You know what you are talking about. I was homeless with kids in a car (several years ago) I used Hotel parking lots, Walmart, 24 hour grocery stores, and the mall. We always looked clean,my children were fed, and we had bed times, etc. Washed clothes in 24 hour laundromat. A very humbling experience. My children are now young productive adults with amazing jobs. I thank the Lord for having places for us to eat & sleep safely.
@selenepickins48742 жыл бұрын
You're a good mama! I'm 61, my parents were dirt poor. Growing up in difficult circumstances, in general, doesn't hurt kids. It makes them strong, tough & resilient. It teaches them about making good decisions, how to look at situations & get to the facts about that situation. While no parent would choose that experience for their kids, truth to tell, it's harder on the adults who are trying to negotiate things. Anyway, I wanted to tell you that you did real good. I hope your life is more comfortable now & that when you look at your kids you see how that experience shaped them into the fine grown ups they are today! Blessings
@ShellieSager2 жыл бұрын
I've seen kids living in home that came to school dirty/dirty clothes, etc. You made a tough situation safe and made sure your kids were good. Of course they are productive adults now - great mom!
@twohawk12032 жыл бұрын
Bless you for keeping your head, and managing the care of your children in the best way you could.
@SuperTruthful2 жыл бұрын
I'm pretty good financially now but one never knows. I'm watching all videos about sleepin in cars and rv's. It's something i will do if i start traveling around this country cuz i don't want to pay any hotel bills. lol
@nogenejackin86192 жыл бұрын
Amen. He's got us.
@JohnDoe-fu6zt Жыл бұрын
My brother was living in his van in Dallas back around 1975. He'd often have to move once or twice a night after getting rousted by the cops. One night he met a girl at a party and was talking to her about his problems finding a good place to park for the night. "You can park in front of my house!" she said. So that night, he he parked in front of her house. In the morning, she brought him coffee. The next night she invited him inside. The next year, they got married, and they're still married 47 years later.
@aleks1939 Жыл бұрын
Ah, the 70s. Good times. I was a kid then but remember all the hitch hikers too back then.
@ampnicole Жыл бұрын
This is so sweet 🥹
@cjasgill1 Жыл бұрын
That’s a fantastic story, even if made up lol😂
@JohnDoe-fu6zt Жыл бұрын
@@cjasgill1 True story. They have three kids, and a bunch of grandkids. I lived in that house for awhile after they moved out. A bungalow built in 1913 in the Swiss Avenue Historic District.
@JohnDoe-fu6zt Жыл бұрын
@@aleks1939 I did a lot of hitch hiking back then. It was the most natural thing to just stick out your thumb if you wanted to get somewhere. Mostly local, but also several trips back and forth between Dallas and Baltimore as well as between Dallas and Chattanooga.
@debbiedugay85742 жыл бұрын
I work graveyards in a 24 hour convenience store. I am 63 and have been robbed three times on the job. I began letting a couple of homeless in car guys use our parking lot because anyone scoping us out never know if I am alone in the store or not. After watching security video's we saw that prior to 2 of the robberies, the same vehicles drove by a few times before they did the deed. Now I have 2 new aquaintances, they have a safe place to stay with access to bathroom facilities etc. One of the original gentleman that I let stay is no longer homeless but he still stops on his way home from work.......it works out nicely.
@rhondaweber56382 жыл бұрын
Great idea!
@econgloberfan2 жыл бұрын
Brilliant idea. Be safe. So those people helped.you.stay safe
@71combined712 жыл бұрын
Brilliant,every convenience store ought do this
@ghostrider26642 жыл бұрын
Good hearted woman, you are ....
@cherylschumaker13662 жыл бұрын
Smart and a good deed win win
@Jtramos713 ай бұрын
I’m currently living in my car right now since March of this year. One parking spot where I currently stay at nightly is at Waffle House. The employees are very nice and helpful. I feel very very safe here and I’m comfortable in this area. For those who live in their cars, PLEASE be safe and be blessed. Be patient, god will help you get through your situation and things will get better for you.
@TimothyWard3 ай бұрын
I love your attitude! Glad to hear you found a safe place to park.
@tillitsdone27 күн бұрын
There are about half a million homeless people in the US, about 1K that freeze to death. Why doesn't god help them?
@RighteousnessWillPrevail27 күн бұрын
Yeah, just be blessed bro😅
@RighteousnessWillPrevail27 күн бұрын
@@tillitsdoneGod works in mysterious ways. Its probably their destiny.
@anneteller312822 күн бұрын
Makes you all the more disgusted they are given billions to unwinnable wars of choice and people who entered the country illegally get places to stay and money cards full of taxpayer's money. Americans should be taken care of first with their taxpayer money.
@sprtn7072 жыл бұрын
To all staying in their cars. Stay strong, keep going , don’t give up, don’t lose hope; things can get better.
@ruthmccurdy86232 жыл бұрын
Amen
@DarkLxzarus2 жыл бұрын
@@ruthmccurdy8623 Amen I hope you both have a good life
@heatherchiuffo53752 жыл бұрын
Amen
@joycemyrick70532 жыл бұрын
🙏🙏🙏
@joejordan12592 жыл бұрын
Only if you make it better.
@MrHitman9712 жыл бұрын
Great suggestion for police parking lot. While in Boston a few years ago, my family had a rental rv and was looking for a spot to park. If anyone knows about Boston, you know that parking is premium. As we settled at a location we thought was safe, a police officer pulled up around 2am and told us that things “happen” in the area. He told us to follow him to have a better parking spot. Low and behold he took us to the police station parking lot, told us we can stay until we are ready to leave, and wished us a good night. Hats off to Boston PD. By the way, we were a black family traveling through on our way to Nova Scotia. Thanks for your list.
@cesmith482 жыл бұрын
It is kind of like the "Green Pages" Black Families used them to identify where they could stay and travel safely by car.
@lovebrown85402 жыл бұрын
Nice!! I'm a Black Bostonian and my dad a Native is from Nova Scotia.
@cesmith482 жыл бұрын
@@lovebrown8540 Novia Scotia is a lovely place.
@CreativeOne-ll8et2 жыл бұрын
Did the officer ask you a bunch of questions before you went to the police department and yes I do agree he was very nice to allow you to go there
@Original-jews-2.02 жыл бұрын
In Boston lol wow what a surprise
@keving40812 жыл бұрын
An old geezer and his wife in an old camper stopped at my cottage and asked "is there a place around here to park for the night"? I said right over there my empty parking spot across the street with a view of the water. They never got out of the camper or made a sound. The next day he waved and drove off. It made me feel good helping a fellow geezer.I
@ignaci0musik Жыл бұрын
Ur good peoples man god bless
@glennso47 Жыл бұрын
Was his wife still in the car or did she have to take an unplanned swim.
@howardzeiger19869 ай бұрын
L@@glennso47
@forwarddrive40666 ай бұрын
You Geezers are awesome people! 👍
@bonniecreevy26425 ай бұрын
Bless you
@mattski19796 ай бұрын
Love how you wasted no time and just went into it. Thumbsed up and subscribed
@larapalma37446 ай бұрын
❤❤❤❤❤🎉
@Verowatches5 ай бұрын
Good ol' Gen X / Xennials got no time for nonsense.
@cassfonnesbeck80575 ай бұрын
Me too
@MeanJean443 ай бұрын
Those are the best kinds of videos
@ceciliacrocker3902 ай бұрын
@Verowatches 🫠🤭🫣😉
@tannhauser75842 жыл бұрын
For a few years, I had a dog that allowed me to park and sleep anywhere. She slept while we were driving, and stayed awake while I was parked and sleeping. If anyone approached our car, she would give a quiet "woof" in my ear to wake me. We went on a three week, 4000 mile road trip and I never felt unsafe.
@amyzieger51982 жыл бұрын
woof...woof!
@graceyjewels71482 жыл бұрын
Smart amazing Dog
@princegal2 жыл бұрын
Love this! 💕
@rhythmfield2 жыл бұрын
Sounds like a great dog
@peterweller85832 жыл бұрын
Yeah miss my Dog. He was my good buddy more than made up for the fact I couldn't get into some places. He would chew your nuts off if you touched my back pack that is where I kept our food. I was always afraid that a cop would shoot him. Because they do that you know. If they look like a pit bull.
@brandon18312043 жыл бұрын
This is why I always keep my planet fitness membership. I would sleep in the parking lot and wake up in the morning , workout and shower. I’ve done this in plenty of cities . So it’s definitely worth getting the membership that allows you to go to any location.
@chris_bcx2 жыл бұрын
U park there every night and nobody care?
@brandon18312042 жыл бұрын
@@chris_bcx I'm talking about when I was out of town I'm different cities and I didn't want to spend money on a hotel and of course it wasn't at the same location every night. And even if it was the same location I would always park away from everybody else. Remember it was at the locations to that were 24/7 so a car parked there doesn't draw any attention
@williambrucesanders68782 жыл бұрын
@@chris_bcx I do this
@lisawallace9212 жыл бұрын
Smart
@williambrucesanders68782 жыл бұрын
@@lisawallace921 are u a van dweller too?
@prepperjonpnw64822 жыл бұрын
I almost forgot to mention that some churches actually prepare for people who need a place to park overnight. My church has a huge parking lot with one end that butts up against a wooded area. So we pay for a porta potty that’s placed out there and we let the local police know that if they come across someone sleeping in their car in a place that they aren’t supposed to that they can send them to our parking lot so they don’t get in trouble. Plus in the winter months we operate several warming stations that are usually for the homeless that don’t have a vehicle but we don’t turn anyone away. We provide food and separate bathrooms and showers for men and women and have security people to help out in case there’s trouble.
@constant45342 жыл бұрын
Now...this truly a church of God!
@PCHGWHS2 жыл бұрын
I'd move there...wonder where it is.
@lmtrainshorses46502 жыл бұрын
Heartwarming 😊
@kingsoutdoors43792 жыл бұрын
I currently rent a room in a house owned by My Church. My wife died in January and I was told I have to leave by spring. Me and My Dog. Have a vehicle but will most likely lose all My belongings I can't haul. I can't describe what I'm feeling. Afraid I'll eventually end up in trouble for breaking a law just trying to live.... 51 and disabled trying to keep the Faith .... Not much Hope
@lmtrainshorses46502 жыл бұрын
@@kingsoutdoors4379 Best of luck 🤞
@bettinarossi79089 ай бұрын
Everyone helping each other."Vehicle dwellers".😊 So nice.🙏💖
@kmc1steelers9986 ай бұрын
💯 Agreed. Awesome 👍🏽 info
@wickedpanik83045 ай бұрын
Unfortunately, the list is a lot shorter with the move of fascism in this country cracking down on the homeless they've displaced.
@stephenriggs81772 жыл бұрын
I lived in my car for three months, and I spent every night at the same rest stop in Washington State. I moved the car each day, so I wasn't "camped" there, but I returned, every night, often parking in the same spot. No one ever questioned me about it. Fortunately, summers in western Washington or usually very mild, so sleeping in a car isn't uncomfortable. There were restrooms at the rest stop, and I could shower for 25 cents at a nearby truck stop. The local library kept me stocked with books, and I used computers there to look for work and check email. (After about 3 months, I landed a job in Seattle and moved in with a friend, until I could save enough to get my own apartment.)
@Melanatedminimalist2 жыл бұрын
That’s a beautiful story!!! So glad you used your resources and NOT just say “i can’t live in my car 🚘 “
@joannaazar73962 жыл бұрын
Nice story. Best of luck 😊
@jamaeldudley9869 Жыл бұрын
Truck yard parking...Swift...Werner..etc
@ericj810 Жыл бұрын
I bet that was rough. Id hate to sleep in my truck but i would if its all i had.
@Ashley-og9ti Жыл бұрын
How are you doing now? Living off the roads and working? Hope you're safe and well 🙏🏾💛
@BrandyTexas2142 жыл бұрын
I’ve worked in hotels most my life and I’m always amazed that people don’t think of hotels.. you can come in and use the lobby bathroom, drink coffee/tea and even grab the free breakfast if the hotel is busy enough. Remember, we don’t know who you’re staying with, we don’t know who checked you in or not before we arrived. Smaller hotels are more difficult cause we usually did know who we checked in and who they have staying with them but people check in alone, we don’t know whether or not they have a relative also.. bigger, busier hotels would be your best option. If anyone asks who you’re staying with just be vauge. Say my aunt is either staying here or on her way to check in, something like that.. nobody is gonna be rude about it cause we don’t want to get a bad review if we offend a guest or their relative.. lots of people walk around in pajamas in a hotel. Also, I’ve seen people respond that the hotels check license tags, not any hotel I’ve ever worked at. Sometimes we asked but it was only for instances like someone got blocked in and we need to know who to call to move their vehicle. Unless it’s a ritzy place nobody is gonna notice you. Also, come in through the lobby but exit through another door away from the lobby, that’ll make it look like you come in, then went to your room, plus we don’t get paid much, we prob don’t care even if we know you didn’t stay there as long as you’re respectful and not scary p
@williambrucesanders68782 жыл бұрын
Go on im listing . Any info on getting a room real cheap? I'm needing to do this
@BrandyTexas2142 жыл бұрын
@@williambrucesanders6878 yes, always ask if that’s the best you can do.. in regards to price, mention you’re an aarp member or get friendly with a hotel employee and use their discount
@williambrucesanders68782 жыл бұрын
@@BrandyTexas214 ty
@Hackshots682 жыл бұрын
I've unfortunately have had some security guards run me off of hotel lots before.
@BrandyTexas2142 жыл бұрын
@@Hackshots68 yeah if your hotel has security guards... that’s a diff story, none of mine have. A Marriott called the maintenance guy security but that was it.. dont try it somewhere that would have security guards.. after 12 pm there’s usually only one employee working.
@updem Жыл бұрын
As a truck driver I should also mention that most TA, Petro, and flying J stops have driver lounge areas that include a theatre area with comfy seats to watch TV or movies in, especially handy if it's really cold or really hot out.
@livefree316 Жыл бұрын
God bless you on the road in Jesus Christ name
@NicardoSchumacher Жыл бұрын
A what?
@happycook6737 Жыл бұрын
@@NicardoSchumacher At truck stops you will see an area with comfortable chairs, usually near the paid showers. It is called a "Driver's Lounge". It isn't a bar "lounge".
@johngaither9263 Жыл бұрын
Truck stops are a good choice. The drivers will not bother you and neither will the management unless you persist in parking your 16' long car in one of the 75' long tractor trailer spots. Truck parking at night is hard to come by and finding a car in a truck slot is sure to cause you trouble. Don't wander around the lot, especially women.
@diggerblair7460 Жыл бұрын
I love my local flying j always there I drive for a living but not trucks run my own transportation service but during down time or when waiting for calls I'm hanging there like my office almost
@joshmanwaring38487 ай бұрын
Randomly pops up in my feed again. I'm in a way better place now but when I was homeless living out of my car your video helped immensely. Thank you
@TimothyWard7 ай бұрын
Glad to hear you are doing better 👍🏾
@brentbaker23734 ай бұрын
Same! I was homeless living in my car earlier this year, but not the case anymore
@LDTJ73 ай бұрын
@@brentbaker2373I’m glad I came across this guy. Lost my job and about to lose everything I own. I’m about to be evicted and to make matters worse my car is broke down in front of my apartment. Ugh! 🙄 😣
@truenorth57872 жыл бұрын
Church, yes :). Years ago on a cold winter night I took a wrong exit, got lost and ended up in a church parking lot off Hwy 71 in Fouke, Arkansas. Though fearful but pulled in anyway because it was relatively lit. Half an hour/45 minutes later a man tapped on the window, asked if he could help. Invited me in, offered coffee, cake. For some reason there were a few people in there at that late hour. We got to talking and when they learnt where I was originally from, they, unusually elated, lead me to their book/literature section to show me they have material I could read in my language - yes, in Urdu :) I learnt I was the first Urdu speaking person that had come by in all the years they've had books on Christianity in Urdu. They send material to missionaries in many different countries in local languages. Amazing, unforgettable experience.
@marysmith8612 жыл бұрын
Loved your story. The Lord works in mysterious ways.
@KayRoseLiving2 жыл бұрын
@@marysmith861 amen indeed He does!!!
@KayRoseLiving2 жыл бұрын
That was the Lord!!!! Praise be to God!!! Jesus Saves!
@activewearetc.69642 жыл бұрын
Aap Arkansas may rahtay hain?
@tonystarks86322 жыл бұрын
Are you from Pakistan?
@limeykl2 жыл бұрын
I pray that everyone has a safe warm place to sleep
@TheRoom2Breathe2 жыл бұрын
Ditto
@goombabear2 жыл бұрын
Amen.
@Macnuggetz2 жыл бұрын
That's an unrealistic thing to ask
@RestingBeachFace7212 жыл бұрын
Keep praying. I think it’s working. 🙄 people need more than thoughts and prayers. What’s really going on?
@charlottewhisner95082 жыл бұрын
Don't give up, my prayers were answered, I am old and homeless but a miracle happened, I received a 2 bedroom 40 ft camper..I am so happy, finally a roof over my head and still have my dogs. I am thankful.
@teeks8951 Жыл бұрын
The most important part of any of these places is ... Do your pre bedtime routine before you get to where you're going. Meaning, stop some place before one of these places and do all the things you need to do to be ready for bed, brush your teeth, get your bed ready, whatever it is do it somewhere else, then leave there and go to one of these places. That way, when you arrive, you just get into your sleeping bag and that's it.
@kentuckylucky5762 Жыл бұрын
Best advice!!
@petahe01 Жыл бұрын
I did this. I brushed my teeth by a gym wasn’t a member of then off to sleep in my parking spot. It was a good spot. I would stay there all day.
@twistedtitan5485 Жыл бұрын
Big time faxx.... Movement sparks activity Activity sparks curiosity Curiosity sparks detection Detection sparks encounters
@StephenRich-t2t9 ай бұрын
I used to sleep on interstate ramps, the cops would check on me sometimes, but if you see a big truck parked there also you should be ok.
@rawpraisehorn8 ай бұрын
Yes , that makes it a lot less awkward, and a lot less noticeable.
@llianneolivoreyesmusic Жыл бұрын
I’ve been thinking about this so I can pay off debt, save money, and eat less, work out more, be outdoors.
@youwish3787 ай бұрын
I live in a bad area I need a car so bad but I'm worried about bringing it back to where I live for fear of someone doing something to it I'm so sick of where I live And the people here I'm considering getting my car and just packing my things up what I can in it and just leave.
@kathyharmon20937 ай бұрын
@@youwish378I live in a small university town in Indiana, very reasonably priced ($675 for a 2 bedroom duplex) water and trash removal included, very safe area, and yes there are jobs
@doommuffinz52767 ай бұрын
If you can do it safely, it actually seems like a good idea.
@LuckyLuciano-n3p7 ай бұрын
We can do it together I'll Make sure your safe ❤
@rallymurrah4 ай бұрын
You can do all that without being homeless lol
@katkohlerschwartz73862 жыл бұрын
One thing to remember is to leave the area as clean or cleaner than you left it. More of these areas will be willing to allow you to park there if we keep it clean.
@TimothyWard2 жыл бұрын
That's a great point Kat!
@Connie-v1rАй бұрын
Oh, so right! Go out of your way to pick up any litter someone threw. It's amazing to me that someone can just drop or throw there trash on the ground and think nothing of it.😢
@zahniehill330126 күн бұрын
Amen!!! I tell the homeless about this all the time. I say, the police wouldn't bother you if you kept your area clean! ,🙄
@icdumppl202415 күн бұрын
@@Connie-v1rI draw the line at pee bottles. These pigs that leave them ruin it for the rest of us.
@davidhunter28242 жыл бұрын
The 24 hour gym is definitely one of the best places to sleep in your car overnight for 2 reasons. One, like you said they'll be gym members going in and out of the parking lot all night and 2, if you're a member of the gym, you have free access to not only the lockers and restroom areas, but you can workout and keep fit as well. Also, most gym have wifi/internet access for members and guests so yeah, fantastic option👍
@tswagg5042 жыл бұрын
I did this with Planet Fitness when I was homeless….$10 a month to have a place to shower and shave, even ironed my clothes there as well.
@johnalarcon50062 жыл бұрын
A homeless friend of mine did exactly that ! Always clean and fit!!!!!
@sandasturner95292 жыл бұрын
Planet fitness
@nelsonamoreno68412 жыл бұрын
Some people talking to me going to subscribe in the gym you can used the badroom shower and do some exercise that's great place to live in the car 🚗
@strikingmachine2975 Жыл бұрын
I tried this in Sacramento, CA as a gym member. the fcking police ran my plates around 930pm for no reason. For Sale Houses, neighborhoods under construction are also good. and many have port o potties. Stay strong and safe and get through your tough times..
@jessiemorningrise3243 жыл бұрын
1. hotel parking lots 2. emergency room parking lot 3. campgrounds 4. rest stops 5. walmart 6. cracker barrel 7. industrial & business parks 8. welcome center 9. auto repair/mechanic shops 10. car dealerships 11. parking garages 12. casinos 13. BLM land 14. grocery stores & mall lots 15. police stations 16. churches 17. city street parking 18. residential street parking 19. rent a driveway 20. apartment complexes 21. truck stops 22. employee parking area 23. safe parking lot programs 24. 24 hour gyms 25. driveway of friends/family
@cherylT3213 жыл бұрын
Thanks!
@pinoysoverseas50843 жыл бұрын
Does BLM have land? Or it is another acronym ?
@henryrowan37593 жыл бұрын
@@pinoysoverseas5084 Bureau of Land Management. Really only in the western parts of the US, but it’s basically just land you can camp in for free.
@imee88432 жыл бұрын
Rent a driveway is my favorite
@lesliecook29222 жыл бұрын
@@pinoysoverseas5084 BLM Bureau of Land Management
@KSimmonsKenny Жыл бұрын
My son went to Texas to work for 4 days. to save the hotel money he sleep in Planet Fitness parking lot. He has a membership with them here in Mississippi so he could go into the bathroom, shower could even work out if he wanted. Planet Fitness is open 24 hours in most cities.
@wowso4 Жыл бұрын
I pray that anyone in this situations finds a good and safe home. God bless ❤️
@dionst.michael1482 Жыл бұрын
Amen. Everybody deserves a warm, dry, safe place to lay their heads ❤
@linebrunelle1004 Жыл бұрын
been a vehicle dweller 35 years out of 61 years... never wished for a "house". I've worked my whole life, raised a wonderful person and am very happy. You have hang ups
@BookMama7211 ай бұрын
We’re good, thanks! No rent, no mortgage and freedom to travel at will!
@mickharrison900410 ай бұрын
Very well said your a care bear 😂
@mickharrison900410 ай бұрын
Can I tell you a nice story from 80 in England ,I was itch hiking the 120 milles from blackpool to market Drayton ,sisters army base I got a nice lift from blackpool ,but set off bit late got most of the way ,but dropped at this junction a53 towards Shrewsbury sisters on way ,so I wandered into a truck garage asked them for a lift ,they said we can get you back to blackpool were you come from 😂, said no anyway went back into garage and it was empty ,so I jumped in a truck with a bunk went to sleep ,this is 30 yrs ago I. Morning they woke me around 8 am ,with breakfast with tea toust no problems at all ,they let me have breakfast and the go on my way thanks 😂
@livingsurvival3 жыл бұрын
Airport parking garages. Long or short term and not very expensive. People coming and going all hours. Gated and safe with access to bathrooms/food.
@abrahanrodriguez90033 жыл бұрын
Wow
@marthahackett89673 жыл бұрын
Good advice Timothy I used a hospital parking lot for a month several times I watched where most employees parked it wasn't designated employee parking It was very safe. I parked 30min before a shift started once in a while I stayed through 2 shifts especially in bad weather. When a shift ended i left. My stay was always safe I never got out of my car. Before I arrived I always ate and used the bathroom. After that I used the toilet in my minivan and ate if I was hungry. Once a snowstorm came overnight. Security cleaned the snow off cars mine included never knew someone was inside
@lifetravel20243 жыл бұрын
Miami super expensive the airport parking.
@deadlypendroppingby3 жыл бұрын
What about air quality?
@hendersonhenderson68482 жыл бұрын
only thing is the ground shakes with the cars coming and going and it’s very loud, i tried this and couldn’t sleep
@jmurry66952 жыл бұрын
This man is professional and personable, easy to listen to, follow and understand. I like him. He has great ideas 💡
@naomistar872 жыл бұрын
First time seeing him. Subscribed so fast lol.
@MsDebdardx42 жыл бұрын
His voice sounds like President Obama's voice.
@shanelewis6172 жыл бұрын
@@MsDebdardx4 let's go Brandon!
@cesmith482 жыл бұрын
@@MsDebdardx4 No, but he does have a Radio Personality Voice. Mr. Obama's voice is much deeper.
@BennieTarrMusic2 жыл бұрын
If he lived in a better country he wouldn't be homeless.
@bktaino2017 ай бұрын
Thank you brother for giving nomadic people survival skills.
@paulinlasvegas2 жыл бұрын
I knew a guy who lived out of his car in Vegas and worked out regularly at the gym in where he'd use the showers and bathroom for $10 a month. This 24 hr gym had no security so he slept like a baby. You would never know he was homeless because he was muscular, healthy had good hygiene and drove a fairly decent car.
@wildestcowboy26682 жыл бұрын
Did u guys get caught in the backseat?
@theopholistpunuval3594 Жыл бұрын
@@wildestcowboy2668 Rim shot
@randyg.7940 Жыл бұрын
Lol..was it me.....
@arieladelinechoo9845 Жыл бұрын
Perhaps this is one of the way to live ...no high cost and a lot more bills to pay. Hope you do well and be happy.
@randyg.7940 Жыл бұрын
@@arieladelinechoo9845 I did it for a min in Las Vegas . And I told myself I would never ever ever let this happen to me again.
@desiraehopson18202 жыл бұрын
SHOWER TIP: Truckers nearly always get free showers for filling up a certain #/$ amount of fuel. Lots of times they accrue them faster than they use them. I worked for a truck stop and saw them donate showers to people who wanted/needed them all the time. Which is great b/c showers are like $12-15 each now.
@TimothyWard2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for that great tip Desirae!
@kencleg7721 Жыл бұрын
Showers and coffee free w a fill up 200$ Those days are done no free coffee no free showers
@MySonsMother8 ай бұрын
I use those spare shower tickets! For the last 15 months the only time I’ve paid for a shower was because in the desert where I was there were no truck stops and only one place for showers at a gas station, which was $2. In blessed. That is $17 saved each time.
@MySonsMother8 ай бұрын
Funny thing: once a guy said he didn’t have one and insisted on buying me one because, he said, everyone deserves to be clean!
@bigron26048 Жыл бұрын
Times have really gotten bad, you would be surprised how many people are sleeping in their cars!
@dead28022 ай бұрын
No. We wouldnt! This is intentional. Im waiting until so expensive and fewer jobs when millions r having no choice. And not to be pessimistic, but betting on this regime? BAMM! They will pass overnight legislation making no place or only a car or tent to live a Felony! Not a please move on. But a Cold A.s Felony! Make it impossible to afford housing, then make millions criminals for them Making it impossible! 😫 😠
@dead2802Ай бұрын
I was working a job apx 100 miles frm home. Decided to see what homeless folks went thru so got my cooler/ice clothes, hygiene, etc, went to sm truck stop. About 5-8 vehicles. a couple very disabled, rest like me had full or more time jobs. Considerate, no drugs, drinking, but most had gradually been pushed out by xtreme housing, etc costs, and even splitting 4 rent in a 1 much less 2 bdrm apmt was impossible. Stayed 5 nights. Did ok. Went back 8 mo's later. Bad. real bad! gangs frm south of border harassing people. Housing up to unbelievable rates. People traveling couldnt afford motels. Alot of same people but scared, depressed, many giving up. Jobs laying off. truckers scared of being robbed. All prices unreal. Dealers, illegals pushing sex trade. I knew some law enf. people and just shook their heads saying the crime/cartels flowing thru was a flood. Nothing they could do really. Folks, please be careful out there. Try to meet other good folks and stay close to each other and only use facilities in groups. Set up a warning/watch so u can see each others vehicles. Keep protection near/with at All times. Chk under tires b4 rolling out, and Never roll down for anyone you dont know! Good luck. God bless! And know it Will get better! love you all! ❤
@mikeh841614 күн бұрын
I did for about 6 months after losing my job (and apartment) because of coof.
@drewschumann18 күн бұрын
I'm a millionaire and I sleep in my car on trips because it's fun. My two dogs like it better than hotels, as we get to sleep together
@Bibzydabear5 күн бұрын
May I have some money, drew? 10 thousand will do. Serioisly! 😑😑
@Kim-anions10 ай бұрын
The first night is WEIRD. Agreed.
@SnakePepper2 жыл бұрын
A lot of laundry mats are open 24 hours so that’s a great option. I used to take my electronics in there to charge them and use my coffee pot. When you’re living in your car, take advantage of free electricity. Parks also sometimes have outlets.
@mrg4081 Жыл бұрын
7th⁶
@intergalacticbasketballdro7186 Жыл бұрын
If you just want to sleep then you can park at any Auto Parts Store. If the Cops say anything to you, then just tell them that you need a quart of oil, and that your waiting for the place to open.
@JMH702 Жыл бұрын
Hate to be that guy but it’s laundromats
@angelatbluehairedsudios81069 ай бұрын
Yes!!!
@suzannepharr78692 жыл бұрын
I drove for Uber a couple of years ago. I met several drivers who “lived” at the airport Uber lot. No one ever checked to see if you were actually a driver. Anyone could park there. Downside was there were no facilities but there were porta-potties if you had to use the bathroom. The drivers I knew slept on the lot overnight and had gym memberships for taking showers. There were always people there, so very secure.
@marilynnarnold8112 жыл бұрын
Not sure where the uber lot is, but I was recently sitting in the free lot where you wait for someone's plane to land (since you can no longer wait out front for a pick up) and security rolled by quite often.
@suzannepharr78692 жыл бұрын
@@marilynnarnold811 If you’re in Atlanta, the Uber lot is not on airport property. It’s on Sullivan Rd just outside the airport, and I’ve never seen Security there. The “cell phone lot” as they call the waiting lot is actually at the airport near the terminals, so I would expect to see Security there.
@leecowell81652 жыл бұрын
@@marilynnarnold811 Yeah Tim forgot to mention that! Those parking lots whereby they call you when your flight has landed. Well you could sit there all night no one ever checks.
@quickgirl802 жыл бұрын
I was just thinking about the Uber airport lot. The one at PDX has bathrooms.
@gradualclearing612 жыл бұрын
I’m sitting at CVG Uber lot right now working. . I have slept here getting some rest for a few hours. Two cameras and airport police close by. The porta John’s are trashed by the drivers and I wouldn’t recommend parking near them.
@richardgamache12 жыл бұрын
As an ex tow truck driver one thing you didn't mention that can apply to many of these places is posted signs for towing .. if your sleeping and especially stealth and hard to see now days with most automated tow trucks they can hook you up without leaving the cab in a minute or two before you are fully awake and understand what is happening though they cannot tow you if your in the car they can charge you half the tow fee to release the vehicle and police will back them up on that as it is usually in the tow laws .. so always look for tow signs and allowed parking times ... I dont know about all cities but it is a common rule there must be signs visible before you can be towed.
@gtw45462 жыл бұрын
GTOger channel's "drumbeats" started playing through my mind the moment I began to read your comment. Who would have thought a channel dedicated to towing away cars could be so interesting?!
@FrankieJames72 жыл бұрын
I would wait till I'm in the tow lot and drive out the fence, literally say escaping a kid knapping when the cops ask
@giggiachihuahua32612 жыл бұрын
@@FrankieJames7 😂 😂 😂 so smart
@nogooglenwww.o82382 жыл бұрын
@@FrankieJames7 🤣😂🤣😂
@nogooglenwww.o82382 жыл бұрын
Tow truck drivers are just a bunch of scurvy pirates. Smh
@albertafarmer863810 ай бұрын
Thank you so much! We traveled across the country twice with up to 3 cats and a little dog and had to sleep in the truck many times to save money, our favorite overnight parking spots were Walmart parking lots, and truck stops along the Trans Canada Highway. We also stayed at a campground for a month. We had a small tent but usually slept in the truck for safety reasons. GOD bless you all.
@dacrookedi Жыл бұрын
GENIUS with the emergency room!!! I slept in my vehicle for a month or two. I was very fortunate that it was Infront of my sister's house 😂. Just like you said I WAS CHILLING, infact I kinda liked it. I guess only because I was in a Conversion Van with a bed in the back and wi-fi. I still got that van to this day, upgraded with solar panels and TV. So if that Shit-uation ever happens again I'M READY. I Hope. I don't care how smart or clever you think you are, stuff happens in life that you just can't control. We are ALL just one paycheck away from being homeless. Trust in GOD AND STAY SAFE. Keep your heads up Brothah's and Sistah's.
@melissadavis277010 ай бұрын
Amen!
@kathyreardon42222 жыл бұрын
I was homeless for a few yrs. I lived under a casino parking garage.. this saved my life. I got plenty of exercise walking inside, free buffet (after spending money I shouldn’t have) I could use the bathrooms, pool and showers.. the free drinks and bells and whistles were also helpful to keep my mind off the current situation also made some friends. The laundry mat also saved me from freezing. I’d do laundry overnight then sleep in my van early morning once the sun was coming out. I’ve parked in hotel lots and near stores and restaurants. I was woke up by police a couple times. My van was full of stuff without tinted windows so it was hard to park and not be noticed in my small town. It was tough sometimes finding a safe place where I wouldn’t be bothered. You’ve shared some good ideas. I pray that I’m never homeless again. Ohh one more crazy idea.. I rented a storage unit that allowed access 24/7. I’d pull in late at night. Sleep in the van or inside the storage unit which I had a bed. This was ok for spring time. No one ever questioned or bothered me. Some Uhaul storage units have electricity. It was me and the loud seagulls 😢 Sad times though I survived.
@vhviki Жыл бұрын
Man, that’s a good idea 😮 why didn’t I think of that?! Just set up a single bed in a storage unit
@Nigriff Жыл бұрын
@@vhviki they usually don't allow you to sleep in the storage unit
@JOHNDANIEL1 Жыл бұрын
Best place nationwide is a ACE Hardware parking lot. They have a policy of no offense, and if any deputy dog ask you what your there for, just tell them your traveling and need some items from the store when it opens. Over 10,000 locations. Always in small towns, and normally near things you may need.
@pilarq788610 ай бұрын
What is policy of No Offense? please share
@JOHNDANIEL110 ай бұрын
@@pilarq7886 If even used, they will post the signs of NO TRASSPASSING inside the window glass, not outside which defines the public space outward ( parking lots) as no offense areas. ACE Hardware uses common parking rules in almost every free standing store in the USA, most all adjoined stores that are not in but next to another store, and they will not support a customer being ticketed for staying on the parking lots with "intention" to buy items upon store hours. SO, you have committed NO OFFENSE to be removed or ticketed while waiting on the store to open. And since most close at 7 pm, open at 8 am, this is premium space to temp in while traveling.
@YaHe-vp3ld4 ай бұрын
A less expensive way to get indoors sooner: rent an office in a busy office complex. Make sure it's busy enough that nobody complains when you go in and out at all hours. If u look around, you'll find office space with free heat, a/c, electric, bathroom, etc. Get a mini fridge, hotplate, microwave, and toaster. You might need to certify your business name with your county first, which typically cost a one time administrative fee of $25 to $40. Good luck!
@TimothyWard4 ай бұрын
That’s a really great tip!
@beatcat12653 ай бұрын
Aren't offices pretty expensive for rent?
@GoldenOldies-0073 ай бұрын
hi.. I'm actually doing what is stated is above. I pay $500 a month. Big room! free internet, electric, shared bathroom &, kitchen. I've put in a futon, a mini fridge, a microwave and a TV. I bought a $35 Roku , a one time only purchase, no monthly fee, so i can use the internet to watch the TV. they provided a couple of desks, I use one for the TV, the other one's got my microwave on top even put some plastic "dresser" type of thing under the desks for clothes. I shower at the gym, visit the laundry mat .. Not ideal but safe... I'm trying to save money for a house, and this feels safer to me than trying van life.
@agold21252 жыл бұрын
I lived in Delaware, and used to go to Baltimore and DC every weekend. I stopped at the toll plaza at the Bay Bridge so often for the bathroom and a quick nap in the car, that the guy that worked there set up a sleeping pad and a pillow and blanket for me to nap inside. He was worried that it was too cold. What a sweetie.
@swampholler Жыл бұрын
That's so sweet!
@deedeelife10322 жыл бұрын
I know a guy who lived in his car for three years, took a shower at a public gym every day lived off their free bottles of complementary water, panhandled to buy a meal every day and today he is healthy, living in a nice home with a wife and three kids!
@juliefall28923 ай бұрын
What is panhandled please ? My sister lives next to a grave yard and there's often people sleeping in cars there.
@Lizzy000882 ай бұрын
@@juliefall2892 Google it. 😊
@FrancoPАй бұрын
@@juliefall2892 Panhandler is someone asking for money/resources in public, usually at street intersections. Doesn't really imply homelessness in my opinion, though a lot of them are.
@juliefall2892Ай бұрын
@@FrancoP oh Thank you . I see this old lady who sits on a bench out the front of ALDI and she pretends to cry hunched over shaking and asks people for money. Then when people give her money or buy her groceries she gets up as quick as a flash with a huge grin. I sat in My car watching her , she waits until she sees people coming then she goes into performance., crying my daughter my daughter. She tricked me the first time and I gave her cash.
@FrancoPАй бұрын
@@juliefall2892 we might be thinking of the same lady!
@carterrealty56192 жыл бұрын
I did this also at a very hard point in my life. I worked constantly but still couldn't afford a place to live. Taxes and child support took pretty much everything. I didn't drink smoke or do any drugs but I did pay for a powerhouse gym membership where I could shower and brush my teeth etc while I was there. I didn't pay much for the membership either like 200 a year paid in full. I slept in neighborhoods between my shift in my toyota pickup truck but I didn't have tinted windows so this limited me to where I could sleep without drawing suspicion of people in neighborhoods etc. Best advice I can give to someone in that situation is swallow your pride and ask for help from friends and family that cares about you and don't bite the hands that feed. Be humble, grateful and focused and eventually things will work out for the better. Remember our struggles are what make us stronger, better and more disciplined in the long run. Stay strong and pray. Life does get better.
@Joce1238 ай бұрын
Tint your windows!
@Stephenwc26 күн бұрын
Warm support to you for your humility and energy to work through that period.
@dustinmiller2775 Жыл бұрын
Great video. I would add that keeping your ID current will be a HUGE help. If you frequent casinos I'd get their players card, emails, etc. Could be useful if you're ever approached. If you're at a casino and security officer asks you anything, if you open your wallet and they see a players card and a valid ID you are golden.
@kens.4198 Жыл бұрын
I lived out of my Grand Caravan for 2 months after getting kicked out of my fiance's house (she had behavioral issues at the time and I was not abusive). I kept my job and most nights i slept in their parking lot but occasionally used the Wal-Mart lot across the road to keep from being pegged as an over-night camper. Also, the Wal-Mart was convenient for buying ready-to-eat food out of cans and the local Planet Fitness had shower access for $10/month. Pro-tip: if you're sleeping in a vehicle always find a way to elevate your feet. For the first few weeks I slept in the drivers seat and the swelling got bad enough that I could not wear shoes any more.
@Mrmajellan1238 ай бұрын
Kicked out of a woman's house? Why didn't you have your own place
@youwish3787 ай бұрын
@@Mrmajellan123 Because sometimes it just don't work out like that
@ExaltedWarrior6 ай бұрын
@@Mrmajellan123why does it matter to you?
@neilstern71086 ай бұрын
I too had a job where I could park at night. Then one day an owner of a dark parking lot said I could be there just keep it clean .
@archangelliii25366 ай бұрын
100% on the spot! I recently lived in my car for about a week and slept on the back seat. The first two days were hell precisely because I couldn't find enough room to stretch my legs. In fact, I didn't sleep at all the first night! But then I figured what the heck, I will raise my legs all the way to the front passenger seat and...what a releif! After that I slept well and even overslept one night!
@grantcollord7671 Жыл бұрын
Funny you said about auto repair shops. I used to work at an auto dealership for over 20 years in the service department, so we had many people dropping their cars off at night and using the 'early bird' envelopes to drop their keys in, lock their cars and go home. I've use Auto Dealership Service Department parking many times. If anyone asks what I'm doing, I tell them I'm a traveler, and I'm waiting for the dealership to open because my vehicle needs some work. Works every time. Never had a problem.
@chp19711971 Жыл бұрын
The best place to sleep over night is a Truckstop. Believe it or not in a car or van its worth it :) Most of the bigger truckstops are like shopping malls with showers and movie rooms plus a resturant and many many things! Most of the bigger ones has securty to keep you safe and its great. Oh yea and washing machines for the dirty cloths to.
@MasterBlaster369144 ай бұрын
If you use flying j or pilot you can get a half of a shower credit for every 16 gallons of gas that you buy if you have the rewards card. Been mostly in my extended cab pick up truck since 2019.
@dead28022 ай бұрын
@@MasterBlaster36914The best choice right now as homes all over sitting empty and apartments unaffordable. Three just last month by us and getting worse. Big cities getting dangerous and even to go to buy food, one of us always stays to watch house! Take care. Hope u r as happy and secure as possible!
@werenotfree64129 ай бұрын
I'm lucky. I work at an airport as a security guard. They're used to seeing my rig all over the airport.
@carlwilliams697725 күн бұрын
The downside is it if it's an international airport, it's a bit on the loud side!😅
@katherineirving71892 жыл бұрын
I once, parked in an auto dealer parking lot. I backed into a space between 2 vehicles. It was brightly lit, with security cameras, and had surrounding traffic most of the night. I slept great in my mini-van. Next morning, as I left, a couple of employees waved to me as I was leaving, with smiles on their faces.
@ultramiddle49912 жыл бұрын
Your story triggered an ET scene where ET is hiding in the closet amongst the other stuffed animals 😅
@ppumpkin32822 жыл бұрын
Auto dealers where I live have very active security and they are concerned about vehicle theft. They do not like anyone on there lot at night.
@PHBRNTGGR22 ай бұрын
@@ppumpkin3282yup and they block the entrances and exits when they close for the night.
@prepperjonpnw64822 жыл бұрын
A tip for parking at Walmart overnight. Don’t park way out at the end of the parking lot with the other overnighters. Park a bit closer to the store and cover your windows so people can’t look in and see you. You won’t stick out so much
@abemartinez9623 Жыл бұрын
You will stick out with windows covered lol
@smartysmarty1714 Жыл бұрын
@@abemartinez9623 -- You have to use a cover across the windshield that says "I'm not sleeping in here". Then everything will be just fine...
@eddietaurren3 жыл бұрын
I appreciate the recommendations, I rather sleep in my car than paying 160 for ONE NIGHT!
@frequentlycynical6422 жыл бұрын
And with dynamic pricing now, you can't just get a rate that is firm. Depends on time of day, vacancy rate, etc.
@edwardmacnab3542 жыл бұрын
hotel or motel always feels kind of creepy to me and I much prefer sleeping in my own familiar place , my vehicle , if need be .
@billolsen43602 жыл бұрын
At $160/night you still have the old hotel disappointments the same hotel had 10 years ago.
@frogsforsusan2 жыл бұрын
Covid and bedbugs are the reasons I'll never sleep in another motel. I haven't had either, but why risk it when I have a minivan?
@beautifulfretboard22994 ай бұрын
@@billolsen4360with cockroaches
@ga1actic_muffin3 ай бұрын
You know something is wrong with society when these kinds of videos are on top recommendations
@susanfudge1737Ай бұрын
Our politicians are what's wrong.
@ga1actic_muffinАй бұрын
@@susanfudge1737 you are almost there. you are so close to realizing the true evil of our world and the reason for all the suffering in our country. you arent wrong, the politicians are corrupt but they arent the big baddies who are responsible for it all.. first you must ask yourself, who do the politicians serve?
@fft57d2 жыл бұрын
Don't forget you can stay all day in a public library. Anyone can walk in to use the bathrooms without asking. Don't worry about nodding off in a chair or at the study carrels...just so long as you aren't laying down on their couch passed out. Do look like you have a purpose for being there. Have papers, books, magazines etc. near you. If you sit there looking at your phone all day they don't care either.
@maxwellspeedwell2585 Жыл бұрын
At a table in the library. I was on my laptop, and just so tired that I fell asleep. While I was sleeping a small crowd had gathered around. They thought I was dead!
@haroldcampbell3337 Жыл бұрын
Not all libraries allow that, though. I lived in a city where librarians would call the police on people sleeping or "loitering" in the library.
@goofyboa239811 ай бұрын
@@haroldcampbell3337it’s a public space we pay taxes for it we can stay in there as long as it’s open to the public
@martina219535 ай бұрын
Wear dark sunglasses and ask the librarian for books in Braille. Just don't snore.
@fft57dАй бұрын
I want to let you all know that you can get filtered water at libraries.
@abrahambollinger42362 жыл бұрын
Buy something from Walmart at night to avoid an issue if a manager happens to say anything. Thanks for the intel on Cracker Barrel. Didn't know that. Blend in with other cars by being stealthy re: covering your windows. In over 4 years, I've never been busted by anyone in my Element by simply covering my windows and being quiet. Using your car to sleep in is such a HUGE asset for traveling and seeing America. Love it.
@nebulouskatbanter90552 жыл бұрын
Another thing to consider, depending on your circumstances and environment, is becoming nocturnal. I don't drive, but I have been stuck sleeping outside before. One trick that's worked for me during the day in nice weather was to lay in the grass next to a library or college, with my face on an open book, and pretend to have fallen asleep while reading. As long as you're reasonably clean, having a backpack with you doesn't look out of place either, and I felt much safer sleeping in the broad daylight.
@maximwilson14822 жыл бұрын
Absolutely!! I lived in my car for three months and did Uber eats at night and slept during the day. Was way easier then a traditional sleep schedule
@frogsforsusan2 жыл бұрын
My people!
@AlyciaJane2 жыл бұрын
@sweetbeep2 жыл бұрын
@@maximwilson1482 ..but what restaurants are open during the night?
@legendarybreton4602 жыл бұрын
@@sweetbeep maybe he means dinner time.
@Heartwing37 Жыл бұрын
Hospital parking lots are good too. Been there, done that.
@donnatornay25372 жыл бұрын
This was what I did off and on through my journey of being homeless because my healthcare took every dime I had. Thanks for some I never thought of. Being a woman, your top ten were my life savers.
@Original-jews-2.02 жыл бұрын
This nation is insane.Every 1 is living in captivity.Modern day slavery.U punch in a clock can't leave till they say,while u work 2 make CEO's rich.Be ur own boss as soon as possible gorgeous
@ursulasmith64022 жыл бұрын
So wrong what happened. We need universal health care!
@donnatornay25372 жыл бұрын
@Giant that's why I'm developing many multi streams of projects. I just got denied my most important medication. Then they priced it 4 times my rent.
@donnatornay25372 жыл бұрын
@Ursula when the time comes I'll be right back on Capital Hill advocating about health care and the folks who care for their loved ones.
@kitsiewr2 жыл бұрын
We're so proud of being the best in everything - yet our Medical INDUSTRY bankrupts so many of us. Why do we put up with this???
@jerecito6892 Жыл бұрын
Another good one is Amazon warehouses, they are open 24h and there’s always people coming in and leaving since lots of workers have overnight shifts and parking lots tend to be rather large and you can find your little spot in a corner.
@petahe01 Жыл бұрын
It might work for a day but best to park near other cars. Go in when employees go in if it’s gated or else guards might ask to show your badge. Employees have about an hour or so to leave once shift is over.
@Matrix333-o5e8 ай бұрын
I work at amazon warehouse
@jm3166 Жыл бұрын
Storage unit facilities work great too. Years back I rented an outside parking spot for boats, rv, trailers etc at a storage unit facility. It cost me $60 a month. I had privacy and felt safe cause it was all fenced in with a gate at the entrance.
@chriscarroll277 Жыл бұрын
This should be his #26, My husband and I asked to use an RV one on a country road when travelling and had a good night’s sleep there before moving on again…and talked to someone at a truck stop once who had arranged with a similar place to do it for a reasonable price for a month.
@deaddocreallydeaddoc5244 Жыл бұрын
In 2020, I was renting a storage space in Northern California. I became aware that a few people were living out of a unit.
@abemartinez9623 Жыл бұрын
As a former property manager. I kicked out many people living in units or parked vehicles on my property. They usually were unsavory
@mjohnson1741 Жыл бұрын
@@abemartinez9623 That's pretty cruel sir 😢
@abemartinez9623 Жыл бұрын
@@mjohnson1741 nope . Go to a homeless shelter. My other paying customers deserve a safe clean property
@wildernesshermit Жыл бұрын
Excellent and well presented without the usual KZbin click bait and long winded BS. Many thanks.
@mehameha44532 жыл бұрын
8 years living in a vehicle for me. If you ever get a repair done. Save the mirror tag with the number on it. Park at an auto repair place, like Goodyear or Firestone, put the repair number tag on your mirror. To deter theft of your vehicle, write, “Failed starter - on backorder” in a black sharpie on the tag. Big enough so thieves will think it is pointless to try and steal it. Always leave at least an hour before they open. But it also keeps the cops from even thinking you are sleeping inside.
@jocelynems5 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this awesome tip...
@striderm8389Ай бұрын
Brilliant!
@ltvanburen8555 Жыл бұрын
Great suggestions -Several of which I had not heard or thought of before! It’s time for a mind shift, America. Living “house less” does not necessarily mean homeless encampments and needles on the street. It can mean clean, industrious people who choose to live in a vehicle for a myriad of reasons. Saving a ton of money in a short period of time is just one of them…
@0906blue11 ай бұрын
Where do you get your mail. I know you can rent a post office box but many places require a physical address. Jobs, food stamps.....
@goyam298110 ай бұрын
There should be capsule hotels or hostels with bunk beds in the US I think.
@alexandergadomski1088 Жыл бұрын
As a single dad that raised three daughters, I used to park overnight in police station parking lot. That works excellent for me and we were never bothered by anyone.
@carolv8450 Жыл бұрын
Did they know?
@a.konadu4010 Жыл бұрын
Likely asked and was granted permission especially having three young children with him. Very smart decision for safety!
@kswag5759 Жыл бұрын
U must be white...no offense..they would lock a black person up call it neglect an call cps
@angelaschaefer58838 ай бұрын
You are very good Dad.
@Rosemary468407 ай бұрын
Yt privilege. They aren't gonna allow that for most people.
@virginiashoemaker40458 ай бұрын
Nuring homes and Assisted living homes is a great place too
@czarwill2 жыл бұрын
26. Airport parking. 27. Cemeteries. 28. Forest Service land if you move every 16 days more than five miles from where you were. Never sleep in seats, sleep flat in cold weather especially subzero. Avoid the cold sink of floor boards. Straw is the old human insulator from before there were homes. You don't need heat, but you do need fat, carbs, and calories since you are the fuel. Mittens and not gloves. Screw top pee bottles. Screw top plastic coffee buckets like Maxwell House for the ladies. Crack your window to avoid foggy windows. Take clothes off once warm inside sleeping cell, but keep clothes in that cell. Place coat over head. Wear a warm lose hat too. Shame is for homeowners who don't get out.
@onemoreday1550 Жыл бұрын
Graveyards lock their gates. Some states will arrest you for trespassing quick.
@mikuspalmis Жыл бұрын
Move more than 5 miles from where you were... 😄 That's called bein in the next town over. Good list of advice though.
@mikuspalmis Жыл бұрын
The last one is the truth.
@dougwilson4537 Жыл бұрын
Excellent advice for cold weather. I'm not homeless, but I camp in my car. If you have 60/40 split seats, you can keep a couple of lounge cushions behind the seat, then pull down the 60% wide side, and extend the cushions into a bed. This keeps you off the floor, warm, and a couple of blankets over top, and you should be comfortable through the night. Wearing a touque (knit hat), or a bush hat, keeps your forehead covered and keeps most of your heat, in you. I've slept in -10°/-15°C (15°/5°F) and been OK. (ps. make sure one of the few blankets is WOOL)🙂
@LiseWrigley Жыл бұрын
@@onemoreday1550Our grave yard has no gates, has two huge parking lots, and dead peaceful. And beautiful. And it is quiet. No bathrooms though.
@cfonde2 жыл бұрын
ALWAYS, always, keep your doors locked when sleeping in your car! -- One time in Cherry Hill, NJ, I was sleeping in a motel parking lot, in the back, and about 5am, someone was knocking on my window, and trying to open my car door. Didn't wait around to find out who it was and I ASSUME it was security, but I started my car and drove off.
@joyceobeys68182 жыл бұрын
And put the safety belt through anything on the door and safety belt it so that no one could break in n open the door while your sleeping.
@TravisAndRuby3 жыл бұрын
I live in Arizona and rest areas are really the safest and most legal way to sleep in your car. You can buy magnetic blinds that go over Windows because one of the things people don't think about before they go and do something like this is how to keep the light out of your car so you can actually sleep. Go ahead and skip that back seat mattress that inflates because it's useless in the long run. You're better off grabbing a bunch of blankets and going old school like you're making a bed up on the couch. Definitely invest in a windshield reflector to keep the sun (and prying eyes) out. For $20 a month I have a membership to all of the planet fitness memberships in the valley (more or less) but it's an easy and convenient place to use the restroom and not feel like you're in a hurry or going to get mugged, and you can take a shower and take your time and not feel like you're about to get F'd with by the next weirdo that walks in. I always keep a couple of big styrofoam cups around and you need to protect them so they don't break because when you're out of money you can at least find ice and water somewhere so you don't dehydrate. You're going to get used to living off the dollar menu but every once in awhile go by ampm or somewhere similar and get yourself a banana and a apple so you have some type of nutrition as well as empty calories to survive off of- this is not an easy Life to live. For $50 a month I have access to KZbin through my phone so I really don't have to pay for entertainment other than that, and believe me you too has a ton of entertainment to keep you occupied and keep your mind off of the fact that life sort of sucks right now.
@priestesslucy2 жыл бұрын
I have a 100$ twin mattress from Amazon I've been sleeping on for a year and it works great just laid on the floor of my minivan
@senatorjosephmccarthy27202 жыл бұрын
Fast food is 50% white, worthless bread, and the price is Over $12 a pound !! Besides the water, drinks are diabetes and cavity - making sugar water poison. The selection in the grocery store is a thousand times bigger, plenty nutritious and around $3 or $4 a pound.
@eleanoraquitaine29662 жыл бұрын
@@senatorjosephmccarthy2720 Good point. If people realized the utter waste, physical damage that fast food causes to the body, AND the high cost; if they really faced the reality of that, they'd quit eating it forever, imo. To me, it's another greed factory that produces harmful products and misleading advertising simply to make $$$$$$$$$$$.
@B.H.562 жыл бұрын
back east a lot of rest areas are used for cruising by people who want to have a good time with strangers.
@barbarabrooks72192 жыл бұрын
This makes me sad..because it's not going to get any better..we all are a paycheck away from being houseless..our beautiful souls always have a home..I am manifesting a hundred acres for good people that are houseless..as the messenger of my GOD and the book of Revelation..this is the Endgame..this is my GOD'S PLAN a time of separating the good from the bad..some of you perhaps all of you are the CHOSEN ONES..of my GOD..we are the black sheep in the biological family..misfits..we are. I'm working on a solution..I am going to checkout BML..I would love to have land were you can at least park and have peace. My oldest son passed from this place that I call Hell..a place of pain suffering and sorrow..he was homeless..schizophrenia etc..he passed January 11,2022. My heart goes out to the homeless. I love you. I am the Ambassador of Love.Hope.Faith.
@paulnewland4409 Жыл бұрын
I didn’t realize how many people actually are sleeping in their cars. How many people are homeless? I didn’t realize times are so bad out there. I’ve been truly blessed to be able to have what I have. I think you just have to keep moving forward strive. I hope everybody gets blessings in their future, stay well
@jayc3420094 ай бұрын
It's going to get more common as houses become even more insanely expensive. In the uk where I live houses are extortionate, more young adults are living with their parents compared to 50+ years ago.
@beautifulfretboard22994 ай бұрын
@@jayc342009alot of us are. Young and Old with their dog
@debbronner35133 ай бұрын
A study was done last April in the US on the current cost of rental housing. Based on data from Zillow. Families need to make an annual income of $79, 000 to afford rent, food, and all other costs of living. The federal min wage is $7.25/hr, totaling $15,080/yr. Agriculture jobs can pay even less. While most states raised min wage, there are a handful that haven't.
@setfree14142 жыл бұрын
Thank you. Good information and I appreciate the encouragement. I am a single, 65 year old woman. I have by necessity lived/slept in my vehicle for many years, off and on. The last time was for nearly a year when I worked more than 2 hours away from where I lived. I determined it would be a waste of all the money (not much) I made at my job if I drove back and forth from home to work. There was a Pilot/Flying J truck stop near my job, and I had to go there to refuel my trucks everyday before I got off. I am a friendly sort and eventually made friends with the management team and security at the station. What a blessing! After work I would go to the station and park in my usual place, one that the management and security knew I used, and enjoyed my night, safe and sound. At the truck stop I would be able to enjoy the tv/movies, free (I earned a daily shower for tanking up my diesel trucks), clean showers and bathrooms, do laundry and eat at Denny's, or other tasty foods. It was a huge savings for me, and I made some good friends. Thanks to Pilot/Flying J!
@TimothyWard2 жыл бұрын
That's n awesome story. Glad to hear it worked out so well for you!
@disiluzhund2 жыл бұрын
I lived out of my van for two years voluntarily and working full time. I still miss the freedom and minimalism. Great video with very real and relevant info.
@mikuspalmis Жыл бұрын
What's your situation now?
@Ashley-og9ti Жыл бұрын
I wonder if it sucks and a sense of 😒 paying more bills again after living rent free for so long..
@raushaunrigsby1181 Жыл бұрын
@@Ashley-og9ti It's actually more expensive in many places to "live" out of your car, many people don't know this, but if you're voluntarily living out of your car and traveling anywhere you wish, the gas will be brutal and even more than what is spent on rent, I know it has been for me. But I travel all across the country, hence the term voluntarily.
@zanegrattan6637 Жыл бұрын
@raushaunrigsby1181 that sound like the living in your car isn't the expensive part, its the travel.
@raushaunrigsby1181 Жыл бұрын
@@zanegrattan6637 if you truly want to enjoy the car or van life in my opinion, you must be able to instaneously drive from Los Angeles to Miami just because you want to and any other place in the country, which is one of the largest land masses on earth. And yes, that type of travel is very expensive but it's what separates Homeless people who live out of their car for necessity from Houseless people who choose to live out of their car for pleasure, travel, adventure, autonomy etc.
@littlewarrior623 жыл бұрын
Good list with a few exceptions. City and neighborhood PARKS are one of the BEST places to stay overnight. Usually there is parking available on the street or lot of a park. Those are fifty percent of my overnight stays. And remember, take No-thing for granted, stay as legal as possible, clean up your crap, and help pick up a bit around your immediate stay area as a small gratitude for being allowed to sleep safely in your vehicle in that spot. The carelessness in leaving garbage behind is one main reason why businesses don't allow overnighting. Thanks again and stay well.
@teridoster58403 жыл бұрын
That's a huge no-no in western WA (at least in King and Snohomish counties), as are most of his suggestions
@nicholasscott10003 жыл бұрын
Police clear out the playgrounds at 10pm.
@Benita3993 жыл бұрын
Most parks out where I live have no parking after a certain time, so that’s not always a good option.
@jessitabonita3 жыл бұрын
@@teridoster5840 Thank you for sharing as I'm considering this lifestyle when my lease is up soon here in Seattle.
@priestesslucy2 жыл бұрын
@@jessitabonita hope it goes well for you ❤️
@andrewwilson2301 Жыл бұрын
I have a few for rural locations. Trailhead parking. Some trails are where people leave their cars while hiking. Important to remember that not all allow overnight camping! Another is National Forests. It is legal to camp in a National Forest if you are not breaking any posted parking/camping rules. Your car MUST have all wheels off the traveled portion of the road. You can never block any gate no matter how seldom it looks like it's used! The same rules apply for National Grasslands, which are great places to stop on a cross country road trip.
@forall1791 Жыл бұрын
I was homeless for more than a year. Found out its best to have several spots to change it up. Minivans are the most stealthy. Keeping clean and well groomed and not indulgeing in acol or dgs is a must for stealth in case cops do come by and ask you to leave. You must not be impaired. Stay safe.
@TheVixen8806 Жыл бұрын
When I lived in my car, I usually stayed at 24 hr gyms & truck stops. I will say that no matter where I was at. I always carried. 😅
@750count2 жыл бұрын
As someone who has stayed in my vehicles many many times over the years, this is a very practical guide Happy to see this kind of content
@robynzelickson61642 жыл бұрын
Bank parking lot. Light, security. Just leave before staff arrives. Outside the fence at dog pound. Anyone comes too close, you got an early warning system.
@bridgetomotosho75218 ай бұрын
Gas Stations too! It’s well lit, lots of people, coming and going, plus cameras. Quik Trips
@patriciachamberlain11352 жыл бұрын
You're providing a service NEEDED by more than you'll ever know. I thank you.
@rstash12 жыл бұрын
I was homeless for almost a year after the military. One important place for me was the YMCA. I usually washed using a big pan I cooked in, but for job interviews I went to the YMCA, rented a towell for 25¢, and cleaned up. I used a lot of the places he mentioned. Also apartments of girls I met around. I wasn't too particular, just needed a warm place to crash, then back on the street. Terrible, terrible time, but I survived and did well.
@LilyGazou2 жыл бұрын
I’m glad you got through it. I think there should be better options for veterans.
@ezerlenewatkins96442 жыл бұрын
There should never be a homeless veteran. That is a shame that you had to go through that after serving this country. I'm glad God brought you through it.
@swedeheart2142 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your service! Much respect! ♥️ 🇺🇸
@JohnDoe-zz7on2 жыл бұрын
I thought VA had programs and assistance for homeless veterans. Did you try reaching out to VA?
@XeonGamingTools2 жыл бұрын
@@JohnDoe-zz7on they do.
@popcorn51302 жыл бұрын
Good suggestions. I spent 9 years sleeping in my truck (& later van). I would be discreet and unassuming and would block the windows with sunshades and/or a discreet black semi-truck window curtain system that made the windows look extra tinted dark from outside. My experiences: Hotel parking lots: no problem at some hotels, got noticed and booted by security at some. Hospital parking structure: was good for a while until a sharp security officer noticed my windows seemed too dark to be tint and booted me out. Wal-mart lots: went really well, except when I butt-dialed 911 in my sleep and Police showed up, but I slipped away before they pinpointed the origin; spent 3 years in one Wal-mart lot (the Police once parked on one side of my van, then walked right past my van to kick out the only other person parked in that area in another van who had only been there a couple of nights - apparently, he was known to be a bit of trouble; that's why you need to be discreet and unassuming). Grocery store lots: spent some time in some 24-hour lots, Police did eventually notice me and politely shooed me out (like when it was closed for a holiday & I had no Plan B). Truckstop: was OK, but some truckers left their 4-wheel vehicles there when taking over semis, and they would look at my van suspiciously when they dropped off their cars to sit for days next to it; it was nice to go inside around 1am when the shared bathrooms were closed for cleaning, then a couple of the individual bathrooms were opened up temporarily, which made it less conspicuous & uncomfortable to wash up & brush teeth (they had showers in the individual bathrooms, but I was never bold enough to shower not having paid for the service, and I didn't want to tie up the bathroom for other customers). Employee parking: I often parked in a store's employee parking area... until one employee got suspicious as he got out of his car and peeked into my van (I have no idea how he didn't see me lying down inside) - he mentioned to another employee with him that he was going to check which employee the van belonged to. Friend's driveway: I spent a few months parked in a friend's driveway (I wasn't comfortable staying inside and imposing on him and his wife); it was awkward when he had family over and they noticed the van with the windows ajar and asked questions of him. Once, after the Police stopped by while I was in a store parking lot (they were understanding and let me stay), they mentioned it to their Sergeant who happened to be an acquaintance of mine. He caught up with me on another night sleeping in a nearby lot (I moved around a bit so as not to draw too much attention in one spot) and said that a nice, quiet place would be a nearby county bus Park & Ride lot. Turns out a lot of cars are left there overnight. Ironically enough, the Police approached me the first night there (they didn't know the Sgt suggested parking there, but they, too, were understanding and let me stay). It's nice to see the Police patrolling and being observant, but they're not always as accommodating as that.
@skooliecarol85422 жыл бұрын
Great info...thnx
@broadcasttttable2 жыл бұрын
Wow. I'd say you've experienced it all.
@LilyGazou2 жыл бұрын
I’ve had no trouble overnighting at the Park n Ride lot near where I’m working. It’s brightly lit. I don’t hide in a corner, I park right in the center near where the bus stop is.
@madamebutterfly8512 жыл бұрын
You didnt impose on him and his wife at all by living in their driveway, creeping out their friends and neighbors...
@alipainting2 жыл бұрын
I got a knock one night, it was a policeman who told me my headlights were on 😆😅
@QuestionAuthority24601Ай бұрын
Good ideas. Trucker's Path is a great app for finding Walmarts that allow overnight parking, truck stops and rest areas.
@brianfitch90302 жыл бұрын
Thank you Tim for the list. To all of you sleeping in your car, I am sorry our country has failed to help you. Be safe.
@davidschrock5512 жыл бұрын
It's not our country that failed to help us!!!! it's our own Fucking family
@angelaschaefer58838 ай бұрын
Amen 🙏
@max-fj7np Жыл бұрын
I’ve been sleeping at Walmart the last 4 nights. There’s a section at the end of the parking lot where a lot of rvs park. There’s quite a lot of other people sleeping in their cars near me. Security patrols intermittently throughout the night and I haven’t seen them bother anybody yet
@thecarpenters9571 Жыл бұрын
I have found that with hotels, if you happen to have a rewards level and go in and ask to use the bathroom (even when driving through an area), they are often very kind and allow it so that you don’t have to pretend to be a current guest. Thanks for the list.
@4n0n87 Жыл бұрын
I have one to add, car rental places, most people leave their vehicle at that facility while renting a car.
@Maisygirl19742 жыл бұрын
When I was homeless several years ago, I was sleeping in my car. Many times I’d be in the Walmart parking lot way in the back of the lot. There were always several people there in their cars with me so as long as they weren’t shady, it was more comfortable for me knowing I was around others. Great advice for people in this situation. Thank you for the info!!!!
@robertmitchell86302 жыл бұрын
Glad you got out of it ! Were you filled with anxiety stress etc ? Bring in that situation Many people say looking back it was actually a spiritual uplifting event made them appreciate life a lot better
@Lwc201943 жыл бұрын
Hospital/ emergency room parking lots are the best. Also if there are any 24 hr urgent care places . You are the only person I’ve heard mention hospitals . They are the best in my opinion .
@lisabritt42843 жыл бұрын
It has not been my experience that hospitals are good places to sleep. They’re called security guards. If you’re not visiting someone, or a patient yourself, then no, you cannot sleep in hospital parking lots.
@sexygeek89962 жыл бұрын
I would worry about them giving me a bill for several thousand dollars.
@designhub360customapparel2 жыл бұрын
@@sexygeek8996 😂😂😂
@mrequi12 жыл бұрын
@@lisabritt4284 The streets around ERs are public and I've never been hassled there.
@loisaustin62008 ай бұрын
As a female, I think the police station parking lot sounds the safest as long as they allow it. I am not in the situation where I need to sleep in my car yet, but the way apartments are being bought up by developers, huge unaffordable rents going up and up, people being given 30 days to move out, I live in anxious fear that it could happen to me at any time. It's good to read all the good advice in this video and know what to expect if and when the horror happens.
@bijoujewel89793 жыл бұрын
I have a Ford Fiesta, so i parked one night at a dealership, I parked ($) at a Mall , ate dinner, saw the latest movie possible after shops closed, brushed my teeth in ladies room so I would not be late for an interview in DC when I lived in NorthVA, next day used ladies room freshen up for my interview then drove home afterwards...why pay for a DC hotel and I didn’t get the job...Timothy these are great ideas and I even parked in the lot near the convent of a private Catholic School! Sovereign God of protection.
@dannythompson1948Ай бұрын
I work at a hospital, and you're absolutely right. We actually let people sleep in cars on site, as long as they move once the hospital starts waking up in the morning. The same guy been sleeping in a maroon suburban for 3+ yrs
@dianabalto Жыл бұрын
Truck stops have dumps & some has laundry machines. Hey thank you for taking the time to do this video. We appreciate very much !
@paintedpony29352 жыл бұрын
Great info. Thanks!! As a van dweller, the only 2 places I've been asked to leave are 1) church parking lot and 2) office complex. I have slept in police station parling lots and once, the officer I spoke with to ask permission brought me a cup of coffee in the morning and suggested I use their bathroom.
@richardkimpel61424 жыл бұрын
I've never seen this on these lists but Park & Rides. That's what we call them in Wisconsin and they're parking places for ride shares, particularly areas 20-40 miles from major US cities.
@mGsr-pr6hh2 жыл бұрын
We call them park and rides in Seattle too
@B.H.562 жыл бұрын
he covered it under COmmuter parking.
@TJF88 күн бұрын
If you are near a large airport they have what is called a "Cell Phone Lot". This is where you can go and wait for your loved one who's plane is delayed and you have to wait for the plane to land. In San Francisco the parking lot is huge and they have chemical toilets.
@updatedjustnow2712 жыл бұрын
Here’s a new one for you. If you are in an area that has boating, look for the marina parking lot. Many people go out on their boats for several days, so it’s worth a shop. Also try a library parking lot.
@alipainting2 жыл бұрын
Got kicked out of a library parking lot. I stayed at a marina after working on a boat. It was delightful, there was a pool 😄
@tammylewis85562 жыл бұрын
I met a girl who was using a library parking lot to sleep during the day. Good idea
@cfonde2 жыл бұрын
The Mall parking lot idea works GREAT, if you are sleeping in the daytime. I did that for years when I was in the Coast Guard. There were many days when I was allowed "liberty" and I could leave the ship during a regular workday (I was a cook, and when it was NOT my duty day, I was allowed to leave). Drove to the mall early in the morning, and slept in my car many times.
@frozen2golden Жыл бұрын
As I biker that crosses statelines and timezones, I usually sleep on my bike when I dont take my lady on road trips with me. My top choice is the Loves truck stop or T&A truck stops. They are well lit enough for safety, dark enough to sleep, dont mind you sleeping there and have showers and washer and dryers.
@mkpshay Жыл бұрын
I found truck stops to be welcoming. Just find a spot away from the noise. Good to have a bathroom available at night. Large rest areas have worked. There is one on I-40 about 40 miles east of Memphis that has people sleeping overnight but is large enough to not be overcrowded.
@frozen2golden Жыл бұрын
@@mkpshay Definitely don't wanna actually sleep in Memphis. My club brothers said when we visit from out of town we're advised to not get gas after 9pm
@jwmeister9 ай бұрын
If you have a white Transit, Promaster, or Sprinter, most Best Buy locations will have Geek Squad vans parked overnight. Just park next to them and blend in.
@ernestdesimone22342 жыл бұрын
A lot of airports have what they call "cell phone lots" for people waiting for friends to arrive so they can just drive up to the curb to pick them up. These are usually free and no one cares how long you wait because flights get delayed all the time. Another thing is, if you can make it work with your schedule, drive at night and park for some sleep during the daytime. In daylight you can pretty much park anywhere and no one cares. People, communities, and law enforcement only freak out about "overnight parking".
@neverfallnewsmedia Жыл бұрын
The beach is a great option too. Park your car and rock a beach bonfire, with a pallet. Just another way to stretch out, after sleeping in a car for a few weeks. They also have showers.
@kew3922 Жыл бұрын
Camp grounds are free if you go in the camp ground after they close. Then you can pick a site and use their facilities. Just vacate the site about 7:00 am. It worked great for me.
@Lazydaisy646 Жыл бұрын
Most camp grounds where i live you have to punch in a pin to get the barriers open for this very reason
@oneperson57604 ай бұрын
Thats wrong. Its stealing.
@leemeyer74816 күн бұрын
My girlfriend and I slept in my van for 2 months during our trip from Minnesota to Texas and Florida; staying at hotels at these locations. It was lots of fun and enjoyable!