The mother in law should heal and let go of what happened, and accept Shiko. Anybody can kill not only Kikuyus, tùtigithiei
@jenifferkimeu22292 жыл бұрын
Wamacharia you talk you miss,it's never that easy. My blood sister was killed by luhyia husband and my dad vowed to disown any family member to marry from such tribe. 17yrs down line we assumed he healed and my brother dated a luhyia, during dowry payment it happened exactly like this story of Kim. The lady was innocent and my mother had no problem with it,my dad disowned bro. They went ahead but church wedding never happened, they had a child but lady died when baby was 2hrs old,my dad disowned the grandchild too. I took the child and dad isn't happy with it till todate. My advice kim run,curse of own parents is real .
@joanesotieno69362 жыл бұрын
@@jenifferkimeu2229 sorry for this. I really feel for you dearly. To Kim, some decisions are hard to make but you should sit together with Diana and agree on one thing which is; parting ways peacefully and maturely. It won't sit well with both of you when you decide otherwise. Think as a man and save yourself and your friend Diana from the impending troubles.
@franxisoyier4252 жыл бұрын
I don't like this stereotype of Kikuyu ladies. Not all Kikuyu ladies kill. Any lady or man can kill. A killer is a killer and you can not accuse an entire tribe for a mistake of one member of a tribe.
@jenifferkimeu22292 жыл бұрын
@@joanesotieno6936 very true, I know pain of losing someone through lack of parents blessing. Making them understand never easy, Once a parent is hurt, convincing otherwise from causes of such hurt never easy.
@kadzo66142 жыл бұрын
You don't know what trauma does, she needs time. Your reasoning is pathetic smh.
@alexmutie88332 жыл бұрын
Stevoh use this couple as ambassadors to beat tribal odds
@johnnjuguna53362 жыл бұрын
Enyewe this channel is educative..I really appreciate you big Man Stevo!! 👍👍👍
@ruthpeteh49582 жыл бұрын
Very educative and he is also offering counselling too
@queenivy66892 жыл бұрын
Speaking from experience of family rejection, exactly where Diana is, there are pertinent questions both parties have to ask themselves 1. What will make each of you fight for this marriage? 2. Diana, are you convicted enough to stand all that comes with rejection even to your children level? 3. My husband chose me over his family, he agreed to be disowned, he was convicted enough beyond my tribe, today what he stood for paid handsomely. Today, We are wholistically embraced to beyond levels. Is Kim ready to pay the price? He seem indecided. Indecision is unspoken fear. You cant make a life decision from the place of fear. Wanting to please his mum at the cost of his wife speaks into his maturity. Is he mature enough to understand what marriage is? 4. Kim's mum could be trapped in the stages of grief. She is blaming and exhuming anger which wisdom demands as a parent, extending understanding and accommodation in the place of retaliation. MY THOUGHT: The marriage can still work perfectly only and only if they tighten loose ends.
@priscahvenscone29122 жыл бұрын
Wow
@derrickwanjala37102 жыл бұрын
@@priscahvenscone2912 Well said, especially number 3. From the first episode it was apparent Kim was still under the control of his mum. Coz picture this, his mum forces him to sleep with another girl and instead of standing his ground he obliged. That tells me one thing:Even if he moves on with Diana, he'll still be under the influence of the mother.
@risperk16572 жыл бұрын
Great words to this couple
@peterdaudi24872 жыл бұрын
I kneed ur advice
@yvonnemaria5582 жыл бұрын
Well spoken, the guy should take a stand as a man, the mum needs counseling she is still traumatized from the incident if they can't afford, he can even speak to a man of God aongeleshe the mum
@maryhebrew94802 жыл бұрын
Nikama Vile wasichana wanaambiwa wasiende gulf watu wanauawa and yet Kuna watu wamesaidikia huko, so Kim maisha ni nyako wishing you all the best 🙏
@rachelandayi21722 жыл бұрын
Shout again bebe
@carolwatetu20212 жыл бұрын
Our Shiro Diana, 7 years is nothing compared to peace of mind, kindly collect the broken pieces and more on... Ukiedelea kukaa huku u will never live your real you... U will always try to please people and force yourself to fit where you are not wanted... It pains to leave someone you love, but will be painful to see your kids suffer ...
@jesusislordandgodislove8282 жыл бұрын
That is what trauma does. The mom's fears remains valid so long as her trauma hasn't been resolved.
@joanmiksabel35982 жыл бұрын
And it's understandable. Honestly, I it's terrifying. It brings back the pain and fear of loss.
@dorothymueni56712 жыл бұрын
aky that's very true
@bett_cheruiyot0162 жыл бұрын
Manze...let's push for Stivo to meet her mum.
@prtflz30332 жыл бұрын
But she has no right to choose the wife for her son. Kama hataki kikuyu. .basi alet kijana atafute mwingine
@jesusislordandgodislove8282 жыл бұрын
@@prtflz3033 I agree, marriage should be a personal choice. However, unless you have been traumatized before huezi elewa. All trauma victims tend to cope differently. In this case, the mother reaction is to be protective of her son to an extent of 'providing a solution' by offering an alternative.
@marthake85502 жыл бұрын
If you love Diana, let her go.She doesn't deserve the hatred
@wagatungu92552 жыл бұрын
I don't know ama ni mimi sioni venye iko ama huyu boy sio strong kwa bibi yake, ake tu na watu wao coz ako hadi na mtoi na mtu mwingine na hakuwai ambia shii, akwede kabisaaa na God apee shiko dam mzuri nkt
@catherineomari63672 жыл бұрын
I'm also wondering how can u be forced to get a child?. U can be forced to marry but to sleep with a woman u don't love. ...? This is really a hard decision. I don't know wether to let go or to fight for the marriage.
@linvi_chemutai2 жыл бұрын
I'm a Kalenjin Meru and this tribal shit brought down my Mom and Dad. Kenyans don't want to be discriminated but they do it among themselves 🥴🥴
@movineanyango86442 жыл бұрын
Shiro my sister it's very hard to stay in a home where nobody accept you, just walked away never stress yourself for love God's time is the best, I once go through that finally I ended the relationship and now am at better place where God leads me,
@evansevance512 жыл бұрын
Iriambo
@hedricamusyoki82872 жыл бұрын
Yeah At sometimes family is all that matters
@lucywanjiku31632 жыл бұрын
Yeah since she doesn't have a kid yet she can make a decision to leave. Its better to take 5 years of healing than suffering all your life due to rejection
@josephodengocc96512 жыл бұрын
Think before you advise if yours didn't work ours worked, relationship it's between two of them and they are free to live anywhere.
@vivianmunene48672 жыл бұрын
You have spoken my mind.. my peace of mind is very important more than mapenzi.. aendee tu juu dem ndio ataloose kila kitu...
@jameskagogoh32752 жыл бұрын
This made me remember a friend of mine in 2015...He was to marry a lady(Kamba)but the dudes mother who was a Kalenjin did not like this lady but the jamaa loved this lady but it did not end well.... The lady decided to relocate something that did not go well with this dude.... Mayb he thought there is another man who wanted this lady which nikama ilikua ukweli.... The jamaa was depressed and stressed on how things were going so he decided to hire hitmen who killed the lady it was so bad she could not be identified well because of the torture even some body parts were missing and she was found brutally killed in Langata... Few days later the dude learned police were after him so hired a car only to intentionally crash the car with Trailler along Nakuru highway. It was so sad. Both parents lost there kids just because one of them influenced them and they paid heavily.... Parents should let their children be ata wao wakipendana hakuna waliowakataza. I feel for this lady
@sharonadongo25732 жыл бұрын
This is the ultimate meaning of "Being between a rock and a hard place"😩
@kevinkimoi32212 жыл бұрын
Honestly,this channel educated alot Big up Man stevo for inspires us alot.
@cheupestefano54242 жыл бұрын
Diana please run God is going to reward you with someone who will heal your pain
@abdulkadirsaidahmed62402 жыл бұрын
This man is going through a lot I feel it with his voice
@naaumy632 жыл бұрын
Both with Diana are hurting inside. May God be their rare guide.
@AM-ed4lj2 жыл бұрын
To Diana, i know you guys have gone through much, but where there is no acceptance there won't be peace!
@footballmoments53842 жыл бұрын
Pertinent questions that needs to be addressed. 1.Should the mother demonize a whole tribe for one evil person's deeds? 2.To what extent should we take our parents advice when choosing our spouses?If it's based on their hatred and bias for a certain group of people,that is their own problem. 3.If Kim marries another wife who is his mother's favorite,will that marriage work or he will forever say that I never loved you,its my mother who loves you..this will be source of fights ever. 4.Will Kim ever earn trust from Diana,now that she has just learnt of hidden kid and wife now.This is actually the biggest issue. 5.Who knows whether if Diana is married to Kim will not be the best blessing to Kim's mum and family in future?? 6.Does the kid at home belong to Kim's mother who forced him to sleep with the girl or to Kim. If you bear a kid because you want to please your mother,will you ever love that kid 7.When will you ever live your life if everything you are doing you want to please your mother..... I support Kim's decision to choose his wife Diana over his mother and family but you must live to protect that decision.Let them address the issue of the kid and woman at home and if Diana is okay to accept the reality and continue with Kim,let them move on , work for their marriage and in future when they will be happy and successful,the family will come to apologize.My thought.
@irenneaketchowate72302 жыл бұрын
Exactly Kim should have a firm stand, protecting his marriage ( Love).He knows what he wants and his future (vision), despite what may follow your heart.
@quinncuddles87832 жыл бұрын
This man is going through alot and if the mother continues putting him under pressure he might do something worse which will leave her in regrets
@joanmiksabel35982 жыл бұрын
That mother must also be understood! Loss is no joke! What happened to her brother is live in her life. Its fear of loosing her son the same way.
@mgtvnews68902 жыл бұрын
Should a mature man commit suicide because the mother doesn't want his wife? 😂😂
@janepherkhisa85812 жыл бұрын
God forbid
@anitamueni96832 жыл бұрын
@@joanmiksabel3598 who said the girl is send to kill.I feel for the couples..sometimes parents should wish the best for there kids instead of telling them about negativity of the society
@cessykaylynn34542 жыл бұрын
My point too
@jenardmwiggeh90932 жыл бұрын
Wuueh,tricky Sana,the trauma and pain of the mum loosing the brother who took care of her since birth is understandable, but on the other hand,not all kikuyus are bad,kwanza with the description he has given of her,she is truly a wife material, I advise the two get into prayer and fasting,for God to reveal His will for their relationship,if it's meant to be pia alegeze roho ya mama Kim to accept Diana!
@ameliaab1312 жыл бұрын
Diana deserve more better. Stop been selfish and just let her go where she will be appreciated.
@mzungu6752 жыл бұрын
I feel you bro, 🙏🙏🙏sorry for everything that you are going through,it's hard to decide between family and 💕 love.may God see you through as you decided your next move .much love from Meru
@lucywanjiku31632 жыл бұрын
Stevo I like the way you ask reality questions,,atleast they trigger one to think ahead
@carolinegitari17092 жыл бұрын
True
@laurakama88722 жыл бұрын
Wah so that's the reason why mother in law kumkataa, otherwise you can't convince her after what happened its hard. Hugs ❤❤🙏🙏
@bensonchege86232 жыл бұрын
Stevo you're asking excellent questions 🙄 this young man betrayed his wife by allowing his mum to mess up his relationship...he can't have the best of both world...he's mummys boy and will never stand by his wife....what will his mum ask him to do next? Diana you don't deserve that kind of toxic family hatred towards you
@jamesmwalya61122 жыл бұрын
Your mom has already lived her life,continue respecting her bcz she is your mom on other side stand like a man,love her to the fullest,protect her from negativity of your parents.
@bereal62462 жыл бұрын
For me maybe this is an eye opener to the lady ,maybe akiondokea huyu kijana ,she might find peace ,girl your beautiful you never know the cause of childlessness might be caused by his family .On the other side the mum angeambia the lady what happened coz if you go judging people no one is perfect mwenye unafikilia is good ,maybe ata ndiye worse .All tribes are good ,you might be sending the guy to the fire itself
@theresajuma18362 жыл бұрын
I was waiting for this part,maybe just maybe the childlessness is their work
@sheilamalombe34752 жыл бұрын
True
@bensonchege86232 жыл бұрын
That's right love isn't pain in your heart is best to move on and be happy in your life.. ..life is too short to be unhappy...you're young and gorgeous and will find happiness
@safrinalenny63042 жыл бұрын
It won't be okay ata waki ishi pamoja coz we as lady's we don't forget. As for me I can't leave in a family where sitakikani no matter how much tha guy loves me😭😭😭 it's so hurting in case ata huyu boy akuwe msick huyu dem ana weza kipata so Diana plz as long as huyu boy ana kupenda but tha fact will remain that familia haikupendi. My God bless you with a good family where u will be welcomed 🙏.
@hildamungari622 жыл бұрын
My dear be strong 💪 I was once there. am a kikuyu married in kisii land now 18year, I under gone what you passing through bt we choose to be together ❤ we now have our kids n fanny enough today am the most loved daughter in law, if you want to be disown talk negative about me n my 👪, if my dad gets sick he call us to take him to the hospital..patience pays
@Slingshots82 жыл бұрын
Take that bold decision man, even birds lay eggs but after they grow they have to leave the nest,fly away and fend for themselves.
@peninnahmwalili85182 жыл бұрын
Wah! The mum is still traumatized! She needs a professional counsellor to pour out her heart to! The brother was probably the only parent the mum knew and that could cause bitterness coz someone took the only person who loved and cared for her, hence the blame game! Not every Kikuyu is a killer and not every Kikuyu is a thief. Stereotyping won't help the situation. All the best to this couple
@bettymakena53652 жыл бұрын
True
@theesomaliqueen50222 жыл бұрын
This woman. Jamani sio wakikuyu pekee wanauwa watu kabila n mingi wanauwana, stop tribalism 😫😫
@morphartombasa31392 жыл бұрын
True true tell her you speaking facts
@princessa30602 жыл бұрын
Diana is so mature, humble,honest,loving,caring,etc bt if u love Diana plzzzz for christ sake let her go &may God gv her direction...she deserves the best of all,,,mad 💞💞 💞 frm ukunda kwale county
@mathewdaniel82162 жыл бұрын
I don't know why good people always get challenges in their life
@akinyiroselyne26972 жыл бұрын
This man is going through a lot. Pray the mum amunderstand na awapewe blessings waishi pomoja every tribe iko na watu wabaya
@josephinekagoi58052 жыл бұрын
His final words to his mom😭😭😭😭. May God intervene and create a balance for you
@mariposas222 жыл бұрын
I think they need a councilor. BMS if you could have a councilor who can always stand in professional capacity for such a big service. Just a suggestion
@nehemiahkosgei9032 жыл бұрын
Mr Kim, I was once a victim of such a situation, the lady is so polite and honestly she is a strong woman who doesn't deserve such treatment, personally it took me time but finally I went to her parents, we talked and eventually I had to let her go for the sake of her peace,I couldn't stand her being abused and being demeaned for the rest of her life as long as we lived,remember we can't escape from family. Please for the sake of the lady ,sit down, do soul searching, consult yourself and make a bold decision
@mercyngiria14692 жыл бұрын
Steve..Leo umeamua kunitesa..my eyes are on you...that sweater inanipea goose bumps..
@hellenriungu18332 жыл бұрын
Aaaii Meru hatushukii wakiuk 🤔 they're our brothers. Kumbe huyu mamake ni mkamba. My advice to her is to forgive and forget about what happened to her brother. Everyone has his or her own personal characteristics,. don't judge the whole community
@jevanceolunga51262 жыл бұрын
After deep thoughts I can confidently say let Diana leave this mama's boy alone ..and get another guy.. Let this man go and share life with this other wife and child . Siring child together is evidence of some chemistry.. LOVE IS NEVER CAST ON STONE
@marystacy85272 жыл бұрын
I really feel for this Man. My husband went through the same when he proposed me. The mum was against this proposal because I had a child. The whole family vowed not to support him or attend our wedding. I thank God so much we stood strong because of love and all went well. Now we are together blessed with a baby boy and my mum in-law accepted the sons decision and she loves me so much despise of her confessing to disown his son. Kim just be strong and follow your heart. Fighting for what is yours no matter the circumstances. As time goes by your mum and your lady will bond and be good mum and daughter in-law.
@jonesjois31692 жыл бұрын
Go back 2 school mwanamme or simply stabilise financially 1st.This may make ur mother consider Ur choices coz she knows v. soon,U'll need them as a family and she doesn't feel like kiukx. And U lady, kwani kwenu umefukuswa, hadi unajisukumia kwa wenyewe io design? Nenda kaolewe na kikuyu, he already cheated, got a bastatd and Ur still there then U say the mother hates U yet she tells U on Ur face🙄😕😠🤨🧐. What other sign do U want 2 be shown idiot?
@cewaki7992 жыл бұрын
Shiru run for your life,u will never be appreciated in this family,if one day mtakosana na huyu Chali wote watakugeuka including him,just pray and ask God to help you 😭😭😭
@lyn59372 жыл бұрын
Dee just let go, someone will end up doing to you something bad in the name of protecting their blood because they can't let go what happened that isn't even connected to you..
@Pena-k-x2n2 жыл бұрын
Very true
@Maggie-m6c2 жыл бұрын
Shiro ondokea tu hiyo relationship, laana iko maybe hata hao watu ndio wamefanya usipate mtoi na kijana wao, instead uishi pahali upendwi it's better you run run for your life. Na Baraka zako zitafunguka in the name of God 🙏🙏.they also say Kambas are witches, does it mean all Kambas ni wachawi, hakuna tribe perfect aki,
@ericko26942 жыл бұрын
The lady looks so innocent and mature the mother in-law should stop that critical stupid thinking
@janepherkhisa85812 жыл бұрын
Remember ones bitten twice shy
@damaochieng28402 жыл бұрын
Diana should go where she's accepted.
@streetgas2 жыл бұрын
It's not stupid, it's called trauma. You can't understand until you're a victim.
@elizabethotieno88752 жыл бұрын
Yeah wanakuanga innocent hivo but after 20 years atakumaliza
@davidbala40642 жыл бұрын
@@streetgas good, advice him.
@stepmum24512 жыл бұрын
stevo think about engaging a counsellor after follow up for the spouse whos been hurt or both so that they may be able to cope with the shock pain n everything....
@charityluvuno2 жыл бұрын
Exactly❤
@Zaza-bt1hx2 жыл бұрын
Or think about taking counseling classes. Your channel is growing and we will support you. Good idea 🧐🧐🧐🧐
@annngash55462 жыл бұрын
From the comment I can see 👀 🤣 how pple hates us,according to some comments it like we kikuyu we will never get married to other tribes,bt thenks be to God my boifred comes from uganda ⁴🇺🇬
@joycengugi12842 жыл бұрын
Dunia ina mimba, nowadays everywhere in this world kumejaa domestic violence and people are killing each other, this Mama has a beef with kikuyu, some of us are very good, loving and caring,am proud to be a kikuyu
@michaelollinga13972 жыл бұрын
Unpopular opinion here: The mum needs psychological support to overcome the grief and be helped understand that it's people who mess, not tribes. If the couple is also helped walk through this phase and the sacrifices they've made. When they truthfully overcome this phase they can have a strong bond. If mediation fails then it'd be wise everyone goes their own way.
@kevinodhiambo5312 жыл бұрын
True..
@ruthpeteh49582 жыл бұрын
True
@getruderono70152 жыл бұрын
So touching 😭😭😭your last words...may God intervene ..you are lovers for life just pray God someday your mum will change 😭all the best
@albertkariithialbie21242 жыл бұрын
Mum has a reason to talk so,It hurts to lose a son but that doesn't guarantee her to hate a whole kikuyu tribe..Its hard for all of them
@jamesmuthee252 жыл бұрын
Steve, great job. I suggest counselling for this family.
@ritamarie25462 жыл бұрын
Me and my siblings were banned by our late aunt from ever marrying kambas ati they killed our mum...this is something tht happens to most people in our society and i would advise dee to move on...bc if the guy loves her as he claims, he wldnt be having a baby with another lady....he will still leave her claiming his mother forced him
@victoriaadhiambo10212 жыл бұрын
Mama Kim,pls give this lady a chance and then judge her according to her own actions.pls dont just generalise.
@mercychepngetich79642 жыл бұрын
Woyee this guy made me shade tears,i pray his mom understands his decision and blesses them
@joycengina7232 жыл бұрын
Let that gal move on,you are risking her life too😃and you love becoz of what she have.my gal run run run for your own benefits (children)
@kamwaraeric57432 жыл бұрын
During the first episode, I advised men to be very careful with the advice they get from their mothers because they are full of emotions rather than being logical and with facts. I hope now guys you can see the case here. She is emotional just because her brother was killed by a Kikuyu. Yes, it is traumatizing but it doesn't mean the same will happen to her son. By the way, one has to die in one way or another. Let her advise her son and the decision her son makes, she should respect it. Her son has decided to stay with this Kikuyu lady, let her respect that. By the way, she is got this son from a different tribe. Kina mama wachaneni na Vijana wenu wajenge familia zao. Kaeni na mabwana zenu hukoooooooo.
@safrinalenny63042 жыл бұрын
Yeah sure
@ednantinyari59012 жыл бұрын
Tell them again
@kadzo66142 жыл бұрын
Your audacity!!
@carolinebii96642 жыл бұрын
ongeza volume
@rebeccaomambia79882 жыл бұрын
True
@Hanifa09302 жыл бұрын
Kim just let Diana go coz ataumia sana kwa hiyo family...alafu mtaishi maisha ya visirani coz hamna baraka za wazazi. If u really love Diana muache ukae na babymama, huyo dem anaitaji peace aki...
@assumptawambui432 жыл бұрын
It's really heartbreaking to separate from your love cz of such thing yet u love them
@judithmelvinealuchio89682 жыл бұрын
ukweli ni kwamba huyo madam akiendelea kuishi naye chochote kitendeke kwa the huby ya dunia ni mengi huyo mwana dada anaweza hataa kufungwa for something she knows nothing aki ukabila kenya pia ni maradhi isiyo na tiba big up Man Stivo 💪🇪🇺
@yvonneswabella27442 жыл бұрын
Unless the mother forgives and let what happened go, then it can never be well with you both being together, furthermore this lady looks innocent
@hellenajohnson57962 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@DandyKenny2 жыл бұрын
Kama ujakosea mum nothing can happen to him...curse hupata mtu kama umekosea mzazi
@jobbogonko16012 жыл бұрын
They all look innocent at the beginning!
@ggsworld74622 жыл бұрын
The lady is humble and beautiful too
@pepi7772 жыл бұрын
Honestly forgiving is possible, forgetting not easy to the mom , of course the lady is innocent. The boy has to make hard decisions between the mom and the wife.. Not easy but let Gods grace prevail.
@mercyngiria14692 жыл бұрын
I feel for the guy...he truly loves. God bless and protect this 2 love birds
@AM-ed4lj2 жыл бұрын
To my brother ,I feel you boy but love only is not enough in a marriage! And if you really loved Diana, you couldn't have agreed to sleep with another woman because of pressure, you already have that lady with a baby! The baby needs a family too. My baby daddy has been in the same situation like yours, deciding to choose between me and the baby and his family! It is very depressing, as much as i loved him for over 10 years, i let him go because it kills me seeing him stressed all the time! It will be very hard for Diana to deal with you trying to proved to you that you were not wrong choosing her over your family! Parents blessing are very important in a marriage, otherwise things won't go well!
@candidmusings2 жыл бұрын
Are you all ignoring the sound of that child crying in the background, sounds like abuse to me.
@vivianjeruto74912 жыл бұрын
Hahah
@essykenya.41282 жыл бұрын
Most kikuyu especially frm Nyeri have spoil the CV for other kikuyu's by beating and even killing there husband so it too hard to convince especially ilitrate or many people that we stil have good kikuyu's out there so Ita hard to convince mother inlaw coz not only hearing she saw it wth her own blood brother she need alot of time and counselling for her to understand so we can't blame her coz she has her own reasons
@alicewangari66012 жыл бұрын
Better you coz you choose not to be born in Nyeri, be blessed sis for choosing where to be born!!!!
@maggieshikoh94982 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣 the problem is that sisi dio tuko,I'm proud kikuyu bae
@annewangari34662 жыл бұрын
@@alicewangari6601 Wangàri ,I also second you. Ana bahati alipewa nafasi ya kuchagua azaliwe kwingine na si Nyeri. . It's only in Nyeri where such occur. Thinking shallow mindedly .
@samirabashir47992 жыл бұрын
Waoooh u choose where to be born en your calling others illiterate sisemi kitu
@marylmagdaline90122 жыл бұрын
I'm from nyeri but kusema ukweli wanyeri tumezidi aki,,
@lucykavutu71692 жыл бұрын
Jamami kikuyu is my favourite,tafadhali wakenya tuache ukabila,kando na ayo makosa ayabebaniwi,ni sawa mjombake aliyapitia haimanishi kikuyu wote ni wabaya,!!!!
@funnykid.chingerz83812 жыл бұрын
If she decides to stay they might revenge what happened to them through her, again the guy should have told her everything before it reached here. And when God decides it time He sends the angel of light BMS.
@isaac_the_deloper2 жыл бұрын
Big Man stivo,, I'm really learning from these scenarios in the relationship,, thanks alot,, keep teaching the Nation
@michellenaomi66422 жыл бұрын
I'm also from nyeri but kusema ukweli wanyeri tunakuanga tumezidi...
@lucysolomon66892 жыл бұрын
Shiku your at the wrong place just run for ur life that guy is also not sure that's why he cheated with his tribe and has a child. Darling it takes more than love to keep a marriage. The kind of trauma this family going through is enough to give you headache for the rest of ur life..... Run
@MrKirumbuyo2 жыл бұрын
Wah....This man is standing on a spot no man, or human being, should be forced to stand! Take your woman bro and wade through life....come what may!
@nabilmswahili19622 жыл бұрын
I am trying to imagine if your mom was rejected like she is rejecting Diana how would she feel? Kambas are called witches but does it mean all kambas are witches? Noo,we should not judge someone from tribal bases.my dad is a kamba my mom a Kikuyu and they are still good together for 37 years.
@lenceronganda75812 жыл бұрын
I am aluo and I was rejected bz I came from siays and the boy from oyugis.At that time the boy insists he Love's me, years later he himself he started saying he was warned not to marry me has his wife.
@nancykamotho70192 жыл бұрын
I think it's wrong to generalize the whole tribe, every tribe has some bad apples.
@eunicendinda54052 жыл бұрын
Apa ni pale inaachigwa God atatue cz sio rahisi ila nafikiria kims mom needs counselling cz asipo kubali na kusameha mambo itakua hard juu lahani iko .may God see u through
@christinentinyari88822 жыл бұрын
kumbe wewe Steve ni wa nyumbani. much love ❤️
@jenardmwiggeh90932 жыл бұрын
ooooliskia wapi😂😂😂😂😂😂
@annegaceri95772 жыл бұрын
He is a Luo the accent says it all
@christinentinyari88822 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@abierocarolyne2 жыл бұрын
Bro if you loose that wonderfull gift be sure God s watching and rem he will not give u another Gus one
@mamagiftshosh37162 жыл бұрын
Better late than never this content reminds me how I was rejected by mother In- law coz I had two big daughter and their son who was to marry me was their Lastborn boy who had not engaged into any relationship walimletea hadi wasichana by force to marry .If it were not for my hubby who stood with his words I couldn't be in the family now. Am the one now seen as a blessing in the family after building a house for my father in law. The hate turned to love. This is to tell this boy to be strong and stand for his love.
@bensonchege86232 жыл бұрын
But he cheated on her and had a baby while they were together was he forced to have sex with her? He's weak can't fight for his love seems like mummys boy...my sister needs to bite the bullet and value her happiness than heart aches and trust issues
@cyrusmwangi54062 жыл бұрын
Salute you siz
@mamagiftshosh37162 жыл бұрын
@@cyrusmwangi5406 thanks
@supidia58632 жыл бұрын
This guy has a kid and says he was forced by his mum. What happens to that kid and the baby mama? He can be forced to get another wife in the village and kids.
@unbrokenworship14472 жыл бұрын
Diana seems to be a good girl and for her peace ,I would advise the you part and in a friendly manner and remain confidants.i pray for wisdom 🙏
@hassanprodenix5642 жыл бұрын
We are in another generation, let's not get to family ties so much. In this point of generation we need to tolerate each other, people from other communities, lets embrace intermarriages but above all the heart wants what it wants.
@mediayote30012 жыл бұрын
It us still this gebneration that inexpected still happens and cause fear It cam not just be ignored Trauma b is a terrible exoerience if it yiu have gone thtiugh. You can not just vvridh it off as if nothing haooened Put yourself in mum's shies and fell the loss
@brianoloo79702 жыл бұрын
These ladies are the same even me I hate kiuks
@grammamresh88482 жыл бұрын
Kikuyu ladies we need to pay that Mama a visit,tumuonie wendo,na tumwire tutiri oru, we are good ladies
@jayne32262 жыл бұрын
Everything else aside, my concern for Diana is this guy's desire to please his mum as he says. If his mum 'forces' him to sleep with the lady again, will he still do it to please his mum?
@joelatuti54672 жыл бұрын
exactly my conern.
@charleskabuchu71932 жыл бұрын
he is a big kid period cz surely there's no way your wife can make decisions for you
@joycemsiska-chihana90102 жыл бұрын
@@charleskabuchu7193 mum not wife. But u r right
@joycemsiska-chihana90102 жыл бұрын
Yeah true
@charleskabuchu71932 жыл бұрын
Sorry I meant mum
@vitalisawuor61552 жыл бұрын
Whuuuee kumbe this thing is deep but not all Kikuyu if I look at this lady aki paying for something she never commit.this guy have a gold if he losses it he will never recover @musa benja did you hear the voice? Wacha tuuu....hapa unge nunua Subaru
@morphartombasa31392 жыл бұрын
That's was bad bt it already happened but it doesn't mean if my brother is a thief for example am a thief too lets not judge someone else from someone's mistake this guy has his mistake too there is no way his mum could force him to sleep with another woman and have a kid together sex is a process it's not just like the way we switch electricity on and off he knew what he was doing
@annewangari34662 жыл бұрын
That's my arguement kuaccept msichana huyo was the worst betrayal. Again he never told shiro about a girl brought to him .The girl wakikosana ataendea huo gal
@morphartombasa31392 жыл бұрын
@@annewangari3466 yess yess this was cheating
@stepmum24512 жыл бұрын
yeaaah😂😂
@joanmiksabel35982 жыл бұрын
Exactly! He too is confused! In the long run he leave her for mama's choice.
@chriskagolla41892 жыл бұрын
Sex is a unit
@simeononguti44172 жыл бұрын
My brother don't ever leave your wife, from the look of things she's the best queen n humble wife you'll ever get, you the one marrying not your mother, as much they say Kuna wabaya but pia Kuna some of the best, loving n caring.
@eliuderasto77202 жыл бұрын
I think kenyan should learn from us Tanzanians....we have over 120 tribes but still hakuna ukabila kabisa 🇹🇿🇹🇿
@faithdashian56372 жыл бұрын
but si mulikataa tanasha😁
@paul_tha-n74832 жыл бұрын
mwajindanganya civilization haijafika huko kama wazungu wako nazo u are thee TZs in the near future watajielewa tu
@rosemaryqueen11812 жыл бұрын
Ebu nitafutie bwana huko tafadhali
@eliuderasto77202 жыл бұрын
@@rosemaryqueen1181 Wapo mabwana wengi tu...but as you know when it comes to relationship,you are the one supposed to choose for yourself...not the other way
@iopo99682 жыл бұрын
I was watching a case similar to this one tho that guy had no kid outside..he was disowned by parents coz he married a kiambu lady and mind u they're kiuks also 4rm nyahururu..he ailed cancer for 3yrs and the parents and her only sister ddnt paid them a visit...the wife went thru hell the guy died and said the parents shud not kam to burial and he said to b buried in langata..this kuchagua kabila smtymes n stressful....
@lambertmkz2 жыл бұрын
A Meru to ethnically profile a Kikuyu is the most absurd thing I've heard this year! 🙆 🙆
@sarahandati68112 жыл бұрын
Me too am surprised 😮
@teresamuthoni4752 жыл бұрын
Imgn our men here wanaabiwa wasioe Kikuyu Don't be surprised Hii kitu huwezi elewa unless u leave with us
@lambertmkz2 жыл бұрын
@@teresamuthoni475 What's the reason behind it?
@teresamuthoni4752 жыл бұрын
@@lambertmkz n hio stori ya they don't keep marriage Na hio kuua Alafu wengi wako kwa ndoa n wao usema the man as no say
@nkathastephen12692 жыл бұрын
her mum is not meru but kamba
@johnmwangi87062 жыл бұрын
He gona need a super high confidence to protect his innocent wife n am worried he doesnt show sighns of a tough guy . Th fact that he listened to his mother n slept with another girl that means his mother influence is still strong down th road life gona b tough, so this guy he is only with our kikuyu lady coz she is surpotive n humble he is enjoying kulipiwa nyumba somehow i feal th beutiful lady should b with a strong mature guy who who is also financially stable full of confidence hapa baadae itakua machozi tu
@Jkipsa2 жыл бұрын
What a trauma?I now understand his mother's frustration.However,not all Kikuyu's are bad or murderers.It is not fair to generalise.So sad though.
@rejinam93202 жыл бұрын
This is sooo painful 😢may God intervene.. What God has joined together let nobody separate.. I would like to advise the lady that if things are tough she should walk away for her own peace of mind..
@roselynmuriithi95732 жыл бұрын
This a serious matter guys na huyu dame anaonekana kumpenda mwenza despite the fact that mother ashaa mchukia already now atasaidikaje coz hakuna haja kufalse issues she might end in depression for sure is it Steve prepare her mind that anything can happen n life continues bt I pitty her for real
@mercymuriuki7912 жыл бұрын
Steve....good job.....tuletee mother in law....atuelezee kinaga ubaga
@nalasnal35812 жыл бұрын
This mother and the couple should visit a counselor immediately. If trend of things continues , Diana's life might be in jeopardy.
@natrinemweha86252 жыл бұрын
Steve the work you do at your age, infact you need a medal...Hating the whole tribe because of one person, na kama huyo ndugu yake ndiye alimuua wife??...That family needs counseling and deliverance that's very dangerous...Diana let it go, God will protect you, He will give you the real happiness babygal.
@ngurenjoki97962 жыл бұрын
My advice to the lady pack and go dont be fooled by love and emotions let me tell you stay at your own risk and nothing good will come from that relationship your children will never have peace so plz think about yourself first you're the only one who will save yourself from all this hatred and frustrations, you didnt choose to be a Kikuyu am also a kikuyu pround one bt I can't give any one or so called family to bring their frustration on me cz of my tribe never I love my self much so get up and love yourself,your hubby have another life and by look of things I dont see him protecting you from the so called family,family will always be family they will squeeze him and you will be the one to take it all see the bigger picture furthermore he is a father and you were not aware trust me how can you be forced to sleep with a lady???? Wake up and plan your future girl don't be blinded by love.
@ruthpeteh49582 жыл бұрын
Thumbs up Stevo,I'm loving your content day by day
@morphartombasa31392 жыл бұрын
This is painful on the other side the guy is having a kid with another woman the kid will always be a priority and the mother will love the woman who has has the kid with his son Diana just make a right decision not only the mother hates you bt the father and the Uncles too I feel like you should walk away how ever bitter it will be but the early the better how ever much you love someone somethings just have to happen Diana will always be humiliated by the family they will never love her
@carenodinga34312 жыл бұрын
Steve you are very wise maaann! I love how you tackle everything...
@midichebukati41642 жыл бұрын
Just same story with what happened to my elder brother, alikua amemarry Bibi mkikuyu he killed my bro juu alimpata akicheat and it was so sad story akatuachia watoto wanne wadogo Sana bt we thank God sai wamekua wakubwa
@wairimusimiyu2 жыл бұрын
Akicheat angefanywa nn??????
@midichebukati41642 жыл бұрын
@@wairimusimiyu haikuhusu🤔🤔🙄😒😒
@naominanjala85202 жыл бұрын
Kim fwata mashauri ya mzazi it's like your second God...mpe amani yake... it's painful but in proverb say sikiliza mashauri ya mama yako..we must respect them....utakumbuka ur mum words one day
@edwinwanjala87112 жыл бұрын
I still insist that this couple must remain together They should not separate It's more than love here