you're dreaming that in the US when you invest in your children everything you ever have, you believe that they will show respect, consideration, or gratitude. That is a daydream.The US born children have no capacities as Chinese born, raised children. We have kids who came to the state at age 4, 5, 14, 15, 12, 16 or different ages, some of those kids even go to Church. But cross the board, when grown-up they all like 白鼠狼.To those Chinese urgently wanted to go to aboard, be careful, doesn't matter how muchyou invest in your kids, that you literally lost your children. American born Childrenwill never take care of their parents. or even helping their parents when asked. Period.
@lounaperez7275 Жыл бұрын
Not all China-born and raised children are happy to take care of their parents when their parents are old and not all American-born Chinese or Chinese that were raised in America are unhappy to take care of their parents when are old. 请不要一棍打死 好不好.
@roseli6988 Жыл бұрын
孩子真不能让她们在美国长大
@lancefree7544 Жыл бұрын
That means you still keep Chinese traditional life ideology living in USA. You treat your children as your properties, not as independent individuals. You and your children need to respect each other. Besides that, you should also give your children more privacy. If you lived in USA with the mindset of born-place, you would not be happy spiritually. The reason you came to USA was because USA provides more solid high income, not combining USA culture and spirit with your illusion of life experience.