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单身之人要怎么走进婚姻?
How Can Singles Step Into Marriage?
一男一女之间爱情的产生本是神撮合,并非两人的条件,神绝对是在婚姻的结合里,也是爱情的源头。所以,单身的弟兄姐妹并非要努力改变自己来讨另一个人的欢欣,这样的话我们便是“为了得异性接受而改”,便会落入一种更失去自我的心态。但是,如果一个单身的弟兄姐妹向神开始祈求一个配偶,神看他独居不好也愿意将一个异性带入他的生命里,那时神必定奥在他的身上开始另一个创造性的工作了,这并非是一种条件性的交换,乃是神亲自爱他,也愿意他进入另一个层面的变化。
The love that sparks between a man and a woman is God’s arrangement, God is surely in the union of a marriage, and the source of love. Hence, a single does not need to transform himself/herself into another person just to please others. If so, we change because we want to “please the other party”, and we will lose ourselves. However, if a single starts to ask for a spouse from God (through calling our to God in prayers and petition, with a heart of thanksgiving), and God feels that it is not good for him to be alone and is willing to bring a woman into his life, God will surely start another creative work in his life. This is not a conditional exchange, instead, it is because God loves him and is willing for him to enter another level of transformation.