10 Things You Should Never Expect From Anyone

In this video, we talk about ten things you should never expect from anyone. We all have expectations from the people around us, but sometimes those expectations aren't realistic, and we can end up disappointed when things don't go our way.
Chances are, you’re here because you want to learn how to be happy in life and have amazing relationships with others. We’re here to tell you that adjusting your mindset and re-evaluating your expectations can significantly affect your mental health and overall happiness.
So get ready for some real talk about what it means to be human and learn about the things never to expect from anyone in your life, so that you can start setting reasonable expectations and avoid disappointment.
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[@hikerhobby1204]

Yes, counselors say “Do not have expectations of anyone.” I run my life like that now and am much happier. We cannot control anyone other than ourselves.

[@l.w.paradis2108]

I expect other people to obey criminal laws, but . . . Well. Anyway.

[@Keith-tz2jy]

Don't expect anything from anyone. Nobody is reliable

[@kaym.2854]

People are just uncaring and sadly becoming more so in this era. However, I agree that we are to not have high expectations. One thing I learned the hard way is to stop expecting people to do for you what you'd do for them.

[@WhiteShadow-141]

It’s part of the last days

[@kaym.2854]

All I can say is to ensure you don't contract this contagious disease@@WhiteShadow-141

[@Coryraisa]

I don't agree with that...most people I encounter are truly caring and today in general people are becoming more caring. But too many of us have unrealistic expectations of others and yes, have distorted ideas of what constitutes a caring person. EG...I see so many people give holiday gifts to others expecting them to give them back something in return. This mindset ruins Christmas for so many people. To avoid this and to make my Christmasas happier, I give gifts with no strings attached. Especially if somebody is extremely busy or is tight with money, I reassure the person that they are under no obligation or pressure to gift me in return. This makes my holidays far happier.

[@kaym.2854]

@@Coryraisa Yeah. It's definitely unrealistic to have high expectations, but I was mostly referring to the fact that people seek their own selfish desires and hardly reciprocate kindness. People are slowly becoming more apathetic. (we see it all the time with social media where people would take out their phones to record than actually help) And because of how ill-intended some people are, it's difficult to trust or help without first thinking about it. Emotional intelligence is sorely lacking because it's easier for people to make an enemy than a friend. I'm happy that you don't experience it (embrace that) but I've seen too much apathy and selfishness to say otherwise. Genuiness, kindness and a caring nature is rare in more ways than one. We don't have to agree. That's ok. Nevertheless. Wishing you and yours a wonderful Christmas. 🎄🌰🎅

[@Coryraisa]

@@kaym.2854 While, yes, there is unfortunately a lot of selfishness around, most people are not evil or heartless, so I wouldn't be too quick to write off humanity as hopeless or as "bad." Instead of complaining endlessly about how selfish and uncaring "most" people are, do volunteer work yourself. You'll find that in many cities, the volunteer slots fill up quickly. And there you will meet many caring, unselfish people. And yes, have a very happy Christmas. 🎄🎄🎄🎄🎄🎄🎄🎄🎄

[@sarahhurst701]

Great video, thanks Brainy Dose.✌️❤️

[@ravenmeyer3740]

Yes. You are totally alone. They will come to you when they need you. They can be friendly, they will never be friends. They are aquaintances. Even family members. I have one friend. No subject is off limits, she straight with me, I would give her the moon if she needed it. There are people I care about and will listen to at any time, but I will never let them close.

[@Jkaterchannel]

This channel has so many gems. I suscribed after watching three or four of those videos. Whoever writes these must be unusually gifted professionals who care about people and the world. Thank you.

[@l.w.paradis2108]

This video is so wrong that I can't believe it. No one _literally_ expects any of these things, and it's an insult to say so. Take the first one: you expect someone to agree with you sometimes, in particular cases, such as when you can provide them with good reasons why they should. If in response to your reasons, that person said, "you can't expect me always to agree with you," that's a non-sequitur. What would be your normal reaction?

[@djlr1111]

This is one of those videos where the people watching it are self aware and trying to be better and the people not watching it need it the most. Sigh

[@l.w.paradis2108]

This video is so wrong that I can't believe it. No one _literally_ expects any of these things, and it's an insult to say so. (Or if they literally did, we're talking about serious cognitive problems or a personality disorder.) Take the first one: you expect someone to agree with you sometimes, in particular cases, such as when you can provide good reasons for why they should. If in response to your reasons, that person said, "you can't expect me always to agree with you," that's a non-sequitur. What would be your normal reaction?

[@WearyBear]

So basically, never expect other people to give a damn about you. You are the only one who will. I learned the hard way how true that is. Reminds me of an old Quarterflash song - "Don't ask for love, don't ask for pity, don't ask for me, welcome to the city."

[@damiensisco6960]

“Never expect other people to give a damn about you. You are the only one that will.” That’s not true for everyone.

[@GigaChad_169]

@@damiensisco6960 Situationally, it isn’t true…universally it most definitely is true. Relationships are not static.

[@damiensisco6960]

@@GigaChad_169 I don’t understand what you’re saying.

[@kaym.2854]

hmmm...

[@jeremywilliams1664]

@@damiensisco6960I think @GigaChad_169 is saying individually on a case-by-case basis with any one individual person (since everyone is different), especially with some sort of personal relationship or connection, don’t expect anyone to really care about you in any way or expect anything in return. But universally with all of humanity collectively (people you know and everyone else), especially don’t expect anyone to care about you, great things happening in your life, or your problems in general.

[@brightphoebesays]

I think that last one's really important, not relying on others for your happiness, but cultivating it on your own, independent of others.

[@fatemehzahrakhaleghy3667]

I do most of them and expect unfairly from my close friends. Thanks for this imazing show

[@alabhaois]

Wise words!! 👍👍👍

[@crystaldance5731]

Thanks brainy 💕😀

[@mikesmith6594]

Exactly Brainy Dose!

[@DeniseMcKnight-i9u]

i love love love number 3/4 everyone has their own problems navigating in this world!!!!thats funny if you tell someone about boundaries and they say they can do whatever they want theyre NOT listening.I love the last part about gardening!!!if more people did gardening they would never be depressed or unhappy!!!PERIOD!!!! lol

[@deeanthony7713]

Here is one for ya: ''Never expect anyone to love you, 100% unconditionally, all the time....we are all flawed and not perfect, after all!''

[@alienautopsy9326]

Buddha taught that “the root of suffering is attachment”

[@omarlittle-hales8237]

Salam, Shlomo, Shalom, Peace. Hebrew Alphabet Is Derived From Aramaic, Turned Into Squarer Shapes, Akin To Japanese Kanji And Korean Hangul, From Chinese, A Mere 1,500 Years Ago, At The Period Of Prophet Muhammad. The Language Contains Arabic, Aramaic, Persian, Phoenician & Yiddish. The Rabbi's Claim It Is The Oldest Language, But Why Is Arabic In Most Language's Instead Of Hebrew ?

[@omarlittle-hales8237]

Namaste Gee, Vedas:Svetashvatara Upanishad chapter 4 verse 19 As well as in: “There is no image of Him” (Svetashvatara Upanishad 4:19) It is mentioned in Yajurved Chapter 32 Verse 3 “There is no image of Him” (Yajurved 32:3) It is also mentioned in Yajurveda Chapter 40 verse 9 “They enter darkness those who worship natural things (for e.g. air, water, fire, etc.). They sink deeper in darkness those who worship sambhuti i.e. created things (for e.g. table, chair, car, idol etc.) (Yajurved 40:9) Idol worship, which is very common amongst the Hindus, is prohibited in Hinduism. It is mentioned in Bhagavad Gita Chapter 7 verse 20: “Those whose intelligence has been stolen by material desires they worship demigods i.e. idols.(Bhagavad Gita 7:20) * Hindu Scriptures: "There is only ONE God, not the second; not at all, not at all, not in the least bit."[Brahma Sutra] * Hindu Scriptures: "He is ONE ONLY without a second." [Chandogya Upanishad 6:2:1] Hindu Scriptures: " O friends, do not worship ANYBODY but Him, the Divine One. Praise Him ALONE."[Rigveda 8:1:1] Hindu Scriptures: "I am the goal of life, the LORD and support of all, the inner witness, the abode of all. I am the only refuge, the ONE true friend; I am the beginning, the staying, and the end of creation; I am the womb and the eternal seed. I am heat; I give and withhold the rain. I am immortality and I am death; I am what is and what is not"[Bhagavad Gita 9:18-19] Hindu Scriptures: "There is no likeness of Him." [Svetasvatara Upanishad 4:19] * Hindu Scriptures: "His form is not to be seen; no one sees Him with the eye." [Svetasvatara Upanishad 4:20] * Hindu Scriptures: "That which cannot be seen by the eyes, but by which the eyes see, [Kena Upanishad] * Hindu Scriptures: "The Formless Supreme Spirit that pervades the universe can have no material representation, likeness or image." -- (Yajur Veda Hindu Scriptures: "He is bodiless and pure." [Yajurveda 40:8] Scriptures: "Of Him there are neither parents nor lord." [Svetasvatara Upanishad 6:9] Hindu Scriptures: "They are enveloped in darkness, in other words, are steeped in ignorance and sunk in the greatest depths of misery who worship the uncreated, eternal prakrti -- the material cause of the world -- in place of the All-pervading God, but those who worship visible things born of the prakrti, such as the earth, trees, bodies (human and the like) in place of God are enveloped in still greater darkness, in other words, they are extremely foolish, fall into an awful hell of pain and sorrow, and suffer terribly for a long time" (Yajur Veda)

[@omarlittle-hales8237]

Salam, Shlama, Shlomo, Shalom, Peace. Trinitarians are inoculated from rationality, facts and logic. It is no surprise that basic reasoning is entirely lost on those that believe that the creator became one of those he created in order to save the created from his own self. Not to mention the incoherence in the scripture, never minding the creed itself. Matthew 4:1) Jesus was tempted [James 1:13) God cannot be tempted (John 1:29) Jesus was seen (1 John 4:12) No man has ever seen God (Acts 2:22) Jesus was and is a man, sent by God (Numbers 23:19, Hosea 11:9) God is not a man (Hebrews 5:8-9) Jesus had to grow and learn (Isaiah 40:28) God doesn't ever need to learn (1 Corinthians 15: 3-4) Jesus Died (1 Timothy 1:17) God cannot die (Hebrews 5:7) Jesus needed salvation (Luke 1:37) God doesn't need salvation (John 4:6) Jesus grew weary (Isaiah 40:28) God cannot grow weary (Mark 4:38) Jesus slept (Psalm 121: 2-4) God doesn't sleep (John 5:19) Jesus wasn't all powerful (Isaiah 45: 5-7) God is all powerful (Mark 13:32) Jesus wasn't all knowing (Isaiah 46:9) God is all knowing

[@omarlittle-hales8237]

Salam, Shlama, Shlomo, Shalom, Peace. Adam and Eve Brought The Monotheistic Concept Of Religion From Heaven. Over Time Their Descendants Became Polytheistic, Mixing It With Monotheism, Creating New Cult Religions. Don't Forget Many Religions Added The Trinity Into Their Religion's At Latter Dates.

[@Fusion666-d7x]

นั่น เป็น เรา นั่น เป็น ของเรา นั่น เป็น ตัวตนของเรา นั่น ไม่ใช่ เรา นั่น ไม่ใช่ ของเรา นั่น ไม่ใช่ ตัวตนของเรา

[@ricardoveiga007]

True and wise. Thanks :)

[@elinadragomirescu6449]

Very good exemple!

[@saltmoore3499]

LOYALTY and HONESTY are things I no longer expect from ppl. I have faith in my Heavenly Father God💯

[@elinadragomirescu6449]

Yeah! So even I did not expect some things!!!

[@UniquelyHerz]

I needed this

[@elinadragomirescu6449]

Yeah! Is very good!

[@seasidelegal5490]

Yes,, common sense, which is very uncommon.

[@MJ-hl1kk]

Wonderful words of wisdom! Billions have gone to their grave not knowing any of this! Thank you.

[@l.w.paradis2108]

You can't know things that either make no sense or are factually false.

[@aaronaustrie]

Well said📌

[@davidgentz1731]

Let me tell you something don't expect anything from anybody you'll never be disappointed and when you look in the mirror you know what you're looking at the most important person in the world to you he or she is the only one that really gives two s****

[@Noggin-Knowledge]

Solid advice on managing expectations! How has adopting this mindset impacted your sense of self and relationships, and do you find it contributes to a greater sense of personal empowerment? 🌟🤝🪞

[@curtistinemiller4646]

NEVER EXPECT YOU OUT OF ANYONE,MOST PEOPLE ARE. COMPLICATED.....🙏❤️

[@jnab0]

And it works both ways. These are 10 things someone should never expect from you.

[@hikerhobby1204]

Very true!

[@alfredbenedek3398]

EXPECT OTHER TO DO TO YOU, AS YOU DO TO OTHERS? HMM, O - OR, IS IT THE OTHER WAY? BUT ONE CAN & SHOULD EXPECT!

[@elinadragomirescu6449]

Yeeah!!

[@elinadragomirescu6449]

Really really true!

[@Alexxander100]

basically dont expect anything, do everything by yourself

[@l.w.paradis2108]

Which is exactly what we cannot do in a society as complex as this one.

[@l.w.paradis2108]

I'm the only person I know who cooks everything they eat, apart from coffee.

[@RoyaleCameron]

Brainy dose, can you do: why so many Rich people are unhappy" video?

[@zarimughalrose353]

How smiley person ......👍 Keep going

[@prestonhanson501]

Never expect honesty or loyalty. Always expect bad. Youll be right most of the time

[@laurieford6373]

and when you"re not right, you'll be pleasantly surprised.

[@Noggin-Knowledge]

A pragmatic approach! How has adopting this mindset influenced your interactions and relationships, and do you find it helps you navigate situations with more resilience and preparedness? 🤔🛡🤷‍♂

[@l.w.paradis2108]

Well, when society is in full decline, sure. "Sauve qui peut la vie."

[@hardikmanek3192]

Yes it helped to get insight into me

[@elinadragomirescu6449]

I expect to not agree me everything!

[@elinadragomirescu6449]

Yeah!

[@eddieg6436]

At 53 I’ve FINALLY figured out that having expectations concerning people is a mistake. I’ve also figured out that my actions and care are better served to pets, and animals…..not people. 👍

[@Noggin-Knowledge]

It's a wisdom-filled revelation! Shifting expectations to pets and animals seems like a harmonious approach. How has this change positively impacted your interactions and relationships, both with people and your furry friends? 🐾💖🤔

[@l.w.paradis2108]

If you actually believe this video, then quitting human society in favor of relating to other living beings makes perfect sense.

[@BelueSalamander]

So basically, human interaction IS transactional (for those who want to deny it).

[@jcol243624]

Yup, just have to have mutually beneficial transactions.

[@WhiteMouse77]

it surely pays for primitives but mentally advanced people interact on higher level where elevated values are recognized by higher personal inteligence

[@l.w.paradis2108]

Well, when society is in full decline, sure. "Sauve qui peut la vie."

[@jammyjay917]

People, friends and family are hard to set dates with to catch up...

[@johnhughes2653]

#11 - Intelligence

[@l.w.paradis2108]

That's apparently the only one!

[@cybeledalmas-lewis2120]

Interesting

[@DWPersianExcursion]

💯

[@thedecalisthub]

In a world where having a personal cheerleading squad sounds great, it's important to realize that not everyone will think alike. Insisting on everyone agreeing or conforming only leads to frustration and conflict. We should try to appreciate the diversity of opinions and quirks that make life interesting. Trying to control others or expecting constant support can cause resentment. While having a support system is wonderful, expecting others to solve our problems is overly optimistic. Let's celebrate different perspectives, value individuality, and nurture our own happiness. After all, who desires a world where everyone agrees on everything? That sounds utterly dull!

[@Noggin-Knowledge]

Embracing the diversity of opinions - a true recipe for an interesting and vibrant life! How do you navigate the balance between seeking support and appreciating individuality, especially in a world that often craves conformity? 🌍🤝🎉

[@michaelgeorge5153]

Don't expect everyone to agree with you? Hell I have a hard enough time getting one person to agree with me anybody that would expect these things from people at least all of them would have some kind of issue. This is communication for nitwits. I would be hard-pressed to find someone that I thought should agree with me on all issues. I really wish brainy dose would concentrate on quality instead of quantity, pumping these things out that anybody with a modicum of sense would know. I mean if you don't know most of these things by now, you're lucky to be alive.

[@GigaChad_169]

Most people ARE nitwits. All the BS and polarization going on in society is perpetuated by nitwits being manipulated by the media and others that stand to benefit. These people are willing to destroy families and relationships in an attempt to be right or feel validated for things that, in the scheme of human existence, don’t matter.

[@alfredbenedek3398]

Peace & = ' ' understanding ' ' = is definetally N O T BOARING! Wthere is / would be peace in the worl that would be very good / fine! When there would be war - battle killing murdering & there wouldbe just a few people . . . woops/ what's wrong, you don't have anybody to be pared by & with, be - cause they were killed out? Peace = prosperity & life. Wr & battle is jst anger unsatisfaction death and less comfort! Hm, what a boring life we live now these days, in the 21st. century? But not if it woud be happpiness & peace & understanding. = F A C T! =

[@qica1272]

Totally wrong!!!! That makes people more selfish, keeping each other’s far away:we all know team work obviously stronger ! Without help each other makes more people never trust each others rather than suffering isolation. Loneless, have more and more mental problems! That’s why we often hear ; “I don’t care ,,,,you r the best,”I’m very independent, “,with less trust and love makes bad relationships, with the WiFi use is more make people home living of the jobs and schools ,unfortunately one one perfect no matter who u r and how rich you r ; the less care and help are killing more and more people, most people can’t live with their dreams as normal people , only very few people can be successful in part of the life , people individually can’t solve their own problems without help! Sadly eventually u go nursing house alone !!! Unless you want to !lol

[@nataljapetrova7682]

U r an amiable friendly person as i guess .. tnx wholeheartedly for Ur comment

[@kelvinstrickland263]

Not Me, Don't Need Anything From Anyone,Only The Most High God And His Only Begotten Son Jesus Christ . GOD BLESS EVERYONE 🙏

[@ernestclark2362]

Wait, is there anyone who has lived more than 6 months on this earth who would really expect any of these basic things from others? Life will teach you pretty quickly that you are not the center of the universe. Grow up!

[@GigaChad_169]

A lot of narcissists have these expectations and many of us have to live amongst them and try to protect ourselves from their destructive mentalities. This video helped to validate what most of us already know instinctively in some cases but have been challenged on almost a daily basis by people with warped views of others.

[@l.w.paradis2108]

​@@GigaChad_169 Exactly. Only someone with serious psychological or cognitive issues would expect these things. First graders are already the path not to expect them, especially if they have younger brothers or sisters.

[@l.w.paradis2108]

This video is so lame. No one _literally_ expects any of these things, and it's an insult to say so. But worse than that, it's misleading about how basic communication works. Take the first one: you expect someone to agree with you sometimes, in particular cases, such as when you can provide them good reasons for why they should. If in response to your reasons, that person said, "you can't expect me always to agree with you," that's a non-sequitur. What would your reaction be? You'd assume they were reacting to something other than the matter at hand -- maybe they are still unhappy about the last time you insisted that they agree with you, WITHOUT your providing them with a good reason. And . . . You'd probably be right. Not rocket science!! 😒

[@h7opolo]

A lot of this doesn't apply to systemic governmental neglect.

[@hikerhobby1204]

Please help me to understand your comment, please. Why would we need attention from the government?

[@h7opolo]

@@hikerhobby1204 there's this false notion of "law enforcement".

[@hikerhobby1204]

@@h7opolo Ah, I see.

[@blueaqua2122]

This video is nonsense. A lot of do this to get that in return. Newsflash, people won't return your energy no matter what you do. Learned this the hard way.

[@elinadragomirescu6449]

Whaat?