10 THINGS THAT INSTANTLY MAKE YOUR APPEARANCE LOOK CHEAP|REASONS YOUR OUTFITS LOOK CHEAPlLUCY BENSON

[@Lorriluxxe]

THIS👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 Your appearance is your brand and we should really dress how we want to be addressed. EVERYTHING you said is EVERYTHING and I spoke about it in a couple videos and the gworls were TRIGGERED but you can’t go wrong with Less is More however if you like it I love it for you sis 🙌🏽

[@jalexiaofori4455]

Completely agree

[@MyLucyBenson]

Thank you so much for this girl, we all have the freewill to do whatever we want but it doesn’t take away from the truth being that Less is always ENOUGH, Do things in moderation especially in fashion/style, its ok for people to be in their feelings and have opinions girl this is our truth and we will stand beside it 😊❤️

[@uberhaute_naturalz84]

@@dorlisastjean4072 they are already in their feelings looking like Gargoyle

[@essentiallyshalese710]

@@MyLucyBenson if you had to make a whole video on the way other WOMEN dress you’re the problem point blank period. There’s no way you made a video knowing how ppl would react and then bash them for not wanting to be ridiculed on their appearance. You and anyone who agrees with you need to not only mind your business and uplift women who wear what they want. You’re the tacky one love. Like you weird.

[@MrsBerry-of3lr]

I think it's certainly a time and place for all of the fashion fauxs that you mentioned 😀 I love seeing people express themselves, but please, make sure you read the room.

[@Rossi.K]

I dress more on the classy side.. But I will say it's for a more mature crowd. Like 30+ because it's definitely boring dressing like you're an old lady going to a business meeting all the time. If you're a young woman, experiment with your style. Have fun and don't be ashamed about it.

[@daydream2609]

Do you mean 40+ because everyone in their 30’s don’t dress like old women.

[@brittanythornton8408]

I think it's more about class and class is not something that a person gets with age. Even in hs there were just some girls just embodied class and femininity. Then you look at their mothers and u can see the same style and mannerisms. I think it's just a style thing some ppl are more trendy, like there's 50+ fashion designers who are on trend; I think it's whatever ur going for. I do agree that you don't have to wear a business suit to achieve a certain classic/classy look, I've literally seen woman wear tennis attire or sun dresses and still pull off the classic style.

[@graceHumphreyy]

When it comes style/fashion, less is actually more, your hair, makeup, outfit and accessories should be in sync, harmony. When you do too much, you start to look cheap and it's almost as though you're needing attention.

[@lindeclarke1344]

THIS! ❤️

[@maya-uz4wc]

@@sassyqueen9739 this person is just insecure. Beauty is so subjective I actually am a less is more person but I love seeing people with dramatic personalities and lashes,etc. openmindess and being less judgmental is the key to life

[@PriscillaRR]

@@maya-uz4wc 100% agree

[@NoName-sp5dp]

@@sassyqueen9739 full glam isn't tackym 40 inches is ridiculous. Clownery

[@theoracle4424]

Not true fashion is self… this advice is for pleasing who are pleaser of the world

[@TriniGamerGirl7]

I agree with everything except the body hair on women part. Body hair on a woman is just as valid on a woman as it is for men. I shave, but it's all bodily personal preference.

[@fluffysox6072]

Biologically, more body hair signals more testosterone. Which is why it is attractive in men and not in women.

[@tylerraee]

@@fluffysox6072 that’s actually not true. Socially speaking yes. But natural body hair is something the just happens. Whatever you associate with what, is your business.

[@okaysoanyways2645]

@@fluffysox6072 i love the use of fake science to try to prove your pathetic points 🙄

[@marianghitoolwa7854]

In my country women are praised for having bodily hair, it's more like a flex. Women actually try to grow their arm or leg hair.

[@vl3525]

@@marianghitoolwa7854 which country is this

[@Divine_dialogues2]

I agree with everything but the fragrance part. I like to buy perfumes that match my personality. I shift more into sweet/fruity scents, when people see me they’d assume I’d smell sweet/powdery or warm. the mature scents with musky notes or scents like Chanel n5 just isn’t my vibe… Love the video✨

[@MzClementine]

@Tata 🤍 oh I so agree. When I'm going to be around a lot of people and I realize a lot of people are sent triggered. Anything that smells like a dessert. No floral no wood. That's what I wear out and about when I am close to people. And if I'm not. It's all what I'm feeling. Is it spicy warm. Is it powdery sweet, or is it powdery soft floral with wood notes. Is it masculine sweet. I wear a lot of men's colognes. Givenchy pi is one of my ultimate favorites. The Paco rabanne millionaire. Armani code it's the black bottle with the gold top. I believe it is it has vanilla in it and it is incredible. But I love love love love perfume and cologne. My dressers covered with them. My brother is so cute when he comes over he's like oh what can I try. 😆 My is to my mood. And if I'm not in close quarters I'm not being polite and if you don't like my scent that's just not my problem. Sorry if you can't handle it. But my scent of the day is how I feel. Totally agree

[@ShanyShannon]

Yup! I get associated with sweet, cute, lovable, adorable so I wear scents that match me. My ultimate favorite has always been the Burberry HER. My recent has been Carolina Good Girl. One of my coworkers ordered the rose 212 Carolina VIP scent for me a long time ago. I loved it so much. I tried using it once in awhile to save it. 🙈 I always get compliments for how I smell and people love giving me hugs! 😅😂 Dossier has amazing dupes as well! 😍 Floriental almond< 2nd favorite Oriental cherry Oriental lavender And Aromatic pineapple

[@astridediva]

Yessss. I feel the same way . I love baby powder scent . ♥️♥️♥️

[@davefletcher545]

Yep that's me I have a fragrance for everything

[@MzClementine]

@@ShanyShannon try mixing the good girl with the masculine version. Everyone smells like good girl I can smell it right away. No the mail sent and female sent are made to be worn well together on the man and on the female but mixed. People will ask you hey what are you wearing. Especially if they like good girl and you can smell it on them. My favorite is when they're wearing it, and I'm like the masculine version of exactly what you're wearing. You like good girl, 😏. You will love the male version mixed with it. Or even just possibly alone. It's good girl gone bad if that's one of her perfumes I'm so sorry it adds good depth to it.

[@cassiem6029]

This was perfection. Especially with the baby hair pandemic. Less is enough. No natural human being has baby hair crawling over their forehead like snakes.

[@chanelletsoka1394]

Pandemic!?!? Oh no ma’am 😂😂😂😂😂

[@fa9183]

I've always hated it. It's so artificial and juvenile. It reminds me of secondary school.

[@asaiahdenise]

It’s the snakes for me ❤️😂😂

[@mirianogbonna1854]

Lol

[@MsClarissa2012]

This whole comment from beginning to end had me like 😂😭🤣😂😂

[@b4glady]

Not my signature scent Si in the thumbnail lol! I am a professional woman and every time I wear Si I get chased down by professional men and women asking me to write down what fragrance I'm wearing. The parfums de marly and masion francis kurkdjian are over done and people actually know when you're wearing them, which you don't want. You want people to ask what fragrance you are wearing instead of, are you wearing Delina or Rouge 540.

[@tantoobad]

I know right! I’m hurt.

[@beverlybremang1215]

Fr

[@Undrgrndklt777]

True af! People needs to explore with fragrances more. Black Opium Or Born in roma are my pet peeves 😂

[@rushannalewis6424]

Si by Armani is a great perfume so I’ll continue to wear it 🤷🏾‍♀️😭

[@darciadorilas]

I loved this video ! I genuinely feel like there’s an age us women hit that it’ll just come naturally, literally as soon as I gave birth to my son , the way I saw myself switched , I wanted to be a soft woman , I got in touch with my femininity in the matter of 24 hours , I stoped with with long nails , the coloured 30” wigs all of that . There’s nothing wrong with liking those things so my suggestions to young girls is to do whatever makes you happy and it’ll come with time , I love this grown woman me at 27 but I also loved the over top me that I was a couple years ago .

[@MyLucyBenson]

Well written babe, couldn’t have broken it down better, Thank you❤️

[@tashastewart5034]

Agreed! I always say “I’m someone’s mother” and certain looks are just not giving. Definitely a time and place for everything and I pray the girls learn tact

[@BiancaTatum]

Love this! I totally agree you take on your more classic, elegant style as you age.

[@zainabjalloh1745]

Today the advices are brutal and straight to the point. I love it 😂

[@clay7948]

Hehe sure

[@cvstaff22]

OBSESSED with your level up content because it’s so simple but the quality is it!!!

[@ellie5373]

I think the 90s and early 2000s era women were the prettiest and most feminine looking women in recent generations. They were before all of the horrible trends of fake tan, BBL, caterpillar lashes, crazy looking wigs/weaves, underwear for clothes, tons of facial piercings and body tattoos, cake face makeup, 10 inch long nails, etc...And yet, they were so simple and aesthetically pleasing. I don't agree with these women claiming they are "dressing how they want" because would these awful beauty trends really be their true style without the influence of social media, instabaddies, tiktok, and fast fashion websites??

[@FiddleYourTiddle666]

I was literally just thinking of this I completely agree!!! A lot of women in that era blew me out of my socks!

[@rue.eudoxie]

Chile everything you describing screams 90s for me idk

[@augustvirgo26]

You do realize the long nails a lot of women wear today is from the 90s and early 2000s? Social media also allows people to experiment with their fashion sense. I actually love how people look different from one another.

[@daydream2609]

As for the BBL, she just complained about women not dressing to fit their bodies and how fashion nova is not for certain people. This is precisely why people have those surgeries! I’m having mine done soon and happen to have the body she says doesn’t look right in certain clothes.

[@daydream2609]

SWV is a popular 1990’s group who wore very long nails lol!

[@randomcommenter420]

your hit the nail on the head with those coloured lenses. i see so many women with gorgeous dark brown eyes have these mismatched light blue lenses and they just look scary and cross eyed.

[@MyLucyBenson]

Dead🤣

[@toyahill4151]

I see lots of ladies wear long, extra long nails lots of bling I am surprised their employer writes them up or not I cannot do long nails just short nails only.

[@pearlmaraj564]

Ouch 😂😂😂😂😂

[@Kaebaby23]

IM SCREAMING 🤣🤣😂😂😂

[@daydream2609]

If it is their real eyes would you tell them their eyes look scary and cross eyed?

[@elooghenepeters1349]

Lucy’s facial expression through the whole video says it all, she is tired😂😂😂

[@MyLucyBenson]

My tired is tired 🤣

[@charchar4346]

I’m 48 and I’ve always had my own Style don’t go with the trend. be unique don’t Follow the crowd. I’m definitely not spending my hard earned money on designer stuff most of it looks cheap and tacky nonsense

[@knottygyal4828]

This video is very sad 😂😂 we as black women have to do better. Always worried about the next mfs! Like talk about how to make money or generation wealth PLEASE

[@ammybg1154]

So those are the only topics in life? Theres a huge variety of topics on youtube, we search what we want to see. I actually searched for this

[@andriannajohnson4184]

I thought the same thing

[@tafadzwa2001]

I specifically searched how to improve my appearance. I’ve also searched how to save money… different topics in life not just money

[@DivestedChristian]

@KnottyGyal that style attracts the type that has no idea how to generate wealth. It's only popular because it's an overcompensation tool/coping mechanism. Black women don't need to conform to your Instagram standards to keep you satisfied and codependent. I repeat: that ig/drag style is only popular with people who have no chance of accumulating wealth so stop acting like you're financially and mentally sound while spending thousands to hide your natural hair.

[@Diamond_Killa]

Plentyyy of that. Just type it in lol

[@Princ3lei]

Dressing for your body type is a BIG one out of everything you said because whew chile! People are sensitive to that advice & refuse to accept how their look would be elevated if they just did it 💀🤨.

[@Princ3lei]

@@dorlisastjean4072 oh no in real life I’m not harassing anybody about how they decide to present themselves 😂 I’m no fashion police🤨 It’s just something I noticed 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@okaysoanyways2645]

@@Princ3lei you aint a fashion police but you talking about how people dont look good in what they want to wear girl bye 🤦🏾

[@khaliyahliyah6444]

Right they get mad like damn ..I used to be a small and now since I been in the gym I done got some gains so now I have to adjust myself to get bigger sizes now

[@khaliyahliyah6444]

@@okaysoanyways2645 you upset ain't it

[@daydream2609]

Don’t complain about people getting BBL’s and tummy tucks then! Y’all body shame people and get mad when they get surgery. I happen to have an apple shaped body, but I love vintage style. I’m having my surgery next month because those clothes are more fitting for an hourglass body.

[@thebessyeung]

You got the point, when people look at you they will look at you from head to toes so Hair style is very important to the whole look and decide if that person looks expensive or cheap. I love the way you talk and express how to look expensive, very funny and logical. Great Video!!

[@EarCandyAsmr]

This is so true, less is more for sure! When me and my friends were younger we would try to look older now we like the simplistic natural beauty as it looks more youthful and much prettier. I used to like long nails now I appreciate short, I used to love a lot of makeup and now I like less, I still love lashes makeup nails everything but like you said there’s a time and place

[@aaliyahsmith8785]

This is an opinion yall. She knows its a choice ppl make ...remember, u clicked on her video for her opinion. U dont have to agree. So why yall tryna explain why ppl do it? Its about how it is perceived in her eyes. Not about the history or artistry etc. Its about an individual perception.

[@vanessagraves72]

exactly!!!!!!

[@khaliyahliyah6444]

They wanted to argue

[@khaliyahliyah6444]

@@carolbaskin1857 yall so sensitive

[@lotanna8724]

It’s a comment section for a reason byeee. Not everyone has to agree with her points

[@tarshellwaller7758]

@@lotanna8724 thank you! Getting upset at the commenters commenting in the comments section!! 😛😛

[@Barbragabriella]

One hard truth was learning that showing every body part was just TACKY.

[@tantoobad]

At 24, I’m happy to say I’m growing out of this phase.

[@writteninstars]

I know that this video wasn't meant to be funny but your delivery just sent me! I'm not part of the level up community but I got this as a recommended video. Thanks for the laughs - while I don't agree with many points (except the designer stacking), it was interesting to view as a person transitioning into adulthood and the workforce soon.

[@ladythedawnpoet]

😂 forget your entire look is having me rolling this whole time.. I love the advice and the realness

[@soulfulsessionswithsihleen3522]

Your the mother I've never had, the way that your teaching and empowering me without sugarcoating me is essential but deep. Thank you so much Lucy, with love from South Africa 🇿🇦

[@sunnc]

8:44 lol yes this is soo true. Fragrance & makeup is two where I can say do it right or dont do it at all. It's better to smell like nothing than to be known for a scent that doesnt fit you. I remember a woman I knew liked this baby scented perfume. It smelled like a newborn baby but the smell was very weird coming from a grown woman lol.

[@lifl6176]

Loool girl wth 🤣🤣🤣

[@lifl6176]

Loool girl wth 🤣🤣🤣

[@khaliyahliyah6444]

Right. There's nothing wrong with bath and body works perfume but I graduated from that to actual perfume from Dillard's or Macy's. It just smells more like me as I'm about to be 26 years old. I need something classy and sexy

[@therealgina9850]

Lol I’m 20 am I still considered a “juvenile” watching your videos helped me Budget sis. “ If you can’t get it 4 times you can’t afford it” I also feel like some individuals are trying to fit in when they know they are poor aka Me

[@valthestylist9433]

Less is more but again for the young girls we wanna experiment with style and what we feel makes us feel gorgeous.Most of these things come naturally

[@TeeBabyO]

I appreciate this video so much! The things that you address, I agree with! As we women age, we are supposed to evolve. We start to understand that as a mature black woman, we don't need to or have to be flashy. Less is more, simplicity can be key. Cuz we still gon' stand out regardless! A lot of what you talk about makes the grown women that do them seem juvenile. Now, I am 40, and I do love make up! But when I dress my eyes, I do a neutral lip, and vise versa. I currently have colors in my hair, but it is very mature for my whole look. It's natural for me to not overdue it with my appearance. I enjoy and very much embrace being this woman that I am.

[@briannataylor2964]

I’ve got my natural makeup down. Cream /liquid makeup has been my life saver. It makes your face less caked and just looks clean.

[@laken1804]

You forgot to mention going shopping in pajamas and fluffy slippers. I am constantly seeing people who look like they just woke up at the supermarkets.

[@savagetingz6959]

Eh not everyone is trying to impress people at the supermarket 😭🤷🏽‍♀️

[@eyesonliyah]

THIS! I work at a grocery store and it’s beyond tacky

[@laken1804]

@@eyesonliyah 👍

[@aliciaphillips1140]

Noting wrong lol you go to the supermarket to impress people?

[@whatagirthypooyouvetaken5825]

@@aliciaphillips1140 noones saying you cant, it just looks and usually smells like you haven’t showered or made an effort to take care of yourself. thats just my personal opinion though, self care is important and dressing casually to go places shouldnt be seen as trying to “impress” anyone.

[@Msmary98-98]

Thank you thank you thank you! I agree with everything you said.. my nails are not 50 inches long , my hair isn’t 49 inches and dragging on the ground. My makeup , I prefer it light and barely there with a nude lip. I don’t like drawing attention to myself. I always try to keep it classy not trashy. Loved your video💜🧡🥰 please do more.

[@vonjaey6736]

So people who do things you don’t are trashy? Like y’all are losers

[@khaliyahliyah6444]

I used to be so self conscious because I don't do what alot of girls do when it comes to weave and make up but I feel like I look more like myself without it

[@goldsand]

😂😂😂😂😂 the colored contactssssss omg. I know someone who hates them with every fiber in her body. Every time she see’s people with fake colored eyes she wants to flip a shit

[@NycBeauty]

I saw someone I’ve seen in years. She had a pink wig on and blue contacts. She use to wear light brown contact lenses.

[@goldsand]

@@NycBeauty 🫣🫠 not blue contacts

[@daydream2609]

My BF is brown skinned and has pale green eyes. They probably won’t get the response they want if they say something about his real eyes. He’s mean AF!

[@EarthQueen-1111]

I agree with all of this! I am growing out of wearing lace fronts myself. My natural hair looks way better lol

[@Breonaleonard]

Agreed!♥️ Less is truly more. The lace fronts, frontals, closures, wigs, makeup etc are so over the top to me. Even a “nice” frontal looks wiggy to me. Dainty jewelry, minimal to no “makeup” is what I love. I actually only wear Glossier or Saie. I started investing in quality contemporary/designer clothing (Staud, intermix, b&ash,elyse walker). My small closet is literally the BOMB now!😍

[@Nekole1]

This!

[@jolie9211]

you saying this while wearing a wig…

[@beautifulshea2256]

But you have a bad wig on tho

[@daydream2609]

People have different styles. I dress in vintage alternative style myself. I think everyone should stick to what works for them and not worry about what the next person does.

[@Nekole1]

@@daydream2609 I agree.

[@elinawitbooi3150]

I am turning 25 in July and one thing I'm constantly chasing is to look like a well put together woman. Most videos will really just put me off because most of how to look good requires money, but you really just gave out things that one can change without breaking my already broken pocket, I heard you, I agree with you and I am following you ma'am.❤🙏

[@h52114z]

This was brilliant. I am so glad someone FINALLY addressed the colored contact bug eye look. I have bad Vision and have always worn blue or grey tinted contacts because that’s my eye color and I notoriously will drop them, and can’t find them so it helps! But thank you for finally saying that blue/green eyes does not look good on everyone. Skin tone has a lot to do with it as much as people like to pretend it doesn’t. The natural color or like emphasizing the natural color as you said, I agree looks way better and natural.

[@ReyonnaResilientLife]

100% Agree! I’ve always had an all look closet, for every occasion. BUT now everything trendy, stretchy, childish, thin, too big/small, stringy, holes, etc MUST GO!

[@tinachristine4573]

You nailed them all. Ill fitting items and lack of proper undergarments also kill an outfit.

[@yolandamccrary7205]

💯💯💯

[@theebelovedfavorlyn]

Totally agree with a lot of things said. Just a tip; it would be nice if you had pictures of examples of what you're mentioning. Then also use numbered sections for organization. Love the vid!😘😍👌

[@Tokyoonave]

Honestly a lot of the stuff you said had some truth behind it but I just feel like you shouldn’t have use the word cheap of all the word you could’ve use it you could’ve said unprofessional literally anything but cheap it comes off condescending and rude and that’s why people click on the video I mainly disagree with the edges thing sometimes too much is way too much but usually edges are what makes a look, not the cloths or the hairstyle its the edges

[@Kaebaby23]

Factss!

[@tyliah321]

Another thing that wasn’t mentioned was the mixing of silver and gold jewelry. To me, it down grades your look depending on your undertone. Unless it is something like a wedding ring or nose ring.

[@NasiaMonay]

Yess I hate that

[@missme9650]

I’ve never seen it, people do that?!? 😂😂😂

[@ishish8816]

On certain skin tones it looks really good . Especially olive undertones. You can get earrings with "mixed metals".

[@livelikebratt1694]

Right lol I only wear silver because if you can’t afford real gold fake gold looks very rusty and cheap when you wear it too much.

[@honeybunny7647]

They make two-tone and three-tone jewelry 🤔

[@speryuyon4336]

“You are manifesting to be small” got me😂😂😂😂😂

[@linnyscents3932]

How do you think out the right topic to discuss??? You killed this content sis❤️

[@nea415]

I still can’t believe ppl think the overdone baby hair looks cute 🤦🏾‍♀️ All the swirls and the gelled down patch on each side that almost touch their eyebrows is a mess

[@harlemsbaby9966]

It looks kid-ish if that’s a word

[@NoName-sp5dp]

@@sassyqueen9739 it's trashy. 99% of the world agrees

[@Diamond9ice]

@@NoName-sp5dp I’m guessing you know 99% of everybody on earth and what they agree and disagree correct?

[@vampiresuckssaysme12]

@@NoName-sp5dp the whole front of my hairline is baby hair 😂😂 so I guess I’m ghetto by birth even though I’ve never stepped foot in a ghetto.

[@deasha7384]

@@vampiresuckssaysme12 everyone has natural baby hairs. What they were saying was the dramatic style of it. It being dramatically gelled down is “ghetto”. Not that having baby hairs is ghetto

[@json9368]

Finally someone said it! Because when I would say it I would get called “white” 🙃

[@Laura-cz8ud]

Ur acting just like the colonizer I would call u white too

[@benabosi9280]

Fr can’t have an opinion without people saying you want to be white

[@ariah457]

Say it! Be your authentic self always ✨💕

[@daydream2609]

@@ariah457 That’s what this video is going against; people’s personal authenticity.

[@LoveCMichel]

How do you feel about long knotless braids/long Marley twists? I love short wigs but when I do other protective styles, I feel like long braids makes one look more “royal”. I agree with the business aspect of it, however.

[@Moon._Baby]

So you’re all for 30 - 40 inch box braids.. but 30 inches of loose hair is unprofessional? How do the braids make you look more “royal”? How does any hairstyle give that?

[@Wildopal]

I know alot of people don't want to hear these opinions but I think it's valuable information. If all these things are your style,that's awesome. I think I want a "less flamboyant" look as I am getting older. I'm 30

[@daydream2609]

You’re 30, not 50 lol

[@Bethelehem2458]

I wore a very heavy cat eye today and definitely learned something. Even my mom doesn't like them, but now I'm going to learn to minimize them. Thanks love❤

[@SONYARenee]

Love the video some I agree some I don’t , but great points. 1.The perfume can depend on one’s body chemistry. 2,.Wearing a with designer logo shirt can be tasteful but it all depends on how you wear it. 3. My oldest sister wear long nails and we get on her often, that one I 100 percent agree.

[@ElvieTheCEO]

Kinda seems like you’re bashing rather than giving advice. Although I do agree with everything you said, but how it’s said could’ve been presented differently.

[@sandriais]

Yeah. Even though I don’t wear or do or prefer any of the trends I heard her say, and I do prefer a simple classy look, I couldn’t even finish the video because her demeanor came off very trashy and cheap. But I guess it hits home for the people it’s intended for. 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@paigequeenb8257]

I agree. Mind you I don't wear wigs or have color etc. I'm super conservative BUT this is a bashing session.

[@xocutiepiekidxo]

Okay I thought it was me. Calling them “cheap” is not even a positive construction. It’s literally just her opinion of what looks “classy”. She’s should have titled this things I believe to be tacky. She’s saying these like it’s law and no its not lol. She doesn’t fit in the genre. Just because you can’t rock it or you don’t like it doesn’t mean its “Trashy,Cheap,or Tacky”.

[@twillybbe]

Bye lol. Y’all are way too sensitive. If anyone thinks this is bashing or harsh, then you’re not ready for life. Life is harsh. Smh.

[@Jaemashallah]

I definitely agree 100% with the edges on frontal wigs.

[@iammikisoto]

I just came across your channel & I absolutely love it! Yes there is a place and time for EVERYTHING 🌸Thank you for these tips! All of these are spot on ☺️!

[@VeeToTheWorld]

I agree with you 💯 Sis! 30" and 40" wigs should remain in pics and videos and not in real life!😂😂

[@RealestatewithBlessingamps]

I disagree with the jewelry part, for someone who based on religious reasons, doesnt wear jewelries at all. I think you can still look good without wearing any jewelry and you wouldnt look bland

[@Ddivine0]

I swear you were having me weak the entire video & your facial expressions made it 10x funnier. These were some really dope points. I totally agree with everything you said. However let's not forget about the piercings too. Apparently it's now a trend to pierce every part of your body...(surface tragus, the entire ear, the double nose piercings with the septum with them big hoops that does not look like they belong on the nose etc

[@Afrodite96]

I agree with everything in this video! Great job! I know I’m doing all the right things and everything is aligned.

[@khaliyahliyah6444]

Also I agree with the perfume ..I stopped buying bath and body works and started buying from Dillard's or Macy's because it smells more like my age being almost 26...I need sexy classy scents

[@babygirl5175]

Try Versace perfume you will love

[@se2664]

Let’s not forget how expensive it is to have to a feminine soft appearance…

[@jesusmywholehaschanged]

How is it expensive?

[@whatagirthypooyouvetaken5825]

@@jesusmywholehaschanged the pink tax is apart if it, I actually found it pretty interesting when researching it my freshmen year of highschool. Products usually geared twoards women cost more

[@jesusmywholehaschanged]

@@whatagirthypooyouvetaken5825 I still don't understand. I have a soft, feminine appearance without spending a lot. You can always buy the "men's" version to avoid the pink tax. Blue razors work exactly like pink ones.

[@worstusernameintheworld9871]

@@jesusmywholehaschanged a good example would be the concept of the "clean girl aesthetic", the point of it is to look "soft, simple, and feminine", almost reminiscent of the "no makeup look" of models when going out on a casual day. This, however, may not be easily replicated by some people, this is because some people are more prone to acne breakouts or different skin conditions such as eczema or dermatitis, that would therefore require these people to spend more money on facial care products just to achieve a societally "attractive" face, not to mention the concealer needed to cover up such blemishes in order to maintain a "simple" yet "good looking" face. There are subtle things in a "soft/natural feminine appearance" that can make a huge impact if you're trying to look "simple" or "effortlessly pretty" such as the acne example I just mentioned. Another good example is maintaining groomed eyebrows; there are the rare women who have naturally bushy but mostly neat brows that require minimal grooming, however, most women would still need to groom and fill in their brows, which means, well, more money to spend on two products when there are some women who are lucky to not need those products anyways. We can also use this example for eyebags that are caused by certain health conditions, or those who's teeth grew incorrectly (thus requiring these people to need braces when some people just have naturally "pretty" teeth). By now, you can just tell me that "it isn't necessary to spend that much", but like I just said, it's the little things in one's appearance that can make or break their "soft attractive feminine appearance", especially if they don't have naturally "attractive" facial features (and I say this sOLELY in a societal sense). Surely, there are the lucky women who can rely on solely a facial wash, moisturizer, and a bit of blush, lipstick, and mascara to look "attractive", but if these people set the standard of what an "attractive yet natural looking woman" looks like (unintentionally), then that would make it difficult for other women to achieve that standard too without having to spend more than these "fortunate" women. You can also argue that "to be soft/naturally attractive means that we should go au naturel and not use much products anyways", but like I say, this is unintentional for MOST people (not all, i made the distinction) to notice the minor flaws in someone's face. If your face isn't "conventionally attractive" already and all these little "imperfections" add up, it's gonna be more difficult to just walk around outside in a completely bare/natural appearance (and yes I meant "natural" in a way where we also give up shaving, using perfumes to enhance out smells, etc. bc body hair is, by all definitions, "natural" and humans don't "naturally" smell like perfume, etc). If you're fine not doing any of those efforts to make yourself look better, that's great and all, but then this video wouldn't be of any help to you, and I'm already guessing that most women still follow conventional beauty standards if they have to watch this video to decide whether or not they're "naturally feminine" in a good way or not.

[@worstusernameintheworld9871]

@@jesusmywholehaschanged and yes my explanation is lengthy because i prefer to ramble my thoughts to make sure that I'm not forgetting as many points as I can, you said you didn't understand something, therefore I'm giving you as much of an explanation as possible. Plus, "i have soft, feminine appearance without spending a lot" is partially ruled by genetics and health conditions, something I pointed out in my previous comment, which is a privilege not all women can rock naturally.

[@isabellaeweka1871]

I love the way you talk and you just spilling facts sis. I am a wig expert and I have never been a fan of super long weave, 26” is the max for me and I am 5’11” feet.

[@Saphirestewart56]

I love your confidence and your realism. I see myself getting dressed and hearing in my head. “This ain’t it sis” 😂😂😂 love you!❤

[@ColleahG]

I agreeee wow! Especially with the baby hairs being so OUTRAGEOUSSSS ugh! Thanks for saying this.

[@anggadamn168]

This whole video is just funny asf to me 😂😂😂 if “who gone tell ‘em” was a person 😂😂 love this 👏

[@MyLucyBenson]

🤣🤣🤣

[@notyouraveragejoe7003]

But why is Si on the thumbnail?! It’s such a clean and classy fragrance

[@ahoufe_jay]

Especially the red one !

[@b4glady]

I know! People are obsessed with parfums de marly and masion francis kurkdjian. I think these fragrances are over done and smells the same on everyone. People will know you are rouge 540 and Delina, which you don't want.

[@sweetzs100]

It’s just clickbait I think

[@notyouraveragejoe7003]

@@ahoufe_jay I’ve tried the red one, not too crazy about it. I really want to get my hands on the pink one, I’ve heard it’s being discontinued unfortunately. The original Si (tried the intense, didn’t care for it either) is EVERYTHING! Definitely a signature smell for me.

[@notyouraveragejoe7003]

@@b4glady also, there’s sooo many different clones. I have Cloud by Ariana Grande, and finally smelled Baccarat on someone, and thought to myself “damn, that’s how I smell?!” However the projection of the fragrance made me realize it wasn’t cloud but the real thing. Nevertheless, I don’t ever plan on spending $300+ on a perfume.

[@helenahelen8687]

Was very helpful sis !!! Interestingly, I came across one of your video few months ago and ever since then, it has become one of my favorite channel. THANK YOU !!! Kisses 💋 Like is an understatement. I LOVE THIS VIDEO because it just speaks of the type of person that I am. My dressing, makeup, nails, etc... I like to keep things minimal and natural ALWAYS. And when it comes to makeup, I don’t do too much because I already have this twinkles eyes that even when I use just a foundation and powder as an eye shadow , everything blend together ( same as my lips ) THANK YOU SIS !!! God bless you ❤️🌹 Love from Austria 🇦🇹

[@b4glady]

I also think lace front wigs look cheap and we should go back to natural hair or natural sew-in weave

[@sarkie3927]

It depends how good the hair stylist is. Nicki Minaj's stylist does that style for a lot of the celebrity women and you can't even tell it's a frontal. The natural hair style didn't work for women whose hair are too coarse to blend into the weave. Especially the natural hair women or women whose hair are resistant to relaxers

[@AA-oi9nu]

Thankyou

[@pakiandblacki]

@@sarkie3927 thank you people act like sew ins are supposed to work for every hair texture and it’s not realistic…been there done that not going back to fried crunchy leave out lol me and my wigs are good over here

[@sarkie3927]

@@pakiandblacki 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 agreed, also a closure is a good option for people who don't want frontals. Having a full head of hair that is consistently the same hair and texture gives a way more classy appearance. People forget those leave out hairs were often damaged due to it not being protected, always outside of the rest of the weave, constantly getting combed and straighten etc

[@renn_tingz]

No I disagree for those with natural hair it be hard to blend in with Tracks!! lace fronts are the best thing that happened to us 💀

[@jalexiaofori4455]

I lashes and long false nails can cheapen your look .coloured wigs ,tight and short clothes all the time is a no. maximum classy hair length should be 18 inches over that can look ghetto. minimal makeup is way more attractive on a daily bases .finding the rigth shade is imperative. too much gold or sliver jewelry on makes you look tacky can look like your trying to hard .wearing designer from head to toe can look cheap ,depends on the label.cheap fragrances can attract the wrong person .some fast fashion can cheapen your look e.g fashion nova .thick or overly arched brows cheapen your look .colour contacts on some people look like a cry out for help . don't shot me this was some of the things that was said during finishing school

[@Pink_pr1ncess]

@@urmom777 these people must be 35 or older, young people are obviously gonna express themselves in any way shape or form. When my mother was in her late teens early 20s she said she always wore long nails, eye contacts, crazy hair styles, and fun clothes. Of course she dressed maturely for work but that’s work not everyday life. Older women are so judgmental of younger women and it’s sad to see

[@imaginephoenix3283]

My natural hair is over 18 inches when straightened. How’s it different to a longer wig (obviously meaning a longer, very well placed wig)

[@daydream2609]

@@Pink_pr1ncess I’m 35, and I don’t dress how they dress. We all don’t aspire to look 60 years old.

[@maryshaeflyy]

@@imaginephoenix3283 why would you ask this? Natural will always be in style im sure you know exactly what they are saying.

[@daydream2609]

@@maryshaeflyy I’m actually wondering that too. What if the person actually has waist length hair? It’s crazy how it’s no longer an issue then. What is the difference if you couldn’t tell if it was real or not? The same goes with colored contacts too. My bf is brown skinned and has pale green eyes. His eyes are stunning, but if they were contacts, it would be a problem lol. People will always have something to say regardless so that’s why people should just do them.

[@jiejoudom5521]

Love how you went straight to the point. I agree with some points. 👏👏👏

[@riannamo]

I agree with some of the things you said but the other things I would say can look childish/experimenting not necessarily cheap. Long wigs and long nails cost money. Just like what you said: if one thing is excessive then tone down everything else.

[@jazmine723]

i feel like the part where she talks about overload of designer is mostly toward men 😭

[@DivestedChristian]

Let's be real. Most black women are male indetified so they follow cues from males. If the males like something they tend to copy it too

[@xxmualyriaxx2691]

i really like your videos but in my opinion no one should have the right to tell people how to live there lives and you do not have to listen to her about fashion because it is her personal opinion wear what you feel sexiest and most confident in 🥰🥰🥰

[@DemureDarlings]

TELL THIS TO GUCCI AND MOSCHINO!!!! OUR “GHETTO” IS THEIR HIGH END FASHION!!!!

[@daydream2609]

Some black ppl want to be a white chick so bad! Everything was all about bashing black women.

[@thatgirlh3329]

i’m glad you’re talking about this. i think the extra all the time looks tacky especially the 30 inch wigs. it’s nice for instagram ig but it just doesn’t look right in real life. just my opinion don’t get mad y’all 🥲

[@astridahbunda5072]

Finally someone agreed with me on the extra long inches,too much of everything is bad ladies!😅

[@ihuomaalexandria3396]

I actually don’t know how to do eyeshadow but then my eye lids are hyper pigmented that’s eyeshadow from heaven baby. I just do the rest of my face and I’m good .. lol

[@Jades_locs]

You’re on point sweetie, 100% actually. I agree with you on everything you said especially the over accessorizing part. It just doesn’t make sense.

[@blessingokorafor939]

Dem baby hairs be CHAOS..can't deal tbh...thanks lucy

[@aliatianna888]

I love how you explain everything without being mean. I feel like my pretty rich auntie is giving me tea ☕️ 😍

[@josephgift7473]

Nice tips, however No 6, I think people should wear frangrances they love, just as long as it isn't cheap and doesn't smell bad, some people have allergies for oud fragrances, you shouldn't expect them to still wear it for the sake of smelling expensive, Nah, smell like candy and roses as long as the smell makes you feel good and comfortable

[@specialmomsgarden1743]

Brilliant!!

[@SindyAkpolo]

She said guy 🤣🤣🤣 honestly those claws are a big no for me. Talking about the fragrances you’re absolutely right. The makeup we’re not ready for that yet, those baby hairs really annoys me tbh. When you do too much you look really cheap. We’re not ready for the outfit/fashion talk too ooo. Thanks for sharing these valid tips.

[@pinkbutterflies994]

Ooh they’re going to call you anti-black for this but I agree with most if not all of these points.

[@daydream2609]

It is anti black lol

[@dzhere4250]

@@daydream2609 they dc tho they love pleasing European beauty standards

[@daydream2609]

@@dzhere4250 She should go pick apart the women in her home country and leave Americans alone! A lot of them don’t even like black Americans anyway.

[@janessapagan5214]

Like whatever you want guys🤷🏽‍♀️ no need to bash black women who don’t dress and style “clean”

[@MaeOtto]

I've watched this twice now. I love it everytime🥰🥰

[@mawumenyofreda3370]

About the perfumes I can’t wait for the video Sis ❤️❤️❤️

[@minilalo1]

Why should people have to compromise themselves to be taken serious. It’s about ur attitude. Carry yourself as a queen and people will follow.

[@5starmarri]

I agree with your point but I will disagree with your perfume point lol I personally wear sweet vanilla chocolate scent and instantly everyone always break their neck and tell me I smell really good. It's not only comforting to me that not only I don't stink but it's a beautiful breeze when the wind brushes my scent next to someone.

[@lizzyabang6868]

Oooo, can you tell me what perfumes you wear. I’m kind of a gourmand addict 😂

[@malindalaurent95]

I feel like when it come to fashion you should do what works for you along as you own it everyone have their own style

[@nashayclark7204]

This video screams pick me. It’s okay to wear whatever you want ladies. If it works for you it works for you. Y’all wanna adapt to European standards so bad.

[@jackiecrawford2665]

Agree! But wish there were examples with pictures for those who need the comparisons to better comprehend.

[@nubiann104]

Girl this video is everything. Less is more. I am guilty of under accessorizing

[@zandilek1551]

I agree with everything besides the fragrance part

[@favourdaniels2021]

Same here

[@analea6531]

Why can’t I like this twice?😩 this video is on point!!!!😍

[@Mebby06]

I agree 100%! Less is more beautiful and classy. The over extended nails and extreme baby hairs just screams ghetto to me.

[@leelee185]

🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌

[@juswatch5617]

You are the best friend that everyone needs!!! I love this video, staight forward but not rude or condescending. ❤️❤️❤️

[@mmcrew9530]

Thats not every one's opinion but there are a few things I do agree on .

[@daneishaerica1489]

I agree 100% I’m a classy woman and I feel like it’s just a different look when you keep it cute, simple and classy

[@jessicaderah2736]

😂😂😂😂😂she said noodles on ur head😂😂😂😂my love for Lucy 😩😩😩❤️

[@AllThingsImanix]

Can’t agree with the Sí perfume but spot on for everything else

[@TheChelsiWaters]

You nailed it.. Simple class never goes outta style 😇

[@andreamwando5996]

Am loving you ma'am Lucy. You got a lot of info. Please never give up up on your accomplishments and may the Lord always bless you.

[@LiahB]

I love your personality 😂😂 you kept it REAL 💕