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@Cycugiv6 ай бұрын
If its my mom of course she will never froget me
@nathanielmadden42356 ай бұрын
@@Cycugivp
@LindaMenees-dl8pn6 ай бұрын
You have helped me so much. I was 72 when I left my husband. One day I decided whatever time I had left on this earth was going to be peaceful. He can’t believe I did this.
@otismeotisme79876 ай бұрын
72 New Life🎉😂❤, he is truly shook, no free homecare aide coming from you in the future😂
@rahulm28276 ай бұрын
Thats a beautiful thought. And really inspiring and motivational. ❤🙏🏻 It doesnt matter what happened. I decide from this second, I shall never ever suffer again.
@lindac69196 ай бұрын
I am so glad for you!
@MSSHARIII6 ай бұрын
Amazing! 💛💛💛 Wishing you the best life has to offer!
@princessisha52056 ай бұрын
WOW SO proud of you and hope you can heal from the trauma❤
@sandyware50436 ай бұрын
Narcissist are mad because they can’t torture you anymore.❤️
@examelizza-zf3xg28 күн бұрын
That could be ..
@Sweet-fn6po6 ай бұрын
I don’t give AF if that fool thinks about me or not! Screw him!
@kfitz1926 ай бұрын
Same here.
@livinggrace41486 ай бұрын
💯💪😍
@kfitz1926 ай бұрын
@@jbrown2908 Definitely!
@sksaville6 ай бұрын
YES!!!! So MUCH
@samb52086 ай бұрын
Best answer ❤
@marikeherminesophia6 ай бұрын
Big hug to all survivors. ❤
@grammyspa-jammies17376 ай бұрын
Over 40 years my narc husband talked about the fiancé that dumped him. He didn't even care that there was a woman who actually married him! ME!
@cordelia-xd5xf6 ай бұрын
Sad. I'm so sorry. I can relate. That's what mine did. Always talking about the girlfriends that rejected him. I'm wishing now I was one of those girlfriends that rejected him instead of marrying him. It's been hell since I discovered who he really is and am going through a horrific divorce.
@katrinat.30326 ай бұрын
He was abusing you emotionally
@CodyCole806 ай бұрын
And you should know why she dumped him. She escaped. 😂
@joannaheart81676 ай бұрын
This is so nasty!! I am so sorry for you. You deserve better.
@lilfairycupcake6 ай бұрын
they could care less. all he was dwelling on was being injured, and whatever he was extracting from her.
@lilfairycupcake6 ай бұрын
no contact = no control.
@ChosenOne19676 ай бұрын
Proverbs 12:26 (NKJV) The righteous should choose his friends carefully, For the way of the wicked leads them astray.
@clintlandrum94986 ай бұрын
Hey guys, this scripture reminds me of a question I have: I have been a victim of deception when it comes to girlfriends/deception. I also had a mom who was a narcissist. I'm christian, and it is embarrassing. But what scriptures are there available for me to stand on re: deception? And what can I do, practically, to overcome deception?
@cassiebennet42626 ай бұрын
@@clintlandrum9498Your belief in Jesus Christ's finished works should have you fully equipped with the Holy Spirit's discernment. It's intuitive.
@clintlandrum94986 ай бұрын
@@cassiebennet4262 i don't fully agree with you, but I appreciate your response.
@cassiebennet42626 ай бұрын
@@clintlandrum9498 What don't you agree with?
@clintlandrum94986 ай бұрын
@@cassiebennet4262 it's not worth it. It would just lead to an unnecessary argument.
@deebee46226 ай бұрын
If you leave them, they have no closure, they may have won battles but you won the war that they started. You will always be remembered as the challenge that got away. Freedom, yeah!
@sharinvile50745 ай бұрын
They leave me lol am soo glad they make the decision cause I cannot make the decision! I was too attached 😢
@blakkmor59475 ай бұрын
@@sharinvile5074do not feel bad about him leaving you. It was the best thing ever for you!! I can attest!👐🏾🙌🏾
@Hope-cz4fg6 ай бұрын
Thank you, had 53yrs of marriage with a narcissist, he left me as I stood up to him. I broke him after all those years of being controlled and put down by him.
@chris-b6 ай бұрын
Wow..!! I applaud you for taking that courageous and victorious step. I'm in my 33rd year and may follow your path.
@otismeotisme79876 ай бұрын
That's my Girl, ❤🎉🎉😂
@Belluser-we1uc5cb2l6 ай бұрын
They hate it when you stand up to them. They like fear. Straight up demons, they are.
@amankhandelwal73866 ай бұрын
Aap log itne sal tak kase sahan kiye ye samjh nahi aata
@chris-b6 ай бұрын
@@amankhandelwal7386 it has a deeper meaning than what it looks like on a surface level. We do not face what we haven't made others face in past lives. And to understand the other side we take birth and experience how it feels like on the receiving end. That way your soul experiences the full cycle of yin and yang. When your cycle is completed, you stand up for yourself and break that equation.
@nutterbutter52556 ай бұрын
I’m 35 days clean without the narcissist that made my life hell for 26 years. Maybe I got through to him this time 🙏
@monisolagbadebo89776 ай бұрын
Be careful with that though. You actually can't get through to them. That is the point. You literally never will. Kill the hope and truly move on. Hoping or having any thoughts about whether you got through to them means you are still vulnerable to them. They are not capable of being reached.
@duppsydaisy6 ай бұрын
@monisolagbadebo8977 good point!
@jamiebereti54896 ай бұрын
I’m going to didn’t, I left my marriage after 29 years and 3 months. I’m 4 years out and going through a divorce because he keeps getting it held over. Just last month he called and asked me to work on our marriage and cancel our divorce. If you’re only 35 days free it’s because he’s giving you breathing room while he decides how to work you over in a nice way to get you back! I’m sorry but that’s the truth.
@CristinaChis-f6f6 ай бұрын
Hey Danish! I resonate the most with the triangulation. My ex kept comparing me with his ex wife! I also stopped talking with my narcissistic mother, even tho I loved her so much! Thank you for everything ❤❤❤
@sanamkhan39806 ай бұрын
M also 35 days clean from him after 1.5 years of marriage so toxic man
@user-wi9hv2pb2q5 ай бұрын
they don't forget you but also they never truly know you.
@shobhanamathew95515 ай бұрын
Yes because they never know our true love and empathy for them instead they only see us as a stupid supply😂😂😂😂
@mahiaggarwal62865 ай бұрын
No, they knows us very well, very well from other people. They know they can mess up with us because we are empaths. Narcissists hunt for empaths, good hearted, ambitious, intelligent and strong people. How could we become a narcissist supply if a narcissist doesn't knows us. A narcissist wants to ruin our life because this asshole knows that what we can achieve. A narcissist never let us live alone & freely because he knows that once we get independent, we can easily show them his place. So in my opinion, narcissists know us way better than any other people.
@PamelaSilva-d5c6 ай бұрын
Good!! My ex will never find someone like me!!! That's why he steals our mail so he can control what we get and see what is coming!! My ex NEVER EVER thought I would leave......I planned it and my son saved me!!! I told my ex that the WORLD will figure him out someday!!! His new supply has no clue and I'm happy it's not me anymore!! I can relate to all your posts!!
@otismeotisme79876 ай бұрын
Love and hugs from San Jose CA❤😂🎉🎉😊
@Sally237-s4w6 ай бұрын
She will become you…
@sksaville6 ай бұрын
Same, he will NEVER find someone like me. Now he is alcoholic 73 year old LOSER!
@augustasimone932318 күн бұрын
@user-pg8jj6cs9c save your cash and invest in a safe P.O Box address and fillout a Change of Address for all your mail ! Stealing your mail is a felony ! He could go to jail for a long time for that alone. Stop trusting anything and be smart . Go silent and keep your private life private !
@shirlspark_stardust6 ай бұрын
I agree a million percent I left the narc I married after I have gone no contact for almost a year he is reaching out so many times me i. remain silent forever I refuse to deal with him in anyway
@Woman1566 ай бұрын
Good for you.
@fan4life3456 ай бұрын
So smart!
@kfitz1926 ай бұрын
#2 ~ I dumped him with a big fat door slam. Good riddance. I have no feelings for him whatsoever. The last thing he did was to drive my car 92 miles per hour down a very busy highway at night. We were taking my dog to an Emergency Vet, an hour from my home. That was the final straw. It took everything I had not to react. I went No Contact. He's still driving by my house. Fool. Came to the house on my birthday and kept knocking but I didn't answer. He sat in my driveway and then in front of the house for several hours. He honked the horn of his car, but I could hear that he hadn't gone. He left a gift and the funniest card I've ever received. It wasn't meant to be funny, it was meant to manipulate me into calling and thanking him. I'm sure he thought he was slick. But I've always been able to see right through him. It used to freak him out. He wasn't used to someone who stood firm in her boundaries and would call him out on his BS. We were only together 6 months. During that time I had Covid twice and three autoimmune flares. It feels so good to be free.
@lilfairycupcake6 ай бұрын
what a sh it show. same bs, different narc. good for you for recognizing the abuse early, moving on.
@mavismounds6 ай бұрын
Sounds like my ex narc husband…
@sheilakaye9705Ай бұрын
Sounds almost like you are describing my year with a narcissist. He even tried to use money to hoover me back in. But gosh, the answer was a firm no!! Blessings to you!
@kfitz192Ай бұрын
@@sheilakaye9705 Glad you escaped!! He abducted my 21 year old cat and dumped her 27 minutes from home. Just got her back! She was gone four months and 10 days. Stay free! Be happy!!!
@charisse2346 ай бұрын
I am going to simplify the reason why a narcissist won't forget you it's because you are still standing you haven't been totally and utterly destroyed so some of the narcissist will obsess about you because they want you to be of no use to your self that's how truly truly evil narcissist are.never ever forget it's the actual devil who you are dealing with and that's the truth!! Positivity peace and love ♥️
@marisinclair72686 ай бұрын
Yes, a narc always aims to put out your fire.
@charisse2345 ай бұрын
@@marisinclair7268 without a shadow of a doubt they really do!
@suzettewalsh28546 ай бұрын
He keeps on sending me emails that he loves me and he’s sorry but I know in my heart I see right through his energy. I know he resents me and he hates me and how could somebody love you when they’re acting the way that they act it’s all bullshit and it’s a fucking phony lie.
@metonicycle62946 ай бұрын
No contact.
@brendadean92916 ай бұрын
My ex narc husband initiated a separation but was probably very surprised when I divorced him.
@minakumari15156 ай бұрын
my father was physically n mentally n emotionally abusive to both me n my mother. my mom endured it for 10yrs but u know what he applied for divorce. thinking my mother would beg. but guess what we were donne with his bs. we accepted the courts order for acceptance of divorce n the minute he got to know he came begging me n my mother tried so hard to pursue back to that hell again. but we stood strong . after fighting court battle n healing from the ptsd we are finally healing after 14yrs.
@lilfairycupcake6 ай бұрын
how could you do that to me. pffffffffffff, real easy.
@PEGGYKEEHN6 ай бұрын
That is my story too!@@minakumari1515
@briandrake68816 ай бұрын
Narcs cannot be cured. You leave them.
@ChosenOne19676 ай бұрын
the get worse with age
@emilylagarta51605 ай бұрын
True
@MsBizzyGurl6 ай бұрын
They think of you as a lost possession. Explains how they act and why they feel no shame for attempting to reconnect.
@lilfairycupcake6 ай бұрын
thats all you ever were; just something to take from.
@rahulm28276 ай бұрын
If one of your parent is a narcisist, they'll never forget you. My narc demon father is still doing the same things he used to do when I couldnt even think for myself: order someone to do black magic on me and badmouth me behind my back. I still get shocked when I get to talk to random relatives and they tell me. I can just pray for justice. I want justice before dying. My entire life has been so fked up. The worst is when you get out of abuse and start healing, the first thing you realize and see and feel is the damage done to you. The most painful thing about healing. I just fking want justice.
@theclown23936 ай бұрын
Black magic???? That's proof that Narcissist are possessed by demons! Keep your distance from along with all of his flying monkeys
@DeidreHAWA6 ай бұрын
❤
@boethius18126 ай бұрын
You won't receive justice.
@vaninaredondi95806 ай бұрын
Justice will come, one way or the other, in this life or the other, whether you see it or not. Focus on healing and being happy. Enjoy all your achievements!
@rahulm28276 ай бұрын
@@vaninaredondi9580 Thank you. I firmly believe in justice. And yes, I value the other advise as well to not sit and wait for justice and waste time, energy and hope, yearning for justice. But I believe in justice. There is a God in charge, who is the eternal witness and he makes things right.
@kathrynlervick83076 ай бұрын
You're naming it clearly. How I wish I had known these things many many years ago. Thank you for sharing!!
@s.fzahra46326 ай бұрын
I'm 23 Years old I'm a victim.Now also sleepless nights here.1.00 am time. I'm watching this video from Sri Lanka 💙🙌
@beckyhayob15576 ай бұрын
Stay strong!
@roh99066 ай бұрын
Sorry, one day you will breakfree.❤
@livinggrace41486 ай бұрын
Soon to be an overcomer ❤
@sksaville6 ай бұрын
Stay strong. Be well
@ukghconst6 ай бұрын
Simply try this. Crush/mash 21 garlic cloves to pulp, fill a bucket with enough water to bath, mix the garlic with the water. Bath about 9pm is. Pray, disconnect every thought ill- centred relationship and bond you had with that person. See how you feel 2 days later let me know
@maryparker1456 ай бұрын
so if they never forget you they never forget those before you. so they were thinking about them while they were with you
@lungienxumalo32445 ай бұрын
Good point
@amiravdic74515 ай бұрын
Was lookin for this comment n now ain’t gotta type it. It explains the constant bitch face I had to stare at for 6 yrs. Now I know what was on her mind it’s what I speculated all along
@ljOB5105 ай бұрын
Yes exactly. He was keeping in contact with ALL the ex's and non ex's. Over 30 women he would text/call in our first 5 months together including the wife I thought was the ex wife! Smh
@summerman26 ай бұрын
If they have new supply I don't think they think about you much if at all. So long as you have no contact then out of sight out of mind. They moved on long before the discard.
@nancyalexis36386 ай бұрын
I blocked and went no contact.
@hettykoster94474 ай бұрын
Me too 💪
@simplyyyfab_u_lous_32664 ай бұрын
Same here...so empowering.
@shayshaymann1136 ай бұрын
Today marks 2 years that I cut out my malignant abusive narcissistic son! He has been pure hell to me and my daughter since he was 15yrs old (he’s 23yrs old now). I suffer from extreme PTSD from that kid and what he’s done to us. The first year of cutting him out of my life, I slept with a knife next to my bed in fear he’ll come for revenge on me and my daughter. He was not raised this way at all, and people automatically attack and blame me for his behavior!! Nobody will ever know what it’s like to fear your own child and what they are capable of unless you’ve experienced the absolute paralyzing FEAR they’ve taunted you with for years!!!
@CodyCole806 ай бұрын
Put on the full armor of YAH -Ephesians 6.
@maryanne71616 ай бұрын
Where is his father and was he a narc too, if u don't mind?
@lilfairycupcake6 ай бұрын
toxic is toxic, regardless of the relationship. the only cure is completely removing them from your life. no contact=no control.
@shayshaymann1136 ай бұрын
@@maryanne7161his father died when my son was 11. He passed away in a fatal car accident in 2012. I made sure to line up all resources for my son and daughter as well as myself (grief counseling and therapy) to help us through the loss. My son dug his heals every step of the way and downright refused to allow anyone (even me) to help him. A therapist can’t help someone who won’t talk which is what he did. He either would stay quiet and not say anything, or he would say exactly what he knew they wanted and needed to hear to ‘get us off his back’ as he put it. I’ve had to put my own grief on the back burner to do everything humanly possible as a mother to help my child, only for him to look at me with so much hate and rage and threaten my life! He destroyed my property by throwing a can of paint all over my fence. Kicked in my dishwasher and put holes in my walls. Then he started to get physical!
@MarjyGTV6 ай бұрын
@@maryanne7161 one or both parents are narcs, whenever a child turns out like this
@aroraraj1446 ай бұрын
I survived 3 narcissists , father and 2 older brothers. Migration from India to USA and Primal scream therapy helped a lot. Abuse did not stop even in America.
@kikataye62936 ай бұрын
So sorry that you went through that. My younger sister and brother are Narcissists that had my parents walking on eggshells. I moved a few thousand miles away and cut them off, now life is so much much better. I hope you can find peace
@sheribalsoma97786 ай бұрын
Primal scream therapy ✅ ❤️
@joannedomingo23986 ай бұрын
My brother was a narcissist, my husband but never knew because years ago this want exposed and explained. Then I met a man that I thought was nice…. Another narcissist
@yeldarleumas18476 ай бұрын
It's heart warming to know that I am not the only one who has got some nasty pieces of work in my 'family' too.
@rebeccaliew22476 ай бұрын
Ohhh, India...especially when Indian & Asian cultures always give more social-status benefits to males over women, due to family lineage & inheritance passed to sons...I understand what you go through, as I'm Asian myself. Keep going strong there & be brave to cut contact with them. So that they no longer can use you for any bullying & scapegoating purposes anymore! Although they're family by blood, peace & meeting your own needs is more important, in your case - they have & won't let you choose anything for yourself without their permission & will give you chaos so that your suffering gives them "peace". Time to stop that cycle of abuse💪👍👌
@proudmoon36 ай бұрын
Honestly, the only time I want him to remember me is when it's time to pay the child support. So glad he's out of our lives!
@minakumari15156 ай бұрын
keep him out and away from ur child too .these narcs try manipulate kind and sweet children to get revenge over their partner
@lisajones68396 ай бұрын
I resonate with both bc, I was very good to him and we were together 15 years but, at the end when I found out the truth I cut him off suddenly out of the blue, I exposed him and I humiliated and insulted him...I hit below the belt and disappeared. I know all of this had to affect him. He expected me to chase after him like I always did but, instead he got all of this.
@vickigonya94326 ай бұрын
I WANT them to forget me
@Lizapendleton6 ай бұрын
They know that!
@bathandwandongeni87645 ай бұрын
Same here
@ekdaufin14856 ай бұрын
Yea and that makes them think they actually loved/love you when it’s alll about them and they think they are the injured party.
@carolyngetchman-iq1bv6 ай бұрын
my ex told me that he loved me so much , he hate me -----go figure
@minakumari15156 ай бұрын
The best way to take revenge from them is by focusing on your own self-growth. This includes your career, health, loved ones, and your own well-being. Even more importantly, be happy and fulfilled in front of them. When they ask how you have been, which is basically their way of asking how you have been since they gave u hell n caused you pain and mistreated you, answer them with the belief that God is with you and say that you are absolutely fine with a radiant glow. This will make burn them like hell without actually dying🤣
@Lisa-t1n7l6 ай бұрын
Without watching this video I can give you the answer: a desire to put the ex-victim back in shackles, coupled with a desire to punish him for leaving in the first place.
@amyshoneye54556 ай бұрын
Nearly 3mnths No contact ❤ He sent me a box of old clothes and empty body lotion bottles 😂 I have a shipping container full of stock😮 been moved to a farmer's field by him 😂He also has my father's coin collection and book in a box etc, But he saw fit to send me a near empty Very BIG box 😢 It's OK I Have Finally Let Go! He will Not Hold Me to ransom over STUFF, He can Keep It 😘❤️🙏
@otismeotisme79876 ай бұрын
A Doll can always recomp❤🎉😂
@amyshoneye54556 ай бұрын
@otismeotisme7987 Why Thank You Sunshine 🌞 😘❤️🙏
@cordelia-xd5xf6 ай бұрын
Wow. You're actually lucky. Mine sent me food tainted with poison. I had it sent to the lab. 17 different toxins and chemicals found in it.
@amyshoneye54556 ай бұрын
@cordelia-xd5xf Wow funny you should say that 🤣 I opened the box on the phone to my cousin and amongst the stuff found a bag of dried fruits first thing She said was don't eat them, Then I checked the sealed bag and there was a tiny hole in it, So I threw them in the bin didn't even Feed it to the Birds 🫠 Love wrapped up in a Very BIG HUG 🫂 2U I Send 😘❤️🙏
@cordelia-xd5xf6 ай бұрын
@@amyshoneye5455I'm glad you responded to my comment 😅. YT removed it, I think. I can't see it. Wonder if they took it as a threat. Can't say " pois**" or something. IDK. Yes don't ever trust anything they send. My lawyers and law enforcement don't get it. They said he was "just being nice." It's also hard to prove, even with tests. I spent $975 on this test only for them to dismiss it and not wanting to go through the process of his lawyer trying to flip it around on me and blame me for putting something in it. They don't get what love bombing is and how it's just part of the abuse cycle. The hoovering they do is disgusting too. They suck you back in only so they can punish you for leaving and trying to expose them.
@konradm77766 ай бұрын
I recently ended a relationship with a narcissist. Since then he has been trying to contact me and recently he even wrote in an e-mail that he "dreamed about me". Bloody hell... The guy was my client for 7 years. I've been running a tattoo parlor for the same amount of time. Last year I realized that he was no longer my client but a parasite who intimidated me, came to tell me his pathological life stories and gave vent to his sadistic fantasies. When I discovered it, I started observing it and after a year and a half I managed to get out of this sick system and dependence.. Now he is trying to contact me outside of my professional life by e-mail because I switch of my business Phone to get rid of him and others. Thanks Danish! You have helped many people, you probably don't even know how many...
@yowhatupmain6 ай бұрын
The rumination is torture
@ninath136 ай бұрын
they treat everybody the same no one is better than the next just supply them with different types of supply... Low vibration or high long as their needs are met.
@JosephineArmstrong-l1u6 ай бұрын
Thankyou for reminding me ❤ I won't feel safe til I move to another state and I should never let my guard down to stay safe
@lauraantic13846 ай бұрын
Afer all this everybody blames me for staying so long and let my life be destroyed everytime it hurts
@lizh19886 ай бұрын
They have no idea what you've had to put up with. Sooner or later, they will see what the narcissist is really like. Just get away from all of them, they'll see sooner. But it's best to just stay away.
@hangingwiththegrlz48916 ай бұрын
I wish your words were true for me. My covert ex narcissist husband forgot me. I never wanted to leave him, but the pain pushed me away, far away. I feared him. I love him and pray for his salvation as he needs Jesus, he is lost. I realize he chose me because I was a door mat. He told me if I leave that I will take the salt from his life, yet he remarried and moved on. I never dated nor remarried, he was my last. I broke contact with everyone in my life except my children as they need me. I bond myself with God as he is my only protector and best friend.
@pipizondersnuif13356 ай бұрын
i hope you find someone. Its good that you price your kids above anything else, that makes you a great mom. breaking contact with everyone in your life seems radical and unhealthy. Im sure your kids would love you to have an healthy relationship with an healthy good guy. don't carry everything on your own. The guy that you want doesnt want you to want to carry everything on your own. He wants you to be happy.
@RebelsBestFriend6 ай бұрын
If you "love him" he still controls you.
@hangingwiththegrlz48916 ай бұрын
@@RebelsBestFriend 😞 It's been nearly 5 years since I left. I need more time.
@cordelia-xd5xf6 ай бұрын
Just because he "moved on" doesn't mean he forgot you. It's like the movie Ever After when Cinderella tells her stepmother, "From this moment on I will forget you. But I'm sure you will remember me for the rest of your life." Evil doesn't forget what good they lost and they despise them every day for "winning" and leaving. Your ex may play the part in public, but deep down they are miserable. I think that's part of their punishment in remembering every day what miserable bastards they are. They know, and remember what they did, but they will never let on that they do. God knows and sees all. He is just and fair and won't let them get away with it in the long run. Keep your head up high and keep your eyes on Him. You deserve better. I can relate to having to go no contact with most people because the narcissist gains many supporters through his flying monkeys. It's a living Hell. I left a very abusive relationship with a man who manipulated the legal system and took my children full time. He is also hurting them and no one will listen. There are some things worse than death -- in knowing your children are being harmed and nothing you can do to stop it. You are lucky to still have your children. I pray that they will also see what he is someday. We don't need any other relationship. I believe that's where God wants us to be, to where we can rely on and trust completely in Him. I believe He is the only one who has given me the strength and the endurance to take one painful breath and day at a time. Suffering I believe helps us understand what Christ went through for us and to be able to be with Him someday, something abusers will never understand. God bless and take care. ❤
@hangingwiththegrlz48916 ай бұрын
@@cordelia-xd5xf Amen. Thank you so much for this.
@TheVanna2206 ай бұрын
Thank You Can you do a video on how to move on, it’s extremely difficult to break the trauma bond.
@tojekproperties20136 ай бұрын
All is applicable to me. I was his best supply, he got money, recognition, etc a whole lot. Thank God I’m out.
@jacksavage2796 ай бұрын
I was my narc's premium source of supply. Thank so much for your transparency and message it has helped me tremendously.
@ChosenOne19676 ай бұрын
Luke 12:53 NLT Father will be divided against son and son against father; mother against daughter and daughter against mother; and mother-in-law against daughter-in-law and daughter-in-law against mother-in-law.
@VictoriaT566 ай бұрын
Thank you Mr Danish your presentation is perfect I love it ❤️💕🙏🙏🙏
@Frrifna19936 ай бұрын
I'm srilankan and my husband is a narcissist I'm suffering 13years toxic marriage life Ur videos very very useful But one problem is I can't understand English words fully I knw little so always I asking others to help me translate to tamil but no one is helping me Now I'm joined spoken English class bcz for I wanna improve my English knowledge
@amnesia0116 ай бұрын
The narcissist had lied to me and manipulated for 9 yrs. I lost myself but I gave him the final Mat position. He has many girls and lied that I am the only one. I saw through him from the start. It goes to cyrcles, lies and my "believes". I'm the lightworker I saw what he was/is doing. I reject him and trying to heal myself. Thank you!
@yeldarleumas18476 ай бұрын
''He has many girls '' ''I saw through him. * from the start.'' I don't feel sorry for you! Why? You admit that you ''saw through him from the start'' and yet despite this you still got involved with him. Why? Because he was a 'Chad' ...a 'Bad' boy. You are no different to the many females who sleep with Leo DiCaprio hoping that they will be the ''one''....even though they know that he has ''many girls''. And then when he doesn't commit (after he has pumped them/you numerous times) he is a 'narcissist'' This is a story as old as time!
@WorthyIsTheLamb-rm4pd6 ай бұрын
They need people to "Prop them up."
@TataShiku6 ай бұрын
Did anyone else experience the narc collapsing during the c.ovid season? We were limited contact as I was curfew closed in a different county.peoles interaction was limited and mostly phone zoom calls would work..he became sickly and couldn't eat yet it wasn't c.ovid on him .when I managed to get back to him he started gaining energy same day. These people are energy vampires I tell you .
@shirlspark_stardust6 ай бұрын
Yes saw the one I married collapse big time became a nag of homes looked deathly like he would die any day
@lindac69196 ай бұрын
My narky sis tried to hoover me shortly after covid started. After 13 yrs NC. She must have lost a big part of her supply.
@kerrytaggart82066 ай бұрын
Very interesting.
@user-wi9hv2pb2q6 ай бұрын
@@lindac6919 yes! I know three narcissists. The two males are overt one tried hovering the other resorted to extreme violence. the female narc, a covert, went out and Tried to catch covid.
@lizh19886 ай бұрын
Don't get back to them, don't look back, get outta there, stay away.
@sanatm6 ай бұрын
i am literally crying while watching this video. the accuracy level of these points is 100 percent
@AnaBounds-nx7ke6 ай бұрын
Absolutely
@Deakkon_and_the_Diplomat6 ай бұрын
I wouldn't say I "survived" more so just challenged things that didn't make sense I'm not sure if she is a narcissist but I never felt like we were growing closer because there was nothing to love. It was all fake and I could feel that. That and anytime I mentioned something that bothered me it was always somehow my fault and she never apologized or took accountability for anything negative she did or said. Best advice is what he is saying in the video, just leave.
@carparthero6 ай бұрын
if you were a grade A top-flight supply that provided something that the narcissist cannot replace either easily or at all, the narcissist will definitely not forget you. cheers from southern ontario, canada 🍁
@VictoriaT566 ай бұрын
Thank you, God bless you ❤🙏
@VictoriaT566 ай бұрын
Greetings from San Diego CA
@carparthero6 ай бұрын
@VictoriaT56 amazing! team healthy is all over canada, the states, and the world 🌎 hope you are enjoying that san diego sunshine 🌞 this weekend! -cheers, steven
@carparthero6 ай бұрын
@VictoriaT56 thanks for your kind words. -all the best 2U, steven
@lizh19886 ай бұрын
You are so right!
@julierideout43176 ай бұрын
Does a narcissist ever try to injure or kill a victim who has gone “no contact”?
@treasure10466 ай бұрын
yeah, this is why my narcissistic dad keeps bringing up my exes (from 5+ years from the past) to me as if I wanted to hear anything about them. I am aroace and I have 0 interest in relationships or men, but he doesn't believe it and thinks that 'deep down I want them". he never forgets his exes and always sees them as a 'canned supply', and he thinks everyone does the same! That's horrifying
@User-vibes15236 ай бұрын
Is it applicable for each supply? Then how they remind so many people at a time? This narcs are really weird!
@caur7396 ай бұрын
It sounds like the truth is in the eyes of the beholder.......
@K.j.h.2796 ай бұрын
I'm never sure if my husbands a narcissistic, he's controlling but not isolating, he liked it his way..after 30 yrs it ended and i know he was hoping / thought he would replace me immediately , but he cant, because I now realise he trained me up for 30yrs..he wants me back 5 yrs later..
@saiswadhin31006 ай бұрын
Yes true. I am now in both the situations. I have absolute confidence that I was the diamond supply to my girlfriend. But I have exposed her so much out of anger against her for cheating and lying about her new supply, a shit guy with no background as mine, she is stalking me everywhere. But I have not only blocked her in all medium but have made her life by launching a severe smear campaign that she is mentally deranged. People in my locality are looking at her woth raised eyebrows. I know she is terribly angry and looking for an opportunity to take revenge. But, she knows now that she can't handle me anymore as I have become too stubborn and disrespectful. She had to leave her job from my organisation. I don't know for how long. She keeps moving around my workshop under some pretext. Whatever the case is I am now committed to root out from my life. She knows I am very influential and can cause any physical damage to her and her sick new supplies. Her 2 children also behave very much like this woman. It was my mistake for getting into this painful relationship, for which I regret so much.
@crispusmahea21356 ай бұрын
Sorry, good luck. You're not alone.
@NatzTalk6 ай бұрын
I was the most caring, empathetic one, the most understanding, the most chances I gave. The more he took the more I offered. Once he betrayed me, I told him off and went no contact. It Hurst but not as much as it did with how he treated me so peace out, dude. ✌🏾💪🏾💛😍
@rgrg39325 ай бұрын
You're beautiful 😊
@misstbutterfly8836 ай бұрын
3 months no contact...STONE WALLED COMPLETELY its been great! He still calls me names and moans to my children about how horrible and nasty I am for not letting him into my house anymore.. But praise The Lord, my children are on my side, and know all of his tactics...
@grannyanniesfarm49726 ай бұрын
Mine turned all of my kids against me. He convinced them that everything was my fault, even his cheating, so they rarely talk to me. They are in their 30s and 40s now. When they do talk to me, it's cold and stiff. And I rarely get to see my grandkids. Yet my kids spend quality time with their dad and his mom, even vacationing together, and the grandkids spend time with them. My grandkids don't even know who I am for the most part. 2 wont speak to me at all. It hurts. I don't know how to fix this. He even tried to kill us a couple of times, but they deny it, even though they saw it happen, are convinced they were accidents, and I'm causing trouble for saying such a thing. I miss my kids and our closeness terribly!
@maryanne71616 ай бұрын
I m so sorry. I hate typing. Although i have a lot to say, but... This is all i m writing right now. Hope it comforts u in some way.
@lilfairycupcake6 ай бұрын
im in the same boat. if they are not intelligent enough to figure things out on their own as adults; they may, or may not, thats on them.
@SoTiredoftheToxicBS6 ай бұрын
I think nac kids can see the truth but don't have the strength to fight him so they side with daddy! They don't want him acting towards them in the same manner!😢 it really sucks
@grannyanniesfarm49725 ай бұрын
@@maryanne7161 thanks!
@RebelsBestFriend6 ай бұрын
I was a source of supply for someone who used to be my sister (my choice) for 59 years. My tormentor since I was 5-years-old. I cut off this monster 12 years and 6 months ago. My life IMMEDIATELY improved. Last year she sent me a VERY complimentary e-mail saying, "my friends always thought you looked like Catherine Zeta Jones". I did not reply. I wanted to.. . . . something mean, but I stayed away. And yes, I am not telling everybody I know who she knows. Interesting my husband has an older sister who was the exact same way. He refuses to talk to her. She got the message and returned to him all photos she ever had of him from baby to adult, erasing him from her life. Although he didn't give her the supply that my (once) sister got from me (I didn't understand).
@kerrytaggart82066 ай бұрын
I can relate to your torment. I also have a sister who is a narc too.
@renatelewis5386 ай бұрын
Thank you so much. I'm so proud of you for doing the right thing. I'm following your path by no contact forever. It's been 8 months since my boyfriend left me once again by telling me he can't find a job here and has to move far far away. That was think the 10th time , so I told him no more lovemaking because he's gonna leave me once more. I never ever saw him turning and screaming so loud that he had enough. I actually got scared. He packed his stuff and walked out. Woohoo. I was tired of walking on eggshells and took all of the mental abuse. Giving him money, and he gambled it away. let him stay with me for nothing and for what. So he'll never come near me again. Thank you for waking me up. ❤
@joyporcella816 ай бұрын
Narcissistic abuse is a lot like quitting smoking. Phillip Morris wants my money, my source of supply so much because so many give their hard earned money to kill their health. I am one week into quitting a pack a day habit. They know that my agony quitting is their profit. But I remember one day I saw blood in my phlegm and was terrified, and I know that fear made me start wellbutrin to aid in quitting. Well Danish you are like that medicine helping me stop and remember that fear the narcissist or cigarettes had over me. Im craving them alot cause a pack a day is a deadly amount drilled into my unconscious. But seeing the blood scared me so much. I know I wont go back because I love myself too much to return to them. Its very difficult but I can do it. I really thank you so much.❤
@lenaharden54866 ай бұрын
Thanks, Danish this explains alot.
@leviwhite35536 ай бұрын
They will try their best to assimilate you into their collection. That deep pocket full of souls that are meant to be used when they have to be forced alone. Mr. Bashir is correct. They remember you even more so if you are the one to stand against them. Vilified and also longed for because when it comes your turn to be pulled from the pocket they can't find you. How dare you not be in there. Regardless of the time it takes them to search for you they will look and be angry.
@mariellarobles33726 ай бұрын
Wow so many truths blew me away. Healing is power.
@SuperZed216 ай бұрын
I remember the day I finally took a stand and broke up with my ex boyfriend last fall. At the time he was in total denial for the first 24 hours and figured I would come crawling back like I had in the past. Thinking I had nowhere to go or move to....little did he know I was ready to move and leave if his behavior continued. After the initial denial phase, he tried to be fake nice, then that eventually transformed into passive aggression and ultimately rage and him transforming into a full blown alcoholic. After 5.5 years of being verbally, mentally, emotionally, and financially abused he utterly lost his ability to control my life and ended up resorting to crying for the first time ever in a utter ajaring and sudden sideshow on my last day there before finally leaving for good and never looking back.
@lilfairycupcake6 ай бұрын
the old mask totally slipped off.
@ajunglapongen17196 ай бұрын
I love you Danish from the bottom of my heart, you're the one who truly saving my life from such Demonic predator who are ruining my life, iam still in truamabond to safe my only child.
@ChosenOne19676 ай бұрын
Ephesians 6:12 NLT For we are not fighting against flesh-and-blood enemies, but against evil rulers and authorities of the unseen world, against mighty powers in this dark world, and against evil spirits in the heavenly places.
@heredith6 ай бұрын
the best is, not to care, wether they think of you, because it has nothing to do with you. BUT be attentive! it can be that they will continue to try to harm you!
@dinosaurlover28296 ай бұрын
Can they try to come back or hoover if you gave them a narc injury? Or in this case they are gone for good?
@tuffguydoe79376 ай бұрын
It's 2 years no contact with former friend. Occasionally, I'll get a call from his ex-wife. They have a kid and grandchildren, so they'll always interact. He really put her through some crap. I take a call to offer support knowing what she and their daughter went through. Sometimes, I do wonder if the call is her digging info on me for him. Before ending my friendship with him the phone calls to me from her were help not hi.
@applepony22366 ай бұрын
I so agree!I think the only thing was the "revenge" part as I associate revenge with someone still having that control n me to have me resort to a negative emotion. I'd prefer saying not that u got revenge but u took control bk for yourself.afterall as much as we can read these ppls behaviour it won't be changed...they'll just go feed elsewhere eventually and from my experience twice as viciously if they have experienced losing their highest conquest/source
@achord92046 ай бұрын
I love your show- thank you
@beautypablotamarini73156 ай бұрын
Rejection, exposing to whole world, confrontation. For now.
@user-wi9hv2pb2q6 ай бұрын
Oh, the rage. I diminished contact with my narcissist brother, but he has let me go since he has children to abuse for supply. (why I still have maintained a little contact) But one of the last things he said to my family about me is that I'm "so selfish and just don't care about people." I volunteer taught disadvantaged children for years and I volunteered as a firefighter paramedic for years. But I'm selfish. I don't care about people. I guess he is All people in his world. One thing people should know is narcissists have no memory, you can provide for them for years but they day you are out of attention, time, or money is the day you become their enemy.
@ChosenOne19676 ай бұрын
Matthew 10:34-39 NKJV Do not think that I came to bring peace on earth. I did not come to bring peace but a sword. For I have come to ‘set a man against his father, a daughter against her mother, and a daughter-in-law against her mother-in-law’; and ‘a man’s enemies will be those of his own household.’ He who loves father or mother more than Me is not worthy of Me. And he who loves son or daughter more than Me is not worthy of Me. And he who does not take his cross and follow after Me is not worthy of Me. He who finds his life will lose it, and he who loses his life for My sake will find it.
@yuu_miran6 ай бұрын
Yeap they do not. Said farewell to my most toxic love interest as far back as in 2008 but he still is at the revenge towards me together with his mom😩i even forgot about them at one point in time iits a pity it didnt last long. He got a girl who looked like me and it was😳 wish i had amnesia about them forever.
@theyellowshoe6 ай бұрын
As soon as I have enough money to support myself, I'm so gone with the quickness!
@Sally237-s4w6 ай бұрын
I know ,I hope you get that money cos that’s one of the hardest tasks is to be able to have somewhere to go..nothing worse then being stuck in the same house..I got out in the end 1 1/2 years of hell was like a sentence ..I finally moved out from under his nose gradually ,until one Rainey night I jumped in the car and we drove off with my older kids help..so good to be out of the miserable pos way l.but I’m still suffer fallout to a degree trying to heal ..they are beyond evil..processed I’d say by a wicked evil entity ..mine was that bad..good luck don’t give up things will changed.🇬🇧
@matthewwozniak91386 ай бұрын
Just because people are flawed doesn't mean you should give up on them. I keep my distance from people that are self destructive, if your going down, I'm stepping out of your way, because I don't want to get dragged down too.
@Erica-cf1xb6 ай бұрын
That's smart. Pray for them and step to the side. Those demons jump and infect.
@lilfairycupcake6 ай бұрын
being a narc, is not a flaw; its a choice.
@NICK_19796 ай бұрын
I made a list of things a so called friend did to me many years ago, and have always wondered if he was a narcissist. If anyone wants to read the list and give their opinion, i will gladly post it
@earthling85856 ай бұрын
No doubt. They never consider anyone to have the audacity to walk away from them. It's in their own audacity that they will reap what they sow. They make you believe you are alone. But, when you walk away you'll find that there are others who are victims of these cruel, vile, vulgar creatures too. You will find that you aren't alone. The good and decent people will walk with you. In a world that has Amber Heards', be a Johnny Depp. You'll never walk alone. ✌❤
@Oooorileyy6 ай бұрын
Im a victim, and i still think of them every night and morning. Whats that mean?
@DailyBeats_1236 ай бұрын
Because when you were with them they manipulated you and that caused you to think continuously what is going on actually because you were confused. But now you are not with them but the habit of our brain to think about them is still there. Focus on yourself, workout and study. It will take sometime and finally will go away.
@resurrectionkratos6 ай бұрын
im sorry you had to experience that Danish. im so proud of you.
@VictoriaT566 ай бұрын
Dear Mr Danish, I have two months no contact with the narc in my life, (34y) is it common to feel stressful (like a wired feeling when somebody takes you as fool) just thinking about seeing him again??? I hope you understand my question or someone in the group that can help me, (is not a good feeling, is making me sick) Thanks for your concern ❤🙏
@kerrytaggart82066 ай бұрын
When there is a wide gap between fantasy and reality, there is anxiety. Your spirit of joy has been quenched. Your dreams and ambitions have been eroded. You are lost. The pain of letting go is intense and prolonged but you will get better and will feel joy again. Pray for help and give yourself time. It gets better. It gets very better.:)
@livinggrace41486 ай бұрын
Give your self grace 🥰 one day at a time. Self reflection , feel, let go, learn, hope and healing your way ❤
@VictoriaT566 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for taking your time and answering my question, God bless you 🥰💕❤️🙏
@JudySterling6 ай бұрын
Your feelings are completely normal and common. Like the others suggested, practice redirecting your thoughts and focus on healthy actions. It works! ❤
@alizamalik39456 ай бұрын
I want to understand if some one could be clear...if a person physically present Infront of you but mentally somewhere else like he she is in deep thoughts...never accept his mistakes... suddenly become aggressive...in professional life he looks different very sensible decent educated professional...but at home like different image...someone who loves his family and the most love with his mother...can't take any step without her...are these symptoms enought to recognize that he is a narcissist...
@VashneeAbiya-bm2si6 ай бұрын
Yeah. I got the same like yours. He left me and I'm in healing process right now.
@alizamalik39456 ай бұрын
@@VashneeAbiya-bm2si same here he broke the relation just gave me the excuse that his family will not stand if he marry with me...without any strong reason he left our relation...I gave him my love care attentions with sincerity...I don't know when saw him I felt that he is not normal seriously word narcissist was new for me before a month after the separation...I ignored that because he told me about his previous marriage I felt he is in pain so that's why he looks like...but I realy accepted him with his that condition...but see what I have now??? Empty hands...easily left the relation without my mistake...
@VashneeAbiya-bm2si6 ай бұрын
@@alizamalik3945 It's okay. Take some time to heal yourself. Now you know what's your mistake is "The Kindness towards a narcissist ". Consider Narcissist as a stinky and stale food and put in dustbin and never look at it. Keep moving. We can't change narcissists but beware and change yourself coz atleast we have known about narcissism.
@lizh19886 ай бұрын
It seems like the female narc has an odd bond with her father, too. Narcissists don't admit what they are, but when you get a lot of pain and problems from someone and they fit the narc profile--and your life is really unmanageable, gets worse when you think it should get better. Well, you need to detach from said person, pray about the situation or consult a professional. I had to detach from the flying monkeys as well as the narc, the family members who he manipulated, too.
@alizamalik39456 ай бұрын
@@VashneeAbiya-bm2si yes dear I'm trying my best thankyou 💞
@edithramos97866 ай бұрын
I think I was all of them to my ex husband. Thank you. Sounds like you’ve found peace with your having let go of your father.
@EdwardHaren-zp6re6 ай бұрын
I'm working with sadism, sociopath personality habits and traits... Figure of speech but, Jesus Christ. I thank you for your words, stand by your word, you have me standing with your word due to my own experience in experiencing exactly as you describe. And I don't even get paid for my word! I give my word, for that is all I have to give. I stand by my word, just as I said that I did! You can take my word for it, until we meet again. You have my word, for my word is all that I am. 😮💨 By, Edward Haren 2022. Titled: what is the word. 🎉
@Earthoceanfire4356 ай бұрын
Thank you! He tried to destroy my child. My child is thriving. You learn their game and learn to play it better. Now he has the government after him for fraud. It’s all in timing. I’m glad he can’t forget me! Lol!!!
@phoenixundaunted6 ай бұрын
That's WHAT I thought too to be honest however once the sun comes up and down ,night and day..its almost impossible to say c'mon that hurt Tf outta my feelings effectively it is not going well .time passes, wounds heal
@AnaBounds-nx7ke6 ай бұрын
Not all wounds healed
@AnaBounds-nx7ke6 ай бұрын
Not all wounds healed
@cefcat57336 ай бұрын
Danesh, what do you do with the love you still might have for them? I decided to keep it in my heart, but never show it to them. That is my 'business', not theirs. No contact gives a burst of joy, with an accompanying sorrow, about the dream once dreamed. Life does really go on though. Life is for living.
@lindac69196 ай бұрын
I think of them like I think of a rabid dog. If I had a dog that I loved, and he got rabies...I would have to put him down. It would make me sad; and I would still have love for him. And I would grieve, and let him go.
@kerrytaggart82066 ай бұрын
How about love the person but not their illness. You did not cause it. You cannot control it. You cannot cure it. Pray for them. For your own peace and sanity and even safety, they have to stay away. Let go and learn to love and be happy with yourself. That is the difficult one.
@cefcat57336 ай бұрын
@@kerrytaggart8206 Difficult, but there comes a time, when that comes easy and it's not through replacing them either. Time is healing too.
@cefcat57336 ай бұрын
@@butterflyb.9135 I guess that it is the spark of life and their long-forgotten tiny child spirit, looking up from the bottom of the dark, hollow, echoing hole, which I see, but they cant. Imagine practicing singing songs, with a Sociopath and flying kites, with a Narcissist. I too had to give them up, to their fate, hoping that God would intervene, in their world for which a 'do not enter' sign applies to me. A sad visit with them, spoke volumes.
@lindac69196 ай бұрын
That's true; it's usually not really love. I think they call it limerance. @@butterflyb.9135
@kagoyasi35026 ай бұрын
Once you get into a relationship with a narcissist, you cannot help but become narcissist yourself. There is no perfect narcissistic abuse survivors. When you stare into the abyss, the abyss stares back at you.
@StarrSun6 ай бұрын
My ex narcissist discarded me a month ago so I don't think that they think of me.
@JudySterling6 ай бұрын
Beware, they might come back around. I hope you get stronger and wiser every day without them. ❤
@StarrSun6 ай бұрын
@@JudySterling I doubt that she will come back her ego and self centeredness is extremely large - thank you though hun. I wouldn't go back into her toxicity.
@Dasheens6 ай бұрын
Can't wait to see your channel reach a million subscribers!! you are caring individual helping thousands in their silent pain!!
@yehiaismail24516 ай бұрын
I just got able to disassociate myself with the ex narc that I was with. This video gives the impression that the ex narc want to come back and that is a nightmare.
@Sheri-sb1yr6 ай бұрын
The new old supply is ABSOLUTELY DISGUSTING but another hole to f**k.
@jonathanarmen-xi2dx5 ай бұрын
If they try to call you or start up things again. RUN 100% from them, don’t fall for anything, JUST be nice and brief and do not talk with them or allow them to contact you again. Be nice and fast my tell them you have to do something urgent. Don’t play the game and don’t think you can be nice and talk with any depth, just 10 seconds be nice, say you have to go and get the Fllllllk away and stay away and avoid any of their friends or any places they might show up. If you work with one, oh you have issues, if they are family oh that sucks. Watch these viedeos and pray pray and learn from Denish
@samanthafletcher61045 ай бұрын
After 40 years you are so right , I divorced them, I don’t think he thought I would leave 😮, and now he is very bitter 😊😊
@Lizapendleton6 ай бұрын
I saw an old narc pest the other day, all old games and schemes were clearly in his mind. Eeeek. Got away fast.
@militran6 ай бұрын
This completely nailed all the points of the ex I had. Bravo.
@MsSunshineloves6 ай бұрын
Interesting because for the past few days I had dream about him not sure what that's about because it's been 7 months no contact I wonder 🤔 what that dream is about
@isaacmaurice2275 ай бұрын
Well i tool a stand and exposed but didnt disappear afterwards... Stayed cause i felt that i coulndt leave cause i didnt want to give up on her. She constantly took shots at me passively aggressively saying things she knew would get a reaction out of me that others woulnt notice on a surface level and i kept slipping and reacting. Doing things i normally wouldnt do. After getting enough evidence to use against me she used it against me to save face with her family. Next thing i know i wake up and im blocked by everyone but the brother. I wish i had this knowledge before.