我都曾經有過經驗,叫一個人去睇心理醫生真係唔容易的,我當時既方法就係同我個 Ex 講 : 我覺得自己有病叫佢陪我去睇心理醫生,而家 Leo 既情況,唯一既辦法,就係同太太講,你既病情惡化,醫生話需要見你太太,希望你太太可以幫你減輕個病情,能夠帶到你太太去睇醫生,對你同你太太都係好事嚟的,兩個一齊見晒醫生,都係解決唔到的話,可能到時就係絕盡了!可能分開對大家都係好事,送過佢,亦都等如放過你自己的!Good Luck ! 🙏
Can’t solve a problem with the same way it was created. 1-Hitting someone is already a sign of disrespectful (we never disrespect someone we love…if u know what i mean) 2-She knows that she did wrong and apologize a few days later but then repeat everything again and again (she doesn’t plan to change which means her apologize aren’t sincere). 3-Getting violent just cause u can’t afford to buy an apartment or have a baby? I mean…is that even a valid reason? Ur in the same condition as her, without a house or a child, does she allow u to beat her? 4-She can finally control herself and even help at housework after knowing u might leave her…so all those beating wasn’t uncontrollable, she just didn’t care that u might get hurt, she just wanted to release her rage No matter how i look at it, she doesn’t love u, I believe she doesn’t want u to leave for many reasons, for example, she won’t have another chance to marry someone else, she need someone to take care of her and housework, etc) Back to the beginning, u can’t never solve a problem with the same way it was created, the problem here is ur wife, unless she is willing to change or this will only lead to any worse possibly outcome and greater violence.