15 Tips: How to Look Polished in Sweater & Jeans Outfits

[@betsygiles4871]

The blue coat with the blue sweater is stunning!

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Thank you. I think that's my favorite, too.

[@janicerepass6996]

That camel turtleneck looks so lovely on you! Love the faux leather carcoat, too! So many pretty outfits! Great video!

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

That’s a favorite outfit of mine too. Thank you for watching!🥰

[@kimberlyberlin4999]

You are spot on about the scarf and how you wear it. I always struggle with mine looking too "fussy" for my outfit. Thank you for the pointer. Could you please do a video on how to choose a scarf; what colors and patterns to choose.

[@tR-gc2wl]

I am turning 50 next month. I just love your clothes styling! Everything is so beautiful and fun looking. You are a beautiful woman. Have a wonderful Christmas 🎄

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Thank you so much. That is very kind. 🥰

[@manycallmemom8406]

Fun tips. I really have to say you look best in the creams and neutrals…just does more justice to your pretty skin and hair coloring….❤. The vibrant colors seem too harsh but it could be the lighting too. Blessings.

[@bethharris4714]

Hi Kay, I have found that a slim straight leg jean works best for me. It was hard to not wear the skinny form fitting jeans, but I think this style I have found is a good compromise. Most days where I live, a sweater is too warm but I’m substituting a button down shirt and using your tips. Thank you! Beth

[@crisd4922]

Once again, I learn about the choices, where to start and how to pull together my polished look from Kay! Love your kind but real comments. Thanks

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

I'm so glad you found it helpful. Thanks, Cris.

[@susanlarkin3790]

Great tips for me, as my winter “uniform” is jeans and a sweater! Never thought about coordinating a coat with the rest of the outfit.👍🏻

[@leticiainocentes4924]

Hello Kay have a good and stay safe always.

[@kimberlyperrotis8962]

I love scarves, they’ve always been my favorite accessory for 40 years, trending or not, they’re classic. I started wearing them in my 20s when few others did, but I always get so many compliments on my outfit when I wear one). I have a big collection of mostly inexpensive, but genuine silk, scarves and wear them a lot from autumn through spring. I just buy any that appeal to me if they are affordable, including many from Amazon (the selection is more depleted there now, though, after scarves recently began trending). My favorites are a white, black and gold baroque-design one from Amazon and a khaki green and cream-striped one from Toteme (this one was expensive). Most of my clothes are simple and solid-color and scarves are real “outfit makers” for my usually 1, 2 or 3 color outfits. They pull solid colors together and add femininity, color, pattern and style. Geometric-patterned scarves are especially trending now. I think the trick to wearing scarves is just not to fuss with them too much. I sometimes fasten them with little, cheap “gold rings”, the 10 for $5 type, by just pulling the ends through. This helps secure the really small squares that barely have enough fabric to tie a knot and it looks a lot more expensive than it really is. I usually just wear simple earrings and no necklace with them, but I have seen many women wearing them with pearl strands. I prefer fewer accessories for myself.

[@kimberlyperrotis8962]

I love scarves with a white or cream background print, like yours, Kay. They light up the face.

[@anitarexadams7527]

New to your channel and LOVE your tips and your gracious tone. I’m a bit disappointed, however, in the high price point of nearly every item you link. It’s not an option for me and I’m just wondering if I’m the only person who is thinking the same thing. I’m typically happy with reasonably priced Amazon quality and options so maybe it’s just me. My bar is likely lower 😅 I do appreciate the kindness with which you share so many good tidbits 🥰

[@terry1090]

Talbots is one of Kay's favorite places to shop. Their regular prices are high BUT about three weeks out of the month they have great sales. 30% - 40%+ is common. Talbots is my go-to but I never pay full price. Another tip - if you have a local store and place an order in person the shipping to your home is free for full-priced items or $2.50 for sale clothing. I just learned that lately.

[@fer8095]

I personally put her ideas into play. Talbot's factory outlet stores are great with sales. But I also find her price points to be high for me. But you can put her ideas into play no matter what your price point is 😊

[@anitarexadams7527]

@@fer8095 good point. I do like to shop from her links, however, because I know it helps her platform/commission. It’s also quite easy to do that when the link directs you to a product you can purchase.

[@karenartis4472]

I use her videos as inspiration, but definitely purchase any pieces at retailers with lower price-points.

[@christiecrawford1907]

Thank you for the useful tips-this is my go to outfit for the winter so I appreciate all the ways to elevate the options.

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Glad it was helpful!

[@tracygray7574]

This was great! Thanks! Especially liked the jewelry information. I always seem to be hesitant on which length!

[@katherinerichardson1767]

Never thought about starting with the outer wear then working around it. I also like what you said about the shoes and I have done that often. Thanks again for sharing your ideas which are very practical for us.

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

You are so welcome!

[@celiathirlwall3329]

Good morning Kay! I do tend to wear allot of jeans and sweaters in the winter so all of your tips were timely and spot on! Thank you!!

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Thanks so much for watching Celia.

[@juliemoore6957]

Wow girl! Red is a great color on you! Beautiful 😍.

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Thanks, Julie. I do love wearing it. ❤️

[@kimberlyperrotis8962]

That’s a great tip about the mixed-metal color jewelry item. I looked for years and I did finally find a necklace with both silver and gold colored metals in it (made of sterling, I’m not sure how they achieved the gold-colored parts) and it really does help blend the silver closures, etc. on clothing with my yellow “gold” jewelry. That’s really the only way I like mixing metals. For decades I wore only silver-colored jewelry because that’s what was recommended in my pro color analysis, but I always much more attracted to yellow gold-toned jewelry. I eventually tried it and I think it looks fine, my cool coloring tends toward neutral and simple metal jewelry doesn’t really add much color to an outfit anyway. My first wedding rings were white gold, and so many people said “I’ve never seen wedding rings made out of silver with diamonds before, are they real”? I got so tired of explaining that they were white gold with real diamonds, not silver. I think people are more used to seeing this now, lots of fine jewelry is made with white gold to set off the gemstones, especially diamonds, which can look yellowish if set in yellow gold.

[@nikkisue1715]

Wonderful tips, Kay. Thinking about the coat and working your way in is brilliant! You are so right, looking polished is key. Thanks.

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

You are so welcome!

[@vintagegirl68]

I so admire that you are in wonderful shape from good healthy exercise, not easy to do. I am 54 and feel awful about my body in jeans. I need the motivation to start eating right and exercising so that I will look great in my clothes too and feel good. I am going to search your channel for what you do to stay in shape. Thanks!

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Hi! I participate in FASTer Way to Fat Loss. Great program. www.fasterwaytofatloss.com/#KAYHARMS

[@laurennguyen1008]

Perhaps you would like Pahla B Fitness videos on KZbin. Her workouts are about 23 minutes, moderate, intervals are short and she talks through the whole video so it goes fast.

[@terry1090]

I'm another participant in the FASTer Way to Fat Loss program. Getting "in shape" is more about eating healthy fresh food than endless workouts. Check it out on Instagram and their website. It's a game-changer!

[@lyndastevens9726]

Thanks so much, Kay! Loved all the tips!

[@lindarobertt6206]

Wonderful video! I absolutely love the royal blue boucle coat and sweater! Where is the coat from? I have dark hair and blue eyes and love that outfit and want to buy it.

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Hi Linda. Links to everything shown are always in the description box below the video. You just need to click on the word MORE to get there. Unfortunately the coat has sold out in blue.

[@pbatlake]

Kay, I just love your videos. I live in South Florida and, believe it or not, I can't wait until the weather gets a bit "chilly" so I can wear some jeans with either sweaters or "shackets" along with some booties. I, personally, always seem a bit more comfortable with layering because I grew up in the northeast. When it's really hot here, I have a hard time wearing anything but shorts and t-shirt type tops but never seem to feel "polished" enough. Any suggestions you could make in upcoming videos would be greatly appreciated. Thank you for all you do for us 65 year olds like myself who wish to look as good as possible.

[@arelidelong1188]

You are a beautiful classy lady that look AMAZING with everything, but that cognac color is my favorite on you. Blessings to you and your family! 🌹🌸🏵

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Thank you. 😊

[@2PuppyProductions]

Another great video thank you Kay! I live in a very cold climate so a leather jacket over a sweater would still require me to wear a winter coat. What do you think of wearing a fitted leather leather bomber jacket indoors like I would wear a blazer, in the winter?

[@pamb2868]

I love watching your channel. You give us all so much information. I just bought a faux leather black blazer. I didn’t want to spend a lot for real leather in case I don’t like it. I haven’t got to wear it yet. We took all the family out to eat the other night, but it was too warm to wear it then. It was chilly when we came out. And I wish I would have brought something to wear. I had a cashmere sweater on, but felt to warm. So I switched to a blouse. My granddaughters got in my closet and helped themselves to a few blouses. One took my pink satin blouse, but her sister took it and wore it. And ended up taking it home to Ohio with her. And another had a flannel shirt I had given them last year. I wondered what happened to that shirt. Now I know. And one took my black satin blouse. But ended up not wearing it. Of course, they always ask if they can have it. She didn’t get too far in my closet. She’s a hoodie girl and I have a few I bought. Because she always takes mine. I may be too old to wear a hoodie, but if it’s cold, I don’t care. I have two new pair of lug sole boots. So far I’ve only worn the black pair. I have a tan pair, and I’m not sure what color denim to wear with them. I have some lighter wash denim I might try them. The boots are very comfortable. We looked at some land a few weeks ago, and I walked all over and they felt great. And my husband bought them for me. Which surprised me.

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Thanks for watching Pam. I’m glad you enjoyed the video. You’re a generous grandmother! 😉💕

[@ladyesther]

The lighter wash and dark blue jeans looked so nice on you.

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Thank you. I like those, too.

[@ukaly1]

I definitely agree with the tip about starting with your coat and footwear then going from there. I do this all the time in the winter. Love watching you!

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Perfect! It became really key when I moved to Ohio. Also key when traveling I think.

[@carolreeves9976]

What a fun video to watch. My usual outfit is some kind of a top over my jeans, sweater or shirt. I love the way you made it so easy to put an outfit together and have it looks great. Thank you.

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

I'm so glad you enjoyed it. Thanks for watching!

[@ruthbarmore5211]

Kay, you look fabulous in red. You should wear it more often.

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

I do indeed enjoy wearing red. One of my favs really. Thanks so much. ❤️

[@katecarlin4773]

Loved your video. Although it is the first day of summer here in Australia, i can still adapt some of your ideas. I love the way you coordinate each outfit. Hugs from Oz😘🦘

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Thank you! ❤️

[@janet9913]

I really like the idea of starting with the coat! I have ruined outfits with a coat at the last minute and then no time to change!

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Exactly! It happens to all of us I know.

[@tonyaswigworld]

I love your channel! I’m new and so far love all the info you have!

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Thank you so much. 💕

[@SingYourselfWell]

Such a wonderful video. So many great tips! Thank you Kay!!

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Thank you for watching. I’m so glad you enjoyed it. 😊

[@marinasmith4772]

I have been shifting from gold to silver, cooler metallic tones for jewelry. Many of us who were in our prime in the 80/90s loved gold tones. Unfortunately they can now be rather aging.

[@julietv6161]

You always teach us so much. Thank you.

[@novanorman1091]

Your hair looks great here! This is a very helpful video! Thanks so much.

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

You are so welcome!

[@GBC-yw8gs]

The teal sweater is a great color for you! It makes your face light up and really highlights your eyes.

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Oh thank you!

[@saramaloney6082]

Thank you! This was so helpful! Ingenious starting my outfit with a coat. On work days I'm going to try starting with a jacket, blazer, or cardigan. It's chilly at my work and I'm alway stuck with what to put as a topper. I'll start with that! The footwear tips too wow thank you Kay. .

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Thanks so much for sharing. I’m so glad you got some take-away here. 🙌🏻

[@ednawilliams3608]

Great hints Kay. My favorite looks are the bookend type, top and shoes matching. Also love scarfs and the easiest way to style and insure they stay where you want them to is to pin them to your top. Always enjoy your videos. Thank you 😊.

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Thanks for sharing!!

[@americafirst9144]

Heads up, pinning silk scarves can leave holes in them.

[@ednawilliams3608]

@@americafirst9144 I've been doing so for years and no holes. Silk is unbelievably tough.

[@marilyncoburn4936]

Fabulous video, many great tips! These are all lifetime lessons for dressing.

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Perfect! Thanks so much for letting me know. 😊

[@Faristol7]

Thank you, Kay, for your common sense tips and the kind and fun way you present them! I loved watching this video, and found that l have always agreed with much of what you pointed out - l have always considered myself a good dresser, and really love clothes and accessories. I'm glad that 'great minds think alike', and l love your American accent! (I'm from the UK).

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Thanks so much for watching.

[@mariafelix7932]

I love all you tips Kay!!! And I hope you enjoyed your Thanks Given Day!!!

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Yes we did. Thank you. 💕

[@Darry4645]

Fab tip to choose coat and footwear first

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Glad you liked it! Thanks for watching.

[@Darry4645]

I really do appreciate ur tips.

[@janicerice8810]

Great tips! Well thought through and wonderful examples. I always struggle with how the outfit loses it’s charm when you take your footwear off when visiting people. How do you keep your outfit polished when you visit people in their home and leave your footwear at the door?

[@pattorelli3451]

I hate doing this, too. If wearing winter boots, I just bring a pair of “indoor” shoes with me.

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Glad it was helpful!

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

My daughter in law brought her own slippers with her yesterday for Thanksgiving. I thought that was brilliant. But if you're visiting someone you don't know as well and there's the chance you may need to remove your shoes, just be sure to wear nice socks. Once when I walked to a neighbor's house in the snow for dinner, I wore my boots, but took some little slipper type shoes in my bag to change into. so that's a thought, too.

[@kimberlyperrotis8962]

I always feel incomplete and too short if I have to take off my low to mid heeled shoes, they’re part of my outfit and I love the extra height.🙂

[@andreaarias2085]

Thank you and your husband and family for your help and encouragement to looking polished even when wearing jeans and sweaters in cool weather! We have had plenty of influencers help us to look edgy and rock and roll. This is a course for adding some polish to our daily, fall and winter looks! Thank you all for your input!

[@jennifermitchell9282]

Hi where did you buy the turtle neck and the faux tan coat? I just started following you, I love that you show us how to dress classy!

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Hi Jennifer. The links are always in the description box below the video. Here’s a link to the car coat rstyle.me/cz-n/g4xxyschvkf

[@daisyy99]

Angelas Fashion Mix a youtuber who styles total looks. Elegant and classy for curvy women.

[@kimberlyperrotis8962]

I don’t like wearing sweaters as tops, i.e., right next to my skin. Even though I only wear natural fiber ones, I know I will overheat before too long, unless outdoors in the cold. Also, even good cashmere irritates my skin. So, I usually wear a lightweight long-sleeved shirt or knit top (a silk knit tee is my favorite), then I can remove the sweater indoors, or just tie it around my shoulders. I also really like a white or light shirt collar and cuffs peeping out when wearing a darker sweater.

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Great idea, Kimberly. Thanks so much for sharing.

[@cynthiajohnston424]

A merino wool sweater may work for you - very fine , light , soft & smooth & good for three season wear. Talbots has some in a nice choice of colors . I have several & my camel one is my favorite go-to w/ jeans & a silk scarf .

[@conniepleasantnails]

Thank you as always very helpful tips. I literally take notes and add them to my wardrobe checklist so I can improve my style. It’s working I feel like I’m finding my groove. ❤

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

That’s so amazing to hear, Connie. Thanks for letting me know.

[@conniepleasantnails]

@@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms You rock 💕👊🏼

[@MS-jd9tl]

@@conniepleasantnails efca e

[@SewWhittle]

Love the idea of Nordgreen, but I find most people these days are wearing fitness watches (Apple Watch, Fitbit, etc.). Thanks for sharing.

[@IDreamOfWigs]

I LOVE this!!! I tend to bookend my wardrobe a lot. I always match the shoes to the sweater. And brrrrrr it’s cold this first day of December. Thanks for a great video. ❤

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

I’m so glad you enjoyed it! 🥰

[@paolamura3497]

To be polished...first thing...get to be the best slim you can get to be.

[@michelemarotta2874]

That first watch is just stunning 😍

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

I think so too!

[@americafirst9144]

I did not buy that black Ralph Lauren chunky cableknit turtleneck sweater last night at 40% off. (Okay, I did.) Any styling ideas?

[@gaylestewart8196]

Great tips! Thanks, Kay

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

You’re so welcome. Thank you for watching. 😊

[@gaylestewart8196]

And, I love your styles so much- - I ordered one of the pieces you modeled last week! ❤️

[@karenrogers2826]

I love all your clothes and your style!

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Thank you Karen. 💙

[@daisyy99]

Fabulous video, some excellent pointers.

[@betsymcmurray727]

Love these outfits! Do you happen to have links for the belts? Thank you!!!

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

I’m so glad you enjoyed it. My belts are both sold out, but I got them here. Nice selection. rstyle.me/cz-n/g7mqe6chvkf

[@betsymcmurray727]

@@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms Thank you so very much! Absolutely love your style! :)

[@karengriffiths2091]

Hi Kay! What about embellished jeans? In, out, trend, fad? I tend to only see them on Chicos or Talbots, which makes me wonder if they tend to "age" you as a 50+ woman. Thank you for your thoughts.

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

They are indeed a little faddish, but nothing wrong with wearing them if they truly reflect your personal style.

[@danalaborde1525]

Mid rise my favorite

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

It’s so good to know what works best for you. Thanks for sharing.

[@Darry4645]

Also, been forgetting to say thank u for the suggestion about flat ironing.

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

I’m glad that was helpful for you. 👍🏻

[@normakarr8213]

This was the most helpful video, Kay. Thank you 😊

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

That’s so great to hear. It was fun to make.

[@FrightfulAccountant]

Problem with jeans is that most made their choice based on fashion, which is always swinging back and forwards between ultra skinny and baggy and often pointing towards blue stonewashed. For most people a moderate slimfit in solid GREY is the one that works best on your bodytype, goes with the widest variety of outfits and is just so forgiving to style. A stonewashed blue jeans can be very unforgiving to style and is not for smart casual. Ultraskinny and baggy both only work on teenagers!

[@heatherrj9980]

I always choose my coat first!

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

🙌🏻

[@Pam-fh4ji]

What wonderful pieces..so elegant and cohesive..Here in India,the temperatures are several degrees higher than in the west..The winters for instance range between 20 degree celcius to around 1 degree celcius in peak winters in North India .(I guess it must be freezing in America around this time .)And yet I feel so cold in jeans..I have tried wearing thin thermals inside the jeans but then I feel bulky and itchy all over my legs..Wonder what could be wrong..The other day I saw fleece lined jeans from a Chinese brand Haiepeiwa on Amazon..The ones from this brand available in India do not fit and are non returnable. Can you recommend any other brand or even a hack to make them warm in winters??

[@juliathompson436]

Try silk long underwear. Here in US brand is Cuddleduds

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Yes, Cuddleduds should help.

[@Pam-fh4ji]

@@juliathompson436 Oh...thanks a ton

[@richbishop7896]

Hi Kay I'm Bonny, 67 years old, 5ft. 5 and I just subscribed. I've been watching your videos for a few days now. My question is do you think it would be appropriate to wear a black turtleneck sweater with my black pin-dot pants for a funeral for my cousin or do you suggest something else.

[@elizabethpetrie2732]

Hi, Bonny. I’m sorry for your loss. The outfit you suggest sounds perfectly appropriate to me.

[@richbishop7896]

@@elizabethpetrie2732 Thanks.

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Sounds good to me, Bonny. I know your presence will be appreciated. 💙

[@lindanason6211]

Where do I find the watch you refer to? Is it Nora Green?

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Nordgreen. Here’s the link and use code KAYHRMS bit.ly/3hYsThI

[@lindanason6211]

@@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms Thank you!

[@Katrn30]

I don’t wear watches…they don’t work on me, lol. When I was a student nurse we would get marks taken off if we forgot our watch…mine was always not working, but at least I had it on! I have tried inexpensive and expensive watches, and none would work more than a minute or so on me, but kept perfect time on my dresser. So wearing a watch gets weird for me, having to constantly explain why I don’t have the correct time.

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Huh!! I’ve heard of people having that problem. A mystery to me. So you’re definitely an exception! 😉

[@Katrn30]

@@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms yeah, lol, I stick to bracelets!

[@rachelkivarkis1801]

Thank you, thank you, thank you Kay, beautiful and helpful tips. 🥰🙏🍁👍❤️✝️👏🍂🌹

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Glad it was helpful!

[@barbiec4312]

Cute ideas. Thanks.

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Glad you like them!

[@sandragoins4293]

Where is the link at the bottom.?

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Look below the video and click on the title. Then the comments will close and you’ll see the beginning of the description. Click on “more” to see the rest.

[@colsen4616]

Start with your outerwear…great tip!

[@reneestes6254]

Love the blue sweater and coat. I also love the red blouse you’re wearing!! ♥️

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Me too!!

[@lindabjork2067]

The current style is moving to high waisted jeans and shorter sweaters.

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Yes it is. And I love it. Like the pink one in the video. Then you don’t have to tuck to get those great proportions. 😉

[@barbararees3304]

In the winter, I always think of my coat and shoes too, especially if I am doing much walking. Good to know about simply a front knot in my scarf. Sometimes I try and try. A really good video

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Yes! Thank you!

[@jobethwachtman7990]

Do you ever wear a blouse under your sweater? I always loved that classic look.

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Sometimes, but I often find it a little uncomfortable. So I'm more likely to wear a t-shirt like camisole underneath for warmth. But that is definitely a great look!

[@gailjones9461]

I love straight slim leg jeans. From the beginning of skinny-leg jeans coming into style, I felt the proportions looked off for women who have hips plus they aren't comfortable.

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Hahaha! I agree, but a lot of women do love them. Thanks for sharing, Gail. 💕

[@patfar392]

Longest advert ever

[@monicacorr6979]

Watches are beautiful but dont wear them for more than 15 years, cant stand a foreign frequency on my body

[@marinamo6479]

Exactly. I always start from the top. And thank you for your code KAY12 for Lilly Silk. Just bought beautiful silk blouse. Love from Australia.

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Wonderful! Thank you.