11 SIGNS YOU’RE A SIGMA MALE (Women Love This!)

[@CoachMelannie]

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[@steledographics]

A few years ago, I discovered that I possess most of the Sigma male qualities & personality. It has helped me be more confident in my self identity as a man, my life decisions & what makes me tick. I don't like "titles" in general, yet being a Sigma male, intimidates people who are more co-dependent. I don't go out of my way to intimidate people, it just happens being me.

[@steledographics]

SIGMA "Paris" I enjoy watching your "goofy goober" bloopers at the end. 🤪🤣🥰

[@EatingMcDonald_burger]

Paris

[@cliveedharris1353]

Sigma male the world's greatest lovers and the woman love them very much 🌈🥰👈😃💯

[@cliveedharris1353]

My beautiful sweetheart eve she is beautiful and I'm so excited thank you for your tips and advice thank you 🌈😃👈

[@MrSoxfan4250]

I don’t ever need to “attract women” or “make people like me.” If it doesn’t happen, then great; if it does, then great.

[@Seanus32]

Yup, the take it or leave it approach :)

[@johnm8284]

1 Don't follow authority "just because" 2 Stay real to self 3 Don't require social recognition/attention 4 Good listener 5 Take charge of your life 6 Small circle of friends 7 Not Afraid to step out of the norm 8 Introvert 9 Quiet 10 Flexible 11 You are Genuine 12 Confidence typo fixed thanks.

[@JamshadAhmad]

3. Do you mean "Do not require"?

[@Rod_2E0RLR]

Wow i'm a yes to all of these!

[@thecrocandsweepshow611]

I easily meet 80%+ of theses. Yet still single and I see the opposite getting women queuing around the block for them?

[@078OG]

1 and 3 are in conflict with the rest of the list. Never follow authority and never try to conform to Social demands. Dont be a hypocrite.

[@jeromebarry1741]

1. I am pretty much all these points. 2. I doubt your conclusion. Because: If I were attractive to any woman, I'd know about a woman attracted to me.

[@BountyHunter439]

Real sigma males, never tell people, they are sigma.. we don't need validation from anyone Keep smiling, that never gets old

[@bubblesthechimp97]

The irony of saying you're a sigma male in this comment is hopefully not lost on others.

[@mattjolley5460]

​@@bubblesthechimp97I was going to make a similar comment, but you have it covered.

[@TanNhanVoCuc]

Nhưng khi họ là sigma và "nói" (bằng 1 cách nào đó) rằng họ là sigma, họ cũng ko cần ai đồng tình hay xác nhận xem họ có phải sigma thật ko khi tự nói mình là sigma. Họ ko cần bạn xác nhận. Họ có thể là sigma trong các sigma, khái niệm sigma chỉ để họ nhận thức về nhóm những người như mình trên thế giới, ko phải để đóng khung hành vi của họ.

[@fakename8856]

Also real Sigmas are about 1 : 10,000 men and we never ever live in cities because we don’t like being around that many city people. If a woman wants to try to find the illusion Sigma start looking out of town.

[@darrenfoster5341]

A good point in normal circumstances but when used descriptively ad to forewarn some people look im this do this piss me off this eill happen. But that just might be me after coming out of a relationship where th a narcssst while I had a childhood trauma triggered which was narcissistic. But maybe that’s just me under current circumstances. I have no patience right now and I really don’t want the outcome. Until I can regain my calm.

[@granillog4691]

I am a very introverted LEO, LONE WOLF, SIGMA MALE, INTJ. I am very secretive and I only like to talk to someone who think like the way I think.

[@OrizellaWare]

My brother in Christ, you specifically need to speak to people who don't think like you do. How else are you going to grow?

[@shawnmcleod7231]

My dad died when I was 9. Joined Marines at 18. Change was constant for me. Adapt and overcome! And I don’t care what anyone thinks. I’m living life my way.

[@supamanlova9250]

You go man!

[@27pugsly]

That sounds more alpha

[@nigelchew1890]

Then why do you need to tell me?

[@sportsfan521]

Confused So u in military or ur father was?

[@lucienfournier5399]

"I don't care what anyone thinks" Are you sure? Then why did you write this message many times?

[@sungkim742]

One thing that Sigmas don't have are social media accounts.

[@willblackett4709]

WORD

[@kennethaguilar7595]

A sigma doesn’t need social media bc a sigma doesn’t seek validation. Social media is also a tool that if used correctly can bring wealth.

[@forestjohnson7474]

😂😂😂My ex was like" why don't you have all these".

[@misterx4253]

100% true 👍

[@justin_hvn3108]

i am simga and count hahahhahaha and indeed we are lone wolfs do not need social media

[@hasegawataizo4069]

Real sigmas don't care if women find it hot, or not.

[@roman_kofyno]

Yep.

[@drlarrymitchell]

A true sigma isn't looking, and doesn't want to be found.

[@forestjohnson7474]

Yep, all I need is myself, found that out years ago.

[@roman_kofyno]

Indeed.

[@smakyew]

People don’t understand sigma males. That’s one reason we are lone wolves. Relationships are hard because we are “disconnected”

[@kingofludostar9537]

Agreed!!

[@jorgenieto7608]

I can relate!

[@stigkenobi7525]

A sigma male wouldn't say he is a sigma. He wouldn't care. Which means you are not one. You are posing as one to try and be interesting - which is a beta male trait.

[@bobbyarnette1911]

Sigma males can feel a energetic pure love from a very small percentage of real godly women.

[@jas340]

Man, that was good! I just met her and got it

[@gaybear98]

One essential trait of what makes a Sigma is that we are are deep thinkers so it’s in our best interest to weigh the effects of being genuine or not. If we choose not to be, in most cases it shows emotional maturity.

[@justanothertrucker7856]

If you are weighing the effects of being genuine it just means you are not genuine nor authentic.

[@johnnyflannigan136]

You are a beta male dude

[@HawaiianBrian69]

@@justanothertrucker7856 no it means you are sensitive to other people's feelings and as we are all flawed, some more than others, it's better a lot of times to not tell somebody something that will not be constructive to their psyche. so now we know you are not a sigma.

[@thomashenshallhydraxis]

I am absolutely a sigma male, but I don’t let women get close to me anymore. Women always crush my spirit and take everything I own, then say I do nothing for them. I know my value and modern women are absolute monsters. Their is no pleasure in dating, it’s always a hardship.

[@jasonreimer4742]

Cuz your a beta?

[@datboi6066]

Going through a bad breakup with my first gf, your videos have been helping a lot. I trust that if I become the man I want to be god will give me the partner im looking for. Sincerely, thank you Melanie 🙏🏻🙏🏻❣

[@markfairbairn1769]

Paris!

[@franciscopietra]

At 62, sigma and good looking, it's incredible how the ladies of all ages hit on me. I love them all but most from a distance. I became very selective with time. Melanie would be all over me and asking questions.

[@Nelson-ok2jv]

I'm 61 confident Gemini man I walk on my own. Don't need to be seen or heard. I know I'm being looked at ,it doesn't bother me, I'm in control all the time

[@CLYDE-tk7kb]

I found this intensifying at the age of 70. It was for a while a bit "uncomfortable" until I met one young lady, that is a "perfect match"

[@productofbelgium]

A new follower here ! Finally someone who gives serious advice without those toxic mindgames . Thank you . Sigma !

[@spaceted3977]

I'm 100% Sigma, but I always felt like an Outcast !!!! I had lots of Girlfriends but I never got married or had children !!!! I never really knew why most women liked me very much !!!! But I love being on my own !!! I'm 68 years old and have my own place and 2 Dogs, and I couldn't be happier !!!! People have always not been able to understand me !!!! They think I'm very lucky but I just think before I do anything !!!! My 2 Dogs are my best friends and I don't want a Partner and I'm happy with no close friends !!!! Friends are always wanting money or want to borrow stuff and never give it back !!!! So I enjoy my stress free life and I don't regret still being single at all !!!!!

[@nicholaslindenmeyer6472]

!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@terrybrown3224]

You figured it out, no baggage, congrats your living well!

[@sidritkurti1173]

Sigma males are rare. The same stands for Sigma women. Hard to find each other out there.

[@andrewah15]

@spaceted3977 Power to you! Live long and live strong!

[@rms2raver]

nice one brother.. live life to the max and beyond.. as long as you feel happy. nothing else matters.. stay blessed..

[@sven_ampleforth]

Hi Coach Melannie!! The most surprising tip is: Being flexible. Somehow the routine give the feeling of success because you are walking on a "proven" path, and walking outside the path could make you anxious. Thanks for the tips. --------- Sure there are a lot of interesting places to visit in PARIS, but it would fun if you could find a store, a park or a company named SIGMA.

[@jimhester3731]

I just watched your video for the first time. I've watched many other videos on Sigms Males, and can say with confidence I'm a Sigma Male. One of the most frustrating things for me is people not understanding my personality (judging me). I look forward to watching more of your post. 😁

[@Lichfeldian--Suttonian]

I have recently discovered that I am a sigma. One of the reasons is that I don't answer to the authority of the dating and relationship culture. I just 'am', and that works for me. Having _my_ standards instead of the _authority's_ standards keeps me safe. Timshel!

[@IISCAFFII]

As a younger man, full of bravado (and aggression) I would have considered myself an “Alpha”, but now, as a middle aged man I very much believe I have transitioned to a Sigma - life experiences have turned me into one.

[@mtoddrosen6295]

Exactly same here.

[@eugenecrabs8622]

sorry to upset you, one cannot "transition" things like that. one either has it by nature, or not. 'cause this is genetically defined.

[@panama-red6916]

I think we are all of these things.. but throughout the years society kinda dictates how we should be around people. We are influenced by cinemas, we aspire to become someone else to the point that we forget to be our genuine selves.. took me years to understand this. Great video btw I'm a fan! Been dissecting your videos lately

[@christopherahler4674]

Paris! I just discovered you thanks to the topic. I think I'm a sigma male, which explains a lot regarding my desire for isolation and my ambitious pursuits. Thank you and Merry Christmas!

[@hamidyasamin]

I like the part where you say we don't have to confine ourselves as a specific type. A good man responds to challenges according to the conditions and will do what he thinks is appropriate regardless of what others may think. Happy Christmas Melannie, and hope to see you in PARIS 😊

[@-GrimEngineer-1337]

Just learned recently that I am apparently this new category, the Sigma. I've always been the lone-wolf contemplator who doesn't care what others think. I've been known to knock Alphas down a peg when I see them picking on others. This is truly interesting and explains a lot about why I have such a small inner circle and friends list.

[@boltonious]

love the sigma title, enjoy

[@danielokech]

Lol… Sigma males won’t even let people know they are sigma.

[@sethforesi307]

@@danielokech exactly 🤣

[@GoogleAccount-po1gl]

You and the whole comment section is this bullahit label sigma.. Self-proclaimed sigmas.

[@MrMockingbird1313]

Hey Melannie, I am Sigma. Most people around me thought I was a pain in gluteus. Even when I was 4 years old. I will be 67 in a few days. He are a couple points, based on my extensive experience. Sigmas are NOT introverts or extroverts, they are almost perfectly even. According to my results on the Myers Briggs analysis I am almost perfectly neutral. Usually I am slightly an ENTJ, but sometimes depending on my mood, the score comes out INTJ. The next thing about Sigma is emotional reactions. It is very hard to get our pulse up. After a few repetitions working with live high voltage my pulse stopped reacting. Stock market trades of several thousand dollars does not make much difference. Meeting a very beautiful woman helps raise my pulse a little. A point you did not mention is honesty. I think most Sigmas cannot tell lies very well. We tend to despise liars. And lastly, I have heard more confessions than Father O'Malley. Both men and women just tell me things they never said to anyone else. Often someone has said to me "I don't know why I'm telling you this, but..." True Sigmas are believed to be very rare. Perhaps less than 2 percent of all males. I believe the idea of Sigma in sports is way over stated. But, one player on a baseball team is Sigma. Guess who? He's the closer, in the 9th inning. So, just give me the ball, Coach.

[@Cecil_X]

The Myers-Briggs profile is all spectrum based. I am big time Sigma and I peg the introvert scale on the Myers Briggs test. I balance the "NTH" fairly well. However, keep in mind introvert is not shy. It simply means we think and process internally. We read a lot, get lots if information before making a decision, ask people questions in non-judgmental ways, in order to learn about them, etc. Interesting comment on the cardio pulse. My friends at work were betting on cardio measures. They outright told me I could not play. They were right. I would have clearly taken the pot (I participated in the measurement, I just could not bet). I also hear a ton of confessions, and I did not realize that was a sigma male thing.

[@MrMockingbird1313]

@@Cecil_X I believe you sound Sigma. My point was I am very slightly more extrovert, on most days. But, I think Sigma is almost neutral.

[@jorger7723]

Thank you for your comment. One comment on my part. I think she meant introvert date. You can be "neutral" but in a date a woman might see you as an "introvert".PARIS

[@NPSvideo678]

I think you’re right. Most people can’t believe I’m an introvert. It’s like I have a dual mode. A lot of people also tell me thinks when first meeting me. I’ve gotten used to it.

[@robert4you]

A true Sigma would never say he is Sigma. Period!

[@barrydanish6008]

I like your advice to not put yourself in a box, no matter what the advice. I qualify as sigma and liked hearing that being introverted can be a good quality, yet I have taken charge of my life and have learned how to come out of my shell when it might benefit me. I will continue watching your videos, you seem very real, and genuine. The fact that I like looking at you because you’re drop dead gorgeous doesn’t hurt!

[@arkhamkillzone]

Ever since I started following the Lord and reading his word I am seeing that all the sigma male traits mentioned define my character exactly. God changed me from the insecure and mentally unstable person that i used to be and restored my life and character to how it should be before I was rebelling against my Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ. The peace I have doesn't come from my self but it comes from him.

[@theobotha5043]

As a SIGMA,we place honesty,truth,ethics and high morals to live by.

[@robertgotschall1246]

I thoroughly enjoyed my college years, excellent social life, I found a wife, I even got my degree. But casual acquaintances were puzzled to learn that instead of attending University sporting events, or joining a fraternity, I spent my time with a bunch of fabulous furry freak brothers exploring caves and climbing mountains. However, on leaving college I somehow failed to get the memo and continued to live life my own way. Predictably, I failed to achieve notable success in corporate America or anything else. It's only recently, through discussions like this, that I learned that I may have a personality type that had little interest in that life style anyway. And that my “failure” wasn’t necessarily due to a pathological condition. I am gradually learning to be comfortable with my personal goals in life, but it's a work in progress.

[@NPC-fl3gq]

I don't value what the man next door has. It means virtually nothing to sigmas, so keeping up with the Joneses just ain't our thing.

[@Lights480]

Merry Christmas to all. May your good wish come true. It's amazingly good (and also surprising I'm a pure sigma male) to hear that I'm all the signs that you've mentioned. But, I still understand I'm all equipped with equally big flaws as well. Life is hard for me now, but I will try to improve to survive better.

[@stevenfridge4809]

Hi Coach Melanie. I pop in & out of your channel. This SIGMA one caught my attention. I’ve always be called a Silent Alpha & Passive-Aggressive. The funny this is I just leaned that there’s designated terms that suit this - Sigma & Ambivert. These two terms fit me very well, not 100%. The traits are strong. I’m turning 50 y/o, Empty-nester & starting to actually pay attention to ladies that flirt or I’m paying attention to. I’m AM taking advantage of my Salt & Pepper scruffy beard; it works. I’m looking forward to hearing more on these two traits. You’re FUN to watch & listen to. | SF

[@Old.School.Ronin.01]

Yeah same. Perhaps women in "Paris" will not.

[@nikkingman]

You're using the word passive aggressive incorrectly.

[@dansamuelson6689]

Paris - I am curious when the Sigma personality type description became part of the language, in the past these same personality types were described in the Myers-Brigs personality type as INTJ. It is a pretty rare personality type and you are born INTJ, you can't learn it and you can't unlearn it either. You can however learn to tone it down a bit when you marry a really good woman that can civilize the uncivilizable.

[@joepstevenson]

Thanks Melanie. Knowing this is really comforting 🙂

[@proverbalizer]

I 100% agree with you about the box. Let you identity come from deep knowledge of self, not any label from society. I don't like being boxed in at all (which ironically is a sigma trait) so when I randomly clicked on a sigma video, I was almost a bit annoyed how spot on most of the description was.

[@emanuelmakonnen72]

Thank you Melannie! Thinking for yourself is so important.

[@ModernDatingMastery]

*Being a sigma male is all about confidence and independence, traits that truly draw women in.*

[@anti-Russia-sigma]

Sigmas are also assertive males that occupy a position outside of social groups/hierarchy.

[@geschwarz]

I never thought I would ever hear anything about my personality type. But when I heard the description if Sigma I was blown away. They are discribing ne exactly. I am 64, btw. Anyways, there are about three things that all of them are missing in general, or about me in particular. They are exceptionally candid and communicative with their partner. They are very creative. They do talk about this, but they don’t stress it as much as it should be. Third, and this is the biggie, and none of them have noticed this. Sigmas are in touch with their feminine side. That means they are balanced and are very empathetic and connect well with women, and in fact prefer conversation with women in social settings because women are more interested in important issues, whereas men typically only talk about sports.

[@BWater-yq3jx]

'women are more interested in important issues' lol

[@Zarathoustra82]

That last line is actually totally retarded.

[@toddpacker1015]

'women are more interested in important issues' I'm sorry what?

[@TheFatclassic]

Lol, I feel like someone who'd actually be considered a sigma male wouldn't go out of their way to tell people that they are. Kind of cringe, my friend

[@lomarsweed6604]

If by "important issues" you mean "likes" on Instagram, then yeah...

[@jonathans.9713]

Hello Melannie, Thank you for sharing the 11 signs you’re a sigma male. It is very nice to hear the great characteristics of them. You have an encouraging spirit and a positive attitude as a young lady. Paris. Have an outstanding day and God bless you! In Christ, Jonathan 😀

[@blakeharris58]

ROBOT!

[@thomasfarmer8562]

Being a good listener will get u friend zoned... but can still get play lol

[@billcousins3541]

I was married to my high school sweetheart for 43 years. She passed away last year. I'm starting to look into dating. My problem is that I have no idea about women flirting with me. It also doesn't help that I have not had a date since We got married. I also don't have any experience flirting with women. It seems like women are not even remotely attracted to me. Am I doing something wrong?

[@adriancushway5050]

Thank you for this video and many others. Your friendly demeanor and infectious smile make them really enjoyable 😄 Paris!

[@disdroid]

If you love the other person enough then it doesn't matter how needy they are, it's not an issue. But if you don't, it's so draining.

[@homarrowe7187]

I'm a sigma and I just wonna say you're doing great and everything right there was true.... you are exciting, attractive and you're personality shows a clean and pure heart🏆👸

[@happyapple4269]

Sigmas dont spell 'want to ' as 'wonna'.

[@durcomusic]

@@happyapple4269 typo obv lol n sigmas dont care bout lil shi like that so reading over the text again is for betas like u

[@homarrowe7187]

@@happyapple4269 and a sigma wouldn't do what you did....MR. hater

[@darinlazare8441]

Just concentrate on levelling up guys . No words spoken

[@homarrowe7187]

@@darinlazare8441 👍👍

[@00Seven1000]

Melannie, simply put you rock! I'm default Sigma but listening to your comments about not being boxed in was inpiring. So thanks for highlighting that!

[@cliffnelson1174]

Hell lady I grew up in Chicago and I never gave a crap about what people thought of me...and I am 70 and I still don't care.

[@sleepmoneyken9234]

🤣🤣🤣🤣tell em Cliff!

[@reflectiveFrankC]

You were talking simplicity earlier and the is the key to Paris and Disneyland and what your bubbly attitude seems to be about. "Girls just want to have fun" . You should I ne with it and I hope you keep it. Enough said.

[@CostasSchuler]

Recently discovered the signa archetype and its helped explain a lot in my life...fascinating stuff

[@CLYDE-tk7kb]

Wow! this is very true, attraction is about you fulfilling a woman's need and they fulfill yours.

[@bumpincar]

Thanks for lots of great content on your channel.

[@CoachMelannie]

My pleasure! I'm so happy you're enjoying it! 😀

[@christianbolt5761]

Once i heard about Sigmas, it helped me understand why i was a big outlier. Similar to the Myers Briggs, there is a spot for every personality type, and there is no single one that is best.

[@adamboylan2307]

Feels nice to be appreciated. Thank you Melanie. First time I seen your face on a video and heard your voice, I was blown away by your attractiveness. Just saying. Glad you made this video. Now more people will understand why they are attracted to us sigma. It's great that you and social media is shining a light on sigmas that we aren't out to take over the world, or the dating market. We just need to be understood. We really just want the best for everyone. Paris. Great place to visit. I will myself, when I get there. And really look forward to it.

[@josephcrafa2694]

Had to watch this for a second time and realized that your accuracy in your description is amazing .

[@fakename8856]

This is a very poor description of what a real Sigma male is. This woman is writing her wish list but doesn’t actually talk about the most basic core qualities of a real sigma. She literally doesn’t know what she is talking about and has likely never even met a sigma.

[@Frankincensedjb123]

For all you sigma males who don't want to wade through 14 minutes of video, I looked up the list online. 1. Unresponsive to Authority 2. Happy in Solitude 3. Adapts Easily to Change 4. Treats People Equally 5. Quiet and Contemplative 6. Self-Reliant 7. Great Self-Awareness 8. Marches to His Own Beat 9. Often Mysterious or Enigmatic 10. Flirts with Danger 11. May Lack Social Skills First of all, I wouldn't say "unresponsive to authority," but rather not intimidated or bothered by it. Also, I'd say we are quiet and contemplative, but many have learned to be assertive and in control in a crowd, party, while lecturing, or speaking, etc. We adapt. We don't shy away from people because we are innately introspective. We learn how to overcome that weakness to become an introverted/extrovert. Peace, INTJs!

[@bijanamini7870]

Thanks for the eye opener, I thought something was wrong w me! Since people think I am unfriendly, and women just stare at me and go away. I have always been a loner! Last relationship whipped me out cos she was schizophrenic and narcissist, almost killed me so got rid of her. Now alone , free but lonely. You’ve given me hope 🙏🏻

[@numanEE]

Melannie, I don't know what you're doing, but I'm already addicted to your laugh! :)

[@numanEE]

i only saw about 10 videos yet

[@OneAnimeTV1]

Thank you Melannie for the positive information, I am a Sigma and many people misjudge me, but you gave me a moral support on what I am 🤩

[@jeffreyriley8742]

Real sigmas don't need moral support from others. They already have it in themselves.

[@AnimalWorldUploads]

@@jeffreyriley8742 right

[@FabyYAyeLobosRivero]

Paris and Disneyland. Yes I watched till the end because I wanted to see if your 11 signs mentioned any of the signs people said to me. It's a little weird that people, mainly women for whatever reason have told me that I'm sigma male. They told me why and now watching your amazing video just proved to me that these people were right. So thank you for explaining it perfectly. 😊 Never been to Paris but been to Disneyland so many times lol. God bless and keep up the amazing work on your videos. I'm so happy I subscribed to your channel.

[@fakename8856]

This woman does not understand what a real Sigma make is. She is describing her ideal man but these qualities aren’t necessarily Sigma traits. ❤❤❤❤

[@eab6066]

If you haven't already, can you create a video comparing the traits of Alpha, Beta and Sigmas males? Thanks to videos like this, many issues are clarified in my life, thank you.

[@snakeplissken1754]

Not to worry about others things is one of the easiest things in life, just realize the one fact. Other people´s opinions are neither valid nor relevant in regard to you or whatever you do. All that matter is what you think of yourself, what you do and you have to stay true to that no matter what. You will inevitably hit a lot of people on the head as they can´t handle this, there is no "compliment" manipulation possible, no sweet talk, no other vomit inducing socializing garbage to make you "agreeable". You are just who you are, others have to accept that or get lost. Which adds another layer however... or it´s just a me thing cause i am natural born loner, you just simply do not value or see much point in relationships, you kinda take what is beneficial and bugger off afterwards as they make me feel restricted and i can´t have that. Also there is never a "we" in my thought or care, i can team up with people if i consider it beneficial to do so, but never to do something i could do on my own just to have company and never am i "part" of a team or whatever. I am always an outsider by choice and like to keep distance. Another thing i genuinely have issues with is, authority, which follows in with the first point. I have to do what i have to do no matter what and other peoples opinion or thoughts on that are not relevant. That doesn´t make me good at following orders nor follow standards (only if both fall in line with that i think is best, in which i just "follow" by accident). However neither been a fan of applying rules/standards on others as i prefer people using the grey matter in their heads and get stuff down without others telling them step by step how to. One reason i am also highly annoyed by chicks with "daddy" issues.... i do not want a sub that needs me to tell her what to do in every part of life, grow up and learn to tie your own shoes or else i can´t even take you serious let alone consider you anything but obsolete. Short part, sigma´s are pure chaos in what is a rule/standard loving society, and we are alpha´s worst nightmares as they want to lead/apply rules for others but there is nothing they can do to make us follow or even care. Beta´s are confused as for them anything we do seems easy and natural but we don´t want to have them "follow" us as "groupies" and praise our every move, that is an alpha thing. Odd´s are no sigma is ever going past situationships.. it would be against their very nature and the vast majority of women (that i got to know) would ever be able to keep a sigma interested, or fit´s his way of life. However... you will attract a lot of women and even so you don´t care about most you have ample opportunity for casual fun if you so desire, just be warned a lot of chicks can´t handle you as you will not follow her expectations, neither will you give in an inch, are highly resilient to manipulation and even blackmail attempts won´t even bother you in the slightest. Existing "outside" of society, yet doing what you do and be successful doing so, you will never "feel" to be part of something/with someone and are generally pure chaos wherever you step your foot into. If you don´t have your own business but are employed then good luck, if you have a superior with any brain activity he/she will realize it´s best to let you do what you do without ever asking questions and not look to close what rules you follow or break cause doing both is part of your nature. Have a boss that tries to "get you in line"... both of you will end up bashing their heads with each other without anyone giving in an inch, you are likely to find another job as this one is restricting you and expecting the worst from you, sell out on yourself to "do" as someone else wants. Oh and one additional happy thing, you will find it hard to understand nowadays society and the addiction of many to complain/waste time over the most trivial of things (specially on social media). You are like an alien among people, the sooner you understand that the happier you will be, try not to blend in it won´t work and you will just hate yourself trying. Focus on what you want from life and pursue it, if you do that you will be a force of nature that gets forward no matter what. (you are likely to however walk over many "corpses", not literally but mentally speaking, not that you care either way. People just dislike/hate something they can neither understand, nor make to comply or get to be agreeable)

[@pj8624]

I love your video!! I've watched a number of Sigma videos lately, and realize that I am 100% Sigma! So nice to know that women are attracted to our traits. I never follow the crowd! I'm very independent and flexible. I'm a free thinker!! :)

[@WilliamBailey-gr7ue]

You really lit up a smile on me when I found out you are a Christian dating coach and not just a dating coach. God Bless you.

[@noelwright]

You have a very genuine voice and demeanor.

[@forgive-po2tu]

There's no secret to being a sigma male, it's just a way off life!

[@guerilla_trees]

beta life.

[@alfredourena9877]

This video is most awesome, quite informative, great insights, and nicely. presented.

[@bigguy2683]

Attractive to women? Who cares? Ignore them. Be attractive to yourself! Seek self actualization based upon your view of yourself and your accomplishments! Men need to stop basing their self image and validation on whether or not women like them, are attracted to them, find them desirable, accept them, go to bed with them, or anything. Find your validation elsewhere. We all change. We all have seasons of life and we can be much different in each season. Women , like all of us, also change as they age. The woman who loves and desires you today may feel the opposite in two months, two years, or two decades. Whatever the time period when she utters the phrase "I'm not happy!" your life as you knew it is OVER. The system gives her the power, even just on a whim, to remove you from your house, your possessions, your career, and even your children. Many women do just that. Seek peace, quiet, and freedom as a famous man I much admire has said. Seek self sufficiency and avoid marriage or cohabitation at all costs. Learn to be impervious to women and their games to entrap you. Learn the discipline to look right through them, not at them. Extra points the more attractive the woman is. Ignore her. She has no power over you unless you give it. Withhold that power. Men, do not ever take advice from women especially one younger or much younger than you with far less life experience.

[@linuxstuff73]

Interesting video. 4:28 I tend to agree with you here. People tend to forget it's more of a model to express and communicate a concept. That these are archetypes, but everyone is truly an individual and wildcard to varying degrees at the end of the day. It's more that these archetypes serve the purpose of simplifying things for brevity in communication like any classification or taxonomy. Taxonomies and classifications are really artificial constructs and it's always good to remember that they serve a certain purpose, but are never the whole story. For example if you look at biology and it's classifications, they serve their purpose to aid in documenting, organizing, communicating concepts and information, but at the end of the day, nature does it's thing and doesn't care, nor adhere to them. That is, nature does what it does regardless of what we think.

[@TheTempest73]

The problem with us sigmas is we stay away from the crowd. So, even if we are attractive to women, we would be scarce on the market.

[@DadTalksLive]

All of these traits are attractive for women. Having said that.. once you master these characteristics.. Live your life The women that are attracted to you, will give you hints Too many guys chase women.. and if they’re chasing.. that means that women are running away from them Focus on your goals Success will come Everything else is a perk To the winner belongs the spoils

[@irelandsailor]

You should move to Europe.....everything so close. Paris 500km away from me. Berlin 550km, Amsterdam 280km, Brussels 280km. You could visit all of them in just few days.

[@childofthekingjesusmylord8715]

Real men love Jesus

[@edoardoceron7029]

Jesus was Beta

[@childofthekingjesusmylord8715]

@@edoardoceron7029 you're completely nuts Jesus was betta do you know what you're saying I mean really stand back write it down on a piece of paper and read it I think about it real hard do you not know that he is a warrior and he is a king I don't know what kind of lies the devil's been telling you he's coming back to destroy the Earth I mean he's going to have blood up to a horse's bridle he was a 6 ft 1 to 6 ft 3 old school Carpenter who carried a 2 to 350 lb cross on his back upper mountain while being half beat to death I'm sorry but a real man can barely do that I know I've built for almost 20 years

[@macman2141]

@@edoardoceron7029that’s a stupid Lie!!!

[@VirileOne-fh9du]

Which Jesus are we talking about here?

[@childofthekingjesusmylord8715]

@@VirileOne-fh9du true one

[@jingleole]

You are the most engaging woman on social media. Your significant other(if u have one) is very lucky

[@manuelrocha9477]

Great video Melanine, I used to be a beta male, I mean the king of betas, but no more, I discovered with all these new education videos on female nature that I am really a Sigma male - not the introvert kind but extrovert with reason and sense. Great ministry you have, blessings.

[@williamreynolds5567]

Paris Great content I just watched you for the first time I am going look forward to more content. Thank You 🙏🏻 ❤

[@jameswatson8612]

Paris, loved the video. Thank you

[@mikemike9449]

I watched to the end! Your personality is worth it and the subject matter is interesting.

[@BaDAiR647]

Great information all around Mel. Your authenticity shines. Like a warm blanket on a cold day. Keep it up ace. Would love to hear more of your perspective.

[@JChristianMueller]

Dear Melannie, sorry, as a pretty much confident SIGMA I don't care about pats on the back ;-P but a trip to PARIS and more videos like this would be nice. Generally I find it interesting that the social "enigma" of selfconfident "lone wolf" has become such an interest for many coaches and youtubers. Yet after learning about this personality type, I found it revealing that from my 5 close friends 3 are sigmas too, 1 alpha and 1 omega. Very courious! One lives in another country and we had pauses of years, but when we reconnect its like the days we worked together 30+ years ago, its awesome. We don't need to get validation from each other, we just know how the other "ticks". Great relief in comparison to needy persons who get anxious if you don't reply within a certain time... find myself to avoid these types of relationships more and more, they feel like immature little children in comparison to my sigma friends. So please keep them coming, also in comparison to the other personality types. Your videos are eye-opening!

[@areyou5958]

What’s the difference between alpha and sigma?

[@metalheadstarot]

I'm no Christian but I am a stigma. And so far you're hitting it right on the nail on the head

[@mikecrockett3669]

I’m considered an INFJ Sigma male and someone I know showed me your video and everyone laughed when I said I could care less what titles are being give to me because I’m still just me. Period. I guess I verified one of your points.

[@Mandorla12]

Hi Melanie, I enjoyed your video. I was a contract profiler for one of our three letter acronyms for 15 years. You may want to add the "Ambivert" to your discussion, and find an old copy of Gregory G. Young's "Your Personality And How to Live with it. I am an Adaptable Personality Style which could make me also a Sigma, but having had a Top Secret SCI clearance might have added to my closely held past.

[@LotarL31]

Can be Sigma as much as you want. If you aren't physically attractive to her or have money you aren't getting anywhere.

[@resi4fan4ever]

You have such a lovely Voice, Melannie.❤😁

[@camdenyards1456]

Honestly, I've been missing the opening, "Hello, my wonderful friend..." for a bit now. It always put a big smile on my face. Still love your videos though, regardless.

[@cpwillig]

Sir Winston Churchill: COURAGE is the most important character property as it facilitates development of talents and gifts, enables daring to step out. So true. The rest follows. Only deploy as needed, no show off stuff.

[@blackwonderBW]

Sigma here. Many guys think they are Sigma, but aren't. We are very few. Good video. Subbed. Oh, and Paris. Been there, btw.

[@stevergee]

I have always had these characteristics but I have not always been happy and confident in my life. Now it is different - I just have more of a general love for people now so that makes me more confident and not fearful.

[@wildman00sax]

Sigma, Paris. (Just subbed btw) I thoroughly enjoyed this video. I show all of the signs listed in the video and I've been told that I have been the same for years. Marching to the beat of my own drum is how I like it.

[@silentshadow516]

Why is it that I still often get rejected before even attempting a date? Is it because I am moving too fast for her?

[@bellasignora2668]

Please cut to the point, please, or show a time line where it starts (7.47) pretty please. I need to watch more of your videos but I'm not going live through the adverts

[@israelmunoz4816]

I think as men we often think that listening is suggestions solutions, when we are supposed to be listening without such as well as listening for the emotion and not necessarily the issues.

[@johnhyne1666]

Sigma and INFJ and Carl Jung. Please get into these topics and how they are connected. Thanks

[@jordanmcdonald1985]

The boxing yourself in advice is top notch advice. 👌

[@alvinz.sauder4148]

Thanks, Melannie for another great video! I would love to hear more videos for sigma males! Wow, you would be a Rockstar going to Paris! 😅🎉😊🎊🤗

[@yourmomsfavoriteyoutubechannel]

A rockstar going to Paris? That sounds like something a sigma male WOULDN’T say. 🤔

[@AnthonyGonzalez-lw1ek]

I do enjoy your smile at how your face lights up and your input

[@torat_emet23]

Thank you my cutie for This video, it was amazing! You should feel great about that, don't be ashamed at all. I would like to hear more about the sigma topic.

[@keith7080]

Thank you for the wonderful video. I have recently found out that I am a Sigma and now it all makes sense. My wife is divorcing me due to my commitment to God and my faith. Sadly for our relationship I will not be benton my faith

[@stevecoover4268]

I'm a 62 year old man and I never knew I was a Sigma male. That explains alot of things that have happened throughout my life. I have 3 or 4 friends that I trust with my life, most people including myself thinks that's weird.