24 year old baby mama cries on live when Kevin Samuel’s told her she’ll never get married

Kevin tried to explain to this women that the choice we make affect the outcome we want.
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[@bittersweetlove143]

I can tell you.. as a woman. I'm glad I found Kevin Samuels. But sad to say I did once he passed away. But this man.. this man humbled me and changed my mindset and has challenged me to change my ways. I cannot unsee the disgrace many of us women carry and the lack of accountability we have... WAKE UP LADIES!! Especially if you have a son(s).

[@mscece1900]

ok pickmeisha lol

[@jbhatts610]

@@mscece1900that particular gas-lighting tactic has gotten old. My opinion, you’re a bitter single mother who’s never accomplished anything in life. Makes you feel better to constantly message the same tired line

[@lightbe85]

I'm happy for you. I wish a lot more people could wake up to the truth.

[@rockefeller13]

​@@mscece1900 wow she a pick me because her mindset changed wow

[@chrisb1906]

This is what accountability sounds:like

[@xdcurlin]

His ability to say a needed truth regardless of her feelings is what's missing in todays world

[@ralphangel561]

Amen

[@leroyj3627]

Absolutely!

[@vegbeg9170]

It's the difference between niceness and goodness. Coddling and being "nice" leads to people screwing their lives up like this.

[@samuellizius6199]

at least she respectful and not loud ghetto and obnoxious. I wish her the best

[@lorraine5741]

I wish her the best also. And I'm glad that Kevin Samuels didn't make her feel any worse than she already did.. Just looking for answers.. He is still young... Don't have no more babies... Yourself together and get yourself an education... And focus on yourself and your child... I can pull herself out of her situations if she don't Do anything else to lessen her chances of being desirable to the type of man that she wants... I too wish her the best!

[@Incessuserro]

Yeah, that makes points with me too. And because, I think, she is beginning to see her mistake I feel for her.

[@ItsMarionotluigi]

@@lorraine5741I agree with you Lorraine!

[@ItsMarionotluigi]

@@Incessuserroyeah, this is why I post his content, if even one person can just gain a different understanding of what the real world is then I’m sure that’s all Kevin Samuel’s wanted. I hope this young lady and other like her find the right one

[@jl6523]

Low bar man. If you expect all black women to be loud, ghetto, and obnoxious that's a reflection of your economic status, not of black women. Im a man around educated black women that don't act that way ever.

[@welshhibby]

“You let him hit it RAW, you had no second thoughts…now you a single mom”

[@ItsMarionotluigi]

Cooking

[@accountant8678]

LET HIM COOK!

[@mscece1900]

@@welshhibby And now he's getting locked up for not paying child support 😭 don't forget that line too 😆👍

[@brandonsexperience2008]

​@@mscece1900hit dog 😂😂😂😂shame good luck to yall blk women

[@Bsharpnotflat]

If a man has exercised a level of self discipline having no kids before marriage, he should at least search for a woman who has the same self discipline.

[@ItsMarionotluigi]

Fair!!!

[@redgringrumboldt8983]

It's so much harder to find a man without kids who is 35 lol.

[@fisf.2148]

As a woman who has no kids I completely agree! In fact I wish I was a virgin

[@CoryRosez]

Listen as a woman like myself with no kids. I am now finding out that dating a man with kids will not benefit me in any way. So men/women with kids out of wedlock must accept this reality. It sounds harsh. But it’s the truth!

[@ItsMarionotluigi]

Yes! You on point now!

[@amerokeewiya1320]

I don’t blame you. I don’t want to be bothered with anyone’s children when I have none of my own. NO THANK YOU!

[@accountant8678]

LET HER COOK!

[@Ring0--]

Yes. Applies both ways.

[@karinteeples9715]

Unfortunately it’s a consequence to bad decisions. We have to own bad decisions and choices. Many will manipulate and hide in the lie, because reality will break them. Sad.

[@JusTheKing.]

She said she didn't decide to be "independent" and a single mother?? Women LITERALLY make thise decisions. Zero accountability.

[@squrt57]

She agrees that she made a mistake and now wants any man to come rescue her.

[@demonpaw11]

Kevin is 1000% correct when he talks about dating with intent. When I was still single I never dated anyone who didn't want the end goal of getting married and having kids. It's a waste of time to date someone with opposite goals.

[@ItsMarionotluigi]

Alot of people lack real love and compassion at home and surprisingly waste their dating years to chase after lust and not what's really important ( long term outcome marriage and kids)

[@user-ik3zq3zp9j]

She definitely needs therapy. She was completely dysregulated when Kevin refused to gratify or coddle her. This is a child.

[@KatXYZ]

Yep… she’s purposely deceptive! She deserves where she is right now! 😂🤣

[@karinteeples9715]

She represents most young women/men today. They stay in delusional mode because the reality would break them. Sad.

[@burgandi.c]

Why would people call in for advice but become so argumentative when he wouldn't tell them what they wanted to hear. LOL

[@rafeeqwarfield9690]

Chile I’m telling you

[@ItsMarionotluigi]

lol make it make sense

[@thomassantino392]

Women's "logic"

[@Shadox66]

Most women want to be married, but most don't want to be wives. There is a big difference!

[@ItsMarionotluigi]

They don’t understand being a wife is a 9-5 just like the career they chasing….working two jobs is hard no matter who you are and you can’t give up because it’s not going your way, you pick a path you got to stick to it

[@leroyj3627]

That's the bottom line.

[@karinteeples9715]

Married 33 years now, and I’ll just be honest: you can’t have the career and be a homemaker and be successful at both. It’s impossible. I chose homemaker and I love my life!! I dont t want the stess Of a career and people pleasing. My husband is a jewel. Choose wisely. Be humble and kind.

[@theagbaman]

This man was an absolute blessing to Black people and continues to be. He forced these women to engage logic when they refused to.

[@rimasingleinny1871]

This is why we need to start raising these girls to not just have babies because they can

[@Dr.Thomas_Elliot]

😅

[@chucksnightmare7674]

We need to stop paying welfare if their not Married, Period.

[@NinSega89]

The fact that she constantly tries to justify her mistakes and not caring about how men see it is so ridiculous

[@ItsMarionotluigi]

Us men are just suppose to stfu, and go work and not care if life is fair to us apparently, and if we do then we sassy lol can brothers get rewarded anymore for the hard work? or is the real HARDwork at home with our modern day women?

[@justanothergoy5900]

@@ItsMarionotluigiim in this exact situation with my wife, for years i shut my mouth and didnt say anything…now i am speaking up and she is shocked and doesnt understand why i am not laying down and taking the bs anymore

[@ItsMarionotluigi]

@@justanothergoy5900 I hope things work out for the better but that’s how you gotta do it

[@karinteeples9715]

She can’t handle the reality of her bad decisions. She feels shame deep down, but avoids the truth because it will break her. She must do the inner healing work.

[@jl6523]

This is a great segment. You folks should respect both Kevin, and the young lady for being authentic and teaching us all a lesson.

[@ItsMarionotluigi]

Yeah it was a very interesting topic but it made a lot of sense!

[@macman9689]

That felony comparison was deep and on point. Basically your at the mercy that someone will be willing to take the chance and risk. The vast majority will not!

[@KoWright76]

Even Sponge Bob and Patrick can’t believe what they’re hearing

[@ItsMarionotluigi]

hahaha patrick took his star back once she started talking

[@kennethwilliams6799]

You stupid 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@dhayden2974]

Hahaha, hell yeah

[@dhayden2974]

​@@ItsMarionotluigiFunny

[@Carhaulerhustle]

Damn 😂😅

[@tompain6498]

The problem women have with KS is that he doesn't give them the answer to get out of their situation.

[@Alvan81]

True. But he occasionally tried, and it failed. Most of us want advice that let's us make minimal, easy changes, and still have ideal results. I have many relatives in Social Work/Healthcare. Clients all want 'help' but don't want to sacrifice, admit mistakes, 'lower standards' etc.

[@larryharris1370]

The answer for her is to stay Single until her daughter is grown and out the house.This msn has a child and why would he take resources from his child and give to her child.Make it make sense

[@ItsMarionotluigi]

exactly or make them feel like its hope due to their f up... you mess up you messed up and thats it ( if more people lived like this we would be a better place than we are now)

[@wesleyharris3764]

And his answer was always book a session. General advice on the platform for the masses vs personal advice in a one on one.

[@rwatler]

Stepdad here. It is no glory in it.

[@mrmitchell4089]

damn

[@Joey-cw2uj]

Get that Passport my guy. #PassportGang

[@rwatler]

@@Joey-cw2uj I got 2. Working on a 3rd one.

[@Rashaadthegr8]

@@Joey-cw2uj It's too late.

[@charleenliebschwager4565]

I value you sir. Thank god for my stepfather but I was told by him never to do it. I stay in touch with mine more then anyone in my family blood related. Greets from Germany

[@benjaminwilson4558]

The "BABY MOMMA BOX" ! 😅

[@ThaBlackPill]

11:19 THAT’S A BOX 📦 !!!!!

[@Lemuel_Ben_Israel]

THE BUSS-DOWN BOX FROM NOW TILL -THE ROAD TO PERDITION.

[@amani2222]

This poor young woman is another example of her environment unfortunately. Too many women have made the mistake of trying to trap a man by getting pregnant. A man marries a woman for love not because she has his child or to trap him. The cycle of deceit has to be broken.

[@teenermeener971]

Its a shame. Alot of women think that will make him stay.

[@ItsMarionotluigi]

Amen to this statement.

[@thespiderman630]

I swear most of the women I see on this show lacks empathy. They never consider what the man has to go through to accept a woman and her child smh. It’s a burden smh

[@toppagirl]

If it’s a burden, WHY ARE YOU PURSING HER??? It’s dumb to complain about a decision YOU made. Y’all complain bc single, motherless women don’t want y’all. Says a lot about you.

[@Whateverisback]

@@toppagirlwho complaining that singleness women don’t want MEN?.

[@deanogordon2819]

@@toppagirl who's pursuing them?? They're talking about the men who are dating them. If you're a babymother just say so. Or better yet be quiet.

[@dman221]

@@toppagirl: What you said makes absolutely no sense. Single childless women don't want single childless men. 😂😂😂😂 And this is another reason why black men shouldn't get with Baby Mommas because most likely they don't choose correctly and don't make sense.

[@ItsMarionotluigi]

@@deanogordon2819 lol i was wondering why she was coming at his crazy but that could be the reason Dean lol

[@killingsley]

Asking a man to provide for the child that you made with another man is very disrespectful.

[@Jazzy-mt3ht]

I would understand if the father is not in the picture.

[@kathryneprickett2083]

​@@Jazzy-mt3htEven if he isn't in the picture, it's still insane.

[@shanelowe9257]

I wouldn’t recommend dating anyone with poor choices in mates!

[@killingsley]

@@Jazzy-mt3ht It doesn't matter if he's in or out of the picture. If a man supports the child he's also supporting the child's father as well because that's his kid too & men don't want to support other men.

[@susanest727]

Woman rarely ask a man to take care of their child. Initially, she informs the man that she has a child. He decides if he wants to hang with her or not. They then decides if they want to continue to hang. As time goes on, either they make a connection or not. He will ultimately make the decision if he wants to continue the relationship with this woman who has a child or not. Most women are not asking a man to be their child’s father. The man understands that if he plans on being a permanent part of this woman’s world, the child is included.

[@trevorbrach9436]

Biggest mistake I made was being a step father. I've moved on and will never make that mistake again.

[@ItsMarionotluigi]

If you don’t mind me asking, what was the worse part?

[@trevorbrach9436]

@@ItsMarionotluigi Responsibility but no authority!

[@tyedup8884]

@@trevorbrach9436sheeeesh thanks for sharing

[@alphonsemele6493]

I'm a step father, luckily it worked out for me but I don't recommend it

[@KtotheG]

@@trevorbrach9436 And that is precisely why they are single mothers. All single mothers who are not widows are voluntary. They're not victims. Their husbands didn't go out for cigarettes and not come back. They were either trying to trap a dude and it didn't work or they filed for divorce because they weren't happy.

[@mmontgomery383]

Her wig tells the real story. It's..... hiding the truth of an unmade reality

[@karenmiller2785]

Truth

[@damienthrash2202]

🏆

[@mosaictwin]

😂😂😂😂

[@chadhill3977]

Notice how much weave darker skinned black women have compared to other skin tones of women. They seem to be trying to make up for their dark complexion

[@steelesharpensteele6252]

😂😂😂😂

[@changemymind2021]

I see Section 8, food stamps, medicaid, total welfare pkg.

[@ItsMarionotluigi]

you forgot the baby daddy oh nvm he's there i think

[@poppadnice52]

Bench

[@lanitaflint8417]

I grew up wanting to be a wife and mother. My parents raised all four of us girls to be a wife. I have been married almost forty years. My sisters also are married with children, it’s all about the right mindset..

[@kseke25]

You got lucky and found a man who didn’t make you a baby mama. Sometimes, that’s all it turns out to be. You might have been raised to be marriage-minded, but the majority of men (especially in certain communities and cultures)are not.

[@HibaraBonde]

​@@kseke25 so stop opening your legs .get the ring first .marry before carry

[@goldennubian210]

No man can MAKE you a baby momma unless you let that happen. Obviously rape or incest is another matter. But anything outside of that was completely within your control as the woman. As woman we really need to take real responsibility so that we are aware of our power to use it to OUR advantage.

[@shawnburrup2938]

No French toast accountability with a side order of crocodile tears

[@ItsMarionotluigi]

😂😂😂 and a tall glass of delusion

[@brandonethereal1084]

And regret for dessert lmao

[@ItsMarionotluigi]

@@brandonethereal1084 and good portion size of being young and dumb😂

[@brandonethereal1084]

@@ItsMarionotluigi Ok!😭

[@NytiaHenry]

It’s clear she just wants to be a wife. She needs to focus on raising her daughter and maturing mentally.

[@ItsMarionotluigi]

yeah she got a long way to go

[@robertcampbell9992]

She’s definitely not wife material. Gentlemen don’t make this mistake, it will ruined your life.

[@BlackSavage946]

Dutty gyal never was, she let next man skeet up inside her, I smash em and I dash em out my yard ya get me.

[@heycokocoko1254]

are you husband material?

[@karlmax6031]

When you get married to her, her true self will come out.

[@ItsMarionotluigi]

@@karlmax6031 i agree with that, she looking for an escape goat she didnt think she need.

[@thekingofisrael4460]

She's just looking to reap the rewards just as most of them are.

[@MrShaneVicious]

Another single mother looking for a bailout

[@ItsMarionotluigi]

Ain’t no teammate in this game😂

[@sweetdaddyrick1826]

Whew !!!!!!!!! They run from you till they get tired of getting ran threw I’ll never date a chick with kids seriously just smash n pass

[@tyeshab2010]

She'll be alright she just need to find someone else with kids. Dating someone without kids when you have kids makes no sense to me

[@sweetdaddyrick1826]

@@tyeshab2010 naw she cooked it’s over for her focus on her kids n don’t date who wanna deal with that mess

[@kimiicemanmz]

Damn that was a good one. Never seen this KS clip before. This man is highly missed. May the Godfather rest in peace.

[@ItsMarionotluigi]

I will continue to find and post his clips that has message's that we could all use or learn from! Just like him, my goal with this channel is to help bring awareness to modern day lies most single women and mother tell their kids ( especially daughters) that has everyone having sex, and working 40+ work hours...We need married women to speak up and stop protecting their single friends, just like how we need MEN to hold each other accountable( stealing, shooting, fighting, snitching etc). Life should be simple if taught correctly with morals and values. Thanks for your comment!

[@susanclaire901]

I love the way KS called out women who brought children into this world without the benefit of marriage. What were they thinking??? And now they want marriage.

[@soniaharrison1016]

But who aided and abetted them into that situation. Last time I checked you need sperm to make a baby, so clearly someone forgot to protect themselves as well.

[@ItsMarionotluigi]

Thinking with feelings and lust and what they want to hear, instead of what they can process and see

[@shmoopiebear]

She may be crying. But there are many people laughing. I'll leave it at that. The one lesson almost everybody inevitably learns in life. There is always the good chance there will be nobody to RESCUE YOU. Facts.

[@jeanc6295]

She is in shock . She is upset with her life choice of having a baby first now the reality has set in. She definitely looking for a stepfather. She crying but when men cry they say man up. Welcome to a man's world.

[@JamZon-zl6xp]

Really... She's in such shock the least of her concerns are her child

[@ItsMarionotluigi]

literally a man's world lol so how do they be expecting us to "work with them" when we been working! we need love and support, not bastards from delusional minded women who still feel like she's offering more just because she got a V

[@squrt57]

Telling them to "woman up" is equality.

[@teenermeener971]

She could of married her child father. She didn't want that.

[@ItsMarionotluigi]

like KS would say, i cant rap my head around the fact that a women can let a man nut inside of her and do nothing but when its time to put in work for marriage its not worth staying?

[@charlesislaw]

​@@ItsMarionotluigi Since the Garden of Eden, women have valued their "independence" more than they value a family. Women are only willing to give up their "independence" for a top tier guy. Women would rather be an Independent Single Mother than to be a Labor Class Wife. That's why babymoma culture is here to stay.

[@The-Oneness11]

​@@ItsMarionotluigiI married my child's father because I thought it was the right thing to do but a lot of people tell me I made the wrong decision.

[@CoreyT127]

@@The-Oneness11Imagine caring ? About what anyone’s else thinks about your relationship! Let me guess? All your single friends think you made a mistake?😂😂

[@The-Oneness11]

@@CoreyT127 No actually it's multiple people in my family and his family. Some are married and some aren't. I don't actually have friends. Well I will admit that their concerns are not without basis. My life got messed up by being married to him. My husband ended up passing away from a drug overdose. Now I've just been working to fix everything that was wrong. He was a person who grew up with a lot of struggle and trauma and I did not, so in many ways we were not compatible. I legitimately felt sorry for him and tried to help but I wasn't able to. The people in my family care because now they have to try to help me because I made a bad decision. It's kind of unfair to them.

[@theagbaman]

This is EXACTLY what she needed to hear. She could decide to level up and increase her personal worth and improve her daughter’s prospects OR give up and continue on the downward path.

[@robinwelch2265]

🌺As a foster kid I always felt like a family girl with no family. Married young and had a baby. Then his mask came off. Violence. Very confusing. I left. Sometimes being a single mom is better. It's way better than being with a dangerous person. That's common for foster kids to want a family. I get her.

[@LordHollow]

They swear they're special. Nope.

[@ItsMarionotluigi]

Favorite question to ask a modern women, "what's preventing a man from making you his wife?" know what they all lead with?? " these men are etc"

[@LordHollow]

@@ItsMarionotluigi I asked a woman "What does the man you want, want? I swear I could see her brain lock up. She could not process the question, let alone come up with an answer.

[@sinnerforlife2827]

Why are they all like this ??!!!!!

[@meowmoew6147]

It's called ghetto mentality

[@adamschrader328]

LBJ

[@Carhaulerhustle]

@@adamschrader328Bingo

[@jasonjenkins8223]

Because it's easier

[@mscece1900]

All?? So is it safe to say all males are all the same too??

[@tracebracci6506]

My god the level of accountability women show are sooo ridiculous. It’s absolutely sad, then play victim after they made stupid choices.

[@ItsMarionotluigi]

Right! Your parents show you sympathy not the person you want to be with. You got to bring a fair deal

[@darealestwon]

Bingo!

[@ralphangel561]

Happens every time

[@cyrahomega]

KS really gave it a college try patching up the black community. We’re so broken. Trying to reason with a foster care baby mama is extremely difficult and he does it with the simplest of ease.

[@Oi....]

she's looking for a meal ticket, and a bill payer.

[@KhemistryIBMOR]

That's most broads these days...

[@ritasmith972]

She's crying because she realizes her predicament.

[@terryjames8724]

U are correct

[@tompain6498]

People need to understand that there is an order you're supposed to follow. Once you get out of order, you have to make the best out of what you have.

[@ItsMarionotluigi]

Just like his jail reference

[@fealee31]

I wish Kevin would talk about the single mothers who are married. It’s a real thing and marriage is not the ultimate prize.. successful loving supportive marriage is. Also, Kevin never tells these men or women about his divorced wife being remarried and still married to this day

[@josephjones-el1481]

I feel for her because she just learned how detrimental one's decisions are and no one coached her. There is no foster care for single parents. I hope she's okay, this was a hard one to watch.

[@ItsMarionotluigi]

Yeah this just goes to show how important it is to have your parents in your life

[@MichaelLamb-ik4xv]

She likes to argue. She doesn’t want to admit that she made a bad mistake. Marriage is probably not in her future.

[@nitaw.498]

How can you tell she likes to argue? He never let her get a word in edgewise. Every time she tried to answer his questions he would cut her off.

[@ItsMarionotluigi]

@@nitaw.498 probably due to her tone when she does respond.

[@CoreyT127]

@@nitaw.498He’s heard enough word salad from these broads!😂😂 He knows what they’re gonna say. Before they even do! As someone who has 5 sisters and all daughters. Women become super predictable! Especially when avoiding accountability!

[@chucksnightmare7674]

​@@CoreyT127AMEN too that brother.

[@audreanaburgess8371]

Are you a wife? ..wives wouldn't waste their time. Important info

[@southernbellefiguresTN]

I feel so badly for a lot of women because they will not get married because of their choices. We have to make decisions that are intentional and thoughtful for the best outcomes for our lives. Ladies don’t fall for it! When he wants to marry you HE WILL DO IT. Unless yal are under 24ish and went to college I understand not getting married in college but men don’t usually fumble women they want to marry. If he is not proposing there is something fundamental about you that he doesn’t want to commit to early. He doesn’t trust something about you. Also when you have kids - they a lot of times don’t want to marry a woman with kids because they have to commit to the child in a very serious way too. I hate it for these women but life is real. The choices we make today are the consequences we face tomorrow. Ladies - get off market early! Don’t let multiple men experience you! Get therapy! Pick best option for you!

[@Lemuel_Ben_Israel]

BUT WHILE HE WAS PIPING HER DOWN SHE NEVER SAW HIS MENTAL INSTABILITY

[@javionsadnerlin-cr1xq]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@deborahaldrich4128]

Even if you think he has mental instability.... He's still right.

[@Lemuel_Ben_Israel]

@@deborahaldrich4128 I NEVER SAID KEVIN WAS UNSTABLE-I SAID ALTHOUGH SHE SAID THE MAN IN HER LIFE WAS MENTAL -THAT MAN STILL KEPT PIPING HER DOWN UNTIL SHE GOT PREGNANT FOR HIM.

[@EboyPoker]

She’s taking raw loads while unmarried and young. That’s mental instability to me.

[@SkandalouzStyle]

19:03 let me tell you something! she doesn't give a shit who she marries she just wants to be married! HOW DO I GET MARRIED! WTF?

[@ItsMarionotluigi]

😂😂😂 they desperate af

[@Law14704]

Spreading your legs and pop-up kid before a marriage has consequences. If you weren't planning on marrying your baby daddy's, why have a kid for him? And come on these streets looking for another man to take care of a responsibility of another man's problem.

[@josuegallegos4152]

Accountability is like kryptonite to women

[@anava84]

She sounds like my mother, who took 40% of my father's business because she called herself the office manager, even though every decision she made had disastrous results. My father taught me a valuable lesson in marrying my mother.

[@KendrickJMack]

It’s sad. She wants a man to save her.

[@lloydlewis8184]

You can get married but maybe not to who you want.

[@Lovelivewell]

Right there are still good and Decent men out there but she has to be on her game plan

[@jinmori918]

@jahgirl8647 so basically the guy was a back up plan

[@oscarnalikka2369]

I saw a Nigerian dude that was playing step daddy with some American woman's kids, one of the 14 yr old step kids jammed him up with fake allegations that he had groped her in the night, this dude was put up on charges and went to jail, the young girl only admitted that she had made the whole thing up only when the dude had been already deported, the dude had been looking after the whole family and now they had lost their provider. The woman tried to have him returned so he could continue his provider role but he wasn't having any of that shit. The whole family only realized that the dude had been an asset to them when he was gone.Man, being stepdad is a bad deal.It's all risk and no reward. I wonder how women dont see that?

[@ItsMarionotluigi]

wow thats a crazy story but yeah being a step dad is a bad deal.

[@patescortez88]

This women are airheads. The disrespect must stop

[@somebody6907]

"This women" lmaooo . You're the airhead .

[@jasonaragon2766]

Modern women want independent choices without consequences.

[@BillyCollinsdatingchronicles]

Unless, of course, the consequences are in their favor.

[@ItsMarionotluigi]

the only way it make sense to them

[@Roxy_rich]

Kevin sounded actually really sincere with her and I could hear that he actually had some feelings in him when he was talking and almost slipped up being nice

[@rafeeqwarfield9690]

Kevin is truly a legend

[@Veeriche]

That convicted felon example was so on point 🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@starwoodanime1532]

Man.... That's pretty dark. is that why step kids tend to be abused and neglected from both sides? The stepdad sees the kid as a burden and responsibility and the mother could grow resentful of the baby because she'll feel like her child is holding her back from joy and happiness.. at this point the child could be abused

[@AkilAmmon-iw2vu]

It dreadful on the children.

[@macman9689]

that's why men should avoid this

[@Mijah1016]

This is why so many kids are messed up and turned into a fu^^ed up adults.

[@nena_gz]

The stepchild often gets abused, yes. Because that child was allowed to run amuck on the single-mom's watch. SNGL MOM: Little to no rules, 🤏🏾 no real discipline, and very little structured routines. ENTER STEPDAD: and now there's RULES & CONSEQUENCES, accountability, expectations, discipline-structure-routine. So that step-child rebels bc this new life is too foreign/unfair to them. Add in new/younger siblings and it's true chaos. Now the rebellious step-child is "the oldest" aka even MOOOORE responsibility. So resentment has entered the chat. Mom resents her oldest child, step-dad can't stand the kid bc it won't fall in line, and the step-kid haytes everyone. A hot freakin mess!

[@starwoodanime1532]

@@nena_gz do you even watch the freaking News? Kids are raped, killed, tortured, I'm not talking about bad misbehaved kids

[@Carhaulerhustle]

She’s looking for marriage as a bailout Hail Mary plan

[@patrickmiller4280]

This woman is looking for captain saver --

[@gg-yy5pm]

@patrickmiller4280 This woman is looking for Captain Save a Ho!😮😮😮😂😂😂

[@ItsMarionotluigi]

Save a 403

[@meerkkattstar7748]

Sadly this woman was failed by her parents due to a poor upbringing then ending up in children's services until her adulthood. No one taught her self respect and to make wise life choices. Why wasn't she on birth control when she was dating the first boyfriend who she learnt later was an unstable partner in life. This poor woman is craving what she did not receive during her own childhood (stability/love/support) and her poor life choices has has made her a baby momma fearing for her own and child's future.

[@ItsMarionotluigi]

Yeah its quite sad honestly. Hopefully she is doing well now since this was many years ago.

[@alieskandari633]

KS was a true pioneer in this field. He did a fantastic job to enlighten men and warning women about their bad choices. RIP

[@mustlovedogs8179]

They kill me slinging back that fake hair.

[@mitziphillips9889]

I just cannot 😂😂😂😂

[@patrickmiller4280]

This woman is just like Jada Pickett-Smith just like that movie Nate I’m i’m in a bind.

[@ConsciousRebel85]

😂

[@jasonjenkins8223]

Now give those guts up for this change!!

[@Lemuel_Ben_Israel]

IF THINGS DO NOT GO HER WAY -IT IS MELT DOWN TIME.

[@CS-mf9pp]

I can relate to Kevin's comments because my older sister and I was a stepchildren and my stepdad literally hated us. Period. My mom put us out as teens because of the three kids my mother had with my stepdad. Women.....men don't enjoy being step Dad's.

[@ItsMarionotluigi]

sorry you had to go thru that, and thank you for sharing this!

[@andreawilliams4411]

She is very respectful

[@brandonkassam7234]

We lost Patrice and Kevin way too soon. Kings of advice

[@iseehowitis9382]

I'm over here sipping on her tears like ☕️

[@ItsMarionotluigi]

😂😂

[@aniagut]

She was all right. One of not many who understood the situation she’s in. I wish her all the best!

[@GHO5tMod3]

To be honest I’ve witnessed a ton of people have one or two children and later got married and stayed together nobody is 100 percent perfect I do not have kids myself at 30 but I’ve learned to keep my mouth shut when it comes to people and dating. Joyce Meyer a famous televangelist literally had a child, was poor, and abandoned by her first husband then a few months later she met her current husband had children with him and been married to him for over 30 plus years. I know a lot of people would be in the same boat with kids if it weren’t for abortio***s, birth contraceptives, giving up for adoption, and miscarriages to cover up the truth to save face.

[@ItsMarionotluigi]

no one is saying tis impossible but the problem is most of these women want men who are in the top 15% and men in the top 15% typically dont want overweight women or baby mothers

[@YOUNGCEORELLY]

Look at the shirt she has on tells it all

[@ItsMarionotluigi]

😂😂

[@BestFriendNMe]

Being a "step father" requires a certain type of strength...not all men possess that quality! But for the step fathers out there who see the big picture and recognize there is a fatherless child at no fault to them who could definitely have a better chance at stability and decides to selflessly enter.. create.. build /destroy when necessary and help cement a foundation where there may not have been one.... I tip my hat to those men who have done it and im proud of each and everyone of you. #StepFathersAreTheShizznit!! ya dig

[@MILD-BILL]

F A I R : THIS IS YET ANOTHER WORD THAT MODERN WOMAN DOESNT KNOW THE DEFINITION TOO !

[@user-pu3cw8vm5v]

Eternal victims no accountability and combative!!! Stay strong Bonnet warrior's

[@rodneytimpson1608]

She still has the Animal Kingdom hair, but the Ghetto Street. ...language and attributes....and Attitude.

[@prettynatural1973]

The solution is keep your legs closed or use protection when having sec

[@Cutnup4life]

Godfather told nothing but FACTS

[@brethoffman3520]

Women have a GREAT power.....the power of abstinence. Never give a man your body unless he is your husband. You'll weed out many weak men and save yourself heartache. Also for any women that have been waiting for their man to propose...simply tell him that you've decided not to be physically intimate with anyone until marriage. Be careful following this advice, you may actually end up with a great marriage.

[@ItsMarionotluigi]

Great advice man! And like you said stop sleeping with any and everyone and you’ll see who’s really there for you!

[@jamesgarrett6848]

This has become almost the norm among these women.

[@domnelson637]

Broke down when confronted with facts

[@mustbeheard9834]

I see why God called Kevin home early!!! Sad to say but the nan had no degree or compassion, or training for that manner. She's young and she has plenty of time to find a man, or a man finds her! Plenty of single men out there with their own child it goes both ways. Especially when they hit 40 and they are now single and divorced and have their children every two weeks.

[@lorraine5741]

I kind of feel sorry for her, coming from foster care. I hope this experience with Mr. Samuels teach us something and she does not lose hope in herself or her future. Even if she doesn't stay with that guy, I hope she does not have any more children.. herself together... And stop looking for love and all the wrong places... I hope she can do better in the future.

[@shadow1sd]

When you hear what Kevin Samuels is saying, he's right. It's a screwed position for a man to date a woman with children for another man. And she would expect him to take care of children that aren't his. It's all screwed up. For any man to take care of kids that aren't his. And why would they if they aren't biologically his?

[@jeremyreule7320]

Sometimes I’m really happy that I was never desirable enough to marry. Crisis averted.

[@44altecz]

Most women want to be married, but they don’t want a husband. They don’t wanna be a wife they want a sponsor

[@leonardlanders2299]

She says she didn't make the decision to become a single mom but she did make that decision. When she allowed herself to become pregnant while being a single woman she became a single mom. She was a single mom Immediately because she wasn't a wife. She thinks she became a single mom after the relationship ended but she was a single mom as soon as she gave birth without being married

[@robertlunderwood]

What episode is this from? I've been looking for this for a couple of years.

[@theSword-]

EVERY TIME, 100% of the time, when the accountability swings over the woman's head, they ALL try to blame the men by accusing him of being mentally or emotionally unstable, or claim that he was abusive in any way they can think of at the moment, so they don't have to acknowledge they they themselves ARE the problem. EVERY TIME.

[@tac0049]

the fact that the last thing she said was "ive been marrige minded since i was 18" proves NOTHING Kevin told here stuck. Maam, you havent been marrige minded becasue you had a kid out of wedlock and thats NOT marrige minded.......

[@Nzingashabaka]

Young lady needs to break it off from her boyfriend. Get job and make a stable home for her daughter. Forget about marriage. Raise your child. Forget about anything else. You are too immature.

[@hell-iz-real_wakeup]

No one would believe me, but today's music influence FORNICATION!!!! Lust grows into the act of fornication. Then sin makes everyone regretful... Obviously!

[@jasonmeade4039]

The answer is you get on that mans program and stop thinking about wasting time.

[@mrmitchell4089]

thats it

[@th.burggraf7814]

It may sound harsh or rude to some women, but if only one young girl sees that and says, sheesh, that's not a situation I wanna be in, I'm doing it different, then Kevin's approach fulfilled it's purpose.

[@ItsMarionotluigi]

This is the main reason i post his content, bring awareness to the young women who can be saved