15 Things CLASSY WOMEN DO That Separates Them from Everyone Else

[@AnnieParkerConfidential]

Hi y'all! What do YOU think makes a woman Classy? Share below!

[@jerrycarolnezat6064]

You mentioned many things that would be on my list,too. I found them excellent reminders; no matter what age a woman is. For me “growing old gracefully” means not complaining about my age nor using it as an excuse, but embracing that number. Looking good in my 70’s means fun clothes that suit my lifestyle but are

[@jerrycarolnezat6064]

…oops, I hit wrong button. I want to look nice for a 70+ year old woman & not frumpy. This is a great subject & I could probably say more but know to keep it short.

[@teenindustry]

Being kind and if she is in a position of privilege wanting to give back and lift others up

[@AnnieParkerConfidential]

@@teenindustry Yasss!!!!

[@wannabe41]

I think in addition to being polite, classy women listen more than they speak and make the people they’re with feel special and valued.

[@AnnieParkerConfidential]

Completely agree, Katherine ;-)

[@teenindustry]

I love that this puts the emphasis on kindness. I am a social worker and a lot of my clients are people who have experienced poverty. Many feel locked out of spaces that they see as “classy” but the first step is common sense civility which most of us are capable of. I would add that the host gift doesn’t have to be expensive. My bestie brings lemons from their tree or homemade jam sometimes

[@AnnieParkerConfidential]

I LOVE your insight - thank you so much. I couldn’t agree more. I grew up in a military family, but mom always said “It costs nothing to be nice, and say please and thank you.” 🥰

[@teenindustry]

@@AnnieParkerConfidential thanks so much

[@ytang5615]

Aging gracefully is not being frightened by aging, not undergoing plastic surgeries all the time and having other thing to occupy yourself with than aging [ hobbies and interests ]. I think aging gracefully is more a state of mind than a state of your body, although caring for your health and grooming is important too.

[@newmercies1]

Amazing video Annie. Thank you. I am adding my input here. Being a greek living in Switzerland for many years, one thing I have noticed when I came to live here in Geneva is how discrete people are. Of course it mainly comes from the calvinist culture but it is also class and good manners which I have tried to learn from over the years. Money: They don't discuss money and they do not show money as well even when the bill is placed on the table, it is usually covered, which is something I don't always see in other countries. Voice: They are very discrete also when it comes to the tone of their voice. What I mean is they never raise their voice even more so when they are in a public space and when they hear someone doing so they get very irritated. Their first comment? Tourists...! It may sound discriminatory but then again how many of us have been disturbed by the loud speaking and laughters of a group of people on the lobby of a 5 star hotel. You would expect better but then again...! I think it is not classy to speak loud especially in public spaces: hotels, shops, trains, buses, etc. Smile: Additionally smiling is a characteristic of good manners. You may be on a corridor or the lobby of a hotel crossing with strangers. While you may not always have to talk, it pays off to smile and greet gently with your head. It is a gesture of class and good manners. Gossiping: it is the first indication you have no class. Classy people do not gossip and when it happens in a group of friends they will typically say something along the lines: I am sorry, I do not feel comfortable talking about someone who is not present, or will change the subject to avoid awkwardness. Humility and kindness: Last, being humble and helpful even with people that are there to serve you shows that you are raised well and have good manners. Of course one needs to be genuinely a good person to treat others always with respect, regardless of where you are: at the airport, shop, hotel, etc. Especially at places where people are constantly irritated and in a rush go the extra mile, be there early and start by saying: good morning, good evening, etc. then ask if they are available to help you before jumping on asking your question, you will see how much better you will be treated. Apologise if someone for no reason is aggressive towards you and ask kindly how you could be of help. Last, tolerate even if it isn't your fault, who knows what battles may that person be facing at that moment. Be genuinely a good person. That's how you gain class. Bonus: your partner will notice and learn from you too. ;)

[@AnnieParkerConfidential]

Great input - thank you so much! 💕💕

[@kimmyb908]

Good topic to touch on

[@kimmyb908]

YOU ARE, I AGREE WITH ALL YOU SAY. YOU REMINDED ME OF A FEW THINGS I FORGOT THANK YOU .

[@TheLisabonita]

Agree 100%. Great video.. Treat others the way you want them to treat you. Thank you.. The world would be such a better place.. 😍

[@AnnieParkerConfidential]

Well said!💕

[@susanwilliams6099]

Brilliant as usual , I agree with everything you said.

[@AnnieParkerConfidential]

Much appreciated💕

[@christinehillebrand3667]

classy women do not overeat. They talk with low and quiet voice, and slowly and pronounced. And speak never more than necessary. They dont gesticulate or move rapidly, but elegantly "lazy". They smile most of the time and never put themselves in front of others. They make everything kind of with understatement. They do not behave "showy", but rather seek the background. So they do not dress "striking". They will not lie or cheat or betray somebody . And they live with generosity, to themselves and all others ....They know true values. And they live from the heart - what is the greatest luxury. Be a classy person is constant work. I know firsthand ...

[@AnnieParkerConfidential]

Thank you for such thoughtful input ;-)

[@whodoyaserve]

Thank you. I’m 51 and have been working on better representing myself… Still much to learn and work on! I appreciate your video and will watch more! Thank you 🤗

[@AnnieParkerConfidential]

Oh thank you so much - I'm so happy that you enjoyed it ;-)

[@elsiepselma8202]

This is very informative👍🏽 I've learned a lot

[@AnnieParkerConfidential]

Oh good! Thank you ;-)

[@VOICEOFQUEENS]

On point

[@AnnieParkerConfidential]

Gracias ;-)

[@VOICEOFQUEENS]

Denada

[@rosalindmize3919]

Love the delicate help😊

[@AnnieParkerConfidential]

Gracias my friend ;-)

[@rosalindmize3919]

@@AnnieParkerConfidential more flies with honey than vinegar touche?

[@urbanleaguesoct]

LOVE LOVE LOVE this video. And I love the pink top you’re wearing.

[@PatchworkSchoolhouse]

Have all your teeth 🤣🤣🤣 Love your sense of humour! I think you hit all the salients…things I’ve been taught & have taught my children. I found the Four Seasons hotel study very interesting. I’m a firm believer in treating others with kindness & respect (until they absolutely show they don’t want it). My husband takes it a bit further & if someone is wearing a name tag, he’ll use their name. Freaks them out a bit but it does make them smile. Leaving someone with a genuine smile is always a good goal!

[@AnnieParkerConfidential]

Awww - thank you. Clearly, you’re both amazing parents, raising good humans. Thank you for that - we need more goodness in the world 🤗💕💕

[@janisezack1610]

Loved the video. ❤️

[@AnnieParkerConfidential]

Thank you Janis💕🤗

[@CyberMercy]

Classy women have Interests/Hobbies beyond shopping and watching Realty Media. Scrap booking, Automotive Restoration, going to Museums or Galleries, Gardening, anything tha shows a passion beyond spending or earning money is Classy 😎☕💋

[@AnnieParkerConfidential]

Agree!!

[@Marty-zz6ry]

I like this video. Good information. I think another attribute of a classy lady is not talking too loud in public.

[@AnnieParkerConfidential]

Totally agree - thank you for the great feedback Marty 🥰

[@ptaber7588]

I love this video so much. Be courteous and nice to people. See's!( Nuts and chews!) We have been taking individually wrapped pieces on the plane for the flight attendants. They get really excited.

[@AnnieParkerConfidential]

Omg girl - Sees nuts & chews are my ALL TIME absolute favorite special treat in the WORLD!! 🤗💕💕 Undoubtedly, your kindness makes their day 💕

[@tigerpackgaming5728]

Classy to one person may be different for another. ALWAYS REMEMBER THAT.People loves different things period.

[@AnnieParkerConfidential]

True dat 👍

[@doniabaghagho1801]

Perfect 🥰

[@AnnieParkerConfidential]

:-)

[@sallyfromcali8423]

Very helpful... I have a LOT to work on lol

[@AnnieParkerConfidential]

Lol - don't we ALL, Sally ;-)

[@pepettehousemusic999]

I just discovered you right now, you look amazing! I'm glad that i found your channel ❤

[@AnnieParkerConfidential]

Thank you beautiful lady - I am so happy to have you in the community. Welcome!

[@lightdancervaughn1447]

Too me nothing screams I'm old than the short wash and wear hair cut. I feel it screams "I'm old and I give up."

[@AnnieParkerConfidential]

🤣🤣🤣TOTALLY! I forgot about THAT gem😂

[@Mrs.TJ516]

All of these are pretty common for us women with class and substance but lots of women lack this 😁

[@AnnieParkerConfidential]

It’s also meant to be helpful for ladies who didn’t have the benefit of parents or role-models who taught them the basics, but want to better themselves 💕💕

[@riarios5214]

Thank you for this video. I'm so glad someone else dislikes The Housewife's shows 😣😣😣that's a perfect example that money can't buy class

[@AnnieParkerConfidential]

You are so welcome! Didn't one of the NYC housewives come out with the song, "Money Can't Buy You Class"? Oh, the irony ;-)

[@beverlylooper3927]

Aging gracefully is code for she still looks beautiful at an age when most women have lost their good looks.

[@AnnieParkerConfidential]

Got it! ;-)

[@lifeofawe-1966]

Aging Gracefully means accepting your age, working with your age and not fighting against it

[@AnnieParkerConfidential]

Love it ;-)

[@martacasablanca]

Yeah well... I didn't tick most of the boxes, I'm afraid I'm not the classiest around here 😅

[@AnnieParkerConfidential]

🤣 I chew gum and drop F-bombs, so we're in good company ;-)

[@corinamejia4877]

l am not rich at all, but l just found out lm a classy woman 😊

[@AnnieParkerConfidential]

Yes! You definitely are ;-)

[@Mrs.TJ516]

You don’t have to be rich to be classy ✨✨✨ this is taught at home.

[@americafirst9144]

CLASS: A former diplomat's wide told me this story. She was at a big luncheon. The Mexican cook served the artichokes. Discovering they were raw, the hostess said, "Maria, I think we will have these another day."

[@AnnieParkerConfidential]

Like the time I made my dad his favorite pecan pie, BUT tried to make a “healthy” version. He takes one bite and says….”I think I’ll save this for later.” 😂

[@americafirst9144]

@@AnnieParkerConfidential Great story. The secret to a healthier pecan pie is maple syrup.

[@AnnieParkerConfidential]

@@americafirst9144 ooo - yes, love the tip

[@LouiseVanLelyveld]

I just discovered your videos, and I love it. You are on point. I also hate the housewife franchise. Haven't watched it and never will. The reviews on them is enough to put me off. A well behaved lady with little to no money in the bank is so much more classy that a lady with a foul mouth. Like they say, "you can by ground, but not background"

[@AnnieParkerConfidential]

Completely agree 💕

[@idaliarice4773]

I find I always say thank you after I take my pts vitals… lol

[@AnnieParkerConfidential]

Lol 😆

[@kimberlyclemons1902]

Aging gracefully should look much like an obre effect on a painted wall. Where one color subtly transitions into another with no definitively lines between.. This means taking a 3-5yr re-evaluation of yourself top to bottom. Update hair style, makeup and wardrobe. This should be subtle and age appropriate. Keep timeless classic pieces that can be incorporated with the new. Sudden drastic changes should be avoided. A gradual transition through smaller updates while keeping a timeless classic look gives the appearance of Aging with grace.

[@AnnieParkerConfidential]

Kimberly - this is really amazing advice, thank you! You put it perfectly ;-)

[@island661]

•Don't cuss •Please, and thank you •Art of language •Good posture •Don't drink from a bottle •Don't chew gum •Don't get drunk •Don't show too much skin •No logos (Gucci etc.) •Great table manners •Never show up empty handed •Don't talk about money •Well-groomed •Age gracefully don't go overboard with procedures. •Don't wear stilettos •Don't be snarky or a b •Watching The Houswives shows •Don't be a gossip

[@AnnieParkerConfidential]

love these ;-)

[@katmac5386]

❤❤❤

[@tquirkyt7118]

From seeing her on TV so much over the years, whenever I’m thinking of a situation or response, I think What would Martha Stewart do? 😉…and the opposite would be most of the Real Housewives (pick a city)…and it’s popular because it’s like watching a train wreck 😊 “Aging Gracefully” means not looking like you are trying too hard to look younger…you can see it, and it’s sad.😢

[@AnnieParkerConfidential]

💕💕

[@cleanqueen75]

Cussing….well I flunked! How about tattoos? I hate them on women especially older women age 50 and up. Looks so trashy!

[@AnnieParkerConfidential]

I flunk cussing too, lol. Every once in a while I'm known to drop an F bomb. Keepin' it real ;-)

[@SusanTWest]

Aging Gracefully means acting and dressing appropriately for your age! If you're older and you are dressed like a teenager, or you're older, and you talk like a teenager, you're not fooling anyone thinking that you are a teenager. You look ridiculous, and you sound ridiculous! Aging Gracefully is being comfortable in your skin at each stage of your life!

[@AnnieParkerConfidential]

Agree ;-)

[@sonyadiamond4735]

Hello Shelli Loved your videos so far but it was you assessment of the housewives that made subscribe. I havr to admit I don't understand the appeal of watching adults act like 7th graders.

[@AnnieParkerConfidential]

Totally 🤷‍♀️ (housewives). Thank you for subscribing and welcome to the community!

[@fbm31]

I do agree with you! I never could understand the popularity of the rich house wife shows. They look and act so vulgar. Love all your tips. Thank you.

[@AnnieParkerConfidential]

It's embarrassing ;-/

[@InsouciantlyChic]

Hello, I have one question. Despite the fact that I agree with you on pretty much everything you said, I don't understand one thing... Why did you use a picture of Meghan Markle to illustrate "classy"? It's clear to me why you used photos of Cindy Crawford, Queen Rania, et al, but I'd like to know why you used Meghan Markle. Thank you.

[@AnnieParkerConfidential]

First, I seek to include women of all races, skin color and sizes as our community is one of inclusion and representation. Second, I personally like her clothing style. Finally - having shot over 400 videos to date, it is very difficult to find representation of African American women (or anything other than caucasian), in the 'style' category.

[@InsouciantlyChic]

@@AnnieParkerConfidential Many thanks for taking the time to read my question and for kindly (and very promptly) replying; I sincerely appreciate your professionalism.

[@AnnieParkerConfidential]

@@InsouciantlyChic anytime ☺️

[@christinehillebrand3667]

Sorry, but it is not at all classy to bring a gift to an invitation. The real gift is to elevate the conversation and the mood .. effortlessly ! and if appropriate, make the counterinvitation. Gifting somebody who wants to be a generous host is like gaining control over the situation. It does not feel good at all. Except you meet your best friend one on one.

[@tam.s..9131]

...you got whole package..

[@tam.s..9131]

I got it only if you deserve it..

[@Виктория-к9б2м]

For classy women this is way too much face expressions and noise....