11 Big Red Flags in Unhealthy Relationships | Sadie Robertson Huff & Lysa TerKeurst

[@brightpage1020]

Another new book?!? Wow! This woman is prolific!! I can't wait to read this. "I want to trust you, but I don't" = heavy!! Whoooaaaow.

[@kelseyfisher6759]

I live in Alaska! And I’ve been struggling with loneliness. I’ve been struggling to give up my old life, simply feeling stuck in the middle between having left and abusive marriage, and not knowing how to be alone and happy by myself, or even knowing how to move on, thank you so much for your conversation today. This was exactly what I needed to hear…I hope to heal the same way you did ❤

[@lovelysade]

I’m 16:) this is so good to hear, and just remembering how good God is. God is good and he is made strong through our weakness!❤️

[@irenecruz8240]

I love this conversation-Thank you Lysa - "Sitting in uncertainty"... "Letting God direct"... it's so real, but there's so much of God in it all! I have had a similar journey. Keep pressing on with Jesus! God bless you Sadie and your family!

[@Ckrissy013]

35:39 RIGHT HERE! “Present day decrement or a trigger from past pain” that’s the same issue I have but I couldn’t find the words to explain it!!! That’s sooo good! I’ve always loved Lysa but I love her 10xs more now!

[@nikkinicole9047]

I’m so grateful for this podcast today. I’m currently in a season of marriage with the red flags and God has been by me helping get through this since I’m not able to leave yet. I’m working on myself while getting closer to God while I wait.

[@delle3955]

Yes!🙏🏾

[@Newtonwilson-yw4kg]

Every relationship experiences challenges, but there is always a way to progress. My marriage was tested by significant problems, but with appropriate help, my wife and I worked through them and strengthened our bond. Solutions are available if you’re ready to put in the effort and work together. Stay hopeful-there’s always a way.

[@BruceKnapp-n4q]

I’m struggling with significant issues in my relationship and can't imagine losing her. I love and miss her so much, and I’m prepared to do anything to bring her back into my life. I’d be very thankful for any help or advice you could offer.

[@Newtonwilson-yw4kg]

Parting with someone you love is always a challenging process, but in my experience, I had the guidance of a spiritual guide who prevented my marriage from collapsing. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.

[@BruceKnapp-n4q]

I appreciate your direction. I'll swiftly look her up online. Thanks. I'm hopeful that following this course of action will bring about positive changes for me too; her absence is deeply felt.

[@Newtonwilson-yw4kg]

Welcome... You should

[@lynnrickert1]

If you are BOTH willing.

[@sydneesmith5226]

This podcast was such a blessing. I’m going through a divorce and felt a lot of things that she felt as well. The Lord knew I needed this ❤

[@Jeanie406]

Praise God. Thank you Jesus for being so beautiful❤️

[@channel-surfer]

I love that Sadie seeks wisdom not just from her peers, but men and older women. That is why she is so wise herself.

[@sheilamynatt1180]

This is so so good!! I admire Lysa so much for being so being so honest, vulnerable, and willing to share the knowledge she has learned in her difficult walk through therapy!! Thank you Lysa and thank you Sadie for this conversation!!

[@myheartHislove]

I really needed this. Thanks for being real, Lysa. I've been in "the thick of it" and hurting still, bigtime. Both yours and Sadie's words (and realness) soothed me tonight. Thx for the much needed encouragement!

[@bethqcarpenter7612]

I’m 46 and this episode was full of so much knowledge and hope. I always enjoy Lysa’s writings. I am so thankful she has a heart to share with other women tough matters that sometimes the church does not address because they are “taboo” Thank you Lysa and thank you Sadie for this episode.

[@andrearush6209]

Thank you for this convo. It is life-giving right now.

[@noelmardikian7614]

This episode is gold!!!🙌🏼 I’m so grateful for this advice, and continue my healing journey!!!

[@vickibrittain9202]

Immediately after watching this podcast, I purchased the audio book! So good!

[@jennifersanchez6166]

❤ love Lisa’s honesty and how relatable she is! Love her!

[@Shesbirdiee9882]

Timely profound words!!! God is so Good❤ May God use y'all more and more to the ends of the Earth!! Sending love from India ❤

[@ireenmachira4008]

Wow! Finally I'm first to comment here. About to learn, excited!

[@dachater1]

Lysa has walked through the fire and her life really does bring hope to so many woman. Thanks for staying the course Lysa ❤

[@satxgrl]

thank you SO much for this. Letting God direct and trusting God! ❤❤

[@vanessagilbert9591]

I needed this!!!!!! 😫 (ugly crying!!)

[@venanciasandin6475]

Whoa, what a wonderful podcast with 2 strong beautiful women I look up to. Thank you both for sharing encouragement and your knowledge.

[@ivanaowona9146]

Whoa that was so good !

[@katlynnalcorn3309]

I love this! Thank you so much for this ❤️❤️

[@jojomartineztx]

Incredible wealth of value in this vid.

[@lorraineswack9377]

Love this….. ❤…. I’m just finishing up her bible study “Forgiving What You Can’t Forget “ at my church and it’s awesome….. thank you thank you thank you😊

[@brookemcintyrenc]

So much truth in this podcast🙏

[@throughfaithandgrace2970]

Definitely need to listen to this one!!!!!! ❤

[@itennis2010]

Thank you for this episode, I have been in therapy for the past 6 months.

[@sarahpotter9825]

My two favorite authors ❤

[@stephaniegindling]

I was able to see Lysa last year in Louisville Ky - i had a 29 year marriage , we were involved in ministries when he came out as a homosexual . I feel so much of everything your saying your an amazing woman . God bless you thank you and i cant wait to get your book 💕💕💕💕🙏🏼🙏🏼🥰

[@danilaroche1156]

My ex husband was bi. The other, a drug addicted womanizer. Two divorces. My adult children have completely abandoned me. Lonely is hard. No car. No transportation. Have to soon to church.

[@danilaroche1156]

Zoom

[@alysonstewart-davis7765]

Love this!! So good! Now I need to follow her podcast

[@katythebeauty330]

I saw her live in church one day. Excited to watch this video when I get the chance!

[@jesusisthelordofall4715]

Love these ladies ❤❤

[@unapologeticallyromel7096]

Good video thanks for allowing God use you

[@gdawgpaveng15]

This is so good! My friend could use this advice….she’s in an unhealthy relationship but she doesn’t realize it. I can’t help her because she won’t listen to anyone, including her family. He’s borderline narcissistic but she’s kind of blind to this. She believes that can change and that he has changed. idk.

[@dionnejoseph]

If I acn offer advice having been n the position of ur friend. Pray for her n b there for her when the inevitable fallout happens.

[@deesandra-ik1iu]

That is so good. I feel like you’re telling my story. ❤

[@kellilongfellow587]

So so good!

[@katythriftyunder35homeowne57]

Thank you for sharing her story ❤️

[@stephacosta31]

Wow this is so so helpful thank ❤

[@plantlife1615]

Love this thank you lysa. God bless you ❤

[@Solodolo18]

I love you Sadie imma. See you very soon thank you God amen amen amen 🙏

[@RubyTheCloser]

Thank you❤❤

[@SamuelIrakoze-s2u]

Watching you all the way from Burundi Easter africa

[@markwojo727]

You definitely have bloomed to a social Butterfly who knew lol but you do great keep up preaching love your work for God

[@nonamekoolkat]

Lysa has been such a blessing to my life through her books and KZbin videos. I'm so, so, happy for her!!

[@lanihill5471]

So good ❤

[@GretchenHoechner]

Reactions like that are from unhealed trauma. You have to heal that part of your nervous system and no, your therapist is right, it is not a one size fits all formula. It’s a process and root healing requires intentionality and a lot of patience and it can take a long time depending on the level of trauma. Your body keeps the score, you can’t think yourself out of this one.

[@starburstsolaris6805]

Thru it all, thru it all I learnt to trust in Jesus I learnt to trust in God Thru it all,.thru it all I learnt.to depend.upon.His Word.

[@LisaHerbstreit11531]

Whoa did I need to watch this podcast…thx to (FBI agent) Sadie Rob for pitching the “softballs” & for Lysa to share her wisdom “bases loaded home run”. And yes, gonna go dive into this new book maybe even see if Lysa’s tour is still on that I could catch her in person ❤🥰🔆

[@Gabriellamariaaa]

hello, im seeking help and prayer.. i’m in a really tough season.. and i’m struggling, im beginning to recognize symptoms of depression. i’m trying my best to be grateful and lift up prayers of thanksgiving because that’s what God deserves. (i am blessed! so i feel guilty for complaining and for feeling sad) please keep me in your prayers. thank you.

[@SimplyCubing-gx9ow]

“Jesus wept” The Bible does state that Jesus wept- he was sad but while he wept and was sad he was there praying to the Father. It is okay to feel sad- feel sad and pray to God through it- he is there he wants to comfort you and be in it with you But don’t forget that he has overcome this world. you don’t need to feel guilty about feeling sad- but what are you going to do about the sadness? Walk with God through it and also be looking at others and how you can help them :) praying

[@judyparker148]

I loved this podcast, but, am I missing something as I didn't hear the 11 big red flags?

[@marthapetty1008]

I think we need to buy her book 😯

[@jesusisthelordofall4715]

Lysa, you look absolutely beautiful!!!

[@danilaroche1156]

The host is a people pleaser. For REAL.

[@kimfinstad9973]

Yep same journey. 25 yrs but alcoholism and cheating then 18 mos separation but the whole time he lived with her secretly but strung me along. He also fried his liver and now needs a transplant … Jesus saves but we truly do need to let others realize their need for him.

[@LevisonOFFICIAL]

i still think its wild you married a childhood friend. i was on his fathers all star team. Grew up Knowing the Huff Family are good people !

[@andreamegec9836]

How old is she? She is really strong brave women

[@FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj]

Disfuction was my normal

[@jimmymartinez2585]

❤ u invite Kai trump 😅

[@tabbywaithera9112]

😅

[@StormSquires]

Put trackers in there shoes something. High profile public figures are more likely to have someone kidnapped and held for ransom vs the general public. Proven facts. Anything I commented on like the fund. Were from personal experience. What some people will do to others is devastating like when I got shot on a job by a coworker he as well poisoned my water well. Nobody should have this happen ever. This is why why speak its the truth.

[@StormSquires]

Track your kids trust your spouse. It will end it in a heart beat in having the availability to put dout in your mind it being a serpent.

[@GodGivenGrit]

❣

[@creativedesignsbyj]

Where do you go for a brain scan and what kind of testing do we ask for?

[@DevinVennard]

Does Jesus require no pattern to our mistakes to give us grace?

[@daughterofthemosthigh3366]

Lysa is a sweet person and is well-spoken. The exception clause in Matthew is actually NOT an exception clause. The book of Matthew was written to the Jews, and they practice the betrothal custom. Think of Joseph and Mary. When Joseph learned that Mary was pregnant, he planned to 'put her away.' The angel spoke to him and we know the rest. This occurred while they were betrothed. The other 3 gospels do NOT mention this custom or so called 'exception clause.' The one flesh marriage covenant is for life. Only death breaks the covenant! Cheating 'violates' the marriage covenant. So Lysa is in adultery if her first marriage was a first for each of them. If her current partner is divorced, she is violating their covenant and he is violating hers. I do not want the devil to win in any person's life. If she does not repent, she will not see heaven. When people share about a 'remarriage' on big platform like Sadie's channel, this misleads so many people into thinking remarriage is okay. It is not. Mark 10: 11-12 11 He answered, “Anyone who divorces his wife and marries another woman commits adultery against her. 12 And if she divorces her husband and marries another man, she commits adultery.” This is just one of the many verses that addresses adultery.

[@virtual240]

Ok Sadie. You aren't qualified to talk about unhealthy relationships. You were blessed with good looks, born into a rich family, and have a successfull career. I'm 39 years old, never had a girlfriend or had a career, and in severed debt. I would go to great lenths to look & have a career like you.

[@jaydahstone9913]

just because someone is “blessed with good looks, born into a rich family, and has a successful career” does NOT mean people don’t go through hard LIFE things. bad things happen to everyone no matter their looks or wealth. it’s just the way life works.

[@FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj]

I don't know how to sit with myself and l don't like it

[@thewaychurch8091]

2 Corinthians 5:10 (KJV) For we must all appear before the judgment seat of Christ; that every one may receive the things done in his body, according to that he hath done, whether it be good or bad. By YISRAEL aka JESUS CHRIST

[@StormSquires]

Its good to practice public speaking by going outside and rebuking the devil and casting evil out with your hands. Speak loud and close your eyes tight and talk like your talking to god because Jesus and germs are everywhere. O and look and read about his signs

[@thewaychurch8091]

IF NO ONE CAN COME TO MY FATHER BUT THROUGH ME, SO WHEN DID I ORDAINED YOU TO BE A PREACHER ??????? PARABLE by KING MESSIAH

[@ilovesketching1]

Has anyone ever wondered of how her X husband feels when he constantly hears that Lysa speaks of what he did in the past a lot of shame. Perhaps he is a broken man ? Or worse that her kids that are growing up maybe experiencing the same. Of hearing her Rehearse the pain . In the sake of trying to help others to not feel alone in their pain. When we Rehearse public constantly when is it time to disperse 😮

[@RCGWho]

It's too much psychology with a warped view of boundaries. It's getting old.

[@jennifersanchez6166]

Her ex is someone who repeatedly cheated on her knowing better than that… I think he is a grown man who can face the consequences of his actions!

[@tealpatt]

Maybe he should have thought of that before he chose to betray his wife, who happens to be a public figure or at least a woman who makes her living by speaking and writing publicly!

[@tealpatt]

Also, I'll add some unsolicited advice...praise king Jesus if you have never personally experienced this level of betrayal. I promise you... it is not for the faint of ❤

[@ilovesketching1]

@@tealpatt I have experienced painfully by the way of my ex betrayal. I just have learned that it’s just not healthy for the kids and family members as it is constantly hearing it being put out in the public (not to justify his actions) I need there is consequences but he who has not sin cast the first stone. I was just curious of what her ex maybe spiritually? As We are all on a journey as we live in a broken world. God is about restoration God does not treat us as our sins deserve or repay us according to our iniquities. As high as the heavens are above the earth, so great is his love for those who fear him, as far as the east is from the west, so far as he removed our transgressions from us. I pray that Lysa husband is in a place that he is repentant and that is all and I’m so thankful for Gods healing within me and my family ❤️‍🩹

[@starburstsolaris6805]

Sadie missing for some days?

[@krystalannbies3528]

I always get convicted by Lysa everytime she comes on the podcast.🫶🫶💛💛💛 last year it was the episode that helped me leave an abusive friendship.