strength (attention, resources, mental point origen) to women, nor your ways to that which destroys kings.

[@pavasverma3525]

I took my wife for a vacation to Bhutanto talk to her about the way she talks to me which is very rudely. We found all the time and she refused to get out of our hotel room & i didn't even. I just said sorry all the time & we roam around a little bit on the last day. I am never telling her my issues ever again. Just hoping to out live her & then spend few years peacefully.

[@monibee1980]

Why does this feel like the burden to fix this is all on the person who thinks they are married to the wrong person? Omg.

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[@recabitejehonadab2654]

Biggest deal breakers. Irresponsibility, no faith, different political views, unhealthy lifestyle.

[@hopeseeker97]

I feel dead inside...miserable...broke...and angry. I feel more like a live in maid than a wife and mother.

[@hopeseeker97]

@@sababajwa93 😔

[@necoleyarde4880]

Amen me too😑

[@hopeseeker97]

@Karen I lived that way for years. Please choose life. Work on you and who you are. I don't know your situation but I do know about living every day wanting to die. The result? I lost my youth. I missed out on life. I'm not elderly but I'm no spring chicken. Please seek help. Talk to someone. 😔❤

[@positive_energy8259]

I found this video so helpful, please people mind the other person as well. We are not the only ones who get hurt, we have to learn to understand and listen to what the other have to say, while we speak our truth!

[@jamiesoutherland8884]

Praise God Glory to God thank u Jesus for that key words about each other not one another

[@oscarwilliamson1264]

Positive_energy,I admire your lovely smile 😊!

[@IsChosen33]

I don’t believe anyone is wrong from a person....

[@andrew911dragon]

I just simply cannot imagine what would happen if viewers take what you said seriously if they are in a relationship or are married to someone who is a narcissist, a sociopath or other extremely manipulative person......

[@MusicMan-bj4pt]

I see where your coming from though its up to the person and if they are not happy they should leave. The choice is up to each individual

[@tage202]

Marriage is so overrated. Knowing what I know now, I would have been more happy living a single and care free life...

[@claralie6308]

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[@claralie6308]

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[@claralie6308]

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[@kdanny428]

This is the truth. I'm over it. It's been 2months

[@GregoryMcCarthy123]

I’m glad I watched this because I realized none of these apply to my wife and I. It made me realize we are on the right track! Thank you!

[@kadaj187]

you dont need 10 signs. just by clicking this video is enough

[@NuLyteTV]

I was dating someone who misunderstood everything I said. I was like gosh I can’t do this. I know the woman he’s with now and she tells me he’s dramatic and argumentative. I knew it wasn’t me 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@christinamitrovich7554]

Sounds like my ex partner and he is father of my child.

[@Lasbeth977]

Thank God you left earlier.

[@Peter_Parker69]

my ex gf lied about not talking to her ex anymore. i dumped her and they became even closer. i considered it cheating , do you?

[@sarahd8674]

Peter Parker I feel that cheating is different for every person. If you discussed it with her and if she respected your thoughts/feelings then she would have not made you question the trust you have for her. My husband got so drunk at a military ball and put his hands all over another female in front of me and he looked like a rapist because she was so much smaller than him and she was trying to walk away. The only thing that got him away was me pulling on his ear to snap him out of it. I have been fighting with these thoughts for almost a year and gave myself an ultimatum, much more has happened as well. For about a year now we have been in counseling and all I seem to hear is that he has changed, you’re selfish if you take your baby girl away, or that let it go it’s been months ago... But as for right now, I think I want to get separated to heal myself which I deserve. It hurts so much that I never stood up for myself, that I always was silent or too calm when he was the biggest jerk and Always took him in.

[@saraiahthurlow6670]

Yes

[@amazinggrace313]

Absolutely

[@sivijuggernath]

The reason I am watching this is not because I am married to the wrong person but to try and understand my feelings better❤

[@alisalih1492]

My wife is basically all of it without the cheating part. The problem is of i levave her then i have to pay the family 23k dollars. And there is a risk that the family might harm me. I might be killed by them, who knows. Im trapped, what can i do?!!! I want to leave but then i might get harmed and i have to pay à LOT of money. Its basically barcause of tradition. I really want to leave my monster wife. She is a narscissist

[@johnsonpeterson1722]

My ex wife always feel she was entitled to everything I had. And always wanted to drag me to divorce court, whereas when we divorce the person making higher profit. Which was me would have to give her a big amount of money. I avoided all this , through the hacker that saved my life. He provided everything on her phone, I had enough evidence to use against her.

[@JackieTravels_]

One sign you’re married to the wrong person is that you clicked this video to find out 😭😭

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[@MusicMan-bj4pt]

I’ve never been married or in a relationship. I’m still trying to figure myself out as an individual through JESUS since surviving being hit by a city bus through JESUS. I’m adopting many principles.

[@recabitejehonadab2654]

Amen!

[@clementwang7097]

Good for you. No marriage is better than a toxic marriage.

[@joshuacorbin221]

#2 is where I am, it's not ignorance of my passion, I'm up against true emnity against my passions. I can't blame my wife for not following my passion. The truth is I have chosen to forego passion, for a stable relationship.

[@lilromance95]

My husband is emotionally abusive and I have disconnected from him . I left him and came back because he pleaded for me to return to him

[@recabitejehonadab2654]

I wouldn’t have gone back to him

[@NeilKudro]

It's draining when I do my best work hard and it's never enough. What ever I do it's not much. If it's going to take the same amount of time to reconnect that means I will be over 70 if lucky. At this point I'm actually thinking weather to pull the trigger end this now and move on. But the only reason I'm hesitating is my three kids.

[@sidrakhan4409]

Neil P71 May God bless you and guide you through the right path.

[@NeilKudro]

@@sidrakhan4409 Update, Its sad to report I can no longer carry the burden sacrifice staying in the same house with my now I call ex wife even though we are not officially divorced. I just learned my ex is playing dirty listening to her controlling mother and family. She is now openly turning my kids against me. I tried my best raising my kids to love each other and to always act and behave as a team. If one suffers we all suffer and if one is happy we all are happy. I tried reaching them no matter what my ex and I decide to do or how bad our differences are we will always stick together as one. Now my wife managed to teach at least my oldest kids that there are two teams in our family. My team the father and her team our three kids and ex wife. My youngest son is not giving in that easy and I can see the frustration as she is trying it turn him against me. From what I can tell, she won't be able to because my youngest has good common sense for his age But my oldest kids are far gone in the head and will stand blindly with my ex. No matter what I now tell my kids I will always be there for them and will always love them until my last breath. I learned my wife is so brainwashed by her family and everything she does is against what I am trying to do.

[@sidrakhan4409]

Neil P71 Thats indeed a sad and most difficult situation to go through. I can only pray for you and no matter what stay strong and always care for your kids no matter how bitter the situation is. One day they will realize the whole situation and will come to you. Stay strong and never stop communication with your kids.

[@kadaj187]

You dont need 10 signs. Watching this means youre already married to person you dont like .

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[@lillianmupeta1835]

I am married to a wrong person, and our marriage is not ordained by God. With children i have a high calling upon my life but every time i feel drained of my spirituality by my so called husband. Physically nothing is working for us. What can i do

[@wamaithandungu43]

Lillian Mupeta you have just described my life to the T.

[@halron9435]

Same here..when i say something he dosent understand me. He takes it seriously. I realised i have to explain myself. I said to him, dont you want to know me more, he said he dosent want to. Am so confused and a have a baby.

[@che263]

Me too. My parents and sister doesnt trust him anymore because sexual attemps when my sister is still young. He is like other person and he doesnt know whats going on with fhe family and whats the family's goal. I dont love him anymore and no trust anymore. The only thing that is keeping me from him is he takes care of my kid and the kid loves him. What should i do?

[@kwesidiamonds8242]

There is no marriage ordained by God , it's a personal choices and decisions which got you where you are now .There is no such as ordained marriage by God you made your own choice if it was not arranged marriage my dear .

[@maslinebere2622]

Lillian Mupeta Try work it out with him

[@Mayo479]

Im married and not happy,i need to break free. Help me😞

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[@germanboy5392]

#1 Your shaving and she comes in bathroom and takes a dump.....

[@ladycrystal3293]

Nope, she's in love with you, she's letting u smell her stink, that's love LoL ❤️

[@carleensimon]

You would recommend divorce unless someone is cheating?What about emotional and verbal abuse?. Also, what if the person is a narcissist?

[@halron9435]

Thank you daniel..i am going through a rough patch with my husband.

[@ridusharma9761]

How ironical ! The title of the video says 'married to the wrong person' and suggests in every point to try make it work any how. It's good to try and give your 100% in a relationship or marriage but once it's clear the person isn't good for me or simply if people aren't happy. I believe it's better to move on and give life another chance. Everyone deserves love and happiness. Cheating or physical abuse aren't the only good reason to take a divorce. Just not being happy in a relationship is also a major reason. Anyway, the points mentioned in this video to identify a wrong partner are quite realistic and true. Thankyou for that.

[@karishmanegi438]

The man I am married is so paranoid whenever I tried to tell him what her mom’s action makes me feel. He always blames me for my complaints

[@paulmareva45]

Wat do you expect him to do? Control his mum? U are making him choose btwn u & his mum its not a easy decision to make, to sumone else maybe ur mother in laws sister or brother,

[@charlottehanna790]

Narcissist

[@lucywong7968]

This even includes family, relatives, coworkers, neighbors and people

[@nancylpr]

This could have people staying in miserable situations for decades.

[@clarahammar8616]

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[@smchoudhary123]

my wife doesnot like anything... just in mood of fight or irritated all the time

[@fouodjimelachiostephaniemi7234]

Give her affection

[@mrsg7291]

Communication is key

[@recabitejehonadab2654]

Communication and affection takes time and most guys don’t want to deal with it and the more their spouse is pushed the worse it gets and it never gets better. Better to go and and do your own thing. Most people wind up happier and being in a miserable situation. Most women find happiness through mail order catalogs and wine.

[@makhosinidube7950]

Divorce

[@alliancemangalaboy818]

Daniel Ally, Your videos are too inspiring and motivating, i've subscribed to your channel hoping to get more, thank you for the great Job.

[@danielallyway]

You'll be getting more!

[@ismalikhan1784]

Life rule no1 Don't believe someone who not have experienced or faced the same kind of situation practically in their life. In this world people just make some statements to get popular .

[@asifreedy5993]

I feel i just need to go away... I want to die

[@cookiecrumbs4852]

You can trust me

[@errandgirl48]

Please don't. You are worth much more. Prove God. He WILL SHOW UP in the Name of JESUS.

[@akrambaig2689]

Don't think like that. I had the same problem. Im lucky that I didn't end up in jail.

[@Mimi-ng9jn]

💝

[@brianamonis8058]

So physical or emotional abuse isnt a reason for divorce?

[@Eyelash85]

I think ONE sign is ENOUGH: You have SEX before marriage. Not knowing very well the personality and behaviour of your partner before getting deeply emotionally involved through sex is the biggest mistake. But, I know, most do not cares about this, some might even not agree and others laugh. But it is scientifically proven this is so.

[@lkhalil7646]

I have been married for 27 years and we have 4 children, 2 of them adults. I hate my husband so much because of the daily abuse, psychological and emotional. I’m sacrificing a lot just so I can be with my kids whom I love so much. But I don’t have any feelings left for my husband anymore. He just trampled all over me so bad, nothing can fix it no longer.

[@clarahammar5728]

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[@clarahammer1073]

[phone]

[@Frankybroadcast]

Marriage is a huge mistake. One I regret making, everyday.

[@ReasonAboveEverything]

Real question is why wasn't you able to foresee this when you were dating.

[@quincyslawgmailcom]

Man of the north: Sometimes you cannot foresee what someone is actually, truly like is because during the early days, they portrayed themselves differently. For example: you love reading and books - they love reading and books; you love dancing, going out to dance on occasion - they, too, love going out to dance, dancing around the house. The examples can be endless. Once together, you see that what they initially told you does not match up with reality. Sometimes, not at all. It's called being duped. The person in question wasn't necessarily trying to be underhanded, malicious, etc., they simply wanted what they wanted (i.e., you), and, therefore, even convinced themselves they shared so many traits and interests with you. Which brings me to the point - it's always a good idea to take time when developing a relationship - don't move too fast, use as much discernment as possible. Of course, it's not always easy to apply the brakes but over the long term, it's definitely worth it; it is not foolproof, but it does help guard against certain heartaches. Best, Quincy's Law

[@ReasonAboveEverything]

[e-mail] i very much agree. I should have frased my guestion how quick do people jump into marriage. 6 months one year? What does the marriage even add to the relationship that it has to be had.

[@hiddenmanna3683]

Don't get married if you're not through being single. You will thank me later.

[@Moose185]

Hidden Manna I wish I read this before!

[@misckin6238]

The biggest problem I face is that in our relationship is that my wife wants to be the husband. At a point I couldn't take it any longer and asked her to be the husband. But no she doesn't want any responsibility. Then I understood that she wants to control me and direct me, and I have to be the husband and execute all her commands. She doesn't care about what she is doing to the relationship in her attempt to get what she wants. She is only concerned about what she wants and gets angry or always slides away my wishes. Doesn't even allows me to keep things in the house as my suggestion. She is loving and caring only when I execute her commands like a circus animal, I am not allowed to show my emotions. If I do she will create a grim mood in the house. Gives me silent treatment. She is very manipulate and gets angry when I am not manipulated. I am contemplating divorce, the only problem is I have beautiful child and stuck in a foreign country due to vivid so don't know what the process is. Anyway the point is why shouldn't I consider divorce in this situation.

[@clarahammar5728]

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[@clarahammer1073]

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[@TAHJBecomeYourBestSelf]

I'm 18, so this video is quite perfect for me, but what about the people who are already married? LOL, that shit be scary...

[@cesardescalzo5623]

Good job Daniel you are a great friend

[@anastasiaaa4094]

True. M married to wrong guy

[@rydeprimary6228]

my husband agreed with his sister to break up with me. They talked behind my back since day 1. He went to her with issues and serves me passive aggressive . It's heartbreaking betrayal.

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[@gabitom5056]

Have you done anything about this

[@rydeprimary6228]

Clara Shank what can I do? I am focusing on my health and living in another country so to move away from the CPTSD the pressure gave me.

[@tan8576]

You're genius Daniel Ally. Thanks so much. I took a lot from this video. It completed all my uncompleted thoughts.

[@wendykutz7017]

I very much disagree that the “Only” reason for divorce is because of cheating. How about habitual lying, emotional, mental and financial abuse. A narcissist and manipulator.

[@Lilacs4]

IF YOU ARE IN AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP OR HAVING THOUGHTS OF SUICIDE PLEASE REACH OUT FOR HELP! Suicide hotline USA: 800-273-8255 suicidepreventionlifeline.org/ Call your local police department to find out what local nonprofit agencies are in your area to aid in abuse cases, often they provide free paralegal work and walk you through the legal process if a restraining order is needed! It's never too late to get help, you are never truly alone in this world, please don't consider ending your life when there are people and organizations out there waiting and wanting to help you! I realize this video is old, but I couldn't ignore how this KZbinr had some very calloused responses to some people pointing out serious issues he failed to address in this video. I came across this video because I am doing some supplemental research for my counseling training and was honestly quite alarmed by the thought process and advice of this video. I'm sure this KZbinr means well and wants to help people, but this advice if applied to an abusive relationship completely empowers the abuser and feeds a victim-shaming dynamic that narcissists capitalize on to manipulate and hold their partner captive. I've gone through a couple years of counseling training at this point and have had first hand experience with sociopaths and narcissists for years. It was a big motivation and inspiration for me to want to become a counselor, to help others navigate and heal from such dysfunction...especially after my best friend in high school tried to commit suicide and I helped her mother clean the blood off of her arms at midnight...to this day I think it was a miracle her mom happened to wake up and stop her, I'll never forget that night and I want every person to know how important their life is! Abusers aren't born, they're made. Often times, the entire family is entangled in living a double life and hold their reputation very tightly. You would never find out the truth until you're already in it, and that's why they're often serial heartbreakers. It's by design. Don't stay in a dangerous situation thinking you can change or save such a person! As I mentioned above, if anyone reading this is in an abusive relationship or having thoughts of suicide, please call the suicide hotline [phone] ...it is available 24/7. suicidepreventionlifeline.org/ That's the US number, I'm sure other countries have one as well though a quick Google search can pull it up. Additionally, please reach out to your local nonprofit agencies like Marjaree Mason Center if you or your children are in danger. Every city/state is different, but I'm sure your local police department can provide you with information to get you somewhere safe and walk you through the process. Your life MATTERS and it is a TREASURE! Please don't throw it away for any person or thing. You are not alone!

[@sumanmanghra6097]

Great topic, came to me at the perfect time! Sometimes I get down about my hubby not being as ambitious or on the same spiritual path as me... we have money issues as a result and feel disengaged at times, but he's very loving and supporting and I know if I keep looking at the issues they will just grow however I still struggle to communicate with him, he doesn't absorb much what I say and even through email or written communication its in one ear and then out the other.... 🙄🙄🙄😩😩😩

[@danielallyway]

MrsBhangra ! Send him this video-and my other ones too!

[@sumanmanghra6097]

Daniel Ally my husband doesn't discuss money with me. I earn more than him and I think this bothers him though he doesn't say. I have told him about all my ambitions and savings I would like to make and also all my debts that I'm working on reducing, with my game plan. I ask him to give me a breakdown of exactly what he earns and spends and he never tells me. I ask him few times but don't want to nag either. I've sent him your video link but not even confident he will even watch it. We are on different pages ambitiously and financially and it does make me concerned about our future...

[@obedaikins]

@@sumanmanghra6097 I think we're on the same page

[@obedaikins]

@@sumanmanghra6097 we have the same problem with our partners

[@kbank5259]

He should be happy, my wife lies about the most stupidest things, i get depressed, i have problems regarding family with this women!!

[@Ally78435]

All the points points to my spouse - Except for money. I am indeed married to the wrong spouse.

[@sherylAA]

When you're in a marriage for support. You're unhappy with them and literally are not in love with them but do have love for them. When you sleep in separate bedrooms for 3 years cause you would fight everyday with out the space, and feel like roomamate. When you know if you divorced it would hurt your children more than you.

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[@marygoodman9530]

Great video, very imperative everyone listens to this before marriage, yes together forever like salt and pepper 😊

[@martacaro1370]

The worst thing your spouse can do to you is cheat? How about physically assaulting you? Using your kids against you? Keeping you away from friends and family? Threatening you with legal actions to take all you have including children?

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[@charishempress560]

Well, I do feel like I'm married to a wrong person coz he doesn't care how I feel whenever he's hiding important matters to me. Like his drinking. I kept explaining him why it's not good when a person drinks too much and we always end up having a misunderstanding when he drinks. I've been very patient for the whole entire 9 years. He was always sorry about it ( for the lies ) but he still end up doing the same thing. We all know people who drinks a lot, mostly get into trouble. Sometimes, they didn't even know how they get to a certain place and how things happen, not sure how they get home etc. All I wanted is for him to be always safe and healthy but he never understand my point which makes me feel useless as his wife, his friend, his partner in life.

[@estefaniamoreira4054]

As women to women what I have come to learn most men, not all, have this thing called "dont tell me what to do" attitude. Idk why when in the end of the day as a wife or gf, you just care about them yet they dont get it. It's like children. You want them to stop doing something and you explain why this isn't right? What do most kids do? Do it again, again, UNTIL that thing you told them many times not to do actually harms them. THEN they will do something about it and all you have to say is I told you so. That's it. If you can't make him realize eventually he will have to do it on his own. As sad as it sounds.

[@recabitejehonadab2654]

People that have addictions are not worth having a relationship with. There is no future to have with an addict if they are only going to destroy themselves with drugs. Don’t get dragged into their hell. Life is short , find someone to be happy with. I would leave him in an instant. He’s not a man yet but a boy that needs to grow up and live responsibly.

[@abhishekmsful]

I am single and I am watching this!!!!

[@irishissey2392]

Thank you. I needed to hear that.

[@johnsuggs7828]

1. And what happens if you see them for exactly who and what they are, but they keep denying it? 2. If someone cares about you, they'll care about what you're interested in. Taking an interest in theirs to get them to show interest in yours is a fools path. 3. Why aren't they asking questions? Why don't they care. Well it's because they don't care is the reason why they're not asking questions. So you have to tell them how much you want them to care? You have no idea of what it is you're talking about.

[@charlesdsouza3893]

Dear Daniel very nice video, good advice to those who want to adjust their marriage relationship. Very useful advice for married people to become careful, how to understand, respect each other, care for each other, love each other, help, understand each other, not attack more about money. I liked this video very much, fortunately I got a good , caring devine wife, giving first importance to prayer, first preference to God, helping needy. Thank you very much for nice video, God bless.

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More effort? Yes, let me continue to pour water onto a dead tree stump. 🙄

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[@oscarwilliamson1264]

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[@OneEyedLion]

This can also apply to a potential mate. Another great video. You hit the nail right on the head.

[@AubreyBee-u9n]

Just because two people decide to get together does it mean God put it together. Sometimes he will ask them to break up so you can get with that right person that he has planned for you

[@arabiannights7747]

Bro mind blowing motivation speech really loved it keep up the good work🥰

[@gwenevalovett7227]

I am 60 years old and have not been married ever in my life, but I know people who have bad communication problems and yet tell me that they are or were married. I don't understand how these people get married because they can not even hold a conversation.

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[@PATULOCA]

But what about emotional, verbal or physical abuse? Isn't that another healthy reason for divorce

[@katherineleblanc8094]

that goes without saying

[@barb7124]

Not according to the bible. Only adultery warrants divorce with a hope of marrying again.

[@omarayo3819]

I lack financial support. I paid everything

[@SultryNeoSoul]

Thank you so much for this video 💯

[@ddtrahan]

I came here loving my wife but burnt out on her combating me 100% and if you would have said that slightly different & negative I may have ran her off tonight. Due to your positive nature with words I am viewing this from a better angle and going to bed quietly with a new positive approach tomorrow morning! Thanks Brother

[@danielallyway]

Yes! A different approach always helps!

[@Chiefab22]

Without even Finishing This Video! I’ll let you know my opinion I learned from my Family: Successful Marriage is Based on: God, Trust, Loyalty, Respect, and Love ❤️

Andy CowBoy - Only problem with that is ... women are incapable of loving anyone but themselves.

[@mariaeljienlongalong4267]

My relationship with my husband is so boring. He didn't even know how to make his wife happy. He's always waiting for me to make a first move😒😒

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[@opheliamorganmorgan9148]

Seriously....after 15 years of marriage I still have to give my life literally for my spouse to change...a person WILL NEVER CHANGE IF THEY DON’T WANT TO... NARCISSISTS ARE WHI THEY ARE...THEIR BEHAVIOR IS CALLED EMOTIONAL ABUSE.

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[@kirkbrown2147]

Based on what he's saying, nobody should get married. Most women just take and not give anyway.

[@snmwenda2290]

You are wrong am doing all the giving here

Stella Mutunga - He said “most”. Are you illiterate?

[@chiodospiano4life]

The difficult thing is that men and women speaks a different language. I am a man, my wife, have no idea of the sacrifices I’ve made up until now for us, yet I’m the selfish one. I had to take a job taking at the other end of the country... she didn’t want to come. Now we are living apart. (I am the breadwinner so finding a job at that moment was crucial) Other thing I liked was when you said to actually try the things the other one like. I have a dog (I found out later on that she hated dogs). After a day at work, I always walk him. Always ask her to come with me, always refused. Now 6 months have passed and I’m watching this on KZbin