Hello ladies! Thank you for watching! Just in response to a few questions regarding sneakers; sneakers can look elegant (depending on which ones and how you wear them). I'll film a video on this topic very soon❤
@Ruthie4j4 ай бұрын
Please film a video about earrings too
@SimmomsCaramanica3 ай бұрын
I know people who own so many really luxury brands, but they live in their mom's house. I own a house, drive a Lexus, and I do buy stuff *hotdups* to put money in my pocket.
@kimyoung18012 ай бұрын
Trying to find the logic behind your blouses and dresses being too small. In this video your buttons are stressed and there is a gap indicating it should be at least two sizes larger for a smooth and elegant fit to accommodate the bust size. In the previous video about shoes, in the blue outfit your bust area looks like melons forced into a can. Mom says a proper fitting bra and clothes are also required for an elegant look. When clothes fit properly, they won’t add weight to your appearance or look cheap. Just a few observations for the future.
@chisomsam-obasi26732 ай бұрын
Hey ma’am not me watching your vlog and randomly seeing my call to bar pictures. 😅 run me my coinsss
@chisomsam-obasi26732 ай бұрын
We should definitely do some collaborations too.
@denisedaniel93814 ай бұрын
Thank you for your content. I am grateful for my mother as well, who lived to by 91. I am now a retired teacher. God has allowed me to be an Evangelist and teacher at my church. My mother taught me how to dress and present myself in banking 20 yrs., General Motors 3 yrs, 20 yrs. teaching. God has been very good.
@Nuhakikialeesha4 ай бұрын
I started my journey of elegance and I am learning a lot from you. Thank you ❤❤❤
@talktothehandreviews4 ай бұрын
Wow, what a great idea!! Thank you for making sense of the shoe question!!
@StacieBussey4 ай бұрын
One i would add is a pair of nude pumps..or a color that matches your skin tone.. they are very dressy and go with any color
@CynthiaSteele-o2g4 ай бұрын
I agree!!!❤
@rosahacketts16684 ай бұрын
'Nude' does not mean pale pink - in fact when the term was first used there was an uproar - even Michelle Obama woke the fashion industry abouts its use.
@doll.ov.poetrii46824 ай бұрын
@@rosahacketts1668 I also hate that "nude" automatically translates into "white" basically. The undertones to the term are overtly racist; as if that's the default of what everyone looks, or even looks close too when they're nude. My skin is deep brown, And every time I shop for nudes (makeup, shoes, undergarments, etc.) the sales ladies bring me something beige and I just look at them like 😑🙄🤦🏿♀️
@StacieBussey4 ай бұрын
@@doll.ov.poetrii4682 I'm sorry you've had problems in finding a nude shoe to match your skin tone. I've seen nude shoes come in a variety of different skin tones before. If you search on the internet you can find different shades of nude
@SimmomsCaramanica3 ай бұрын
I have $5000 and would rather buy *hotdups* and deposit $4,500 into my bank account
@esthermutua12874 ай бұрын
Thanks alot for this informative message notes taken much love from Kenya 🇰🇪🇰🇪
@ruthaimwaura18054 ай бұрын
I love her advice.
@zolambithi57864 ай бұрын
Kumbe tuko wengi
@esthermutua12874 ай бұрын
Indeed 😊@@zolambithi5786
@perismkala42754 ай бұрын
We're here too love from 🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪
@winfredgichanga5410Ай бұрын
Tuko hapa
@Thelotus20204 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for this Video. I am in a mission to get comfortable and elegant shoes
@marcelleydile13874 ай бұрын
Vivien may the Lord bless you for your contents ! 🎉🎉 I'm naturally class & royal... & I aknowledge that your channel is the place I belong!... keep it up !!!
@Ancient-Naga-Serpent4 ай бұрын
Can you do a video on bags for the elegant woman? Thanks.
@nanaajoa61684 ай бұрын
Hahhahaaha, Vivienne, you made me laugh when i heard you mention your Ghanaian Akan name. Thank you for making us proud. A Nigerian friend just asked me if you were a Ghanaian and I gladly mentioned YES. Ayekooo!!!!
@doll.ov.poetrii46824 ай бұрын
❤️🙏🏿🇬🇭
@obengjemima64774 ай бұрын
I’m so happy to hear she is a Ghanaian.I’m a Ghanaian as well🇬🇭
@wandaparker36814 ай бұрын
Thank you!!! I was looking for new fall shoes. So, a pair of "Oxfords" and some tall black boots just made the list. Also, I wanted to say I adore your new hair style. It's classy without being matronly. And it really shows off your fantastic facial features 😊🙇♀️
@debbiedorsey23714 ай бұрын
Great tips! Thank you!
@HeidiAusDenBergen-4 ай бұрын
My top multi purpose shoes are BOATSSHOES! They’re super versatile: -in summer barefoot and breathable -in spring and fall with a nice looking pair of high unicolor socks -they give sporty touch to elegant outfits -they elevate jeans onto an elegant level -very long lasting as it’s leather - and most importantly they are super comfortable for long days With this shoe you’re prepared for all situations coming up
@talktothehandreviews4 ай бұрын
Good idea! Boat shoes def look upscale and versatile!
@ToluliciousKitchen4 ай бұрын
Beautiful upload! I enjoyed watching it. Kudos 👍
@smores89824 ай бұрын
I have all of these shoes 🙌 indeed very elegant!
@reelmermaid88444 ай бұрын
Thank you for another wonderful update Miss Vivienne. I've been watching your channel for some time now and I'm so pleased with how the channel has grown, as well as your loveliness. Best wishes and cheers from Canada!
@AlwaysLearning20244 ай бұрын
Love your channel it’s not over the top and gets straight to the point. You are naturally beautiful and elegant. No botox, fillers or all that extra stuff ❤❤❤
@daisylee2984 ай бұрын
Love your selections, thank you!
@janicechung49453 ай бұрын
TFS. This is a very practical list. The only thing I'd pass on are the Oxfords....no shade to anyone who loves them but I don't find them cute at all! They give me more of a masculine vibe to me. The only 1 I've ever seen that didn't look too masculine are the half black/half white ones. I'm getting into flats a bit now because the car park at my job somehow ends up damaging the material of my preferred patent heels, so I try to have a pair to wear up to my building. One tip I'd add based on what I've discovered since wearing flats is, if you're a lover of heels because you have a high arch type instep and heels just fit better, get a nice pair of flats that are beautiful but not as structured. I've found that the ones that are very structured and hard leaves a space where your high instep is and causes it to look a bit unsightly but it also puts more pressure on the middle of your feet. Something a bit softer with the same nice, clean lines mold more closely yo your feet so there is no space shown and your weight still feels evenly distributed.
@flushthecatnip3 ай бұрын
I like these suggestions, I'm in the process of revamping my style but dont want to spend a ton of $ by buying a lot of things I don't need, at least not right now. Oxfords were my favorite from this list, I love a good, cute oxford ❤ I can always add more cute things along the way. I don't mind wearing the same 8 or 9 outfits and few pairs of shoes for a few months.
@janemunene94074 ай бұрын
Awesome insights. Like it from Kenya
@elizabethpace15914 ай бұрын
Love these types of shoes 🙂🌺
@naimatayo83004 ай бұрын
Darling you look absolutely gorgeous and elegant wearing your natural hair 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
@mjaygeorge79282 ай бұрын
Your accent alone us just it for me ma'am. I love how put together you look and sound. Thank you for this beautiful session.
@rosecouch73434 ай бұрын
Thank you! Great advice.
@abigailtetteh57164 ай бұрын
Thank you ma'am. You look great as always 😊
@annettefromhage255429 күн бұрын
Nice video. I will run from anyone who tries to force a pair of wedges or slippers on me. But I'm all for quality ballet flats, a classic riding boot or an elegant ankle boot. The Oxfords are lovely as well as a nice boat shoe.
@janetannisette59654 ай бұрын
Good advice Vivian, and thank god there is no scandalous prolonged laughter like some other person with no glass.
@fibergoddess14 ай бұрын
EXCELLENT!!! 👏🏽💜
@AMothersPurposeToInspire17 күн бұрын
Fantastic! Thank you for the information.
@sanvikabestwishe174 ай бұрын
Hi vivien you looks amazing. Luv the necklace
@Ruthie4j4 ай бұрын
Great video, thank you so much Vivian.
@gmakriyianakis2 ай бұрын
Beautiful selection. Thank you
@MargaretMilne-li2bt3 ай бұрын
I use my *yutulu* as a work bag and have had no issues at all. It’s a comfortable bag, fits a good amount and hadn’t lost its shape. With that being said, I also take care of all my bags and don’t carry a water bottle, pens, keys or anything that can damage the interior.
@ameryek.96074 ай бұрын
❤❤❤ Shoes are the basis, literally & figuratively, of a person's 😅look. Good expensive shoes + inexpensive clothes = good. The opposite, not good. Court shoes are so called because they were required at courts. That's all. Those very high heels - stilletoes- are costly & difficult to wear. Fisherman sandals & mary janes, if well-made, may be worn by nearly everyone.
@FrenchEssieNails3 ай бұрын
Great tips! Especially on choosing flats with a heel so they won’t wear out as fast
@peppercat81884 ай бұрын
Thank you for your insights.
@camilaecheverry59084 ай бұрын
Hello Vivian, would you consider a video on elegant jewellery ? I’d love your opinion on that particular topic. 🤍✨🤍✨🤍
@romybrater13534 ай бұрын
I couldn't agree more. You are right on point 😊
@rosahacketts16684 ай бұрын
Got all except Oxford and over the knee high-heel boots - not keen on them. Great upload though.
@MargaretMilne-li2bt3 ай бұрын
I got a *yutulu* ,Korean made, Jimmy Choo. It is 20 years old and still looks great.
@augustaluch73544 ай бұрын
Thank you so much Better Vivienne
@anitamoses40713 ай бұрын
Interesting video I learned a lot about what kind of shoes women needs in the closet and at different occasion to wear ❤❤❤
@Rodney-z8j4 ай бұрын
Good choices.
@LiaBunny934 ай бұрын
Love You! 💌💌
@Prettystyles4772 ай бұрын
Very good informative video thanks for sharing with us❤🎉
@Nancy-nx9cf4 ай бұрын
I think a video on earrings should come. I feel that every woman should have basic pearl studs and 1/2" simple gold hoops. Costume jewelry screams cheap no matter what anyone has paid for them.
@parishers63514 ай бұрын
Not all of us got our ears pierced as children or even adult. It’s not a need.
@edennis85784 ай бұрын
@@parishers6351You don't need pierced ears to wear earrings. I wore clip on earrings for years. Earrings are a finishing touch to your appearance for which there is no adequate substitute. As Emily Cho put it, earrings are to a woman what a tie is to a man. But earrings are more versatile.
@edennis85784 ай бұрын
I disagree about costume jewelry. It depends on how it's made. I've had real jewelry that people assumed was costume and quite a lot of costume jewelry that people assumed was real. Glued in stones are a give away, even if the item cost hundreds of dollars. On the other hand, silvertone jewelry can many times pass for real silver, white gold, or platinum. You have to pay attention to things like clasps; cheap looking clasps downgrade everything.
@Ruthie4j4 ай бұрын
Thank you
@aaliyahalicia83834 ай бұрын
@@parishers6351it may not be of a need to you but others do need it don't be selfish
@tinychebani16964 ай бұрын
Thanks for the video ❤
@rosaschmitt4379Ай бұрын
🙏 you are so elegant!
@minmin-zo7im10 күн бұрын
thanks you
@esselembalayabassienne41712 ай бұрын
Oh I taugh you were Nigerian, but you're Camerounian🇨🇲. So happy to know your channel ❤❤❤
@Cecilia_Njoroge4 ай бұрын
Spot on
@chidokudzipanga50792 ай бұрын
thank you so much . i do enjoy yr videos em learning a lot
@enojemz4 ай бұрын
Let’s talk jewelry and accessories next please
@augustaluch73544 ай бұрын
@@enojemz I think she has a video on that. You can check out her page. You might find it
@remnantlove17164 ай бұрын
The best shoes to wear are the shoes of the gospel of peace. Ephesians 6:14 ❤
@MrJesuschristlord4 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂. Great
@JenniferBrown-.8.8.83 ай бұрын
@@MrJesuschristlordO how I gracefully say Amen in Jesus 🙏🇯🇲💜🤣
@JenniferBrown-.8.8.83 ай бұрын
@remnantlove1617🦅🦅🦅O how I gracefully say AMEN,GODS name be RAISED & PRAISED 🙏💕🇯🇲
@chizurumeboh45773 ай бұрын
Hahaha
@lindadelalifiasam58783 ай бұрын
😂😂😂❤❤❤❤❤❤
@wandaparker36814 ай бұрын
I'm hoping when you have the time... If you'll discuss outerwear such as coats and or jackets. With 90 degree days, I know some will find that useless. However, for me and most budget minded Ladies, it'll give us a leg up on what's the best investment for our money. Coat, all weather coat, ectra. Oh, yeah scarf or hood?
@G_Galore2 ай бұрын
I agreed with everything but the wedges 😂 no shade to anyone else, I’ve just never been a wedge girl
@robbiediles42423 ай бұрын
This was very helpful thank you😊
@victoriamatovu60644 ай бұрын
Thank u dear. Much love from Uganda.
@berakhahwomensministries66904 ай бұрын
She looks stunning
@nantalerahmah31383 ай бұрын
Wow, thank you so much.
@ElmerMclellan2 ай бұрын
Very beautiful *yutulu* bag . Thnx for helping to make this beautiful video for us gucids。
@boifavour17203 ай бұрын
Thanks ma'am ❣️
@masiboleahesther17023 күн бұрын
I love this you need to do one about ear rings
@liliannekesa86433 ай бұрын
Thankyou somuch madam viviene❤
@newwineskin54944 ай бұрын
I love oxford shoes,super sytlish with stockings..❤❤❤ but my legs are wide feet, so i cannot dare wear them.😂
@angellawalker49484 ай бұрын
Hi Vivienne what about a pair of sneakers also?
@denisedixon91462 ай бұрын
No doubt, allstars/chucks/converse
@bolavictory81714 ай бұрын
Thank you very much 🤝 ❤
@priscillaofori99834 ай бұрын
So you’re Ghanaian ? I really love your videos waooow 😘
@Elizabeth-fm2tf3 ай бұрын
Thanks!
@WomanOfElegance3 ай бұрын
Thank you😊❤️
@LOUEARLshoesАй бұрын
We have some great classic footwear designed by me. 😘
@phylis39172 ай бұрын
Always chic sis👏🏿
@atherinekalyati77784 ай бұрын
❤ the video. But what about snickers
@1MsParham4 ай бұрын
I never received my elegance handbook after following the instructions on your website. Hope to receive that soon.
@WomanOfElegance4 ай бұрын
My apologies! Please send an email to info@womanofelegance.com where this issue will be sorted for you
@lindaamponsah16183 ай бұрын
Wow..a Ghanaian..
@KAPEGINORAH3 ай бұрын
Thanks dear ❤❤❤
@viviandankwahnyarko3116Ай бұрын
You are my name ooo Vivian Abena❤
@veeboogie23563 ай бұрын
I love the champagne color sandal.
@catherinematabi41382 ай бұрын
I like your channel ❤
@Ever_Winning4 ай бұрын
Love your blazer. very chic. Wouldn't mind knowing where it is from.
@הילהקובו-ו6ל3 ай бұрын
THANK YOU
@nadiamaameboamah31742 ай бұрын
Beautiful
@pinkpetals_073 ай бұрын
Hi there! I’m in high school but still like to be elegant. I only have blouses, skirts of different patterns and textures and a few staple pieces and about three shoes I wear on a daily rotation with my favorite pair being black penny loafers. I’m hoping to find knee length black suede boots for the winter. Does anyone have recommendations?
@sophiearshi27694 ай бұрын
I always try to dress timeless and classic , but sometimes I feel I am boring and feel old . any tips???
@doll.ov.poetrii46824 ай бұрын
It may not be your aesthetic or it may be your aesthethic but you may belong to a different category of it. For example, you have classics/elegants that are more edgy, artsy, romantic or modest. It's still classic/elegant, but it's a different layer to it. You can find many examples of this online. Also, my biggest tip as someone who doesn't dress classic (I'm a boho-chic romantic beachy woman), is to not be afraid of color or prints and pay attention to necklines and hemlines. You can dress classic/elegant and still have a solid hot pink trench coat or a blouse with a pattern in your closet. If you are petite, some hemlines can make you look frumpy and certain necklines don't suit all feminine figures. Learning what your undertones are and your body type can help you make your wardrobe more flattering and fun. Try not to put yourself into a box, an elegant woman is an elegant woman because she's elegant in decorum; her pearls and blouses are just the cherry on top. There are many fashion styles like boho, gothic, eclectic, preppy, etc. a style quiz online can help you determine what's best. i hope this helps!☺️❤️
@Thatgirl12-fp3uq4 ай бұрын
Look for classic hobbies
@sophiearshi27694 ай бұрын
@@doll.ov.poetrii4682 Thank you 🙏
@philomenakaschana33144 ай бұрын
Thank you.
@florencemuya28034 ай бұрын
❤
@Bloom_n_Blossom2 ай бұрын
1. Court Pump 2. Flats - Open toes, block heels, loafers, invest in 1 inch thuck 3. Oxford shoes 4. Strappy sandals- naked 5. Slippers- the straps cover 6. Wedges 7. Boots - good leather -4 inches 8. Flat over the knee boots 9. Knee high boots 10. Party shoes
@Cjones12Ай бұрын
I see you haven’t posted in a while, but I really enjoy the content so far and would like to subscribe. Hopefully you’ll post again soon. I’d love to hear your thoughts about jewelry and other accessories.
@WomanOfEleganceАй бұрын
New Video tomorrow my dear❤️
@Cjones12Ай бұрын
@@WomanOfElegance yay! Subscribed ❤️
@veeboogie23563 ай бұрын
I love my Oxford shoes with a dress. 3:46
@skylaellisАй бұрын
Hey Twin!
@ingreedralph15214 ай бұрын
Hi Vivian How about over 60 can’t wear heals “ stilettos” what would suggest for a evening gown. Great advice for Torbay can wear heals.❤
@RachealJoy-tu2vzАй бұрын
Where to find them??
@janiceodalo63453 ай бұрын
Please for those of us that have wide feet which type of shoes can we wear.
@ByseJoerg3 ай бұрын
One of my wealthy coworkers collects *yutulu* bags, but because she’s dressed to the nines from head to toe, no one would think her bags are fake!
@kathybuerk79944 ай бұрын
What if you are already almost 6 feet tall and feel very uncomfortable wearing heels? What would you recommend as alternatives?
@WomanOfElegance4 ай бұрын
Short block heels are great. Loafers too💙
@parishers63514 ай бұрын
s long as you don’t get corns on your toes in the name of elegance. I am a modest, but elegantly dressed woman. I do wear beautiful shoes that won’t create corns by being too vain in the ones where all my toes are squished together.
@CynthiaSteele-o2g4 ай бұрын
I agree…❤
@vivian86393 ай бұрын
Madam Abena, from Ghana, right
@aaliyahalicia83834 ай бұрын
I don't know if it's only me seeing that sometimes Vivian looks like the late Aaliyah ❤
@Irene-f9hАй бұрын
Thanks so much bby
@ElmerMclellan2 ай бұрын
*yutulu* is your partner in young people’s fashion journey