17th Sep: How to talk and love it?

Talking is something you already know how to do. You’ve been doing it for years in different settings like family, work, and with friends. The key to learning how to talk to anyone isn’t about gaining a new skill, but recognizing that speaking is as natural as eating or drinking. You love to speak because it’s instinctive, and when you embrace this, it becomes easier to talk in any situation.
Speaking Is Natural
We communicate well in familiar environments, like with family, because we feel safe and want to express ourselves. This is a natural instinct, driven by the desire to connect. Speaking isn’t a skill you’re missing; it’s something you already enjoy. The first step is acknowledging that you love to talk and can extend this comfort to other areas-whether in work, social settings, or travel.
Barriers to Expression
What holds most people back from talking freely are internal barriers, like judgment, anxiety, low confidence, perfectionism, and negativity. These aren’t signs that you can’t talk well, but obstacles that can be overcome. By addressing these barriers step by step, you can expand your natural ability to communicate.
Conversation vs. Talking
Conversation is more than just talking-listening is equally important. The less you speak and the more you listen, the better the conversation. This realization makes conversation less daunting, as you only need to manage 50% of it-your part in speaking. When you focus on listening, talking becomes less stressful and more natural.
Different Types of Conversations
Not all conversations are the same. Talking to someone close is different from talking to a stranger. Formal discussions require a different tone than emotional ones. You may also need to adjust your voice, volume, or even switch languages depending on the situation. The key is to recognize these differences and adapt to them, making it easier to navigate varied social situations.
Practical Steps to Improve Communication
To get better at talking to anyone, start small. Ask people questions in everyday situations instead of relying on your phone or technology for answers. This helps build comfort in initiating conversations. As you practice, you’ll realize that people are often easy to engage with. Start by asking simple questions, and over time, conversation will become more natural and enjoyable.
Building Over Time
You are already good at talking. The goal is to extend this skill to new areas by breaking down internal barriers and practicing in small, everyday interactions. You don’t need to change who you are-just expand on what you already know. By doing so, you can become more comfortable talking to anyone in any situation.

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[@NoobExplainer1]

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[@janhavi_x]

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[@zoyashaikh6187]

Your pov/opinions are great. Also the way you explain. Keep up with the good work 👍

[@heyyaishwarya]

Thankyou soo much sir😭🤌yesterday i requested, today you uploaded 🥺✨️ seriously means alot

[@sarsharsayyed]

Thank you I hope it helps

[@qualifiedinsan2090]

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[@ShaguftaKhan2003]

Bhai aap jitne achhe se har topic ko samjhate hain hum usey bohat achhe se relate kar pate hain.. Kyun k aap roz marrah ki zindagi me har chhote problems se nikalna kaise woh batate hain.. Ya phir shayad woh actual problem hai bhi nahi lekin hamare dimag me hai bs So thank you so much Bhai! Dil se aapki respect karti hun.. :) Aur aap bhi apni sehat achhi rakhiye, this is also important. May Allah bless you! 🤍

[@sarsharsayyed]

Jazak Allah means a lot to me

[@sadiqueshaikh6718]

Well said Sarshar, clear and impactful !

[@sarsharsayyed]

Thank you so much 😊

[@MohitBhatia-ot6wm]

Good video bhai I have request please make a video on How to talk in English fluently Because many of us understand English very well but can't speak

[@sarsharsayyed]

Ok will sure pay attention to it

[@ShaguftaKhan2003]

Bhai, aapke videos pe comment nahi ja rahe the mere🥺

[@sarsharsayyed]

Ok Acha

[@Shouryabhai-t9q]

Bro you are doing well but my simple suggestions would be..... Learn video editing and use your Board chart on screen of video while explaining. Best way to do this, learn from dhruv Rathi videos. ❤

[@RiShares]

Kuch videos aisi hi acche lgti hai bhaiya ki videos actually kaafi alg hai bss kuch samay baad yt v ye cheez smjh lega aur bhaiya ko reach mil jyegaa :)

[@sarsharsayyed]

Thanks for the suggestion bhai

[@Shouryabhai-t9q]

@@RiShares samay ke sath chizo ko improve krte rahna chahiye, otherwise duniya 2070 me pahuch jaye and ham 1999 wali thinking and Quality se .... modern technology based video se behtar nhi kr sakte hai...old thinking se 🖤🤟👋

[@thenameishitesh]

Please please sir I desperately want you to make a video on heartbreaks 😢 Like how to handle it 😢 Mera recently 2 mahine pehle emotional detachment hua h ek ladki ke sath . Abhi tak nahi bhul pa raha usko kuch bhi krne ka Mann nahi ho raha h 😭 Usne mujhe saare numbers par block kr diya h ..uski bhot yaad aa rahi h 😭 Har roz sone se pehle rota hoon ma 😭😭😭