12 questions to ask before marriage 💍

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Belal Assaad

Belal Assaad

Күн бұрын

0:00 Introduction
0:55 The ruling of marriage
6:43 How to search for a spouse and what are the boundaries
16:17 Seeing the potential spouse
33:30 Question 1 - How do you envision marriage?
34:32 Question 2 - What qualities would you like to see in a spouse?
35:09 Question 3 - What are you family dynamics like?
39:45 Question 4 - How do you spend your free time?
40:20 Question 5 - What are your thoughts on financial arrangement?
44:35 Question 6 - What is your social life like?
44:46 Question 7 - Who are your friends?
44:58 Question 8 - How do you want to raise children?
46:51 Question 9 - What are your future ambitions?
47:03 Question 10 - Do you have any health issues?
48:02 Question 11 - What is your past like?
52:30 Question 12 - What type of a wedding do you want?
53:23 Q&A Session
In this video, we delve into the principles and practices that can help you nurture a strong and fulfilling marriage according to Islamic teachings.
Discover the wisdom behind the importance of compatibility, communication, and mutual respect in Islamic marriages. Explore the role of love, mercy and compassion as foundational elements that create a nurturing environment for both partners. We discuss the significance of shared values, goals, and the pursuit of spiritual growth as essential components of a healthy relationship.
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@BA-fb8tz
@BA-fb8tz 9 күн бұрын
Everyone who reads this, please make Dua for me. There is a woman that I find very special and exceptional, to the point that my fear is that I won't be good enough for her. Make Dua that I will be everything she wants and needs in a husband and more InshaAllah
@hidayaeggah1240
@hidayaeggah1240 4 күн бұрын
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@adilhassan5132
@adilhassan5132 8 ай бұрын
Lecture notes 🖊️ 🖊️ Steps for getting to know someone for marriage. 🖊️ Marriage is compulsory, when you have the means... All sorts of means. And the fear that you're ganna fall for Haram. Get marry if you're in such condition. Time transperecy, time, talking, tolerance the five important T's of a marriage 🖊️ Marriage is Recommended, when you do have means all sorts of but you have control your temptations. 🖊️ Marriage is Neutral, when you're finances and temptations are balancrd, not too much 🖊️ Marriage is Disliked, when one doesn't have enough finances, but temptations are so low that they won't be able to satisfy a female 🖊️ Marriage is Forbidden, unable to provide for a family and they are ganna victimize the female. So forbidden. How to search for a spouse, the limits of searching for a spouse 🖊️ So the one who is serious for marriage, and he know he would talk in Islamic boundaries and within limits with respect, he can talk to the other person that he wants to marry. But the necessary things only. 🖊️ Don't approach marriage if you're not ready , just because you're thinking thr other person ganna go away and you just cling on to it knowing that you're ganna marry like 7 years after ... Don't approach for such marriage.... If you know you can't marry this person, don't play with him or her. Seeing the potential spouse, what to see in her or him 🖊️ Are you allowed to see her without hijab? 🖊️ You can see only hands and face says majority. But based on evidence prophet saaw said to jabir ... See of her what would entice you to marry her and the scholars say that you can see of her with her Wali permission ( father or brother ) what they'd allow, bit of hairs,a bit of arms, legs or neck or what a father or brother or uncle can see . 🖊️ Take your time in meeting and knowing them... Take your time when you're knowing her or him. But with respect Bi IznIAllah. 🖊️ Ask and research for things that you are looking for in a marriage before you marry, that you want in your spouse, manners! Or being a good friend or beauty or wealth etc. What makes a good husband or wife in your perspective.... Ask and research for it... make a list of things you're looking for inshallah. 🖊️ Look for what you really want, and look for a person who already have what you want in spouse. What is already there, what is already established. Because you might do things for other's and if something happens and they leave that thing because they say we did that only for you Ways you can find someone....... 🖊️ In a respectable manner, within limits, within the line of islam that you know her or him quite well Matters to keep in mind to find about each other 13 topics of discussion to talk about. Visit the one you wanna marey in his/her home... Talk to her in a supervised environment. Like do talk before so that you two become comfortable , the likes and dislikes maybe. Talk about yourself first Talk about things... Other things with her, weather etc maybe..... What you can ask or talk with your spouse before Marriage , think about them and then decide. 1 Whats marriage life to you... 2 What qualities would you like to see in a spouse. 3 Talk about each other family and culture. Talk about how things goes in each other families. Talk about culture how things goes on in one's family. 4 Living arrangements and family dynamics. Islam does not recommend that a husband would force her wife to live with her family. She would have a home of herself. 5 How you spend your free times... Hobbies... You workout or do you read or you do what. 6 financial arrangements. Managing finances. Agree on finances... No matter your money is mine or your and my money is ours.... Just be agree on these arrangements. Her money is her's, but his money, a part of his earnings or wealth is her's money not all money. 7 Talk about children, talk about numbers, and how to raise them how to educate them and naming them. Who would name the child... So talk about them 8 future Ambitions, your carrier, my carrier, 9 Health issues, that you might have. Islam have made this thing haram. Don't hide it from him or her. Tell someone else to tell them but do tell them 10 The past. If a sin in your past can show in future, talk about it. Like drugs. Or some addictions. Talk about it. With respect of course. Anything that can creeo from the past, talk about it. 11 How would you want a weeding, details of weeding. Talk about details so that it doesn't make a fuss in that critical time. JazakAllah khair
@dkurniawatid
@dkurniawatid 8 ай бұрын
Thank you so much!
@adilhassan5132
@adilhassan5132 8 ай бұрын
@@dkurniawatid 😇
@wyhed1
@wyhed1 8 ай бұрын
Thank you for writing. Really appreciated
@adilhassan5132
@adilhassan5132 8 ай бұрын
@@wyhed1 remember me in your prays bhai 🏵️
@horizon6309
@horizon6309 8 ай бұрын
Jazakallah ❤ I needed this
@sumankhan229
@sumankhan229 9 ай бұрын
Pray for me May I find righteous spouse who will be best for me.
@shafiq154
@shafiq154 9 ай бұрын
May Allah give you a good man of your choice, اللهم صل و سلم و بارك على محمد و على اله و اصحابه اجمعين
@BQ900
@BQ900 9 ай бұрын
Inshallah! Allah had a precious Muslim man show up in the US. What a gift. Take your own car and don’t go to rooms. That was my father’s advice but he’s not Muslim.
@yasbs3680
@yasbs3680 Ай бұрын
Ameen 🤲🏻
@bakhtawarnawaz7791
@bakhtawarnawaz7791 9 ай бұрын
I love it when my Muslim brothers sisters tell stories and happenings in the comment section. It just feels like a global community sharing and chit chatting together. Makes me so happy😁😁
@bakhtawarnawaz7791
@bakhtawarnawaz7791 9 ай бұрын
Just like a gossiping group chat
@Ok....-
@Ok....- 8 ай бұрын
Haha.. Good 👍🏻
@yasmin8609
@yasmin8609 9 ай бұрын
Assalamu alaikum just to give some hope insha'Allah. I searched for 10 years, couldnt find a husband. In the lockdown my mum gave me a profile of someone and after meeting 3 times we decided to get married alhamdulillah. We spoke on the phone in between. We are UK born, professionals but we kept family in the loop which is how I knew he was serious. Of course alhamdulillah he was God fearing and respectful towards me. Theres nothing shameful about involving family early on.
@ihsaan4450
@ihsaan4450 8 ай бұрын
Alhamdulillah that’s great news for you. May Allah bless you. I’m in a predicament as well, looking for long but still no opening. Family are not well connected socially so it’s more hard and going through the social media route is a bit scary tbh.
@highesteem2778
@highesteem2778 8 ай бұрын
Involving family early on is what should be done
@Ok....-
@Ok....- 8 ай бұрын
Yum ...that's so much wellness of you ....May God keeps yalll Happy
@SabrShukr-rz1wm
@SabrShukr-rz1wm 9 ай бұрын
This lecture was great, MashaAllah! Please make a full course for youngsters going to get married. May Allah bless you, Ameen.
@MuftiAbdurRahman-rd1ke
@MuftiAbdurRahman-rd1ke 8 ай бұрын
Brothers, I hope this channel Admin makes some Islamic videos about the harms of porn. Moslem youths are being plagued by this disease, but for many non-Moslem white men, it is their pride that keep them pure and good. Whoever I talk to about Islam, they listen with eagerness and say they will take a course in Islam, while Moslems I advise lash out, and even speak negatively about tenets of Islam, until I was afraid for the future of this Ummah, and I felt like screaming and crying. Every one of us will have to die, today or tomorrow, and imagine, if you have to lose Iman and faith in Allah because of these filthy sins, and because you were addicted to watching these disgusting things, then we must ask why were we even born. You and I will rot in the awaiting grave and those dirty bodied porn stars who you watched will also die and decompose in the shallow graves and will be eaten by insects and worms, and yet, Moslems are constantly searching online for more filthy images and videos. Who do you think Allah will prefer to have next to Him in paradise? Moslems who watch porn and think about sexual relations all day, or non-Moslem men who are chaste and have a clean heart? Never think Allah has a dearth of people to worship Him, and if your heart is filthy, then Allah will replace you with the non-Muslim youths who have a pure heart, because they do not find the filthy women in porn movies to be attractive or worthy of their time. In whose heart do you think Allah will decide to preserve the Koran? Who do you think Allah will give the gift of the Koran, in their hearts or our dirty eyes and filthy minded souls which have become cheap by constantly watching disgusting bodies of human worshiping? While Moslem are watching and worshipping filthy probate parts of sinful men and women, don’t you think Allah might choose to expel us from the glorious folds of Islam?
@mantenehsaccoh2551
@mantenehsaccoh2551 7 ай бұрын
Aameen yarba 🙏
@seynaboucherif3674
@seynaboucherif3674 4 ай бұрын
AllahummaBarik
@shaiksohailali1250
@shaiksohailali1250 4 ай бұрын
​@stephaneabdullah7045 C*cc'c''v:cc:'
@try2justbe
@try2justbe 3 ай бұрын
Not just the youngsters , but even older people need to hear this
@minhahusaini-hawaii881
@minhahusaini-hawaii881 8 ай бұрын
Marriage is act of worship- Subhan’Allah!
@mss4346
@mss4346 7 ай бұрын
Mashallah he has such a wide knowledge in so many aspects and his ability to apply Islam in a pure practical way on our day to day life is impressive. Inshallah we will have more such blessed professors.thank you so much , you answered so many of my questions and im sure many of us find many answers in this lecture mashallah without even have to ask our questions.
@larissarose3917
@larissarose3917 9 ай бұрын
One of the best lectures I’ve heard, masha Allah, I love the way he talks, such a soft spoken May Allah swt grant him the highest rank of jannah ameen, truly a very clear message. May Allah swt be pleased with him on the day of judgment ameen
@hannahmhmmd
@hannahmhmmd 3 ай бұрын
الحمد لله الذي بنعمته تتم الصا لحات I have always refrained from falling into haram relationships because I truly believe that each one of us has already someone Allah has chosen for us. We just have to be patient and hold onto our faith that the person Allah has chosen for us will find us in His destined time. In my prayers, I always ask Allah to preserve my future husband like how He is preserving me for him. May Allah guide us and grant us sabaar while waiting. May we all be married to someone who would help us build our eeman stronger. Ameen.
@ananasbanaana
@ananasbanaana 10 ай бұрын
This lecture was so rich and insightful ma sha Allah. Jazakallahu khayran 🤲🏾
@hellfire...burns.
@hellfire...burns. 9 ай бұрын
Shayteen live in the human body!!! Hadith on Satan: Devil runs through people like blood Anas ibn Malik reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “Verily, Satan flows through the human being like the flowing of blood.” Source: Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 2174 Grade: Sahih (authentic) according to Muslim Shaytaan lives inside humans! All humans have shaytaan living inside their bodies! May Allah protect us from the accursed shaytaan and guide us to the right path ameen (WE MUST SAY! please say this because the shaytaan cant harm us).... Satan Said, "I will Surely Mislead them All," and so God Said, "I will Surely Fill Hell with you, O Iblees, and those of them that Follow you All Together"So Indeed Satan is an Enemy to you, so Take him as an Enemy, he Only Invites you to be with him in the Blaze of Hellfire 43:62, Qur'an [So] never let Satan avert you. Indeed, he is a clear enemy to you - 36:62, Qur'an [For] he had already led astray much of creation from among you, so did you not use reason? 15:39 - 40, Qur'an [For Iblees] said, "My Lord, because You have made me err, I will surely make [disobedience] attractive to them on earth, and I will mislead them all, except Your chosen servants among them." 38:84 - 85, Qur'an [So God] said, "The truth [is My oath], and the truth I say - [that] I will surely fill Hell with you and those of them that follow you all together.".... Hadith on Satan: Devil runs through people like blood Anas ibn Malik reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “Verily, Satan flows through the human being like the flowing of blood.” Source: Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 2174 Grade: Sahih (authentic) according to Muslim Shaytaan lives inside humans! All humans have shaytaan living inside their bodies! May Allah protect us from the accursed shaytaan and guide us to the right path ameen (WE MUST SAY! please say this because the shaytaan cant harm us)
@dm7628
@dm7628 9 ай бұрын
@@hellfire...burns. Anas ibn Malik reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “Verily, Satan flows through the human being like the flowing of blood.” Source: Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 2174 Grade: Sahih (authentic) according to Muslim عَنْ أَنَسٍ قَالَ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ إِنَّ الشَّيْطَانَ يَجْرِي مِنْ الْإِنْسَانِ مَجْرَى الدَّمِ
@amirejaha9505
@amirejaha9505 7 ай бұрын
I just started praying and I love listening to your lectures.
@AbdalMalik-ye1df
@AbdalMalik-ye1df 3 ай бұрын
only 4 months ? why didn't you pray before ?
@Deen_Over_Dunya_Love
@Deen_Over_Dunya_Love Ай бұрын
@ It's their own journey, lol. We're not entitled to knowing that. They could also be young. Please don't say these types of things as it's discouraging.
@NatJ4reform
@NatJ4reform 7 ай бұрын
I think such advice should be given in every school, irrespective of race or religion, I wish I had the benefit of such advice when I was young (many years ago) unfortunately I am a product of the 60’s, but Allah makes us strong with every life experience 🙏
@manuelazac
@manuelazac 2 күн бұрын
That's trueee🙌🏽I'm in my 20s but I love watching this kind of contents
@farah18182
@farah18182 9 ай бұрын
ربنا هب لنا من أزواجنا و ذريتنا قرة أعيننا و إجعلنا للمتقين إماما ❤
@AtTaulibah
@AtTaulibah 9 ай бұрын
Jazakumullah khairun Sheikh. There are also those that convert to Islam for the sake of marriage and not for the pleasure of ALLAH. I know of a family that married their daughter to a "revert from hindu" soon after they married the husband stopped practicing and became influenced by his family again. They raised their children upon a philosophy and some mix of Islam from wife's extended family. However this man would refuse for the children to do anything like madressa or fast etc. Many years later they divorced, Alhamdulillah. The daughter chose to practice Islam fully, Alhamdulillah however she is a single Mother trying to protect her child from the clutches of her father who dots over the grandson who is the only grandchild. Please keep them in your duas , may Allah facilitate their hijrah and make her son amongst the righteous Aameen
@abdulgill5013
@abdulgill5013 8 ай бұрын
That’s ridiculous, may Allah guide them to the right path.
@taym2720
@taym2720 8 ай бұрын
lol, thats what happens with reverts
@mnunezhk
@mnunezhk 2 ай бұрын
@@taym2720stop generalizing. fear Allah
@nurulnadiahazmi1156
@nurulnadiahazmi1156 9 ай бұрын
the most truthful and practical questions before marriage
@ikemefunaesther8061
@ikemefunaesther8061 9 ай бұрын
Questions to ask? 1. How you view marriage life? 2. Qualities you will like to see in a spouse? 3. Each others family dynamics; how you get along with your family, culture, living arrangements 4. How you spend your free time; what are your hubbies, what's cheating when it comes to social media 5. Financial arrangements; combined or separated resources, lending money 6. Social life; introverts, extroverts 7. Children: decisions on educating them, naming them, raising them 8. Future ambition and goals 9. Health issues 10. The past 11. Criminal records 12. How would you want a wedding?
@MakaveliA.B
@MakaveliA.B 9 ай бұрын
Weddings are from the past
@fatimaadnan322
@fatimaadnan322 9 ай бұрын
Thank you 😊
@aminah761
@aminah761 9 ай бұрын
@@MakaveliA.Bwhat
@hellfire...burns.
@hellfire...burns. 9 ай бұрын
Shayteen live in the human body!!! Hadith on Satan: Devil runs through people like blood Anas ibn Malik reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “Verily, Satan flows through the human being like the flowing of blood.” Source: Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 2174 Grade: Sahih (authentic) according to Muslim Shaytaan lives inside humans! All humans have shaytaan living inside their bodies! May Allah protect us from the accursed shaytaan and guide us to the right path ameen (WE MUST SAY! please say this because the shaytaan cant harm us).... Satan Said, "I will Surely Mislead them All," and so God Said, "I will Surely Fill Hell with you, O Iblees, and those of them that Follow you All Together"So Indeed Satan is an Enemy to you, so Take him as an Enemy, he Only Invites you to be with him in the Blaze of Hellfire 43:62, Qur'an [So] never let Satan avert you. Indeed, he is a clear enemy to you - 36:62, Qur'an [For] he had already led astray much of creation from among you, so did you not use reason? 15:39 - 40, Qur'an [For Iblees] said, "My Lord, because You have made me err, I will surely make [disobedience] attractive to them on earth, and I will mislead them all, except Your chosen servants among them." 38:84 - 85, Qur'an [So God] said, "The truth [is My oath], and the truth I say - [that] I will surely fill Hell with you and those of them that follow you all together.".... Hadith on Satan: Devil runs through people like blood Anas ibn Malik reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “Verily, Satan flows through the human being like the flowing of blood.” Source: Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 2174 Grade: Sahih (authentic) according to Muslim Shaytaan lives inside humans! All humans have shaytaan living inside their bodies! May Allah protect us from the accursed shaytaan and guide us to the right path ameen (WE MUST SAY! please say this because the shaytaan cant harm us)
@AbdAllah_54564
@AbdAllah_54564 9 ай бұрын
​@@MakaveliA.B get off your red pill nonsense boy. Are you a Muslim?
@almak-ALL
@almak-ALL 9 ай бұрын
I like very much to listen to the sheikh! MashaAllah, is very good speaker! Many people can benefit from his lectures! 🤲💚🌹
@nasreensarah
@nasreensarah 8 ай бұрын
May Allah reward you and continue to spread beneficial knowledge through you. Ameen
@museerazahid5213
@museerazahid5213 4 ай бұрын
this lecture is really like a light to our thoughts.... JazakAllah..
@zenzozahid
@zenzozahid 10 ай бұрын
Interesting and a beneficial talk for today's youth. Allāhumma barik
@thepatientone1127
@thepatientone1127 10 ай бұрын
What a delight once again. May Allah preserve you sheikh 💙
@belal.assaad
@belal.assaad 9 ай бұрын
Waiyyakum.
@DoctorHalal
@DoctorHalal 9 ай бұрын
When he was talking about men that are a bit more feminete or women that are a bitt more musculine, he isn't talking about those that support and are a part of the qawmu lut gang.
@Deen_Over_Dunya_Love
@Deen_Over_Dunya_Love Ай бұрын
Qawm e lut gang😂 Perfect name.
@123RileyRoe250
@123RileyRoe250 9 ай бұрын
Amazing ma sha Allah. That final answer is brilliant.
@nishilee3029
@nishilee3029 4 ай бұрын
Those questions and decisions are really really important, I knew islam value your thoughts, feelings and opinions ... I'm fully agreed with mufti May Allah bless us all
@nooryousaf3113
@nooryousaf3113 4 ай бұрын
The best lecture on marriage I've heard so far, May Allah bless you belal :), Jazakhallair this was so insightful especially as a young muslim woman.
@masibanto4763
@masibanto4763 7 ай бұрын
Great lecture. however , I still feel overwhelmed by thinking about marriage. Finding a partner/ spouse is not easy now a days.
@mumshorts
@mumshorts 7 ай бұрын
Yes true, but leave it to Allah
@NaturallyAwaken
@NaturallyAwaken 9 ай бұрын
JazakAllah khair kaseeran for such words of wisdom
@tropicaally
@tropicaally 10 ай бұрын
i love his lectures mashaAllah Allahumma Baarik may Allah bless him and his family
@Najoua11
@Najoua11 9 ай бұрын
7777p⁷
@maryamibrahim1281
@maryamibrahim1281 9 ай бұрын
Ameen
@user-ri1dv9uh8z
@user-ri1dv9uh8z 7 ай бұрын
Allah yarhm his son
@shahnazjahan3585
@shahnazjahan3585 9 ай бұрын
Thank you brother it was an eye opener for young generation, people who wants to getting married... May Allah bless you w
@Ameerah896
@Ameerah896 9 ай бұрын
Thank you so much Ya sheikh. Right now am really on this move, that's why i had to learn more about the decisions I take because marriage is a serious thing so long as you in it no going out unnecessarily 😢
@wasiflaskar6995
@wasiflaskar6995 9 ай бұрын
This is one of THE best lectures on marriage on youtube... I'm surprised this imam only has 1k followers. His advice is on nouman ali khan or mufti menk level. Looking forward to more content!
@PoesieIslamique
@PoesieIslamique 9 ай бұрын
nouman and menk are both people not to follow. not to mention that this guy said some weird stuff about mixity
@AtTaulibah
@AtTaulibah 9 ай бұрын
This Sheikh can't be compared to those you mentioned. He is on another level. ALLAHUMA BARIK, Aameen. May we all benefit from his lectures, Ameen
@AtTaulibah
@AtTaulibah 9 ай бұрын
​@@PoesieIslamiquePlease listen to what he said about mixing again. He is a school teacher and counselor as well so he knows what happens on the ground / in reality hence he mentions genders mixing already exists....he is addressing people living in the west who attend the schools etc. He clearly said we can't be naive about what happens and that the ideal would be how it used to be during the time of Nabi SAW.
@belal.assaad
@belal.assaad 9 ай бұрын
Jazak brother. May Allah make me as you assume of me and increase us all in knowledge and forgive our shortcomings, Ameen.
@belal.assaad
@belal.assaad 9 ай бұрын
@@PoesieIslamique it would be helpful and a show of your level of knowledge and wisdom to clarify which ‘weird’ points about mixing I stated so we can all learn inshllah.
@sanamm.1834
@sanamm.1834 9 ай бұрын
Mashaallah allahuma barik sheikh. I needed this lecture. I wrote down all the points
@user-ll7ii1yk3j
@user-ll7ii1yk3j 6 ай бұрын
Thank sheikh. I started to talk with someone for marriage. I wrote all this questions in my note. And I will ask all of them . May Allah take care of you.
@ahmedxo9094
@ahmedxo9094 5 ай бұрын
How did it go? Hopefully well
@user-ll7ii1yk3j
@user-ll7ii1yk3j 5 ай бұрын
why ?@@ahmedxo9094
@BeeButter
@BeeButter 4 ай бұрын
Any update on how did it go
@quenikruush12
@quenikruush12 4 ай бұрын
​@@BeeButter😂
@c4z4n0str4
@c4z4n0str4 9 ай бұрын
So... anybody interested in marriage? .. I'm asking from a non-freaky perspective ofcourse May Allah ﷻ bless you ya Bilal😅
@SG-oe9xu
@SG-oe9xu 8 ай бұрын
Yes because it’s very lonely out here Allah made us to be in pairs at minimum Swear I’m dead serious I’ll need 1-2weeks to get mentally physically ready
@RightUpYT
@RightUpYT Ай бұрын
This is the best relationship marriage advice video I've seen.
@sadyadey782
@sadyadey782 8 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing this information it is very important for us the ummah MashaAllah 😊
@afshanirfan7161
@afshanirfan7161 9 ай бұрын
I noticed all your points and inshaaAllah convey it to my children, so that they will make right decision, JazakAllah
@nazishbibi8653
@nazishbibi8653 9 ай бұрын
Jazakallah sheikh this was soooo insightful plzzzzz do more videos like these! ❤
@rahmahodan8583
@rahmahodan8583 9 ай бұрын
Very informative and beneficial. Jazakallahu khayran wa baarakallahu feek. 🤲
@K-POPWatchLater
@K-POPWatchLater 4 ай бұрын
This brother GETS IT MashaAllah
@omgsamia297
@omgsamia297 9 ай бұрын
Man i wish i knew dis before allhamdulillah im happy tho but answered these questions during the marriage 😂
@sanji546
@sanji546 2 ай бұрын
Agreed family dynamics should be discussed
@Rajaas_Reading_Corner
@Rajaas_Reading_Corner 9 ай бұрын
Alhamdulillah!! thank you for this amazing khutba. It was so helpful. You had such wonderful insights for marriage. I wanted to ask you if you can make a video about children at a young age coming asking where did they come from and what's the process. Ofcourse we sugarcoat things in the beginning but as they grow up, they know the real truth. But my question is if we don't lie to our kids, how much truth do we really reveal at their very young age so they don't become influenced wrongly and act on it in desparation? Thank you!
@ibrahimmazumder5616
@ibrahimmazumder5616 9 ай бұрын
It’s nice to see you active again ustadh. Alhamdulillah
@waladatourino5077
@waladatourino5077 9 ай бұрын
Ma sha Allah Shaikh Belal, great talk, jazak Allah khair!
@latifasaeed2546
@latifasaeed2546 10 ай бұрын
Thank that you opened your channel🎉
@SG333_
@SG333_ 8 ай бұрын
Really enjoyable lecture, you speak in such an inviting way and display great character masha'Allah - barak Allah feek 🤲🏼
@rehemasaadan3450
@rehemasaadan3450 9 ай бұрын
Awww I had been waiting for this video .... TabarakaAllah sheikh Billal🤗
@mekiyasurur6796
@mekiyasurur6796 Ай бұрын
This is the first time I hear this type of lesson jezakAllah
@Idowu_Balogun
@Idowu_Balogun 9 ай бұрын
Jazakumullah khayran for this sheikh!
@sahaaraasif471
@sahaaraasif471 3 ай бұрын
Excellent lecture, well researched and very practical.
@bowandarroz
@bowandarroz 2 ай бұрын
24:14 is such an accurate assessment tbh
@AKAK-hr7ug
@AKAK-hr7ug 9 ай бұрын
Thank you for your video. I have made a note of the Five Ruling.
@erenyeager6389
@erenyeager6389 2 ай бұрын
May ﷲ swt. reward us all with good spouses. Allahuma Amin
@mahnazahsan7473
@mahnazahsan7473 4 ай бұрын
Good ikhlaq , good manners are very important in all relationships.
@sedatkurt5800
@sedatkurt5800 10 ай бұрын
May Allah bless you brother
@happyvibe864
@happyvibe864 10 ай бұрын
Thank you sheykh 🤍
@adamjamiu6764
@adamjamiu6764 4 ай бұрын
May Allah reward you habeebi. I cant count the number of blessings i got from this beautiful lecture.
@hauwabothman189
@hauwabothman189 4 ай бұрын
Thanks alot for the briefings,am glad to be part of 3MTT
@sallytfr9453
@sallytfr9453 7 ай бұрын
The best advices from I’ve ever heard about mariage ! Thank you very much.
@bakary333
@bakary333 12 күн бұрын
May Allah bless us all ameen
@youtubeuser5855
@youtubeuser5855 2 ай бұрын
This is advice worth more than gold. Thank you dear skeikh and may allah bless you
@adibahusain4962
@adibahusain4962 9 ай бұрын
"you can ask them...in a non-freaky way" 😂
@mlindalina1
@mlindalina1 9 ай бұрын
Was that code for flirty lol
@savesheikhjarrah1480
@savesheikhjarrah1480 9 ай бұрын
A lot of ppl actually don’t understand what is and isn’t creepy unfortunately and need actual direction. And even with direction still don’t understand!
@FarhanNaqvi-oy5we
@FarhanNaqvi-oy5we 9 ай бұрын
​@@mlindalina1I'ma Flirt
@mysoftlensuk4611
@mysoftlensuk4611 9 ай бұрын
​q😊
@uniquerebel385
@uniquerebel385 6 ай бұрын
Encouraging Islam is fixing society’s problems and challenges
@ramzisofiane5909
@ramzisofiane5909 8 ай бұрын
Great lecture. God bless you.
@sanabasharat4484
@sanabasharat4484 10 ай бұрын
Love from Pakıstan, my dearest Sheıkh.
@Amish07
@Amish07 9 ай бұрын
jazakallahu kheir sheikh 🤲🏾
@QLaHa
@QLaHa 9 ай бұрын
Jazakallahu kheiran ❤
@zuriasimone6941
@zuriasimone6941 4 ай бұрын
JazzakAllah Khaïr Sheikh for your advise to muslims to choose muslimah as their spouse. One of reason why sisters are 35+ without finding a husband is because, brothers tend to choose non muslim women as spouses, specially those brothers who became successful in their careers. They don't want to be seen with a woman wearing hijab. Subhana Allah, I pray Allah SWT that our sons choose muslim women for marriage for their own sake. Wassalam Alaikoum.
@aleemaviolet9978
@aleemaviolet9978 8 ай бұрын
As a revert have learned more about marriage... MashaAllah
@alisyed9856
@alisyed9856 8 ай бұрын
JazakAllah Very important advice
@Ok....-
@Ok....- 8 ай бұрын
Mr Bilal, i really love listening to your lecture...it gives me reminders and brings me back yo the right path lotlle by little...i hope yo abide and follow your advices sincerely...Ameen
@SoSo-qi2gu
@SoSo-qi2gu 2 ай бұрын
Salam alaykum from France 🔵⚪🔴 I just discovered these videos and i love listening them. May Allah reward you.
@imranniazi3983
@imranniazi3983 5 ай бұрын
I think it’s a good idea to start with, after establishing some contact to lay out the bad habits to see if you can tolerate them. If you can’t then move on… because the things you can agree on can and will be there with many people
@Moneystream8787
@Moneystream8787 Ай бұрын
May Allah protect you sheiykh! ❤
@NonyaBusiness-uh1zh
@NonyaBusiness-uh1zh 4 ай бұрын
If only this lecture was available before I got married 😔
@gangstaboi3467
@gangstaboi3467 7 ай бұрын
brother Belal I hope you could post more videos on more topics I much appreciate them
@fouadtoumi5402
@fouadtoumi5402 9 ай бұрын
Baraka Allaho feek ya 'ami
@therofiaho.m9943
@therofiaho.m9943 9 ай бұрын
Jazakumullahu Khairan 🙏
@khanhamid3744
@khanhamid3744 9 ай бұрын
Just saw a pic of you sheikh on' you are a precious trust' lecturer. You seem to be getting more younger mashallah tabarakallah. That was from 8 years ago or even more.
@belal.assaad
@belal.assaad 9 ай бұрын
Alhamdulillah, they say age is just a number. I wonder…
@khanhamid3744
@khanhamid3744 9 ай бұрын
@@belal.assaad @Belal Assaad I wish you goodnes sheikh. May Allah keep you healthy and well to serve his cause until you meet him, and he is pleased with you and grants you jannathul firdous.
@Revelations_of_Islam
@Revelations_of_Islam 4 ай бұрын
I'm constantly amazed by the depth of insights this channel provides about Allah and Islamic teachings. Keep up the incredible work!
@Cb-lb2tq
@Cb-lb2tq 2 күн бұрын
Everyone who reads this, we are aproching the end of Ramadan and layatul qadr is comming closer, I want to ask you to make dua for me that i get married to a rightious man this year (2024)
@dessy844
@dessy844 2 ай бұрын
41:25 ... 😅 Mr Belal you are hilarious... This topic should have been brought up again- like the topic about " Those who desire Paradise " but 2.0 version of it . Listening to this at work- so with that : thank you for the company. insha Allah until the next time.
@hagar-rosie-5262
@hagar-rosie-5262 9 ай бұрын
Barakallahu feek really good Video
@Sarasara-gh7cq
@Sarasara-gh7cq 4 ай бұрын
بارك الله فيك
@latifasaeed2546
@latifasaeed2546 10 ай бұрын
Thanks you sheikh❤
@mohammedsalifu3523
@mohammedsalifu3523 9 ай бұрын
_As salaamu alaykum.please this is AbdulShakur from Ghana_
@ihssanebell6458
@ihssanebell6458 2 ай бұрын
Jazakallahu khayran 🤲🏻
@zamalbaksh6328
@zamalbaksh6328 9 ай бұрын
Salaam may allah bless you my brother
@mahbubabirhan7958
@mahbubabirhan7958 8 ай бұрын
Jezakellah Heir Ya Sheikh!
@Goldnal7
@Goldnal7 9 ай бұрын
Brilliant video
@lodiraisa
@lodiraisa 7 ай бұрын
The whole lecture summarized by Shk at the second last question ❤😂😂 1:14:14
@bahatinamugerwa4864
@bahatinamugerwa4864 5 ай бұрын
Baraka Allah fiikum
@RahmaARahma
@RahmaARahma 8 ай бұрын
Subhan Allah thankyou 🙏
@tahirballikaya213
@tahirballikaya213 9 ай бұрын
Helpful lecture, I took notes. I think Q1 is very important and one should also mention gender-roles since these can be a big problem especially in the west. Men usually looking for traditional gender roles, but some sisters want to have their own freedom when it comes to working, decision taking and splitting household chores etc. But also sister should specifically ask brothers if they are expecting the women to go to work and pay half of the bills. Also how about getting married legally in the west? Is it necessary. Should one avoid it?
@tahirballikaya213
@tahirballikaya213 9 ай бұрын
20.000 is quite a lot for a young brother. Remember when you make the halal hard, haram becomes easy.
@tahirballikaya213
@tahirballikaya213 9 ай бұрын
@@RR-wk9zi Maybe it's different in your culture but in my environment most girls also expect some sort of ring (usually diamond) or other type of jewelery on top of mahr + the groom is also expected to pay for the brides wedding dress + shoes. And let's not forget he already has to save up for the actual wedding, flat, furniture etc. If the guy is lucky and can find a job in his parents vicinity and doesn't have to pay rent or his dad helps him out financially, he can save it up with 2-3 years of work. Otherwise we shouldn't expect brothers to work until 25 to get married.
@abdurrahimturker5479
@abdurrahimturker5479 9 ай бұрын
Wow some of these comments make me scared of getting married. The state of women in the west is very very very bad.. if women talk about 'at least having 20,000 on their Bank Account, having enough Qualification to work etc.', just in case something goes wrong is extreme stupidity. It's the same as a man getting to know his 2nd wife already 'just in case the first one fails'.. can't take any risks, right 🤡
@tahirballikaya213
@tahirballikaya213 9 ай бұрын
it's funny how girls nowadays say "being a mum is a full time job" and using it as an excuse why the man should help her out in the household while they have all kinds of machines, food is ready, bread is ready, even the babys food is ready, there is pampers, breast pumps etc. My grandma had no washing machine, no dish washer, even no fridge when she was younger. There was no shop other than weekly bazaar. She had to bake her own bread, the vegetables and eggs had to be picked up from the garden, the chicken fed, the milk milked. And she still managed to grow 5 children. So I guess being a mum used to be 3 full time jobs.
@faraaq
@faraaq 7 ай бұрын
​@@RR-wk9ziIs your advice backed up by scholarly evidence? You aren't a person of knowledge. Be humble and listen to scholars.
@mahnazahsan7473
@mahnazahsan7473 4 ай бұрын
Excellent lecture.
@zuhamalik7686
@zuhamalik7686 21 күн бұрын
He is so right in explaining this. I have seen sisters get stuck in this even when the intentions of the sister are pure. 12:11
@khaledyousef9997
@khaledyousef9997 4 ай бұрын
Beautiful maashaa2Allah
@sadyadey782
@sadyadey782 8 ай бұрын
Salaam Aleykum, I hope you can make a video about single parents and how they can remarry and what they should do in respective of those with children inshaAllah .
@aliinowshed7967
@aliinowshed7967 6 ай бұрын
Jazak Allahu khair
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